"Asking Men To Be Stepfathers Is Enabling Bad Behavior," Anton Says We're Regressing As a Community

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Anton Daniels

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@AntonDaniels
@AntonDaniels 10 ай бұрын
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@elroco4827
@elroco4827 10 ай бұрын
Never be a step dad fellas. It's the lowest position a man can be in.
@GEMINIRED300
@GEMINIRED300 10 ай бұрын
Just like common sense, self respect is not so common.
@slinkiegirl2001
@slinkiegirl2001 10 ай бұрын
as a woman i agree
@fudgematthew33
@fudgematthew33 Ай бұрын
Absolutely 💯
@mrstevejackson100
@mrstevejackson100 10 ай бұрын
Ive been a stepdad twice. I can tell you this...WOMEN DO NOT RESPECT STEP BABY DADDYS PERIOD POINT BLANK!
@GEMINIRED300
@GEMINIRED300 10 ай бұрын
These dudes have to learn the hard way. I try to tell younger dudes it is not the move all the time and what I hear most of the time is "But she got a fat ass though." Smh.
@taipan1234
@taipan1234 10 ай бұрын
@mrstevejackson100 Maybe you should try for a third time, since you seem to like so much.. You should also be able to tell us, that you can barely tell a weak man (stepsucker) anything.. They have the mindset of a stubborn black woman..
@taipan1234
@taipan1234 10 ай бұрын
@@GEMINIRED300 most weak black men move in LUST.. and you can take that statement to the bank..
@slinkiegirl2001
@slinkiegirl2001 10 ай бұрын
there is nothing in it for you men, as a woman why any man would take on another's man's DNA and responsibilities is beyond me
@Envision95
@Envision95 10 ай бұрын
Yup still talking to the baby daddy in all ways arguing then lusting rinse and repeat
@Mr.Boring_Man
@Mr.Boring_Man 10 ай бұрын
Step-father's use to be respected. Now they are expected. 100% financial liability with limited authority. It's not a fair deal to the men. The single mother divorces and still collects child support from the biological father and also gets an alimony check. I dated single mother's before marrying my childless wife who gave me a child of my own. I do not regret the decision.
@Qwhatitdofool
@Qwhatitdofool Ай бұрын
Glad you were able to create your own legacy from scratch 💯👍🏾👍🏾
@TruRoyalENT
@TruRoyalENT 10 ай бұрын
“Why are women having children with future knowing future is future?” 5:32 NAILED IT 🤯👌🏾
@rickjay2011
@rickjay2011 10 ай бұрын
I was dating an older woman with kids. She became a widow. Both of her teenage kids were uncontrollable and disrespectful, and she was out of control herself. For a man to settle for that, you have no self-respect or self-worth, which was me at that time. Value yourselves enough to choose a woman, who respects herself enough to wait for one man she wants to marry.
@lewis20002000
@lewis20002000 3 ай бұрын
You can date her, just don't move in or make her official.
@fudgematthew33
@fudgematthew33 Ай бұрын
That last sentence, man...
@paulbunyan9436
@paulbunyan9436 10 ай бұрын
They only push the step-up daddy role on the nice guys who they are not attracted to...
@slinkiegirl2001
@slinkiegirl2001 10 ай бұрын
some of these SM when they had no kids would not look at certain men twice, now they have been run through have a ton of kids, now they want that man, they see it as settling but the man is settling
@tre2843
@tre2843 6 ай бұрын
@@slinkiegirl2001you’re right I’m the the guy that Tharp didn’t want. Now they all got children
@fudgematthew33
@fudgematthew33 Ай бұрын
Show me a stepfather, and I'll show you a man who wasn't the woman's first choice.
@Bobo-wl6bs
@Bobo-wl6bs 10 ай бұрын
This is my opinion. I think that being a stepfather is a very weak position and she (the woman with the child/children knows it). Of course there may be some rare exceptions. I'm speaking generally. You're showing the woman you have no options and that is a very weak position to begin with. The women on this panel will disagree because this rhetoric doesn't serve them. Like Anton said, they wouldn't protest against the harsh divorce laws against men because that would be against their interests.
