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@chadsta37322 жыл бұрын
Idk what to comment
@complex2live2 жыл бұрын
Can you do I spent a day with MatPat?
@ayjockALT2 жыл бұрын
Ok
@idolwhisper2 жыл бұрын
OOO
@sridingenbaba2 жыл бұрын
Thanks mate . ..
@theslowmoguys2 жыл бұрын
Really appreciate being given a safe and dedicated space to talk about my incident. Big thanks to everyone who watched, big thanks to Anthony, and the highest of respect for Cash and RJ for what they went through. - Gavin
@ODST_Walker2 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry you, Meg, and your cats had to go through that Gavin. I can't imagine what that was like, but I'm glad that you're still here, you're strong enough to, as Monty would say, "Keep moving forwards", and that you're here speaking about this to help uplift other victims. Y'all are incredibly strong, and y'all are loved. Thank you for your coming on to share your story. Just remember, there's always the loyal fans of Rooster Teeth, AH, along with regulation listeners and comment leavers of the F**KFace Podcast, along with all the friends and family you've made who are/were co-workers at RT/AH who all care about you. Please, stay awesome, stay safe, and never forget that you have plenty of people who support you and would understand if you took time to yourself and Meg so y'all can get help over this. 💕
@squirrelbeez51232 жыл бұрын
You are amazing for sharing such an intense story. It’s great you were able to get courage to talk about such a thing, and it’s crazy it can happen to literally anyone. Keep being great, and best of luck to you
@scaleonkhan1832 жыл бұрын
I had no idea that this went down. Thank you for your explanation and detail. May we all be safer and wiser, even when we're dealing with batshit crazy.
@madisonyoung27712 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story Gavin, I'm glad you are at the point that you feel comfortable sharing some of your incident with others and I hope you and Meg have been able to find some peace with what happened. ❤ much love to you both
@alexlong73882 жыл бұрын
Sending love to all of you guys and your families. I hope you find peace, been a fan for a decade now
@crocoshark40972 жыл бұрын
"I didn't want him to die either. He had a kid." I admire coming out of such a harrowing event with that kind of compassion intact.
@JMarta2 жыл бұрын
It truly amazed me that he feel that way. What an genuine good person he is!
@LoreLibrary-Official2 жыл бұрын
@@JMarta and only 12
@ianwinkler62242 жыл бұрын
@@TheInfinitlyProlonged Agreed. That kid isn't going to turn out so good if his father stays around.
@mkg21242 жыл бұрын
That kid would be better off without him tbh.
@kaical82732 жыл бұрын
@@TheInfinitlyProlonged we aren't in the dark ages
@gabbyb59182 жыл бұрын
An incredible amount of respect to RJ - choosing to show mercy after such a traumatic event is not something everyone can do
@leopardo352 жыл бұрын
He truly is a better person than most. I wouldn't be able to be so forgiving.
@NoraMakesSounds2 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I wouldn't have been able to do that, personally. Glad to see there are people in this world like that.
@forgetfuldullahan54682 жыл бұрын
He's a stronger person then I. I would want want to fry.
@dead_beatbunny2 жыл бұрын
@@skin4013 I don't think this is a scenario where there is a right and wrong thing to do. This man killed four of his family members and tried to kill him. RJ would have been just as right to be angry and want him to die. He did what was right for him. It isn't the right thing for everyone.
@lilchubbers2 жыл бұрын
I wouldn't be able to do that at all
@piplupcola2 жыл бұрын
For those who dont know Meg is still very traumatised by this event and can't take hearing anything that sounds gun related, she had to leave the set even during extra life once because seeing Gavin in any danger was making her nervous. Please be reminded that even years after an event people still can feel far from what happened so please be respectful of them and what they been through. The love of her life almost got shot to death because the killer taught she was too beautiful for him, even if it was not her fault you can see how traumatic that must've been for her.
@jessirose2 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️
@crazytacolady89102 жыл бұрын
who's meg
@noahpuglia12572 жыл бұрын
Gavin's wife
@Kyle_Hubbard2 жыл бұрын
@@crazytacolady8910 Gavin is from the SlowMoGuys, got in with RoosterTeeth and became one of the original AchievementHunters. At RoosterTeeth he would met Megan who originally came from somewhere else I can't remember and she did hosting for another channel and would host for things at RoosterTeeth.
@TheJjcczz2 жыл бұрын
@@noahpuglia1257 They’re not married, but have been together since 2013
@xoronaqtvods10482 жыл бұрын
The fact that RJ didn't want the guy who took away his entire family and scarred him for life to get the death penalty because he has a son just really shows how much of a good person he is and how he doesn't just want vengeance but to give his kid a chance to still see his dad
@sarahwithstars2 жыл бұрын
It's amazing he can still have so much compassion. Shout out to his foster parents who helped him grow up into such a decent guy regardless of that horrific event in his most influential years!
@PrincessofKeys2 жыл бұрын
That is literally what a strong person is in my opinion. Even if someone does something horrible you still have the compassion to not take vengeance back on said person. I know it's horrible and many people I'm sure would do it without hesitation condemning them to death or whatever that's going to happen to them.
@dRac_XII2 жыл бұрын
the state shouldn’t have the right to kill anybody but i would sure as hell hope he got his head smashed by another inmate
@Akaynonek Жыл бұрын
If i knew that my father killed a family with kids I would never want to see that monster ever.
@loganzacher9911 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely, and I know it didn't mention it in the video but it was also revealed that the killer, Mark Duane Edward's, has a mental disability with an IQ under 75. I'm curious if this helped influence his decision at all or if it was solely based on the man being a father. Either way, he shows an incredible amount of compassion to not only be able to forgive him, but to argue for his salvation as well.
@gutzbankz2 жыл бұрын
I honestly love how Anthony is so calm and doesn't rush these people.
@kylabella052 жыл бұрын
He’s always so engaged as well, I really appreciate the way he can take sensitive and hard to talk about subjects and make them into a conducive and educational video for viewers. I’m sure his guests do too!
@Lee-xw7gf2 жыл бұрын
He really is an amazing interviewer. He asks the hitting questions but doesn’t pressure the people and doesn’t sensationalize the story.
@khayze32982 жыл бұрын
I saw the nigg word sometimes
@lilyForeman12 жыл бұрын
@@khayze3298 wdym
@f4r3sss2 жыл бұрын
he has the best interviewer shirt for a reason Jokes aside, he stands out among other interviewers for his ability to create a safe environment for the guest. He deserves the success he gets
@ascoroid2 жыл бұрын
i dont think enough people are talking about cash's story, dude went straight in and took him down, what a champ
@owenfoster32572 жыл бұрын
Incredible bravery
@joytaime68902 жыл бұрын
agreed, he's extremely brave
@dazedanimates2 жыл бұрын
He went for that attacker like a cobra! Seriously fearless
@MelissaHillikerNPets2 жыл бұрын
Right!? That's crazy!
@DabiHadAPoint2 жыл бұрын
A self defense instructor I had said it will take that person more time to shoot let alone aim so if you can catch them off guard like he did, you take the upper hand. Not only was that very ballsy, but was definitely the right course of action especially with something as bulky and hard to control as that thing. Big heck yeah to him and also , the audacity of the intruder to demand his gun back like ????sir????
@TheRealGuywithoutaMustache2 жыл бұрын
People can be so ruthless to one another, these home invasion stories really make you think about your own safety because it could happen to literally anyone.
@PauI.2 жыл бұрын
It honestly gives me the chills, like how can people just.. ____ other people..?
