Antisocial Personality Disorder

[@robinsattahip2376]

That last statement about not evaluating their behavior as what a normal person would do is a great way to protect ones self instead of making excuses for other's bad behavior. Thanks Doctor

[@mslemew]

He knows a lot. I was amazed at how much. I found this very enlightening after going through stalking, and discovering most stalkers have a cluster B personality disorder or comorbidity of disorders and began looking into them. Sadly, I learned Dr. Landow passed away.

[@lynnschaeferle-zh4go]

Bipolar is not a personality disorder. It’s vilification is unjustified especially in the light of each case is individual. I dare you to spot bipolar in general; you can definitely spot the personality disorders.

[@rijubhatt8366]

Thank You. Your advice on not projecting one's reasonable perception and understanding of ASPD patients is praiseworthy. I have faced such a situation for quite some time now (close to 5 difficult years). Those years are now long past but the shadows of the horror remain. Period.

[@mycrazylife4406]

I am very curious how a MD in dermatology of 30 years knows so much about psychology. This guy blows my mind how smart he is.

[@mycrazylife4406]

I understand a MD has to have a lot of knowledge in a lot of areas and he specializes in dermatology but the amount of knowledge he has as a whole, is insane.

[@MOMAN145]

He's reading it as he speaks

[@josanthepresident6565]

Well I’m 16 and I have memorised every mental illness, it’s not that hard

[@divinegon4671]

@@josanthepresident6565 tell us how you do it, master

[@RG-iw7py]

I've heard about dentist who sent few of his patients for treatment for PTSD. I guess due to bruxism. some doctors are amazing.

[@Subjohny]

This is the BEST video about ASPD on youtube! I watched probably 100 videos already and your is the Best!

[@RG-iw7py]

Like Gabor Mate I would believe addiction is a hideout from pain. Like Narcissist running away from the truth about himself. Without tackling narcissism they can't get rid of addiction. And some Narcissist may become a hoarder because people do leave him but things don't.

[@HellRazer-187]

I have ASPD, PTSD, ADHD, and Bipolar. I'm always pissed off, even when I'm sleeping.

[@patricianoll1229]

I live alone that calm me down a lot, if i need to go out for grocery i m pissed off the day before, we gonna survive just we have a miserable life

[@josanthepresident6565]

I wish you luck

[@Abe-x2i]

I have aspd, asd, ptsd and bipolar lol gotta say it's not exactly the perfect life.

[@thefrog4990]

I'm always pissed off too, or depressed. I dont know my mood and worldview changes every few hours and I feel like I'm going mad. I'm mentally exhausted.

[@unhealthymindunhealthysoul3877]

So elegantly detailed. Thank you

[@thenobleone-3384]

This was my story growing up and I didn't like anyone it wasn't easy to improve.

[@HellRazer-187]

I improved, but at 39 it came back worse than ever! It's a never ending battle..

[@coreyanderson7424]

Lack of empathy, self entitled attitudes and low conscience, in the person's thinking, not due to alcohol or drugs. Though, they blame drugs.

[@michelletoni3067]

Great videos, It has to be youtube algorithms that are holding you back, because these videos are great.

[@Kingboo1081]

Can you please do agoraphobia and generalised anxiety disorder ? :)

[@ericnastav]

Good info. Hard to see charming and manipulative at the same time as having decreased affect.

[@NatTurner328]

When you fundamentally hate everyone and everything you learn to become charismatic to survive and to obtain the things you want. But underlying this is always a fundamental displeasure with life and everything else that lives.

[@prettylady6013]

Sounds like a real picnic 🧺

[@donnaghanim6091]

Funny as hell

[@margaretmargaret9246]

Forgot gaslighting, an also lieing an stealing from family members in home an stonewalling an ghost at times as well. An take your things and do as they please. An also do something to something you own behind your back to get you back due to something has rubed them the wrong way to get back at you an act like they don't no anything about what has happened to your thing's. Give your things away without talking to you. An put there self an outlets over there spouse. An extremely selfish at times towards there spouse but not others. They will help you some times but hardly ever. An expected you do what they want you do but don't return the favor hardly ever. An poor judgement what to say an not to say to other's about there spouse as well. Add that to the list.

