Apparently Men Are Biologically Meant To Cheat On You | Alpha vs Beta Debate

[@sofiarestaino6537]

"Men have to be with multiple women, it is natural" lmao in the animal world it's natural to eat your own litter too, mate.

[@Asaspecimenyesimextraoddinary]

And in the animal world males are the pretty and colourful ones who try and woo the female. They should be the ones shaving their legs, doing make-up, pretty-fying themselves, the ones with stricter beauty standards etc. If they wanna being this argument up they better follow all the other rules of the animal kingdom too and not complain when their wife devours them after reproducing 😂

[@agees924]

Also, there’s no animal species on earth where the females are monogamous but the males have multiples partners. Either both animals mate for life or they both choose multiple partners for new mating seasons. These men want to have their cake and eat it too. They want a woman to be faithful to them without faithfulness back.

[@blondie3743]

​@@agees924 exactly and they pull out some bs study that was done years ago, on RODENTS not actual human women and think that squares away their cheating and hypocrisy.

[@ashitakedia5814]

@@agees924 exactly like penguins and swans mate for life but i think all mammals are not monogamous.

[@MotivationSalvation]

Those are two different clauses without connection but I see your point

[@SluzzyHourr]

Whoever told these males about fanfic terms is beyond me, like who brought omegaverse to their attention.

[@jjan3]

I don’t think they know. That’s what makes it so funny 😭😭

[@grahamcrack]

I’d love to ask them about mpreg and knotting

[@SluzzyHourr]

@@grahamcrack these alpha males don't even know how to stay loyal 😭... wait till they found out about fated pairs concept and all

[@ChristinaMoralesMindfuqed]

Broooo i love reading those comics 😂😂 its my favorite genre

[@ChristinaMoralesMindfuqed]

​@@grahamcrack 😭😭😭💀💀💀💀 [SCREAMING]

[@purpleamber1]

A real man is disciplined enough to not cheat on and hurt and betray the trust of the woman he loves. Simple. If he cheats, he's for the streets.

[@MotivationSalvation]

I agree, everyone keeps complaining but lack morals themselves, both men and women

[@Youtubeuser10873]

Period cheating and betrayal is immoral and unforgivable

[@Sarah-kv3qs]

@@Skuzzobuttour whole blurb is probably why a lot of women are securing finances to not have to be at the whims of men who seek to belittle or control. They can be single as men and be with who they want but they do that to make the other person miserable.

[@thejadedcommenter7371]

It’s not even discipline, it’s human decency; normal people don’t _feel the urge_ to cheat

[@jaylicious4694]

​@@thejadedcommenter7371Literally my thoughts

[@anitanielsen1061]

“Men are designed to cheat on you” Do they know how much of a turn-off that is?

[@Lemoncakelover678]

They make themselves look bad, it's embarrassing

[@boredagain1]

We can't help it it's in our DNA, especially alphas/sigmas, you'll have to blame nature for that one

[@Asaspecimenyesimextraoddinary]

It’s not in your DNA or nature at all. You’re just unfaithful and disloyal, and can’t hold a relationship cause of your stupid ideologies. Of course no woman would want to stay with you that’s why you get insecure and cheat on her, then refuse to acknowledge how wrong that is and instead blame “DNA.” Hilarious. 😂

[@prettypyrenees]

@@boredagain1 please get a brain scan

[@richardslifer1052]

The male specie has an eleventh toe which periodically secretes a hormone called infidelsterone. Infidelsterone, when secreted in large enough quantities, can serve to short circuit the innate tendency for monogamy….. 😜

[@tym9080]

Most men like this almost never get married and sleep around with the same women they talk about.

[@thesevenkingswelove9554]

That's what it truly is lol, these men don't want women they truly love. They want someone whose submissive to everything including the @buse they give to their partner. And then these men fool around with those women, the ones they truly "hate"

[@_tripalong]

Honestly I hope they get no women at all 😂

[@coolbreeze5683]

Bingo

[@GabrielleTollerson]

exactly!! 😂

[@w3rdnama1]

If they could even get women… A lot of those guys, most of them really, do not attract women at all.

[@blakelay]

I wish alpha/beta/omega dynamics would stay in fanfics where they belong!

[@gogogogig]

JELP

[@naomi-ve9gt]

REAL

[@ланаиванова-й4б]

LMAO so true though

[@davinaoluka836]

FR tho

[@quwandathornton]

THIS. Reality literally ruined the fanfics for me.

[@comedyblastYT]

When these alpha males talk about how marriages used to last so much longer so they must have been happier, I just think about how much harder it was for women to support themselves enough to get a divorce if they wanted one. Longevity does not equal quality, it could just as easily mean they were trapped.

[@SpiceGhouls]

Not to mention divorce was less socially accepted

[@MelinaH]

omg this is so true, never thought of it.

[@no.6377]

they never even bring up the divorce boom that happened after no fault divorce became a thing.

[@ella-qm6jq]

Yes exactly, they were talking about a time when u really couldn’t get divorced so of course most ppl stayed together 💀

[@maygonzalez4249]

@@ella-qm6jq fr, but they conveniently leave that little part out 🤡😂✋

[@thehapagirl92]

I feel sorry for any women these clowns have met.

[@sebastianmothelet8130]

Normal people see : two “alpha males” doing a podcast I see: a circus

[@nickiminaj0882]

@@sebastianmothelet8130 i see a zoo

[@morbidlyxobsessed]

@@sebastianmothelet8130 i don’t think normal people, think they are normal. I think most people, that are not chronically online, think they are ridiculous and need to touch some grass lol

[@biljam972]

This!

[@ADysmalDyStOpiA]

​​@@OedonTheGreat that isn't if it's an open relationship and and all parties are aware hence not cheating,see in the other comment I could tell you were one of those 😂btw this is not your place to comment this place is for women who agree are you a woman or a trans woman perhaps

[@rosacentifollia]

They are perpetually stuck in a teenager phase. 🤢

[@justkiddin84]

More like giant crazy toddlers. Demanding, no perspective, and screaming until they get their way. Not normal toddlers, unhealthy ones.

[@mikudayo_biggest_fan3939]

literally jakes, the lot of them. 💀

[@BarbieMariposa1613]

Some teenagers are more mature than these men.

[@rosacentifollia]

@@BarbieMariposa1613 true.

[@ayadhyist]

That’s an insult to teenagers.

