Answering Questions I've Avoided...Divorce, Red Flags, My Faith & Advice | Aysha Harun

[@khalilahedwards7042]

The thing about marriage/divorce..... sometimes you just marry the wrong person. And if you marry the wrong person it doesn’t matter how long you dated or how hard you work at it... it’s going to end eventually. And by wrong person I don’t mean ‘bad’ person, they’re just not the right person for you.

[@maryana.3133]

I agree with this!

[@suemisosoup9949]

This is so true.

[@rahmanoor6392]

Completely relate to this, I married the wrong person. It never works when you marry the wrong person.

[@karma-queenofflames376]

Khalilah Edwards - Whew! I felt this statement in my bones. Speak on it!

[@petrinegordon]

But how and when will you know? Intuition?

[@mariazigerlig9860]

I‘m getting dicorced from my husband and i also married very young to keep it halal and your videos really help me. I was really naive and just wanted to be with him in a halal way but i ignored many red flags, thought he would change etc. Now 23 and getting divorced but my relationship with allah was never stronger and i‘m soo happy with all the knowledge i gained throught this situation. Alhamdulillah !

[@SamMKKK]

Sending you all the love!

[@zainabshoka4219]

May allah make it easy for you 💜

[@mariazigerlig9860]

@@zainabshoka4219 insha allah, thank you so much ❤️❤️

[@mariazigerlig9860]

@@SamMKKK thank you ❤️❤️

[@whome4851]

Take a break from each other before getting divorce in that way you can decide what really want from life not just marriage

[@floatingwiththeclouds2016]

I was heartbroken all 2020. Loved this man and it took me a whole year and a half to get over him only to find out at the start of 2021 he got married🙂 if something is yours, it will find you. I tried too hard to fight fate. I’m over it now and don’t think about him as much but I find peace knowing that my heart was pure throughout and you just can’t force things. You need to let things and go and let them be. God always has better in store for you.

[@AyshaHarun]

Wishing you all the best my love 🥺💞

[@briannisaa]

I got heartbroken the middle of 2019 and some days I still find myself recovering. Hang in there! What is written will always be for you, and what is isn’t, will never reach you. 🤍

[@floatingwiththeclouds2016]

@@AyshaHarun thanks Aysha, I truly do love you🌹

[@binti_jannet]

Keep shinning. All the best👏

[@floatingwiththeclouds2016]

Briannisaa thanks sweetheart! We’re in the same boat. We got this❤️

[@poeticjustice8420]

Im 25 not even close to being married. Ppl shouldn't force the whole narrative that when your older its too late, I mean damn 25 is still young.

[@fatimabakr_]

Actaully some people would like to get married young while some don't. Everybody is different. And they are a lot of people I know that married young and they are very happy and does that don't even think about marriage but they are happy. It really depends on what you want

[@fatimabakr_]

You are right when you say culture makes it seem like if you are older it's to late or you have to get married at a specific age. Everyone's time is different

[@TravelwithRia92]

It’s super young. I’m 29 soon and I think I’m more ready now than I’ve been before.

[@jasminepearls1047]

Enjoy your time without responsibiliy and chidlren.

[@GokuBlack-sn5dr]

not even close? so not even 28 or 29?

[@themirrormuse]

When she said she Googled KZbin videos on divorce I felt that cos I did the exact same thing. Divorce is hard, but it gets a bit bearable when you find other people who've gone through the same thing. Proud of you girl and you definitely look happier.

[@ormarishamalarabi7329]

Maasha alaah

[@sheekadaDahab]

Same here. Married for 7 years (married when I was 19) Things aren't going well between us 😢

[@mjlove2228]

@@sheekadaDahab praying for you 🥺♥️

[@Morrocanprincess]

You seriously already look happier and just freeee. I am here for it! & Yes NEVER tell a man what you're looking for, they become actors in a role until they can't anymore lol. Be careful over-nurturing a man, they eventually resent you for it and will ultimately take you for granted. I see this in too many relationships.

[@RockinDemHeejabz]

"they become actors in a role until they can't anymore" whewwwww

[@Yasxgo]

This comment is everything!

