A good therapist is NOT suppose to agree with everything you think or feel
@natalieanimal40633 ай бұрын
Yes! The point of seeing a therapist is to solve a problem we have, not to convince ourselves it isn't a problem.
@miloszruczynski12303 ай бұрын
I want to address Your comment so I'd like to know Your comment's pronouns. Respectfully Yours/Xers/Xerxes/Xerox
@deyc37603 ай бұрын
@@miloszruczynski1230 That's the thing. Busy adults don't have time to bother making up their Pronouns. Real life has real problems, like homeless,inflation, housing crisis, middle class disappearing, people not being able to retire Find a hobby or a life...😢
@junior.von.claire3 ай бұрын
@@miloszruczynski1230lol Xerxes, Xerox? 👏🏻
@miloszruczynski12303 ай бұрын
@@deyc3760 BIGOT! :D
@MsEldorado3 ай бұрын
Wait. Perfectionism is white supremacy culture?! As an Asian, I'm offended 🤣🤣🤣
@muddyhotdog41033 ай бұрын
Ya that was a weird thing to say. I don't even know how you even substantiate such a claim. But these same people claim Asians are honorary whites when it fits their narrative🤷
@muddyhotdog41033 ай бұрын
Ya that's just weird to say. But hey according to these people Asians are honorary whites soo 🤷
@malumachado45613 ай бұрын
"Perfectionism", "sense of urgency" *Japan and the entire bonsai tree culture* am I a joke to you? 😢😅
@MsEldorado3 ай бұрын
@@malumachado4561 yep, I'm Japanese, so I feel like a joke right now, lol
@bonniekellyromeo90733 ай бұрын
Best comment here!!!
@Thelittlenacho3 ай бұрын
My dogs pronouns are feed/me.
@BlueSmokie3 ай бұрын
It's not feed/pet?
@EVERYGOODNAMEISTAKEN3 ай бұрын
Lol
@GuyWhoLivesOnYT3 ай бұрын
@@BlueSmokie I don’t think pets would think of themselves as pets
@BocajNialCam84543 ай бұрын
My cats are food/litter boxes/treats
@babycabbit3 ай бұрын
best comment
@bboo883 ай бұрын
Saying that perfection is not necessary at NASA is absolutely mental
@bobsmiththesecond83743 ай бұрын
IKR?
@KayWhatnow2 ай бұрын
💯
@JosephKelly-uj1zo2 ай бұрын
Even garbage collection. Anything. Why not do it correctly and avoid 800 problems later?
@alyzak.89973 ай бұрын
As a citizen of a third world country (Pakistan), I often think to myself that some of ya'll abuse your freedom and since you don't have any real problems, you create them. The first man was just baffling.
@svetlanaandrasova60863 ай бұрын
This!!! Thank you!!!!!
@beccbiagioni14213 ай бұрын
I often wonder what would become of all of these woke people, with the very made up problems of what pronouns to use for their goldfish, suddenly found themselves in Afganistan or Ukraine, or some other embattled country.
@omearak2 ай бұрын
I agree with you completely
@sebastianmosqueda59592 ай бұрын
As a citizen of a first-world country (America), I've come to realize that the more I learn about other countries, the more I understand that a lot of the things people argue about here are very trivial compared to what others have to go through on a daily basis. My friend lives in a country that is being bombed on a day-to-day basis, and we are here debating what gender is. It's embarrassing.
@omearak2 ай бұрын
@@sebastianmosqueda5959 I completely agree with you. My heart goes out to your friend.
@patchsmum3 ай бұрын
I went to therapy for 4-5 years due to anxiety depression and an ED. If my therapist affirmed everything I said or never challenged me- then what the hell was i paying for?? My therapist was lovely but she told me when i was in the wrong. She saved me because of it.
@jackcroce97572 ай бұрын
Exactly! I pay my therapist to tell me when I’m doing something harmful to myself and need to change! Ridiculous!
@JustAri943 ай бұрын
As a former therapist I do not believe in blind affirmation or encouraging delusional behavior .. I’m so tired of these so called therapists giving the clinical field a bad rep.. people already thought we were a joke smh
@laattardo3 ай бұрын
I've yet to see a major in Folx therapy. My BFF is getting her masters in psychology and she hasn't seen a masters for it either😂
@gretatagliavia42283 ай бұрын
You are so right, it is really sad. Because there are more really good therapists that help people than there are bad. But this type of insanity prevents people who really need the help from getting it because they assume all therapists are as ridiculous as the FOLX therapist shown here!!!!!
@littlefox76943 ай бұрын
In my country licensed therapists aren't allowed to encourage or discourage any behaviour. In fact, they can't express their opinions to patients at all. All they do is ask questions.
@moo91413 ай бұрын
They really have made a joke out of therapy. I’d be terrified to trust anyone getting in my kids heads with these wackos around.
@candacekyle2823 ай бұрын
In Canada they are forced to, or risk losing their license to practice . That's all health professionals.
@taten-jinmu7183 ай бұрын
MLK jr is rolling in his grave at this crap. That man fought so hard to end segregation only for people to want to bring it back with interest 60 years later...
