The #1 TURN OFF For Every Woman IS THIS! | Apollonia Ponti

[@brads7728]

Treat her like a celebrity and she’ll treat you like a fan , heard this some time ago and it’s the truest thing ever.

[@booAHHHH]

Yea she’s steals a lot of stuff from Coach Corey Wayne

[@foxlloyd1737]

Communication is key. Some women need to learn that. Men are not mind readers. If a women thinks a relationship should progress in a certain direction, she needs to speak up. Have a real conversation. A relationship is a 2 way street. If it gets to a certain point of no turning back, she get defensive & yells and puts the blame on you. Women need to speak up for what they want in a relationship.

[@andersnielsen6044]

If she has to get defensive and yell... It is because you failed to listen. ;)

[@waelfaraj6705]

Care, have confidence and love the other partner but give him or her enough space to relax and show him or her that you respect certain boundaries at the same time ...

[@farmerfox99]

This is so spot on. I've lost my power in mine. She wants me close but not too close. Yes im getting my power back by pulling back from giving her so much attention. Men can get blinded by beauty

[@Evan-zj1ge]

Did you ever fix this, and what did you do?

[@muneebow]

I get this crippling insecurity every time I like a girl... and its that every other guy on the planet is also after her and I start imagining the worst. I really need to get over this feeling 😪

[@kieransimpson4965]

And that they are better than you in every way? That you are dirty for liking her? Yep me too

[@andrebaxter4023]

Gentlemen. You get over this feeling by taking action. If you find a woman attractive, then let her know. Ask for a date. Just know that you are equals. She's not better than you and vice versa.

[@johnnybigblazin]

You need to know you are one of a kind, you need to find the happiness in your self. When she sees your happiness she will want you. And if she goes another way than just be happy your not wasting your time.

[@turbulus]

Love is so difficult. It's like walking on eggshells.

[@omnipotentone5628]

Egg shells filled with Nitro Glycerin.

[@_Trakman]

Walking on eggshells leads to a fear of success

[@zojo5065]

It's easy people just lie to there selves and other people to much about real and natural thoughts And feelings it's only for those who understand who they are on inside to share people mistake that for what they are so everything in their life is like a job or a game until they understand the truth

[@growing.grounds4054]

No it’s not don’t have to be !

[@jfelton3583]

It's problematic and honestly women make it difficult

[@jimmyjimanambo5014]

Appolonia you're a true gifted coacher ,and also like councillor. Every time when I'm depressed or stress I turned to your video. Keep the excellent work up.

[@michael-dy8tz]

I like it because you get to the point at the beginning.

[@braeden_duncan]

Keep going AP! You’re helping so many people!!

[@mikespillersa2349]

Thank you so much for all your videos, I'm needy and clingy & this opened my eyes ....Your the best

[@ApolloniaPonti]

You are so welcome

[@AndyJMacLeod]

You’re the best

[@marvinsumlin5098]

Its so much pressure being a solid man...you treat them great, they complain...you ease back they say you aren't paying them enough attention..smh..so much pressure....as far as texting, woman text there guy friends, but they say it's a friend..you do the same, they want to dump you.i know it's good women out there. .but it's so much pressure just to be nice...shout to the good men out there....GOOD LUCK

[@johnmoreno5965]

She's my coach for my love life. I appreciate it, it'll help me to be a better man to my woman. Amen to that one

[@ryanbailey8588]

Clingy = shoe affection and care. Neglect them and they’ll love you.

[@Daniel-bd5ur]

keep it up these type of video we guys and most viewers are looking for!! THANKS and please post daily videos about such topics if possible

[@ApolloniaPonti]

I will try my best

[@Ry77x]

If my girlfriend is texting another man at dinner or at night, she is gone. Done. … been thru that in the past. Gone. See ya, bye bye

[@Sonnedude]

Once I finally gained confidence in myself, lost 60 lbs, and worked on bettering myself...the women whom I was deep in the friend zone with asked me out. Now we are married with 2 beautiful daughters.

[@coderbebop]

Wow man, good for you! I am sort of in the friendzone as well, though when she rejected me I feel my self-esteem sort of spiked up as an auto-defense haha. I just hope I get the same happy ending as you, or maybe find someone who loves me for good.