[@lytemisbah]

What do you mean don’t overnurture a man? Because he’ll get spoiled?

[@purplelove3666]

So what do you then?. Do you just see how they act?

[@Joker_1984]

@@lytemisbah Dont become his mum. Be his wife, give him his rights and demand for your rights from the get go.

[@nadiasayed2843]

Keep in mind Aysha, if you ever planned to get closer to Allah (swt), it has become (or is becoming) true through your separation with your ex. You’ve recognized the beauty and rahma of Allah (swt). You’re winning.

[@a.k3598]

I'm 25 and just got divorced a few months ago. It was one of the worst experiences of my life. I had severe anxiety attacks and depression. I still haven't recovered and get nightmares about the marriage. Most days life seems so bleak but hopefully one day things will get better.

[@faaizassibit]

So sorry for what you’re going through. Like you said Its all going to get better In shaa Allah.

[@nayajacob5621]

I'm wishing you all the best and pray that you get back stronger

[@allthingsjannah4325]

Ohh subhanallah sister I hope you get through it with ease inshallah. Please see a therapist if you are able to & be easy on yourself.

[@mbibeau3568]

Salam sis, I too was divorced at 25 and struggled with severe anxiety attacks and depression. My heart goes out to you ❤️ I’ve now been divorced for almost 3 and a half years, I thought I was never going to feel normal again or laugh again but take it from me, it does get better

[@soinspo2656]

I am sorry you are going through that. May God heal your heart and bless you. ❤️

[@wuttwuu]

This girl is so genuine and deserves nothing but the best wallahi. May Allah swt make everything easier for you

[@aneesapeterkin807]

Ameen!

[@riqaazafareed3153]

Aameen ❤️

[@wadiahpjones3880]

Prayer can change your destiny. Everything is written and Allah knows the whole story of your life, but we can pray for change in that. It’s HIS will to change. We also have limited free will that does not deplete Allah’s will.

[@ashradihark798]

True

[@heavensent1992]

True!

[@prettyloubey8411]

True

[@cherylford7873]

You have not said one bad thing about your ex, and I RESPECT that more than anything! "IT IS WRITTEN"...I absolutely loved that response! Take care...❤

[@applerox101]

I really appreciate the fact that you discuss this with such class. You don’t make it a “spilling tea” video, or rant on your ex. You say what needs to be said to express your feelings and thoughts on the matter without infringing on your ex’s privacy. I really appreciate that you’re not ashamed of Islam and being open about it. Thank you for that.

[@farhana.hussain]

I need a friend like Ayesha!! Her personality is everything.

[@musiclove2199]

Girl atleast spell her name right 😂

[@metrolady72]

Me too.

[@nakibuyeaminah8689]

Am here,we can be friends sis

[@Theadventurer12]

She is the ideal friend really.

[@ayt6335]

That is how my name is spelled 😊😂​@@musiclove2199

[@ladyshakari]

KZbin videos and therapy helped with my divorce after being married for 34yrs. I was beyond heart broken and depressed. It's been 10 yrs since my divorce and believe or not I'm happier single for now, I feel free. What's meant for you will be for you.

[@ayankamwana7751]

I got divorced last year I was just 22 I was a mess...I have drown courage from you Im working out I dressing up MashaAllah you are my motivation May Allah bless you

[@AnuTalks]

Can we talk about the glow...the light...

[@emmahamood584]

I was thinking the same

[@mystique5168]

That's Noor. ❤️

[@mo9204]

She is beautiful I wouldn’t leave her a second 😙

[@Sona77.]

I’m 27 and haven’t met anyone that I vibe with. I am ok with not ever getting married

[@blobster91]

Sameeee

[@Sona77.]

@@blobster91 It's just so hard to find someone, and it really shouldn't be

[@floatingwiththeclouds2016]

“It was written” is my go to for everything loooool. I don’t get mad at things anymore. If I drop my food, it was written😅😂

[@mysterygirlmyself4818]

Right😂then you dont really stress too much about life😂everything that goes wrong or not the way you planned wasnt meant to be is the way it is😂

[@kaym6493]

😂 😂 me to LOL, I don't go to deep in planning for the future learnt my lesson the hard away. Allhamdulilah

[@mysterygirlmyself4818]

Kay m🤣right😂thats how it should be so we dont stress too much about this crazy life/world😂

[@kaym6493]

@@mysterygirlmyself4818 😂 right.