[@Onelove858]

Yep, that's about correct.

[@divinegon4671]

Learn to write.

[@Sarahsjourneytoday]

That was very educational Thank you

[@celiakristelfuentecastillo8060]

This is gold, love it.

[@laraparks7018]

You just described my family members

[@stephaniecarr6984]

MINE too...sigh..

[@peterv8208]

Dr. Landow, your videos are great. I really appreciate your thoroughness. Can you consider reviewing Viibryd / Vilazadone? Would be very helpful. Thank you.

[@gristamshackleford2102]

my brothers wife is a psychopath. their family lives next door to me and my elderly parents. she used to be in charge of sending over my mothers medication. i found out she wasnt sending over the seroquel because she thought it would be funny if grandma went crazy. i figured out she was a psychopath when i was talking to her on the phone and heard the complete lack of empathy in her voice. she somehow brainwashed my 50 yr old brother to act like a slave/mean dog. he cant even have a proper conversation with me without yelling and talking trash to me. if i have my mom call him up he sounds like a zombie devoid of emotion. it's so weird i want to help my brother but dont know how.

[@zeddeka]

You're not qualified to diagnose somebody. Hearing someone on the phone is not a medical diagnosis.

[@Saffron-sugar]

You could be right, but there’s no way of knowing because you cannot diagnose somebody without the proper qualifications and you cannot diagnose somebody over the phone via tone of the voice. They could be very angry with you and therefore speaking to you with rage. I’m not saying you deserve it, but I’m saying you can’t diagnose personality disorder because somebody doesn’t like you.

[@gristamshackleford2102]

@@Saffron-sugar right but i'm not going off voice alone i'm going off the fact that this woman withheld my 85 yr old mothers psych meds as a funny joke, amongst other things. it's nothing to do with not liking each other. she never even had a tone or argue with me, i can tell lack of empathy when i told her how bad my mother was and she did not care, ive known this woman for over 30 years, she does not have genuine feelings or emotions for other people, she also really does have the female psychopath "gaze". its a real thing just look it up, but youre right its not a definitive diagnosis.

[@gristamshackleford2102]

@@zeddeka i've known this woman for over 30 years, yea it's not a formal diagnosis but trust me dude anyone that meets this woman would agree that she is high narcissist scale and most likely a psychopath. she tricked my father into thinking my mother would die earlier if they withheld her psych meds.

[@happygirl4490]

They cause all sorts of chaos, and believe they are the victim.

[@evam3566]

I love your video. Thank you, Doctor.

[@drboyd67]

So helpful!!!! Thank you!

[@irisconcept6639]

Great explanation. Is it possible for a child to be near perfect in childhood and then display antisocial personality disorder after high school ? I definitely have seen it .

[@patteegee9506]

Fantastic! You are awesome! Thank you for another informative educational video. I love your reference to taking a look at Washington D.C. for an example of an individual who suffers from this disorder. I have a family member who I suspect has this disorder, and I greatly appreciate the information you provided which will better equip me to navigate this relationship. Many thanks.

[@pauladuncanadams1750]

Fantastic! Thank you.

[@_en_]

5:40 why there's a diagram of stomach anatomy in the Video 😂

[@gristamshackleford2102]

ikr. it mustve been a mistake

[@julesnav1446]

can you please do borderline personality disorder?? Thanks!