@antislobb
@antislobb 10 ай бұрын
The fact this conversation is still being had shows that there is absolutely no progress in Black relationships…I see the same conversations with the same positions just different characters smh Black community is finished
@parkstreeet3productions410
@parkstreeet3productions410 10 ай бұрын
​@@antislobbblack women are finished...black men in majority are doing jus fine103%!
@BamGene21
@BamGene21 10 ай бұрын
It took a village that makes the community thrive. This is the design keep the households single I know children who become adults & love their un biological father blood don’t mean shit your own blood can kill you. Black people the community is done
@Moneymitch-hn2zq
@Moneymitch-hn2zq 10 ай бұрын
Being a step-dad is a bad investment. Even nature when a lion take over a pride they kill off the cubs of the previous leader of the pride so he can preserve his own legacy
@xavierjones3410
@xavierjones3410 10 ай бұрын
Jessica is one of the women that Anton talking bout that’s why she so triggered.
@kurt477
@kurt477 10 ай бұрын
🎯🎯🎯
@lawreecefluellen4872
@lawreecefluellen4872 10 ай бұрын
Hit dogs holler
@xavierjones3410
@xavierjones3410 10 ай бұрын
@@lawreecefluellen4872 yea cuz one episode she said she got pregnant and her mom was about to disown her ass. This was because her mom said she shouldn’t be having a kid with a dude if she not married to em.
@GEMINIRED300
@GEMINIRED300 10 ай бұрын
Just like Warrick Dunn, a former NFL player who built houses for single mothers. It sounds good in theory, but by rewarding bad behavior, you get MORE bad behavior.
@lonniewhite4262
@lonniewhite4262 10 ай бұрын
Yep glad somebody said this. Warrick was definitely simpin doing what he did.
@johnnygibbs4600
@johnnygibbs4600 10 ай бұрын
Facts 💯
@MrStCyrX
@MrStCyrX 10 ай бұрын
@@lonniewhite4262 Maybe Mr Dunn remembered how hard it was for his mother. Everything isn’t “simping “.
@jenkericj
@jenkericj 10 ай бұрын
@@lonniewhite4262 tax write offs
@coolbreeze2.0-mortemadfasc13
@coolbreeze2.0-mortemadfasc13 10 ай бұрын
@@lonniewhite4262So leave the kids on the streets?
@byDariusABrown
@byDariusABrown 10 ай бұрын
Anton speaking the ugly truth that a lot of women don’t want to hear.
@DorellJones
@DorellJones 10 ай бұрын
And what’s so disturbing brother, is the fact that when Anton was making his talking point. Pay attention the the small laughs, it’s because they know it’s true.
@justin-credible
@justin-credible 10 ай бұрын
The blk community pretends everything is gonna be a romance novel. When the reality is being a stepfather is a horrible waste of time because of the mother most of the time.
@3390974
@3390974 10 ай бұрын
Facts
@GeorgiaBoi1983
@GeorgiaBoi1983 10 ай бұрын
Anton speaking truth to WHO,ANTON IS A GAY ASS MAN
@joejoerunya8908
@joejoerunya8908 10 ай бұрын
This is an unfortunate biproduct of this single parent culture that we live in. 20% of Black men are making all the kids, and the childless men are being asked to step in smh. We know this is true because how many guys have more than one BM, and how many women have more than one BD? Childless men deserve the chance to have their own children, just like they did 🤷🏾‍♂️
@nonapplicable3055
@nonapplicable3055 10 ай бұрын
That's evolution working it's magic.
@donnettewalls8842
@donnettewalls8842 2 ай бұрын
That's not true.
@joejoerunya8908
@joejoerunya8908 2 ай бұрын
@@donnettewalls8842 the overwhelming majority of men don’t have children. It’s very true
@leobhrim9874
@leobhrim9874 10 ай бұрын
I won't do it again... make you feel less than a man..no respect
@andrebeauchamp6897
@andrebeauchamp6897 10 ай бұрын
Fellas, there’s no upside in becoming a stepfather. MOST of the women and their children are entitled and ungrateful. I made that mistake. Never again….😒
@mertqq19
@mertqq19 10 ай бұрын
There are no benefits in becoming a stepfather, the woman and step children benefit from your resources.
