How To Make Him BEG For Your Attention

[@victorialester1634]

I'm so embarrassed when I look back at all the times I've chased men in the past

[@ComeIntoAlisasWorld]

Don’t be ❤️ everyone has done it. Now that you know what not to do, forgive yourself - you are your own best friend and you’d forgive a friend, right? And now you can see yourself as a high value woman, and be curious about what a man brings to the table. Let him chase you while you enjoy your life and if he’s worthy, you can see him again. And if he’s good on the time you see him, you can allow him to see you again. You choose everyday. You’ve got this, because you are an elegant lady. 😘

[@briannarios1301]

Me too.

[@depressiontohappiness2167]

Mee too.

[@linglingqi291]

same😞😞😞

[@lalalivy2854]

Same!!! I was so desperate.

[@findingdori442]

“Keep your head, heels and standards high!” - Chanel

[@learnerofsuntzu9325]

oh, but keep you standards high for yourself at he same time, otherwise it would be hypocritical., but of you keep to the same standards, that is fine and noble

[@mayamorabito1669]

I am not sure she kept her standards high when she collaborated with the Nazis.

[@sarrahm]

@@mayamorabito1669 exactly, not a role model at all, she was so hateful. And high heels don't equal femininity.

[@chirpsta4286]

Soumaya Mrabet She did?

[@chirpsta4286]

IROD: I'm not feelin' the heels, but can agree w/ the rest, lol.

[@MR-kt1vx]

She said “hard to get is a lifestyle” very proudly. Love a confident queen

[@kimberlynoriette]

I realized in that moment that she worked hard to get to that state.

[@nido.del.aguila2667]

Hahahahajajajahahahahahaha

[@roselinepeters1571]

I believe Dr Gabriel can help you and make your Ex,partner love you and care for you unconditionally with more love and dedication. He also helped me and now we're living happily💕.,.,

[@roselinepeters1571]

Whatapp him.,,

[@Spitspin3]

Imagine if men would also think like this. Society would be fucked. Its already fucked because women think like this.

[@Sugarintl]

Me in the mirror: *My dear elegant ladies*

[@babysenpai3883]

I thought only meee hahha

[@mwakampundu239]

Same lol

[@gigic.3791]

That's me while sitting on the couch, looking like a smashed potato

[@MissMaskless]

LOL I love this

[@DestinyDiamond]

Lol 😂 just subscribed to your channel. Only two months on youtube and your channel looks great! Looking forward to more content

[@kerryhorwitz4093]

My foster son came home to talk to me. He is not boastful, but told me he could have sex with every woman he met within 3 dates. Puzzled, he said he'd met this Polish girl. He really enjoyed her company, but she would not have sex with him. I had to stifle a laugh when he said, "I've tried all my moves". They are now married and she just gave birth to their first child.

[@Richjunior1]

keep on dreaming

[@prewia2396]

I am a Polish woman and it is really hard to believe that Polish girl could have that kind of awareness. Polish women are known as very desperate to get a man and get married, especially abroad. Maybe she is really beautiful and had a lot of candidates :) It is a sad true that Polish women have all western disadvantages and no eastern advantages.

[@wasloco]

Polish women tend to be desperate and quite easy to get. They probably have very low self esteem and feel rewarded by attention. I am talking about polish women's living abroad. It's quite sad. I am talking from Polish men perspective.

[@juliakirklewska8302]

@@wasloco I would disagree

[@kerryhorwitz4093]

@@prewia2396 I can't claim to know every Polish woman, but every one I have met were not in the least bit "desperate". To clarify, the young lady in question is to my eyes a beautiful girl. She is what we would once call a "natural beauty". She always looks lovely and I know my foster son is proud to have her on his arm, but she does not present herself as desperate. A girl who is troubled in this way tends to wear sexual style clothes and too much make-up. She couldn't be more different. I should also note that she has shown me great kindness. This inner quality radiates enhancing her beauty. She is by no means wears the style of a woman who thinks herself so attractive she can afford to play games. Such a woman, wherever she is from, doesn't really think well of herself at all. Her desperation for love is behind such extreme presentation and behaviour. If we meet such a woman perhaps we should try to guide her to a healthier sense of herself as a woman? As for Poland generally, I noticed in their recent celebration of Polish culture, faith and family life, a real core of security in themselves. This will impact well on all Polish people.

[@kristenpeterson3930]

My mom NEVER calls my dad at work, and does her own thing, even at the age of 77. She and my dad have been married for 47 years and are still crazy about each other.

[@unolowmanta7508]

How does she keep the passion alive

[@kristenpeterson3930]

Unolow Manta I don’t know, other than just by not really worrying about it. She has a lot of interests that she actively pursues, and he is still working, so I think they still find one another interesting. I also think they’re a good match and are intentional about being patient with one another’s foibles. One thing I will say though, I don’t think she has ever chased him. She has her own life.

[@mutiyangpilingbabae9207]

Yes! My mom doesn't call my dad at work because she doesn't want to disturb him. That's what I love about my parents they value respect.

[@roselinepeters1571]

I believe Dr Gabriel can help you and make your Ex,partner love you and care for you unconditionally with more love and dedication. He also helped me and now we're living happily💕.,.,

[@roselinepeters1571]

Whatapp him.,,

[@heliana25]

"We women play hard to get but not be hard to get" Exactly

[@femininewomanhood9167]

The real hard to get don't have to play! Lol

[@heliana25]

@@femininewomanhood9167 Quite right!

[@femininewomanhood9167]

@@heliana25 Yep we naturally know we are valuable!

[@Little_baby_99]

So true But men always get mislead by that And give up immediately

[@femininewomanhood9167]

@@Little_baby_99 i think men like to hunt. We can encourage them a little but if they don't like the test, let them go. My husband chased me for years, i wasn't trying i' m just that way.

[@HN-pe6dj]

Put yourself first and focus on building your own life. If the man you are with is for you he will work to build with you. If he is not for you he will not build a life with you. Honestly focus on building your own life. Be authentic and honest. The rest will fall in place.

[@yoursaudifriend2976]

H N yeah I think doing what you like of hobbies makes you happy, and happiness and fulfillment makes you attractive

[@akiinefaexperiencinglife]

So true

[@akiinefaexperiencinglife]

@kshiftkometh deep down they are humans,they too need affection and kindness. The society has left a lot of humans traumatized on different levels!

[@Kikyolover9]

I agree completely (definitely gotta have a healthy self love and deep Respect for yourself and never settle for anything less 💛💛💛🙏🙏🙏)

[@Shiskwbdbxcu0]

Great message

[@immaculateorganicsoaps3533]

If you ever have to chase him, STOP. He is trying to boost his ego.

[@deedeesdiscounts07]

omg you should’ve told me this 2 years ago🥲

[@gigachad8678]

@@deedeesdiscounts07 If you stopped showing interest in the guy, he would completely lose interest in you and go somewhere else, useless the guy is a total loser.