[@starsighting7167]

@@kaym6493 can you please teach me how to stop planning the future

[@munab3666]

You're actually super young, only 25?! Lol when I was 25 I didn't even have the word marriage in my repertoire. I'm 31 and refuse to buy into this whole industry that makes Muslim women feel like we're expired or spare parts if we aren't married. Your business is booming and you're doing well, you do you sis!

[@eminaroses7005]

Yes!!! I met my husband at age 31. He was my choice and he’s the most amazing husband ever for me! I lived my life to the max before him, bought my own house, traveled and was throughly fulfilled before him. Now, our marriage is the cherry on top as we were fulfilled individuals before each other.

[@shuharaahmed728]

Yes! I wanna travel, buy property etc. I'm open to marriage but I'm not gonna marry whoever, whatever for the sake of society

[@ye23.]

I feel you girl!! Im 29 and the pressure to get married is crazyyy. But ive rejected heaps of offers because all these dudes are bozos and truthfully all my friends that are married are miserable and ended up settling for men they are slaves to. I love this new generation of muslim women rejecting the patriarchal bullshit we’ve been fed all our lives!

[@manouranoor7924]

smh

[@naturalgreens1844]

@@ye23. but thats not fair is the culture you guys have not islam that miserable marriage

[@aalou334]

“ don’t fall for potential” I don’t know why but that slapped me in the face 😂

[@NjBou]

The Muslims do understand; for me, i got married young and it took me honestly about 6 months to decide if this man was right for me or not. I actually believe that if you are taking it seriously and truly having quality conversations about life and family and values...then it can be done in 6 months or so. It really isn't about knowing them for years; I've known a lot of people for years but have had such low quality exchanges with them and thus don't feel close to them. Quality communication matters a lot when searching for a good match.

[@kiarajofficial]

I 1000% agree with you!

[@nuffsaid1429]

Love this! Before I married my now husband my mother asked me, " would you marry him now as is even if nothing about him changed?" That was a great reflection piece for me.

[@SayconTalks]

Great question!!

[@youtubeaccount6934]

Wow love that!

[@jinanh2712]

!! Powerful question!!

[@Bettieoaminh]

Great question !!!

[@zainababuzaid1361]

you are soooo pure-hearted and just so refreshing Allahuma Barikkk. I want to give you hug :') May Allah always keep you happy and continue to shower you with blessings, Ameen

[@firdowskalu1]

Ameen ya rabb 💕

[@amnaabdi6407]

Ameen

[@ladyandrews9371]

I was 27 years old when I experience heart break. I do not have the eloquence of language to describe the pain. But I got through it and healed, we healed. Today we are married with kids and my husband is my best friend. We needed time and maturity and communication to push through. We decided our life together was worth it and we made it. God bless everyone on their journey

[@Snoozy113]

I would recommend all Muslims to read the book “healthy Muslim marriage” by Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf mangera before marriage. it’s a amazing book to read when searching for a spouse.

[@herpartyofone]

Thank you.

[@jemilajemal4181]

Thanks you

[@wowso4]

Thank you for the recommendations, I'll make sure to read it 😊

[@eynijama5348]

Thank you for the suggestion book about Muslim marriage.

[@user-ib4bo4kx2l]

@Mariams Adventure A friend of mine did istikhara before marriage, was given a sign to get married and her husband cheated on her while she was pregnant. They are now divorced and she remarried but you need to do your own due diligence and not put everything down to fate if you want a long term marriage

[@nasrialii]

Aysha : Hey guys! Welcome ba- Me: *thumbs up*

[@wataviamarie9694]

Me too!