[@wellnowdoctor5976]

done May 15, 2019...do a search of the channel to find it

[@thenobleone-3384]

@@wellnowdoctor5976 I'm getting help now but I have dealt with a lot of Racism. I'm a dark skinned South Asian male who struggled with his identity and was abandoned by my parents. People just don't understand certain groups I guess. I'm older now and I learned to be independent

[@RK-su4hs]

Excellent. Thorough yet concise When there is no physical lesion it is a soul problem. Not a brain problem

[@itsm3th3b33]

Unless you're a subject matter expert (SME) how would you know if the video is thorough? How would you know if he left something out? If you are a SME, and you know what you’re talking about, then you've just added the soul part to his video. It follows that the video wasn't thorough to begin with. If that’s not true, and the video is in fact thorough, then what you said is nonsense. However, he clearly said in the beginning of the video that the experts, who are supposed to define this disorder, don't know how to do it themselves and keep changing the goal post... Therefore, even if you're an SME, you don't know what you're talking about. Your comment makes absolutely no sense.

[@concrete981]

a soul problem. what does that mean. a satanic issue? I take xanax.... vicodin worked great until the kids ruined it for everyone. all the doctors are terrified the dea will break down their doors and throw them in prison. police are scared of gang members. doctors are an easy target.

[@mac-ju5ot]

Ty Dr u hit the nail right on the head ...I worked SOE ial needs abd mt anxiety disorder got worse after dealing with a murderer. I tried so hard to be fail.. Not punative and consistent .I am finding these disorders more deomindance I. You her kids and you her adults.....oh the lies. I was sayi g tonight I could use a beer......I'm a wreck she killed a women. Its bee. God awful .trying to get over it because they win if I get I'll. Brush it off I guess

[@TheQueen-yb3xp]

Amazing 🤩 as always thanks 🙏

[@RachMcGil]

Dr. Landow, will you please review Social Anxiety Disorder? Thank you.

[@tomdaniels4681]

It gets better if you work at it, mindfulness meditation helps. Try Sam Harris guided meditation.

[@G3438]

Yes ! i often get anxiety before i know peoples intentions to socialize with me, just when the person shows more the one positive sing then i get confident but i have lost a lot of chances with girls because of this since is a timing thing when it comes to hook ups. Thanks for bringing this up.

[@redeyedtiger]

9/10

[@Chaoticraindrop311]

Excellent info

[@Saffron-sugar]

Of course you are the expert, but I disagree that you can’t really treat a personality disorder. I have known people with OCD that, although not cured, have definitely been treated successfully.

[@tamaraspillis612]

Thanks so much.

[@monkeybone6843]

“Bipolar personality disorder” enough said.

[@onelove8593]

Here in Mexico I see so many people with that characteristics, you can't even do excersice on a park or outside, some calisthenics or running, cause here are so many bullies, they look at you trying to be a better version or yourself and they laugh at you or they make condescending comments all the time, I see so many men like that here

[@divinegon4671]

Maybe it’s just your town?

[@dustinwebster1310]

I suffer from it it's a curse but u can grow out of it I would do things for a rush like a high a drug almost to me I would steal cars rob are watever it was to get the high from it I was 14 when they told me I. 35 now an have came a long way doing good In life it's been a curse but I grew out of it an my kids have it they were cursed with it but I teach them right an try tell em not to let it overwellm them it's very hard to live with this we are not all bad people with this it do decrease as we get older an I been with my wife happyly 8yrs an been same job over 7 so some of this is wrong we not all bad an hate that people think we are with this

[@gristamshackleford2102]

as long as you dont hurt anybody. there are alot of functioning psychopaths and people with APD that have done wonderful things for this world. my brothers wife is a psychopath and so was her mom. she's a mean hurtful person but her mom was more mellow and tried to be nice, she just didnt have any feelings. i'm worried my brothers kids are gonna have it and my biggest concern is their gonna hurt a violent guy and that guy is gonna seek revenge

[@donnaghanim6091]

Vengeful greedy mind games

[@JohnBedson]

Great. Thank you.

[@newlife8190]

Thank you

[@mattbortz10]

My ex girlfriend was diagnosed with Borderline personality disorder, but she also has many, many overlapping traits of ASPD. I mean, very deceitful, manipulative, derives pleasure from causing pain, typically mental abuse, the constant lying ect. The list goes on and on, I feel pretty lucky to have got out of that without too many issues.