[@deedeesdiscounts07]

@@gigachad8678 omg i just saw this, and thank you so much😹. but yea, i don’t have any feelings for him anymore LOL

[@towarzyszmarcin474]

Oh i get it. Your chasing them rich guys aint ya.

[@immaculateorganicsoaps3533]

@@towarzyszmarcin474 No. The man has to be rich in spirit for me.

[@schnioula]

*Men spoiled!* *Women desperate!* Wow. So. On. Point.

[@JungkookiesOyo]

It has always been that way

[@estelleromanova3171]

I just knee for the men I want, they just have to open their pants.

[@schnioula]

Yousra Ab Strongly disagree, our parents and grandparents generations were never THIS desperate. Women were actually hard to get.

[@yoursaudifriend2976]

Yesmean my grandfather had to travel to another country to marry the woman he wanted.

[@annacorradini4203]

Ikr

[@missbubblemaker26]

A lot of men I have met are such emotional teenagers, I am tired of doing the emotional work for them. I am not their therapist. They don't know how to feel or express their emotions at all. And i really do not want to teach him all this. It is so frustrating sometimes.

[@Musicienne-DAB1995]

Men who are emotionally immature may be suffering from a lack of good male role models. However, it is also important to look at ourselves and ask whether we are handling a situation correctly or understanding the opposite gender.

[@stelapapadopoulou6285]

I can feel you. My ex was a nice person but he was socially awkward and uncultivated so he didn't have a lot of success in women until he got me. (he got me because we were childhood friends and I had feelings for him for a long time). I helped him polish himself in terms of style, culture and manners, as well as psychological support and boost of self confidence. And then, of course women started to notice him a lot more and then he cheated on me. He is my ex now and I currently think that he didn't deserve me or what I did for him. And of course I am not doing that again for any man (well except my future son).

[@crowgrl13]

There seems to be a lot of men-child around. Why would I want to raise a boyfriend? They should be adults already.

[@Musicienne-DAB1995]

@@stelapapadopoulou6285 I am sorry to hear that you suffered infidelity. However, that does not mean that what you did was wrong. Helping someone become a better person is the goal of a relationship. Refusing to do that will be calamitous to your future relationships. Yes, you had a bad experience-- but don't abandon principle because one man could not see what was in front of him. Also, you cannot raise a good son without nurturing a good husband. Men take inspiration from their wives.

[@Musicienne-DAB1995]

@@crowgrl13 They should be-- but several factors have contributed to men not growing up. One of these chiefly has been the destruction of male role models, particularly fathers and male teachers. Another has been women who demand so much of men in the name of "equality", while assuming that they should not be under any requirements to meet demands in return.

[@TheStepmonkey]

“In today’s society men have become spoiled and women have become desperate” That’s SO true!

[@ndnrb_]

Then why onlyfans

[@rohanghoshdastidar1047]

Men = spoiled ? my god . . . . .

[@andrewchatzidis3924]

I've never felt spoiled I don't know what gives u that impression

[@ndnrb_]

@@andrewchatzidis3924 lool. Most women have 20-50 guys in their DMs every year. And we’re spoiled?

[@andrewchatzidis3924]

This is all female projection

[@talktosummerofficial]

"Physically & hormonally, we are not built desperately for men." BOOM 🔥

[@cobaneazy3079]

These words and sentences.. after divorce y’all crying for money so shh

[@learnerofsuntzu9325]

not true, you need us emotionally, and physically, as well in the parenting process of bringing up a child and not just creating it

[@learnerofsuntzu9325]

@Lotus what is spinsterhood?

[@learnerofsuntzu9325]

@Lotus i looked it up, means unmarried woman, typically older in age.

[@ashsqx3246]

Some butthurt incels are definitely gonna be commenting lol

[@MaryJane-zt3pn]

I just spent 5 years with a man who never said “I love you”. You are so right that we are acting more desperate than ever. I don’t know why I settled, I feel so much shame. I’m not trying to brag, but I’m a smart, attractive woman who could have met a high quality man - but I settled for someone who could have cared less. He was cheap, cold hearted and just... there. I need your school more than ever!

[@josee-mariehowman5234]

Well done for setting yourself free and open to a better life style. As long as you’ve learned something from your past it is never wasted SO MAKE SURE YOU TURN IT AROUND …. Go girl 👏🏻💪

[@sashenkadumerve3017]

It’s ok love ❤ You going to get better ☺️

[@jojothepolyglot1866]

Hahahahaha! As a older man i learnt years ago: While she is playing hard to get, playing mind games, making you jump hoops and whatnot, she is doing the opposite for her Mr Right even sleeping with him after the first date. She breaks all the rules for him. The thing is, she keeps you waiting as a 'Just in case something goes wrong"...You are her cushion because she knows you can do anything for her... Aaaand THAT'S WHY YOUR FIRST BORN IS BORN 2 WEEKS OR A MONTH EARLIER AND IN WORST CASE SCENARIO,2 MONTHS EARLIER. It's NOT your child! Guys have you ever seen a man and his wife and the child looks nothing like the guy like ZERO? So this story of playing hard to get is just her telling you :You are NOT the one until I need you for my convenience .SIMPLE! Thank me later :)

[@satakieli13]

Maybe he just has Asperger’s?

[@towarzyszmarcin474]

Huh

[@estherpearlndu7262]

So while watching this video, I have decided that later today, I will lock myself somewhere, cry my eyes out, pick myself up, correct the mistakes I have made and get the best in life.

[@smiljanajovanovic7241]

[@AbsolutelyJamaican]

You’ve got this

[@QuadraAce]

Except statistically speaking, 99.99% of you won't.

[@viktorijabogdanaite5167]

Of course you will ❣️ it will be fine. Relax, keep your standards high and work on yourself 🥰

[@carrieduvall4579]

Yes!!! Do it!!

[@miaselah5511]

My grandma told it to me, my mother did it too. I remember I didn't have boyfriends because I was busy pursuing my university tittle and my hobby (dancer) while other girls around me would brag about how many men they had. At a point, I was wondering myself if there was something wrong with me. After some years, I'm happily married with a beautiful generous man in the inside and outside, I'm so thankful for my grandma and mother's advice. The other girls are now not doing well and jealousy consumes them when seeing a happy marriage or relationship. Anna, THANKS for telling things how they are. 💕

[@زينبالموسوي-ب4ص]

I wish you good and happy life for ever dear .

