Apparently men can't be VICTIMS of DOMESTIC VIOLENCE...

Australia has such a bad track record when it comes to supporting men and the feminist narrative has a stranglehold here...
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[@SydneyWatson]

Sorry if I'm a little flat here - I get the world's WORST allergies in summer. My eyes feel like they've been attacked with tinfoil. 1 lyk = 1 prayer xoxo

[@americanexpat1605]

Come to Russia. Its -15 and snowing. I'm sure your allergies wont be a problem here!

[@samuelclemens6841]

This is an ugly "humble brag" since it's cold and snowy in the midwest.

[@ADRay1999]

If it’s warmer over there I’m coming over it’s frickin freezing over here in Maryland(USA)

[@audiossis4567]

I hear you Sydney. As a fellow Melbournite, I understand how terrible a place it is for people that suffer Hayfever like allergies.... Zyrtec works for me. There are days I can't function without it.

[@Chiefab22]

Sydney Watson winter 🥶 ❄️ cold here in America 🇺🇸

[@beerandasmoke7960]

I lived with an abusive woman. An example would be one afternoon i was asleep on the couch. She came up and smashed a bottle over my head because she was mad over an incident that i had nothing to do with. I got up, with blood pouring down my face, and told her i was calling the cops. She laughed and said she would punch herself in the face till they got there, then tell them she used the bottle to defend herself when i was attacking her. Needless to say i didnt call. She knew she could abuse me and the system would support her and believe her if all she did was lie. It was a living hell. It continued on with her favorite thing being attacking me while i was asleep. She liked it because she could do damage before i could defend myself and it kept escalating. It all came to a head one night. She came in drunk and tried to pick our two year old up who was sleeping on her elmo couch in the living room with me. She had already fell with her once in another incident. I told her to give her too me because i didnt want her to fall. She refused and i had to physically take her. She immediately started throwing full punches at me. I covered my daughter up with my arms because i didnt want her to get hit so i had to take the full punches to the face. I turned my back on her and took my daughter into her room and put her in the crib. All the time shes wailing on the back of my head. Thank god she slept through the whole thing. I turned and shoved her out of the room too get her away and locked the door. When i turned back to her she hit me with a roundhouse that did serious damage. Blacked my eye and bloodied my nose. I snapped. She threw another punch and i caught it in midair, twisted her arm, and broke it. She fell to the floor screaming that i was an abuser and womanbeater. It was the first and last time i raised my hand to a woman. After that she never attempted to lay a finger on me again. People will read this and think "why didnt you leave." Because i knew the courts would give her custody and i was afraid for my daughter without me being there to protect her. That was twelve years ago. Ive had full custody for ten years. Her mother took a promising career as a pill addict and is no longer a part of our lives. Life is good for both of us.

[@RusticHighman]

The sickening part is how frequent this situation/attitude is :( I'm sorry you had to go through that bud and i hope your daughter is okay

[@anak4600]

Sorry you had to go through all of that. Society has always been hypocritical

[@dreadqueenpersephone5355]

You're either a genius or had the luck of the Irish in that court case. Or she was just a fucking idiot. Either way, it makes me happy to see you getting custody of your child in the end. Hope you get to live life to it's fullest mate.

[@Fielmur]

Maaan she'd get to do that once ahah, the next day I'd wear permanently a microphone and call my lawyer, then trick her to do her shitshow once more on camera with microphone and actually call the cops and see if she goes through with her shit. If she does I would do everything I can to have her committed for at least a week before forcing her out on the fuckin street. Everybody would see the video. I am a kind hearted person, with a lot of patience, but I dare you to try and fuck with me, man or woman. No fuckin Mercy for the wicked.

[@beerandasmoke7960]

I'll tell ya how i got custody. We split up after this and i had to go to court to establish parental rights, since we weren't married. I managed to convince her to accept joint custody with me paying childsupport and other expenses of course. I immediately started documenting everything she done. If she showed up late or no show it got wrote down. If she dropped her off at her moms so she could party i wrote it down. All texts and messages from her saved. There was a lot since she had got with a guy and they were partying hard. After two years it was at the point were she barely seen her. I took everything i had to a lawyer and filed for abandonment. Day of the court hearing she walks in high as a kite on pills. It was obvious to everyone. Needless to say the judge was not amused. He awarded me full custody telling her" i wouldnt give you custody of a houseplant, much less a child." Of course even though i had full custody the judge said she didn't have to pay support because it would be too much of a financial burden on her. I just laughed. I didn't care i got what i wanted but it does show the hypocrisy of the system when the shoes on the other foot.

[@StarvingPigeon]

"I'm a strong woman, no man can break me!" "OH no! A man has bumped into me, help! I'm a fragile, beautiful woman!" 🤦

[@isaacm7934]

That basically sums it up

[@sparrow9990]

Yep they do that one tried rosting me for being a boy and then it came right back at them in the fuckin face there life got rouined from that

[@moonshinedrx9716]

🤣🤣 hahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha

[@OBrien-hi9zq]

Ali Shabbiri bro chill

[@Rabon12]

Yea that's about right uhh

[@linkd3399]

As a male I was raised by both my parents telling me " never hit a woman " so of course put of curiosity I ask what if a woman hits me you know as a 6 year old boy the response was " women can hit men but men can't hit women" I always thought that was so stupid and wrong I believed that neither parties should be attacking each other

[@adambenceracz4082]

Nah, i think it would be funnier to allow both genders to hurt each other, peace is boring.

[@dakoisawsome8235]

Exactly! If were all gona be equal, then this stupid “Women can hit men and men can’t hit women thing” has to be thrown into the trash bin of history

[@adambenceracz4082]

@French Name I don't pick on people. Frankly, as long as you don't cause me any inconvenience or benefit, your existence doesn't concern me. I get home at 8pm at the latest and i am in bed by 11pm, and make sure to get at least 8 hours of sleep no matter what. After having a glass of warm milk and doing about 20 minutes of stretches before bed, i usually have no problems sleeping until morning. I was told there were no issues at my last check-up. I'm trying to explain that i am a person who wishes to live a very quiet life. I take care not to trouble myself with any enemies, like winning or losing, that would cause me to lose sleep at night. That is how i deal with society, and i know that is what brings me happiness. Although, if i were to fight, i wouldn't lose to anyone.

[@tdpros7944]

Yeah boys are always taught never hit women but women are never taught never hit men

[@MrJingles4577]

Like he said equal fights equal rights

[@user-eo4yi3uv5b]

Respect women❌ Respect people who deserve respect 💯

[@anthonyglenn770]

I’ll drink to that

[@reyes8143]

As a woman, I agree

[@thernfoster5360]

​@@reyes8143 You're acting like men need your approval just because you're a woman, as a decent human being with common sense you agree, not as a woman, it's irrelevant

[@MacN-gx3jv]

Perfect

[@Childrenarebetterthananimals]

Only women deserve respect though

[@gamingwithmaxb519]

“If a man is being abused it’s no big deal.” “If a woman is being abused it’s a huge problem.” ...seems legit-

[@SebastiansSebastian-fc4pj]

@Ali Shabbiri yes indeed.

[@Nightharmony69]

F

[@purplesky4334]

Well I don't see a problem with that!

[@hellothere8]

Yes, a wise man once said if a man got shot and a woman stubbed her toe, all emergency service units must tend to the woman and then proceed to spit on the man. The woman must then fight the man in polices supervision. When the man fights back he gets arrested. As you said... seems legit

[@madeofsteel8923]

I love equity (this is sarcasm)

[@stevenporter7065]

Women: bullys man Man: stop!!! Women: be a man!!! Man: hits women Women: :0

[@totalawesomeness2310]

*Surprised Pikachu*

[@Carlisho]

Suprised Pikachu meme works like a charm in this example 😂

[@HaiPham-xn9kd]

dirty birds life # 1team it’s 2018 freedom of speech ain’t a thing for men

[@jordyplaysgamesAUTISMYEET]

Oh god i cant see pikachu but i can fucking see pikachu

[@mauricioarsenio8229]

dirty birds life # 1team I hate it, but it’s true...

[@a.d.r.m.7730]

Saying men can't endure violence in a relationship due to their bigger physique is like saying women can't endure manipulation in a relationship due to their better cognitive functions.

[@amazingtoad7244]

THIS. THIS. THIS.

[@blackwatch2516]

I would give this comment a award if I could

[@mikeexits]

Can* and Can*.

[@mikeexits]

@@thernfoster5360 Well, it seems to me that both ways can work.