[@zainabk2866]

As a Muslim women that is religiously practicing, follows celibacy, and comes from a society with traditional roles placed, just no to these men.

[@maryamtara2934]

Exactly same!! Im a practicing muslim celibate woman and these guys are trashhh

[@anielsky4831]

Islam is inherently misogynistic

[@Kotifilosofi]

As a liberal atheist who also happens to be asexual, strongly agreed ✌️😄 just no to these men.

[@lisa-pr7hu]

ikrr

[@disgruntledmoderate5331]

Practicing progressive Christian who was celibate until marriage, and whose spouse turned out to be trans (and we are still happy)- these people are scary.

[@LoneWulf278]

And they still wonder why women divorce them so much. 🤦‍♀️

[@mikudayo_biggest_fan3939]

ik, they really think they’re qualified to talk about marriage and relationships when they got like 10 divorces, all of them which the woman wanted said divorce 💀

[@samuelgonzalezsantacruz5893]

​​@@mikudayo_biggest_fan3939 i think that someone who failed in any kind of area still offers some good advice by showing you what he or she did wrong, after all, faliures are the best way to learn, but in here the person talking doesn't show much remorse for what they dud wrong...

[@LoneWulf278]

@@samuelgonzalezsantacruz5893 Exactly. There’s no reflection on their own flawed and selfish perspective.

[@2crisp63]

wow I see you on Destiny stuff

[@GabrielleTollerson]

exactly,and then they still want to blame us 🙄

[@iiiaaaaaannnnnaah]

comparing the alpha-beta culture to astrology culture is so true and so funny because “alpha” men make fun of astrology all the time even tho they’re so similar

[@kawansiesquad6659]

But at least the astrology culture isnt hurting anyone (at least I havent heard anything yet), these dudes damage young men and hurt women💀

[@Lemoncakelover678]

​@@kawansiesquad6659 The difference is that while astrology can be harmful (with some tiktoks trying to justify irl killers using their star signs) however, alpha/beta is inherently harmful for both men AND women

[@seraphim108]

​@kawansiesquad6659 As someone who has been adjacent to astrology communities, most people are pretty chill. Even those that pic favorites don't always mean it in a bad way. I never got the mass hate for them.

[@ShielaM-p1w]

Do you know why they make fun of astrology? Bc it's a woman thing. They will deride or devalue anything of women even if they would choose a woman like that.

[@Astro4Knowledge]

Astrologist here, Astrology is literealy in it of itself ,anti harm especially when these tik tokers claim to be Astrologists and spat bullshit,they know nothing about true Astrology(these sigma males or whatever) and try to make fun of it when they know nothing about it, their only reasson bc 'its a woman thing'

[@ishathakor]

the crying in front of kids thing is wild. the first time i remember seeing my dad cry i was 17 and i just remember thinking oh my god.... he really does have feelings. he hadn't even cried (that i could see) when his own dad died. i think its much worse to go through your entire life with your kids not being able to see you express sadness or grief. you're not supposed to be their hero you're supposed to be their dad

[@EmyN]

I can concur, and I would add not crying doesn't make you a hero

[@MUSAFIRBEFIQR]

Totally agree with you. I saw my father cry for the first time, when he was siting on the sofa with his dad picture in hand. I still think about it and tear up.

[@ZalemMoon]

My dad cries when he watches sad movies or tv shows that have a sad moment in the episode. I respect him so much more than if he just held it in and pretended it didn't make him feel anything, he's supposed to be a human being, not a robot...

[@martha6773]

right i cant even cry in front of my family because we've always hidden our true feelings, i wish i could see my parents be more vulnerable so i could express my feelings better growing up but now i gotta unlearn things and its hard opening up and im a woman.I would say this is more common among women than they think.

[@ashitakedia5814]

My dad cries not quite often but every once in a while and then he would say it’s just a detox for his eyes😂

[@who__cares__]

I don't get how men like them can hate women sooo much like just f your homies then 🙄

[@Anon00113]

Agreed

[@jjan3]

Exactly.

[@chocolateaddictedartist5924]

"I hate women, but mentally scarring them helps fuel my ego."

[@megalodon9809]

🤣🤣🤣

[@justkiddin84]

And that is the exact issue with some of them. They want to and hate themselves for it.✌️🌈

[@Xavia_Dimoff]

“Are you more attracted to a woman that has a high paying job or to a woman’s beauty?” “It doesn’t matter to me” “It does matter. It does matter to you” What the hell is the point of asking someone a question if you’re going to talk over them and tell them what they are thinking?

[@tobiaslawrence8928]

I would have said both

[@Xavia_Dimoff]

@@tobiaslawrence8928 No, it either matters or doesn’t matter to you.

[@Melian07]

Today's world is incredibly superficial and obsessed with youthful beauty which lasts for a short time, it's useless to give it so much value. I see that many people who are still young (around 30 or even less, and also guys) complain about losing their youth, unbelievable. Why not focus on something that lasts longer like skills and good character.

[@Xavia_Dimoff]

@@Melian07 Because why do good things when you can make things terrible

[@titandarknight2698]

@@Melian07 Because they revolve thier whole life around dating and thats it. I mean men can be bodybuilders without constantly thinking about what women like. and vice versa.

[@celinepope]

I'm literally dating the nice guy. I mean a sincerely nice human. He's what I've always been looking for. Cleans with me, cooks for me more than I cook as a full time student. We communicate and work together, push each other. He's not an edgy guy but we work out together, he's attractive and kind. Nice guys don't finish last.

[@justkiddin84]

I hope it lasts for you! ♥️

[@marajones1828]

5 years ago I met a nice guy. We got engaged this year. And I’ve had men flabbergasted at who I pick and I’m like, he’s the best kindest human I’ve ever met and all you have is a bald head, misogyny and a tesla. Nice guys don’t always finish last. Sometimes they find nice girls and live happily ever after ❤️

[@shanel4294]

My “bad boy” turned into the nice guy and I’ve been loving it too 😂

[@knuclestheechidna5406]

Is he paying all the bills?

[@zuzanalanova4665]

Same Girl, same 🥹

[@AlwaysSadé]

I just asked my kids if they would think little of me and their father for crying, and they said "no people are allowed to be sad at least once in their life"

[@strawberryfox8819]

Tbh, I think it's good to cry in front of your kids. I've never seen my father cry and I actually think it put a strain on our relationship because I don't feel as comfortable going to him when I need help as I do with my mother.

