நீங்க கூறுவது தவறு. ஒரு job gap கு அப்றம் renetry பன்னனும் அப்டினா naturally ஒரு fear & extreme lack of confidence இருக்கும், அது laziness கிடையாது, அது பயம் due to lack of touch.
@devildude2683Ай бұрын
Exactly.... being a home maker is not being lazy
@valoriefalorie422321 күн бұрын
Exactly when men have a gap people don’t think much. But women are not given jobs easily and even if they get it is hard to grow becoz of male politics!
@MOOKKAMMALP-b3hАй бұрын
நிதானமாக பேசி மகளிருக்கு விழிப்புணர்வு ஏற்படுத்திய விதம் மிக அருமை! பேட்டி எடுத்தவர் இன்னும் பயிற்சி எடுப்பது மேலும் சிறப்பைத் தரும்!
@kselvi3696Ай бұрын
Earning women only (either job or small business, small amount or big amount ) is real Princess
@SelviKoilpandiАй бұрын
Eye opening at right time to me. Thank you sir.I am going to give a Application tomorrow. Love from Tirunelveli not in USA😊
@VetriselvanSathiya-i9bАй бұрын
💯. I am in same situation.. Education and job only very important.. very long time I am waiting for this topic . Thanks
@dazzler4141Ай бұрын
I resigned my job,but now planning to join ...thanks sir
@philomenaanthony7526Ай бұрын
Wonderful counsel advice. Thank you for sharing . Really appreciate it. Sometimes I did wonder whether I did the right thing. Yes, you are right. Education is the most valuable asset to any woman.
@jebapoornaselvam5054Ай бұрын
If I got this council 20 yrs back ,how nice it would have been?
@Savageprincess167Ай бұрын
Well said sir 🙌 my husband is also working in foreign country but he is really a good person and I also facing pressure by my family to go there and settle down but I don’t like to stay there permanently.. I hv to show this speech to my family. Thanks for this message
@sidj2252Ай бұрын
Sister. Go there first. Time will decide everything not you
@Savageprincess167Ай бұрын
@@sidj2252 Yh I should think.. idk why but I don’t like to go there😔(maybe too much pampering of my parents has spoiled me )
@sidj2252Ай бұрын
@@Savageprincess167 your family is your husband and kids. Others secondary. Once ur mind accepts this, you will fly immediately. Please ponder over this.
@Savageprincess167Ай бұрын
@@sidj2252 ur right.. thanks for pointing this out 🩵
@90sKydzzWorldАй бұрын
@@Savageprincess167 I pray you don't regret it later for not going there in the future...
@sindhuselvam9113Ай бұрын
Ur words are true sir
@kalyanichokkalingam9723Ай бұрын
சிறந்த பதிவு.🎉🎉🎉
@shobanaganesan-h1qАй бұрын
This video is much useful, thank yu sir
@pumamaheshwari6698Ай бұрын
அருமையான பதிவு ஐயா நன்றி நக்கீரன்
@geethajeyalingam6024Ай бұрын
I agree completely, from Canada.
@kavithamurthy8871Ай бұрын
Me too
@charanyav4047Ай бұрын
I'm too from Canada. Struggling to find job kn Alberta
@kavithamurthy8871Ай бұрын
@@charanyav4047 i live in alberta, let me know what field. i can see if i can help
@charanyav4047Ай бұрын
12 yrs as systems engineer in automation - power plant, oil & gas, refinery industries + knowledge mgmt project, wiki technologies & applications. Work experience in India now moved to Edmonton.