[@thernfoster5360]

@@mikeexits Actually on second thought, I think the original commenter was wrong, he has unwillingly made it seem like he is saying men should be expected to suffer abuse, it's one of those weird grammatical statements which can be difficult to ascertain the implications behind

[@bicuriousdirtbikeboi2594]

Feminism: *Constantly shames men and ignores our issues* Also feminism: “Why don’t men want to be around us?”

[@no-gracias9863]

When you realize women can put you in jail with false accusations...

[@tytoalba605]

Honestly if that scenario happens with me ima head out if I get arrested becouse of b.s. it would give me an excuse to get tats in an ultra conservative area I wouldn't loose respect as my family and friends know me and I never lie and am never physical not do I put up with abuse of any kind but yeah scary

[@ollie1704]

I've been of the sex offenders register since I was 10 Coz the first girl I was In a relationship with ( don't classify her as a girlfriend Coz of how much she abused me ) reported me for rapeing her. I didn't mostly Coz at the supposed time I did It we were set in a library with people surrounding us but just because of the accusation I was placed on the list. I'm now 16 and am finding it really hard to get a job Coz of It and I'll never be able to pursue a career In teaching.

[@no-gracias9863]

@@ollie1704 That's stupid, how can you classify a kid as a sex offender? What a stupidity

[@no-gracias9863]

Well, but if a God really exist she's definitely going to hell👍

[@ollie1704]

@@no-gracias9863 she's in juvenile detention for drug possession and molesting and attempting to rape younger feamale student in the school she got moved to after getting expelled so I'm pretty happy also when I turn 18 i will be removed from the register as I haven't reoffended and when I turn 25 it will be removed from my record.

[@JF39621]

Mom: son dont be afraid to talk to girls Son: *talks to girls* Son: gets arrested for sexual harassment

[@wavebreaker22]

😂

[@scolisopod]

Moms now: son be afraid of girls please, this is your third law suit this week for saying hello

[@JF39621]

Scolisopod YT your a legend😂

[@Himmyjewett]

Real life bro

[@EmeraldEyes1776]

It's terribly sad that this is *literally* where our society is at now...

[@manuelhuber2903]

People when men are violent against a woman: Get this man arrested People when a woman is violent against a men: What did he do to piss her off

[@jasperjepson6462]

Literally at school once some boys in a library were just talking and laughing, and the girl in front of them was kinda annoyed so she hit a boy in the face with a book. The teacher should have asked to the girl “why did I you hit the boy”, but I heard her ask “what did you do to make her hit the book”

[@GTA5Guru]

@@jasperjepson6462 That teacher should be fired for being so biased against the boy. 😡

[@GTA5Guru]

These double standards are absolutely disgusting. And it takes someone extremely delusional to think that women somehow can’t or won’t do no harm to men.

[@apotato1386]

When I was in 1st grade a girl kicked my nuts because I said "stop annoying me, leave me alone" and the teacher said "why are you annoying her. Apologies please"

[@DisventureCampEllieLover]

i feel so bad for you

[@juanchoresultay2704]

The teacher is so stupid

[@bmwr1100sa]

A girl did that to me and I beat the crap out if her, hung her by her tits

[@allenallen5040]

@@bmwr1100sa don’t think so.

[@BLu3RayDiskRang3]

That's what happens when we have fat white masculine karens running our schools!

[@useless2482]

"just flicked up a girl's skirt" my dad would have knocked out all of my teeth right there

[@allykayalltheway6631]

Same! He didn't do much right but he instilled respect for women in me.

[@sweed6487]

Being Asian, my dad would snap me out of existence

[@thespiceboy5823]

instant kill activated

[@theghostanihalater9391]

I'd have gotten backhanded

[@shadmilkgod7115]

i like how the dad acts like its normal

[@Ristretto_Interest]

I have proof that women can and will abuse men. One of my co-workers came in to work (this started happening around New year's.) with a broken nose and a black eye. His daughter recorded the incident using her phone, and many others like this where his wife constantly punched him with her fist, with a TV remote, with paper weights, and even once with a lamp and he never raised a hand against her in violence or defense. He just took it because he didn't want his kids to be more scared or traumatized. The girl spoke up at school when they had an assembly about domestic violence awareness and showed the principal everything. The principal told my coworker that he would be calling cps to the school to temporarily hold the child and send cops over to detain his now ex wife. With all the evidence against her, she has charges of unagrivated assault and physical assault/abuse against my coworker and emotional and mental abuse and trauma to the kids, they have a restraining order on her, and he now has full custody of the kids.

[@hunterdekovoltdu0137]

At least for once justice was on his side but well more likely on the side of his girl if he was the one who have say that i don't think it will have ended like that =(

[@sorrito7]

👏🏼 bravo! I’m so glad In the end he got what he deserved and she got what she deserved

[@PR3M3]

W

[@PR3M3]

@Jermaine W=Win for justice in that persons situation.

[@imixupwords5340]

Oh thank God hope that bitch's parents disown her

[@JesseSShaw]

I am a 46 year old man. On my 18th birthday, I was drugged and raped. I never saw the point in reporting it as I was a young man and no one would believe me. But that was back in 1992 when things were different. Back then, it was common for men to be abused and we were expected to take it or we wouldn't be considered a man.

[@izurutrassh6379]

Thats so messed up

[@Vibe_Master_007]

I hope your doing well sir

[@JesseSShaw]

@@Vibe_Master_007 Thank you young man. (I am guessing)

[@Vibe_Master_007]

@@JesseSShawYes sir you guessed right👍. I'm 17 yrs Young Boy and I pray for you and your family and friends and the people who are in a worst scenario. ( Sorry for my Bad English. I'm an Indian. Peace~ )

[@JesseSShaw]

@@Vibe_Master_007 , I will pray for Yahweh to bless you and yours. Respectful and morally correct youth are uncommon in modern society. I am more than pleased to see you haven't fallen into the grips of the disgrace that is the modern world. Bless you.

[@richardd528]

Me: *getting abused by a girl* People passing by: The guy probably made her that mad so it's ok Me: *pushes her away a bit* People passing by: HEY THAT GUY IS FIGHTING A GIRL! SHE DID NOTHING WRONG!

[@GTA5Guru]

These double standards are absolutely disgusting. 🤮

[@badasszombiekillingmachine7000]

I am in a relationship with a man who have been abused and mistreated (physically and mentally)so badly by women that he sometimes still flinch when I try to cuddle or hold him when he dont see me coming towards him. He told me an exgirlfriend attacked him during his sleep. Its getting better with time. My kisses and love for him has made him happier and realized that there still exist good women who would never hurt him. No one has the right to hurt anybody no matter what gender. Stop the violence for god sake, and protect our boys and girls from this madness. EDIT: Wow thank you all so much for everything! I did not expect this to happen. It goes much better, he does not flinch anymore as he used to and is much happier. We have been together for five years and still going strong. Take care out there❤

[@stevienicksisafreakinglege4413]

Good for you! Keep it up! You're a dying breed! 😇

[@aniflowers1998]

You are a great girlfriend! Your partner can be happy to have you in his live!

[@awol2019]

girls are just fine . boys and young men being raped in schools by female teachers are in deep shit.

[@terriwarry1472]

Thank you for supporting him, and i wish him and you the all of tge love and happiest in the world!! ❤

[@gh05tnoh24]

I have two brothers so I flinch when anybody comes towards me and moves suddenly lol

[@docphoenix2619]

Girl: *stubs a toe* People: Oh my God, are you okay? Do you need an ambulance? Boy: *gets hit with a belt 10 times* People: Get up and deal with it, of you're a man! You deserved it.

[@RainCheck797]

Sheesh now your stereotyping and over exaggerating just like the opening psa's

[@tazwarzaheen7605]

@@RainCheck797 the exaggeration is the joke.

[@diam0ndminer647]

Stubbing a toe hurts man don’t make a joke it seriously hurts a bunch of toes every day!

[@docphoenix2619]

@@diam0ndminer647 I know but when I stub a toe, people either laugh or ignore me

[@mccrorygarrett7967]

@@RainCheck797 W O O O O S H

[@GeneralAblon]

Woman hits man: "He had it coming" Man hits woman: "Rot in jail! Cut off his ****!"

[@zane2506]

Pen!s

[@civroger]

My ex used the womens shelter against me. When we argued and I had had enough, I left. When I came back she and the kids were gone. I wondered for hours where they were until I called the police. They answered "You KNOW where they are!" I called the shelter and always met women on the phone that yelled at me, calling me names etc. It didn't even enter their minds that I might have been innocent...