[@_tripalong]

Most kids be knowing their sh*t more than these grown ass dudes 😂 I love kids bruh

[@godpilled9077]

Awe that is such a sweet answer

[@JuniperGal-ek2pu]

Yes when I see boys cry, I think nothing of it. You should have more empathy than anything.

[@morbidlyxobsessed]

"If it was natural to be with one woman they would be with one woman." My nature is lazy, if I would do what feels the most natural to me I would not work, over spend money, eat 1000g of sugar each day, never exercise and live in a messy home, because I hate cleaning and have a hard time staying focused. However there are certain things I need in life to feel happy and fulfilled, there are certain standards I uphold myself to and that comes to relationships too. I don’t do what feels the most natural, I do what makes me feel happy, proud of myself and suits my morals and values. I hope they do know that we have control of our minds and actions.

[@ojyochan]

Exactly, if we just lived the way we were naturally inclined to, we would all melt into a couch

[@agees924]

Exactly, many people naturally have the desire to abandon their own children…like animals do in nature. That doesn’t mean it’s okay! Our ability to go beyond our natural instinct is the only thing that makes humans different from animals.

[@ousontmeslunettes9891]

I have a low tolerance to frustration and a natural desire to curse or get rid of the cause of my frustration. You don't see me offing people, breaking phones and laptops left and right because I learned to control myself. This natural argument doesn't work at all. We are humans living in a society with rules and social pacts not animals in the wildness.

[@chez5860]

I actually live exactly like you described. I don’t work, I spend money like it’s water, I eat sugar, and I’m only inclined to do what I feel like. (After once being the distinct opposite.)

[@user-nb5jo2xi1g]

I can relate

[@thesevenkingswelove9554]

The "fake Andrew" dancing made me laugh so hard. Its so funny omg 😂

[@liisaa287]

LMAO 💀💀

[@Sarah-kv3qs]

No whoever had the audacity to do that has balls. If I was Andrew I would sue for defamation but it’s so funny 😂😂

[@SpiceGhouls]

If one partner is dominant and the other is submissive, that is not an equal partnership. Neither party should be either. You should just be equal.

[@gabrielleabraham5773]

Exactly

[@kitcat2449]

I think if it's a common decision that works for the couple then it can be okay, but you shouldn't expect that everyone is going to be comfortable with that kind of setting.

[@OedonTheGreat]

Depends on your beliefs.

[@_tripalong]

​@@kitcat2449 ​Really? Who tf chooses to be submissive if they're not being coerced or pressured to do so?

[@rinesserin]

​@@_tripalongA TON of people. It's literally one of the biggest kinks out there, and for a lot of couples, that extends beyond the bedroom and into their daily dynamic.

[@DearAliya]

What disturbs me is how some men will claim that they should be in charge of solving emotional problems but when they find themselves becoming overwhelmed by the emotions of their wives, they become avoidant, frustrated, dismissive or even abusive because as much as they want to be in charge - they have no idea what they're doing.

[@TheNicMMc]

That goes without saying that mindset also applies to to money and health/attractiveness. Just look at Jonah Hill’s relationship. He thought he could date a hot surfer but he had no idea how insecure he was.

[@GabrielleTollerson]

and yet they call themselves the logical ones!! 😂😂 PFF AHAHAHAHA

[@jhonhoppins522]

Exactly, it's about the power and not the capabilty

[@The_Winsome_Pixie]

They aren’t socialized in a way that makes them adept at managing their own emotions, let alone handling someone else’s. It’s absurd they would even imagine they’re the right ones for the job.

[@Kaedya.-]

@@The_Winsome_Pixie We should learn boys to accept and manage emotions and to understand their limits. Emotions are important to humans and hiding them is the worst solution.

[@bacrope]

Now they're saying things like, "cheating for a man is equivalent to a handshake!" "If a man cheats he still loves you!" "You're really going to leave the man you love just because he cheated on you!?" These men are going around making up their own definition of cheating to justify their actions. It's so bad that I literally have to define word for word what cheating is (when it comes to relationships) and none of the dudes can deny it.

[@GabrielleTollerson]

BIG FACTS

[@Sqooshyfroog]

This alpha beta thing is honestly so dumb the first alpha beta stuff for humans were weird fanfics with alpha omegas and betas Also Andrew rate should just buy everyone a Bugatti

[@_salemtovar_]

Andrew if ur watching this and u actually wanna prove ur a top g plz buy me and my subscribers buggatis plz

[@iiitsnaomiii]

plot twist these men just think abo fanfic is rly cool so they're cosplaying abo

[@Sqooshyfroog]

Is Andrew tate in jail or out of jail I don’t know anymore

[@sebastianmothelet8130]

Plot twist: the scientist who said that alphas, betas, omegas, etc. existed, has since confirmed he was incorrect… so if it ain’t even in wolves like commonly thought, it’s definitely not a human thing…

[@iiitsnaomiii]

plot twist: alpha males are furries who just aren't out yet

[@Lissizh]

“Men are designed to cheat on you” is the dumbest thing I have ever heard. If that’s true then it must also apply to women. Because how would these men who truly believe that explain the married women who are serial cheaters? These women do everything “right” when it comes down to caring for their families yet they still cheat.

[@GabrielleTollerson]

exactly!! These same men get pissed when we use their logic against them and the lack of self awareness is ASTOUNDING! 😭💀

[@albertajnstajn9516]

​@@GabrielleTollersonThese men are not feminists, so they don't believe in the feminist "50/50" rule. It's not that hard to understand. Why do you assume that all men are feminists and agree with this?

[@madz2013]

I literally cannot comprehend being a cheater. It just doesn't compute to me. I don't care who you are cheating is literally never ok. You cannot change my mind

[@ojyochan]

Right, if monogamy isn't for you, don't get into that type of relationship!

[@MotivationSalvation]

A rational comment that doesn't man shame! Have some cookies 🍪🍪🍪

[@Sarah-kv3qs]

@@MotivationSalvationMost of these comments have been just shaming about cheating? Are you stalking to post to claim majority are femcels for being annoyed at the types of men(some of them were fine in the video). It’s not every single man who will operate like this yet the shaming is valid…

[@Typo1138]

I’ve also never even slightly thought of cheating and the fact that so many people are blasé about it is crazy to me? Like why is it so common? Even in polyamory you have no excuse to cheat.