[@ambehak4744]

You should have shown no interest in her and moved on and found someone else. Now imagine if you gain weight some years down the line. Will she still feel that same love?

[@nmcdre5603]

That marriage will be done shortly not praying on your downfall i really hope im wrong but you was in a friend zone my guy so how she perceived you then is how she'll look at you forever. the hard clod truth is that you were just her escape cause she might have got fed up with the others bullshit but once that crave of bullshit of hers comeback she'll be escaping from you but i really do hope im wrong but i mean what's the chances of that right💯🤷🏿🤦🏾

[@waelfaraj6705]

Look at nature and watch the sea , Goodness for all including you and me , With God we watch and see , Yes , knowing the truth would set us free ...

[@growing.grounds4054]

Yep us guys can find it EXTREMELY difficult to express our feelings sometimes it’s like when we talk it’s hard to say and articulate exactly how you feel

[@briar35981]

Women do not care about your feelings or struggles. Per Sir Richard Cooper, "They wait at the finish line and pick the winner. I suggest finding another male friend to discuss your feelings and issues. No matter how much she seems to care or pay attention. There is no way she can understand what you are going thru.

[@robertrecchia2642]

@@briar35981 true. They aren’t equipped to understand & are so much tied up in their own thoughts to spare any time in helping a man work through his issues.

[@vanpenguin22]

Excellent point. The issue is not who is on the other end of that txt thread, its that the chick would freely give Chad the time that should be exclusive to the guy paying for dinner, not Chad

[@ETWYLT]

I love watching you Apolina. A lot has changed cause of you

[@timothygeorge2530]

It's so lovely being alone utter complete bliss

[@abdulfatahahmed6209]

This lady is my mentor & changed alot from my life Thnk u so much Appollonia

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Thank you so much for your support!

[@rodger603]

Thank you!

[@jimmagwojo2718]

Thanks Apollonia, this was a very well presented point, it really made me stop & think.

[@Wayne_Firebird]

Wow very mature way to handle this situation thank you very much

[@the3rdmaster311]

Apollonia, you are a real pro, you are describing exactly my case

[@PhajEsTeeb]

My problem is I lose interest in a woman really fast. So i move on every other day with new woman. Problem with this video is. When you show u care, love her...oh you're needy. Yet when u don't give fuk..oh he's an asshole.

[@monsun3365]

Am.... Hate myself for it... Lost the one...

[@macraeolinger]

I had a woman who wouldn't leave. She pulled drama every 3 days like clockwork. I starred being needy, beat her to the 3 day. Boom. Gone. Its a brilliant play. No drama.

[@timothygeorge2530]

Nobody needs external approval you aprove yourself when a person goes a different way let them and bloody carry on!

[@marvinsumlin5098]

I continue to make myself better..physically, mentally and emotionally...the right QUEEN shall come

[@crob949]

And another one ☝️ in my best dj Khalid voice lol, GREAT VIDEO

[@prw956]

A guy being jealous also has a lot to do with that fact that men know how often cheating happens and if she ends up pregnant he wants to know if the kid is really his or if he is being cucked into unknowingly raising another man's kid. So it isn't always about insecurity,...it is about common sense and understanding human nature and how corrupt it can be. The UK did a study that showed a disturbing high percentage of kids did not belong to the father and the guy (nor the kids) knew it,...although the mother certainly knew. A school did the project as part of a science class covering parental heredity in the children and involved working with blood samples. Them finding out about the paternity was an "accident" they didn't expect. They shut it down quickly and the media went "hush hush" on it but it had already gotten out by then.

[@underclassh3r058]

Nobody gets more action than "he's just a friend" guy😂🤣😂

[@terrencedabney843]

Fuckin facts 🤷🏽‍♂️ lmao I just say I ain't shit. 😂🤣😭 if people ask

[@felipevillareal7709]

Not true I’m just the friend don’t always work out like that

[@mosadik9755]

Can you explain ?

[@prw956]

It is a double edge thing. If she calls you "just a friend" you ain't getting anything. But there is a big difference between her telling the 3rd guy "You're just a friend",...and her telling her BF "He's just a friend". Statistically most cheating happens with "Just a friend", but the key difference is that she never told her cheat partner he is "just a friend",...she only told her BF that the guy was "just a friend". Subtle difference,...but a big difference

[@kieranmsft]

FACTS. FACTS.