[@አገሬኢትዪጽያ]

Me too

[@mica318]

So true...haha

[@aquasm2680]

Marriage is not fairy tales as many people think. There will be good and bad times but with both people willing to meet in the middle, is doable. Married at 23,now 34 still going strong.keep your faith up and the right person is waiting for you. Blessings

[@mamediarrandour9901]

Same I have been married since I was 22. Marriage is very hard but it’s worth to fight through if you can. I understand some situations are not workable but i don’t think marrying young is an issue it’s the parties being willing to accept that you both have to work and change for the better

[@WandererinAqaba]

Me too married at 21 now 33. Marriage can be tough at times but the key is compromise. And we all grow and change as people. Alhamdolilah for everything and having kids makes things harder. We have 5 kids mashaa Allah and i feel our relationship is better now than it has been. May Allah guide all of us to what is best and May Allah swt keep us steadfast ameen.

[@NaturallyPeaches]

I'm so happy that you made this video. I have family members in my life that are currently going through separation and divorce (my mom and my sister) and I know they are having a rough time but please send prayers to them for a happier life inshallah. Ameen

[@By_rabiha]

I seriously I usually never comment on youtube.. But I really appreciate the honestly. It wasn't owed but def appreciated. Love you so much and wish you all the best. I went through a divorce too and I am soooo happy now so I can tell you from experience the best is yet to come. Much love

[@abdiabdi4900]

There is no happiness in divorce at all guarantee you

[@tommiejohnson8547]

Yes, be specific in prayer...something my Mother told me at a very difficult point in my life, and I have been more at peace ever since.

[@SAINASAHO]

In Sha allah 500k coming soon... allah always test the people that he knows can handle it.. if he knows you can’t handle it he wouldn’t let u test it out with that being said he did that to you to show u something better in life... I’m glad u doing better and in Sha allah I pray u find the right one some day 💕

[@mixmix3499]

So sorry you are going through this. I took a break from KZbin , didn't know. But thanks to your faith your have a great handle on things. I was actually getting ready to binge watch what I have missed when this notification popped up. Much love to you

[@tiannadelaurentiis3308]

It’s so refreshing to see the free version of you along with the return of your beautiful spirit and smile! I have the limited edition vinyl set of Jhene Aiko’s ‘Chilombo’ and it has been my go to album along with Miles Davis’ ‘Kind of Blue’ during this pandemic.

[@NjBou]

Also, I hate how people make it sound like being married is some societally pressured thing that makes women feel like garbage. No. It is actually verryyyy natural to want to be with someone. End of story. It doesn't have to be a person's Everything---it shouldn't be. But to make it sound like it's some frivolous thing that society pushes on us for the sake of selling weddings---no. You don't have to aspire to what society wants from you to really wanna get married. I didn't care at alllll what society wanted. My entire wedding costed less than many people's wedding dresses. I didn't care. But being with a great partner to share my days with and build a life with--that was a goal and it didn't come from society. Pretty sure that is a normal, natural want for people to have. And I was certain that God's recommendations about how to partner up (marriage) were 1000% more trustworthy than any other way of going about it. So, marriage was certainly a cool thing to aspire to do. End. Of.

[@gilrh4531]

Oh thank you !

[@yn-id8qr]

It’s good to hear that not all people have to go through such an ordeal but societal pressure about marriage specially from an south asian perspective is very very real. I didn’t give into it but there are some who can’t handle that stress and marry early.

[@loverofhumanity]

@Miss Lilith sure it is. I agree. But it also means that these girls are probably having sex regularly which according to their beliefs its wrong. I dont necessarily subscribe to that notion by the way. (Yes Ironic because of my name I get it, but you dont choose your name)

[@MANAL83]

@@loverofhumanity u can always change your name if it bothers you that much!

[@loverofhumanity]

@@MANAL83 my name doesnt bother me. It's just a name. What bothers me is the judgements and assumptions people often make because of my name.

[@TheBlushingGiraffe]

Yessss queen, ‘I’m an even better version of myself’, I feel like us viewers can see that. I’m honestly so impressed with how gracefully you’ve dealt with it alongside continuing your work ethic snd creating gorgeous content. I also love how you didn’t shy away from talking about therapy whilst you were going through it, MH is still stigmatised (though that stigma is slowly fading) in a lot of Muslim communities. You’re a great role model Ma’sha’Allah and I pray for more growth, more success and when they time is right, a wonderful man who will match your brilliantness! Nothing short of what you deserve ❤️

[@jackiehylton7305]

You deserve all the love being sent to you, you are open and honest with your content, I am so much older and yet I have learned so much from you.