[@isaM08]

My dad is a major crier. And I love that about him. He never shied away from expressing his emotions, when he was sad, when he was happy, and how much he loves my sisters and I. And I think that makes him more manly than any of these "alpha nice guys". He is the type of guy to flex his muscles and do a goofy roar, "look how strong your dad is, if you ever need it, I got you", then cry watching family dramas with us. He's the best, and I'm so glad that's what I grew up seeing.

[@Paula-zt9ol]

That is so sweet

[@GabrielleTollerson]

FACTS!! What an amazing man and I hope he is doing well! ❤

[@lovelylipbonesouwwwwwwwolv2198]

Awwh your dad sounds like such a sweet and enjoyable person to be around! ❤💖🥀

[@abraj4191]

We started treating men like they used to treat women and they don’t like it. Who could’ve predicted that

[@issecret1]

No? We didn't. I don't treat them with the disrespect they had

[@theshermantanker7043]

You think it's right to treat someone like this for the crimes of his ancestors?

[@Suited_Nat]

@@theshermantanker7043you say that as if women don’t suffer at all today… 💀

[@jhonhoppins522]

we're not treating them like they treated women lol, otherwise we'd be advocating to take their rights away

[@YouNoob573]

@abraj4191 " like they used to treat women" elaborate

[@Zullala]

Some people are naturally monogamous and some are naturally polyamorous... Just find a partner that has the same value as you do or is flexible around these issues. Like damn, don't get with a person who values monogamy if you don't want monogamy in your relationship. It's not rocket science 🤷🏻‍♀️. So much easier than cheating and hurting someone you supposedly care about and love.

[@rosacentifollia]

Exactly.

[@lisah8438]

I personally think it is a choice but ok

[@ChristinaMoralesMindfuqed]

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@ChristinaMoralesMindfuqed]

​@@lisah8438 everything we do is a choice we made.

[@jams1070]

Common sense isn’t common lol

[@j.o.n.n.y]

The fact that he said because they produce a lot of sperm just made me realize how stupid men can be…

[@lovelylipbonesouwwwwwwwolv2198]

Ikr there is a reasons men produce so many sperm it's because women's body treat it as a foreign invader or some type of virus. So the body tries it's best to eliminate the sperm...

[@GabrielleTollerson]

LOL 😂

[@ladybug3380]

Not realizing that they produce a lot of sperm because the female body tries to keep the sperm from getting to the egg.

[@Pupsuli]

And next you need to realize it doesn't depend on gender. Some people are stupid, period.

[@acielvert8573]

They really are dumb

[@sleepy_world9990]

Day is instantly better when Salem uploads

[@iiitsnaomiii]

fr

[@sebastianmothelet8130]

My skin clears up 😊

[@RuthTaty_]

💯

[@sofiahagman3403]

100%

[@ronjaniemi6122]

If we really want to throw biology into dating, male mammals generally commit to one female to make sure the baby is theirs and their genes alone go on. They teach this in elementary

[@_tripalong]

And virtually NO female mammals are monogamous lol new offspring, new partner bish

[@kojirod.dragon3724]

This is false, males in every mammal group the most easily discarded/disposed socially and biologically. In every species the larger males dominate the species/women as a whole. In other words, the larger males usually have multiple females because they have the traits that are deemed the most desirable/important. The top men will always dominate society.

[@trini2DBone134]

​@@kojirod.dragon3724the males don't "dominate" the females 🙄 they fight against other males for the female. Yall need to stop with this "dominating females" bullshit

[@gristen]

"males are the most easily discarded socially", "the top men will always dominate society". well which is it? 😂

[@soumya5832]

@@gristen none😂😂 seriously comparing humans with animals...where the society has come to..philosophers call human intellectual beings but looks like they want to be like animals nowadays 🥴

[@SpiceGhouls]

To my understanding, attraction is not based solely on one thing - appearance, personality, interests and priorities, mannerisms, sense of humour, mindset etc all play a role in attraction. If someone was the most gorgeous creature on the planet but was a really nasty mean person I wouldn’t be attracted to them!

[@Taylorpayton99]

Exactly! My boyfriend isn’t a model but I found him cute and was interested in getting to know him. The more I got to know him the more attracted to him I became, now he’s pretty much the only guy I have eyes for along with my celeb crushes.

[@KiaraWilliamsX]

I will never understand the need to control someone to such an extent. You want someone to sit down and shut up, try a blowup doll. Hope being alone was worth it.

[@yougotunagiedxd]

I dont think these men felt a woman's touch

[@abbydudu]

Whenever I hear those terms like "alpha male", "beta" and so on, the only thing that comes to mind is those omegaverse Boys Love manhwas with tons of smut 💀 These men are ridiculous 😂

[@yanijen9733]

Ikr lmao...

[@kitcat2449]

They live in their own loo loo land lol

[@moretacospls3253]

About the crying in front of your kids promt: My mom went through a lot of trauma in the past and she and my dad had a rather messy divorce. She used to go to me and my sister to vent since a very young age (around 10 years old). If she was upset, she could hyterically cry infront of us for hours on end. I really love my mom and I have a lot of sympathy for her, but when I was younger, I wished that she would‘nt have done this. I always felt that I have to be strong for her. So I appreciate that you brought up the topic of therapy.

[@IzuAurora]

I agree. Seeing your only "safety" crumble down into a million pieces and cry hysterically isn't good. I have a core memory of when my mother did the same and it's just not right. The child shouldn't be the one to comfort and be the rock for a parent. That said, crying a little, like an emotional conversation or showing you're toughed is different. Showing emotion and even tears is good, it teaches the child that it's okey and that it passes and that they're allowed to express their feelings outwardly. But there is a limit there imo.

[@strawberryfox8819]

My mom is the same. I'm the eldest and when my mother was in emotional distress over my sisters being sick or our pets, she'd come to me to vent and seek answers or comfort. Got to a point where I had a full blown panic attack when she came into my room one morning and actually had violent thoughts every time I saw her. So since then, I told her: "You can tell me about some of your worries but I'm not your emotional support, you should discuss this with dad because I cannot handle it and it is not my role to play". Since then, it's gotten better (I've also moved out, so that helps). But also, I've never seen my dad cry. In 20 years, not a single tear. And I'm convinced that it put a strain on our relationship because I don't feel as comfortable sharing my troubles with him as with my mother. He's a caring guy and I know he wouldn't judge me for it but I think it's important to see that kind of vulnerability in your parents to be able to also express that vulnerability properly.