@Gchild2k6
@Gchild2k6 10 ай бұрын
@Quinton is completely disingenious. The majority of single mothers are not widows [that is like using grape of 1% to justify abortion]. Single mothers out of wedlock and the same as single mothers from divorce [heck the latter is worse as she had a man and left aka broke up the home, condemn the children to being without a father unnecessarily] Being a single mother is not positive for society and can be avoid by ensuring that all females know that there is no safety net [no social security, no child support, alimony, no baby daddies etc]. They must know that the consequence lies fully on them so if they cannot handle it, make better choices and close your legs.
@mjjohnson377
@mjjohnson377 4 ай бұрын
I have watched stepfathers be so blatantly disrespected and disregarded that I’m like wtf is he doing ?!
@wellingtonmarshall3784
@wellingtonmarshall3784 10 ай бұрын
It's really bad..Ant 💯 right
@ceesevenhundred
@ceesevenhundred 10 ай бұрын
12:48 I am with Brother Anton, I will not pursue a woman who has previous attachments when I come with none.
@CalvinGroover
@CalvinGroover 10 ай бұрын
No is the new yes for men. Stand on your square men 😂
@rm1sha
@rm1sha 10 ай бұрын
I kno everyman that’s been a stepfather has at least heard these words from a woman “this a’int your child” at least 1x and that right there is the reason you should never willingly opt to do it. So, if they’re (women) “supposed” to be so grateful then no man should ever do it.
@Djd271
@Djd271 10 ай бұрын
There have always been stepfathers but there are too many damn single mothers to for us to be step fathers
@CNT536
@CNT536 10 ай бұрын
Guys like Quinton would make a great assistant
@dedicated2mychildrensfutur541
@dedicated2mychildrensfutur541 10 ай бұрын
Anton is correct Stepdads are unnatural. I'd never risk a child with someone who is not the parent unless the Real Parent is deceased and even then it's probably safer
@askyourself900
@askyourself900 10 ай бұрын
Stepfathers are clowns. The end!
@kevingeorges1160
@kevingeorges1160 10 ай бұрын
Why bring a child into the world when there is no structure and foundation? Why put that child through a generational curse? That’s more inhumane than aborting it. You’d be sparing a life in that regard.
@jamelcofield8984
@jamelcofield8984 10 ай бұрын
Step dads are glorified baby sitters.
@KhonshusThought
@KhonshusThought 10 ай бұрын
Anton is right this train of thought is disgusting and highly abnormal. I am happy I don't have to deal with any of this.
@constructiveeconomics6733
@constructiveeconomics6733 10 ай бұрын
Thank God for Alexandra and Anton.
@nycepapi
@nycepapi 10 ай бұрын
I screen shotted it, but I literally saw a woman, yesterday admitted that women are taught from a young age to do the bare minimum because courts favor them and rarely award a man anything...women know, the sisterhood knows, they're just playing dumb
@feefee2
@feefee2 10 ай бұрын
Bare minimum of what? I was taught never rely on gov. All they will do is keep u in a hole if poverty. I was taught 2 work and carry my own burdens.
@nycepapi
@nycepapi 10 ай бұрын
@@feefee2 exceptions dont make the rule... If more women were taught this you wouldn't have so many women quick to divorce and ask for alimony and child support (in the case of step baby daddies, not biological) after the fact
@nycepapi
@nycepapi 10 ай бұрын
@@feefee2 and bare minimum of what you give in a relationship.. No need bc once you leave you'll still be rewarded by the court systems
@nonapplicable3055
@nonapplicable3055 10 ай бұрын
​@@feefee2Go to the hood, and see if your personal life reflects what you see. 😂
@feefee2
@feefee2 10 ай бұрын
@nonapplicable3055 my family came from the hood. I have no plans on goin back. I have sisters and brothers married, widowed and divorced. Some still in the hood some not but regardless me all my siblings, nieces, nephews down to great nieces and nephews all WORK! I don't even know anyone who doesn't work. I have 1 cousin who got sick of sec 8 match boxes and has been off for 6 yrs now! Na I don't know anyone who is happy with that life.
@D_effective
@D_effective 10 ай бұрын
"They might think it but that doenst mean it will happen" ~Hey V! The problem is they're thinking it will happen, if it happens or not doesnt matter.