[@eileengonzalez3858]

You just gave me hope

[@richauntie316]

I wish you happiness and success 💖🙏😊

[@patriciaodila6302]

Wooow! Pure bliss! Bless your marriage

[@creatingbeauty5522]

You are also smart that you followed the advice of your grandmother and mother and didn't disregard it because of thinking they are old fashioned and don't understand how the world works these days. I sadly did the latter, and this was many years ago before things have gotten as hideous as they are now, but it was still worse than when my grandmother was in the dating game. I really think media portrayal for a few decades has gradually portrayed this image to females (we were just teens at the time these images impacted my sister and me) and caused us to think we had to look "sexy" to get a guy. The properly dressed girls were always portrayed as "goody-two-shoes" and therefore stuffy and also alone - no boyfriend, etc. Since those times, media portrayal has slid to even more disgusting levels of how to do well in this world - which, of course, is a complete lie. It's like a brainwashing of sorts because younger ladies (and young men as well) see these images and don't even consciously realize that everything they are seeing in these shows, stars, singers, etc., is making impressions that people then try to follow without even really any thoughts necessarily. It just pulls them into action to try to make themselves "match" what is portrayed because the impression is that "these people" have it made the best of everyone - or "this is how it is and should be." Even people's actions and behaviors have gradually been changed - much to the worse - by what they see on shows, and so forth. People emulate - as if what they are seeing and hearing is how they should behave, think, and act. You are very lucky, Mia, that through all of this, you found value in the advice you got and didn't fall into the trap of everything around you that would dictate the opposite. Most girls don't - and don't even have much thoughts really as to why. This is how insidious these type of impressions are on people. They don't even know it's happening to them.

[@komalgohil7433]

An egg never chases a sperm! Period.

[@postcodeox278]

Ha ha ha

[@az7726]

I love that!

[@angeljar2012]

Never thought of that 😄

[@ttephi3667]

So funny!

[@reallife6647]

True that

[@je7452]

"Becoming an emotionally strong woman." This, right there, is my new goal. Thank you Anna!

[@Ash-qm2xl]

Same lol

[@kiranjitKaur61]

The Videos are Great.

[@CanarY4live]

As I heard many times; don’t play hard to get, be hard to get. Invest in your self, do what you like and be ambitious.

[@ljshainevillan1523]

Your title always seem so superficial but the content is so deep, well-put, and it amazes me how wise you are. I'm now a hundred per cent sure those rude and insecure journalists only read the titles and haven't really watched your videos. They're definitely missing out a lot!

[@meds6761]

@Susel yes! More often than not, while being politically correct people completely fail to get their message accross.

[@MuhammadImran-ln4fz]

I like u i am alone 💑💑💑❤❤😍😍😍🌷🌷🌷🌷

[@timmyark875]

No it's rat poison

[@胡蝶しのぶ-r3f]

I'm very grateful for this channel. My mom gets mad or makes fun of me when i talk about love. My older siblings does the same. I almost lost my virginity and is planning to give it to my current boyfriend. Then i came across this channel, I burst into tears. What have i done with my life and femininity. I will be forever grateful to the universe for bringing me here. Really, thank you so much 😭

[@rinniebrown7426]

so happy for you!

[@kiranjitKaur61]

Great

[@lyrzartist]

Great way to wake up now

[@kremenamicheva1220]

Been there with the love talk. I'm ok if they laugh, I know what I deserve.

[@blueswan7655]

You’re the older sister every girl needs 💖

[@faithnatasha8710]

totally 💯💯

[@lilyinthevalley8107]

So true!

[@mariaesn]

You've changed my life during this quarentine. The "amount" of self-respect I've develloped is amazing.

[@Musicienne-DAB1995]

So have I. Good luck to you.

[@marquisedetassony1879]

I'm proud of you amazing Lady!

[@akiinefaexperiencinglife]

I am glad to have discovered her!

[@vanessapyo7331]

Where was this video when I was 18 years old? Love these tips!

[@addywalker1086]

I am 18 now and this comment made me smile. 😊

[@denisecaballero1144]

I'm thankful I found her channel when im 17😭

[@patriziabellatreccia5526]

Ditto. Young ones, listen up!!!!!!

[@nanaipachuau3409]

Same here.😭😭

[@loism1965]

Me here @ 56 years old!

[@Pathfinder_Compass]

I never understand why I used to date men who weren't suitable for me until I read "The Power of Now". That book helped me so much to understand my mind and behaviour and how to correct myself.

[@ObliviateOrchestra]

This book is a lifesaver!

[@akiinefaexperiencinglife]

Thanks for the recommendation Megs

[@victoriaumukoro116]

What is it about

[@missblu918]

That book taught me a whole lot of things that I keep wishing I read it in my early teens but no regrets and I thank my faithful friend @Sidia who brought it all the way to my house during our university summer break.

[@Pathfinder_Compass]

@@akiinefaexperiencinglife I also recommend "Think and Grow Rich" by Napoleon Hill. That book is like a holy book for success.

[@sibylline4676]

I couldn't agree more with "women being desperate"

[@Musicienne-DAB1995]

It is true, and I like how she places equal responsibility on women's behaviour as on men. I am fed up of "advice" that canonised women as hopelessly oppressed and demonized men. Both sides have responsibility.

[@miriamhavard7621]

and "men being spoiled".

[@chrystianaw8256]

@The Hilldog ok. Date your homeboys then

[@sibylline4676]

@@miriamhavard7621 yeah men are spoiled bcoz we spoiled them.

[@leonoratesoro2586]

You funny!

[@IlonaBrant]

I was juuust about to become desperate again. Thanks for keeping me in the track! 😁

[@QuadraAce]

No, you will always be desperate. Enjoy your cats. You had your chance when you were in your early 20s...

[@IlonaBrant]

@@QuadraAce You're funny but unfortunately wrong :D

[@irenecharlie667]

Me tooo😢

[@roselinepeters1571]

I believe Dr Gabriel can help you and make your Ex,partner love you and care for you unconditionally with more love and dedication. He also helped me and now we're living happily💕.,.,

[@roselinepeters1571]

Whatapp him.,,

[@bulbyfera]

All these things you said are what my mother and my entire family taught me and my siblings growing up. I thought was the template everyone in the society followed. No need to describe how utterly shocked I was that society taught the opposite. I have stuck to my traditional beliefs and I can tell you it has paid off well.

[@blancspace799]

My mother taught me the exact same thing. Now I am more than thankfull because it worked out well for me. Seems we were really lucky being raised in this mindset :)

[@Musicienne-DAB1995]

Well done!

[@amychen2504]

I wish I’d learned that.

[@victoriaumukoro116]

Nigerians😂😂

[@shachede6828]

same here lol. my mum name is ngozi also.

[@anacarmes]

I love how the title can seem so superficial but the messaging is so deep and empowering for women. That may be why people get confused, but I am so thankful for her mission, as a successful woman I can really identify with the part of being passionate with my career but still I didn't know I deserved better with men. It's been years of therapy and many other resources, and Anna's vision is very practical and to the point.

[@AS-rw9vr]

I love how when you mentioned that high calibre women have passions and that yes it can be a family and being a homemaker. That is my absolute passion in life and I have often felt because it's not a paid profession that somehow I am lesser. I am so interested in child brain development, child nutrition, science behind child and parent connections, home organisation and home budgeting as if I'm actual CEO of a huge corporation that would crumble if an expert was not hired. This is the most satisfying part of my life! I love how to make things work in my family and being successful in that. My husband always says how lucky he is. Thank you Anna for the aknowledgement!

[@babyboy-p8d]

True...