[@moretacospls3253]

Thank you all for your answers! I‘m an emotional person myself and there is nothing wrong with crying in gerneral. My dad often gets teary eyed on my birthday when he thinks about my birth which shows how much I mean to him. My sister did the same to me and after years and years of being their emotional support person, I‘ve just had enough. They can talk to me about their hardships in life, but I’ve set healthy boundaries.

[@TinyLoaff]

We need to stop platforming people like Andrew Tate- even if some of them are satire or not, it’s setting a precedent that impressionable, sometimes lonely people are acting upon. It’s gross & dehumanising /:

[@jeanpierrepolnareff9009]

I used to watch Jubilee all the time I got turned off by them because of how controversial their middle grounds were getting. They'd have these terrible prompts that you can't really reach a middle ground on and the whole video is just meaningless argument. All the while, they ask these obsurd questions that clearly lack nuance and are only asked to push a certain narrative. I'm all for civil discussions but Jubilee obviously cares more about views than actually deriving some meaning from the conversation. The way they operate their channel is honestly irrespective and nigh insidious.

[@neonmushroooms2339]

I stopped watching them for this exact reason. They give a middle ground section to sides that aren’t even comparable, showing them as equal while, for example, only one of them has scientific backup. Therefore, the channel is so hungry for views that it gives a platform to potentially dangerous ideas.

[@jeanpierrepolnareff9009]

@neon mushroooms LITERALLY. I've seen so many of them that have sides that legitimately should not interact with each other and/or one side is CLEARLY wrong(*ahem* flat-earthers v. "round-earthers"[a.k.a the truth). Plus there are so many that you just KNOW that neither side took anything productive away from the discussion.

[@ramatadiallo2455]

This is so true. They don't care about being offensive towards minority / women by letting these clowns speak as long as they have views. It's disgusting

[@MotivationSalvation]

Their best is probably the mask prompt, informative but sometimes they just ask questions to make the participants feel like a villain.

[@ChristinaMoralesMindfuqed]

Dude i cant with this debate😂 i literally know so many men who are completely opposite and hate cheating so these guys are less real to me.

[@ChristinaMoralesMindfuqed]

Isnt Gamma a type of ray?

[@Lemoncakelover678]

​@@ChristinaMoralesMindfuqed For so called 'alphas', they sure do love using science terminology....

[@ChristinaMoralesMindfuqed]

@@Lemoncakelover678 Right 🤣

[@theshermantanker7043]

​​@@ChristinaMoralesMindfuqedGamma is indeed the highest frequency wave we know of, and is also a form of radiation, alongside alpha (helium) and beta (electron) radiation

[@tfkdandsvkc]

This new wave of hating women is so toxic😢 i wish i would avoid men entirely i cant stand them

[@cookiecat3625]

Me too, I don’t believe “not all men” at this point in the game

[@_salemtovar_]

@@cookiecat3625 im married to a very humble and kind man, they do exist- just rare lol

[@sebastianmothelet8130]

And then people wanna say there’s a “man-hating” culture 🤦‍♂️

[@namkia205]

They are so rare they are taken and most of them by very beautiful women so most of us must stay single or we end up with THOSE creatures

[@Anon00113]

@@_salemtovar_ same, we got lucky. Been with my boo since 2016.

[@lovelylipbonesouwwwwwwwolv2198]

It's just so ridiculous how they want to cheat yet they expect a woman to stay loyal to them! If they desire a polygamous relationship just find another woman who wants to be in one and not a woman that wants to be in a monogamous relationship!

[@xXmojodojocasahouseXx]

the funniest part, is these are the kinds of guys that would only want a poly relationship to apply to themselves band would get angry at the thought of their partner being with other people. They are selfish and controlling.

[@albertajnstajn9516]

It would be like that if they were feminists, but they're not, so the 50/50 way of thinking doesn't apply to them.

[@bethanyray6421]

my great grandmother divorced her husband in the 50’s so i’m just gonna go out on a limb here and say that just because divorce was less common does not mean that it didn’t exist and that people had happy marriages. silliness.

[@AZ-tq7ok]

GIRL PREACH! Relationships are NEVER 50/50. I make the same amount of money as my partner, we do split the bills by having one joint account for bills and then the rest of the money is our own. Sometimes unexpected costs come up, and one of us needs to put in more. We always discuss it but we NEVER keep score. Emotionally, my partner is doing like 80% and I'm doing 20% right now because I've been going through some stuff. But I see what he's doing and when I'm better you bet I'm going to make it up to him. THAT is a 50/50 Relationship. It's not about true 50/50 it's about stepping up when your partner needs you and vise versa.

[@MonstehDinosawr]

i need to hydrate before i watch

[@Novabeann]

In my 20 years of living, my dad has only told me he loves me twice and I’ve only seen him cry once, it showed me his humanity and I love him for that because he’s grown up to not be that way and he was still able to say that and do that I’m now with a man who loves me so much and isn’t afraid to show his love, affection, or emotions to our newborn baby❤

[@anime_lover845]

the last question when a man cries in front of their family. I think they should cry like you said it shows how human they are that they can express their feelings because men usually don't cry and i think it's sad that they can't but deep down they can.

[@stonedkarina]

this is genuinely scary, i watched this video and was literally bAMboozled by how some of these "men" think.

[@stonedkarina]

truly sad for the next generation of boys

[@stonedkarina]

@𝐋 𝐔 𝐂 𝐈 𝐅 𝐄 𝐑 𝐈 𝐀 it’s also sad for the little boys who are raised to be this way… further damaging them and them damaging women in the end , a never ending cycle

[@2crisp63]

You shouldn't put men in brackets I feel like it absolves us of holding accountability for our actions in a way

[@stonedkarina]

@@2crisp63 I never once put anyone in brackets. I said some men and was speaking figuratively. If you are hurt by my comment then … maybe you should start calling out some of ur homeboys then. no one is stopping anyone from holding accountability for their actions

[@2crisp63]

@@stonedkarina I meant in quotes. I think you mis interpreted what I said if I'm coming off as hurt from your comment. I don't I even agree with it. My friendgroup is also fine idk why your talking about it

[@foxfaeble]

lmao listening to men like this makes me SO HAPPY i'm asexual and aromantic 😂 and alpha/beta came from a DEBUNKED study on wolves... who's going to tell them that the wolf hierarchy they base themselves on is actually matriarchal.. mom wolf makes all the big decisions, not the male!