@Chacalj81
@Chacalj81 10 ай бұрын
Unless you have kids, leave baby mamas alone.
@gfservantforlife841
@gfservantforlife841 10 ай бұрын
If the communitah are not following God’s instructions..and we see the results it’s really sad out here
@stlouisstl
@stlouisstl 10 ай бұрын
You have our support AD, please continue to speak up on this nonsense to save future men AND women from putting themselves in these horrible situations
@terencew7716
@terencew7716 10 ай бұрын
Say NO to being a stepdad fellas
@ckingtruth
@ckingtruth 10 ай бұрын
When dealing with a woman with a child. Simply tell her it's not your child and don't expect me as a man to take care of yours. If she likes you she will tell whatever lie to herself to be you. Now the honest relationship won't last forever. But you get about 7 to 10 years of relationships
@RealTalkandRawTruth86
@RealTalkandRawTruth86 Ай бұрын
You are 100% advocating for it
@Cutthroatrah
@Cutthroatrah 10 ай бұрын
Again, ask these women if they would want their sons to be grown and be stepdads.
@acthe_original8485
@acthe_original8485 10 ай бұрын
They never answer that question just a blank stare.
@Lord_God__
@Lord_God__ 10 ай бұрын
When you get in a relationship with a woman it’s ideal that it be a new relationship with one person instead of 3+ new people. The woman + her child + her child’s father + her parents + his parents + child #2 + child’s father #2 + child’s fathers parents #2 so on and so on. Too much people
@MrJnx713
@MrJnx713 10 ай бұрын
A widow is not a baby mother - she was married and her husband passed - what are you talking about Quentin?
@h.a.stewart2756
@h.a.stewart2756 9 ай бұрын
Has single-motherhood improve the societal outcomes of future generations? These girls talking accidental pregnancies are lost, forever; because they fail to be accountable.
@goreysins
@goreysins 10 ай бұрын
Ask the same women if they want to be stepmothers and see the double standards
@Lord_God__
@Lord_God__ 10 ай бұрын
I was getting my passport picture done at the cvs and the cashier was taking the longest time to take my picture. First she told me she had to charge the camera. So I go in the car and wait ten minutes and then came back in the store. Then she goes in the back. So now I’m in the store just waiting. Then she come out from the back to put batteries in the camera she was supposed to be charging 🤔. Mannn they don’t want us to getting our passports.
@johnlawful2272
@johnlawful2272 10 ай бұрын
Lol!
@dman221
@dman221 10 ай бұрын
Should have complained to the manager especially if it was a Slow Keisha. 😂😂😂
@rhondasmith1529
@rhondasmith1529 10 ай бұрын
And of course, there are always going to be exceptions to every situation like the stepchild really showed gratitude towards his step. Dad, but buying lodge that is not the case. And there's some women have clearly stated. Their children will always come before that man. The stepdad, who is helping to take care of them and in most cases, the step dad can't even discipline the children. And for some reason, no matter what a step father may do in the majority of the cases, the children will always long for their biological father and be willing to give him the benefit of the doubt over the step dad, despite all that that step dad has done for that child
@MrShugg2u
@MrShugg2u 10 ай бұрын
Step Dads aren’t appreciated like they once were because women understood their position in life. The entitlement these days make it not worth the trouble.
@GEMINIRED300
@GEMINIRED300 10 ай бұрын
Step dads were not appreciated back in the day. Women were just more humble because they didn't have the explosion of options they have now through social media. They are now openly being who they have always been.
@lewhitney06
@lewhitney06 10 ай бұрын
Widows and baby mamas are not the same.
@dred9174
@dred9174 10 ай бұрын
​@user-eq7gr2rw5mYes they do they rather be a single mother to a Pookie than a wife to a family oriented black men.
@odog76543
@odog76543 10 ай бұрын
Look, all these panelists who claim they are not advocating for baby mama culture while simultaneously having such a problem with Anton and others saying that taking on another man's kids enables that very cultural... YALL ARE ADVOCATING FOR THE BABY MAMA CULTURE. You shouldn't be having such strong pushback against what he's saying if you agree that all these safety nets and caping men let women know they can choose incredibly poorly, bring a baby out the mix, and then expect a much higher quality man to carry all the weight of a lesser man.