@thatguyd35163 ай бұрын
Hold up, let them cook
@GothLady198724 күн бұрын
That's exactly what I thought. I'm white and I think what that guy said is an absolute slap in the face to those who fought in the Civil Rights Movement. Probably his grandparents.
@Zaane12913 ай бұрын
Folx therapist, Faux therapist. Same thing.
@EVERYGOODNAMEISTAKEN3 ай бұрын
Fr
@46sn293 ай бұрын
Just remember, these people are voters. 😒
@junior.von.claire3 ай бұрын
I understand the concept of Folx, considering how well Latinx went over 😅
@sarahjustice12823 ай бұрын
@@junior.von.clairenew rule - I’m giving Gen X authority over their own letter. You wanna make a new word with X you have to file a permit with them.
@ullscarf3 ай бұрын
It's satire. Surely.
@txsoutherngoth3 ай бұрын
i’m a behavioral therapist. i would never judge my clients. however, i refuse to reinforce their negative behaviors. that’d be dishonorable of myself, as i wouldn’t be furthering their success.
@mrh3002Ай бұрын
we absolutely need more people like you in this field. thank you for what you do.
@txsoutherngothАй бұрын
@@mrh3002 that’s very kind. thank you🖤
@lylamentumlet3 ай бұрын
i have bipolar and ocd and if my therapist reaffirmed all my bad decisions i’d be gone lmao just because your therapist doesn’t agree with everything you do, it doesn’t mean they’re not showing support!!!!!
@celestialstardust233 ай бұрын
PREACH it louder for the people in the back
@bricksbydave.3 ай бұрын
Yes! If my therapist had reaffirmed all of my bad thoughts about myself I don't know how I would have got to the better version of myself that I am today. The whole point of therapy is to work through YOUR issues and learn to evolve, not to surrender to your delusions. 🙄
@illyGalSloth3 ай бұрын
Sometimes, support means helping someone stop their destructive behaviors. I hope you're getting the support you really need ❤️
@lylamentumlet3 ай бұрын
@@illyGalSloth yes, 100%!!! if someone really cares about your progress and wellbeing, they’ll tell you you’re on a destructive path. and :,) thank you so much for your kind words 💛 have an amazing day
@lylamentumlet3 ай бұрын
@@bricksbydave. yes, exactly!!!! that’s what support from a GOOD therapist should be like. glad to hear you’ve become a better version of yourself 💕
@nicholasm.39193 ай бұрын
Male and female are not religious ideas. They are reality based facts. 3:33
@GothLady198724 күн бұрын
It's called biology and it doesn't change based on feelings. These people...???
@melaniegrace77073 ай бұрын
Funny story I actually misgendered my pet lizard, because I gave her the name Goku before she was old enough to determine gender. Now that I know I just call her Girlku 😂
@Yugi_Twins_Lover3 ай бұрын
Lmao
@lagarde20113 ай бұрын
Did she off herself?
@markee0633 ай бұрын
Lol
@Yugi_Twins_Lover3 ай бұрын
@@melaniegrace7707 hopefully my pet Gohan doesn't identify as girlhan
@bloodlove933 ай бұрын
dead naming a loss d? lmao had to
@walle56673 ай бұрын
In German we say: There are no herbs against stupidity. Meaning nature gave us herbs to fight illnesses, but nothing to fight stupidity.
@serpinsmotoserpinsmoto17313 ай бұрын
i can think of one particular herb to fight stupidity. eheheh well said
@kirahill66772 ай бұрын
Here in the southern parts of the USA we have a similar saying: we can’t fix stupid, but duct tape helps 😂
@BlueStraza2 ай бұрын
Wait, isn't Germany JUST as bad in it's insane gender bending affirmations and lawmaking than the U.S is? I somehow see most of Europe as a cesspool of liberals and gender monsters. Am I wrong about that?
@juliahlobik43292 ай бұрын
Well there is but it's illegal or there is a warning to not consume. Darwinism has been eliminated by feelings.
@taki75462 ай бұрын
Hab ich noch nie gehört
@aaronmartin70863 ай бұрын
As a Christian, I don't force my religion on people. It doesn't offend me if you're not religious, or believes in different religions. It's a free country.
@alyzak.89973 ай бұрын
same. Moderate muslim here
@johnathanwebb3 ай бұрын
@@alyzak.8997can I ask how you follow in the prophet’s words all the while knowing he kept, traded, sold sex slaves, as well as r@ping child brides? I don’t think I could get past that and struggle to understand how people that are Islamic do. Genuine question.
@Doitforscoobysnack3 ай бұрын
I miss the early 2000s I was a young child but the world didn’t feel so divided and pushy. Many people did what you too are doing nowadays it’s seems like you have to choose something or your an enemy
@amylynnhunt553 ай бұрын
Christians are commanded to share the Good news of Jesus. It doesn't make you sad that so many people are lost?
@amylynnhunt553 ай бұрын
@@alyzak.8997I don't understand what that means. Moderate is more a political term than one of a faith that is supposed to be the foundation of a person 's life.