@charanyav4047Ай бұрын
I'm open to change domian as well
@shobanasabapathi442Ай бұрын
I am also in the same situation with my husband and I am continue with it for my son.It is only my job to be my strength and companion. Thank you so much sir 😊
@theicon2132Ай бұрын
May god give you all the strength ❤
@bhaveshs4975Ай бұрын
Same here
@BlueBerry-bc7ypАй бұрын
Take him to a கவுன்சிலிங் ma. Who knows he may change. Give a try
@shobanasabapathi442Ай бұрын
@@BlueBerry-bc7yp Sure sir
@369TamilDevotionalАй бұрын
Eye opener video sir thanks 👍 nakeeran gopal sir thanks a lot
@mariaflorence612620 күн бұрын
Super message sir. 🎉🎉🎉
@kinchugamrodrigo204Ай бұрын
பெண்களுக்கும் பெற்றோருக்கும் விழிப்புணர்வை ஊட்டும் அருமையான பதிவு . வாழ்த்துக்கள் 😊
@lakshmanansumathi6854Ай бұрын
I’m just
@sidj2252Ай бұрын
ஆண்களுக்கும் தான். ஆண்களை துன்புறுத்தும் பெண்களுக்கும் இது பாடம்
@ELANGOVANVV-h6yАй бұрын
Good thing is explained.
@madurai765Ай бұрын
Naan paarttha sirantha manithan jeyzan sir. Thaa ivarukku naa kadama patrukke. En kanavar irantha nigalvula irunthu meela ivarum oru karanam ivar kudukkura interview. Kandippa nerla oru naal naa partthu solve thanks sir
@sambathrajesh8862Ай бұрын
True words🎉🎉
@lakshmi.b5970Ай бұрын
Super sir lighta tregger sairenga good result vandududu God bless you sir
@balasanthiribalasanthiri6794Ай бұрын
Good speech sir. Thank u.
@UthraaKeerthikaАй бұрын
Very good information sir
@ragulraje717 күн бұрын
How much will he take for counseling
@hemalatha2591Ай бұрын
Very true
@thillainayagi2751Ай бұрын
Very true , to some extent my sibling story matching, she is looking for job now
@aiswaryalakshmi9493Ай бұрын
It’s related to me I left my career and came to abroad now suffering in my life but n different way…
@GokulHardy7Ай бұрын
Go to job
@Home2020-x3kАй бұрын
Same happened in my life. I left my bank job and came to abroad and suffering now in depression. Have to search for a job. Don't know how it works as I have to tc of kids.
@soniasilvester4868Ай бұрын
@@Home2020-x3kcheck out the WFH options.
@aarathanam6196Ай бұрын
How to contract him ? Please tell us.we want take counselling.please please ...
@Gayathri-up3dcАй бұрын
மூன்று பெண்பிள்ளைகளை பெற்றவர்கள் நாங்கள் என் கணவரும் இதையேதான் சொல்வார்
@sarojabharathy9198Ай бұрын
Well said sir, Edu plus finance is the straighth of ladies.
@Sujathal1234Ай бұрын
Super information Sir
@mahalaksmi1Ай бұрын
இப்படி பயந்து வாழ முடியாது. Even we can get job in abroad. I'm also married foreign guy never thought like this. Even my first challenge languages but we accept and move on.
The title is really downgrading women. Could you please change it. It’s such a useful video
@revadhimahalingam460Ай бұрын
சிறப்பு
@lathaierivan2123Ай бұрын
என் மகள் இப்படி தான் இருக்கிறது சென்னை ய்ல்
@sidj2252Ай бұрын
நீங்கள் தான் அவர்கள் பிரச்சினையை தீர்க்க வேண்டும்
@rammaprabha8362Ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤ Thank you sir
@Ush23453Ай бұрын
Arumai sir
@dayaw261222 күн бұрын
What ever you said correct. I went to London 41 years before. I did decree and married a British citizen. I didn't work before . When I went there I studied for three years. But that time they paid for us. Now days every thing different. Now days too many illegal emigrats . They stopped . If you got good job and money don't plan to go foreign. Who ever come from foreign they showed. Its very hard. I see so many girls in trouble. Before you go decided .