@APairOfOldSkoolVans2 жыл бұрын
My dude be in EVERY comment section
@bwoo98662 жыл бұрын
@@APairOfOldSkoolVans RIGHT!?!?!
@Maya-ee7cn2 жыл бұрын
Jellal again, idk how many times I’ve replied to ur comments
@bridgetogunsola8152 жыл бұрын
@LA C But the thing is only Gavin has a KZbin channel tho. The rest of them didn't and one was 12
@cassidysprinkle51132 жыл бұрын
As an army vet with ptsd I just want everyone to know. Never feel ashamed by what happened to you that caused your ptsd. You are a warrior
@boohbee7849 Жыл бұрын
This is really sweet. I had people tell me my PTSD from being sexually assaulted wasnt real, that PTSD is reserved for people in combat. Thank you for breaking that mentality
@RonLaws Жыл бұрын
@@boohbee7849 I agree, the clue is in the name - the type of trauma it is, is irrelevant. It still effects you and your mental health. Stay safe and don't be afraid to talk to people you can trust when you need to.
@ashtonyukio8761 Жыл бұрын
18-years-old & have suffered from the affects of PTSD for 6 years of my young life. There are no words that are able to describe the complexity of the trauma and how much it has taken away from me. I’ve spent every day begging heaven above to make the pain end. I don’t want to spend my life like this.
@RonLaws Жыл бұрын
@@ashtonyukio8761 you should reach out to someone who can help you professionally, they can spend time with you and work with you to help you manage the condition. they can't change or erase the past, but they can help you get back control of your life and deal with the situation it has left you in.
@Orcanaria215 ай бұрын
I'm 30 and I have PTSD from flipping my car on Thanksgiving 2019. I can't drive on wet roads and/or in the rain or steep hills or sharp curved roads without having some kind of reaction. When I brought it up to my mom, she didn't believe me and still doesn't. Pretty sure that I also have PTSD from her abuse when I was growing up as well.
@MsMusicObsession2 жыл бұрын
I’m impressed with Cash. The level of guts you need to just go for the gun is incredible. It shows how much he cared about the people around him as well. He pretty much risked his life to protect them and stop the intruder. It’s impressive The other stories show strength too, don’t get me wrong. But I just think Cash isn’t getting enough credit for what he did
@joebaxter68952 жыл бұрын
Better to be shot fighting back than cowering.
@spleens42002 жыл бұрын
Well… in that situation, the likely thought of… it’s either only he dies, or they all would die… why not make the sacrifice?
@reivax63682 жыл бұрын
his girl just dipped
@fnutek37202 жыл бұрын
@@reivax6368 what could she have done though. its probably what he wouldve wanted either way
@Koll-Manee2 жыл бұрын
@@fnutek3720 double team the guy? duh...
@emclovin69622 жыл бұрын
RJ’s story.. wow.. How could anybody do that? And not only did he shoot two children, but he went back and cut one’s throat?? What a monster. My heart hurts even imagining what they went through.
@AxxLAfriku2 жыл бұрын
NO! NO! NO! Many people say I am sick in the head. NOOOO!!!! I don't believe them. But there are so many people commenting this stuff on my videos, that I have 1% doubt. So I have to ask you right now: Do you think I am sick in the head? Thanks for helping, my dear m
@emclovin69622 жыл бұрын
@@AxxLAfriku Yeah, I’d say someone is definitely sick to make a bot to reply to comments about a child having his throat slit and being shot with their own self promotion. Channels that are actually good channels don’t need that shit.
@racheljenkins83402 жыл бұрын
And the fact that RJ could forgive the murderer and get the sentence downgraded to life in prison. RJ just seems like a beautiful soul.
@franny62212 жыл бұрын
@@emclovin6962 these bots r the worst :/
@imafreddyfazballer2 жыл бұрын
i rlly wiah i could have just given him the biggest hug poor thing
@Haileycartero2 жыл бұрын
I remember when Gavin and Meg went quiet on social media for months after this had happened. It’s terrifying for social media influencers because of the fact they can get targeted like this.
@emclovin69622 жыл бұрын
Recently Amouranth was talking on the H3 podcast about her fear of her (someday/future) child being snatched/targeted because she’s an influencer.. i can’t imagine having that added fear that extends from yourself to your child’s safety once you have one just because a lot of people follow you on social media :(
@Yojack8722 жыл бұрын
It's part of the package, fame comes at a price
@TakeACloserLook962 жыл бұрын
@@Yojack872 You are insane if you think fearing for your life daily is "part of the package" of making entertaining videos on the internet and is a worthy price for that lifestyle
@brandynamite30222 жыл бұрын
@@emclovin6962 yeah well it's not suprising considering the type of content she makes
@Emma-el8vr2 жыл бұрын
@@brandynamite3022 no one should feel as if their life is in danger or their child is going to be taken or harmed. It doesn't matter what kind of content they make.
@Emmalini2 жыл бұрын
Rj is honestly so brave, not wanting death upon someone who caused to much pain in his life is just wow
@beyondtheradio2 жыл бұрын
The state should not make the decision to end someone's life.
@Emmalini2 жыл бұрын
@@beyondtheradio mhm I agree cus sometimes after the traumatic event and having a loved one killed its like you don’t have the same fate to happen kills someone else’s loved one
@DemonGabe7772 жыл бұрын
That’s not being brave.
@Emmalini2 жыл бұрын
@@DemonGabe777 would you like to have family killed by someone you know then burn your house down slash you in the throat while only being 12 then decide that you don’t want to give then death because they had a child? Being able to go through that is brave was it self
@DemonGabe7772 жыл бұрын
@@Emmalini is not being brave, that’s bein weak. If someone did that to my family trust me I would end their life myself.
@ThePreppalicious2 жыл бұрын
I’ve been watching Gavin/ RT/ Achievement Hunter for YEARS. And I remember hearing about this as it happened, and was completely stunned. Hearing about the details now, years later and how *unnerved* and *uncomfortable* Gav sounds.. I’ve never heard him sound so on edge. He’s such a private person, and I appreciate him so much for sharing the details of this horrifying story. This kind of terror is unimaginable. I hope him and Meg will someday find peace, and feel safe again.
@TheChapelx2 жыл бұрын
I remember shortly after it happened and Meg went on her channel to announce she was pulling back from it and RT stopped announcing if Gavin was going to be at events.
@nikkinikkitembo9997 Жыл бұрын
I always remember how not long before that event, Meg talked about how she was having her dog stay with another family member because the dog was happier there; I’m glad the dog wasn’t a factor in that situation
@symmetricempire8 ай бұрын
It's sad because I remember times when some of AH would joke about how private of a person Gavin is, but then this happened and I'm sure they all not only understood but took steps towards being more private themselves.
@squidltoast Жыл бұрын
What happened to RJ was absolutely horrible but he is an absolute Tank
@ZeeQuatro Жыл бұрын
His neighbors were probably like "How tf is this kid alive!?!?!?!?!"
@zenix3318 Жыл бұрын
tbh, i had no idea he was 12 until he said it near the end. in my mind it was a grown man dealing with this up until that point, dunno if i missed it or if that is the first time its said but crap, i have kid and i honestly couldnt imagine, i paused the video to come find a comment about him. and yeah what an absolute unit, no one deserves that let alone a kid.
@mollikonki2 жыл бұрын
Cash is honestly so brave for going after the home invader. Just imagine yourself in these people’s positions… especially RJ’s… wow.. this is just so terrifying..
