Things I Wish I Knew Before Having A Baby

Things I Wish I Knew Before Having A Baby
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[@katharineturpen4157]

the biggest thing I learned after having my baby is that every baby is so different and not to place expectations on how your baby should be. ❤️

[@JessConte]

Yes 👏🏼 so good! Every baby is soooo different!

[@hannahharris8144]

THIS! I wish I could go back and tell myself to relax and just go with the flow with how my baby is. Makes it so much more enjoyable anyway!

[@musiclife-vf3ci]

Absolutely agree with this times 1 billion… My first literally did not sleep through the night until she was a year old. And my second has been only waking up once during the night since he has been a month old… I also haven’t been putting him on a strict schedule anymore, so I think that’s it! Not putting the pressure on them to be the perfect baby we think they should be… Because in reality, all babies are perfect little gifts!

[@nataliejk27]

So true!! I love hearing from moms of multiple children how each was so different even though they did the same thing.

[@anamegoeshere]

@@JessConte the funny this is, on the title of the video they have BOOKS about "what to aspect" before having a baby............. but i guess reading that book was a no go and being on the phone was a better plan.

[@kassdroid]

I love that you are still able to make mom content without overexposing your daughter to the internet, I think you have a really great balance! My baby is almost 6 months old, a lot of these things I have learned and dealt with as well. I also watched your pregnancy videos at the same time I was going through it and now I watch the videos you post now with Makaiah postpartum. It definitely has made me feel less alone in my mom journey, considering I don’t have any mom friends to look up too. So I really appreciate it 💛

[@JessConte]

this comment really means a lot! motherhood is the most special season for me and I've really been trying to find a way to share *my* journey with it while still not making it all about her. so thank you 💛

[@lindatrani4532]

Amen 🙏🙏

[@madtkenn]

hi jess! idk if anyone else has commented this yet, but all moms’ body odor changes to be a bit stronger after birth for awhile and while you’re breastfeeding to help the baby find you / their food easier! you’re not crazy or making it up, don’t worry! :) it’s just your body trying to do everything it can for your precious baby! 💛

[@Meleannieliz]

I can’t believe she’s already 8 months, God bless her and her wonderful parents🤍

[@giuliacroce9680]

I love how you both are doing your best to keep her away from the spotlight. It says a lot about you and it is very refreshing to see!

[@JessConte]

I really appreciate you saying that. It’s a tricky balance but trying our best 💛☺️

[@ruvie02]

I know for sure I'll come to these videos when I have kids of my own. Thank you for sharing your journey with us

[@JessConte]

that is so sweet, thank you 🥲

[@hiya511]

Honestly I'm a mother and this is definitely a good video to follow :)

[@nsilvaguzman]

These videos of Mom Jess are so heart warming ❤️‍🩹

[@hannahgreendyk354]

This is such an amazing, unassuming video.💕 I love how you share your joy in motherhood. Nothing has challenged me as much as being a mom, but nothing has made me happier than getting to raise our daughter (plus another one on the way❤) with my husband. Thank you for being realistic in your approach.

[@rachelteo1236]

You are an amazing mother, Jess! Love your videos! You’re like my Internet older sister 🥰

[@JessConte]

🥲💛

[@jovonnamawk4285]

I honestly love all of your content, you’re like the big sister that I never got. By you sharing your life, getting married, faith life, and now motherhood, you make it a lot less scary for those of us trying to figure out life together with you ❤️

[@naida_sch181]

I'm only 24 now and i'll probably wait with having a baby for some more years 😄 but i love content like that and i love that you're just so honest Jess. It feels like a big sister is talking to me 😊 i'm sure, you're such a great mom! 🫶🏻🥰

[@joycenaluyinda9743]

Jess, I appreciate your posts lately. Your transparency, your advice. Honestly, I appreciate it very much.

[@tamar4538]

I loved watching this video. Even though I'm only 19, I love hearing you talk about motherhood and it genuinely makes me excited. I love how you're glowing, and so honest and open about anything. Wish you all the best.