[@amberaslam5190]

Appreciating and taking in all the honesty and wisdom, but also admiring the glow (inner and outer mashaAllah)

[@randomhijabi4315]

Jumped from Shahd to here and I'm happy my faves are uploading‼❤

[@iychafey696]

same here

[@fatimasunusimusa4150]

Me too💃

[@MAhmed-zs2vp]

Who's Shahd.

[@mariamdibba3657]

@@MAhmed-zs2vp she’s a youtuber and she’s friends with Aysha

[@haadiya2198]

Even my marriage proposal got broken but we girls are very young...we can do more things for ourselves....we are strong and inshaallah there will be someone who will actually understand us and the personalities will be the same❤❤❤but ayesha my girl keep fighting...i know u r a strong woman and nothing could break u down

[@atiyyamohammed2655]

I got married young too, at 22 and I somewhat regret it. However I see it as a lesson learned, as I divorced him after 1 year. It teaches you what you truly need in a partner! The heartbreak is so painful, but it gets easier over time ❤️❤️ having faith in Allah swt honestly helps heal 🙏🏽❤️ take care Aysha!

[@jessicaobiora8358]

Glad you're moving forward, dear heart. Heartbreak is terrible, but especially in a long term relationship. While I agree with most of what you said, I think you should absolutely tell potential partners what qualities you are looking for. While some people can front for a while, no one can pretend forever. Actually, the problem is that people see the red flags but ignore or downplay them. People who are rude or gossipy or mean or manipulative. That almost always comes out early. But we write it off (they're having a bad day, etc). What I would advise people is to trust your intuition and marry the one who genuinely elevates you and vice versa. That is the point, for iron to sharpen iron. Change is inevitable so make sure you are with one who handles pressure and bad news in a healthy way (not running away, boozing it up, etc). I'm 35 years old, married for 4 years but together for almost 10 so I know a lil something about this 😁 Much love to you!

[@gperks37]

I truly feel you, a broken heart will bring you to your knees, BUT, it will all work out for the good.

[@TheJenniferMonique]

This is a fact! You will become wiser from it and learn from it. It hurts and then it slowly becomes easier but you will have your days until you fully heal.

[@user-pn9zf2lj4c]

Allah will take something out of your life And give you something a thousand times better He will never leave you empty handed You having a divorce just means there’s now a door open for something even better and that’s for you Stay strong queen 💕

[@sabiron7483]

im a slient viewer, but i really love your content Aysha!!! i hope you know you are so loved by your subscribers!!

[@nc3919]

You’re so beautiful and your aesthetic is GOALS!

[@barbarasanders3988]

Aysha I really appreciate your openness and transparency on your Channel. I have been heart broken so many times, but looking at your tutorial lifts my spirits keep being you ❤️❤️

[@hammythehamster8963]

Thank you for always being open and honest with us. You're literally radiating mashaAllah.

[@coumbatall7383]

Thank you for sharing your story! I think we should break the idea that a relationship shouldn’t be long to “keep it halal” because that itself rushes people into marriage before they might get to know the person.

[@Fatima-uk6zc]

You’re an angel, I can’t even put into words how much this video and your previous videos have helped me on my own post breakup journey🤎

[@goldsand]

Came back to watch again this morning because this talk was mucho needed. I too, got married young (at 27) and now am going through a time of uncertainty within my marriage and it has been daunting on my personal and professional life relationships. What you mentioned about knowing what you both want out of each other is very true. I went in thinking potential will make it. And we have a son 🥲. I pray God continues to bless you and thanks for showing me... it’s okay and life doesn’t just end after a separation/divorce, etc. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@aishaa409]

You got this❤️❤️🥰

[@goldsand]

@@aishaa409 🥺❤️❤️❤️

[@HarlowsJack]

I SCREAMED WHEN SHE SAID JHENE. SHES SO HEALING

[@jy2044]

OMG yesss Jhene's Chilombo really helped me too through my break up!!! And yesss "pray for you" made helped me accept!!! Wooow

[@salinacuffy6064]

You are so mature for your age. You didn’t even have to share this with us but thank you for sharing. As someone who is currently going through a heartbreak your words helped me a lot. You truly are rare. May allah bless you forever and ever. 🥺💜✨

[@hafsathekindhearted9564]

Use capital A. We u mention Allah.