[@maxhillsdale3290]

Fuck that so called shelter more like fraternity for dumb sexist bitches lol

[@anthonyglenn770]

That’s absolutely aggravating and honestly terrifying

[@Bl913]

Whether or not that shelter had "good" intentions in the beginning or not. I hope they cant afford the rent and lose the building

[@citizenoftrone6570]

These shelter was never meant to be what they are trying to pretend. It's just a mix of bootcamp for future feminists and wellfare-bait. You create a so-called 'safe-space' and then look for fundraising or government aid to steal their money intended for assault victims. Simple fraud

[@jackh.7895]

Woman hits man Society: nothing Man hits back Society: Wait, that's illegal.

[@WigglyPicklyy]

Lau

[@uhegbu]

As I said, it sums up society's attitude on it but my attitude is completely different. Whichever way you look at it, male on male, male on female, female on female, female on male, it is wrong and unacceptable in a civilised world.

[@WigglyPicklyy]

uhegbu equal rights equal fights.

[@mikoxdie]

Hey ever heard of equality? you cruel piece of crap (society)

[@Helxari]

@Cat Noir i know right its fucked up

[@stevebotter9442]

Its offical, we are the dumbest cilvilation ever.

[@cya6109]

More like species

[@coolsceegaming6178]

Most (I say most because there are good men and women here) people deserve to have something bad happen

[@doccock2115]

It was offical since the stone age

[@justsomeguywithoutamustach3978]

Why are we on top of the food chain?

[@mr_munch660]

I'm starting to miss sparta

[@darkfire8615]

Love her or hate her, she’s speaking straight facts!

[@no2742]

I'll take the first option.

[@darkfire8615]

@@no2742 good

[@justsomeindianwholikesanim8564]

The first option for sure!

[@ALJ9000]

I’ll take first opinion for 600

[@tahashrif8434]

Wait, some people hate her? That's illegal

[@Skybound.]

When I was in middle school this girl slapped me (idk why) and I.....I didn’t do anything and I have three reasons for that 1. It was the middle of switching classes which meant there was a lot of people 2. Teachers there (again idk why they didn’t say anything) 3. I’m not trying to get suspended When I went home to my dad he said “Fuck that, slap her back! I don’t care if you get suspended or expelled, if ANYBODY hits you hit them back!” Ever since then I’ve been trying to come up with good catchphrases to say if a girl hits me.

[@lukes401k]

I would think “equal rights, equal fights”

[@callumbreton8930]

Here’s a good one. “You’re doing it wrong, let me show you”

[@ntb3210]

Good dad my mom teach me that to (well not like hit back but if anyone hit first they are wrong so whenever I am in a heated conversation with a girl or a boy jsut wait for them to hit first then I can beat them up)

[@jesuskvistus929]

* man being abused * Man up * woman being abuse * It’s a war crime

[@RoronoaZoro-ur6hr]

A House, your comment is exactly why nobody takes feminism seriously, and why men’s rights activists and egalitarians are more truthful than feminism is.

[@hamzaosama08]

Exactly

[@captainducker175]

The Geneva conventions about to turn into the Geneva suggestions

[@tranz2deep]

Men being abused is a crime, too. Always was.

[@Doni-xj6oo]

tranz2deep it is almost never taken seriously though

[@xaviermize4509]

Sadly there are cases where men being abused or just raped get laughed at when they report it

[@theradioactiveplayer3461]

"Men can't be raped" "Counterpoint: roofies and viagra exist"

[@doccock2115]

bE a mAn aNd gEt oVeR iT

[@doccock2115]

@@ETA675 I got nightmares now

[@lifeondeath-2180]

@@doccock2115 same

[@chinchilly]

Reminds me of a story i read where a guy passed out at a party and got raped and everyone laughed it out. But meanwhile if that happens to a female everyone freaks out.

[@davidquirk9711]

I was charged..and she hit me..she went on to destroy another man's life..I don't socialise anymore..havnt dated in 8 years..

[@helenlesley9509]

That's beyond devastating I'm so sorry...

[@tastybrownie7448]

I've had so many female coworkers that baby trapped their boyfriends who would not marry them. They would brag about it at work. I've also had female coworkers who got guys fired by accusing them of harassment. They admitted to me or a group of us that they did it just for the power trip or for a week off of work. I am 42 and still single and have not had a relationship. I was psychologically abused by my older sister when I was young and was not allowed to date in high school by my parents. I never really learned self defense social tactics. In college, I realized that I was not able to fight back against women that tried to get me in trouble or shame me for something that I did not do or manipulate me because they were attracted to my friends, etc. It was always bystanders (often other women) that would jump in and help me. One time I avoided prison because she was beating on my sick mother and I stepped in to stop her. I did not strike her, I just put my body in between so that her strikes would hit me instead of my mother. She immediately got teary eyed and called the police. When the police arrived they were so vicious in how they dealt with me. It was the most terrifying experience to a short skinny guy to deal with giant guys who were each 2-3 times my weight. They had their guns pointed at the ground with all their eyes on me waiting for me to move wrong. That was over 15 years ago. I have not dated a woman or trusted one since that day. I am still not able to communicate with them. I have to actively do things to keep control of my anxiety. My mother passed away last year after a long struggle with diabetes and heart disease. To add to that, my nephew committed suicide last year as well. I've been wondering recently if he had the same types of problems that I had. I was not able to be involved in his life enough. I have guilt from that. I've experienced mostly darkness but at least it is a life that I have lived. My nephew is no longer alive and will not be experiencing even that which is the bare minimum that this existence allows us to have.

[@emanuelpascual3833]

I am so sorry to hear what you have experienced, my friend. I'm so sorry.

[@OddBallPerformance]

Men are also in a very bad position when it comes to abuse because the second they try to defend themselves they are instantly turned into the bad guy. I had a friend that was arrested and charged with domestic violence because he slapped his wife's arm to try and disarm her of the object she was hitting him with. The ONLY thing that saved him was their own home security camera footage. He was released, but then she wasn't even approached by the authorities or had any charges pressed against her. The only justice he got was the house and full custody of their daughter during the divorce, thanks in large part to that footage and other evidence, but that doesn't change the fact that his life was nearly ruined. Even during the divorce process she attempted to attack him multiple times as well as stepped up her mental/emotional abuse game. It took several months before the courts finally granted him a restraining order. The system itself is severely flawed and one sided against men, and until that is corrected and abusive women are treated equally to men, nothing will change.

[@blanktm228]

true words thank you for saying them

[@user-fb6gl3kp5k]

OddBallPerformance w

[@user-rr8yi9zg2k]

Cross-Eye Box Breaks Men do get abused and yes that's fucking awful and peope should pay more attention to it. But sis does happen to them more often? Noup.Have I seen guys playfully slap their girlfriends? Actually yes all the time. I know *many* women who's husbands have beaten and threatened them (my mom and my best friends moms included) but no man who has been through that which doesn't mean that it doesn't happen but it's much more less common. Male victims *always* get treated unfairly in cases of domestic abuse but that doesn't make them more common

[@freethinker9209]

Zoui Yankova well if that is how your analogy works then abortion should be banned too. Because rape case can’t be used as why abortion is needed, rape case is less common. It doesn’t mean it doesn’t happen, it is just less common.

[@user-rr8yi9zg2k]

Free Thinker Girl where tf did you get that from . First I never said that men are not victims of domestic abuse and don't deserve justice because they definitely do.

[@TheBrywarrior90]

That second clip was literally an accident... he didn’t walk up to her and intentionally push her down, he was chasing his friend and she happened to get in the way. I’m not saying it’s her fault, I’m saying accidentally running into someone is far far far far far far far far from being intentionally violent or abusive.

[@totalawesomeness2310]

That's right. he must've been about 13-14. i know for a fact that when kids that age chase after their friends with a goal in mind they shut down, making collisions unavoidable. It was a complete accident, honestly, i reckon the kid was just being sassy at the end there. I never did the whole 'shut down brain while running' thing because i didn't have any friends that stuck around at that age but ALL the groups that bullied me did it, even everyday kids out on the oval did it. Everyone does it, in fact, i saw it was more common amongst girls to push over and ram into guys, then blame it on them.

[@TheBrywarrior90]

Alright you’re taking to a whole different level. Accidentally running into someone while playing a game with your friend is wildly different that total tunnel vision. Please get a grip.