@Mehasperson2 жыл бұрын
the stress
@qweerlittlefish2 жыл бұрын
Agreed! Seeing the video footage was insane! What a courageous man!
@sock24702 жыл бұрын
Man took a loaded shotgun from a home invader
@tstarr83142 жыл бұрын
He was spot on about needing to be proficient in hand-to-hand combat. His reaction - to go for the shotgun - was a dangerous move but paid off because no one expects someone to walk towards a gun. His strength and ability saved their lives.
@POP-prod-102 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@irelandfromattilio45052 жыл бұрын
"I broke into your home and threatened both you and your fiancee with a gun but if you don't give me the gun back I am calling the POLICE!" Imagine thinking that you were in the right there. Like sure, call them, idiot, you broke into someone's house and they disarmed you before you could kill them. The audacity.
@dizzolve91892 жыл бұрын
You'd be surprised how frequently this happens. I had a situation recently where I needed an individual that was watching houses on my street to leave. It was the first time I've called the cops in my life, and because the individual knew I was calling the cops, they called the cops on me. I know quite a few people that have had the same thing happen, they call the police and when the police show up, it's because the person called the police on them.
@whattacatchdannie2 жыл бұрын
Like how fucked up do people gotta be to be that entitled???
@Polemistis041627 күн бұрын
As said in ABC's The Rookie, "When you're on the job long enough, you realize these criminals aren't the brightest in society."
@whydoineedtohaveahandle2 жыл бұрын
I bawled my eyes out listening to RJ’s story. You always see that shit on tv but hearing an actual person that went through that talk about it made it really set in that that can actually happen. I’m so sorry to all of these people.
@daphnedherbert2 жыл бұрын
Same. I especially was moved his story and his compassion. His decision to get the person who stole his families lives off death row, can be so compassionate and healing. I’m so glad he was able to do that, and it worked out.
@dead_beatbunny2 жыл бұрын
If you want to hear more, I survived is a great series that has similar and worse stories told by the people who went through them.
@SwizzleDrizzl2 жыл бұрын
I felt sick when he showed the scars on his neck. At least we can take comfort in knowing there are people in this world who will save us, like those wonderful wonderful first responders.
@lauragrace56222 жыл бұрын
I know! When you watch something like this in a show you can tell yourself it's just a show, they edited it; they faked it; it's not real. But this isn't a show. It's insane and terrifying.
@bryanwoods33732 жыл бұрын
That's sort of why one of my friends hates "think of the children" when people want more gun control. He was Security Forces in the Air Force, so he's thinking about the people it didn't work out for. The people that did just give up the money that can be easily replaced and were still executed. Situations like RJ's. You never know how far that criminal is actually willing to go.
@squeegee_ouija2 жыл бұрын
When RJ told his story, I felt my heart sink to the deepest pit of my stomach. I know that things can get messy when drug dealing and money are involved, but for somebody to to try and wipe out an entire family, just to make a point. It’s simply one of the most sickening things that I’ve ever heard. I cannot imagine the pain, betrayal and confusion he felt in those moments. It’s truly amazing that RJ survived and can continue to be a positive light in this world. It shows real character and has inspired me to be more forgiving.
@freddymcshreddy65862 жыл бұрын
I like how the break-in stories were told in order of most lighthearted to least. Cash’s story was pretty shocking and horrible but he kept in high spirits about it, no one was hurt and he even laughed at the suspect who wanted his gun back. Gavin story definitely had a more mellow tone to it as Gavin didn’t seem and cheery about it and even seems genuinely shaken up by it but thankfully no one was hurt in the process aswell. And RJ’s story… wow! That was something entirely different than what I was expecting.
@KartalaBreed2 жыл бұрын
I'd say the suspect shooting himself in the head and consequently being lit up by the cops counts as someone hurt in the process. lol But I'm assuming you meant no one innocent.
@freddymcshreddy65862 жыл бұрын
@@KartalaBreed I mean in all fairness he probably didn’t feel much.
@KartalaBreed2 жыл бұрын
@@freddymcshreddy6586 u rite
@crystalforest43432 жыл бұрын
All three of these guys are incredibly strong (as well as the women who were with them) I’m so impressed by the strength they used to survive these situations and I’m so glad they did!
@angelsoto32342 жыл бұрын
I personally would like to hear the spouses perspective as well
@chrisjackson61492 жыл бұрын
The first one ran away and didn't help him at all, that was infuriating to watch.
@whata_jackalope67032 жыл бұрын
@@chrisjackson6149 She'd just had a gun pointed at her head and was likely distancing herself 1. In case the gun went off during the struggle 2. So she could go call the police
@thespankmyfrank2 жыл бұрын
@@chrisjackson6149 I'm assuming she went to call the police. Pretty important to do that as well.
@Gnomey972 жыл бұрын
@@chrisjackson6149 it's called "fight or flight" for a reason. You have no idea what you are gonna do until you are in that situation.
@Rathzul2 жыл бұрын
RJ is a king for surviving all that, I mean he was shot, his throat was slit, and he got stabbed multiple times? Absolutely Crazy...
@karisdietrich19642 жыл бұрын
And the emotional/psychological trauma that was left behind as well
@Rathzul2 жыл бұрын
@@karisdietrich1964 That too, probably worse than the physical pain, because it sticks.... forever.
@ticklord2 жыл бұрын
Not to mention escaping a burning house with those wounds.
@gavanimates5992 жыл бұрын
And he was only 12??? It takes so much resilience
@midweekcentaur10502 жыл бұрын
Man's never going to die
@meowmew4442 жыл бұрын
RJ’s story, wow. He went through absolute hell and still worked to save the person who caused it, for the sake of his child. What an incredible human being, I wish him all the best.
@User-1939t92 жыл бұрын
especially at the age of 12 which is an age were lots of kids are still learning to be understanding and empathetic
@thatpenguinguy162 жыл бұрын
He refused to die he’s one tough stubborn mad lad.
@raicrush2 жыл бұрын
Cash is an actual hero. He saved his fiancée’s life. Amazing man.
@werz26432 жыл бұрын
so Chad 🥵🥵😫
@musicgraze Жыл бұрын
His opponent on the other hand… hes stupid
@EmmaTheCowie2 жыл бұрын
RJ straight up made me bawl. What an incredible human.
@xxnoxname2 жыл бұрын
RJ is such an incredible person. To stop a man who did all of that from being put to death shows how giant his heart is. That is not something most people would think to do. I'm glad such a wonderful person survived and continues to live in this world.
@daphnedherbert2 жыл бұрын
I absolutely agree. Though hopefully stories like his are spread much more. Stories of people who’ve forgiven the people who’ve taken everything from them, forgiving, is super powerful. The Norwegian justice system is much more compassionate, and has far less recidivism. It can be incredibly healing and far better for society. Such is the case of how victims and survivors of Anders Breivik have often dealt with him, and had more ability to heal and understand that some people are just horrible monsters but most aren’t. Most criminals commit crimes out of desperation, and poverty. That’s clear from RJs story.
@elizabethgrogan85532 жыл бұрын
@@daphnedherbert The Anders Breivik attacks made me admire Norway and Norwegians even more than I already did. I love your country & remember feeling helpless as news kept coming in. Your country was determined to recover and move on. Breivik will never be released and that is right. Families of those who died were unified in their determination to carry on. Survivors received great therapy. I've been back to visit and the country doesn't carry it's scars for all to see. I'm against the death penalty. There is no evidence that it solves or prevents crimes. In fact, there are some US studies that show criminals are more likely to murder victims to lessen the chance of being captured.