@nigelyorkshiremanwadeley62633 ай бұрын
I saw that FOLX therapist video the other day and all I took from it is that she will agree with everything you say to her. As far as I know, that's not therapy, that's enabling...
@VforVisitor3 ай бұрын
*I'm a Folx Therapist! Of course I'm mentally unstable and insane!*
@deyc37603 ай бұрын
Lollll 😂! Love it! You got it!!!
@ninja-ginger19733 ай бұрын
@@deyc3760I’m a fold therapist, of course 100 years ago I would have been forced into a mental asylum
@sugaree713 ай бұрын
@@ninja-ginger197325 years ago!!
@CarolinaMSZF3 ай бұрын
@ninja-ginger1973 100 years? Not that far, 30 years ago would be enough. In my opinion they should send her now too!
@mollygrace30683 ай бұрын
That’s most therapists.
@bizzybiz11713 ай бұрын
Social media is the worst thing to ever happen to the human race...smh🙄
@Laurita-ev8me3 ай бұрын
There are still people (should I say "folx", lol) who use use them in a proper way. It's just thay don't get views because now wokes are the ones who are the actual trendy on the social media... But I doubt they actually behave like that in their daily life. At least I hope so!
@Spiritstealer3 ай бұрын
Yeah, honestly social media needs to go away and go away fast. People were much safer before facebook, twitter, and all the other platforms. The world seemed normal before all these platforms came around. And my opinion would be is, it would not be a 1st amendment issue for destroying all these platforms or suppression like people think it is. Children and sick people just simply wouldn’t be exposed to other people’s nonsense. This is exactly why when I am finally blessed with children they will not have cell phones. It’s a technology that isn’t necessary for them until they are grown adults and can afford to buy one.
@thatguyd35163 ай бұрын
And the 13th amendment
@cbpaddingtonbear26062 ай бұрын
I mean you're not wrong
@julioagiri33542 ай бұрын
@@thatguyd3516💀 💀
@L1LP0E3 ай бұрын
There was absolutely no need to put an x on the word folks it was already as neutral as can be. I can't stand woke people 🤦
@michellematthews6713 ай бұрын
I think they do the x as a signal to each other.
@xavierhouston46503 ай бұрын
They shall not ruin my favorite letter.😤
@bobl7033 ай бұрын
The X seems to be a branding iron for the LGBTQIA+-/*Pi etc people. Just like LatinX. "Latinos" would be all-inclusive, but they had to make up a new word just for them and by them.
@enzedbrit2 ай бұрын
“S” is white supremacy
@winchescumberholland53702 ай бұрын
@@bobl703 I actually heard the latino/hispanic community HATE the word LatinX
@gabeo94743 ай бұрын
"I'm a folx therapist. Of course I'm going to positively reinforce your narcissism."
@sharonricks40942 ай бұрын
What training do they need? This looks like some thing I could jump on the bandwagon for. Whatever your problem I can google an answer for you. Also I plan on charging top dollar to make you feel better about yourself. Win win
@beckicave76113 ай бұрын
I am a woman, and i will only accept that term for myself!! Call me "'cis" and you will get no acknowledgement from me, no response whatsoever. Respect Works Both Ways Dude!
@Hydraclone3 ай бұрын
14:30 - Can you imagine telling an astronaut that the engineers working on their spacecraft didn't care about perfectionism. Wild.
@EVERYGOODNAMEISTAKEN3 ай бұрын
I'm a folx therapist. Of course I contribute nothing to society
@bloodlove933 ай бұрын
put that in quotes,otherwise it looks like a admitted statement about oneself
@monicanavarro29063 ай бұрын
@@bloodlove93 It's a joke...
@junior.von.claire3 ай бұрын
Of course what I’m proposing isn’t obvious. Of course.
@stephenpmurphy5913 ай бұрын
@@monicanavarro2906No, it's the truth.
@deshon35233 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@Debbles-F3 ай бұрын
Anyone saying they're wanting to validate a reptiles pronouns should be in a padded room not giving anyone therapy.
@lesleygutter4183 ай бұрын
That list is so racist. The notion and assumption that people from other cultures don’t care about the things on this list is offensive.
@rashahisham51732 ай бұрын
Exactly! This exemplifies that they do not see people from other cultures as their equals.
@cassedits_19893 ай бұрын
I'm a Mexican American biological woman and I agree with you. Thanks for sharing your opinions, it takes a lot considering backlash.
@EpoRose13 ай бұрын
You can tell Chelsea Handler is such a happy person because she spends so much time telling the world how happy she is.
@AlleluiaElizabeth3 ай бұрын
And talks about the edibles she’s taking. apparently there is a selection she has to choose from.
@GothLady198724 күн бұрын
She sounded sarcastic, she may be trolling...unless I'm dense.
@Raichous.mom.moments993 ай бұрын
I’m a psychology student. Trying to get my doctorates. My job will not be to affirm someone. My job will be to help someone better their mental health and their wellbeing. There’s a difference between helping someone with mental health issues vs saying “yes you are this!”
@worriedmary63683 ай бұрын
So why would black children need to be segregated in order for the proper story to be told the way he proposes? Wouldn't it be better for white children to also hear the "accurate history" be told? What does segregation have anything to do with what he said??