[@kgpublicationsinc]

🏆👏👏👏✨ #homemakers #Housewife

[@preranapradeep3963]

Wow. Anna here speaking about sexist stereotypes that are overlooked and TEACHING women to break them and think outside of the box. This is women empowerment. Periodt

[@LearnGermanwithMarzipanfrau]

Yes, she's a woman of class. And I love that she's sharing her tips with us.

[@draganapetric2222]

I agree :)

[@upgrade1015]

If she follows her own advice she’s single . I guarantee

[@danieladonosop]

“Hard to get is a lifestyle” will be my new motto, as it applies for everything, friendships, relationships in general, jobs, etc. It translates to my time, effort and emotions are so valuable that not anybody is worth it, you really have to earn it

[@flowerssmile]

so true 🙌🏻

[@dearmadeline]

hard to get in friendships...no.

[@PhilosophyWithLilly]

"Hard to get is an energy not games." Excellent advice, Anna. Thank you so much!

[@sabinegray1450]

Low quality men seem to think it’s women who are spoiled today. But we just know our worth. And they don’t understand competition.

[@ksysha1987]

pffff.... wouldn't even pay attention to someone calls me spoiled. "Bye Felicia!"

[@klopcodez]

The truth is what you feel is about you..the worth you feel is only important to you but it’s not really important to others..you have understand that..you may know your worth but other people see you in a Different way maybe positive or negative

[@jdb420]

Low quality men think it's women that are spoiled and low quality women think it's men that are spoiled. Low quality men don't understand competition and low quality women don't understand competition. Low quality men are desperate and low quality women are desperate. It's funny... if you're watching dating shows for women the presenter scapegoats men. If you're watching dating shows for men, the presenter scapegoats women. Maybe instead of blaming the opposite sex for our dating struggles, we should all just turn the mirror on ourselves - and recognize we don't hate the opposite sex, we love them.. that's the reason why we're on a dating channel to begin with

[@Queen-qy4qc]

@@jdb420 A lvm dusty spotted, here we see an example of a low value spoiled manlet 🤭

[@akeemhimself]

Women usually over estimate their value. High quality men have very valuable time, they need very little and over entitled women who constantly ask for more than he is able to give of his time and energy because of the status you never get the time of day

[@Begining2013]

Amal Clooney is a perfect example of a classy, educated, self-respecting lady who made George Clooney really work hard to catch her. Check out interviews he's done about the topic, he talks openly about it.

[@emmaalvarez1794]

She was also young and beautiful and rich and came from good parents and a high society.

[@gigid9606]

it didnt hurt that she had a high place in society, and political, which he really liked because he wanted someone to give him some validity in the political world

[@labornurse]

@@gigid9606 yes, he wants to follow in his dad's political footsteps

[@SuperOpasna]

Google from where her family money came. It wasn't honest and hard work.Especially her uncle. Also her family invested a lot of money in his business.

[@juliekostas7322]

such a great example/resource. She's such a class act and brought out the best in him!

[@eugeniarios]

The worst thing is to be begging attention, men are “hunters” by nature and I agree with your recommendations Anna!

[@ryalson5756]

When she says, ' is he really worth my trust, my love, my energy, my efforts..?' Me: grinning while saying NO NO NOOO lol i feel kinda proud to leave that guy

[@etherealdeal1792]

Had the same effect on me :)

[@springerlena]

Proud of you ❤️

[@lindabenedetta]

This is such an important topic for the dating climate of today’s day society! Most men these days sadly really don’t know how to handle a proper woman/lady. I always talk to older women in my family about how dating used to be and it’s astonishing how things sadly have changed. Thank you for this video and discussing this topic Anna!💕

[@ItsameAlex]

A case of female projection. Thinking because that's what turns you on when a man does it to you, is what also turns on a man. It's not. Men just want a woman to be feminine and pleasant.

[@sundes2807]

The women and their behavior has also changed in case you are wondering. Be the change you want to see and no one is perfect, you create perfection in others by working on yourself 😏

[@CrystalDatingCoach]

They don't know how to court a woman anymore.

[@sundes2807]

@@julijakeit what exactly do you mean...

[@donnaannelli4656]

That is the reason why I mentioned in my comment above that High Calibre Men are endangered rare species. The issue is not only leveling up as women, it is finding that one who would match the High Calibre Woman we have become. They do exist but they are very very rare and I think it is because men do not make as much efforts as we do to become the best versions of themselves. This is the reality.

[@NEK671]

I love when you say”my dear elegant ladies🥰”

[@SereneSarai]

☺ me too

[@sunshine-td1hr]

my grandma play hard to get after 50 years of marriage and my granddad is still mad in love with her 😂

[@dariaworld7]

S V Hey! Wow I always admire such women who manage to keep men crazy about them after long years of marriage. Could you give some examples of her behavior please ? Would be interesting to learn from her 😊 Thanks 💕

[@user-yk5xu8gr1e]

@@dariaworld7 ive seen such behaviour when the girl was clearly out of league of the guy at the time of marriage and somewhere she knows she married down. So there u have it....marry a lower level guy and he will be urs to bully....and of corse females in such cases are a bit narcissistic

[@sunshine-td1hr]

M E she likes to dress up like a lady she wears long earings always has her hair done ,she take care of her face

[@sunshine-td1hr]

dariaworld7 and I'm telling you he is still afraid that she will leave him even tho they are 70

[@ivanaguilar3132]

50 years of beta provider. Such a moron...

[@elviravriesema6636]

Yes Anna! I started dating one month before I knew I was going to study abroad. The man I was dating, said before I was going abroad: ‘I will wait for you’, I said nothing because I didn’t trust him yet. During the time I was living in another country for 5 months, he came to me two times in my holidays and he took me for travelling to all the countries around Finland (where I was studying). The best experiences of my life and I know I made the right choice dating him and making him work for it.

[@Aj-fd4ne]

Any update

[@elviravriesema6636]

@@Aj-fd4ne During the time I was there, he was busy with a renovation of a house. I came back from my study abroad and after 6 months the house was ready. We moved in there together and are still happy (I don't want to sound it like a fairytale: Of course we have discussions, but that's good for the fire between us). The best relationship advice I heard is from Teal Swan; "Fall in love what is and not what could be."

[@Daisy-ml3og]

@@elviravriesema6636 how’s it going? How did you meet him?

[@beanything7381]

@@elviravriesema6636 How is it? That’s beautiful

[@QuadraAce]

But what do you offer him? Besides sex?

[@Aikyiomi]

The most IMPORTANT thing which shld be mentioned: self love. Self respect. Self acceptance. If you are not in love with yourself, you can’t make others fall in love with you.

[@Farr50]

sooooooo, the message would be "I'm so in love with myself that I have to make a man BEG for my attention. I'm in love with myself, but need his attention, so I have to watch videos to find out how to get it". Sounds like a nice way to get away with having a good label but still be dead inside

[@kgpublicationsinc]

Indeed. And if you cannot love yourself, then you cannot adequately love another for whom and what they are. One definitely has to, both, know and love their multitude of public personas as well as their variegated shadow selves, in their entirety. … Self-love is key!✨

[@cashisqueen3825]

“Skip dressing for other women.” Thank you!!

