Angie Martinez On How To GAIN RESPECT, Speak Up, Set Boundaries & Hold Your Ground

[@LisaBilyeu]

WARNING: I will never ask for your contact info in the comments section, that is someone impersonating me!

[@caterinadelgalles8783]

Thanks for the message! 😊

[@heavensentheiress1041]

Wait how do you find your 3 core values?

[@kiv_daniels]

I get it that some people want to be seen, heard are dealing with something, but you’re not taking that out on me. It seems some people, regardless of whether they’ve been traumatized or not target you when you allow it. I’ve been through a lot but it has made me want to treat people better (not disrespect or push them around) and have better boundaries(not letting them disrespect or push me around). I can understand from a different perspective that some people including myself, have very strong boundaries because of what we’ve been through which can be mistaken for been rude or disrespectful no matter how nicely you put it. I’m going to stand my ground when you come for me, but I wouldn’t just come at you for no reason. Thank you soo much, you always remind of who I am❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤. We love and appreciate your hard work.

[@selfretired3025]

I always tell myself "Tomorrow is a new day". But we can shift our energy into a higher level as soon as we decide to. Allowing ourselves to suffer in the weight of gloom is a comfortable place to be... but allowing ourselves to feel Excited and Free is an even more comfortable place to Be. 👊❤

[@ramlamago6085]

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[@seonaidcentz]

Angie Martinez is a Legend. From her music, being a DJ and all the wonderful interviews. Thank you for having her on.

[@TeacherMom80]

This is only temporary. You just got to ride it out. And you're gotta grow through it. And be better off in the end... Healthy boundaries. Responding with compassion & a willingness to understand & help disarms people. Everyone has the fundamental need to be seen, to be heard, to be loved, understood & never forgotten. God bless you guys! Beautiful interview!

[@awatkins8429]

This woman is legendary, yet so humble and down to earth. Love Angie!

[@dearbreanna]

Angie Marrr! Legend! I use to hear her on hot97 radio as a little girl in jersey. I think Angie is incredibly talented. Such a commanding voice. I can tell she moved through the industry with integrity. I have much respect for her and how she built her career over the years♥️

[@carolellamuch9571]

You can tell Angie is really an amazing person

[@LashayneHampton]

Amazing conversation. Angie is so humble she replied to me on social media at a time I thought she wouldn’t. Her story is inspiring. I relate. Now let me go watch Ladies Night Remix. 🎶💃🏾 I miss that era ❤

[@sarahkyle9457]

Nice to hear someone who has the same mindset as me , I’m tired of fighting most the time 😅

[@phoenixurbina7359]

I honestly didn’t know who Angie was because I’m not that into hip hop culture but she is THE MOST likable, relatable, down to earth person. I absolutely love her perspective and can really feel that she is a human with integrity and truly genuine! I really learned a lot from this interview and I’m now such a fan of hers.

[@habitualflair6509]

LOVEEEEEEE Angie! She’s such a pioneer, icon, and has always seemed like such a genuine soul.

[@Tsailii]

Dropping 💎 s, as usual. Empathy is life! 💕🙌🏽💕

[@djari3s412]

Thats how I feel. Hustler mode is overrated.

[@CarasPlace]

I absolutely enjoyed this interview. Angie is a gem. 💛✨

[@naomismile7595]

Thank you Liza for Everything you do🎉❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ I am a RN , mother, and wife. I have been listening to you past one year almost everyday while I am driving, cleaning and breastfeeding. You have taught me so much and I became more outspoken and brave to speak up for me and my family. Can you also talk about motherhood and mother's mental health please 🎉🎉🎉

[@LisaBilyeu]

Thanks homie and I so appreciate you telling me what you need! I’m here and listening! 🙌🔥❤️

[@denee0213]

Omg Lisa - thank you for much for having Angie on and speaking on “ladies Night” - having a beautiful strong, smart Latina being so dope to see as a teenager was incredibly important for me. ❤❤ butter pea honey got the suga got the spice ❤❤

[@LivT04]

Lisa, thank you for these conversations ❤ Empowering us by letting us know that we have shared experiences! Your channel has helped me in more ways than I can put into words. Thank you 🙏🏼 this is another gem.

[@LisaBilyeu]

Thank you homie!! You have no idea how much that means to me!! 🥰❤️

[@kekekiki3369]

being nice to other... doesn't guarantee the same from others...so either create boundaries or learn being indifference towards other..

[@mulan2010]

Such a likable person.