[@waelfaraj6705]

Women would not like insensitive men but they also do not like too sensitive men . Life is meant to be balanced. They love men who are brave , strong but loving , caring and intelligent emotionally and intellectually ...

[@nicekix3038]

Who cares what they love? You only need to worry about what YOU love and the right woman will follow

[@omarelsherif4125]

Women don't know wtf they want

[@jacouriwhite9252]

@@nicekix3038 true

[@vbbent]

So, basically you have about a millimeter of space to work with. Too much or too little is too extreme.

[@briar35981]

The balance you speak of rarely happens in the initial phases of a relationship. My opinion is that the man is expected to initiate, pursue, and prove he's worthy of her time. Backing off and letting her communicate just won't happen. She will simply take up with one of the other men who is pursuing her. "Men display, women choose"

[@princepacifico1512]

Kinda disagree Not all will do that it seems you just have to know what type of person she is. If she requires plenty attention or not, and even she does. There is a way to train her to not be craving too much attention, through communication and certain masculine behavioral traits. But generally our job as men is not to try to fix a woman problems.

[@malungisamaseko3155]

😂😂😂😂If she goes with other men, she has saved you from heartache. Move on with your life which is the real price not some cheap woman who is not worth your time

[@PsychicMedium777-uw4mm]

Again, this is what happens, when YOU have "toxic" parents and family members, ruling your life! Then and Now! 😥

[@peteyn.y.7960]

Thanks Apollonia!! 👏🌹❤️

[@kevinwu8380]

don’t be a woman’s toy. be confident and don’t take everything too seriously

[@berrybtalksministries]

Amen🙏🏾

[@shawnvining9851]

That's kinda what happened with other things in the way but not jealous at all. Only when disrespected by another man.

[@matiulrehman9270]

Applonia you are doing Great job

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Thank you so much for your support, truly appreciated!

[@ellisthejerk8018]

You're so Georgeous ❤ and tell the truth. You're going to reach 1 million subscribers soon! 😁

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Wow, thank you!

[@africancockney8712]

@ Elis the jerk. I think Apollonia's channel is giving pioneers like Mani Your Personal Wing Girl run for the money. Almost equal sub count . Probably reached over millions subs by now if it were created a decade ago.

[@vivekjagtiani8674]

Thanks for the insight

[@ApolloniaPonti]

My pleasure!

[@samuski36]

I absolutely Love it when my girl steps into her "girlyness", and it happens very often! I generally don't find women funny, but she genuinely is and to me, that's the Beez Kneez! :D

[@syv.savane3833]

Great content as usual, your videos are so insightful keep it up

[@callistusigboanugo4028]

Thank you so much Apollonia for this wonderful message.

[@jossell911]

Great content as usual. You should do a collaboration with Joyanima and Courtney Ryan. They’re great as well!

[@rgangan84]

Attracting & impressing a girl to have a relationship, don't work in long term relationship, these are not key indicators to get into the relationship. By saying to a girl, that she is needed in life, is the kind of respect offered to her, not to impress her, but as an emotional expression. It doesn't mean that it's reduces the self worth of a man. But, as you mentioned significant point that having clear conversation from both man and woman nurtures a relationship towards beautiful journey in life, instead of one way road. If the woman don't communicate and reject to the man. Being a man, her decision must be accepted & respected by moving on from there. Once if the man has moved on, then that woman should not make any attempt to get back to a man, whom she rejected all the time. She's independent to find other guy, and it doesn't make jealous to the man whom she had rejected in the past, as that man has accepted her rejection every time when he had approched her. She should not spying on in his life, whom she rejected. This doesn't help her in anyways, she must focus on her current guy with whom she is living a married life. Hence, when the man accepts his short falls in the past, he can accept his past turned offs too. The learning from mistakes, helps him to get better woman next.

[@growing.grounds4054]

Awesome vid very helpful

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Glad to hear!

[@818nut]

This one was good...💯

[@thedarkskinnedpatroit7893]

Hello I'm a big fan of you videos, when i was trying to land my dream girl I listened to you and to some male coaches, its was always doing the things you suggested that landed her, now it's the keeping her and maintaining our realionship but it seems you have something for every issue and I do get results. Been together two years now and looks like we will get married.

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Great job!