[@oscarwilliamson1264]

Cash is Queen,You look stunning ❤

[@sheknowswatches6506]

“little miss desperado” 🤣 love that

[@TheProjectBoss]

I really love her!! 😂😂😂💯

[@tukahamadah8547]

What does she mean by miss desperado please?

[@cassandrathomas9220]

Means desperate

[@nehapremjee6235]

Anna, I'm in LOVE with how deep you go in your content and videos. Rather than simply saying things like "ignore his text/reply 6 hours later", "dress for your sexy body" and "rack up options", like other KZbin influencers suggest, you take it to another level, making us address inner Ms. Desperado and how social stereotypes about women in relationships play a role in activating her. Your videos put so much into perspective just in terms of healing and addressing that core inner pattern of being emotionally needy, which is how lasting change is actually created. I love it. Your vibe, your thoughts. You are just such an incredible woman - physically and mentally/emotionally sophisticated to another level. :)

[@suewaterhouse3387]

I saw it all start when in the 60's, 70's fashion magazines told woman it was okay to sleep with men without commitment. Feminity is respectful. It attracts men. You are right. Women have lost respect in themselves causing the desperate behavior.

[@thatcoffeefeel8]

Then it's not okay for men to sleep with women without commitment either. Also not everyone wants long term commitment..sometimes women want fun just like men do, though they should learn restraint if they want long term relations (not because i would respect them less if they don't but because men tend to take them for granted).

[@klopcodez]

that coffee feel restrain from what??

[@ah5721]

You are spot on ! When I worked on myself with therapy and by filling my emotional needs with love and attention from my girlfriends who really cared about me I didn't attract crummy men to me. I got selective with the men I let into my life and how they treated me and now I have been married for 8 years to a good provider and he's a good father to our children. He supports me in my dreams and is there for me.

[@dominique4359]

Where did you two meet?

[@towarzyszmarcin474]

A "provider". Doesnt sound like he's much to you.

[@hannahlashbrook5419]

I love how you talk about focusing on something in life, whether that’s being a mom, a job, or a passion. It’s easy to forget our intellectual worth and to take pride in doing or learning about the things we love.

[@simonaca468]

A book -“women who love too much” can be a life saver.

[@bethe192]

A CLASSIC. and it's not only applicable to romantic love.. Please. Read. This. I read it over 20 yrs ago..and in many ways, it's still so relevant. 💖💚😊👋

[@Skaniathespartan]

I have that book. Haven't read it. Now that you say it, I'm jump on it😂😂🤣

[@bethe192]

@@wilted_rose510 It provides guidance to women who compromise themselves for others too much, hang on to " toxic" relationships, etc. Just helps you rethink your self worth, and guides you on how to let go of the bad stuff/ habits/patterns. I remember it being helpful even for my relationships with parents, fam, etc. Hope you can pick it up. As I did, you may see yourself in so many of the author's scenarios, it's very eye opening... Good luck to you! 😊👋

[@bethe192]

@niki nina check ebay or amazon, good luck! xo🇺🇸👋

[@lifeisbeautiful9455]

I remember that book when I was a kid when my mother was in an abusive relationship that tried so hard to get out of until it took her life in 95. These men don’t care about the cops if they don’t want anyone to have you.

[@lovemango5826]

Anna, do you know how much you inspire me everyday? I started to study again and chase my goals after I watched your videos. It made me realise that I need to put in effort and work the right way , because these little tweaks are going to get me where I want to be. I've started to dress a little more elegantly than a *Typical* teenager and I am loving and energized by so much of my self learning because of you. More power to you Anna . You are a role model to me.

[@Navigating_Modesty]

Rimarmy Bts you go girl!!💕

[@Navigating_Modesty]

Rimarmy Bts you go girl!!💕

[@victoria_victoria111]

You go girl ❤️

[@ideclarebankruptcy9077]

Same I’m a teenager as well and she is teaching me so many things 💓💓

[@availanila]

Good for you

[@elisemedelez4422]

Anna, I really needed this video. As a woman in her early/mid 20s, I feel a lot of pressure from friends, family, etc. to date around or have a boyfriend. I've never been one to pursue relationships. I've always been happy to focus on my self-growth and my career goals, figuring that someday there would be someone special that would catch my eye. But recently, I made an online dating profile because I thought maybe my friends were right and that I wanted to meet someone. But I absolutely hate online dating. I realize now that I made the profile not because I want to have a boyfriend. I am not desperate for love. Rather I'm desperate to show other people that a man loves me so everyone will get off my back and not look at me like I'm lonely and not willing to put myself out there.

[@Gedankenful]

Dont get a bf out of pressure. I did that and totally regretted it. Let it be organic please.🧡

[@lisarojas9]

Focus on money. Money always trumps men. Most men are garbage

[@sarahroberts7374]

*She's cultivated, she is particular, she's intruiging, she sets boundaries, she knows her worth* Ladies, what words to live by. Poetic almost, and such valuable characteristics. Almost reminds me of the song "She's always a woman to me"

[@cynthiaallen9225]

I never chase men and I've never stopped educating myself. One's personal growth is the most important thing in life. It takes a lot to become and remain emotionally strong and you have to be committed to it for life.

[@tia3521]

This is very true, I refuse to chase men or entertain time wasters. Self love is paramount and working on establishing healthy boundaries. I wish I'd known this when I was younger but knowledge of self through being happy single helps. Great info! Thankyou. 🙂

[@phillytheflyerable]

have a great time being alone

[@tia3521]

@@phillytheflyerable ... Lol...far from it I'm engaged and happy but ok...Troll.

[@phillytheflyerable]

@@tia3521 then wtf are you talking about?

[@tia3521]

@@phillytheflyerable I was single but now I am not. I still practice self love, and healthy boundaries and was recently engaged.

[@QuadraAce]

Keep that self love (rubbing) going you girl! Gz

[@redroselace9545]

Absolutely men are so shocked when we dont chase or be hard to get. They so used to being chased by women left and right its pathetic and so these men enter their into their feminine.

[@ItsameAlex]

A case of female projection. You are turned on when a man ignores you, so you believe this is also what turns on a man. It's not. Men just want a woman to be feminine and pleasant.

[@hz8393]

Women who like those type of men or women who are into mind games are often vulnerable and have grown up without a proper male role model in their life so thats explains the toxic trait to being attracted by getting rekesten. They are like i must prove i am worth it etc so its never ending

[@monicadrew4701]

yes, it is very pathetic!

[@akiinefaexperiencinglife]

Nobody should chase anyone!

[@leeslyrose]

Nefa LA Reina well, biologically, the sperm chases the egg. If the man is interested, he will chase, but don’t give in fully.

[@annamp3645]

This colour compliments your eyes so much!

