An Inbetweener once said... | Episode 140

[@the.victorgeorge]

On the comment about the chances of a woman staying unmarried after 30 because she is too aware is an excuse used for guys who are not willing to do the work themselves. It's the same reasoning parents would use to discourage their daughters from getting a Masters or owning houses by themselves. In a Dear Future Wifey episode with Sarah Jakes Roberts, she was saying how it is much harder to be in a relationship with a real one than with a fraud. Because with a real one, they welcome your vulnerability and keep you accountable so you become the best version of yourself. With a fraud you are so busy worried if they are cheating, checking phones, arguing so you don't even have time for vulnerability and building each other up. I would say as long as you are not using your awareness and growth to belittle others, I don't see why it should be a big issue, in fact it is very attractive.

[@somebodys_son01]

One topic that I'd like to highly suggest is with regards to careers- i believe yall are smart women who have gotten the privilege to venture into various career fields. So if you guys can do an episode where you can just delve into talking about careers like marketing, communication, media and just corporate life in general, agency life etc even just based off of your experiences, i feel like that would be great and insightful especially to cater to the young TA. What are some of the dos and don'ts? What were your lessons? What would your advice be to anyone who would want to venture into them? What should their expectations be even just in terms of salaries from entry level to a senior position et al. (U can even invite someone like Zach so he can share his experiences as well and other visitors).

[@carriemuriuki]

Murugi having another baby will defo happen 🤣🤣 and according to Keni & Tana it's Twiiiinnnnzzzzzzz🤭

[@h.a.r.m.o.n.i.e]

Rewatching this episode especially when Lydia talks about having an episode on STIs and STDs and knowing that there is an episode on this is nice, I love that you follow through and deliver on what you promise.

[@beloncekamz2821]

Whew! Lyd legs🔥, Lyd legs🔥.It is definitely TMIIIIIIII CONSISTENCY for me🥳💃🏿💃🏿. Tunawathamini❤️❤️💐💐

[@lornahbuffy2201]

On the paybill issue, everything u've said is exactly my thoughts. We see u girls as auntie madooh so kinda would be weird. However, it's not a subscription,it's optional so n out of the goodness of someone's heart. Myself, nilichanga in 2018 when I was a student,I literally used my pocket money (500) to send an influencer who had a health issue n was in hospital n unable to pay. After 3 weeks (I'm not exaggerating) she was in diani for a whole 1 week. I didn't bad I helped her,I just vowed strangers on the internet don't deserve my savings or pocket money. I will however support TMI by subscribing, watching the whole episode, coming to live events, buying merchandise but that's it babes

[@loisewamaitha3269]

I love TMI episodes and I am big fun of you girls, you have brought so much spice in my work life. I appreciate and admire how much Murugi has grown over time and the influence that Lydia has brought about.🥰

[@its_nells]

Flower power's comment on not using condoms is so on point, I also just went with it when I was younger, I don't even know what I was thinking....fortunately I came out of it unscathed. I really recommend just like Benjamin Zulu on not dating until you're over 25

[@sallyquinter4647]

You could also do a podcast on life didn't stop when

[@murugimwangi9184]

😂😂😂yes

[@sarahmisuko6613]

💯, waiting eagerly

[@terrymathai6393]

Oh yeah! That's a good one

[@MeloXtie]

Nice

[@christinewangechi7675]

Wekeni paybill tu hatuwajudge plus we love your content

[@yarnbraids333]

My personal opinion ..i am 24 and you guys are my role models .you guys are like examples of rich babes in kenya ..paybill sio mbaya bt inashukisha class ..😅 murugi watu watasema tumekununulia disco.