@larsvegas15053 ай бұрын
Accurate history is that there were slaves all over the world.. from all kinds of tribes.. black/white/asian.. and thus he is not special at all.. and should just stop victimizing and discriminating against white people who did nothing to him. Also what happened in the past to his ancestors is history.. it didnt happen to him.. and its not someones fault that is still alive.. there is noone to blame.. but urself.. hard to get for some. White people should stop pandering to this faulty retoric... black people use their victimhood to get ahead.. because it works...
@bricksbydave.3 ай бұрын
Great point.
@yar85643 ай бұрын
Shhh, if you make too much sense at these people they spontaneously explode 😂
@michaelwilkins4623 ай бұрын
It doesn't because he's a idiot.
@wesley33003 ай бұрын
Ah, it seems that you may have missed the point. You see, he’s very stupid
@jackalopeb95983 ай бұрын
I’ve benefitted from therapy. My former therapist never affirmed my OCD illogical thoughts and fears. Rather, she had me think logically and outside the box. I could never be as far as I am today without her. Unfortunately a lot of my conservative friends and relatives refuse to go because of the loud woke therapists. It’s very sad.
@dani71903 ай бұрын
I'm a therapist and have a hard time believing this "Folx therapist" has a license. I'm a CBT therapist... that is one evidence based method to help people fix their problems. "Folx" therapy is laughably, "not a thing," as you said, Amala!
@WarHammerWH3 ай бұрын
I don’t even know what Folx is. I could Google it but don’t even care.
@duckcatthequrugosk55043 ай бұрын
@@WarHammerWH Genuinely same.
@dakkuri13 ай бұрын
In my personal opinion it's all one big giant scam. Just stupid people creating things that aren't even real so they can feel important and try to force their beliefs on other people that don't understand it. It's somewhere down the line it will magically become important or just get push somewhere in the society. It's all one giant big plot to get people's money
@sarabyrd33743 ай бұрын
what is cbt? ive done dbt therapy (wasnt my thing) so i would love to try a new kind of therapy other than dbt and behavioral
@yar85643 ай бұрын
@@sarabyrd3374 CBT stands for cognitive-behavioral therapy, DBT is a subtype/offshoot of that. So if that didn't help, CBT probably won't either. Psychoanalysis is your best bet for personality disorders; the effectiveness of therapy will be directly proportional to how much work you(!) put in (so yes, find a therapy style that works for you in that regard!); don't fall for anything that sounds like a miracle. And do stay away from the folx people ;)
@flechedesneiges51143 ай бұрын
How can someone group "perfectionism" with "quantity over quality" and not implode by cognitive dissonance ?
@fenzirulfr3 ай бұрын
a good therapist is supposed to challenge your views if they are unbalanced regarding yourself or the world...a good therapist doesn't affirm affirm affirm...that is not helpful
@quatchsass3 ай бұрын
They are not allowed to take folks from me. I am from the country and use that as a reference for my family.
@ayyyyyyp3 ай бұрын
Flying cars they said
@Batzoid3 ай бұрын
Hover boards they said
@thatguyyouis3 ай бұрын
Food in pill form they said
@Batzoid3 ай бұрын
@@thatguyyouis I can live without that one. The pizza was cool though
@starsxspace3 ай бұрын
Right 😭 I want flying cars
@ayyyyyyp3 ай бұрын
@@starsxspace That's what we need to focus our science research on, not this stuff lol
@natl99533 ай бұрын
"I'm a folx therapist. Of course nothing I say is based on science or evidence".
@alfredoorquiz73353 ай бұрын
Who else didn't notice the speck on her face until they brought it up? LOL😂😂😂
@thatguyyouis3 ай бұрын
I still can't see it, nevermind I found it. Had I not been looking, I would not have seen it
@alfredoorquiz73353 ай бұрын
@thatguyyouis LOL same. Still watching her video, and I completely forgot about it till I got this notification of your comment LOL
@daanh81943 ай бұрын
noticed it straightaway, had me distracted throughout the video... 😫 {also somehow missed the disclaimer at the start]
@ProtoType994683 ай бұрын
i think its adorable
@MrMikap743 ай бұрын
Sorry to say, but I did notice it. And with al due respect, I think all of us did.
@TriEssenceMartialArts3 ай бұрын
There is a major distinction between therapists with a master's in psychology and therapists without, if you really need help, seek help from a fully qualified psychologist, not some random folx therapist without clinical training.
@dragonusa3 ай бұрын
Maybe if NASA wasn't focused on DEI and instead quality of their equipment, we wouldn't have a couple astronauts stranded on the ISS until February when Space X can bring them home.
@nikkipage69193 ай бұрын
I keep seeing DEI. What does that mean?
@spam-el3ee3 ай бұрын
@@nikkipage6919 DEI is an acronym which stands for "Diversity, Equity (different from equality btw), and Inclusion". I had to look it up because I've never heard the acronym before either
@nikkipage69193 ай бұрын
@@spam-el3ee thank you for informing me! I was so confused every time I saw it!