[@bijabbani]

Good content viewing from nairobi kenya

[@stevojoycefitnessandlifest8530]

Great info always 🙏🏾 thanks for all you do fam stay safe too

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Always. You too! xo

[@tribeoflevi1259]

One way I Handel it. I says to myself. I don’t even care!! I just Stay on my Purpose.

[@c.1211]

You just described 3 of my girlfriends. Im dumping all 3 of them on Sunday. Relationships sounds like a second job.😐

[@cluggyahoo]

Agree. It got to a point it's totally ridiculous

[@HARTLEY84]

Lol

[@timothydavis3831]

Guys, you have to learn with women to operate in wants and not needs. If you feel you need a woman, that becomes your necessity which leads to desperation and a complete turn-off to a female. Operate in 'wants' and then its just an acknowledgment of attraction/desire but no necessity or desperation for validation from her, it turns her on as you're showing strength and individuality. Plus women love hunt the chase even more than men do. Attractive women get simp attention so much that slathering them with adoration and affection becomes white noise and meaningless to them which causes them to not notice you or your qualities. Acknowledge an initial attraction then move on to other things. When a woman sees your world and happiness exists with or without them, they become intrigued and attracted to this confidence and display of self fulfillment. Their curiosity causes them to want to know more about you and what makes you feel this way. This displays power, strength, confidence, depth of character and a broad spectrum on life. For a woman to have and maintain attraction to you, you have to show that you have the capacity to lead them on a journey in life. You have a vision or ideals that you will reach with or without her. That's the excitement that makes them tingle and be hooked on you. You have to offer an experience greater than her own current situation or reality. In other words, find yourself, be that man and to hell with her standards and expectations. She should be drawn to you becomes of your singular masculinity and your own personal sense of being, not your kissing up to her for her approval!

[@shadesatnight80]

If I wasn’t too wired to my last woman I was dating. I never would have found Apollonia. I’m working on so much internally. Before I learn the approach product. I want to break this cycle. So I can give off a healthier energy.

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Thanks for sharing!

[@outlawstarr5209]

Hello Apollonia, happy taco Tuesday. Great KZbin video topic. Thank you.

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Same to you!

[@ArshadAli-sn2cd]

It means all the time it's duty of men to keep on looking at women's moods what makes them off and how they are pleased and always should try to shape their behaviour and act accordingly.

[@abampongdankwah1733]

My college of relationship studies,....My best tutor @Applonia Ponti❤️❤️❤️

[@ShadowNash108]

Big facts

[@littlegipper5798]

Men, whatever the reason is that a woman doesn't give you the attention you deserve.....walk away!

[@triplejudy]

Bottom line: Show an interest in a woman briefly; then walk away letting her chase you. In the meantime, meet other women and do the same. It's not rocket science dudes !!

[@caseygriffin8878]

So what youre saying is learn rocket science, walk away when the rocket chases you and in the mean time briefly stop to talk to women. Am I understanding correctly? So confused.

[@mr.tophat300]

Instructions unclear got my marbles run over by a car

[@CatalinEnache1502]

This vid is one of your best...we really need this theme.more and more presented

[@lylez00]

If someone is needy and clingy, try putting your arms around them and saying, "I'm here for you. You're not alone." I bet they wouldn't be so needy and clingy afterwards. After you hit the wall, you will wish you could have that guy for just 5 minutes. But by then, he'll be old and cold and bitter and evil, the way I am, because back when he was young and big hearted, all he ever got for it was kicked in the balls and kicked to the curb. I'll never be dumb enough to love a woman ever again.

[@Brian-fw6cl]

Beautiful

[@hamzach6284]

Great channel..Learned a lot from ur videos..keep it up 🇵🇰

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Thank you, I will

[@stevenrobin82]

Can you do a video on damaged woman ? What I just been through is mind blowing to me

[@TimStJohn-xp8rv]

Yes please!!

[@Cobrawing2000]

All I have to do is exist to turn women off

[@adrianmejia8641]

I always watch ur videos 😊😊a lot of lessons i learn about giirls and now i have a confidemce to tell my feelngs to her😊😊

[@vanpenguin22]

"Not 'vibing' on what we want to attract" How about a for instance?