[@pamelanyagah3936]

The fashion in this podcast is mwakiiiiii!💥🔥🔥🔥

[@oliviaisezerano1086]

We also want Benjamin Zulu on the show

[@RosebelNjoroge-vm7go]

I support this 💯

[@rahabkariuki4978]

I also agree

[@ninsiimasharlotte3496]

I agree

[@mediemiller]

I second

[@Cirukanyoro]

Their energy won't gel

[@cherrecarter9251]

Hello Ladies, I really enjoy your context. It's like a sister conversation . It's that to me because I don't have sisters. And the topics are lit, informative, and help me approach life, life's situations, health, sex, and sex choices with more confidence and insights. Thanks again your girl in the U.S.A. GOD BLESS ❤

[@nyamburaadventures_ke]

I think Maurice Matheka/Doreen Nyiramugisha would be great for the show.They have very free and liberal energies iMO

[@mercyfrancisca5300]

Lord knows I've been waiting for today's video to get through the week sane!Boy I'm i excited 🥹💕🤩

[@erinellwambui7504]

Hey cuties...Here on time🥳.You two look so cute today ♥️. I'm in love with Lydia's fit 😍

[@tmipodcastke]

Thank you 🥰🥰🥰

[@yourstrulyKe]

I see the paybill thing as a form of tipping culture. It's a form of appreciation. However, have I ever tipped? No. Because I grew up paying for just my bills and that's truly all I know. How about you guys consider Patreon? Though it's killing me to suggest this cause I know I wouldn't and haven't ever paid for "premium" content 😂😂😂 Cause how many channels do I follow? What if I have to pay for all of them..?Trust I'm choosing "free" content 🤭

[@levinnashonmwanginda3352]

It's the honesty for me 💯

[@Wilkister_Musungu]

No judging but its giving...🫣🫣🫣

[@linetmutheu]

Kusema ukweli i would not send money on paybill. But I'll support your sponsers so they can keep paying you guys .

[@WanjiruMuya]

Thanks Queens for the Episode... About Paybill i think i share the same thoughts with you, in this economy of Podcasters & KZbinrs most are intentionally taking advantage of their fans😌.

[@minkrasi3318]

For supporting a channel..I like the way Abel Mutua says..that its like buying a newspaper- if you like the content, then contribute to it!

[@faithnabwire4344]

Hello, I’m 21 just out of campus and confused on what to do next ?…should I start a business?…go back to school?…get ready to be a wife? Could you please talk about the first years after campus and how you got to navigate your way through this world 😢

[@pbd_01]

Definitely not get ready to be a wife...don't do it!

[@lilianchybire9610]

Try to apply for an internships and build your career. You can also look for volunteer opportunities. The knowledge and experience is never wasted

[@catherinemurugi9931]

An episode on skin care would be very beneficial

[@noellaliz5911]

Unpopular opinion!!😂😂 I'm not for the paybill idea, for me it's like buying a 10bob face mask and washing it to wear it the next day,instead of going to a wholesale shop and get 50 pieces at 300. Some will think it's saving for me it's the 'tabia za umaskini' attracting more poverty! Better and more sponsorships and partnerships/deals is the way for TMI😊

[@yourstrulyKe]

Unrelated but...I wish I were better practised at expressing my mind so confidently despite the possibility of backlash. I love it! ❤️

[@CS-zd8uf]

absolutely!

[@learnwithme322]

"This is my friend Jo! She has 4 children! Tell me how that sounds..."😂😂😂😂😂😂 The wardrobe is robing and we're here for it, my ladies!❤❤ Yes to the AIDS and STI education. Some of us have lived through the AIDS pandemic, buried relatives and friends. So looking forward to the conversation!

[@harrietunfiltered8981]

55sec no view yet and here I am all the way from Ghana stuck on here🤣🤣😍

[@tmipodcastke]

🤣🤣🤣 OG INBETWEENER

[@lifeinitscolours4206]

Ohh Joan dear, 4 babies aren't that many, it's just 3 plus 1😂😂😂I have 4, the fourth came after a miscarriage due to a moved IUD. Twas an oops pregnancy that I had finally embraced then lost it. We had a discussion and decided to have number four and trust me she is the life of the party that's our home, can't imagine how we would be without her, she fit perfectly into our picture. If it happens to you, embrace it and enjoy it.

[@deborahmutheu1159]

I actually quite like the 🎶it’s definitely TMI & also Lydia’s fit !😍⭐️

[@MaryAnneAchieng]

Personally, while yes, balance is important, I think we're JUST entering the era of women being single and happy (esp considering the shit they get when single female content creators post about their self care and men are under there insisting they MUST be miserable). Also some of us are introverts lol

[@genuinejay7696]

Love the sisterhood we have built on here😊❤

[@bernicefenton]

kenya is not a christian state. kenya is a secular state. the kenyan constitution, chapter 1, section 8 states "there shall be no state religion". and yes, the preamble begins by acknowledging the almighty god of all creation - though they're not specific about which denomination's god... most probably an abrahamic religion though.

