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0:00 Entitled Ex-Wife tries to lie to the police and ruin her husband’s life after he caught her red handed in an affair, leading to them getting a divorce, her losing custody of her kids, and not getting a single penny in settlement from the divorce. (u/Bnnuy-Dad44)
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[@jessicajackson251]

Eldest is definitely hero for the story the dad didnt even know till the eldest told him, so eldest was 100% the start to this chain reaction.

[@Leosloth2011]

Eldest started this suffering for his dad which makes him a anti-hero

[@tuyetnguyenthi3842]

If he don't tell this will not happen

[@jessicajackson251]

@@Leosloth2011 so you would rather not know you have been cheated on and go on through your life till they break of the relationship and they take nearly everything?

[@ANamelessCat]

@@Leosloth2011 bro what are you saying 🤦

[@azurlake]

The start of the chain reaction was the fact that she cheated, and she was stupid enough to bring the man while the kids were at home. Not the poor boy telling dad about it.

[@orelliaorellia142]

The fact the husband recognized the symptoms of her pregnancy whithout being factually aware of it shows how much attentive he was toward her during both of the occasions. She had such a good husband and was unable to see it

[@QuickManEXE]

I'm sure she saw it and just didnt care.

[@mayankgoyal4595]

She saw it well and used that kindness.

[@willambonney]

Had it all. A loyal devoted husband, a home with beautiful children....and threw it away like it was nothing. Just baffling....

[@seansweeney3533]

Not to mention the op is a dude and so doesn't know what being preggo is like. (Cause he is a dude)

[@AStoryteller-for-fun]

I don't think so. She saw it and used it. To give the idea, this is the same woman who literally let a bunny be in the middle of the yard (even though warned that predators roam the place) Then when inevitably an hawk snatched it in front of her kids, she still thought herself to be right. She is just plain evil

[@CountLurchalot]

My favourite part about this is the Lawyer smiling about the job

[@yourregulartexan1113]

All Divorce Lawyers smile when a case like this shows up

[@CountLurchalot]

@@yourregulartexan1113 especially when they have so much evidence

[@Skotadios]

@@yourregulartexan1113they smile when they got all that evidence and completely own the other end so it’s really something to be happy about

[@Giulio988]

Me too! I even pictured the scene in my head with the lawyer eyes turning red and even adding some "sinister violin" tune in the background. Something like Kira writing on the death note

[@_akua_5395]

OP sounds like a great man, he handled this situation very gracefully. I am so sad for the kids, they did not deserve to be treated like that and i hope they'll be ok. It sounds like OP has a great support system, i'm very glad for that.

[@KaityKat117]

I'm sure he did, but I really hope OP had a serious talk with his kids that their mother not loving them is not a reflection on them and that they didn't do anything wrong. Especially the eldest who told their dad about the affair. That everything that happened was all on their mother and they hold absolutely no blame. It seems obvious to us adults, but it would be very easy for the children to start blaming themselves and feeling guilty and having self esteem issues from it. Especially when they find out that their mother doesn't want anything to do with them. That is bound to hurt them so much. and I just don't want those poor children to start thinking they deserved any of it.

[@Saberto225k.]

agreed

[@ravenralph123]

Still Baffled how the US handles like these cases the OP only won because of the ton of evidence he had, the law is always caters to the wife and that's so lapsided even the wife is clearly cheating. As in my country, whomever cheated and was proven guilty by the court needs to pay up almost everything they had and loses custody if there are children involved or If a settlement will occur for both sides, the one who cheated will have no say or a little bit of opinion in the settlement process, mostly these settlement agreements are so against the cheater.

[@SenseiRaisen]

My mother has to take the L mutlple times because she try to cite cause of divorce for the petiest things and my sister literally (who is a lawyer) told her to "for once to STFU and listen". In my country if you don't had HARD proof of cheating you will end up no where. My dad was suppose to do it multiple times (according to her) ... but my dad was just dumb naive from his work since he come from a place where everyone are buddy buddy and can't process people has ulterior motives. He learn it the hard way.

[@frozezone2947]

You think this only happen to the US? it's around the god damn world

[@marktwain2053]

That's how it should be, but those who scream about the "Patriarchy" are the very same ones who will use the Gynocentric Court System to take nearly everything a guy has worked his whole life for.