[@emiliebivort9469]

I love how you are telling your experience being a new mom. Not making this about Makaia but about you and sharing your experience. Being open about personal stuff but not making it awkward. All these things are so important for new moms, like it can be so uncomfortable to have gas for a baby and it’s totally normal and im sad to hear that no one told you how to deal with it, how to solve it.. thank you for being so open about your experience 💛

[@Sage-oy6ir]

I think it’s amazing how you are using what you’ve learned being a new mother to help other moms, so encouraging to see God use your story in such a way ❤ praying for the conte family

[@Kj-tv5kp]

So grateful for your plug about how amazing motherhood and that others are so quick to talk down on it. We’re pregnant, unexpectedly, and honestly really stressed about it. This is the first video I’ve seen that eased stress but was also informative and honest. ❤

[@mimiyee28]

Yay I missed your weekly vlogs! You’re such an amazing mum. Makaiah is so lucky to have you 👏🏽❤️

[@bethanywoolgar7344]

Thank you for this video!! I’m 30 weeks pregnant with my first baby and it’s easy to feel overwhelmed by all the things that will be changing soon, so I appreciated this video ❤️

[@bakesourdough23]

Thank you Jess for sharing ❤ I’m not a mom yet but we want a baby and sometimes hearing negativity makes me feel very scared but hearing you’re opinion and seeing you as a mom helps a lot! God bless you and your beautiful family ❤

[@julesolaguer8679]

genuinely admire how open jess is with everything. it's so helpful

[@shaniapol5842]

Silent follower here! Loved this video - especially the last 3 tips. You are wise for your age and I appreciate your perspective! I agreed with all these tips and will totally share this video with friends of mine when they are pregnant with their first ❤️ Thank you for filling KZbin with such positivity and authenticity

[@lauraferreira199]

you’re an absolutely incredible mother jess, makaiah is extremely lucky to have you and gabriel as parents! god bless you and your family! love you 💕 xx

[@the.undividedheart]

I love this video and how real/honest it is and accurate!!! It is OK for moms to say that the beginning stages of motherhood are hard but that doesn’t make them not beautiful, special, and the best days! Beautiful and tough can co-exist!

[@treesa2020]

I'm so grateful I'll have these videos to come back to someday and I know these will make me feel so calm and peaceful. Thankyou jess. You're so beautiful and kind and I'm grateful that I have you to look up to. ❤❤

[@shannongarcia326]

I’m due this Saturday with my first baby, a little boy, and I appreciate all the honesty and advice you’ve given since Makaiah!

[@meg3428]

Praying for safe labor and delivery! May God’s will happen in your life, and your baby boys life!! As well as those you love. God is with you through it all! Alway and always! (Look up the difference between the two it’s a blessing, He is both for His children Forever more!) remember you’re needed and loved! As you go into this journey how you feel is important and matters. You can talk to those around you, someone outside of your circle, and most of all the Lord! God gives us people to talk to when we need them and uses us/them through Him! He provides what we need through Him! Glory be to God! Have a great week!! ❤❤❤ God bless❤

[@chloemicklefield6278]

it’s reading week + this video felt so cozy to watch on a monday 💛💛

[@sierraslater281]

Ugh so relatable. So hard yet so rewarding. My baby girl is 4 months old and I’m just holding onto the light at the end of the tunnel for when the sleep regression is over

[@peytongolleher707]

This is so helpful and encouraging. Thanks Jess ❤️

[@banana123utube]

you are such an amazing mum, I am nowhere near being a mum myself but if I was this advice would put my mind at ease so much, you are so calm and this is a great video for any upcoming mums

[@nicoleleecorea8408]

Something of you guys that’s so peaceful and good for us to watch, thanks you keep making videos, we appreciate you💞

[@niatitamin6718]

i admire to become an amazing mum like you.. you're so sweet, caring and graceful mum.. lot's of love.