@kavi0505Ай бұрын
100 la oru divorce aagum, 100 la orutharukku kuzhandha porakkadhu.. but adha paathu full country neenga solra living style adapt pannanuma? Oru amma ku 46 years la sugar varudhu.. so avanga pasanga 20 years la irundhe sugar sapda koodadha? First teach a person to think practically.. teach adaptation skills to them. If not a regular office job, what other possibilities are there to earn? It is perfectly okay if a women takes maternity break for 5 years. It is perfectly okay if a women does nursing for a bed ridden parent and returns back to work after 5 years. If offices say it is a long break, then other job opportunities will open up.
@lakshmisivalingam70417 күн бұрын
Its quite opposite in our csae.My son left his good paying job in IT and went to foreign country as his wife got a good job.
@mihome375816 күн бұрын
Your blanket statements and approaches is good for women and not for the family. As some women, do not prioritise family at all.
@RRR1986-e7sАй бұрын
Wow i always thinks about this.
@sivaramakrishnanr596012 күн бұрын
இவர் பேசி முடிப்பதற்குள் கீழ் வானம் சிவந்து விடும் .
@Nagalakshmi-ol7uv3 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@sasikalakrishnasamy399Ай бұрын
Absolutely important topic to spread in India...million million women are suffering with indian men in abroad...unable to put them in family violence register...both family don't support women....western countries judicial system support the affected women..but indian community in abroad also discard or don't support that women...unbelievable life these women go through in the name of culture...please speak up...🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
@nivedhitha1000Ай бұрын
I agree 👍 from uk
@bhawaniloganathan5962Ай бұрын
Girls who marry men from other states have to resign their current jobs and move to those countries, there is no alternative. In other countries its not that easy to get an equivalent job. Very often they have to start from bottom and move up. Also, family care is a big issue as there are no domestic helps like in their home countries. Those girls who marry such men have to face the risk and prepare themselves to accept the inevitable!!
@sumathrak1857Ай бұрын
Excellent
@vinothinipriyadarshini6952Ай бұрын
eye opening topic
@srishanthitraders9766Ай бұрын
You are my favourite sir
@hemalatha-yb1qjАй бұрын
100 💯 % true
@Ush23453Ай бұрын
Dear VJ Kindly ask him about Govt school pg arts teachers counseling. It will help to big community as de stress
@mekala5009Ай бұрын
Sir இப்போதுதல்லாம் இரண்டு பேரும் வேலைக்கு போனால்தான் சிறப்பாக வாழ முடியும் இங்கேயும் வெளிநாடுகளிலும் அங்கே எல்லாம் சும்மாவீட்டில் இருக்கவே முடியாது
@Indian-sh2xzАй бұрын
We can still live with one earning if one live below their means
@mekala5009Ай бұрын
@@Indian-sh2xz inflations r up in recent periods there is no choice left , so both have to work otherwise it will be a big burden to men
@ikmkkhdsfgghhhАй бұрын
கடைசியில் காலத்தில் யாருக்கும் தொந்தரவு தரமா முதியோர் இல்லம்மோ அல்லது தனிமையில் பொழுதை கழிக்க பழகி கொள்ள வேண்டும் எல்லாரும்
@kasthuriravindran384Ай бұрын
100% true Economical freedom is a must
@sasi_elayaАй бұрын
Super sir
@charanyav4047Ай бұрын
Real eye opener
@mariajeyarani9258Ай бұрын
கொஞ்சம் சத்தமா பேசலாமே சார் ரொம்ப மெதுவா பேசுறீங்க என்னைய நீ
@mariyappans7069Ай бұрын
Vannakkam sir. This vedio should be reached people before 25 years means it would be great boon for ladies and innocent married girls .now also ok sir atleast we can realise and find the original face of cheating husbands. God should bless you more sir. You are lighting many innocent girls future
@thameemunisavlogs9413Ай бұрын
How to contact this sir?