[@Saberto225k.]

the us law is ruined

[@theseus1021]

In some countries laws are mostly biased towards girls and cheating wives

[@SeaFireK]

I hope someone keeps an eyeball on the affair baby, because no child should need to grow up with a parent like that

[@Very-Much-Human]

Hopefully the affair partner's a good person who'll keep the baby safe. I hope they grow up the be nothing like their mom

[@Frightmarelordofthenightmares]

It's pathetic how not only did she kill the Bunny but she also cowardly lied just to save herself

[@viviennemorgan7217]

oh poor bunny

[@DreamDemonGacha]

I'm trying to find the video of the bunny, but i can't find it. Can someone help me?

[@Leosloth2011]

@@DreamDemonGacha its not a video

[@DreamDemonGacha]

@@Leosloth2011 oh, i thought it was

[@smcvanic340]

@John Attaway the baby aint even done nothing bro😢

[@jordyndeloume5635]

Alfred: Batman there’s a villain robbing the bank Batman: who? Alfred: the bunny destroyer

[@zoltantakacs8401]

😂😂😂

[@Redhood-yo7wc]

I honestly feel deeply sorry to everyone in these stories that had to deal with their jerks, but I am glad they post these stories so we can see how bad people are out in this world. These people are true everyday heroes.

[@user-ci8gg9bq2l]

This, by far, was probably the most satisfying ending I have ever seen on Am I The Jerk stories! I can't believe on how long the husband stalled all of it, as I would probably be livid at the first sight of the other man. Seriously, stories like this really give me the satisfaction I need everyday. Bravo!

[@smarkxyz122]

Without those videos this guy would be toast. Remember men, you are guilty until proven Innocent.

[@QuickManEXE]

Which is total BS.

[@harinchetan4701]

@Manchester not man vs women… women are innocent while men are guilty.

[@Invisible_Man00]

​@Manchester If a woman go to court against a man she is innocent until she is proven guilty And the man is guilty until he is proven innocent

[@Trapluhhoe]

@Manchester the “believe all women” movement made it to where men are automatically assumed guilty when accused by women until proven innocent even when proven innocent the public will still see yu as guilty

[@Faralexander]

@Manchester it’s the truth, people will rather believe in a woman blindly without evidence

[@sarahpyro]

Proud of the oldest for getting the courage to tell dad. My only worry for them is they later on think it's their fault mom and dad got a divorce. Hopefully that doesn't happen but if it does, I'm sure OP will cheer them up

[@AJTD69]

Bro fought the final boss "THE BUNNY DESTROYER" and won

[@MrPablojack]

Oh yeah! The Bunny Destroyer lady, remember her

[@codyblack7496]

Do you remember what video it was by any chance? I unfortunately don't remember?

[@FI5T.__.]

I dont remember

[@SyloJarVIII]

The security cameras are one of the heroes in this story

[@chronobretz9511]

You know with people like this woman out there I'll stay happily single

[@AttackOnTitanlover1999]

Luckily, not all men or women whatever you’re into or like that and hopefully you’ll find someone

[@elijahhayter3026]

Andre? Is that you?

[@annemariebell6970]

Here's a couple of thoughts: 1. Marriage doesn't HIDE your singleness. It EXPOSES it. All those little things you do when single, usually ANNOYS the SO. 2. Marriage is a PREREQUISITE for divorce. If you never marry, you'll never divorce.

[@UltraPython]

The bunny destroyer got me laughing so much

[@Justatexantumbleweed836]

Fr

[@melodybelle]

I'm so glad he stock up on ammunition before confronting her. Many guys just go straight in and end up having to pay child support and alamony. This guy prepared well and win the war.

[@loganthomas3575]

That’s why a lot of men don’t want to get married.

[@ladyweasellou3367]

My Dad's ex (his first wife) had another man living with her and their son while he was on his 4th tour on the front in Vietnam. When he got back he went to a lawyer and showed her the proof and she grinned at him "What do you want from the b***h?" LoL

[@Mimi_ownsyouall]

Story 1) NTA.. how would you be the jerk here?! Cheating is horrible, she is definitely TA

[@hunterantill5442]

officers- "are you sure you want her arrested shes pregnant" OP- "shit it aint mine so i dont care"

[@Ram-ve6gt]

I would hav edone the same

[@TitanTVMan23256]

I can confirm as one of these people, that if you are a calm and collected person, you can have unbelievably terrifying anger issues, and because of it I have done things I am not proud of.