[@gabrielleabraham5773]

Exactly

[@kitcat2449]

We should start making our own insane animal lore. How about praying mantises. Just eat the dude after the deed because that's what nature intended 🤩

[@blondie3743]

Their entire lone wolf mentality can be shattered within moments

[@GabrielleTollerson]

YESS 😂

[@rey82rey82]

Male lions steal the female lion’s food

[@user-ky7jx1cr5k]

Many men have professed their love for their wife and would never cheat even if their life depended on it. So this a definitely a lie.

[@mari.doodles5]

Honestly, I really appreciate your thoughts about relationships. As a young adult who has never dated, you have given me wisdom on how to approach it from a healthy environment. Specifically in one of your videos when you said “your partner is an extension of you” hit hard. Thank you for your work and gems. You give me hope. Much love💕

[@jerlinej3516]

Using the sperm excuse falls apart when you take into account that upwards of 90% of sperm are abnormal. So the reason why you have a lot sperm is because your body is trying to make up for the bad ones, NOT because you have to spread your seed. Using evolution as an explanation has its merits but it’s often used as an excuse, especially in cases like this. Evolution doesn’t produce the most efficient body parts and abilities, many times it just leaves them as is because they’re “good enough”. So producing lots of sperm could just be a thing that “stuck” because it wasn’t causing too many problems and nothing more.

[@MotivationSalvation]

Wait, if 90% is abnormal, wouldn't that make it the new normal and the new basis?

[@ayomidedareabel5525]

@@MotivationSalvation No it doesn't 🤦‍♀️

[@ayomidedareabel5525]

@@foodie_nightos r/thatisnothowbiologywoks

[@andpeg]

@@foodie_nightosWomen can’t “select” sperm. Why do you think accidental pregnancies happen?

[@solus8685]

Never crying in front of your child will just teach them that vulnerability is wrong and that it should always be hidden

[@albertajnstajn9516]

That's how it's supposed to be. Sons need to be taught to be tough and protective, not crybabies.

[@sandy_carpetsthesecond5013]

@@albertajnstajn9516 To be tough and protective from what? Other men who are violent because they're as emotionally repressed as the people who are trying to fill those same roles?

[@ilona6338]

Have some of you ever seen an Alfas' males girlfriend? Because I have never, and I have this feeling that they have no clue what a true relationship is

[@leticiavillalobos5247]

Seriously! Alot of these men are usually always single giving relationship advice hmmmm 🤔

[@Stormo21]

I saw a tik too video of a bunch of “alpha” guys on a podcast, and they all looked like over 50 years old. Like at your grown ass age… and you don’t have a partner?? That goes to show you this mindset does not work

[@rosacentifollia]

Totally. They are not mentally suited to be in a relationship with ANYBODY.

[@kenos911]

The coach never plays, but in this case, that’s why they’re not a good coach

[@ilona6338]

@@kenos911 such a good point. They only had one or two bad games and that is how they assume all of the game looks like 🙄

[@septiceye_3706]

I'm so glad that my dad cried in front of my sister and I later. During my childhood, I never saw him cry, but after the divorce he cried and I felt relieved 'cause that showed me that he was even capable of feeling emotions. Glad he let himself be more vulnerable, even if it took some time.

[@MotivationSalvation]

Why did you assume he didn't at the first place though?

[@ZalemMoon]

​@@MotivationSalvation They're saying that they were relieved when he finally did it *in front of* them.

[@septiceye_3706]

@@MotivationSalvation I knew he had emotions, he's human after all. But what I saw the most from him were anger and sometimes rage, and when things got physical, all I ever thought was "how can he hit me if he says he loves me?" He even went to Anger Management classes once, but things only got worse. Later - luckily - the violence that my mother, my sister and I experienced stopped and I began to understand that my dad let out his frustrations on others instead of talking about it. Instead of crying and showing that he needs someone, he lashed out at others or isolated himself. Nowadays my dad talks about his feelings and doesn't lash out when he's angry or sad. He's going to therapy now and he seems a lot calmer and more settled within himself and his life. Bit of a long answer but it took a while for him to figure himself out.

[@Ari-ze8wm]

My dad is super sweet and cries like once a week. He’s sweet and gentle with my mom and my sisters feelings . He gives me hope for men .

[@CosmicQuinn]

There must be something very wrong with my boyfriend, 5 years together and he hasn’t cheated on my once AND does at least half the chores. Should I get him checked out? I’m growing concerned…

[@ADysmalDyStOpiA]

😂😂

[@stonedkarina]

to me a 50/50 relationship is not always going to be 50/50 but what it means for me is that we're equals, respectful, and we are there for each other, whether it's when were both going through it or if one of us is going through a rough time, the other steps us and is there for that person, and later on, it can be reciprocated because the mutual respect and love and understanding are there, when the man said his wife stepped up and was working while he built his collection and company, that to me is a 50/50 relationship and dynamic because they find a balance that means, you're there for me always and especially when i need it the most and ill be there for you. a relationship is a team and so many people dont get that.

[@stonedkarina]

But u also point out a good point: u said “There is nothing wrong w a man providing and that dynamic, just be healthy about it” ant thats key.100% as long as both people agree with the relationship [ dynamic and its healthy, its your preference!!!

[@VasiliZgRR]

Relationship Is not 50/50….More of 60/40. Woman 60. Men 40. Men is not going to iron or cook etc….Men can washes the dishes, vacuuming etc. Most household go for a woman…60/40 is fair.

[@thechumbucket8986]

​@@VasiliZgRR60/40 is not fair at all

[@Sarah-kv3qs]

@@VasiliZgRR60/40 cause people to burn out and that’s creates resentment lol.

[@rushrush1209]

@@VasiliZgRR Some men iron or cook. I know a lot of men who do cook, probably not as many who iron.

[@justuravergekpopluvinfeminist]

The problem with the romanticization of the time before the 40s and 50s (and during) family structure is that, it lead to a lot of men being abusive when things fell apart. Women and children suffered a lot.

[@seese9456]

They would never acknowledge the patterns of abusive men in nuclear households because it' doesn't fit their idealized views, it's either that or they see nothing with women and children suffering at hands of the "man of the house".

[@pabloescobarschanclas]

yeah, but this doesn’t fit into their perfectly sculpted mold/idealized view of those days, so they choose to actively ignore this lol.