@MatthewArangatta2 жыл бұрын
@@daphnedherbert I feel like we shouldn't expect them to forgive these people though. Forgiveness is more for you to move on and it's okay to never forgive. I can never imagine how it would be to go through all that trauma and I wouldn't expect someone after that to show compassion. It's sure great if they do and the perp shows change, but I wouldn't want to expect it.
@charlottemansfield69162 жыл бұрын
It's insane he survived all those injuries he was so lucky
@FilthAndRuin2 жыл бұрын
You can see and hear just how shaken Gavin still is.
@Xx_YoLoSwAgMoNeYhOnEy_xX2 жыл бұрын
I don't know how i could ever deal with the fact somebody hunted me down and drove across the states just to kill me for no real reason at all, especially that he wrote it all down and planned this out. Like we really live in the same world as people like that and it's terrifying.
@merchantarthurn2 жыл бұрын
@@Xx_YoLoSwAgMoNeYhOnEy_xX Definitely, I'd heard some of his story before but not the part about the guy looking for him all day. I think that in addition makes it even more rattling
@evalynn18632 жыл бұрын
I've been a fan of Meg since Sourcefed many many years ago and I still watch her streams when I can and every once in a while she'll mention how therapy is going or about being triggered and still having bad days and you can tell it's affecting them both greatly still. Like, how do you get past the fact that someone wanted to and tried to kill you just because you existed and did what you loved to do?
@theyganona2 жыл бұрын
@@evalynn1863 it is so heartbreaking. during a recent extra life, i remember meg made a tweet about how she was logging off for a while and taking a break from conversation surrounding the stream because of the paintballs. people were joking about how michael and gavin were getting obliterated/killed by the paintballs and, while it was all in good fun in a greater context, she was talking about how basically any commentary surrounding gavin dying, being killed, being shot (even with paint) was becoming increasingly triggering for her PTSD and as the bit kept going for stream, it was getting too overwhelming. i can’t imagine how hard it is for either of them to be in a situation where they logically know that they are safe, that it’s a gag for a silly charity stream they are a part of, and to still be so triggered into fight or flight mode due to the trauma. ik that i’ll likely never know them personally nor will they know me, but i think about them a lot bcs of this and hope that they’re doing okay.
@evalynn18632 жыл бұрын
@@theyganona absolutely. I know our stories and journeys are completely different but I feel like I have a sliver of insight into how horrible it can get. I was almost killed by a medical professional that gave me a high dose of a medication I'm allergic to and then held me down when I tried to get up to get help. Completely different situation but my heart stopped and I almost didn't survive it. And then ironically a few months ago Meg talked about having Chiari malformation, which I also have, and I know how debilitating the anxiety was for me from my PTSD before I had surgery to relieve some of the pressure. Like, I couldn't leave my house for years kind of bad. Complete different context but if she's going through even a fraction of what I did, it's an absolute nightmare some days. I wish nothing but the best for both of them, the seem like genuinely decent people who did not deserve this.
@FullmetalNinja252 жыл бұрын
I remember reading about Gavin's home invasion, being a huge fan of Rooster Teeth I constantly check everyone's socials and when I started reading them Tweeting about Gavin's home being invaded I was like "Holy fuck is Gavin ok? Is Meg ok? Are their cats ok?". Tis the sad duality of Internet fame, there are both people that love and hate you and either side can take their feelings too far.
@APairOfOldSkoolVans2 жыл бұрын
Cool bi pfp
@ODST_Walker2 жыл бұрын
Honestly same here. I've watched Rooster Teeth since 2003. When I saw about what happened to Gavin, I freaked out and tried to make sure he was okay, Meg was okay, and their cats were too. When I saw they had hid and were okay, I about cried tears of joy because I was so thankful. I really hate that he went through this, but I'm glad that not only it didn't stop him, but he's out here speaking about it to help uplift other victims. He's truly incredibly strong.
@averageanimefan5192 жыл бұрын
I was scared we were gonna have another Christina Grimmie situation when I first saw the headline. Thankfully, he and Meg were okay and the only person the attacker hurt was himself. But the scariest part to me was just how dedicated the attacker was. He wrote 1,000 notes worth of stuff about Gavin and Meg. Then he drove 11 hours to do this plan. It's insane. It almost doesn't sound real.
@Xx_YoLoSwAgMoNeYhOnEy_xX2 жыл бұрын
I think his story is a little different than "well it's just because he's internet famous" obviously it puts more attention on him whether in good or bad ways, seeing that his attacker had everything planned and written out to the point he drove across multiple states just to track and kill him for no other reason than just wanting to cause harm really shows that anyone can be a victim at anytime. There are so many cold blooded murder cases out there that have no motive what so ever, people are just fucking insane sometimes.
@cambriajenkins66202 жыл бұрын
Did anyone else find it a bit odd that he didn’t bring Meg up in the whole episode?
@jakeking9742 жыл бұрын
I've actually heard these stories my entire life because my mom was about ten and someone with a knife invaded her home and she couldn't call 911 because corded phones, so she hid in a closet for over an hour, both covering her face and holding a pair of scissors in a deathgrip. Obviously, she survived, but we live 15 minutes from actual civilization and we still lock every door at night.
@RoseLPMCRGD2 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry!! I hope she's better now.
@foot-longari20702 жыл бұрын
how rj survived all of that and go through all of that trauma and still have the biggest heart in the world is unbelievable to me. he’s truly an angel- huge inspiration
@arvo-noon2 жыл бұрын
RJ is legitimately one of the best human beings I have ever seen, choosing empathy, kindness, mercy, and all that over for completely justified anger. And- even after all the shit he went through? What a fucking angel on earth.
@TheHeadlessHorseman2 жыл бұрын
I cannot imagine forgiving that person, I would probably go to my grave hating him for what he did. He is a much better person than a lot of people
@gimpystimpy53042 жыл бұрын
@@TheHeadlessHorseman yea you and me both brother, and literally everyone else lmao, rj is a fucking saint for being able to go through that and on top of it all forgiving the dude and saving him from death.
@mayesjoyessha5272 жыл бұрын
@@TheHeadlessHorseman I really have been thinking about this and I honestly think that I would try to forgive for the sake of my family and myself. I have a feeling that if my family was to pass, they would not want me to be angry or hold onto it. Otherwise, I would not be living my life or honoring them.
@J.Schooley2 жыл бұрын
He's a Godly man with honor
@mykarmapolice2 жыл бұрын
I can’t believe people thought R.J was weird for getting help. He went through a lot of trauma and lost his family. My heart goes out to him.
@Hax0rMariochat2 жыл бұрын
The people who thought he was weird for getting help are dense asf and need to buy an intelligence
@Johnnybam182 жыл бұрын
My fucking... just wtf Fuck. 12 years old. He lived. Just....
@coolmansz17422 жыл бұрын
@@Johnnybam18 are u having an seizure
@TheNotoriousDUDE2 жыл бұрын
To be fair, he was in witness protection, so the people judging him just didn't know what he'd gone through. By which I'm of course not saying that judging someone for getting therapy is *ever* okay.