[@emmamonroe3311]

If she likes causing pain I found 3 years after researching NPD & only 8 months of studying ASPD that has a lot to do with sadism which there are 4 types and derives pleasure from seeing others pain is called spineless sadism.

[@mattbortz10]

@@emmamonroe3311 that's definitely a good term for it!

[@serialeater2083]

I guess people think I’m a horrible person is what I get out of this video. Whatever people don’t do or like think it’s automatically wrong. Just because people have different points of views on everything about Society doesn’t mean they are wrong. It’s just Society is a way of controlling people and molding them into how they think people should be.

[@gristamshackleford2102]

WTF? saying its wrong to hurt someone is NOT societies way of controlling people.

[@Subjohny]

Very good speech 💙

[@itsm3th3b33]

If even the experts don’t know how to define this personality trait, why are we calling it a disorder? Who’s to say that this trait needs to be treated? Blue eyes are very rare in certain populations. Does that merit treatment?

[@itsm3th3b33]

@Matthew Baum Sorry, I don't buy your argument. There is no argument that a lot of convicted felons claim that APD made them do what they did. Where is the science to prove their claims and why wasn't that accepted in court? Watch the video again: it's mentioned that not even the experts can agree on how to define APD. We are clearly not talking about the extreme cases of APD, which are the ones that land somebody in prison. We don't even know where to draw the line on the sand.

[@JDdr86]

@@itsm3th3b33 You're just looking for an excuse to pass moral judgement on to us.

[@coreyanderson7424]

Well, its real. They actually can observe the difference with the brain functioning, the frontal lobes, amygdala.

[@itsm3th3b33]

@@JDdr86 My point is that APD should not be classified as a disorder and should not merit any treatment until such time when the "experts" can agree on how to define APD. Consequently, people with what they think is APD should be viewed as part of the regular population. The fact that you understood it was paying judgement on you shows that you have inadequate reading comprehension. And yes, I'm judging you, as you're demonstrably anti-social. And insecure.

[@patricianoll1229]

@Matthew Baum i dont care about other but i dont still or i m violent i live by myself , that s it

[@lifeneverends7068]

Obviously we translate emotions wrong, what you call depression in fact is boredom for us also what you call fear is excitement in our brain.

[@lynnschaeferle-zh4go]

Being familiar with what you are describing I still don’t understand it. How is that the few emotions they have are negative and the positive emotions just aren’t there. Both men were incredibly smart so they spent a lot of time on how to manipulate but they are well adapted to society. It gave them pleasure to know how much they were fooling people.

[@kylethompson1257]

Cool video

[@thenobleone-3384]

I love the late singer Michael Jackson he's dead however he said that he never wanted to spend his life being a color. U become a powerful human being when u adapt and love yourself. The world is accepting and u can't always do anything about this

[@LostInTheSauce818]

Comments like this make me question my sanity. Like what in the actual F are you trying to say? Insanity

[@gristamshackleford2102]

why not be a color? as long as your happy with it. i love the late singer James Brown. he said "i'm black and i'm proud"

[@karineaw4425]

Doctor can u talk about voldoxan

[@teamfa2258]

so weird I was about to ask the exact same thing

[@sxt6mods2]

Geez tell me what you really think!? 😬

[@thenobleone-3384]

Anti Social is a real condition and people should be more caring and not judge so much. U can improve with this if people are more patient with the individual who suffer from this. Aspergers is a developmental thing