[@annaleon2897]

OMG ANGIE MARTINEZ IS SO DOPE 🎉🎉🎉 so glad someone got to interview HER for once cause I already knew she was a powerful woman figure and now I am inspired to follow in her footsteps. Thank you so much Lisa. Angie, you are the realest and just so beautiful inside and out. Everything you said resonated with me ❤

[@Fitmamma_1]

I always download your podcasts to watch during LOADSHEDDING which is a daily thing in South Africa, and as a result i forget to comment or like because i watch offline. There's been episodes where im just blown away and i just wish i was watching it live😅 i haven't watched this either but im going to download and watch later. Thank you Lisa for these talk ❤ they are impactful 🎉❤

[@janineplaatjies1404]

Note to self: God is working it out in my favour. If He brings you to it. He'll carry you through it. Just stand and watch the Lord see you through. Don't give up. Don't give in. There's an answer to everything ❤.

[@nscales20]

WOW!!! I’m so glad you interviewed Angie. I’m so used to seeing her be the interviewer. So refreshing.

[@probi99]

This too shall pass! got me through a lot...

[@guadalupesilva9763]

She definitely inspire me and I learn a lot from her, specially to think is just a moment and is going to pass we just haven’t figure out yet, Powerful

[@canny1485]

Thank youuuu for empowering women

[@Ang-wu2bt]

Angie Martinez the Voice of NYC. Love her grew up listening❤❤ to her. ICON

[@coralbrune]

I am so interested, appreciate it and how people are, to get through life and find each of our truths

[@robyn9617]

Words of wisdom from a hip hop icon thx for featuring her

[@MisssAlexandriaJR]

Women like you are the pioneers for female entrepreneurs everywhere. Thank you. 🥲💃🧠💪🌟💸🕊️🤸‍♀️🦹‍♀️🧘‍♀️🧗‍♀️

[@pattyb199]

LOVED THIS INTERVIEW!!! I’ve been a fan of Angie Martinez & how she described how the accident changed her perspective about her life & work rhythm it resonated with me. I also had a car accident & my work work work mentality changed. I could’ve died & feel God gave me a 2 life to have balance & make my dreams my true. Hugs to you both 😊

[@beneath.the.rosesluciddrea8470]

I am PRESENT for this message. Also, the F-bombs in your show really help me to tune back in and check my attention and brings me back into the present. I have gotten so much value from these interviews, you and your husband are just top notch interviewers.

[@mysmirandam.6618]

My problem has always been I physically am incapable of 💋ing butt 😢

[@aubriellemorgan]

Same here

[@mysmirandam.6618]

@@aubriellemorgan it gets you fired every time

[@aubriellemorgan]

@@mysmirandam.6618 In my case, it got me respect, raises and bonuses. So I guess it depends on the field you’re in.

[@mysmirandam.6618]

@Aubrielle Morgan ya and who your boss is... see I can't fake like anyone so when one boss that I liked left and was replaced by one who didn't like me, my job was over

[@mysmirandam.6618]

@Aubrielle Morgan dam good job though! I need to work with you! 😆

[@Anayr19]

I loved this interview, is so true, everything "is just a moment" ❤

[@meganlove4075]

This is beautiful i luv this and feel so uplifted and motivated this conversation is real❤

[@aprilwarren4004]

Wow the comment about feeling content where you are as opposed to feeling like you won’t be happy til you reach that thing “over there”, is so on point. It’s good to have goals but it’s also important to feel happy in the moment, especially when life moves so fast.

[@Elevatedpoetry]

Those of us who do this are recently called Karen. It’s like once we are over 40 we should accept any kind of BS and say nothing. F&ck that!

[@l1zzyV1]

I love Angie.Her advice of telling yourself that whatever you're going through is temporary until YOU find a way to figure it out, is gold.I also appreciate the opinions on hussle culture-relate to what you said very much.

[@LoveDandD]

Thank you for this chat. Two badass women. ❤Very inspirational. I love the advice on knowing your value and asking for what you are worth.

[@merisalvi3210]

Am a God pleasure not man ! Made my life complete with Christ praise God 🙏🏼🔥✝️🤍🕊️

[@lovealways1257]

"When you wake up in the morning, do you feel happy about how your day is gonna be?" Wow 😮

[@annedunbar4598]

I just finished writing my book! A wellness guide called Lessons from the Trees. And I have no idea where I should send it. Do you have any advice? Thank you ❤❤ Peace and love to you

[@lianamatengu1445]

Sometimes when you're a nice person you're taken as being too harsh😢

[@pamelabledsoe2635]

We Love you over here Angie❤

[@r.p.8906]

very wise and so crystal clear! Thanks!! 3 values + 2 boundaries= brand new life!! 💯❣

[@KawaiiJenNeice]

She has always been so inspiring. I love her.