@michaelsebastian65052 жыл бұрын
@@TheNotoriousDUDE I was going to say that. Of course people still shouldn't judge anyone going to a psychiatrist, but it's not like they were thinking "wow u lost your family and you are going to therapy? so weird" but, well... he did say he was in a car accident, so I think that is a good reason for someone going to therapy
@orionisx59842 жыл бұрын
Knowing self defence is one of the best things in a situation like these. My mother had a break in when she was in her 20's by a serial r•pist. He confronted her in her bed and was armed. She knocked the dude in the nuts so hard she bought herself enough time to run away screaming to alert others. Dude dipped out a window and broke his leg. Thanks to her, he was caught and she along with about ten other ladies got justice on that creep who is still in prison to this day
@jasminecrayton2 жыл бұрын
Wow.. Your mama is amazing!! God bless you and your family 💗💗 much love.
@Pieman352 жыл бұрын
Yeah people underestimate the power of a good shot to the balls. If you hit them hard enough, they will almost immediately collapse and unable to do anything. It depends on the situation though.
@bigboypal2 жыл бұрын
Tell your mother that she's a certified badass if you haven't already (heavily doubt you haven't but still)
@NepetaLeijonREAL2 жыл бұрын
People underestimate how effective a kick in the balls is for self defense and treat it more like a joke. As a guy, trust me it’ll do the job in a situation like that.
@Elegant_Sausage2 жыл бұрын
Your mom is a beast 💪
@Jack7.2 жыл бұрын
I would have never thought that someone would do that to Gavin. Nothing he's ever done has been controversial, and each video he makes he is teaching us with the power of his technology. I can't even call that man who tried to do that bad because of his illness. I really hope Gavin can somehow find peace after going through that terror.
@RiverM8rix2 жыл бұрын
If I remember correctly, it was a stalker fan of his girlfriend, and he was targeted for being the boyfriend
@Acavedweller2 жыл бұрын
@@RiverM8rix ya because of his mental illness he thought Gavin was abusing Meg and that Meg was in videos she was in and streams secretly telling him she was. He wanted to kill Gavin and kidnap Meg it’s fucked up.
@sarahwithstars2 жыл бұрын
@@RiverM8rix they didn't mention this for a reason...
@jaqenhghar62442 жыл бұрын
@@sarahwithstars oh yea? What reason.
@JorMFge2 жыл бұрын
I don’t think there’s a difference between being evil and being mentally sick . Not that all mentally I’ll people are evil but all evil people are mentally sick .
@madmattgaming39512 жыл бұрын
RJ must have wondered for a long time why he survived that night. My heart goes out to him, must have been a very long road to get to here.
@emclovin69622 жыл бұрын
My biggest fear as a kid was of a home invasion. My dad would always tell me it was irrational, and that I just had anxiety over everything. But heading these stories, it is comforting to know that I wasn’t crazy because it can happen out of nowhere. People are the scariest.
@cuca_2 жыл бұрын
Tbf your dad wasn’t wrong, bc there’s not much point getting super anxious over things that have 0.00001% of happening. You may as well live in constant fear of being struck by lightning too, yknow? So yes, of course be aware of potential dangers, but don’t let fear of freak tragedies rule your life.
@reeba48242 жыл бұрын
The best way to deal with those types of anxieties is to be prepared. That might be the best thing to teach children, so they won't be so worried. (Like teaching them what to do if there's an earthquake, flood, break-in, etc)
@cheyannecatalano29512 жыл бұрын
Yes it can happen out of nowhere but that's why you equip yourself with ways to defend yourself take classes and learn to fight back. Dont live in fear and anxiety live prepared for the worst but living for the best
@jaimemontes39632 жыл бұрын
Almost every crime that occurs the victim knows the offender. While random thing might happen, it’s very low
@RafidW92 жыл бұрын
Holy fuck RJ's incident was insanely brutal and grizzly. He was 12 too wtf. No one deserves to go through that. Hope he's doing well.
@4tuitous2 жыл бұрын
Great job Anthony & team! The episode came out wonderful. RJ's story is so touching! He is a big man for doing what he did to keep his offender from a death sentence. I'm glad Gavin & Meg are okay. People in this world can be crazy!
@AnthonyPadilla2 жыл бұрын
thank you for telling me your story, Cash! do many can learn from your experience so thank you again for being so vulnerable 🖤
@shannonceleste55572 жыл бұрын
Thank you Cash for sharing your story. Much love and light to you, RJ, and Gavin (and all of your families)
@cashhigh89182 жыл бұрын
Somehow my main channel got shadowbanned from commenting on this video right after I commented this. Maybe because I tagged Anthony? Possibly YT didn't like that. I did reply! Anthony Padilla You made it a pleasure. Your platform is wonderful. You give so many people who need to be heard a safe space to do so. (I have been catching up on past interviews since we filmed our's) Keep doing what you're doing & making the world a brighter place!!! & Thank you Shannon Celeste I hope the same to you!
@jeremyroskes53912 жыл бұрын
@@AnthonyPadilla have you heard of "that guy with the glasses" if so could you make a video where you spend a day with youtubers from TGWTG
@AtheneHolder2 жыл бұрын
bruh mad respect to you... taking on an armed person like that 🏆 PS only sorry you didn't get to drop kick his a$$ the audacity of that dude to ask for his gun back wtf
@kamryn1102 жыл бұрын
HOW THE HELL DID RJ LIVE THROUGH THAT? That’s insane. He clearly had someone looking out for him. They’re all so strong
@sarahwithstars2 жыл бұрын
I was looking for this comment. It feels almost impossible that he got out of that house under his own steam with two stabs wounds and a gunshot to the head ffs. That is some incredible physical and mental strength- before you even get to the mental strength to move forward in life!
@sebaynovuelve Жыл бұрын
Who was looking out for him? His whole family got murdered and he almost got killed. People act as if that was an act of god, an act of god would've been if he didn't get his whole family killed in the first place
@The_Hunta62 Жыл бұрын
He’s the main character
@Queef_Storm Жыл бұрын
"clearly had someone looking out for him" If god saved this guy then doesn't that mean god also let his family die? Where was their divine intervention?
@RockyLXXXVIII Жыл бұрын
@Queef_Storm seriously this “someone looking out for him” just allowed his entire family to be murdered, him to be practically tortured to the brink of death, and his house to be burnt down Kinda strange this “someone” allowed all that to happen but draws the line at him dying. Like the multiple homicides, child murder, torture, and arson are all fine but killing a second child is when it becomes too much.
@taylorcajuste1222 Жыл бұрын
Anthony is so empathetic and wonderful as a host. They are all insanely brave too…letting these stories be told, it really promotes healing and processing trauma
@TheMutantCreeper2 жыл бұрын
I heard about Gavin’s situation when the story came out. I felt so bad for Meg and Gavin because I watched Meg since SourceFed. It sucks that they’re still suffering, but at least they’re pushing through.
@angieemm2 жыл бұрын
RJ's story really spoke to me. Mine isn't nearly as tragic, but I had a similar situation happen when I was a young teen. Decades later, I still struggle with trust issues because of what happened and I cannot EVEN imagine how this man is making it. All 3 of these guys are excellent examples of the resiliency of the human spirit.
@meiris-ma2 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear that mate
@nonimous22532 жыл бұрын
i’m sorry i hope your okay :)
@angieemm2 жыл бұрын
@@nonimous2253 thank you. I was 13 & 14 during that time. I'm 45 now. Lots of therapy! I'd say I'm doing a lot better.