[@marifranx]

@@totalawesomeness2310 I don't know about you but he was like 10 to 11. 13-14 year olds look and act very differently

[@ColaLoser]

All in all, it was still an accident, and they shouldn't have painted an accident as purposeful.

[@Yeecourse]

I'm leaving this on 69 likes 🙌🙌🏻🙌🏼🙌🏽🙌🏾🙌🏿

[@dovee1]

After hearing about the Amber Heard case and after living with my abusive mother, this absolutely disgusts me. I'm absolutely appalled at the state we have gotten to.

[@markcrystaltownsend1578]

Oh this is the new norm . Difficult to find a 40yr old man who hasn't been abused by a woman at some point . Same for women i guess . Its not right for either party to abuse partner

[@TheJPJT1234]

I was always taught... that if someone tries to hurt me, regardless of gender, defend yourself.

[@bruh710]

THANK GOD. A woman in 2019 who thinks men also deserve equality like women.

[@gearshift7174]

@@kalomon2806 no its not anti feminist its anti bullshit

[@Zeldahu]

@@gearshift7174 Yep. I agree with equality between men and women, but I disagree with feminism

[@onetruth37]

@@kalomon2806 no, more like anti-inequality

[@travershall7152]

I hope there is other women out here who are actually smart..

[@thespiceboy5823]

Le Dahu isn’t it if a women wants to be equal to the man that’s feminism but this are feminazi’s like the internet says

[@alasdairmcbryde7573]

Respect is EARNED ... it is not a female entitlement.

[@kimberlyjones8152]

I mean I agree but a people should respect people enough to not hurt them

[@alasdairmcbryde7573]

@@kimberlyjones8152 You can't respect people enough "not to hurt them", because that becomes a subjective thing by individual. It's an absurd notion. How am I supposed to know when you are reaching your 'hurt' threshold? All the snowflakes choose what "hurts" them based on the level of 'victim' they want to be. Ditto for 'outrage'. What 'hurts' or 'outrages' you won't be the same for me. That is the beauty of free speech ... people deserve what they get. Free speech is not hurt speech. My parents taught me as a child "sticks and stones may hurt my bones, but words will never harm me". We have too many adults walking around with the mind-set of a child and it's getting worse by the day with this 'victim' culture. You have the right to risk offending me and I you. If you want respect then treat others with respect ... it's really simple.

[@sopitaaragon6539]

I actually think of it differently. No one can obligate you to respect others. What you are obligated to do is treat others in a respectful manner.

[@alasdairmcbryde7573]

@@sopitaaragon6539 You are not obligated to respect others ... respect is earned, it's not an obligation. Why should I respect an idiot or an abusive person as an "obligation" ... you don't understand human behaviour or individual rights.

[@janebetts6038]

Alasdair McBryde neither is a male entitlement- we all deserve respect as human beings, though some forms of respect do have to be earned- for example, if you want to be respected as a teacher, you have to train as teacher then do a good job. I am a bit worried by some of the comments which try to make out that women are not entitled to the same respect as men are. Violence harms everyone involved and if you are convicted, you may be facing a stiff sentence, whatever your gender. Some of the comments are just ridiculous and I don’t mean the ones detailing how some men have had to suffer at the hands of their female partners.

[@turtleboy991]

If I could go back and tell my 10 year old self about the future, I'd pretty much say "90% of all women will hate you just because you're male". AND I'D BE RIGHT!!!!!! Misandry is EVERYWHERE!!!!!

[@blackwatch2516]

ok that sounds a bit over the top. what makes you think that way?

[@Azrael_yeye]

Me and my guy friend tried this out on our way home we’re I pushed him and no one helped him he also told me to slap him and he would fake cry to see if anyone would help him and no one did but when we switched the roles and a group of people went and helped me they were the same people who walked by me “hurting” my friend I was so upset

[@HiImUnderYourBed]

Yeah. It’s like men life doesn’t matter at all. But all lives do equally. Both genders are equally to me no matter what.

[@Azrael_yeye]

@@HiImUnderYourBed yea same :(

[@HiImUnderYourBed]

@@Azrael_yeye :(

[@lostsoulreaper2731]

“Sometimes I sit here and think, we need another planet.” Trust me we all need it.

[@pizzafrog.2468]

More like a new dominant species

[@mightress]

We need a new planet for feminists. I suggest sending them to Venus

[@vanderwallstronghold8905]

@@mightress I suggest we send them to the Sun.

[@lostsoulreaper2731]

bigricester opp sorry XD

[@kanyewest2729]

Elon Musk can only save us now xD

[@jadefang2222]

My mom mentally abused my dad when I was little (there is a chance she physically abused him as well), and it was terrible. She told my dad about all the boyfriends she had, they were married. Yelled and screamed about it. I even remember when my mom told me once when I was getting ready for a recital, when I was like 4-5. “Don’t tell your dad this, but I’m cheating on him.” She expected me to tell him. She wanted me to. And I did. When I did, he went from happy to physically upset. Now the worst one was where on of my moms boyfriends went to work with my dad, and my mom talked about him a WHOLE bunch. My dad worked with this man, side by side. Really messed up. Now, the kicker is when this guy died in a car accident, and my mom FORCED MY DAD TO ATTEND THE FUNERAL OF A GUY WHO CHEATED WITH MY MOM. It broke him so bad. He and I are out now, and it’s been so much better.

[@tallypaige5275]

Glad to here that Jade.She was rotten to the core.Wish you both happiness and healing,just you and dad chilling and having fun X London🌷

[@jadefang2222]

Tally Paige Thank you for the kind words. It’s actually kinda corny how my dad and I made the first move of getting away from my mom. I met a girl at a new school in first grade, and we hit it off immediately. She invited me to her birthday party, and I said yes. So, my dad took me, and he met her mom. He talked with her, and he told her of what happened between him and my mom. Turns out, she has no heart for not doing anything, and comes up with a plan after meeting us by accident at a mini golf place. She was to “date” my dad and give my mom a taste of her own medicine. My dad did not brag to my mom, only dropped hints to her about this. Now, my mom figures it out, and divorces him. The only reason my dad didn’t divorce was because... well I don’t know why. He was probably scared to. The court ruling says that it was to be a conjoint custody. We were halfway there, but we needed more work. But that’s for a different time. Now, that woman I was talking about earlier, yeah, she actually falls in love with my dad. And my dad deeply falls in love with her. The little girl I talked about? She’s now my stepsister. My dad says thank you for your kindness as well. We are both much happier. We are both away. Again, thank you. There is so much more that happened other than that, but it’s probably take me more than an hour to comment on. So again thank you 🙏

[@TaddyDaddy_]

Glad to see that fat fuck is gone at leadt

[@bluepeacemaker]

I'm sorry for what happened to you. I hope God helps you in this hard situation.

[@axellzr]

keep your head up Jade 👑

[@usmaniqbal5129]

I was falsely accused by my wife for raping her and I was arrested . they don't have any evidence and she hit me with a knife and busted my head. She did not had a scratch ..still the justice system supported her and I was charged though I was seriously injured .

[@samts542]

See, this is why I'm still single. And I thought I regretted having to softly reject the girls who asked me to prom. Luckily, I've now found joy in life.

[@mav2011]

Me: *am a male* Also me: Why do I hear boss music?

[@witherking3432]

Enter the feminist whale.

[@nodeloliver6201]

At that point I'd jump out of my apartment window (I live on the third floor) grab the bug-out bag hidden behind the the dumpster behind the pizza joint two blocks up, drive two states over to a field where a fake body double is waiting. Burn the car with it in it, smash out the false teeth and scatter them in a specific section so it appears I was tortured beforehand, implicate the local gang I've been scouting for months as the culprits of my horrendous murder, change my appearance so that I appear to be a drunken old hobo, cross the border to Mexico, take a boat down into Brasil. Open my dream bar in Sao Paolo and go by the name Ricky.

[@antimatterstudios8395]

Nodel Oliver r/suspiciouslyspecific

[@coolsceegaming6178]

Nope, also me: *time to kick the shit out of everyone who attacks me, even if they’re a girl, they’re still attacking me*

[@Nighlocktheawesome00]

Sorry, I was playing Skyrim and encountered a dragon.

[@The-kr9rb]

Woman Knocks out Man who stabbed her: she defended herself Man Knocks out Woman who stabbed him: BRUTE MONSTER SEXIST BARBARIAN

[@alexisford-campbell3140]

Exactly smdh

[@Qurinum]

So true

[@ihaveaddr1stickinmypc117]

I dream of a utopia where justice is equal and media shuts up and talk about real news and not "Man assaults woman who tried to defend herself with a knife" It really grids my gears that we have to dream of that scenario and not just live

[@Haagen-Dazs-Eiscreme]

Thank you for making this video. And for being an actual thinking human with common sense because apparently it's normal for people not to have common sense nowadays.