[@Asholzoe]

BTW I discovered TMI on 8th of March n so far, i've watched all the episodes 🤩

[@viviangacho5555]

The outfits are outfittinggg!!😍

[@michelletusiime4197]

As its mental health month, a chat about content creators and mental health is would be insightful. Like how is content creation affecting mental health, what does mental health mean to you etc

[@dorothykanana2623]

My opinion on 'self funded' birthday parties. Atleast as the host cater for maybe 2 drinks or something for your guests but asking people to come for your party and they pay for everything and still bring a gift... To me thats using your friends.the only thing you've catered for its the cake

[@yarnbraids333]

I hate this ,why are you doing a birthday kama hauna pesa .😂

[@graceguya1682]

I would like to chime in on two things: On the idea, of contributions and parties. There needs to be conmmunication. Dont be like surprise, everyone is to pay for their own food or contribute 3000 for the event. Communicate beforehand before the event to avoid musunderstandings. Also be realistic in your expectations to avoid tensions and arguments as well as understand when people say no or they cant afford the 3000 for the invite. Two on Cancel culture in relation to say the genocide Israel is commiting against the Palestinians, cancelling companies makes sense because money is one of the things that has kept the Israeli occupation going for decades since the Nakba ( forceful expulsion of Palestinians and destruction of their cities and villages). Strangling the flow of money ans starving the flow of money into their Economy is one way to bring Israel to their knees, the same way the apartheid South African regime was brought to its knees. They were ostracized and their economy went down. What someone shouldnt do is cancel friends/ family for not agreeing with cancel culture ( unless they actively support the genocide because Israel is "chosen" and was "promised that land" then avoiding discussing that topic with them is fine)

[@evelynmbithe]

Kenya is not a Christian State. It's a secular state and freedom of religion enshrined in the constitution. To be a Kenyan, isn't to be a Christian.

[@maureensawe]

Murugi you look beautiful today 🤗

[@Asholzoe]

If a fun feels like your content is of value to them n they'd like to send you money for the vlaue gained, it's ok. The funs do it out of love for the content. Some fun at time want to support the content creators n the best way they know how is to send money or attend the events.

[@Asholzoe]

In most cases, It's never about the content creators wanting money from the funs.

[@maureenauma3004]

My safe space ,innit❤️

[@veronicahwekesa4845]

Aki mnakaa vizuri 😊❤

[@teresiamaina8235]

finally wednesday

[@tmipodcastke]

Finally finally 😂

[@LivingWithFareed]

TMI we need man talk back on i feel like the previous video with them needs a refresher

[@rahabkariuki4978]

I suggest Dr Kristina Sule for a gynaecologist. She was once hosted by the over 25 and i love her knowledge and experience.

[@inmurugisworld]

The girls are looking fly today❤

[@flowerpower250]

Not y'all remembering meeee this made my whole day 😭🥰🥰

[@lornahbuffy2201]

The birthday contributing, I feel y'all didn't understand the comment. She meant, the birthday is now being treated like a baby shower. U contribute in advance to book the space, food, drinks, n everything else. I think she meant paying in advance...

[@mukenyisworld]

It's TMI o' clock❤❤

[@Claire-rq9cg]

Im I’m coming to your party I’m not expecting to pay for my food and drinks. It’s really weird. But if it’s just a day out to dine or catch up I’d definitely do. I usually say no for invitations that will force me to pay. Like here in EU 50€ can be your weekly amount for groceries so I’m definitely not going to pay that for just one day for an event which is not mine.

[@brigidkashoi8847]

I invited my friends for my graduation party in 2020 and I paid for food and drinks(Water,soda/juice) but I asked my friends to buy alcohol for themselves.