[@Azraelgaming745]

Don't leave it in the air. Could you tell a bit, if it isn't an annoyance?

[@bensoncheung2801]

@@Azraelgaming745 no

[@keypiece9764]

@@Azraelgaming745It’s hard to explain but essentially, if you’re calm and collected, you’ll have a bottle of feelings in containment. And when, not if, when, you topple it, those feelings will flash flood everything people know about you as you Hulk Smash 💥 everything.

[@gavinrayne7812]

Dang hell of a story respect to the father for holding his ground

[@xgenesysx]

"The bunny destroyer" I'm laughing my damn ass off kids come up with amazing nicknames.

[@Justatexantumbleweed836]

Fr it is so funny

[@BigTTGothGrl]

Even funnier is I remember being a kid with that type of brain they most likely called her “the bunny destroyer, destroyer of bunnies”

[@translator-kun]

I like that the lawyer just went "I'm in" after hearing the story. Also the laptop and the camera is the mvp of this story

[@tristansmith5000]

"I won't go into any details about what they did around the house, you can fill those details yourself." Hmm yes, they used up all the bread making peanut butter jelly sandwiches...

[@mr_cheddar]

Yes tasty pb &j

[@the_tyrantrous_spy]

While the wife drank all the coconut milk

[@EllisPeter-si8zu]

​@@the_tyrantrous_spyfrom 2 coconuts

[@bensgalley1368]

Man the OP was smart and won everything leaving that monster with nothing. He basically asked for Lewis Litt and had a mountain of evidence to back it up. It sucks for your kids but at least they know which parent actually loves them now. I have no doubt that she will try to come back later begging for another chance. I just want the update of the op telling her to rot

[@karlihrig9065]

Imagine getting disowned when you're an adult. 14:34

[@ronwatford7331]

The woman not wanting to be wrong was the first red flag. She's not mature enough to face her own BS.

[@gabby_slays]

This was horrible what kind of person cheats want nothin with her kids in preschool and kindergarten and straight up lies to the cops a judge

[@KageNoTenshi]

The smartest thing this man did was live and get marry in a at fault state

[@joshfly210]

I’m surprised your ex wife didn’t try to get some custody of the kids and have you basically buy their custody. I wouldn’t have put it past her.

[@Xxblossom-46]

She didn’t want them because she’s a narcissist ass who hated that her children didn’t prefer her over him

[@annemariebell6970]

She did worse. She basically disowned the poor kids. HER kids.

[@michaelgalvan9196]

Makes me glad I'll be single for the rest of my life and not having to deal with those types of drama

[@LostGeburah]

always great to have a cheater thrown to the curb.

[@austinconklin4337]

When she broke the photos, if it was me I would've said "thanks"

[@loganthomas3575]

So, she had all that, a house, a devoted husband and a loving family but she decided to throw it all away for a selfish reason. That lying hussy got what she deserved in the end, absolutely nothing. In a twist of karma maybe the affair partner might dump her for someone younger, give her a taste of her own medicine.

[@Joey15811]

Such an evil woman, actually wish she lost that baby. She threw her other kids away like that. She deserves no kids !

[@DeeBraynt2010]

Don't worry. One day her Do Over will tell her to go eff herself and when she tries to go back to her 1st kids, they'll tell her to go eff herself.

[@Riudoesart]

the parents just casually disowning their own daughter pver the phone😂

[@Fryzzi]

The biggest issue with lying to the Police about things like that, aside from lying to the Law ofc etc., is, that these Police Officers now got this Experience in their Heads forever. When ever they encounter a Situation similar to this, they will always have a bit of doubt if the Woman isn't lying, in fact... it's bad AF

[@dragonguerrero1622]

Good job OP for standing up for your kids and taking care of yourself. You got this. Wish you all the best in life brother.

[@springtrap_2011]

''the ''the bunny destroyer'' nickname came back'' William Afton Moment

[@dashdash3615]

The affair partner is a piece of human filth

[@waynec38]

HUH....So is the WIFE...Hell,she is EVIL!! I HOPE she suffers!!! I HATE HER!!!!

[@coopsterthepoopster]

This man is actually a legend. It's also hilarious how the lawyer was so eager to take the Wife down.