[@sofiaguerrero0969]

I swear if you ever decide you want a child and it turns out to be a girl, you’re going to raise Grace Kelly 2.0

[@kurkosiaa]

Grace Kelly ended up rather unhappy

[@vblackwell3347]

@@kurkosiaa Yes and she actually had a "racy" life, especially for that generation.

[@adenise__122]

as if that was a good thing...

[@lisarojas9]

That poor child. Grace was Hollywood trash.

[@ssteph85]

Emotional Desperation is a real problem out there, get into your passion project!

[@ClaireHaire]

In all honesty when I was single and to this day my biggest asset is not my long legs(I’m 5’10”) but, my words. I’ve made men fall in love with me without even touching them. Men love mystery, a lil bit of sass, intelligence & dressing feminine. I’ve been proposed to twice and bc so many women have let men get away w/doing the bare minimum, my demands make me different & unforgettable.

[@rc198028]

But yet you are watching videos like this 😂

[@yve4889]

Can you elaborate a little bit😅 would love to take some notes.

[@moeneebahendricks7736]

Share the words

[@heriport6654]

Cringe

[@stef3927]

@@heriport6654 Lol ur a boy watching this😭

[@stopcheatingconsumers9779]

I love this lady. I'm a college degree holder currently finishing up grad school with years of corporate job experience working on teams under my belt. HOWEVER, as a high-caliber woman, sometimes you still need another smart, direct, elevated, and honest woman's experience and objectiveness in this department. I'm here for it. It's refreshing.

[@eb360]

Absolutely agree with “hard to get.” If I could give one piece of dating advice to other women it would be that the biggest, most effective action you can take is INACTION!!! It feels counterproductive but **sit on your hands**, let him earn it, stop double-texting, have a life, have a full schedule, and I love that you said to transmit the energy!👏🏽

[@maerap944]

Sex and the city isn't a valid guide on how to "correctly" date. This is.

[@thehuntress8850]

I agree !!!!! Sex in the city was one of the most absurd shows that I have ever watched. It was even more absurd than most slapstick comedy's :-D

[@Linda-dc7rl]

it was never supposed to be a 'valid guide' Carries disastrous dating track record showed us this. You missed the point completely if you were watching Sex and the city as a guide for dating lol

[@anaddyaa4864]

@@Linda-dc7rl exactly!! whoever said it was a guide?? It is a very realistic portrayal of hectic dating lives and it takes Carrie precious years of her life to understand the mistakes and get her deserved respect from her partner. In the after movie, there is a scene where it shows how they all arrived to New York, when they met. They were so young (Samantha was a bartender, compared to a succesful international PR agent finally) and inexperienced and they grew and learnt from their mistakes. I also believe there are women who do not want this in life and it is absolutely perfect. Samantha did not align with a traditional married life so the advice from the video would not mean anything for her. Ladies need to filter what they see on tv and online through what THEY need in their life. You can't take a series as guide like that, it is absurd, as well as tarnishing the series for being something else. Comparing apples and melons here....

[@Linda-dc7rl]

Anaddya A Wish I could like this a 1000 times! So spot on!! Thank you for adding

[@atomicplaygirl66]

💯

[@janiemundahl9227]

I just watched the Good Morning show interview, they basically tried to shame and attack you. I love how you held your ground with the truth. I think people are very uncomfortable with themselves or jealous of others willing to make the effort to get to the next level, and it is much easier to attempt to shame or outright tear down others instead of building themselves up. Keep up with your work, those of us who wish to be classier have always held these beliefs and are happy to hear them openly discussed. Thank you for broadening our perspectives.

[@missbubblemaker26]

"little miss desparado" haha I will use this to check myself...thanks Anna! you are funny

[@rwankyo3]

Me too 😭

[@VictoriaHatzson]

After my breakup was when I really started dressing for myself. I truly feel like I've reached the level of 100% dressing for myself, enjoying my style, feeling feminine, confident and empowered by what I wear, it has honestly changed my life, my mood and the way I see myself. Thank you for coming back with such a good video!

[@cshah1416]

ameen

[@FathimaMuhsina]

11:11 🤯Slow claps👏🏻 for making that mind-blowing point. You’re so right! Women these days dress for other women, and not for the men in their life. You’re so wise, Anna! And yes! I joined your free masterclass! I’ve loved all of your content for a long time, I’m sure this’ll be amazing too.

[@priscillafagundes6994]

Wow, Anna! I`m impressed with the high-quality level of this video! When you mentioned about exercising, investing in yourself, doing therapy, being in tune with your own self, needs and spirituality (you haven`t said in those exact words, but I felt like this fit well on your speech), having friends and a life apart from the man, that`s when we truly become emotionally strong and attractive. That`s when we choose someone and choose to let this someone go if he isn`t good enough. Therapy helps to understand what are boundaries in the first place (many ladies doesn`t even know themselves that deep), and therapy improves ourselves and helps in how to identify, but ultimately how to keep those boundaries sharp and in place. Relationships and dating life are a big part of an individual, so I really get excited when you talk about these subjects from a feminine, elegant perspective. Thank you for this video!

[@ItsameAlex]

A case of female projection. You are turned on when a man ignores you, so you believe this is what also turns on a man. It's not. Men just want a woman to be feminine and pleasant.

[@RimantePak]

I like that there is no background music, just your voice! ❤

[@chirpsta4286]

OMGSH, background music is soo annoying. Great comment!

[@Farr50]

I'd rather watch with the volume turned down

[@angelsandocean2853]

Absolutely!!!

[@Marillia20]

My dear elegant Anna! You make the difference between the influencers and those who inspire the others! You inspire us to become the elegant version of ourselves to think and listen to ourselves before we act.

[@swissrey]

Dear Anna, 🙋🏻‍♀️ please take us shopping once more this summer ! Because the shopping in ZARA was so cool and fun ☺👍🏽

[@swissrey]

@Wahrheit Siegt I dont think Switzerland or Sweden are Mask on request !

[@Emma-yl4re]

Maybe an online guide? If that is possible in any way 😅

[@swissrey]

@@Emma-yl4re Why on line? As I know, where Anna lives is even not locked down. They just go shopping as usual.

[@gnd333]

This is the motherly advice I always needed

[@oscarwilliamson1264]

Tristan Trieber, you're right

[@17thUnicorn]

Yes!

[@andrewchatzidis3924]

Ha except that it will lead u nowhere

[@destinixshakur]

Fr

[@wendy8561]

After living with narcissist , self worth is everything thank you Anna for this !!

[@sizzaaa7394]

it is such a shame that society labels women as “whores” when they try to get a well educated and wealthy husband and also call her names when she’s single. anna is a confident woman who believes in what she says and represents us. i believe that this misconception will be over in the future we must keep fighting sisters

[@returntonature9861]

Society wants us to be desperate and take anyone who approaches us. Low quality men (incels) feel entitled, not understanding women are people who deserve respect too. Not many people want users, drug addicts, irresponsible, unstable partners in their lives.