[@blahblahblahbryce]

We need more content like this IN GENERAL!!!! Thank you for not letting these confused, insecure men try to turn their chaotic-evil, faux-self-help drivel into a real, overarching movement. It's disturbing how popular it's become!

[@Sarah-kv3qs]

Some of them are solid(Jordan Peterson is helping speak on mens mental health). Makes sense that a lot of men are looking for spaces to talk about their issues. Yet in the other hand they need to check the other platforms that just want fame

[@floatingbacon3909]

“The inner workings of the ultimate wolf.. -kiss face- Had me floored! This is too comical at this point! I wonder how many of those ‘girlfriends’ will wipe their butts and bring them home cooked meals at the home??? No. 😂 As a former Certified Nurses Aid who worked primarily in long term care I can tell you them ‘stallions that can’t be tamed’ relied on me to feed and care for them, a paid worker.

[@bangtanluver]

Men can talk about men’s rights but my issues is the constant putting down of women like…

[@RaidenMustDie3594]

The “alpha” men in this video are simply crazy hurt little boys, we men do not claim them. I’m a men’s rights activist and I firmly believe in working together WITH women to solve both of our problems, I don’t like it when either gender hates on eachother

[@KittySnicker]

Love the Spongebob references! And so glad I’m happily married to a faithful, compassionate, and yes, also masculine man! Being masculine doesn’t have to mean being a misogynist and/or philanderer. My husband and I both have successful careers.

[@_tripalong]

And that's on healthy masculinity 👌🏼

[@loreleihenry405]

i actually appreciate how well they listened to and acknowledged each other’s opinions - rather than shouting each other down or forcing their ideology onto others

[@Sarah-re7cg]

I’ve seen my dad cry like 2 times (that I remember). One was at his fathers (my grandfather’s) funeral and the other was when he was saying goodbye after he finished helping me set everything up in my dorm at university. I wish it was more normalized for him to do that because it really did show his humanity.

[@ohbooyourselves]

I don't even know why the black man sat down because "we" were never able to have the "nuclear family" we've never had that privilege. Our reality was being so mistreated that both the black wife and husband were working. Black woman have always worked we never had the chance to be housewifes for the ideal "Nuclear family", so how can we go back to something we've never had? 🤔

[@TheBiggestMoronYouKnow]

when black communities did find success they were attacked (often literally)

[@pen_gui]

Ngl the crying infront of kids part is what convince me about humanity, you'd be surprised how kids can be very understanding without even comprehension of emotions. They understand that crying means you're sad laughing when you're happy and well the "angry stare" when you piss them off. It's when you aren't expressive that a person gets scared (no matter the age) because again, humans are unpredictable majority of the time and usually body language/expressions is what gives a hint about how you should act around a person.

[@Ninjaair64]

They always start off with really good points.....but thennnnnn it goes downhill reall fast. Seriously, relationships take a network of support, friends, therapist, or someone to guide you in the tough spots, and healthly boundaries.

[@sopa_sapo]

It's incredible how we were able to create such a large community where to share experiences, perspectives and thought provoking ideas by something as a little screen connected to the internet.

[@shanalouise]

Girl, you post it I watch it. Don’t care what the topic is, even when I disagree with you. I just love your calming voice and perspective

[@zyishere]

You are always a breath of fresh air into these situations Salem, thanks for your using your platform to share your perspective

[@LA-cm9uo]

Dear Salem, can you please do videos on the rise of 'feminine energy' / 'princess treatment' dating coaches/influencers? I think there's some good in it and some bad in it. I'd love to see your take on why this is rising, what is the culture that set the ground for it now, the good and the bad, the influence on us viewers, etc..

[@JaseekaRawr]

omg YES!! Pls pls 🙏🏻 I'm too reactionary to those vids, bc many of those influencers are reactionary themselves. Seeing them subtly(or not so) reinforce such toxic things like patriarchy actually makes mad 😅 would love a more level headed view of it 😆

[@LA-cm9uo]

@@JaseekaRawr There are some great femininity coaches who are not toxic, the best EVER is Adrienne Everheart. But she uses those same terms (HVW, feminine energy, etc..) as those much younger toxic influencers who just show off their sugar babiness

[@FrumiousMing8]

I swear alphas talk like they're in an 80s high school movie Guy in his 30s wearing a suit and pays taxes: "Girls only go for bad boys. That's a universal truth." Me: ". . .are you 14?" Also the guy with the locks is so based, what a king.

[@Kalidreamine]

I’m so glad I managed to always end up bumping into more of the middle ground kind of crowd. The kind that respects that everyone struggles and that we all live differently, and not acting and living based on sweeping generalizations. My friends, s/o, family are more in this middle ground. Although I’m always afraid that I’ll run into the extremist viewpoints that blow up and seem so prevalent online, I haven’t really personally met anyone who wholeheartedly chases after those ideas. And I appreciate it.

[@MarlopolyGaming]

In all honestly, I think the internet just gives us all the idea that these mindsets are more common than you'd think. When most poeple are just normal human beings.

[@kitcat2449]

@@MarlopolyGaming True, it throws things out of proportions. I bet the "normal" people don't waste as much time on social media. Negative things also naturally gather more attention.

[@CeeCee-mt9ep]

I absolutely love the point you brought up about people's stronger ties with their general community lacking these days! It's so sad to know that if you are in a tough situation it is not as likely that people will look out for you anymore, I totally agree that creating a connect between one's own relationships and the people around them is so important.

[@moninebrocco7615]

>Sigh< OK, The Nuclear family is a term coined during the U.S.'s Nuclear age, which was not that long ago. Before that a more normal dynamic was Grandparents in the home taking care of the kids so both parents could work and then the elderly could also be cared for. A M/F couple together but alone was not normal.

[@izzybennet.t]

Prior to that, upper class ladies had property and estate inheritance rights and iron clad prenups because they had to relinquish that when getting married; if they got divorced, everything that was her's would be returned to her and her family. Lower class ladies also had prenups, but they worked and lived with their families. These men fantasize over something that lasted like 10 years in the entirety of human existence and both men and women were unhappy during that time, they just couldn't talk about it. Like idk somehow it would be less insulting if they obsessed over a highly misogynistic society like ancient Greek Athenians, at least that society lasted for a long time and accomplished some stuff.

[@Judge_of_Anubis05]

These "alphas" "betas" and "sigmas" want to act like animals but want to maintain all the human comforts.