[@davebb36]

I had a gf who was an alcoholic. She pushed and hit me all the time. I once had a cop suggest that I have her arrested. I DID !!

[@diesertan4181]

WOOOOHHHOOO

[@untitled_firstdraft7726]

YAY! GOOD FOR YOU! YOU GO BUDDY!!

[@thunderbird1921]

Amazed the cops believed you. The system is so rigged against men anymore it's terrifying.

[@maxhillsdale3290]

YEEEEE PARTY TIME LOL

[@WellFunka_Round]

I tried that one.... they came and arrested me....

[@forestsagehamilton645]

1) women aren't weak unless they literally don't do crap for themselves 2) men can be weak and can be taken advantage of by women 3) anyone can be abused by anyone, regardless of gender 4) the world needs more love and more Bob Ross. This has been my Ted talk.

[@TheArtDump]

While saying that women are weak may be wrong it wouldn't be wrong to say that on average a male will tend to be stronger than a female.

[@forestsagehamilton645]

@@TheArtDump depends on the person.

[@hayden1255]

@@forestsagehamilton645 men had different muscle tissue. Generally men are stronger than women become we're just built differently

[@rasfdrsafdre]

physicly woman are weak, 95% of men on earth will beat any shown woman, we are different and this is good, woman need someone strong and men need someone 2 sane and soften their souls, this is basicly it.

[@sheisthemanheisthewoman4016]

@Voidwalker Forever that's the thing though. On average, a male will be stronger than a female. Just facts. Doesn't mean than a random male Food Reviewer will beat the shit out of Ronda Rousey. Just your John Doe is, on average, stronger that your Jane Doe. That's not sexist, it's just facts. Saying that, on average, men are stronger doesn't make me sexist. If I said that ALL mem are stronger then I should just fuck off. Some people see someone state a fact and then start crying "SeXiSt MiSoGyNiStIc MaLe PiG!"

[@lISamuraill]

a woman pushes man- Everyone laughs man pushes woman-FBI OPEN UP!

[@doorbladder5735]

Samurai lesson? Don’t pick fights with women. Because it’s a lose-lose situation. For you, at least. You beat them: Why I beat up an innocent woman? They beat up you: ha, you lost to a girl. You’re weak as hell

[@phoenixmarktwo]

@@doorbladder5735 But what if the woman provoked the fight?

[@doorbladder5735]

Tetra Wolf does it matter if the guy still loses in the end

[@phoenixmarktwo]

@@doorbladder5735 I just meant, well, you can't avoid it then.

[@jacenbush7185]

What if a woman pushes a woman

[@kevinciccone445]

Two examples of exactly this: An office I once worked in one day put posters up in the female bathroom offering a helpline for those suffering domestic abuse. In the male bathroom they put up an equivalent poster with a hotline asking for abusive men to turn themselves in and seek therapy for their behaviour. It was sickening. The second example is from one of the most popular television series in the UK, Eastenders. It frequently features women slapping or hitting their husband/partner with the expectation (sadly also the reality) that audiences go "Ohh fantastic, you go girl". Always struck me as cringeworthy. Switch the roles and this would have caused an outcry.

[@Mr._Anderpson]

The moment a man defends himself & heaven forbid swings back, the issue is described as "bilateral abuse". If someone accosts me on the street & I defend myself, it isn't called bilateral abuse. Must be more of the classic gulf between women & accountability I've heard so much about.

[@jlawsl]

I got beaten, scratched and every bad thing you could think of in a long term relationship I had. I came to work one day with deep scratches on my face. I tried to tell people about it. She was way smaller then me, so they honestly laughed in my face, asking what I did to deserve it. Or said that,"I had a real firecracker". No one took it seriously. It turned out to be the 3 darkest years of my life that has haunted all of my following relationships. No one takes it seriously at all when it happens to a man. It wasn't, by far the first time or last time something like that would happen. In fact, I was berated by a higher up for showing up to work with a horrible black eye. I was asked if that was how a person of my position was supposed to act. No one was even worried, just angry. Meanwhile, a woman at my old job had finger marks on her arm. Police were called and the man was arrested since they worked in the same large business. We live in a sick society.

[@Tony-ep6lv]

Same happened to me, i went to work with a big scratch just under my eye and they were all laughing about how my girlfriend beat me up (i never talked about it, they just assumed it). Since then i've always covered all the bruises and scratches she would leave on me with make up, It worked until she broke my nose with a punch. they laughed at it too. On the other hand neighbours were very supportive, i never talked to them about the abuse, they just knew it and they always tried to help me.

[@cryptozoologish]

we really do. im so sorry

[@cryptozoologish]

no name its sick,, im sorry that people do this

[@melindaroop1346]

It isn't funny....at all.

[@RedRoseSeptember22]

That's horrible :( I'm really sorry this happened to you.

[@GABRIELLUCERO1]

A couple of years ago my 6th grade daughter knocked out a boy in her class because he was bothering her. I was called in by the principal where "she" was berating the little boy in front of his mother and my daughter. I asked a few questions and found that the little boy had a crush on my daughter and just wanted to be around her. I can be a bit scary looking guy at times and both the tiny little boy and his 5 foot 80 lbs mother (by the look of the boy the dad was not much different than the mother) were shaking. I ended up standing up for the little boy against the principal, told my little girl that she is not to put her hands on another person unless that person get physical first and I apologized to both the mother and the boy for my child's overreaction. For the rest of the year after school the little boy would run up to me to say with a big smile "good afternoon" I guess I became his hero. In closing I just want to say let's be equal and fair to each other we all have the same rights.

[@mariasandrad3367]

So in other words, he allowed your daughther to hit him

[@falconpowerful2362]

Gabriel Lucero good on you mate! _That_ is what being a parent is about! Teaching your kids right from wrong!

[@mirawenya]

Gabriel Lucero i once punched a (girl) friend of mine in the head. Reason was she a few days ago told my crush I had a crush on him for a laugh. (Was jus me her him and a mate of his around “. They all laughed and the boys pulled my pants down and laughed even more. I ran home crying in utter shame. After I punched her, the mothers talked ofc. But after I told mother why, she was on my side. Mom was fierce in that sense. I don’t believe in violence, or revenge. I’m quite against it. But glad mom supported me that time.

[@Bearthedancingman]

Heros like you matter for young people. You probably made an impact on his entire life. That's amazing.

[@TennoWolf]

Dude, you just became my hero. Hate to be the one to get you mad from what you said.

[@immortallegacy100]

As a guy who grew up with women that resented men, called me stupid in public, and overall felt the hand of abuse at times, I can say that nothing feels worse or more shameful. One of my female friends as a joke once slapped me in public to see how I'd react, and while I was upset and very confused, the people around us turned on me immediately and started yelling. My friend thought it was funny and told everyone it was just a joke, but they didn't believe her, and thought I was intimidating her to say that. We haven't spoken since, and she feels SHE's the victim because I wrote her out of my life. I found out later she's kinda nuts, so dodged a bullet there.

[@casadilla111]

As a male survivor myself, it absolutely blew my mind that I was nearly forced to take a titled “violence against women” awareness class at an area university. The only reason I didn’t have to, at least last I checked I didn’t have to, was because I’d already taken classes there earlier in life and had been “grandfathered in” without it. I may well have to take it if I went back, though.

[@galaxy_blythe2977]

Man: I was raped, and abused by THAT woman! *points her out and shows multiple pieces of evidence* Court: *turns to her* Stupid Woman: Nah, he did all that shit to me. Man: *gets sentenced to prison*

[@hayyanazam5854]

@@godsknite I know sorry won't do anything but I am so sorry

[@guenthersteiner9252]

Thanks of this people, If I ever be a rape victim, I'm too afraid tell the police bc Im afraid I am the once who got punished even though I didn't do anything wrong

[@waltermodel7499]

@@guenthersteiner9252 faxs

[@Ray-wm8dz]

So true. Scary.

[@pyropug0188]

*totally doesn’t refer to johnny vs amber thing*

[@couchpotato4928]

Woman hits man: it’s just an accident Man hits woman: **Gasp!** Abuse!!!

[@Logikalx01]

@Eva Green Lover so by your logic we should shut up and take it?