@lyingdogfacedponysoldier5746
@lyingdogfacedponysoldier5746 10 ай бұрын
*Pat on the head* “you’re such a good man.”
@LVE2103
@LVE2103 10 ай бұрын
A crash out generation. 🤔 I'm with it.
@TruReligionTru
@TruReligionTru 10 ай бұрын
its crazy how grown people don't understand what anton is saying lolol
@parisbaxter4996
@parisbaxter4996 10 ай бұрын
Women grow old but never grow up, never forget that.
@MegaAli213
@MegaAli213 5 күн бұрын
I've been through the step father thing, and will NEVER DO IT AGAIN " and told my son's, if they do it' I would remove them from my will, trust and businesses immediately. My daughter's are all virgins, except my oldest who married "Before She 👰Carried" and I now have a beautiful granddaughter alhamdulilah Allahu Akbar. I married again in southeast Asia to a sister who was also a virgin, with traditional family values and has three university degrees including currently completing her PhD at the university of Chicago. I am a retired military veteran myself and transportation company owner, we have property's overseas and travel globally. That's what making the right choices mean. Passport O.G retired and living financially independent overseas. Kevin Samuels R.I.P 🙏.
@Beezy22143
@Beezy22143 10 ай бұрын
Why is simplyjessica so upset? Because everything he's saying is true. All you have to do is ask Women, would they take on another man's kids?and I guarantee you they won't.... unless they already have kids, And I promise, You really don't want another woman around your kids because they're gonna treat them some Type of way I see it all the time
@Benliving10
@Benliving10 10 ай бұрын
Anton spitting facts 💯
@MegaAli213
@MegaAli213 5 күн бұрын
My sister Alexandra was 💯 % straight 🔥.
@cmojj6761
@cmojj6761 10 ай бұрын
I can’t believe these dudes can’t see the light. This is why we have this culture within the black community.
@FleetwoodTheProfit
@FleetwoodTheProfit 10 ай бұрын
The only woman that can demand a stepfather, that can make that argument is a widow! It's that simple.
@hardno123
@hardno123 7 ай бұрын
I dated a single mother who didn't even wanna have my kid and said I would make a great father figure for her kid by Chad.so disrespectful
@jarellbrown824
@jarellbrown824 10 ай бұрын
Did Quinton admit that he was married and his husband passed away?? I knew he was a fruit pop 😂
@truthseekingfreethinker5214
@truthseekingfreethinker5214 10 ай бұрын
Lol
@Wormanatti
@Wormanatti 10 ай бұрын
Ummmmmmmm. Freudian slip 😂😂😂😂
@raheemgaines3518
@raheemgaines3518 10 ай бұрын
He can’t even hide it..he’s a rainbow warrior 😂😂😂
@RealTalkandRawTruth86
@RealTalkandRawTruth86 Ай бұрын
They are all missing your point ANTON
@RealTalkandRawTruth86
@RealTalkandRawTruth86 Ай бұрын
I agree 💯 with Anton Daniels
@J2Fresh247
@J2Fresh247 10 ай бұрын
It's hard to speak on it at times. I have family that are and were single mothers. But, I don't have kid's. A woman can't make me feel guilty about this topic because I don't want to fall into the trap of dating a woman with a child.
@MagusCimarron
@MagusCimarron 10 ай бұрын
Simplyjessica is big mad!
@WTUJay
@WTUJay 10 ай бұрын
At first I was annoyed but I realize that certain people are on this panel to SHOW the difference in real time. Look at the body language, look at who’s vocal and who isn’t. “In order to fix anything you gonna have to have a throw away a generation🎯” AD God Damn that’s Deep.
@godofdestructiondiecast6756
@godofdestructiondiecast6756 10 ай бұрын
I don't have a lot of options but I'm not becoming a stepfather I did that one time one time only
@maxpowers111
@maxpowers111 10 ай бұрын
The modern woman should be honest and say that she wants to be a mother but not a wife. Simple.
@KingAziatic
@KingAziatic 10 ай бұрын
Quinton and Jessica. You two are buffons.