@superabi52142 жыл бұрын
It doesn't matter if it was less tragic. You're trauma is still valid :) I hope you're doing better now
@Leesworth2 жыл бұрын
"When someone breaks into your home, it shatters your last illusion of security. If you're not safe in your own home, you're not safe anywhere. A man's home is his castle, but it shouldn't have to be a fortress." -Calvin & Hobbes Much love to these 3 brave souls and their loved ones, as well as anyone else who has had to suffer these traumatic events ❤
@jessicajames87252 жыл бұрын
@@jessestockwell4096 ah yes. Guns. the answer to every problem
@bryanwoods33732 жыл бұрын
@@jessicajames8725 They certainly shouldn't be the first answer, but they need to be AN answer. Sometimes, violence is the only thing that works when you're dealing with someone that won't care how eloquent or impassioned your words are.
@FiSH-iSH2 жыл бұрын
@@jessicajames8725 the world would be a lot safer if guns were harder for criminals to legally obtain. more psychiatric examination to make sure the person youre giving the gun to isnt gonna use it for anything stupid.
@lattefox332 жыл бұрын
Calvin and Hobbes comin in with the wisdom once again
@Leesworth2 жыл бұрын
@@lattefox33 I honestly consider myself so lucky I had those C&H collections growing up
@evalynn18632 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad Gav and Meg are okay. I remember being absolutely sick to my stomach when they were able to talk about what had happened. Love and respect both of them so much for being able to talk about their story and the aftermath and toll it took on their mental health.
@DittoAPokemon2 жыл бұрын
I remember when Gavin and Meg tweeted about what happened and then reading articles. I was so relieved they were okay but also so terrified that happened to them and worried about how it affected them. I’m sad that it still affects them but really respect Gavin’s outlook and I’m glad he and Meg have been able to heal somewhat from it, even though they still battle with the trauma.
@jacksonspitsfax45262 жыл бұрын
Dude Cash is a savage. Hope yall have recovered from your experiences and we are here for you.
@PCLHH2 жыл бұрын
Yeah. I personally knew a man who tried the exact same thing during a home invasion. Well, he got shot dead infront of his family. Sad, but true.
@FezCaliph2 жыл бұрын
@@PCLHH he died a hero 🙏🏾🥲
@ruurtben2642 жыл бұрын
So Cash is a savage. Gavin is insane for being able to think clear during a robbery. And Rj is a massive tank. Emotionally and physically. Being able to talk about this and surviving that event on 12 year old. All the respect of the world to these guys
@supahflames2 жыл бұрын
I wouldn’t necessarily call it an “accident” but I agree with everything else. They’re all very impressive and courageous people, especially RJ.
@ruurtben2642 жыл бұрын
@@supahflames oh yeah maybe i could've formulated that better. So i did
@supahflames2 жыл бұрын
@@ruurtben264 🙏
@Audio0411942 жыл бұрын
I hope that Cash is taking some MMA classes, son would be even more savage if he had some BJJ and Muy Thai, and maybe a little Ji Kun do as well.
@Callon49682 жыл бұрын
Everyone shits on Gavin for how he acts in AH videos, but to hear that he recognizes this guy needed help instead of harsh emotions towards him. Makes me respect him much more to know he really does care for people. I'm sorry it happened to him, but I'm proud of how he reacted to it.
@mmisafire2 жыл бұрын
hes always been like that but with the jokey-ness of AH/RT that kind of thing didnt come up much. it was still really nice to hear that from him though. dude has been through some shit and i have serious respect for him still having compassion
@camblake21532 жыл бұрын
Am I the only guy who knows Gavin more from slow Mo guys than AH
@mmisafire2 жыл бұрын
@@camblake2153 no thats what most people know him from
@JugalSingh2 жыл бұрын
@@mmisafire Lol I remember watching the lets play channel as a kid and during that period I also started getting slow mo guys recommendations. Surprisingly, during that time, it took me 3 months to figure it gavin is the same guy lol
@Uchiha.Itachii2 жыл бұрын
But that person deserved to be hated though I wouldn’t care if the person needed help or not if they tried to kill me, bitch you’re not getting any sympathy from me
@berryshortcakee2 жыл бұрын
rj’s story is insane. i can never understand what triggers others to do such sinister things..
@fnutek37202 жыл бұрын
money. greed i feel is one of the worst sins. mostly because greed leads to anger, resentment, and everything evil in a person.
@coleneumann5076 Жыл бұрын
Exactly. What other kind of despicable, vile person do you have to be to shoot a boy in the head, proceed to murder his whole family, slit his throat, kick him, and set his house on fire with him inside?
@Omkar529 Жыл бұрын
Lot of people have messed up minds because of messed up lives, due to other messed up people around them, or messed up living conditions, or maybe it's self caused, or a combination of everything.
@dunasiajohnigan17372 жыл бұрын
April 30 I was a victim of home invasion and sexual assault. Watching this gave me hope for things to eventually become easier. Thank you for sharing your stories. Thank you for showing me that life does get better even if better is different then what my life was before.
@werz26432 жыл бұрын
holy 💩!
@periltheskywing21792 жыл бұрын
Omg that was so recent! I hope ur doing well :( no one deserves anything like that!
@scarsound2 жыл бұрын
RJ had such an incredible amount of compassion for his family’s killer that I can’t even begin to understand. Even as someone who believes strongly in forgiveness, it’s just beyond my scope of comprehension. I admire him greatly, I hope his surgery goes well and that he makes a steady recovery ♥️
@emmaearthling4442 жыл бұрын
This makes me both more empathetic to strangers bc you never know what someone’s dealing with and healing from. On the other hand makes me more terrified of strangers bc you never know what someone’s capable of or willing to do.
@sunte912 жыл бұрын
2 very powerful insights indeed.
@circumstantiallemon2 жыл бұрын
i was a victim of a home invasion while home alone at the age of 14 and gavin’s words at 23:03 made me cry. it’s a harsh reality to have your bubble broken. it’s also hard trying to live life with those around you who haven’t experienced something like that. sending love to all of these people. thank you for this video anthony ❤️
@dennydarkko2 жыл бұрын
Sending love to you and your family 🙏🏻
@finni15692 жыл бұрын
My house was broken into when I was home alone at 16 and yeah I still haven't recovered. I was the only one in my family to experience it and it's been over a year but they still leave me home alone every week. it's just panic all night.
@callierice78092 жыл бұрын
This video really spoke to me and opened my eyes. As someone who survived a home invasion at age 12 on a much lesser scale than these guys, it showed me that people who’ve had similar experiences are able to move on and survive, and if they can do it so can I. I’m 19 now and it still haunts me, some days are worse than others but there’s certain things that I’ll never be able to do or not be affected by again. This video made me feel so safe and heard so thank you Anthony, Gavin, Cash, and Rj so much for providing this platform and sharing your stories with us. Helped me more than anyone will ever know
@gargles52702 жыл бұрын
i hope you’re doing well 💖
@callierice78092 жыл бұрын
@@gargles5270 thank you so much I’m doing my best ❤️ sending good wishes your way too!!
@gargles52702 жыл бұрын
@@callierice7809 i’m glad to hear it, and tysm i’m doing well 💖💖
@Petrichoredits12 жыл бұрын
To all the people who are saying Cash’s fiancé didn’t help. Would you have ran away? Yeah, probably. She most likely went to call the police or grab something to fight back.