[@JtDrake372]

The fact people like the wife exists is why I haven't tried dating since 2012

[@Baba-qp5yp]

You shouldn't give up on love The dating phase is explicitly for you to weed out the good from the bad, there are people like this that will weasle through your judgment and it will never be 100% safe, but sometimes you should take a risk; love is the best thing that happens to some and it can be the best decision you make With dating, you get to see the type of person they are, you get to ask questions to see how they'd approach x or y or get insight on their general philosophies. If you play your cards right you can minimize the risk and get a MASSIVE reward

[@LURKLORD92]

@@Baba-qp5ypnobody has time for that nor the mental energy, dating is pointless as hell.

[@meaum]

​@@LURKLORD92bro get a therapist

[@LURKLORD92]

@@meaum got one and doing great wrapping up college mathematics everything is much better, I appreciate it.

[@meaum]

@@LURKLORD92 good to hear

[@iwritesmut59]

I’m glad the little girl worked up the courage to tell her dad. Bc it could have been way worse then just cheating

[@pizza8050]

than*

[@joshuajones169]

in the current state of the world, honesty is the most rare thing you can find, find someone who tells you the truth and will be honest with you, and be honest with them, they'll take care of you as you take care of them, all the best - honest and truthful

[@razor57.]

I would have tried to ruin the do-over baby because if she was trying to keep it a secret, it'd be suspicious to denie stuff. But that's just me

[@sandrasausville9103]

This woman is just a awful human being. Thank goodness for the eldest child and the father for remaining calm and getting rid of the wicked bunny destroyer

[@sanixxs]

i'm not even listening to the story, the gameplay is so good that i just zone out watching it

[@handsomeX]

That hawk was the key in all of this 😂

[@a_good_doggo]

We need more people like this man

[@kj4856]

wise words

[@a_good_doggo]

@@kj4856 thanks

[@PilloTheStar]

Those security cameras saved this man's life.

[@platnumring7568]

This is one of my all time favorite stories. I absolutely love this story, hearin this story is music to my ears. An awesome guy gettin revenge on his cheatin ex wife. Revenge category: pro revenge or even nuclear revenge. An amazin story with a great endin. Who agrees

[@brandonpham4017]

You know, Johnny Depp could've used cameras like these for his case against Amber Heard.

[@doglady2925]

I feel so bad for the younger daughter she doesn’t get why her mom doesn’t want her anymore

[@jadejason5120]

This is why you should have security cams or some type of recording going on in your house. This could have gone so wrong so fast if he did not have recordings cuz they where his only evidence.

[@keegangailushas5752]

Thank you for the daily posting. It really helps.

[@TimeMasterOG]

This is why men shouldnt be letting their wives keep dudes as their friends but he aint the jerk

[@XsaviXander]

Women can be friends with men, even if they are in a relationship. You sound insecure and dumb as hell. Probably single too. XD

[@HowToBeAlone]

I have a lot of guy friends but not once have I thought about sleeping with them 💀

[@blahaj3730]

That’s not how guy friends work ☠️ You really think that women just smash every guy they come across? Can women not have friends 🤣

[@ozgurerdalersoy654]

@@HowToBeAlone Most of them did though. Trust me.

[@TimeMasterOG]

@@blahaj3730 Most women who are friends with men while married have them as friends for a reason... And its usually so they can fall back on them if their marriage screws up

[@jacklansdale77]

If I were a lawyer and a case this easy fell into my lap I'd grin devilishly too.

[@zhaasheppard8853]

he was a good husband she deserved nothing not even the car

[@JacksonJacobs-if9vp]

Amazes me the lengths these people go to get their way. Eldest child is the goat BTW

[@ThatGirlThatLikesMuffins]

I love that in this episode, the op obviously knows he’s not a jerk, he’s just sharing the story out of satisfaction

[@rhino3855]

This dude is so good, he doesn’t write s these stores but it is good for those who don’t have reddit that can use this. Thanks.

[@cachondorider]

A reason why I'm afraid of marriage

[@ghost_rick_the_ghostian]

If this happend to me i woud allow my in laws to see there grandkids they dind do anything to hurt me so they shoud not be punisht

[@Raphiez876]

An excuse for your negative rizz

[@TristanL3]

First story - the saddest part, that IS the woman you married, people are just good at hiding their true colours

[@noxproductions6851]

That was a perfectly executed exit plan...