@tjmacny6
@tjmacny6 Ай бұрын
I got lucky in the stepdad category where my wife treats me with respect and the kids are well behaved where they want to be a someone and not just like everyone else
@EricGarrett-s5s
@EricGarrett-s5s 10 ай бұрын
Just because their are exceptions to the rule doesn't means it's right my dad grew up with a step father and he and my uncle's have done ok . this was in the 70's at the time my grandmother took her time to vet him 3 years after her first husband died he encouraged my dad and uncle's to do better in life. I'm not making excuses for women that are baby momma's I'm just saying some men are good responsible stepfather's that bring stracher stability and guidance. In my opinion many men aren't going to fit the bill for another man's kids and irresponsibly because some women have been irresponsible with their smv value in the dating. The women that are baby momma's by the jerks players and bad boys haven't been taught how to be women that are responsible and host to face the consequences of their actions for picking poorly.
@A-Thomas
@A-Thomas 10 ай бұрын
Your grandmother is the only example of an exception I would accept. A widow. I don’t see divorced women and baby mamas as any different because if you listen to these divorced women they all say they grew apart. These women are leaving good men for no good reason because they received a promotion at work. The divorce rate for 2nd marriage’s is higher than first. Stepfathers aren’t going to fix the black community, women learning how to move like your grandmother are.
@RealTalkandRawTruth86
@RealTalkandRawTruth86 Ай бұрын
8:18 I agree 💯
@jayduncan9445
@jayduncan9445 10 ай бұрын
So Q wouldn’t want her brother to be with a baby mama but those other men are someone’s brother so fuck them I guess.
@tre2843
@tre2843 6 ай бұрын
The problem is that women with kids always want men without kids. Who don’t women with kids get with men with kids. Why they always want men without children
@phila.1821
@phila.1821 10 ай бұрын
I agree with Antons perspective. His older brothers probably gave his father hell growing up.
@Siceone
@Siceone 3 ай бұрын
Anton showing how to simp on Alexandra. Peak performance.
@digitalgypsy1961
@digitalgypsy1961 10 ай бұрын
Now, I can speak on this from experience. My late husband and I both had a child from previous marriages. My husband's son was grown and married. I had a 16 year old daughter. My husband was one of the best influences my daughter ever had. She went into the military, following in his footsteps. He walked her down the aisle. I wasn't looking to be saved. We both had great careers and our marriage was like a business merger. We were dynamic together.
@PrinceH8907
@PrinceH8907 10 ай бұрын
congrats, you are the exception
@truthseekingfreethinker5214
@truthseekingfreethinker5214 10 ай бұрын
But you do understand that you are the exception, not the rule? Because there are far more horror stories of step parents and stepchildren than your example of your experience. People really are in their own little bubble.
@digitalgypsy1961
@digitalgypsy1961 10 ай бұрын
@@truthseekingfreethinker5214 Yes, I do understand that. I had a stepmother who was absolutely demonic. My grandparents raised my two brothers and myself because my parents totally crashed out. I definitely know that my marriage was the exception and not the rule. I'm only stating my experience. From my POV I think my experience had a lot to do with the ages of the children. I have only known a few exceptions where small children were involved that turned out successfully. And in those cases there had been the death of a previous spouse, not a divorce. And the baby mama/daddy thing almost never works out. My stepson is one of my best friends. He was already out of the house and my daughter was ready to graduate and move on to college/military. I have known other couples who actually waited until the children were grown and then they married. Didn't live together, didn't have children together. Each incident is individual. I realize how extremely lucky I was but it was also very well thought out. From a parental, marital and money point of view. We made it successful.
@truthseekingfreethinker5214
@truthseekingfreethinker5214 10 ай бұрын
@digitalgypsy1961 I get that, and happy you made it successful, but I think when we have these step parent conversations, it seems people like to sweep the bad step parent stories under the rug and just point out the successes, when that rug is extremely lumpy.
@digitalgypsy1961
@digitalgypsy1961 10 ай бұрын
@@truthseekingfreethinker5214 I'm definitely not sweeping bad stepparents under the rug. My experience with mine was abysmal. It was everything I could do not to happy dance the day my stepmother died. My dad chose his stepchildren over his biological children thus enforcing previous comments about evil stepmothers. I was only stating my personal experience with my marriage. I know that my marriage was the exception, not the rule. I know that God was with me on my journey and I am grateful for that.