[@stephaniemuijzer]

Thank you Jess, I'm almost 35 weeks pregnant and I needed to hear these experiences. I feel prepared but some things u can't prepare for. U guys are awesome parents

[@JessConte]

totally! some things you just can't prepare for and will experience first hand haha 🤭 congratulations! it is such a special time 💛

[@akemi187]

I can't believe how informative this video was! I'll be coming back to this when I have kids of my own one day, thank you Jess 💛

[@saraherrera3113]

I look forward to these videos every week! Love seeing you as a mom Jess! Xoxo

[@tatumtravelsyay]

I've been here since watching Gabe surprise you in Australia for the first time. this is a sweet reminder of His faithfulness. going to watch it again after this

[@justaemogirlwhosings9375]

Love this! My baby is almost 7 months old,my hospital made us take the cpr course before she was allowed to be discharged. I'm on baby #2 and can't see what new things happen haha,you're an amazing mom❤

[@elizabethhope7623]

Thank you so much for your encouragement at the end of the video! I’m currently expediting my first and am due in July, and your words were very needed! 💛💛

[@noreentherese5641]

I love how you immediately jump into the video. I can totally relate with the enhanced sense of smell, I'm a Mom of a 5yr-old.

[@lenab.1793]

I have a 5 week old right now and I can relate to absolutely everything 🥺 so great to feel understood

[@sam_.0613]

It’s been a while ! Thank you for uploading 💜

[@sofiagiontameli9969]

I relate to every single point!! Such helpful input for soon-to-be mums ❤

[@camryn04]

a little late but you are so inspiring as a mom. i truly think you are doing an amazing job and i’m not a mom myself but i can’t help but think how blessed makaiah is to have you as her mom🫶🏻 love you and your family so much jess!😊

[@annawelk7742]

I loved this video so much!!! I’m 22 weeks pregnant with my first and I don’t know how to feel about postpartum. I’ve heard so many different experiences and This was so helpful to hear!

[@alicetsai07]

Love watching Jess’s videos 🥰 already made my day thanks Jess 💕

[@strawberrykatnz]

Super handy to know, thanks Jess! Fellow Aussie in Europe here. My partner and I are seriously considering trying having our own. Interesting to know you mentioned the First Aid training course because I was looking at one here for adults and children, one of the advanced ones so I think I will go and do it. I just wish there was a cat/dog first aid course too for my beagle girl as well. All this is great to know even when just at the consideration stage of a family to keep it real and informed. Much appreciated! I'll definitely do the First Aid training course anyway so this cements my decision. 😊

[@angelinegabrido]

I LOVE YOU JESS!!! ❤

[@dear868]

Another fabulous video 😊I would like to add, after having a little potato, it’s important to not be so hard on yourself especially when it comes to personally meeting deadlines or completing projects you had in mind.

[@areemshahid2156]

Celebrating Ramadan and watching you. Two of my favorite things to do. ❤

[@summerspencer5282]

Thank you momma i just came back from hospital my pregnancy has been draining but seeing this makes me feel so much better ❤

[@sp1ralg1rl]

you have such a calming and positive presence! love & look forward to watching your videos :)))

[@reneescholpp9292]

I have a 3 month old and your videos have helped me sooo so thank you for the wonderful advice! You are truly inspiring Jess and I just love the love that you have for the lord, it's very rare to see influencers talk about God so openly. So keep continuing to share his greatness. God bless you all 💕

[@gracealonso6882]

I agree with the marriage part. Our foundation of friendship and working as a team really blossomed after becoming parents. Even through colic and a high needs baby, it is what has carried us. If you do the work beforehand, it will pay off! Get counseling, talk to good married friends, friends who have been married longer, etc.

[@sachaduplooy8670]

Thank you for sharing your experience 😊 beautiful family

[@mavzunakasymova3694]

Jess you are an amazing person I love you from the bottom of my heart

[@justinasouza2311]

I am not a parent but I can definitely appreciate the information in this video. And I have to say really enjoyed how are you changed your locations as you were speaking to us: made it even more engaging.