@knvogel3 ай бұрын
I was hoping that someone would make this comment. Some perfectionism would have helped Suni & Butch.
@stace09803 ай бұрын
Came here to say this. NASA has more urgent problems than DEI. Hope those astronauts are ok.
@vikingwaifu38483 ай бұрын
6:09 I've always used the word "folks" as it's traditional meaning retaining to multiple people, art, music. So I'm sure you can imagine my frustration with people using the word "folx", is just meaningless when the word they want already exists. They only made up that word to feel different and important. 🙄
@senorsenior95463 ай бұрын
Here's a response, "Hey, cupcake! The world doesn't revolve around you." If I don't get to tell you what to think or say, neither do you get to tell me what to think or say.
@bricksbydave.3 ай бұрын
I wish I could give this comment more than 1 👍
@beckicave76112 ай бұрын
My manager went behind my back and hired a transwoman to work on MY team and then told me 10mins before my shift that I have to refer to him as "they/them." NO!! I only call him by his name. I'm not changing my language that I've been using my whole life, I'm not ignoring what my eyes see and what I was taught in English class. And he is been kept away from ALL areas that have female showers/changing rooms/lavatories. I'm not comfortable with it, we work in a school with 10-18 year old kids
@yoavbartov21472 ай бұрын
A good therapist doesn't judge but doesn't lie, and help clients face reality, that includes challenging them in non shaming ways...
@retrodad19733 ай бұрын
Chelsea Handler is a good example of trying anything to become relevant.
@aveecee3 ай бұрын
I’m pretty sure she’d ride a spaceship made by Boeing just to prove a point. Would rather exchange her for those poor astronauts still stuck up there.
@rwaggs26233 ай бұрын
Who is this Chelsea Handler? I've only heard of her on videos making fun of her.
@Debbles-F3 ай бұрын
@@rwaggs2623She used to have a talk show. She was dating the head of the network. I'm sure that had nothing to do with her having her own show. She's supposed to be a comedian.
@amylynnhunt553 ай бұрын
She's relevant? I don't think I've seen her on anything in a decade.
@amylynnhunt553 ай бұрын
@@Debbles-F😂😂 your last line was all I could come up with. Supposed to be a comedian. But she was never funny, was she?
@denisden9343 ай бұрын
In the animal kingdom, there's a difference between males and females. They behave differently. So there's no way to switch pronouns when you're talking about animals (by the way, some people seem to forget that the human being is also an animal).
@christialuella65943 ай бұрын
If I was separate by race when we were in school I would have got the message we were different. Which happens to be the exact opposite I was taught at home
@christialuella65943 ай бұрын
@emanon9 maybe they can separate us into skin tones and we can battle it out to see who really is the ‘superior race’
@MayaMaya-om2vv3 ай бұрын
Thanks Amala, for your ongoing sanity, intelligence & healthy humour. You are a gem. Especially as a much needed younger broadcaster. While some continue to try and confuse, divide and therefore weaken & control people... Some have the strength, maturity, balance & awareness to prompt us to take individual responsibility & work together to move forward in a better way... Together.
@malvoliosf3 ай бұрын
If Chelsea goes to the moon on a spaceship that was NOT built by Elon Musk, I have to ask: How is she going to get back?
@JS-jn8ku3 ай бұрын
Honestly, it comes off as anti KH, to me....she seemed sarcastic the whole time, and mocking a female president.
@OkTxSheepLady3 ай бұрын
My first thought too. Maybe she plans to walk back?
@gothic_oma3 ай бұрын
😂
@junior.von.claire3 ай бұрын
Better be prepared to spend major holidays away from, well, nearly everyone. 🌎👀😩
@gretatagliavia42283 ай бұрын
Hopefully, she doesn’t get back…
@BennieArtStudio3 ай бұрын
Hey Amala! Could you talk about our situation here, in Brazil? X/Twitter was shot down by the government yesterday. Plus, if we use VPN to acess X, the government said that we will need to pay 50 hundred reais (9 hundred dollars) as a penalty.
@BennieArtStudio3 ай бұрын
Sorry for my English, to be more correct, 50 thousand reais (9 thousand dollars)
@sardeegaming3 ай бұрын
I’ll never listen to someone with one side of their head bald and the other side long and dyed purple 😂😂😂
@neopachisia36293 ай бұрын
😂
@hgriff143 ай бұрын
for real what was that thing
@Hope_this_is_just_a_dream19943 ай бұрын
@@hgriff14I'm assuming he/she/it identifies as an Emo Troll Doll.
@WarHammerWH3 ай бұрын
Yet we’re supposed to normalize this kind of ideology. He (yes, HE!) can do and think what he wants and I’m fine with that, but don’t impose your ideology on us and especially not our children.
@followerofchrist31253 ай бұрын
@@WarHammerWHSometimes I sit in my car and see people who look like that and I wait for them to leave and don’t interact. I’m not joking, I see a couple obese dyed haired people in public weekly. 😂
@Cringefest1012 ай бұрын
Creating a society to conform to others emotions who can't control their own. It is insanity.
@kathypace67713 ай бұрын
The thing about narcissists is, if you feed the monster will become more manipulative and dominated.