@pesocheco
@pesocheco 10 ай бұрын
These titles only seem to get even sadder. Down bad
@MelyMel8867
@MelyMel8867 10 ай бұрын
I can't believe how most of the panel are worried about the kids but skipping over the parent because she's a mother. It benifits the kids, ok soooooooo are y'all just gon not acknowledge the parent that's actually raising the kids and just hope for a decent man to fly in to help the kids. How is this mentality possible....m
@TariebiRobinson
@TariebiRobinson 4 ай бұрын
These ladies know that guy that they would not give the time of day, and when they Snap their fingers or call his name "he'll be there"...that's usually the guy or type of guy they fall back on when they can no longer put up with the guy they wanted.....
@pris_pris
@pris_pris Ай бұрын
It’s called an abortion not delete the baby. We’re all adults here. Call it what it is. 😒
@ES1982-l1v
@ES1982-l1v 10 ай бұрын
Being a step dad is a big L....
@RealTalkandRawTruth86
@RealTalkandRawTruth86 Ай бұрын
A step baby mama and a step baby daddy are not the same thing ...... A man that has kids or doesn't have kids getting with a woman that has kids is an l 100% ........ But for a woman that has kids or doesn't have a kid that gets with a man that has kids it's a W
@gd9259
@gd9259 9 ай бұрын
I can tell so many of the panelists never grew up with a father in the house.
@RealTalkandRawTruth86
@RealTalkandRawTruth86 Ай бұрын
I actually think we're going to need to have a few throwaway generations
@RealTalkandRawTruth86
@RealTalkandRawTruth86 Ай бұрын
All Anton Daniels is saying is if you can sucker a man into being what you want ... more power to you ..... but he is going to advocate men to not be that sucker
@everyonedeservestogohome2949
@everyonedeservestogohome2949 10 ай бұрын
Just a note: if you exceptional pretty , biracial or any other race other then black, this does not apply to you. Men will absolutely raise all 12 of your kids if you a baddie and or he is attracted to you.. Im sorry but it is a double standard. If you black and average, sit, be submissive and dont you dare think you have options. Js
@darnellrhodes6174
@darnellrhodes6174 10 ай бұрын
No, that’s not true. Once women give their virginity/wombs to men that aren’t their husbands they are liabilities to virtually all good quality men!!
@keptbygrace6221
@keptbygrace6221 10 ай бұрын
This is so true. I have a a male friend who is engaged to a very pretty woman with five children and I know for a fact that he would never consider her if she were average looking. Pretty privilege 🤷🏾‍♀️
@reginald642
@reginald642 5 ай бұрын
Don't save these women because if you was in a bad situation will she help you. The answer is no so leave these selfish women alone.It is not fair good men to take on thuggish boys responsibility and always remember these women doesn't appreciate anything you do for them
@juanortiz3323
@juanortiz3323 5 ай бұрын
Men usually grow up dreaming of the day they can start a family of their own.They don't dream about joining a family.Gents listen up.I don't care how attractive you find her,how great she's in the bedroom,how much you enjoy being around her,these are the risks you have to face.Her ex,who might tell you it's on site if you lay a hand and try to discipline that child.Their mom basically telling you the same thing if you try that.The child themselves acting up and then telling you they don't have to listen because you ain't their dad.In some states(in Texas you don't) if you're a step-dad and get divorced you pay child support.Lets say you date or marry a single mom and y'all decide to go your separate way.During the relationship you've built a bond with that child or children,now that it's over chances are you'll never see or hear from them again.I'm not saying being a step-parent or dating a single mom won't work but odds are you'll regret doing so.Look yourself in the mirror and ask this question,is she with you because she truly wants to build a new life with you or is she with you just because she wants some help and is tired of being alone?
@darksidehavok
@darksidehavok 10 ай бұрын
If you have children with you husband and he dies you’re not a baby mama you’re a widow… If you have children with your husband and HE leaves YOU you’re an ex-wife. In all other instances you’re a baby mama and you get what you deserve with any misfortune that comes upon you.
@feefee2
@feefee2 10 ай бұрын
I always thought being a step parent was good 4 the community because children would likely have better outcomes. I guess that's the old way of thinking though. Im not sure women would b more careful without child support. Women have kids with drug dealers and guys with no jobs or minimum wage jobs. Thats a cs check of 0-100 bucks lol.