[@NoName-ih6sn]

most of the time you just live life acting as if everyone else has an issue with their mind. You always wonder why you dont mesh with others, but you also dont even try, its a my way or the highway/ i dont really care about you or your feelings. Hearing you have a pd kinda puts things together and makes sense, makes you look back in childhood and early adulthood and see a lighbulb. To be fair most people with aspd dont intentionally go out and malicously hurt others, theres the capibility to do so if they are wronged, but most of my fights were based on impulse and agression. I dont feel bad hurting someone though, they just should of not gotten in my way. I was a pretty bad kid, i dabbled with some animal cruelty but didnt kill them, now i regret it though, i wont hurt an animal only a person I was young and angry and my anger usually took another level than most. I use to bully others and get in trouble alot for it and I was always kinda mean and cold hearted as far as I could remember. I left my brother for dead when i was 10 years old, i locked him in a tool chest and was walked away. I shoplifted for a good 5 years and was really good at comitting crimes, mostly theft and assault, I was always lucky and not got arrested because the person didnt call the police or I just ran away unnoticed. I hate kids with a passion and happy people always make me suspicious of their intent. Overall I am a pretty comedic person, life of the party loves to do fun things and always hanging out with friends, issues with alcohol, but I still drink cause I love to have fun. I came from a family where I was neglected in every aspect and my mother was also a heartless bitch so it makes sense, but overall Im kinda just misunderstood and I feel half human basically if that makes sense🤷🏻‍♀️

[@Onelove858]

Lord JESUS: u sound like the devil. I dislike the love and care u didn't get, but that's not an Praying 4 u no name an excuse to hurt others even animals. 🙏

[@__herelies__1744]

It’s a pretty funny word we live in I can’t wait to meet another just like me

[@JohnLaPaglia]

10:10 - Hold on, you're providing a perfect description of: "President Joseph Biden"!!!! Wow, you are spot-on.

[@stevensmith4033]

I'm diagnosed with Antisocial personality. How many times are you going to say the same thing in a different way, keep stacking it on.

[@MariBodega2024]

Exactly, he makes me feel so evil for something I have no control over, it’s apart of us. The medication sucks and the people around us just don’t understand. The substance abuse is just to make us better people for the ones around us. They don’t understand that we want to be good individuals.

[@gristamshackleford2102]

he's just stating facts to educate people on this subject. he's also carrying on because he wants to make a long video for views. some of us like to hear this guy talk. I swear you guys (people with apd) are so damn hyper sensitive to anything that sounds even remotely like criticism.

[@da8086]

Who else is here from clockwork orange

[@innerpeaceandselflove]

I like to call it "Crazy As Hell"

[@frankjamesbonarrigo7162]

This is half the people I know

[@fin183]

Gynecology??

[@edmondvalmont1546]

Don’t talk with those gestures.

[@donnaghanim6091]

Stay away

[@mohammadalmutairi3202]

I think I have this.

[@donnaghanim6091]

Snakes

[@mrcampo19]

Sounds like a lot of politicians

[@steffakasteffcrayzee6741]

You are not born with a personality disorder he’s wrong

[@moonriver4275]

What are your thoughts about being brought up in a good family home, treated well, good school, good appraisals, etc.lack of negativity within their environment, happy childhood, but still managed to develop this horrid disorder?

[@donhashugeballs]

Some are born with psychopathy. So.. you are the one that's wrong.

[@gristamshackleford2102]

no some of them are. psychopaths are born that way because there is something wrong with their pre-frontal cortex.

[@lynsey08lynsey80]

THIS MAN IS CREEPY

[@TheTManShow]

Why you moving your mouth sideways when you talk? TF?!?!?

[@Deborahboenke2]

Nut Jobs

[@HellRazer-187]

Why are we nut jobs? We are born this way, and there isn't any real treatment.

[@dontwatchtv5797]

Old

[@thefrog4990]

You're old and unattractive. Is this really your way of coping?

[@mikrosixtysix]

@@thefrog4990 she was probably abused by someone aspd

[@donhashugeballs]

Interesting you say that, because I view so called "Normal" people as low IQ nut jobs.

[@lynnjohnson1239]

Sounds like trump

[@buffaloshrimp4520]

Idk maybe iam not like I wake up and choose to be all I can do is try manage it