[@stephaniemenendez142]

Thank you so much for sharing ❤️. Our first little one is due in about 2 weeks and it is very calming hearing you talk about how your motherly instincts kick in and that even though it’s hard, it’s the best! Trying to keep a positive and calm attitude going into this new season!

[@xxxaniaxxx1000]

Thank You Jess. I’m currently in my 22nd week of pregnancy. First pregnancy ever, after over 2 years of trying for. We are extremely excited for this chapter but at the same time so confused how everything will look like. I’m saving the video for the future, as well. Who knows when I will need to be back to your advice 🙂

[@alychiriboga2511]

I love your vlogs Jess! My baby boy is 7 months, so I feel like our timeline is very close. I can relate to so many of things you shared.

[@tima5516]

thank you so much for making this video jess! even though I am not married or have a baby but it is just helpful to know so when the time comes I won’t be as surprised or nervous.

[@marianasmith8581]

you are the sweetest ever and you are such a great mom❤

[@salesyahmaulidaputri1292]

Happy little family❤

[@gracejasper6825]

Hey Jess! I love your videos so much❤️❤️ They are always so calming. Anyway, one tip I have for biting while breastfeeding is when my daughter starts to bite I plug her nose until she releases. It’s worked really well for me, and I hope it helps you❤️

[@darlenejohnson993]

Thanks so much for this video ❤️ my daughter is 6weeks & I can definitely relate

[@valerietan1691]

18 mins video!!! 😍 Always happy to see an upload from you 💛💛

[@fashiondiva408]

Ty for this, found out a couple weeks ago that I am pregnant. I’ve always watched these type of videos but now they are even more informative!

[@tisha1109]

I appreciate this video. I’m pregnant and feeling sorry for myself its hard and depression is hitting me hard. And whats to come makes me stress if I can even handle it. This makes me feel better knowing its not just me.

[@JessConte]

oh I am so sorry you haven't been feeling good. I pray that the rest of your pregnancy is smooth and comfortable 💛

[@heypriscillaaa123]

I'm 33 weeks pregnant now and this video helps a lot on what to expect after giving birth, really appreciate that❤ Can't wait to experience all that bazaar and little moments with her. ☺

[@biancajc]

When you're in it, it feels like eternity but if you think about it, it's only about a year or two of not sleeping much and not getting much alone time... in the grand scheme of things, that's nothing! It will fly by! Loved this format of video, Jess 💛

[@JessConte]

love this so much!!

[@got7ismyworld692]

you are a super mum jess! sending loves to you and cute makaiah 🥹💕

[@angelinegabrido]

I'm very proud of u!!! love makaiah so muchh ❤

[@tahlia4189]

Jess, you are such a blessing to me! So grateful for all the love and care you put into all your videos. Praying for the continual abundance of God's favour and immense blessing upon you in this precious season of life that you are in 💛

[@micacuyco]

also LOVING the longer motherhood themed videos 🩷🩷

[@JessConte]

thank you so much 🥲

[@MayaKarampalasi]

"I'm here as well, thank you" Love you guys, you are doing great

[@christinaelk8727]

Yes First Aid and CPR and Choking prevention training are a Must!!!....I seen this one thing where it's called the human vac lol but I'm thinking of buying one of those for baby's and child size and adult size and keep those in my home to just help if someone or myself ever chokes! Maybe that's something everyone should have 😁👍❤️

[@JessParr1408]

Thank you for these helpful tips! I’m currently 10 days overdue and hoping to meet my first son or daughter soon 🤍

[@remani_2105]

Thank you so much for this video ❤. I am going to be a mom in almost 2 months, and I have been watching a lot of videos on what to do and what to buy....etc. Let me tell you, you are the only one whom I have watch her whole video to the end and enjoyed it. The way you delivered the information is jusy easy and nice ❤

[@x0saturn0x8]