[@armettalandrum4942]

STAY NICE ---- JUST BE SMART

[@nurseannesinspirationalwellnes]

Yes ma’am ❤ Trauma Informed Care ‼️🏆🏆🏆

[@drebugsita]

Angie Martinez is a living legend!!! I am so glad you had her on your show, to hear her in the interviewee seat. She has so many bragging rights and yet she has the wisdom and humility to recognize that there are so many moving parts that are beyond our control in getting us where we are - and that shows her integrity. My favorite part is the end, around 1:05 on her two boundaries. That life lesson right there is something I recently had to learn via a group of "friends" of over a decade. I realized most of them were not actually rooting for my success, and I never felt good around them. It took one of them doing heinous to see that they really don't have my best interest at heart. I communicated my boundaries and differences and I have marked my distance and let me tell you the weight off of my shoulders and sense of peace - and actual opportunities and blessings in my life now are beyond words! I love that Angie is spreading this message because it can be literally life saving and yet it can seem so easy to dismiss in the name of maintaining the status quo and avoiding the discomfort of "loosing" people (it's really their loss). We must always check in with ourselves and stay true to our core needs to live and thrive

[@CB-jx9pw]

Dear Lisa, although you still speak with passion, you are so much more relaxed, less tense and therefore so much more relaxing yet interesting to listen to, haha 😆💕 I can now take in the information of the conversation and I'm really happy for you because being more relaxed is so much healthier for you as well. I think you're an amazing woman and I love to see you so much more grounded and calm. It's a pleasure to listen to this podcast, you're doing amazing and very important work.

[@ambergibson7381]

Ooohhh!! Super, super excited for this Gurl!! LOLz😊 So much respect for Mrs. Angie M.🙌🏽 Lisa, much❤️to both of ya!! Blessings🙏🏼

[@latoyaloving1412]

Love this interview......Angie is so dope❤ I Learn so much

[@AJLORACLE]

Completely agree! I’ve not always had this mindset but, but when I stopped judging others I was kinder to myself. Ce la ve ❤

[@052thirza]

Excellent!! Really intelligent content. Thank you for sharing such an insightful person in Angie Martinez! Wow, so glad to hear her speak of grace and boundaries. Very important message for women...everyone actually.

[@zabrinatheteacher]

Words of encouragement. I needed to hear this. Thanks Angie! RiseNY museum has paid homage to you. It was great seeing a picture of you there. Salute! 👍🏼❤🎙

[@suhanamedappa2480]

Great talk, very relatable. ❤

[@PureEssenceResale]

Awesome interview!❤️

[@PlushTress]

This was such a great interview! Angie’s spirit and mentality is inspiring!

[@lennya9211]

Thank you.

[@dianatolian]

This was a video that came at a great time. Angie Martinez is my childhood so I am grateful that you brought her on and she hit points that I really needed some recalibration with! ❤

[@J---L]

Angie is an ageless beauty inside and out. thank you so much for this interview. A true gift of wisdom🙏

[@hananbeshir1009]

what a beautiful woman

[@crystalnyla]

My Ny sister✨👑✨🔐✨🙏🏼✨🥰✨EPIC 🔥

[@bonitabonita3431]

18:30 The Joy of the Lord is my strength. Deliverance is vital 🙌 In the name of the Father, Son & Holy Ghost🙏 Bless you All♥️💐

[@Nicole-is-global]

Best advice! Slow down and relax, people. The "push hard" crap may be your biggest regret later.

[@cryshelwhitehead309]

Two of my faves in the same video!!! So excited to hear this conversation!!!

[@mariahconklin4150]

Also I realized I can't be passive aggressive with weirdo men. Some mad tried to mess with me and I was smiling at him and had to get out my box cutter at one point I even did and yet he still tried to come attack me I had to call the cops. You don't look at them all and they try to try something...nothing I can do and quite frankly it's annoying just leave me alone. Been putting up with dumb toxic men forever and a few select dumb woman I can't stand it. Plus woman are annoying to me and gossip all the time. I don't know why woman can't just focus on their goals especially at work. I've been out of work for two months and have to go get a job for rent and I'm in my 30's and am over it already. Someone suggested I just go on disability. I could care less about money all the gossip and games and drama I get so sick of it's annoying.