@logeshv892914 күн бұрын
This is true situation for women marrying to abroad.. You have to work to sustain life here in abroad... Take care of kids and working parallelly is very difficult
@kuppuswamyvenkatraman8463Ай бұрын
You cannot brand the non resident indians in this sweeping manner.
@gayathrikalai9630Ай бұрын
Thank you sir
@se50nАй бұрын
This fellow is over exaggerating and generalising things.
@akilasr8006Ай бұрын
Marriage panni ,kuzhandai vanda appuram health issues, middle age tied ness, Then how can we go to job.
@swaminathanmary-jane406012 күн бұрын
Je vie en France j’aimerais vous contacter
@creativehome2028Ай бұрын
Oru confusion um illa. This is not applicable for all. One more thing abroad is de best choice for that girl to grow. Bce thr domestic violence la case women file panna or kids told someone outside summa sonnalum. Immediately investigation happen with tht parents. But india la nothing else
@thyagarajanvaidyanathan2315Ай бұрын
மணமாகி அயல்நாடு போகக்கூடிய பெண் எவ்வளவு தான் படித்திருந்தாலும், திறமைசாலியாக இருந்தாலும் வேலைக்கு போகும் உரிமையைப்பெற சில வருடங்களாகும். அதுவரை அவர்கள் கணவனை நம்பித்தான் ஆகவேண்டியுள்ளது. அதற்குள் அவர்களுக்கு குழந்தைகள் பிறந்தால் இன்னும் சில வருடங்களுக்கு வேலைக்கு போக முடியாது. Visa status என்பது முக்கிய பங்கு வகிக்கிறது. கணவன் நல்லவானாக அமைய வேண்டியது மிகவும் முக்கியம். வருடங்களாவாது
@kasthuriravindran384Ай бұрын
Not true..When we decided to settle abroad, need to start a new career .This needs guts, perseverance and dedication.There is always negative things like baby sitting and house work etc .But it is part and parcel of the western life..
@abimaninibalasubramaniyan439Ай бұрын
Jayzen sir
@cleanpull9999 күн бұрын
Women are objectified in the west, Indian women are quickly catching up with this objectification. The only practical thing is not to get married but be in relationship.
@RukmaniS-hr9chАй бұрын
How to contact jayzen sir
@asokanselvaraj699527 күн бұрын
Title is not appropriate and makes to thing the foreign life is not good…there are many good family who grow up their kids in good way example Vivek Ramsay in usa, kamala harris and their family come here for aspirations not for status life…today many ppl things being in USA is status that is how movie also promoting…moreover its happening in our country also right many marrying even after good colleague degree parents also thinking that marrying good earning man is safe for their daughters that too foreign mapla solla va Vendam….
@azeemahgoogle456Ай бұрын
My life😢
@RRR1986-e7sАй бұрын
Anchor must learn how engage guest.
@chellaperumal.s2815Ай бұрын
Antha 47 natural siva sankari novel
@abimaninibalasubramaniyan439Ай бұрын
Want to contact jayzan sir
@vinothm8726Ай бұрын
Ellaruma apadi irrukanga bro
@LakshmiVyas-b7dАй бұрын
Nasama ponavane 5 per death patri pesamattiyada😢
@keepgoing-yougotthisАй бұрын
👏
@FrankNadarАй бұрын
Ullur mappilaya parungama
@umamaheswari3754Ай бұрын
Ungalodaye sethu vachi pesuvangale😢
@MDigeeshBАй бұрын
True
@kasthuribair682Ай бұрын
🙏
@Chelsea-hk9itАй бұрын
Jason sir beard oungaluku romba nallairundadu.
@ranjithamvelusami9220Ай бұрын
Aanaikkum adi sarukkum
@ponmani566Ай бұрын
Manam porattam..
@ASTROMURTHYАй бұрын
Working women in India too ninety nine percent shed their jobs after marriage. That is reality..foreign migration happens for centuries has many setbacks we have to endure . What if indian women pace a cruel husband? The spokesman mindset is abnormal.