Hi Jess! I don't usually leave comments but this video has been so soothing and reassuring as I'm currently expecting a baby of my own later this year 💞 I love how realistic, honest, and positive you are with motherhood and parenting. Thank you for reassuring that a lot of challenging aspects of new parenting/motherhood in the beginning such as breastfeeding and sleep will get better over time. Appreciate hearing what you've learned so far in your own journey! ❤

[@JessConte]

this means soooo much. thank you and congratulations!! I pray everything goes smoothly 🥰

[@x0saturn0x8]

@@JessConte Thank you so much, Jess! 🥰💖

[@kiarahernandez3269]

Yesss loved this and love ur long videos Jess ! 🥰

[@samanthahages1218]

So grateful for you being so open and honest that is what i love and need in life i am pregnant and tell my none pregnant friends all about it so they can be more prepared when it is there turn in future even tho every pregnancy and every baby is different some of the things that are spoken about may end up being the same and can reassure each other that it is NORMAL and we are all doing our best so thank you for the advice.

[@christinehubert1203]

I love watching these videos! No baby here yet, but likely in the next year I’ll be back trying to gain all the knowledge on pregnancy and newborns ❤ One ask: do you ever see yourself recording yourself bullet journaling? That is so fun to me but I don’t know how to start!

[@gandasomuch]

thank u, jess. will watch this video again when i'm in the middle of a parenting phase. 💛

[@laurafreeman3335]

I don't have kids but or have a have a baby but I do really enjoy it you telling your story about the things that you wish that you knew when you became a mom you're the sweetest loving little little awesome girl that want that and I love you know watching you and I think you are an amazing mom and you know keep keep going forward but I love hearing your story

[@MummaBauer]

So proud of you my bubs 💗

[@ralucaneagu9444]

Thank you! 🤗🤍

[@ayushi_00]

u guys are the best💜

[@bhavyasharma4398]

i love your content. Been following for the past 5 yrs. You inspire me so much. Love from India.

[@camilaniram]

you are doing great mama!

[@kayleigh3331]

i am loving these mum videos

[@samanthasaez1008]

So comforting to see this video! My husband and I want to start trying 😭

[@JessConte]

Awww wow. Thinking of you 🫶🫶

[@Kma123]

I feel like my personality is a lot like Gabes - I’m outgoing but NEED my time to recharge. I also will get overstimulated pretty easily. Could Gabe make a video about the adjustment for him and how he’s dealt with it? I think I want to have a baby in the future but I’m really on the fence considering babies require a lot of your energy😅

[@MJ-ng8ze]

Love from South Africa! 🇿🇦❤️

[@naomitrollopeillustration]

Omgoodness yes Jess about those pull-to-the-side nursing bras… I barely use the clippy ones. And I know what you mean about feeling thirsty. When I literally bring my almost one year old to the breast I literally feel my tongue get dry haha I need constant water. Thanks for such a lovely and insightful video ❤

[@carlajoyswan]

Thanks Jess for this video 🩵🩷 i will watch again when i have my own baby😊❤️ xxx

[@anitanvrk358]

I can relate the the smell thing! I never felt like my sweat smelled bad but then after c0vid I felt like every time I sweated I smelled terribleee like never before. I’m convinced it had something to do with -vid too!

[@sarinab8654]

Love these videos❤

[@natalieohlsson7777]

Love this Jess ❤

[@lisa.bresser]

I absolutely love this video especially now I’m gonna be a mom and it’s just a scary happy moment Jess you are being such a good mom

[@carragenmaddison5311]

You are very blessed with a good sleeper… my girl is 2 and still doesn’t sleep through! It’s very exhausting! And for the first year of breastfeeding I also felt I smelt but apparently I didn’t… but after a year I no longer noticed a smell! ❤️

[@memyselfmartini2328]

Amazing video Jess, so honest and gentle ❤ You're such a lovely mumma... also, I am that girl 💁🏻‍♀️ and that's why my hair is up pretty much all most of the time haha hate it in my face

[@julievaldez21]

Just heard about the shooting in Nashville! I am praying and hoping you all stay safe 😢