@xanniebeats80652 жыл бұрын
nah, the intruder had his back turned to her for like 10 seconds while they were wrestling. it would have been super easy to help, but she literally just watched instead. she could have gotten them both killed if her boyfriend hadn't won the fight
@talkidrew2 жыл бұрын
@@xanniebeats8065 when people wrestle over a gun there is a high chance on a negligent discharge, 3 people even worse which could gotten someone killed
@vulpusgenius Жыл бұрын
fight, flight, or FREEZE
@Queef_Storm Жыл бұрын
@@talkidrew all the more reason to help her boyfriend unarm him as quickly as possible
@angelob2383 Жыл бұрын
@@xanniebeats8065there’s no reason to criticize her actions when you were not there. You don’t understand the shock and disbelief that people and helplessness in those moments. Just think about it for any moment. The entire thing happens on like less than a minute. And there was still a possibility of her losing her life getting involved.
@brianahoneybee24872 жыл бұрын
As someone who has been a fan of Gavin's since I was 13 years old, so 10 years, the events of 2018 was horrific. I deeply care about Gavin and Meg (his girlfriend), who was there, it broke my heart that this happened to them. Hearing Gavin's trauma response in the video made me cry. I cannot understand how anyone can do this to someone, famous or not. Same goes to RJ. The fight in him as a 12 year old is awe inspiring. His will to live and his compassion as an adult is also awe inspiring. Also, Cash is a badass. Took that fucker down without a second thought. Good on him. And good on everyone in this video for continuing to live and thrive despite these events. It is not your fault trauma happened to you.
@readmyname45372 жыл бұрын
RJ’s story was so emotional. Its a miracle that he survived the invasion. Much support to him.
@lalithrockz2 жыл бұрын
And to have empathy for the killer's kid? That's a Saint.
@-waqsa2 жыл бұрын
I honestly just love how Anthony deals with such vulnerable topics like this. He ensures that the interviewee is comfortable with talking about the topic, and still doesn’t ask questions that are too invasive.
@jameshall63992 жыл бұрын
Crazy to think this is the dude from classic smosh
@anonymoususer2336 Жыл бұрын
I didn't hear about the one with Gavin until about a year after it happened, and was completely shocked, but not surprised. Given that he has an attractive girlfriend who is an internet personality, we all know there are endless creeps who would stalk her, and people who would just be overall jealous of Gav. I'm just glad they were both okay, and I hope they've been able to find peace and security in their own homes again.
@Kayciee130 Жыл бұрын
I love Gavin, it’s so hard to listen to him talking about what happened. He is such a good and sincere guy. Thank god neither of them were hurt and I hope him and Meg can recover from this one day
@babe10352 жыл бұрын
I was home alone about a month ago with my 2 children in a very insecure home because that's all we could afford when someone attempted to break in. It was the most terrifying experience of my life and thankfully they failed. But the police didn't believe me because I had a grocery order delivered right as they were arriving. It was horrifying and I've never been so scared in my life. I froze. I don't know what I would've done had they actually gotten inside. I can't fathom experiencing what all these people have.
@Caroline-ij4bu2 жыл бұрын
I hope you and your children are all good now
@sunflower67032 жыл бұрын
Gavin those were your guardian angels keeping him from you.. all day he was trying to find you to kill you. He may have had success had he encountered you.
@moka_dotz31492 жыл бұрын
I had a home invasion more than once due to living in the sketchy side of town but thankfully nothing happened to me since I was away all of those times
@Kane0Kong2 жыл бұрын
Home invasions must be one of the most scary experiences. Your home Is meant to be your safe place, and that being violated would cause ptsd in your own home. If this ever happened to me, I'm not sure if i could get thew it.
@shelbyb42382 жыл бұрын
I keep my doors locked constantly even during the day. A home invasion is one of my biggest fears. My heart goes out to everyone involved in these events.
@shannonceleste55572 жыл бұрын
Same. As a young lady living alone, I keep the deadbolt locked at all times when I’m home.
@arthureaterofworlds51762 жыл бұрын
Wait people don't lock their doors all the way?
@marissam31762 жыл бұрын
@@arthureaterofworlds5176 Nope. Especially out in the country side people leave there doors unlocked throughout the day. Even when they aren’t home.
@SquidFiction2 жыл бұрын
Same! I just moved into my own home, even though my new neighbourhood is pretty safe and secure, I always keep the doors locked!
@poopsalought66302 жыл бұрын
I got robbed last year and I still don’t have any sense of safety in my house.
@2kh_oq Жыл бұрын
The 2002 guy has some crazy strong morals to be able to take him not off of death row to suffer for life, but so that he could see his kid. Mad respect.
@christabelle__11 ай бұрын
An eye for an eye, and the whole world is blind, after all. Besides, life in prison is still miserable...and worse, in the long run! Longterm suffering versus the easy way out.
@servancastillo9862 жыл бұрын
I'm a home invasion survivor and I've ptsd since then. I check my door lock every single evening of my days since. It's been years, but no one got hurt in my case, just some jewelry stolen. I was told to keep my head down on the bed. That was the scariest experience of my life so far. They left and I was able to look back up after I heard the door close. It was 3 men holding guns. I don't think they had intentions to hurt someone, just to steal and get out.
@kriti._.0002 жыл бұрын
i love how anthony treats everyone, no matter who they are, with respect, care and patience. much kudos and respect to you, anthony
@ReiYariz2 жыл бұрын
I actually cried listening to RJ’s story. It’s just so sad how someone can do something so evil ☹️
@kaelin87752 жыл бұрын
i know my story doesnt really compare, but when i was young (like 6 and younger) my house was broken into 3 times, its what started my paranoia, that still persists to this day. ironically enough my paranoia is about supernatural forces not humans tho
@NikkieArmstrong2 жыл бұрын
all stories are important, mostly if they had such a big impact on you! i hope you are doing okay!
@Kawaii-hh9dw2 жыл бұрын
Poor RJ, I pray for him, if I went through that shit id be traumatized and the fact he never cried during the explanation is crazy
@sibsart20392 жыл бұрын
I remember hearing that Gavin had someone break into his house. I was genuinely scared because I’m a huge RT fan. But so many people went through so much bad stuff it was really heart wrenching. Especially RJ’a story.
@caladan__2 жыл бұрын
these people are super strong, they managed to survive a traumatic event :( they are admirable.
@rachelm.16052 жыл бұрын
Jesus! I just can’t even believe RJ made it through that. Not just the actual event, but the lingering trauma he had to have experienced up until today. He’s a strong man!
@HelloItsAK2 жыл бұрын
These three men are freaking incredible, what a horrible thing to go through.... But man, RJ.. My dude, you are the ultimate fighter, so much respect for you
@VantaGenesis2 жыл бұрын
Holy crap. I remember seeing Cash's raw video uploaded on KZbin a while back, and most of the comments were convinced that his fiance was in on the attack. Good to hear directly from him on the situation
@Jepysauce2 жыл бұрын
Why do people immediately jump to the conclusion that his fiance was at fault??? wtf
@jordancox5592 жыл бұрын
@@Jepysauce mostly her lack of reaction. That's what I've read.
@talkidrew2 жыл бұрын
@@jordancox559 fight flight or freeze
@krunkskunk Жыл бұрын
I have been watching Rooster Teeth and Achievement Hunter since middle school. The fact that Gavin, someone who I admire, am inspired by, and get joy from watching, had to go through something so traumatic is devastating to me.
@cyahnaa2 жыл бұрын
im a survivor of 2 home invasions, and out of everything ive been through those 2 encounters have followed me and affected me the most out of everything. it feels awful never truly feeling safe at home. something as simple as taking a nap on your livingroom couch is something that took me 5 years to be able to do. For anyone going through this, i hope you can heal.