[@dharmanjeri]

That adoption thing sounds familiar - I’ve been in such a relationship before . I found out from his friend …he never ever mentioned it …

[@nomvelohlongwa4289]

You ladies looking extra beautiful today ❤

[@zukazzama]

The way you guys look at each other when you say 'its def tmi' 👌🏻😂😂

[@mentallyguided]

Episode 140🎉🎉🎉

[@Beautyforashes254]

Hiyo ya playbill is very tucky,we are already supporting by viewing....it's actually greedy to ask for more

[@CS-zd8uf]

Not Murugi with the brit accent😂

[@wanizsharon]

We want Jacob Aliet or Dr Zippy on the show

[@karenkaren9646]

This one i would not watch. Their energy is combative and argumentative. Fighting and being loud just for the sake of controversy. Nothing constructive comes from giving audience to such characters.

[@malkiawaalego2552]

We are still recovering from the LNN episode please. Once was enough. That pair is not a good match for conversation

[@lynnieeve]

I found Dr.Zippy shallow and lacks objectivity.Aliet on the other hand is not articulate or maybe it's because the ladies kept interrupting him.

[@leahwachuma6512]

TMI hour🎉❤

[@JedidahWambui-yd4ne]

Iam so excited for the episode

[@Mag_Tina]

Whoop whoop 👐🏾🎉

[@estherchibutia3283]

U look good guys

[@tmipodcastke]

Thank you 🥰

[@MsThe1girl]

if creators abroad can have patreon why can't you put a pay bill? aiiiii WEKA!

[@parieagan1938]

How am I used to seeing Jo on the right and Lyd on the left side of my screen....

[@maureen_mauryn]

Maybe creators who have a paybill should talk about whether they get the 'support' from their fans. Personally I'll always support but sending to a paybill, you'd have to be specific e.g contribute we need new microphones to give you better audio content and we can't afford to buy some. LOL

[@joyceyugi9266]

Loved the outfits today ❤

[@gift2622]

Murugi I also think your not done my dear 😂😂😂😂there’s another baby 👶

[@catherinemuchiri9046]

This is my friend Joe, she has 4 children 😂😂😂

[@Gatwirima]

personally i would send money to the paybill ,its not like paying its just for appreciation

[@lavie254]

I love it here😊❤

[@tmipodcastke]

🥰

[@eshycmwangi]

💯Yes Lyd @min 42-45

[@Elizabeth111t3]

TMI🎉

[@tmipodcastke]

🎉

[@TracyCeee]

In-betweeners hellooo❤

[@Daisy-Ke]

Murugi's thoughts is all of us for sure. I love your views, thoughts everything. You're the friend I have in my head the way Wendy Williams used to think of Mariah Carey as the friend in her head. Have another baby 😅

[@mutaicherobon6550]

Hello Tmi date❤❤😊

[@tmipodcastke]

Hellloooo 😘

[@j.omondi5826]

Can you guys talk about and have your followers chime in on real life messy in betweens.

[@VALEENALICE]

Its the algorithm as well if you follow a page ig keeps bringing that content a bit too much

[@livyy-ce2uc]

Finally 😂

[@tmipodcastke]

🥳

[@carriemuriuki]

Very early today 🤩🥳

[@tmipodcastke]

We love it 😍

[@valentinengare3022]

Wednesday's.....❤❤

[@roseannnjoki5270]

is it only me ama is murugi today speaking toooo fast ? cha cha cha cha or the video speed off?

[@neches.a]

not Cha Cha cha😂

[@maureen_mauryn]

Realizing it after seeing this comment 😂

[@yourstrulyKe]

😂😂😂

[@anniendambuki7300]

😂😂

[@annemwaura3910]

TMI Clock 🥳❤️

[@DeDollyshow]

❤❤❤🎉

[@nalwovie954]

My favs🥹❤️ On the point of the paybill issue. It is possible that you guys may have been projecting your perception. If the creator has put it in the bio and left it to the audience to send money if they feel like it, it is okay. It’s the same thing as if you want to give to a cause or give to someone who helped you or give to someone you honor, it is out of your own good will. It is not by force. So if a creator puts a link for any monetary appreciation, it is okay. If you are “I could never give creators my money”, it’s okay for you to scroll past it. If you feel moved to support, at least you have an avenue to do so. I don’t know if it makes sense but in summary, it’s okay. It doesn’t show “broke” or “beggar” ESPECIALLY if the content they are putting out is beneficial to helping better people’s experiences in life beyond just being entertained. Otherwise thanksssss for another great episodeeeee🤩🤩💃🏾💃🏾