[@aleksamilosevic8792]

@Eva Green Lover And?I dont bully people stronger than me and say they should just take it.But ofc you dont reply when your arguments are shattered #EvaGreenLoverRekt

[@aidenpearce5275]

@Eva Green Lover so?

[@hunterdekovoltdu0137]

women hit a man : he deserve it and after they say when a men take his revenge it's not normal, abnormal comportement attract abnormal action

[@Roddy425]

Eva Green Lover it don’t matter, thats assault, if the woman is the assaulter, then men should have the right to defend themselves, equal rights equal fights

[@faded89545]

"They wont believe you because your a man"~amber heard #justiceforjohnnydepp

[@hydr0826]

“Yeah I’ve already accepted that when I grow up I’ll already be harassed and abused.” Yes that’s a normal family conversation

[@MorphicStates]

I always find it funny how when a woman beats on a man in public people laugh and make fun of him. I've often heard comments along the line of he must have done something to deserve it. And yet should that man attempt to defend himself. Or if you reverse the roles. All you hear is that there is no reason to hit a woman while the white knights restrain him if not beat him down. And we incentivize this behavior in women. My ex-wife was rather abusive. She once attempted to crush my skull in with a wine bottle. One time she attempted to stab me. On another occasion she kicked me in my knee the day after knee surgery. Once she even went psycho on me with our 1 week old infant in my arms. All I could do was turn and let her pummel my back. At least three of the four times I called the cops. When they arrived. She had not a mark on her. I was bleeding and bruised. She lied and told them I hit her. Guess who went to jail regardless of the evidence. Oh, but there's no reason to ever hit a woman...

[@beefnacos6258]

guy slaps her back and everyone wants to jump in. fuck society fr

[@seliynasaycrets8273]

MorphicStates A guy was about to have sex with his girl, she sujests to use handcuffs on him (Think he was blindfolded too ), later she gets a bat and hits his head, he somehow defended himself before she could strike again. She wanted his money but ended up in jail, she did lie that he beat her but police took his side. can't remember much of the details. *This wasn't her first time* So many stories worst than this. of course from men and women but I mainly watch women crimes.

[@FreeAmerica4Ever]

I wouldn't, and given the right circumstances, I would step in so a man wouldn't have to become the aggressor..

[@namelessdrifter2573]

The white knights would be full of holes before they were close enough to make their first move. Fuck relationships in this age I’ll just keep sleeping with attached women and keep doing me

[@One_of_Many750]

MorphicStates Women Are Going To Start Showing Up Dead Because of This.

[@thydirt8223]

Man: *IS BEING KILLED BY HIS WIFE. People passing by: You go girl!

[@xan2960]

Empowerment

[@xexpaguette]

@@xan2960 *embowrmint

[@petrapalorec8486]

Sad but true.

[@Zephyrius8]

@My Gay Channel it was a test on whether or not they intervene and they normally interfere with an abusive man

[@Zephyrius8]

@My Gay Channel and if a woman did it everyone else would join in.

[@anna-mh5ct]

Someone I know was beaten by his abusive wife (who now takes waaayy more child support than she needs) while he was sleeping. He got up, pinned her to the wall to stop her from further hurting him, and then he got arrested for domestic violence. Charges were dropped because he was the one being abused, but she now tells their very young kids that he’s a wife beater.

[@doug1863]

My wife was abusive to me. Throwing things at my head, punching and making a fist and then putting her fist against my my head and then pushing with all her strength. Finally one day I would not take it so I stood up and raised my fist and I told her to hit me again. I then told her that will be the last time because I would put her in the hospital AND I then told her I will be very happy to do the time in jail. She never did anything again

[@ONI_Agent_Bobcat]

Ashame what happed to you

[@doug1863]

@@ONI_Agent_Bobcat yes it is . Very sad . But she learned her lesson and has never done anything close to that again. She knew I was serious. She has become a dream wife over the years since that moment

[@CRIPPLINGANXIETY16]

With all respect sir, I think you deserve better, I feel she's only doing it out of fear. You deserve someone who will be your "dream wife" without the abuse you went through Please take care

[@JohnAFowler]

My Brothers wife beat and abused him up to the time he killed himself. It was 10 years ago last March. RIP my Brother :(

[@justarandomsasquatch1480]

I feel like a thumbs up might be read as liking this. You have my empathy

[@r_se]

I'm really sorry. May he rest in peace.

[@theresnomich5954]

It's sad to also Think that He could've Ended up with a Woman who would've treated Him Greatly But he Ended up with Satan's Daughter.

[@CA.papaBear]

*hugs* Srry to hear that man, god bless his soul. And god bless you too.

[@mccrorygarrett7967]

What do Feminist idiots think about that? The Wife Was Abused. That's what a Feminazi would say. Still, I'm sorry for your loss.

[@ravenclawesome9093]

Wait, if women are always the victims, then how would feminists react to an abusive lesbian relationship?

[@sloggyx]

blasphemy! :D

[@deathblade2639]

HERESY

[@audie-tron9219]

Lesbian relationships actually are the most abusive. More so than heterosexual and gay male couples. A fact conveniently swept under the rug by the establishment.

[@melindaroop1346]

It definitely happens! I have a good friend who is lesbian and she was in a very abusive relationship.

[@RedRoseSeptember22]

@@audie-tron9219 It's true!!! I've witnessed it during my time at Job Corps, they were very abusive and controlling with another. I can also tell you that when I was "experimenting" at one time, she hurt me WAY more than any man ever had.

[@Ripa-Moramee]

The roots of how deep this is within not just our countries society, but so many other western countries like the US, Canada and so on is generally scary. It is in fact what got me into politics, as a guy growing up and going into a private high school, specifically high school, me having to sit there and take this bullshit like we are all inherently bad is unbelievable. I admit it did make me angry, but I think rightfully so. I began doing research into many of the topics, such as the pay gap. I actually argued with my health teacher many years ago, about this very topic. I simply said there where literal laws that prevented discrimination within the workplace, going as far to cite them. She quickly got quite mad and it was clear she wasn't the only one. We live in a time where feelings matter far (but only to certain ethnics/genders) more than facts ever could.

[@danbarat96]

It's the same in the uk, i was in an abusive relationship a woman for 2 years. I was only 20 when i left and the world was kinda scary especially when no one believed me

[@julianstier3821]

My first “real” girlfriend suckerpunched me when I found out that she cheated on me and I wanted to end the relationship. Then she thrashed my apartment and destroyed almost everything in it. Never in a million years expected this! Just stood there in utter shock. The shame and her laughter after that haunted me for years. I called the cops but I had a really hard time convincing them, that it was her. I’ll never forget how I was sitting outside this night, shaking like a madman. A female cop then sat beside me and was really nice to me and I then I bursted out in tears. I had a tiny broken bone but it wasn’t the pain that haunted me, it was the attack by someone I loved at that time and had protective feelings for her.

[@liiivi3432]

Feminists: WE ARE STRONG AND INDEPENDENT!! Also Feminists: IM A VICTIM!! FELLOW VICTIMS UNITE!!

[@clarehidalgo]

Why can't those crazy people who claim to be feminists use their energy for something more productive that actually helps women like helping girls get scholarships for STEM careers instead of harassing people with different opinions and villainizing men? The pay gap is partially because those career paths don't have enough women in them. Like domestic violence is bad but just like slut shaming there are horrible double standards involved that should not be ignored.

[@peepoobeepoo5842]

@@clarehidalgo instead of helping get rid of the problem they try and force their way in and ONLY their way will work (it dont) and force others out (specifically men)

[@iamwavingthegermanflag1537]

@@clarehidalgo All rapists are men. All pedophiles are men.

[@seaneemc]

@@iamwavingthegermanflag1537 you're joking right ?

[@iamwavingthegermanflag1537]

@@seaneemc Most abusers are men. Most harassers are men. Most cheaters are men. Most murderers are men. Most criminals are men.

[@AbhiSasha]

"Just flicked a girls skirt up" Yeah my mom and dad would have picked me up on their head and taken me to police station after knocking out my all teeths!!