@melissajkxoxo2 жыл бұрын
Yes. It is awful. I could not do anything that would hinder my hearing bc I needed to hear everything! I didn’t take a shower home alone for a lonnnngg time. Home invasion is one of the worst feelings
@elinbird002 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry I hope you two are better now
@lens39732 жыл бұрын
Shit, you mean people can sleep without being in a locked room?
@sarahwithstars2 жыл бұрын
Sending love 💓
@fairytalearts8102 жыл бұрын
RJ is truly a very pure hearted person. it takes a lot to forgive, let alone someone who committed all those atrocious crimes against you and took away your very family. Cash was admirable in his actions, it’s not easy to act that level-headed in such danger. Gavin was strong- so incredibly strong. mad respect to all of these guys. I hope they are able to make peace and live well.
@Raven-ll3lp2 жыл бұрын
I have a bunch of respect for Anthony because he is so patient and respectful. It makes my heart happy knowing there are a bunch of such kind and respectful/patient people in this world.
@madsfrogee__23552 жыл бұрын
I love how Anthony genuinely understands and shows that he understands these people especially the ones that go through traumatic events like this. 🙂
@perpetuallyhighastro-guy22702 жыл бұрын
I spent my early high school years watching the golden age of achievement hunter, and we all of course loved Gavin, but hearing him say “or find something to beat him to death with.” in such a deadpan serious way gives me chills. I’m glad he and Meg were unharmed. Much love.
@eloise9802 жыл бұрын
I have so much respect for rj, they have been through so much and is still able to forgive and give this man, a second chance to see his son. It’s so inspirational, thank you Anthony this was an amazing interview.
@KitKatWiffleBallBat2 жыл бұрын
That's really powerful. How many would just let their attackers die and celebrate? "An eye for an eye leaves the world blind." RJ is a really good guy with tremendous character and incredible willingness to live. He values life. We can see that in his demeanor and hear it within his story. I hope life drops him a serious win because he deserves it.
@gingergamer32702 жыл бұрын
I feel really bad for Gavin, going through all that and having it ruin his life but feeling like he doesn't deserve to have ptsd because it was a tame incident or whatever. I feel so bad. PTSD can happen to anyone
@Mari-bq8yd2 жыл бұрын
I am feel completely defeated by RJs story. I can’t possibly imagine how it feels to have gone through that and I deeply pains me to know that happens. To hear him recount the feeling of being physically hurt is upsetting. I can empathize (I’ve been shot) with him but the trauma of his encounter must be really hard 😔
@JoesapTV2 жыл бұрын
I hadn’t heard of any of these stories, and I’m most surprised I didn’t know anything about what Gavin went through. I have immense respect for all 3. I couldn’t imagine going through any of what they did. Thank you Gavin, Cash and RJ for sharing your stories.
@HalfJalapeno2 жыл бұрын
Thank you RJ, Gavin and Cash for sharing such personal accounts of trauma, and for being willing to go through it in detail with Anthony. You guys are so brave and strong!
@heatherdoan31712 жыл бұрын
RJ is a better person than I could ever be. I don't think I would be able to forgive the person that tried to kill me and killed my whole family and I know I would not be on his side to help him avoid the death penalty and serve life instead. RJ has an amazing heart.
@samuelcorndog8812 жыл бұрын
I have huge respect for all of these people for being able to talk about such traumatic events. I wish nothing but the best for them
@hannah._.thompson72472 жыл бұрын
RJ is one of the most strongest people, his story is crazy yet he’s come out on top, thats real inspiration
@EpicTonyBoi2 жыл бұрын
After hearing RJ's story I am shocked that he survived and he was able to cope with it afterwards... absolute legend, my heart goes out to you.
@AetherMagicChatroom2 жыл бұрын
I was (allegedly) strangled in may 4 times by a coworker and hearing these folks stories of such close calls with death has helped me process my own. Thank you Anthony for listening to these folks and all the others you interview. May all these people interviewed in this video specifically be blessed now with peace and protection
@yeldana70442 жыл бұрын
RJ's story made my heart hurt he's so strong i just wanna hug him
@celedhion2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for making Gavin feel safe enough to talk about this situation. As a long time Achievement Hunter fan and avid watcher of their content, this was horrifying. And it seemed like, at the time, everything got quickly glossed over. Gavin was back in work in a very short time making videos as usual, and though the incident was mentioned, it was never discussed in detail. I'm not implying that these private matters need absolute openness and discussion - Gavin has every right to utmost privacy - but it felt strange seeing things return to normal so quickly. All the people in this video are so brave.
@TheChapelx2 жыл бұрын
Looking back, you could tell that he was pretty shook up for a while. I remember that RT/AH stopped saying whether or not he was going to be at public events. For example, he wasn't announced for panels at that years RTX or any AH Live events for a good while. I remember Meg also announced on her KZbin channel that she would be posting rarely if at all.
@chironaimes7 ай бұрын
wierd comment to make about them just wanting things to go back to normal while they process what happened to them.
@celedhion7 ай бұрын
@@chironaimes There was a man with a firearm in their house that ended his life in their driveway after he couldn't find them. You would expect someone to take time off for recovery and therapy after that, but Gavin was back at work the next day. It was concerning, forgive me if my concern is "weird"
@salheg42222 жыл бұрын
Just imagine- *someone breaks in* *you take his gun* the robber: IM CALLING THE POLICE IF YOU DONT GIVE IT BACK RN TwT
@me_justme2 жыл бұрын
HAHAHAHAHA it would be the most best/funny scenario u can tell all ur friends 😂
@viktorstagnetti74912 жыл бұрын
Cash has more restraint than I would have. I'd have blasted his ass as soon as I took it. Legal justification of self-defense too.
@chantell2092 жыл бұрын
Everyone who shared ty so much for being so brave. I’m so sorry. RJ you are incredible and I’m so so sorry 😢
@abbied.2 жыл бұрын
Props to Cash! He was so brave and potentially saved him and his fiancé’s lives.
@SuperTroll972 жыл бұрын
RJ seems like such a kind soul. Going through something so terrible and being able to come out the other end of it being so kind and so positive. Truly inspiring.
@cmrobbins882 жыл бұрын
Glad they’re all doing their best. I read about Gavin’s home being invaded a couple days after it was public. I’ve been remote from the RT and AH community for a while, but I’ve always hoped Gavin and Meg were doing okay after a while. It’s the worst when someone does something harmful completely unprecedented, and mental illness goes under the radar until it’s too late.
@Rinincali2 жыл бұрын
As someone with PTSD from an arsonist incident from a complete stranger I struggle so heavily with the feeling of not being in control so Gavin's advice really hit me and reminded me that it is something I need to work on accepting. And God, RJ... what an incredible and strong human being. My heart broke listening to his story and I commend him for being able to forgive the man who hurt him so terribly. I commend his strength and the depths of his compassion, if everyone could be even a little more like him I think the world would be a much better place. Anthony, Thank you for giving these men a space to discuss such horrific and sensitive events, as a survivor I know how hard it can be to open up about the details of such an event in a serious way, you created a very delicate and understanding environment. I know it helps not only the guests on your show but those of us in your audience who need that kind of understanding in our lives.
@totallynotAsh072 жыл бұрын
I remember hearing about Gavin and meg's story through the news and me just sobbing for them. I couldn't get over how scary it must of been for them.. and being a huge fan of achievement hunter and RT.. and now that I heard the whole story from his point of view I just want to sob again.. way worse than I could ever imagined. Much love and positivity to those who have spoke about their horrible experiences.