@Lydia-Frost3 ай бұрын
Just because my brain struggled with that, I'm going to restate your absolutely right statement. (This is a "me" problem here.) "The thing about narcissists is that if you feed the monster, the monster will become more manipulative and dominating." 100% I have seen this happen with people I know irl.
@TejasChew3 ай бұрын
Garden path sentence!! 😂
@barbarabuttler76473 ай бұрын
So, the Folx therapist has me convinced that they really appreciate who I am! They're planning on listening very carefully to me. They haven't pre-judged me at all, because they're so proud of me already.
@DysfunctionalBubble3 ай бұрын
Pronouns are only used in the third person. So it's not something that you're even around for.
@joob403 ай бұрын
Close, but no cigar. First person = I, me, us, we. Second person = you, y'all, you guys, y'uns (sp?). This is the one that you "address" people with, and is already gender neutral. Third person = he, she, it, him, her, they, them. This is the one you're talking about... third person pronouns, when people speak ABOUT you. So, nothing they're going to "respond" to in the first place.
@ClowncarOfIdeas3 ай бұрын
I mean, that's only kinda true, you use them when you're having a conversation with at least three people. Nonetheless, those are pronouns *for* you and not *your* pronouns to begin with.
@mollygrace30683 ай бұрын
@joob40 That’s why I say, “MY pronouns are me and I. How other people refer to me is none of my business.”
@TimothyBlanc-x6j17 күн бұрын
@@joob40they/them is grammatically 3rd person plural. He, she, it, him, her are singular pronouns. So OP stands right unless one over hears you
@joob4017 күн бұрын
@@TimothyBlanc-x6jThat's what I said... that they're third person. OP is not correct because 1st and 2nd person pronouns are also a thing. Read again.
@visionhawk44033 ай бұрын
As a therapist, it can truly hurt people when you blindly accept and affirm everything a person has done and thinks. You have to find the areas that are causing distress in a person and help them figure out how to overcome it. You can't just listen to people and say "why are you upset, I accept you as you are." You can accept someone as they are as far as personally, but if they're wanting a therapist, then something is wrong, and it's a therapist's job to help the person overcome that which is mentally harming them.
@kathypace67713 ай бұрын
My family did not own slaves. My family served in the Union Army for the human rights of black people. Why would I owe anyone for anything?
@nikkipage69193 ай бұрын
I'm half black, half white. Do I owe myself money? 😂
@GetShitOnKid3 ай бұрын
@@nikkipage6919 My family came here in the 50's, am I also guilty?
@gretatagliavia42283 ай бұрын
@@nikkipage6919LOL, in today’s world? Yep, you owe yourself money!!
@Laurita-ev8me3 ай бұрын
@@nikkipage6919You have to ask yourself for reparations! How come you haven't already done this?? 🤔🤷
@nebraskamalt69493 ай бұрын
Anthony Johnson was a black slave owner. How is that going to work?
@sarahjane96443 ай бұрын
That isn’t therapy, that’s enabling. You’re paying to be enabled 😂
@Pizzpott3 ай бұрын
First clip - And I'm a sci-fi fan used to seeing scary things. This is a 'man' used very loosely - he will always be one, regardless how he makes himself look so monstrous, and I will never, even call a man a woman and a woman a man - never.
@herminimandala5313 ай бұрын
💯
@deyc37603 ай бұрын
You're right. Even if he thinks he's a woman...he still have to stay in reality and understand the world is not delusional like him...
@danielswart51683 ай бұрын
Blind support of a therapist helps no one
@EVERYGOODNAMEISTAKEN3 ай бұрын
0:03 Imagine if a white man said that about white kids? Ooh the ladies on the view wouldn't shut up about it.
@QueSeraSeraaaa3 ай бұрын
It’s an insult to people such as the Loving couple who fought for their own marriage and others. For the context, the couple was about a white man and black woman being childhood friends, deciding to marry each other in their adulthood. It was illegal in the state they lived in, and they fought their way to change that, and they succeeded at doing so. What that unhinged guy said in that video, made me think that he would have enjoyed that time-period, where an innocent couple would be treated as criminals over an harmless decision.
@nikkipage69193 ай бұрын
My mouth fell the f*ck open when that person made that absurd statement. We came so far to see people as equal and we're going BACKWARDS! Why in the HELL would we want to separate people by skin color again?!?!?!?!
@laattardo3 ай бұрын
@@nikkipage6919Marxism, that's why.
@SubtleStair3 ай бұрын
@@nikkipage6919 Because Progressivism has no rudder and no guardrails.
@Lydia-Frost3 ай бұрын
Thank Bob Iger and Disney for the view. I cancelled my Disney+ membership a while ago for that and many reasons. I hope everyone else does too.
@jtee7883 ай бұрын
Isn't SpaceX in the process of rescuing astronauts because a spaceship they didn't make broke?
@EpoRose13 ай бұрын
“Of course I know you did That thing you said you weren’t gonna do… and I support you anyway.” …That sounds like enabling… and that’s not always a good thing.
@barbarabuttler76473 ай бұрын
Shame is a tool used by narcissists to drive desired behavior.