[@maxhillsdale3290]

@@_tea_6502 2 words Child Support

[@brandoncole5533]

My dad would’ve hung me by my toes outside that girls house and made me scream I’m sorry

[@HamoTheUltimate]

@@maxhillsdale3290 no, violence is discipline. You might deny it but look at the gentlemen, they are behaved cuz they got used to being beat up as a kid if they didnt. EASY WIN

[@happycat4557]

@@HamoTheUltimate if you beat up a girl cause she did something bad it would be called discipline? NO society most of them being dumb af would call it rape,sexual assult, harassment,bullying and all that stuff while if a boy did the same that she did, it would be fine i have hope no for humanity left

[@justsomeindianwholikesanim8564]

My mom and dad would literally kill me right on that spot

[@odydem5639]

"I stabbed my gf" whoever has said that is in prison "I stabbed my bf" oh then you're okay empower us -media

[@JA-in3ru]

Take house and money after accusing of domestic violence

[@jamestheboss1883]

I remember a girl kicked me in the leg, me being me, I kicked her back, the teacher had seen her kick me and came over, she seemed overlay angry at me.

[@noctva185]

I know how this feels bruv, but instead of a teacher it's everyone who's older than me, EVERYONE, so I guess all we gotta do is just sit tight and get fucked in the ass by some boomers and toxic feminazis because wE'rE mEn We CaN tAkE iT fuck that shit man

[@nighthawk72j80]

A girl slapped me in the face in middle school. I punched her back in the stomach. Then another boy threatened to beat me up if I ever hurt another girl, even if she hit me first.

[@taylorhill9494]

Do you not know the full first rule of school teachers always see the second act 😂

[@cowdashoenuts]

@@nighthawk72j80 I don't think you should have punched her in the stomach maybe just slap her back. Eye for an Eye.

[@meatloafer2762]

@@cowdashoenuts thank you Darth Vader, very cool.

[@lauracovic8875]

Woman: abuses man Man: defends himself Woman: /| /| (• o •)

[@yo_ohno6090]

@@earlaweese *MALE EXISTANCE IS JUST SEXISM IN GENERAL*

[@hannahscarlettsmith7651]

My parents went at each other equally, verbally not physically. But for some reason during the divorce, my mom was a victim and my dad was evil. She lied and lied through the whole ordeal and no one asked any questions. My poor dad got painted as a monster. All because two people couldn't just be civil to each other and she was a woman so she was automatically the victim.

[@HyperactiveSloth79]

As a man, I want to tell other men to NEVER let anyone convince you that you that it's ok to be violent towards you. The worst part of this is that the strongest men are most susceptible to this manipulation but if they speak out about it they are viewed as weak. I tell the following not because I want any sympathy, but because I want other men to know they are not alone and that it is not ok and the longer they play along with it the worse it will get. I've always been the protective type. No, not in the overbearing and possessive way, but in the way that I naturally in my soul felt that I had a responsibility to protect those I care about. It wasn't a burden, but an honor. When I got married I took my responsibilities as a husband seriously. I would always try to make choices based on whether it "what a good husband and father would do" (she had three children already). Somehow my first wife managed to twist that back at me over time and convince me that it was part of my duty as a good husband to "Let her express her frustrations." If she had a bad day, I was there for her to vent. If she was angry about something, I was to let her "punch it out" on me because it wouldn't really hurt me. A few frustrated half-hearted fist-pounds later turned into swings. Swings turned into punches. If I were to raise my arms to block her attacks then she would become enraged telling me I'm not supposed to block. Fortunately, I had actually had quite a bit of martial training and it was nearly impossible for me to just "not block." Unfortunately, this meant that she was often enraged and would escalate even more. Punches turned to plates being thrown at my face. Pots and pans, glasses, a toaster, a griddle, even a chair, were all used to try and get past "my defenses" so she could actually "let out her anger properly." Fortunately, I was quick, and tough. None of those things ever actually injured me. Despite the fact that a slight hesitation or slightly wrong move could have landed me in the hospital I shrugged it off. Unfortunately, it meant that if I "didn't like it" she would call it ridiculous because she "didn't really hurt me." To this day I still have no idea why I let it keep happening. *I felt , and still feel, like the dumbest man alive.* Instead, I just told myself I should just be tougher. I would hate myself if I felt angry for being attacked even though I never once considered any kind of retaliation. It literally never even crossed my mind. After a while things got better. She kind of gave up on trying to use me as a punching bag because I was such a poor punching bag. That's what I thought, anyway. She had always been a kind mother, firmly believing that children should not be spanked and that time-outs, redirection, positive reinforcement, etc. were the only proper way to parent. However, she never did have very good patience. Again, I took this on as one of my "duties as a good husband and father" that it was my job to step in whenever she lost her cool and handle the parenting for her because, as she would say, "You're better at that stuff." Over time the frustrated glance that meant "you take over" changed to yelling and stomping away. That changed to screaming and empty threats of punishment intended to "make them listen." That grew to angry screaming and eventually she would resort to smacking our daughters across the face for "talking back." We had very big fights about that. I couldn't tolerate it. I couldn't let it happen, ever! I just began assuming all of discipline of the children from even the smallest disobedience or the slightest irritation so that she would never get to a place to lash out at them. It worked, but it should never have happened, and I should not have let things continue the way they were... but once again, I thought I was just doing what I needed to do. I thought I was being as strong as I needed to be, but really I was just enabling. I honestly loved her. Love can be blind. More blind than you can imagine unless you've experienced it yourself. It wasn't enough, though. My efforts only earned me more and more contempt. Working two jobs wasn't enough. Taking a nap because I only had 3 hours of sleep a night between jobs meant I was lazy. Well, you get the idea. Almost every day there was a good excuse for her to berate me and spew venom in my face. One day the stream of insults and belittlement and outright hate assaulting me from the mouth of the woman I loved crushed me into a state where all I wanted to do was disappear. I wanted to shrink into nothing to escape the torrent assailing me. I wanted to be unconscious so I couldn't hear it. The bottle of prescription pills I had been given for anxiety were right on the counter next to me. In the most irrational thought process possible I thought, "If one calms me, and two makes me sleep, then a few more will knock me out." I downed them without any actual rational thought having time to stop me. I woke up in the psych ward after my stomach had been pumped and had no memory of anything that had happened after I took the pills. I could have died... and I would have deserved it. That was my thoughts. I didn't blame anyone or anything, I just despised myself for it. I had failed. Things were never the same after that. Life kind of felt like autopilot for a while, until my wife told me "the truth." She said that she didn't love me, she never loved me, she was just using me to not be alone and she wanted me gone. I didn't believe her. I just thought I needed to be STRONGER. I would prove that I was worthy of her love and be a better father as well. I could do this! I would rise to the challenge no matter what the obstacle. Almost as if she had read my mind, she began showing me that if I wouldn't leave, she would MAKE me leave. If I thought that I had seen the worst of her before, I was very very wrong. Instead of coming at me head-on she took every opportunity to "push my buttons." No matter what she did, though, I just responded with even more tolerance. She wanted me to lose my temper. She wanted me to say enough is enough and give up and leave. I wouldn't. As the cherry on top she even invited her ex-boyfriend (the father of her three oldest) to live with us and made it clear that there was "nothing I could do about it or the kids would hate me." She couldn't stand the guy, but now they spent every day acting like best of friends. I never even consciously realized the game she was playing. *I was a fool; a complete and utter fool beyond compare.* During an argument resulting from her doing more things that should have made me walk away, it happened. Her oldest daughter, age 7, kept trying to get her attention while she was yelling at me. She finally spun and yelled at her to "go away or I'll smack your face right off!" I told her she wasn't going to lay a finger on her. She replied with, "She's MY daughter and I'll do whatever the F&%# I want to do to her!" Her daughter was still standing, horrified, just on the other side of the doorway leading out of the living room. My wife turned towards her and in that moment I snapped. I screamed, "NO!" and shoved my wife away from the doorway and stepped between them. I hadn't hurt her at all, but I still stood there looking at my own outstretched hands like they belonged to someone else. From my perspective I had just broken an unbreakable rule. I had struck a woman. I was scum. It didn't matter why. It didn't mater who I was protecting. There was no excuse. I had little chance to form another thought as I found myself being tackled into the kitchen counter, cracking two ribs. Her ex-boyfriend had responded to my actions by rushing me from behind. When I turned to face my attacker and saw his fist flying towards me, I instantly decided that I wasn't going to block. I wasn't going to be a punching bag. I was going to fight back. I hadn't even noticed that two of my ribs were cracked or that the frame of my glasses had broken and been shoved through my scalp. This "man" who always bragged about being an Army Ranger and would proudly state who he could "easily take down" every chance he got looked like nothing to me. I threw him to the ground and held him in a choke hold with my knee in his back until he gave in and signaled that he wouldn't try and fight me any more. I calmly walked over to the couch and sat there, blood from my head soaking my pant leg, until the police arrived. That was the end of my family. I had failed them. I hadn't failed them that day, or the year before, or the year before that. I had failed them the moment I decided that allowing my wife to abuse me instead of seeking help was the "strong" thing to do. It's never ok. It won't get better. It won't stop with you. You can't fix anything by just letting it go on. I know this is probably the longest comment in KZbin history, and I know there's way more detail in there than necessary. I just hope that anyone who was in my shoes... I kept writing and writing because I hope that anyone who is being abused and is in denial or afraid to do something about it might relate to just a few sentences. They might see themselves in one these situations and recognize the truth. You CAN be strong! ...strong enough to change your path! Get help for you. Get help for them. If they won't be helped then leave. Whatever makes you think you have to "just live with it" or that "you can make it go away" is a lie. *You don't deserve this, and neither does anyone else around you!*