[@suem7500]

First time I've heard about Better Help, definitely checking it out

[@rhogan7312]

Of course I don't know you but as an older black woman I'm so glad to see a strong young black woman. I am also happy to see you engaging other young women on your channel; its needed. The strong bear the infirmities of the weak. Praying all the best for you. From Chicago (Chi-town)💞💞💞🤲🏾

[@richillartloe]

Your skin is everything....absolutely flawless....

[@haniaz5419]

im going through a very rough patch myself with my marriage at a young age, but watching your videos made me relate to you and give me hope. You managed to stay positive and strong after something so difficult, and I really admire you for that 😪

[@AyshaHarun]

🤍🤍🤍

[@NjBou]

Also, I don't think people shouldn't delay marriage just bc they feel lost about who they are seeking, or bc they're "young". I think that they need to speed up the process of getting to know themselves, and stop delaying that very important activity! Get to know who YOU are, who YOU aspire to be, where YOUR trajectory is headed, and then it will become clear who you seeking for a partner.

[@newalmoh7195]

She has the purest heart ever

[@whemz]

It's the way I literally left the video I was watching to come here. Hi Ayisha!

[@AyshaHarun]

Hi!!

[@suraalmansour]

Thank you so much for being so open and honest about your recent struggle

[@Fatima-rz9vt]

I went to a nikkah recently..and the Imam said the realest thing. "People are divorcing so easily today because they stop having mercy on each other." I agree get to know the person you're dating and learn how they communicate. Always remember you're doing it to complete your deen. Both people have to want this for the sake of Allah. When you have that in mind you treat each other the best possible way which equals a very happy marriage in the long run. I also wholeheartedly agree with you it shouldn't take two years to court someone. For me six months tops.

[@ariamason7213]

🤣

[@mrsrockbison]

Good point on age is just a number. Understanding who you are is the most important thing I got into a bad relationship at the age of 30 that due to my inexperience and not knowing what I needed it broke me. If you are 18 or 35 it really makes no difference.

[@alyssalane3442]

Random, but: Wow, idk of it's the lighting, but the new living room looks SO GOOD! Edit: "do not fall for potential. Who they are at the state when you married them...they aren't going to change that much." Woooo say it louder for the ladies on the back !!

[@Warda-H]

May Allah bless you with the best in this world and the Afterlife. Your content is beautiful and I love that you don't shy away from your faith either.

[@MOHAMEDH1430]

aamiin

[@r.h.3968]

Dear Aysha, I love you for your sincerity! I pray that Allah (swt) has written for you even better future! I enjoy watching you and I hope that you never stop smiling and succeeding. 🤍

[@LivelifewithDuha]

I love how honest and pure you are. That is why you are my favorite

[@lalaleenax]

Already made a mental note to come back to this video if I’m ever heartbroken 😍 I feel like I already have hope and it hasn’t even happened yet 🤣 that’s called girl power ! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@fatumahkukundanabulime6258]

Yes Love, Girl Power is definitely felt. But I pray that you never have to deal with a broken heart love.....And that's also on GIRL POWER😊❤

[@kumbanyang8900]

I love this!! I appreciate your vulnerability always!

[@411dragontiger]

You are the most honest and humble woman. Thank you for sharing. I am so proud of you fellow Canadian.

[@S.J.007]

This was an amazing video. You have matured so much. Heartbreak does something to you but oh Allah when you get to the other side the reward is immeasurable. Mayu Allah continue to grant you peace and growth. Ameen.