[@TheRoman1]

Constant eggshells

[@montsarmahfoudh7683]

treat her like a celebrity and she'll treat you like a fan

[@Mcbevhills]

Thought i was too clingy and needy but found out my girl is distant because she is a stripper and escort. That's why my desire for better communication was met with angst from her. She needed space to spend with clients while in between spending a few nights with me...

[@hededcdn]

🤣

[@HOTSHTMAN53]

Jesus bro where tf did u find her?

[@graemelynn5892]

😂🤣 Number please

[@Mcbevhills]

That's the SoCal woman for ya. Lol

[@jdtractorman7445]

I think it works both ways though.

[@TonyRossiImpactGlobal]

Jesus, dating is a huge pain in the ass these days!

[@cluggyahoo]

Being broke is a big turn off for women

[@chasingdreams2492]

🤝

[@TheLastWordWithBob]

Gold diggers

[@juniormedina7652]

How would you respond. When your having intimacy. She tells you , you will find someone younger ?

[@newinthowai]

Was hoping for comments and I realized I'm way too early.

[@kylechung9025]

whats the best way I can contact you?

[@siraniks]

what can you say about the different attachment styles? i'm sure not all people do have secured attachment style like most women seek ideally

[@faizalquantum1699]

I want to know, if i follow all your guidance and tips, should i tell her that i search KZbin for this?

[@harshmanerkar7292]

Ohhhh dayumnnnnnn🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@jeglistylerelatips5319]

Wow, this is really great. Well explained. I can clearly see that this video would definitely help many in their relationship. Apollonia, you are such an inspiration.

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Glad you liked it!

[@henrytorresvlogs]

💯💯🥰🥰 Bella gracias

[@CliveHenry]

Love these videos. Be nice. She runs. Ignore her. She runs after you. .... LOL

[@eazilush4367]

💫Facts

[@marvinsorto4870]

I just wish I could afford you as a coach

[@dexdagamer2887]

🍇 🛍️🛒 yes?

[@adamgafa1693]

What if I did when I met her but she made sure by the time she discarded me I didn't??

[@merearly]

hello apollonia have u been here in asia especially in the philippines? do you agree that there are many nice guys here?

[@DominicSobreoDomSanity31]

First? Hello!

[@christiepetrus1160]

Can u make the videos more short and direct bcoz they very long just for a few things

[@itaekumba33]

Woman are headaches - we free agents out here in 2024 - no relationship, no cohabitation.. peace of mind I put over all woman..

[@mafp22w]

It seems to me that women don’t need to be wanted, but they really want to be wanted. Similarly, women don’t want to be needed, but they deep down need to be needed.

[@KingLebron006]

Basically,whatever you do would scare her 🤣

[@mulamicmotion4695]

Women play so many games that it doesn't matter what we do just focus on self

[@mistanl4424]

That being co dependency with woman and being needy is the worse I was that guy!

[@terrencedabney843]

Yep. She is an extension of YOU. He can't check a million other dudes. He supposed to trust her to go out and combat those guys.

[@ronb9901]

That’s a great analogy!

[@ivanjeffersons1125]

I hope you can help. My Ex wanted a breakup/break because she feel out of love and felt that I took her for granted. What is the best outcome to get her back? I really love her so much

[@Para_Noia_]

Move on, have an abondance mindset !

[@josephozurumba]

Let her go. You can't love a woman enough. Once, she tells you she wants to leave, she has someone in mind she wanna be with. It means you are not important in her life, you worth less and the more you wanna keep her, she sees you as weak. She does not worth it. Find a girl that appreciates you and respect you and wanna be in your life. Check out Rich Cooper and Samuel Kelvin videos about women, it will help understand this being. Wish you luck!

[@briar35981]

Ivan, move on brother. Your better than that. You don't want a relationship where your motives and loyalty are always being questioned. Let her find this attention and that "Pop off the old validation pipe" somewhere else.

[@vbbent]

Move on! She has already moved on.

[@supercarstalkermiami6035]

Examine the different point, of why she left you. Ask yourself what did I do that she didn’t like ? That she left me ? It’s can be, lazy, making to many excuses, not giving her proper love, planing a future by showing her actions of how much closer you to living with her in a house one day. A relationship is two people running there races to there goals. You & her both talk it out, if your interest match talk it out an keep running in the race with her until you finished. Once you focus on the real part of having a relationship not dating for break up. Dating for marriage it has it very different sides of view.