[@GoddessBlessYou]

@mm I agree that women need to be high quality in order to attract high quality, but honestly, is that all you see a woman as--a used vagina? If so, good luck attracting a high quality woman.

[@jenniferharris7633]

OMG, hilarious. "Men have become spoiled and women have become desperate." BINGO, you nailed it perfectly.

[@andrewchatzidis3924]

What makes me spoiled I wasn't raised spoiled and I don't expect to be spoiled by a female partner ur just pulling this out of thin air

[@suzanabarabas4615]

@@andrewchatzidis3924 just because you might be an exceptional, doesn't mean the wast majority of men aren't not spoiled. Congrats on your mom for raising you well, however she forgot to mention to not engage in discussions with trying to prove you are smarter and right. I personally have met a lot of males and some where nicely raised with respect and all that, and I have met spoiled men as well, and yes most of them are spoiled one way or another. So dear Andrew you are one example (maybe) but that doesn't mean the statement is valid. And we are dating men so we know how they behave. Or are you also dating men?

[@suzanabarabas4615]

I like how she said: " little miss Desperado" 😂😂😂😂 hilarious but true. But not since last year for me 😎

[@andrewchatzidis3924]

I choose to be the way I am my mother doesn't turn me into anything my mother raised me to sacrifice and please women but I know that's garbage so I choose a different path

[@andrewchatzidis3924]

Ur not going to attract the kind of guy u want following the nonsense on this channel just saying

[@kingslayer8181]

When she said women mainly dress for other women I had to pause and take a step back and reanalyze my whole fashion life to realize that she was right! Every time I've changed my outfit at the last minute it was always out of fear of what the other women there might think! My mind is blown!

[@dibra2497]

For a 35 and single it’s honestly really hard to practice patience and that “taking my time”. The social pressure, the idea of my egg getting expired, to be very honest it’s hard. Your channel has been very inspiring and helping in my journey to become best version of myself. I wish I had found you earlier 💕

[@SteffiNovaASMR_Replays]

dhanny I’m in the same situation. It’s not easy.

[@E78-n1e]

It's a hard spot to be on, but know your worth; it's an investment in your life. You are worth the best and can't settle for less.

[@returntonature9861]

I'm a year behind you, but after a traumatic relationship I've decided I will take my time. You're literally entrusting your life, safety, finances, everything to another person. Vet that person carefully, you deserve to be treated well ❤

[@rawadsheikh476]

Dear look at Jennifer lop6shd had two healthy children at the age of 47 🙂dont worry God will send the right one that deserve your love and heart at the Right Time 😊💗

[@allbymyself4927]

This is a topic I would appreciate Anna speaks on. These things are real and reality for some ladies. What’s the way forward?

[@diannellynpino9562]

If only someone taught me how to give importance of myself way back before .. maybe I had a wonderful life right now . I just wasted my beauty. And yes I become desperate to chase the men I fell inlove with. Instead of them chasing me . 😢

[@thankyou.5932]

It's never too late to have the best for yourself. Just follow her beautiful and powerful advice

[@Musicienne-DAB1995]

We have all been there. Change is never too late.

[@diannellynpino9562]

Safiya Iyeh thanks ladies .. yes I guess I will start to love myself more in order to be elegant and more on self confidence .

[@SSNUTHIN]

you are currently beautiful! I think if you learn from what you have experienced and it has made you a better person, you can only become more beautiful. I hope you are able to see your beauty more consistently, I know sometimes on bad days our eyes lie to us.

[@nebiyatdagne9258]

Dianne Llyn Pino ss

[@rmb9210]

Her blouse is just bliss love it !💙

[@cx620]

Hi Anna, after watching several videos of yours I took a lot of things into account. When I did my grocery shopping at the weekend, I followed one of your fashion/style videos, your makeup tutorial and also your hair tutorial. I felt amazing , I had endless confidence compared to when I dress like a plain Jane or don’t look my best. Generally when I do my grocery shopping I just wear leggings and a hoodie with my hair styled any old way. At times staff in the store will give me unpleasant looks as if I was some sort of criminal. However when I made the effort the way I used to, every ones attitudes were so different. I had women stop and compliment me on my hair and my outfit as a whole (social distanced of course) , I had people greeting me and saying hello or good afternoon, I even had one gentleman let me in front of him in the queue to enter the store. There were some boys smiling at me, so politely I smiled back and they said have a good day miss, bare in mind these boys were what are considered “chavs” or “common”. I just think it’s amazing how the way you present yourself can totally change people’s attitudes toward you. Thank you so much Anna ❤️

[@thatcoffeefeel8]

Performing feminity always rewards , i think we established that thousands of years ago.

[@etherealdeal1792]

Always true. Wearing makeup and having hair done always gets remarkably better treatment

[@cx620]

eTheReal Deal so true, I was so shocked at the boys though as they were dressed in tracksuits and were the sort of people I would usually avoid but they were really polite, usually greeting somebody like that where I’m from is very uncommon so it was really lovely to see.

[@cx620]

that coffee feel definitely :)

[@cx620]

k I’m from the United Kingdom ❤️

[@lydiaboswell9789]

I really appreciate the message you share in this video. It is so true! My grandmother once said to me, "only give yourself to the man who loves you, who adores you and vice-versa". And I thought it was sort of cliché until I heard a doctor explain that during intimacy women experience a secretion of oxytocin ("love hormone") that usually results in women becoming more emotionally bonded with her partner. However, for men, it is different...during intimacy men experience a secretion of dopamine which is all about pleasure but does not necessarily lead to emotional attachment. We must focus first on releasing oxytocin, I mean bond with him through other experiences. Understanding how men and women are biologically wired differently can help in so many ways. I felt relieved and more self-confident because I understand why being selective is so important. Thank you!

[@aceyshari]

Thanks for sharing this. Makes so much sense.

[@esem5347]

@@aceyshari men release Vasopressin which is the equivalent of oxytocin. Men have strong oxytocin receptors too so this evolutionary theory has been debunked in 2003

[@SemekiIzuio]

Yup I was introduced in this biological subject through a Ted Talk lol but basically sex for women will deeply make them fall in love meanwhile for men yes its feels good for them but it also depletes them from attachment. And as you say, the act of a sex isnt what makes them fall in love but the other experiences. Honestly though try not to have sex with the same partner time and time again, let it build. Dont withhold sex but like imo the more time it's done often it depreciates the value of it and what it means. We are talking about mature adults here not horny teenagers xD just bte

[@akerwin4708]

This woman will never be desperate. I resent people who think because we are single that we are desperate. I’m Personally creating a fabulous life on my own. Too many men are just not up to par, sadly. Thank you Anna for helping many of us who need guidance on how to stay on a great path.

[@kantudhanmeher5950]

Please could you make a video on " how to talk/rules while talking to him on chats"

[@schnioula]

Start off by saying you‘re not into texting. You are into real, personal conversations. Otherwise you’re just one of many he will be texting when he is bored. Society today is flirting, dating online, but this means people always chat and flirt with SEVERAL people. Be the exception - don’t be available online. You want a real relationship? Act like it! Keep your texts short and cute. No emotions, no emojis - but be extra cute when meet in person! 😏 You‘re welcome! 😘

[@schnioula]

Same with talking on the phone! You don’t want a chat buddy, you want a partner by your side! Remember this!