[@LoveStrawberryPoptarts]

I wonder who are the omegas

[@Judge_of_Anubis05]

@LoveStrawberryPoptarts "nice guys" maybe 🤣

[@_KenKenYouNot_]

I just wish that both men and women can set aside their differences for once and come together to fix these disparities instead of trying to one up each other and hate on the other. P.S. I will always watch the ads so Salem can pay them BILLS!!! ❤️

[@GabrielleTollerson]

FACTS

[@Lyagani]

There is only one side trying to take away the other sides human rights. You absolutely cannot set it up this way. This is like equating Palestine and Israel, clearly one side has the power and is abusing it.

[@mybuffysummers]

You said “let’s hear what the alphas and betas think” and it cut to a baby crying in a pampers ad

[@Ciana2024]

🤭🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Ciana2024]

KZbin is clever sometimes 🤣

[@albertajnstajn9516]

Who hurt you?

[@yousername16]

Gosh this "gender war" is exhausting. Whoever hurt you... hate the person and not the gender.

[@Youtubeuser10873]

I know right like we need to stop trying to proof who’s best like it’s a fight

[@Youtubeuser10873]

They feel threatened if someone talk about rights they want to make sure their gender wins like it’s a match

[@ladybug3380]

Ikr

[@48886x]

exactly

[@dubusdoughnut9475]

I literally yelled out loud when I saw that you posted. You make my day SOOOO much better

[@piko555]

huging a tree sounds lowkey unironically healing

[@DMMA0726]

It's so nice. And psychologically it actually does do the body good if you look into it.

[@stonedkarina]

thank you for your videos, Salem. it means a lot to have a level-headed person who talks about important issues. i want more of this raw content

[@RobynStephens]

I thought the Mark Zuck vs Elon Musk thing was funny because Mark Zuckerberg is happily married with three kids and Elon Musk has several baby momma's and a bunch of kids. 😅

[@floralfancy7814]

The Alpha Beta Omega theory has already been debunked. The man who wrote about wolves having alphas, betas etc in his book would actually find that the alphas and betas in wolf packs were actually just parents and their kids. However the original book became so popular that it stuck onto people and made them classify people in the same way.

[@christiangrant6141]

Hi Salem. I really liked this video about this Alpha Beta topic. What really hit home for me in this was when you talked about whole Nice guys and Bad boys thing. The reason is because I’m guilty of this. For a long time I’ve never loved myself enough and didn’t do the things or even “put myself out there” to make myself a better person thus being the “Nice Guy.” So turning 21 this year, I want to change all of that. It’ll take time, but I feel like I can really do it. I’m Working out more, staying on top of my hygiene, and being more open to people, perfecting my craft since I’m a artist, and trying new things. It’s a process, but I know I can get there. Thanks to you, Noah Samson, and my friends for making have a different outlook on the world and how life and relationships work. And to anyone struggling out there, you can do and it is possible.

[@isabellarice1132]

I love the happy music as missongany is spit at us by grown adult baby’s

[@gravityclarity]

"Humans are meant to change and grow." Exactly!

[@sarahtaavetti]

Cheating is whatever you decide is cheating WITH your partner. Whether that is talking to someone else, kissing someone else, sleeping with someone or loving someone else. Every couple has different boundaries and rules. If you want to sleep with multiple women, find someone who is cool with that. But agreeing to be monagomous and then cheat „because it’s your nature“ is just the most cowardly and anti-„alpha“ thing there is.

[@kayyay86]

I'm happy to see men with different points of views speaking without interrupting one another or putting each other down. I hope they come away with a broader perspective and ask more questions of themselves.

[@charcoal8]

Why is it that the "betas" more often have happy long term relationships but an "alpha" doesn't 🤔 Almost like the decent guys actually win

[@artisticbeautybyhanako6801]

In accordance with their definition of alpha, their 'alpha' does have to be making good money because that's the only feasible way a single income household is happening in this curent decade

[@saraheb5080]

Lots of these men believe theres a set script and formula to life, that there's a certain way everything falls and that is just life. They're very set in their own ways and seeing other people live out different lives really brings out their ego and they're so baffled that someone else doesn't follow their genius formula for how to live.

[@stephanieo8360]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@claramartel1397]

My dad was not shy to cry in front of me when I was a kid wich made him so great and so human in my eyes. He cried pretty often when we watched touching movies together, when he found songs lyrics beautiful, etc. Some years ago he cried because he was worried he didn't play enough with me when I was a kid but he was sincerely the best father i could have wished for. He has always been someone I can openly talk to because i know he will listen to me no matter what. The men who don't want to cry in front of their children don't know what they are missing. Crying helps create a real connection with your child. Love your videos Salem! You're beautiful and you're the best!

[@jessicadement1722]

"Probably Jesus, because Jesus is the Alpha and the Omega." I nearly spit out my coffee. You are always witty, but that killed me. 💀💀💀

[@paigedurmis8026]

I’m convinced most of this stuff is actually just rage bait and trolling and it’s working.

[@destineycitchen1068]

I think mental illness has been running so ramped in the patriarchy for so long because why as a grown man are you out here cheating? You can literally do what you want bro 🤣The guy with the locs was super attractive energetically. I love men with feelings

[@destineycitchen1068]

@@Raya-ir4tm that’s not the topic at hand. The topic is about MEN who feel they have a biological right to cheat.

[@th-ck9vl]

Where do men get the idea that they can tell women what we should do, what our nature is, and how we should live? Like where did the nerve come from

[@sapnanayak1453]

Every time I feel sad, I count my blessings to have never met any of these alpha guys.

[@urfav.xeniaa]

Please do more videos of this !!! I love how you make your videos equal for all, especially with how crazy people get with these kinds of topics

[@kitcat2449]

9:01 I love that you didn't criticise his needs, but acknowledged that people might want to have different things, but that still doesn't excuse cheating. Your takes sound always so wise and open minded.

[@Kotifilosofi]

I hate when they talk about women's desires like they had first hand experience in any of it. First of all, it makes the assumption that all women are the same. And second, men who call themselves alphas will literally never actually listen to any woman who disagrees with them and challenges their worldview. I'd dïe mentally, emotionally and literally if I was in a relationship with someone who'd "guide" me like I had no brain of my own. But none of them would know that because none of them would have any interest in listening (let alone believing) someone like me.

[@videovamp_]

GIRL what is the name of the lipstick you're wearing here??? it looks so pretty! (also great vid and i haven't even watched it all the way through yet, i just know it's gonna be awesome!)