[@dianakubebea]

Angie has no idea how much impact she has had in my life, I got into radio presenting because of her and i dream of directing movies and reality shows and each time i watch her, i know that i must be doing something right. Thank you Angie for being my inspiration and my muse.

[@rebeccalawrencethomascarte7829]

I will watch this video but focus on the wall because that hair style bothering me on her kmsl

[@zakiyaellis2347]

I go about fulfillment the sameeee way! When I don’t feel good I know I am not fulfilled yet. I love this podcast

[@zakiyaellis2347]

Also great guess! Second time I have watched her speak. One in her own videos with JT and now this one.

[@blah7834]

This really helped me in my journey

[@mariahconklin4150]

But it's not temporary for me it's a constant state of chronic depression.

[@anaml3879]

I can listen to her (Angie), not matching my vibe.

[@thelightworkercoach]

Oh my I love this woman - yes we can learn from everyone no matter what their story.

[@DollfaceDasia1]

Needed this - right on time.

[@diose0078]

What about when you are a "TARGETED INDIVIDUAL'' and you know your situation is not temporary?

[@merisalvi3210]

I was someone that I needed people arround me constantly I needed to give EVERYTHING TO EVERYONE CONSISTENTLY!!! Then November 2018 to all the people I gave consistently to I needed n NOT 1 was there ..! Then Jesus showed up in my life .! 2022 I gave my life to him now I’m someone that has joy peace n true love n I adore spending time alone with Jesus ! That’s true fulfilment to me .. I’m chasing after Christ ! Christ told me you Obbey my laws and all your desires will chase after You ! That was a game changer to me today ! Praise Jesus 🙏🏼✝️🤍🕊️

[@danielamishkovska2833]

Watching this while doing my physical therapy 😅 with subtitles on so I won't bother others 😊 Great interview thank you, and You both are badasses 💪💪💪💪

[@elledemain6646]

Great episode thank you ✨

[@angelamossucco2190]

Angie M: Thank you for your boundless empathy and authenticity. You are truly cool. You see humanity, give grace to yourself and others, and set boundaries too. Wow. So damn healthy.

[@darlenesaldana6665]

You are the best Angie❤

[@jhoniikemp]

I literally said “that looks like Angie Martinez” then I clicked and was like DUHH lmao. Didn’t even read first

[@Truthseeker0926]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ Love this interview ❤❤❤

[@CC-kr3mr]

This was beautiful I’ve saved this video under my category called “soul food”.

[@traceylennon1204]

Love her!! 😍 I'll actually sit through an hour THIS time!!

[@lydiafischer9419]

Hi Lisa, thx again for this great talk. I am so moved and ispired by your show. I´d like to start kind of the same thing here in Germany, a talk show for anything that contributes to mental health, mindset, growth and awareness. However without a title or name there´s not much chance I get te opportunity to work with renowned people. Do you have any advice for me? Cheers Lydia

[@lilibethnieto55]

Thank you for the amazing interview... Very powerful 💕

[@iamthedaughteroftheking3704]

She is motivating

[@MisssAlexandriaJR]

You’re one of the most beautiful women ever Lisa, inside and out!! I loved this talk! I would love a lady like that on my business team- omg, this is the type of female leadership I want to see more often in the future!! Thank you both!!

[@zenlenzmedia]

What a great show, Lisa. Btw you look freaking amazing! ❤

[@muhumuzabernadette1122]

oh my gosh Lisa the point that you said that you dnt know if you would be where you are if you didn't work so hard is so true. Thankyou for being so honest ♥️

[@Millennialhome]

Angie is that girl!

[@behroozshahdaftar4209]

This is true for men as well.

[@NS-tl7gt]

I love this ! ❤️🤟All of it!

[@kristinwornum7126]

Trying to become a fan of the show Angie being on definitely makes me click. i subscribe anyway because i love impact theory

[@Fave_Gee]

An amazing episode!

[@XSLS73]

A very inspirational lady. Love her outlook on life.

[@chloestewart1902]

She such a capricorn ❤

[@realmomsdontclockout]

#4THELOVEOFFILM You ..ALREADY KNOW ..... THANK YOU NEEDED HER ON .#LONGOVERDUE 🌹

[@magzbeautiful]

I love Angie!! She is one of the most credible women!!