[@tasfiaahmed5405]

Loved this video, kept it real but also respectful to yourself. I'd love to see more faith related videos. I genuinely enjoy hearing you speak about being a Muslim and how heart to heart you can get. Also understanding your relation with your faith as private, any tips, advice or just hearing you talk would be really interesting. Keep doing you queen, you're glowing 🙌🏽❤️❤️

[@amirasalaudeen4206]

I swear breaking your hand feels better than heartbreak

[@Sumayyahsikiru]

Thank youuu Aysha. It's so true, I'll take a pain in my arm over heartbreak. Knowing how deep it is, is like😪

[@mariamlovescoco]

You look so happy mA! Can you do a video on how to strengthen your relationship with Allah?

[@suemisosoup9949]

YES!!! I would love that as well.

[@BrooklynLondoner]

So many gems in this video. I can see how much healing you have had and you’re glowing sis.

[@annenkoane566]

I love how honest you are... I did pick up that you put Your marriage and husband on a pedestal. I felt guilty about that. I am so happy you are happy. Bless Your heart. You are a strong and brave woman ❤️❤️❤️

[@SamMKKK]

Omg glowy queen. I love the decor in your background!

[@npnp8989]

not one to usually comment and love all your stuff. But im proud of how you are handling everything and wish you all the best in self discovery and self love!!! I have a feeling this is going to be your best chapter yet...

[@AlexB-ny2vp]

The level of emotional resiliency that shows through in this video though. Aysha you are such an amazing role model

[@ethioagnogirl3768]

Thank you very much for your kind advice specially the red flag one. May all good things come towards you!!

[@sekinatsofenwa1733]

Am going through it now because I rushed into it but I think mine is more complicated am currently pregnant but I have cried several times by asking why just concluded Allah’s knows best...so I have learnt from this to be strong,thank you so much for this and will increase my Dua ❤️❤️

[@anettemensah89]

I promise you u look WONDERFUL! Wishin u mre blessings and happiness xx

[@simplykiaya]

Love the balance of sharing and not being too personal all the while being vulnerable. Can’t wait to continue to watch your growth and happiness ❤️

[@fardowsamusse3050]

Its crazy that you said that I was going through both at the same time and definitely agree. May Allah heal you fully and grant you better.

[@nancymichelle3943]

You are absolutely stunning ❤️❤️ thank you for letting us a bit further into your life... Sending love 😘😘 🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@hamzasmum2019]

You are looking amazing Masha Allah! Completely glowing like the full moon xx

[@ericahegehizaigadwa9934]

You look radiant Aisha...may Allah keep blessing you. Lots of love from Kenya

[@RihamOsman]

Your confidence in yourself is radiating mashAllah. I can see the growth. Keep going!

[@sivzy9356]

I've been watching you for years and you're a queen, keeping shining!!

[@sheemakhan9819]

Wish you all the best, hope you are doing better now!

[@hallumilimna8655]

I discovered your channel today and I'm already in love with your personality. May Allah bless and protect you.

[@afraababirye]

proud that she did this. mashAllah. may god bless you !

[@rkai28]

ur lazy sunday video is actually one of my faves. I think positive energy is great ofc but I think it's nice to see the rawness of life, even the low points and being able to relate to that. mashaAllah, really proud of your strength and growth, may allah swt bless u and grant you ease and give u better than what was taken from u ameen

[@carolinethewriter1013]

Followed you for this,happy for you❤❤❤

[@aydarusmohamed7982]

Hi all of you. I hope you are doing well. Dear sister Aisha thanks alot for the reminder " Trust what Allah has written" Well i am going through a stressful time. Please make Duaa for me. May Allah bless us all Amiin

[@journeywithjami]

I hope you're doing better these days, I'm praying for you!

[@viktoreawhite7641]

I love the honesty and advice! Thankyou for keeping it real and always being authentic.

[@Cyberkatz487]

I love your weekly videos!!

[@sharonprosperity3584]

I am going through the toughest time of my life n watching you brings me calm vibes n comfort

[@nickio8533]

Really enjoyed watching this video and how you answered the questions. I’ve definitely taken some points from this. I’m really happy to see that you’re doing well♥️