@ghostcruncher10433 ай бұрын
1. How rich of the first dude to accuse other people of not knowing what gender is! 2. Anyone who unironically uses the term "folx" should never be allowed in the medical field!
@thatguyd35163 ай бұрын
Ask anyone who uses the term cisgender what it means and what the term cis means and where it comes from. They'll probably say TikTok
@lolAnnMarie1823 ай бұрын
I misgendered my stray cat for an entire year before I learned she was actually a he. I’ll have to live with that for the rest of my life.
@mommal99693 ай бұрын
I am NOT now or HAVE I EVER BEEN a PRONOUN.....I am a person and will ALWAYS be a PERSON.....☺
@whitneyneely28803 ай бұрын
THANK YOU 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
@alyzak.89973 ай бұрын
NO YOU ARE A PRONOUN. BOW DOWN TO THE IDEOLOGY .....☺
@mommal99693 ай бұрын
@@alyzak.8997 🤣🤣🤣 I’m a noun….person is a noun…🤣🤣🤣
@SabrinaZart3 ай бұрын
The "white supremacy values" are values that go along with your upbringing, not your race. People of any color can be raised to value those things.
@arirose58873 ай бұрын
Not every therapist is a good therapist. My own older brother is a licensed therapist and when my mom kicked me out and my then boyfriend now husband took me in no second thoughts what did my brother say to my mom? That she should tell my husband to leave me on the side of the highway so that I have no choice but to come home like I should have asked to do in the first place instead of leaving when I was kicked out. I was a 19 year old woman he encouraged my mother to try to convince my husband to leave on a highway in California in august with no money. So yeah just passing your courses doesn’t make you a good therapist
@svetlanaandrasova60863 ай бұрын
Wtf????,
@arirose58873 ай бұрын
@@svetlanaandrasova6086 Yeah…he’s still practicing too. As a marriage and family counselor
@hairyott3rr3 ай бұрын
I’m a FOLX therapist, of course I instill and perpetuate the very mental illness and distress I should be helping you overcome and transcend
@sarahjustice12823 ай бұрын
It’s the confidence to leave the house like that. If you want to be taken seriously present yourself as someone who takes themselves serious.
@candacekyle2823 ай бұрын
It's called histrionic personality disorder.
@johnjohnson70122 ай бұрын
I'm a folk therapist. I will take your money and do absolutely nothing for you. She forgot that one
@rachelatwater75763 ай бұрын
If we are going to segregate schools, then my tax dollars should go with my child.
@AmericanAmy3 ай бұрын
I am a constitutional activist and this is one reason people need to know their rights. Arresting people for speech is against the first amendment of the United States they’ve already put a law in Michigan and it will stay on the books unless somebody gets arrested and rides it out ….or somebody sues the state….. free speech is so important and they do not teach your rights to you in school very few schools (if any) do.
@marksteverman16223 ай бұрын
Gender is a term that came about because the term "sex" was impolite. They are the same. Plus pronouns are used when that person is not around generally. So you never know what pronouns are used for you
@alyzak.89973 ай бұрын
well not really it was first coined by a psycho sexologist in 1955 who was a major perv but i like your perception better xD
@xavierhouston46503 ай бұрын
It’s clear they’re confusing “gender” with expression and/or “gender roles”. Thank ol’ child pred, Dr. John Money.
@truthwithlove86253 ай бұрын
If I were an astronaut, you better believe I’d want my team to have the trait of perfectionism
@chengliu8723 ай бұрын
@the first lady: do these people actually think they look good or are they intentionally trying to be ugly?
@deyc37603 ай бұрын
They're mocking women and women's rights. They're like I have long hair, must be a woman...also the attitude is kinda agressive and never once did they show compassion or understanding towards women... yet he's expecting everyone to do as they say...I don't trust him in a bathroom alone with little girls 😢...so much anger in their eyes and their demeanor. How is that reassuring for women...
@spam-el3ee3 ай бұрын
Hi there! This is an ad hominem logical fallacy, where you completely bypass any valid talking points in favor of insulting the person for their appearance or something just as superficial. If you’re going to be transphobic at least do it right.
@chengliu8723 ай бұрын
@@spam-el3ee: No because I am not trying to debate the person's argument so that fallacy doesn't apply.
@spam-el3ee3 ай бұрын
@@chengliu872 Oh okay, just a normal hater. Ignore my previous comment 👍
@chengliu8723 ай бұрын
@@spam-el3ee: Yes, I hate when people intentionally make themselves ugly.
@AnnaK1013 ай бұрын
Now I understand why so many parents are home schooling their kids in the USA.
@calebjones78683 ай бұрын
Let's just remember that Elon Musk has been hired by the ISS to get a couple astronauts back safely cause their previous shuttle didn't work so well. and let's also remember Elon had warned against that same spaceship before it was launched
@steph190721 күн бұрын
I dont even want my son to be around that crap
@neopachisia36293 ай бұрын
One side of head shaved, other side dyed purple..and they are outraged at not being taken seriously!?