[@asmaelkasimi6546]

Yes pleaase

[@sharifaismaila5009]

Yesmean thank you!!!

[@patriciaodila6302]

Yesmean well said!

[@maureena6572]

If i ever have daughters, I would love to enroll them in a kids version of a finishing school, and introduce them to Anna's videos. I definitely agree that men are spoiled, and women have become a little desperate. Anna, you have great content! Keep it up!

[@Lil-Be]

I agree! It would be great if Anna starts making videos for little ladies too. The education should start as early as possible 🥰

[@Rose-xi8bs]

It would be great. I have an 11 year old daughter and while she insists in dressing like a tomboy sometimes, she still appreciates dressy clothing because I try to dress that way. So kids learn thorough example.

[@mollieclaire3108]

I was enrolled in a debs program during high school. Our advising staff were attached to the local symphony orchestra, and created a large component of our program on fine arts appreciation. Etiquette courses were mandatory due to the nature of the formal activities we attended. I've yet to find an identical program where I live now, but Cotillion is very similar.

[@silviadiaz1248]

My mom always wanted me to go to an etiquete school, but we are immigrants so that was not someyjing in the small budget. Here i am in my 30s, will probably not go any time soon because i have an infant, but boy do i now wish o had gone well before my 30s. A child etiquette school is a great idea

[@mellowstone1513]

Love how this color suits you! Your eyes and your hair pops. Just perfect!

[@ninadiss6380]

Omg, I love you too much can you plz do something like an etiquette series , like how to act elegantly in specific situations that would be soo helpful as a 19 yo who’s trying to upgrade

[@ranyabelatik7767]

this color i doing everything in your complexion

[@jiul4907]

Yes! Solid colors look best on light skin and also that delicate shine of the material is great!

[@ItsameAlex]

A case of female projection. Thinking because that's what turns you on when a man does it to you, is what also turns on a man. It's not. Men just want a woman to be feminine and pleasant.

[@luckam6848]

@@jiul4907 not really, clear colors work best for cool skin tones, pinkish. It does not have to do with skin lightness , and warm skin tones do best with opposite :)))

[@leenoubari865]

Lucka M according to color theory that I’ve been researching for a while now if you’re hair color and skin complexion contrast bold/clear colors suit you best. Warm complexions look good with warm colors, cool complexions look good with cool colors.

[@sweettagada22]

tough cookie I thought the same!

[@msjennable]

Completely eloquent, completely feminine, strong, secure, spoken with good diction and conviction and clarity... Just discovered you and I absolutely love it, this is how I was brought up... And it's wonderful to get a refresher course!

[@SandrineAnterrion]

“Hard to get is a Lifestyle.” Yaasssss!

[@MaynightMemory]

Thank you for this fantastic video Anna! I really couldn't agree more. What is it worth to wait 30 mins to reply to a text when you still don't take your own boundaries seriously? What is it worth to pretend you have a life if he - instantly after he started dating you - notices, that you're not doing anything all day and it was just a show. You are so spot-on about women dating out of desperation and impatience. I had been single for 7 years, refusing to date someone who wasn't a good match for me. 7 years, all throughout my 20s, while my friends were getting engaged, married, started having kids while I was still single even though I wanted all of that as well. It was tough and it was scary and it got even scarier as I started approaching 30. But I stayed patient and did not give up my standards and boundaries. And BAM! - there he was. And there he still is to this very day

[@Musicienne-DAB1995]

I am SO happy I read this, because I am 25 and single. Using your example as an inspiration!!!

[@aymena6029]

finally some one says its ok to wait and its ok to be single, strong and happy. Anna I'm glad you shared all these things. I see so many people jumping into relationships looking down upon the people who are single or unmarried. I really really like your thoughts and concepts. And to tell you honestly, as muslim women, we have the same concepts taught by the religion, that often the world confuses with being suppressed or backward.

[@evangeliamintzai6302]

👏👏👏 I couldn't agree more with you Anna. Especially the part about being emotionally desperate and validating yourself through a man. We need to work with ourselves and realize that we value, we are good enough for being us! Not for the man who is next to us.

[@oscarwilliamson1264]

Evangelia Mintzai, I love your pretty smile ☺ ❤,I must admit

[@sweettagada22]

My number one passion is nature. I study geology and biology, I love discover new ecosystem, species.. but I also love running, sewing, cats and water sports.

[@karaokay5444]

“There isn’t just one formula of appearance that men want, men really like all kinds of women” I feel much more confident after hearing this. Thank you!

[@thehuntress8850]

Thank you Anna. I have held many of these value's myself, and I have faced so much criticism from some of my friends, coworkers and even a few family members fro being " too picky" yet I have noticed that none of these people are in happy relationships. I have seen less attractive women than me get decent or even good quality men. It is validating to see someone online who shares these same value's. I will be kind and help these people out from time to time, but the more I work on myself, the less I want to be around these negative people. I am becoming happier and happier in my own skin, which ironically enough, seems to be attracting better men into my life all by itself.

[@SpiritHawk]

A boyfriend in my teens told me something that stuck with me and has allowed me to demand respect in my relationships. It was a great gift that I thank him for it to this day. He said, “You’re the kind of woman any man could love.” I want every woman out there to take care of themselves and feel that power within themselves. It’s about being kind, elegant, and full of self-respect. You attract the kind of partner based on the energy you put out. You do not need to be perfect, beautiful, super skinny, ECT. Do what Anna says and learn to feel the divine feminine in you. The world needs it! Focus on developing yourself and having a positive vibrant energy, and people, not just men, will be attracted to you. All the best for a joyful, elegant life, with or without a man.

[@ghristophermyers666]

@mm Beta doesn't exist

[@autumncullen7599]

Someone in the comments wrote: ty for no background music. Yes! Thank you!

[@graceshaw9257]

Hard to get. I work so much, when I get home, I'm beat. I need to put my feet up and relax first. I don't need my cell phone next to me. I need my peace and quiet. And not only for one hour. I spend a day off just taking care of myself. And that cost me a fortune. I didn't care. It felt so good. I got so many compliments.

[@ItsameAlex]

A case of female projection. You are turned on when a man ignores you, so you believe this is what also turns on a man. It's not. Men just want a woman to be feminine and pleasant.

[@graceshaw9257]

Interesting

[@stelapapadopoulou6285]

Dear Anna, your advice is always inspiring, and always in favor of women. I love that, and I think you are a smart and true feminist. You have set an example for me, to improve myself and be the better version of myself. For me, you are one of the most inspiring and intelligent women and I admire you and your work. Thank you for this video!

[@juliekostas7322]

1000% spot on with all of these key points! This is a must-watch for every lady. These timeless lessons can never be over-emphasized. So well done, dear Ana.