[@MBdynamoBostik]

The bunny destroyer is a heart destroyer 😂

[@brandonthompson5169]

I would like to thank you for getting myself and my ex back together. He has asked me to move in together and I am extremely excited for it! You done the impossible and did what others claimed they could do. Your service on gave me the best communication I basically needed. You where always available when I needed your attention. I appreciate everything from the bottom of my heart, thanks for the service

[@brandonthompson5169]

Ancientspiriualhome VIA TE L E G R AM

[@Satogou_shipper15]

Divorce lawyers seem to eat up divorce cases like that like Matpat eats up looooore

[@ACandCC]

Speaking of MatPqt, I hope he enjoys his retirement. He's been a part of many people's childhoods, mine included.

[@tracymorris7151]

so glad you had cameras cause it could have turned out a whole lot worse

[@Duckymcduckster]

Good for you man, 10+ years without smoking after quitting is really good!!

[@crimsonvoid1595]

The comment from the Husband about his ex wife being mistaken for a woman in her 20s sounds like what I hear when I tell people I’m 35. Most people when I meet them and ask them to guess how old I am just based on my looks.

[@BaldiSeedCompletionist]

I like picturing the calm grin on that person's face for the entire time.

[@Azraelgaming745]

Wait... I am subbed to ya xd

[@keneola]

FWIW, he definitely filled a position when she left 😂

[@khalborg]

Greenland is a great country to be catching strays like that.

[@D.x.-1974]

Best karma ever and I still feel bad for our op that he's not the father 😟🙏

[@Nidoria]

Of the 2kids he is

[@fernandorios474]

This is one hell of a video!! And we are eating popcorn while watching it!! :D I know if I met him in person I would keep an eye on his kids until his kid's aunt & uncle come around to pick them up

[@glitch_xeno]

I just imagine every person from Greenland watching this video is like "no thanks for that"

[@kokujin5446]

She said she didn't want to be wrong😂 what a bad person.

[@grapes888]

14:31 "They disowned her over the phone" With all these lies makes you wonder was she even thier daughter to begin with? XD

[@Dragunov1111]

This story makes me feel like its a holiday.

[@mattiaspersson3846]

Thank you for sharing this story. I always been a sucker for happy endings.... :)

[@temery94]

Literally most women will lie when trapped because without evidence to refute the law is on their side sucks but I’m glad he had the cameras

[@SenseiRaisen]

To think this start as an AITA and went to this. The unapologetic way she acted and everything. Even some comments pointed out she couldn't be this dumb, as if this was done on purpose to punish the kids. It start to make sense once the oldest comes forward with all of this.

[@Wyat126]

The bunny destroyer🤣🤣🤣

[@ShawnLatimer-uj8ml]

holy crap nuclear revenge be like

[@Bezza77]

i gotta say what a bloody legend this man is

[@VIKINGS18-f2b]

Why do affair partners even bother like the rest person they’re with is already cheating and will probably cheat on you to.

[@jessicabrooks5297]

her face must have been halarious when the OP showed the recording to the police

[@shark_park427]

I bet her lawyer even sided with the op 😂

[@MrSmith-vw6cl]

I guess, the security she felt due to the husband made her feel even more entitled than she already was. Ladies and gentleman, please give a round of applause for the "Elite Karen"! Not the typical grocery store Karen, but the "I hate my husband, kids, and only want comfort" Karen.

[@bubbaj007]

Oh😢🤬 Yes I remember that story. That would have scarred me for life. Just like watching Bambi did when I was young. I still can't go hunting 😔

[@user-vz1mg4kx4k]

The affair man is probably going to go though the exact same thing

[@Lightningalphawolf]

The devil has taken over the lawyer to help the man.

[@AngelusNielson]

By the way, this is what a psychopath looks like. I feel sorry for the cheater in that he's going to be with her now. They deserve each other.

[@rishusarkar6306]

Lawyer be like - u make a deal 🤝🏽 with devil 😈

[@Caramel_gamer438]

In the end the bunny got the last laugh 😅

[@Omori920]

shout out to the eldest, his sister and her husband

[@samerchef619]

From bunny destroyer to home wrecker, damn 😮

[@Igna_mark]

When I’m angry I could break a bone by a breath