@DJRazorgirl8263 ай бұрын
Therapy isn't so much about offering blind respect and support. That won't help everybody. Some people need a lot more guidance. Some people need to be told no, you're wrong. And that doesn't mean the person is a bad therapist for standing up to you and forcing you to see the truth. Would she tell a murderer that she's proud of him/ her for killing people because the voices told them to do it? 🤦🏼♀️
@kathe992ilo63 ай бұрын
Please find out what the purple haired, rotund gent does for a living.
@EVERYGOODNAMEISTAKEN3 ай бұрын
It sounds like he/she/it/thing is a teacher. Poor students
@deyc37603 ай бұрын
Unfortunately he's a teacher. Not a very good one nor compassionate one. They're obviously trying to push their ideology into the students they're supposed to be teaching...😢
@ericksunderland6163 ай бұрын
@@deyc3760 He's a walking homeschooling ad.
@queenofspiders3 ай бұрын
Being a groomer
@MagpieAnnie733 ай бұрын
@@queenofspiders AGP
@marymac-ith19122 ай бұрын
As someone who works in animal care, these people are very irritating. They indirectly and directly make caring for their pets significantly harder
@elenajewel32 ай бұрын
Seriously, the anthropomorphism we face today is unrealllll. I’m glad we’ve taken a step towards “animals have feelings,” but we have WAY overstepped into psychoanalyzing our pets’ every move on a human-basis.
@LynnBoshart3 ай бұрын
I enjoy Amala’s perspective on what is happening in the world today. We share an admiration of Thomas Sowell’s writings.
@tttrump243 ай бұрын
18:20 bro thought he was saying something 😂
@omegabkg3 ай бұрын
Im white / straight / Male / republican I gotta say this was hard to listen to these woke people go on with the imagination they come up with.
@deejayf69Ай бұрын
Unironically arguing for the reintroduction of segregation without understanding how racist this is is wild go me.
@Sleggria3 ай бұрын
The speck never would’ve been noticed had that intro not happened 😅hahaha
@TheAmalaEkpunobi3 ай бұрын
Can’t win for losing 😭
@shamelessstacib73513 ай бұрын
Having a thought or feeling doesn't make you right. Nor does it make you the manager of how other people think or feel.
@fulcrumagent3 ай бұрын
The first one pisses me off so much. “You cant tell me how to live but i can dictate how you do” jfc. How can anyone take that thing seriously
@Zayla-cv8wi3 ай бұрын
I'm not a therapist, but as an expert in going to a therapist, they do kind of have to support you . If I was smuggling dogs through the border, i'm pretty sure he'd talk to me about why I'm doing it instead of going into how smuggling dogs is illegal and saying how horrible of a person I am. Again, I don't actually know that just sounds like what my therapist would do.
@epiccg68723 ай бұрын
12:24 saying objectivity and individualism is a white power thing is WILD. this makes them sound like a cult.
@epiccg68723 ай бұрын
@@yuutamoto7311 how
@thatblue-hairedguy3 ай бұрын
And isn't objectivity a cornerstone of SCIENCE? Which is what NASA is supposed to DO? HOW is objectivity tied in any way to any race? It's SCIENCE!
@yuutamoto73113 ай бұрын
@@epiccg6872 you answered that with your first comment, that's why they're a cult. They twist objective truths to their narrative.
@ramonmartins6063 ай бұрын
I'm from Brazil, and I start to watch your videos a week ago, and I feel so amazed about those people that you react, cause they're just crazy, and I feel even more amazed for the fact that you guys are so used to those things, that it doesn't bother you animore. (For some mistake in my english, I say SORRY)
@davesmith96803 ай бұрын
The best thing for any child regardless of race is to avoid any organization founded by Margaret Sanger. Just imagine where the black community would be without her.
@OkTxSheepLady3 ай бұрын
PP and LBJ have done more harm to society at large and black demographic specifically than anything else in the last 60 years. In some areas the abortion rate is higher than the birth rate.
@HPTFan3 ай бұрын
I know about her. Which is why I’m against Planned Parenthood. They keep the racist agenda alive, while they cover themselves. Stay awake.
@Captain_Nemo19613 ай бұрын
Refusal to believe reality is pretty much the definition of INSANITY!
@DanElliott-o1l3 ай бұрын
It really seems like a whole mouth full of hypocrisy, only accepting she her, but then it doesn't have accept beliefs!!!! What the actual F is going on here!
@evanparker35863 ай бұрын
00:57 wtf is that thing
@Alexa-in6xq3 ай бұрын
I thought it was fake till I heard it talk
@wflyin8574Ай бұрын
His pronouns are fee/fi/fo/fum. 😂
@I86x293 ай бұрын
NASA kinda does need things to be perfect??? Otherwise uh oh we have rockets exploding everywhere
@kingdomedits7213 ай бұрын
I really want to know when did this woke crap begin? I swear everything was fine, and now the internet is full of these strange individuals with insane ideologies!
@xavierhouston46503 ай бұрын
If you mean this whole gender nonsense, late 1800s (it was small).
@starsxspace3 ай бұрын
It's time to make horror movies with these creatures cause they're scarier than any fiction
@hermithag2 ай бұрын
This purple haired person would NEVER be my child's teacher.