@BamGene21
@BamGene21 10 ай бұрын
Facts empowering the community but they call it sucker shit ! MINDBLOWING
@antoniesseals8892
@antoniesseals8892 10 ай бұрын
Ma’am this shouldn’t be the norm in our community. There is nothing wrong with being a stepfather, but boys shouldn’t have to grow and look forward to this way of life. We’ve made it a norm in our community and it has gotten worse.
@antoniesseals8892
@antoniesseals8892 10 ай бұрын
@@BamGene21it’s not suckershit, but the past few generations have normalized this behavior so much that it’s gotten out of hand. All the man is asking for women to do is be responsible who they have a kid with, that’s all. If he dies then that’s a different story, but stop having kids with men that you know won’t take care of their children, then put it on other men.
@ghorn1217
@ghorn1217 10 ай бұрын
Why should a man sacrifice himself because a woman chose poorly? Any community that NEEDS that type of help is not worth saving.
@feefee2
@feefee2 10 ай бұрын
@@antoniesseals8892 I understand what u r saying and I agree it shouldn't be the norm.
@lemarbowers9554
@lemarbowers9554 10 ай бұрын
I am not suffering brother. This is not applicable to everyone. Two people fall in love, and if there happens to be a child like in my case, we work from there. I’ve raised my son since six months old and he is the joy of my life and I am his. He has never been and will never be my stepson. God joins people together according to his will. You are 100% wrong on this one Anton.
@user-lk4pc7jn1i
@user-lk4pc7jn1i 10 ай бұрын
Man bless yo dumbass heart😂🤣😂
@dliv33
@dliv33 9 ай бұрын
Bro she brain washed u
@amazinggrace313
@amazinggrace313 5 ай бұрын
You took her In With a newborn baby??? !! You’re definitely drinking her manipulation kool aid.
@HomeOpportunity23
@HomeOpportunity23 10 ай бұрын
#IslandGyalQ is like that broken clock that is right at least twice a day......Change the #LAWS and these #MODERNWomen will change....#FACTS
@AnthonyCrier-ck9qj
@AnthonyCrier-ck9qj 5 ай бұрын
Statistics data and facts from the CDC single fathers are financially more stable and better condition to take care of their childrens better than single mothers
@oladokunsamuel5923
@oladokunsamuel5923 Ай бұрын
We are not having this discourse It's Ridiculous Let lepers stay off public
@hueyfreeman474
@hueyfreeman474 10 ай бұрын
Change the laws so that you only get child support from your HUSBAND not your baby daddy.. also if a DNA test prove the kid is not your husband's you lose that support... that way women would be forced to be more strategic on who they have babies by.. while at the same time bringing back traditional family units.
@rodneytimpson1608
@rodneytimpson1608 10 ай бұрын
The reason they are advocating is because, there are Some F' up sorry guys out there...cheating for no reason, and the Chick...is into the Street mindset and Not God's word, and go by celebrating celebrity status life, knowing, there drug mentality boyfriend is the comforter not God.
@KarimKarim-xy9py
@KarimKarim-xy9py 10 ай бұрын
Other cultures aren’t like this. It’s actually looked down upon like it’s a disease
@dred9174
@dred9174 10 ай бұрын
That's why men are getting the hell out of here ✈️✈️✈️. Women are actually hiding the fact that they have kids from other men because they know guys nowadays are blacklisting single mothers.
@stlouisstl
@stlouisstl 10 ай бұрын
Way to end it on scripture Isaiah 14:21
@Detsports.11
@Detsports.11 21 күн бұрын
AW QUINTON SIMPIN HN
@HomeOpportunity23
@HomeOpportunity23 10 ай бұрын
#SUPERSimp #RUSSELLWilson is suffering for sure here are the #FACTS Ciara and Russell Wilson Leave Drake Party Abruptly ... Feb 13, 2022 - Russell Wilson and Ciara beat a hasty retreat from a Super Bowl party after the father of one of her children showed up -- aka Future.
@Shsnshdbandjdbd
@Shsnshdbandjdbd 5 ай бұрын
U think future kids respect Russ more than future they dad
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