[@blackwatch2516]

damn you went truly trough some shit. am sorry for what happened to you

[@mayleia6030]

I had a friend who is a real gentle giant. He works in a muscle heavy job so 250 lb of pure muscle 6' 5". He had a phyco girlfriend who got into a verbal altercation with him with witnesses. He told her it was over so she went off on him raining punches on him, scratching him and even hit him with her beer bottle. All in front of witnesses. When the police arrived she ran to them yelling " he hit me he hit me it was self defense". So in spite of every witnesses saying he never touched her even when she was wailing on him and her having no injury whatsoever he was arrested. With 2 black eyes multiple contusions, lacerations, and a broken nose from the beer bottle. He had to spend several days in jail and for a while they were actually proceeding with charges on him. She never went to jail for attacking him and never faced charges for the multiple injuries he suffered. So when another friend was having an altercation with a drunk crazy woman I put myself between them so I could tell the police when they arrived that there was no way he hit her. I placed myself in danger because I trusted my friend I was facing him so he could see that I was there to protect him but that meant that I had to have my back to the crazy woman. Many times when police arrive all they see is little woman big man and they assume that the man is the violent one

[@hutchisonmichael1]

This is police procedure folks (the Duluth Model). It's wrong but it's not the individual cops making the wrong decision. It's feminism rotting society to it's core.

[@aloriena5082]

@@hutchisonmichael1 sorry but good policing takes witness statements into account.

[@hutchisonmichael1]

@@aloriena5082 You can be sorry all you want but procedure is procedure. Look it up.

[@aloriena5082]

It may be procedure but it is still horrible police work.

[@mayleia6030]

Yeah this happened in the United States where they are supposed to do the actual police work.

[@kairu9767]

A wise man once said, I promote gender-equality I can easily dropkick a girl in the face -The Great Kazuma

[@patrickorr5651]

kyle juralbal these hands don’t discriminate

[@normanhill1052]

Wise person once said "sharp tongue soon meets blunt object ".

[@togerthetigerking951]

Ah yes the expert god Kazuma of Konosuba!

[@shzarmai]

Very Progressive indeed lol

[@VDOTU5]

Kazuma Mishima?

[@musicalspace6885]

Johnny Depp example is proof of this ...

[@peterlovell]

Shocking I'm currently having to sofa surf on my sister's sofa, thanks to a controlling abuse women. I'm out of work due to bowel cancer (currently in remission) my disability payment when to her joint benefit claim and she would leave me with hardly any funds for my basic needs. She would swear and call me names in front of our child (14 years old). She would say if you don't like then leave. But I know she will make access hard for me. After about 6 years of abuse I stood up to her couple of days ago so she kicked me out. Not all women are kind and because they are a woman they think they can't get away with it

[@xrandomnamex5010]

Man slaps women: CALL 911 HES TRYING TO KILL ME!!! Women Actually STABS him: lol that guy was sooooo aaannnnoooyyyiiinnng

[@alandpac]

Then the Man will go to jail and the Woman will be perfectly fine stupid I say

[@Mal05407]

One time this woman cut off a dudes dick and then when it got reattached she snuck into the hospital and cut it off again and threw it out the 3rd story window and it was not recovered, and thus was cause he was caught cheating.

[@bumbarded2804]

@@Mal05407 fuck yeah I heard about that, that shit wack Bitches be crazy as hell nowadays I swear 😂😂

[@heyheyheychocolaterain3058]

Landon Brill wasn’t that in a Netflix movie

[@RedRoseSeptember22]

@@Mal05407 What??? Wow...I can't even fathom that. I'd also hate to be someone walking by and get hit with a random dick from the sky...lmfao, sorry, had to joke a little on that :P

[@The1WithoutFear]

"Those who want respect, give respect." - Tony Soprano, The Sopranos.

[@pacifistminigun3987]

simple, but wise words

[@johnnyd5537]

Imma remember that

[@everinghall8622]

Which tony?

[@obiwanshinobi87]

YES!

[@ScaleModelVamp]

respect is earned.... once it's gone it's gone

[@tonys2683]

I was in an abusive relationship for 6 years, she would often hit me, openly admit to drugging me and abusing me while i was unconscious. Call the police on me and claim i was the abuser, yet not once was she ever considered at fault, It was me that had to prove i did nothing wrong.

[@michaelronneseth801]

You are SOOO AWESOME, I love how impartial and objective you are and this is just another great example of that. I have had this exact conversation and cited that same video clip and a bunch of different studies in similar situations where women were one sided. There is statistical data that shows that in fact women perpetrate a much larger amount of assault in relationships than men do. I see this in play regularly. Any person who goes to the local bar can see this happening every weekend, where women slap, berate , punch and assault their boyfriends in public and NOTHING ever happens. I also know that from personal experience several of my friends have been slapped and punched hard by girlfriends so any number of reasons. One of my friends actually was beat so bad he had to leave the house and slept in our cardboard recycling bins behind out work just to get away from the situation. Point is, this is definitely a two way problem. Assault is assault and it must be handled with exactly the same outrage and punishment. Great job and highlighting this issue. Well done !

[@shouldfindaname5433]

If a man is abused he is embarrassed so he doesn't tell anyone If a women is abused she tells everyone that's why the percentages of abuse are higher on women

[@liamrenaud2347]

And then she gets sympathy.

[@cowrichards4723]

I hope everybody understands now why are suicide rates are so high Sometimes I envy the people who killed themselves

[@cowrichards4723]

Smokey(TheBear)125 In order to actually understand why people kill themselves you have to have been in the same situation because people will listen to you if you can actually connect with them

[@ilovecats3795]

Cow Richards my reasoning is because I understand the feeling of envy the dead. For me the longest time I believe myself for being a burden to people. I learned that people do care about me and the only person who didn’t was me. I am sorry that I just made the situation worse.

[@trap5449]

@Gabriel 2020 the domestic abuse towards women is high but at same time there is a possibility where domestic abuse towards men is almost the same level because most men don't get the opportunity to get help like so the statics could be closer then we might think.

[@bff1316]

At home one day and my wife got mad at me, reason unknown she just does that. She is punching me and I am blocking the m. Our daughter comes in the room and I pick her up to take her into her room, she doesn't need to see this. My grabs a knife and begins swinging it at me. I turn quickly put my daughter down, she's about two. I take the knife away, put my wife on her belly and I am taking off my belt to tie her hands behind her back. The police arrive and things are explained. They tell me to leave, I want to take my daughter but that is wrong I suppose. My wife runs out and pulls my plug wires off. The police hang around until I put them back on and I leave. Her actions while the police were there meant nothing, I was still forced to leave my daughter in her hands. No things are note correct at times. There is foolishness leaving a toddler in the hands of a violent woman and forcing the man to leave.

[@angiehoney81]

I fucking hate this dogma that "only men can be abusive" it pisses me off

[@namelessdrifter2573]

Yep they can take everything you got.

[@laurahuynh8333]

angie honey You are right. I have seen some women who can be abusive and harmful to their partners and families while I have met some men who are protective and nurturing towards their families. Violence has no label. Anyone can be abusive no matter the gender.

[@One_of_Many750]

BFF Women Kill Their Children Far More Often Then Men Do.

[@Jesus-kz2lz]

angie honey TRUE AS A WOMEN I THINK (caps not retyping) that it’s not fair at all

[@zaineba7319]

You are literally saying everything I say when Im discussing social issues with myself. Excellent content

[@ukrainmobile480]

My question is, why are they still fighting for equality? When you have more privileges than men?

[@PaladinGear15]

Probably the wage gap thing, but there's a degree of debate about the legitimacy of that. But honestly; feminists don't want equality, they want to be on top, I mean for god sake they tried to have Father's day banned. I highly doubt if on the titanic, feminists would have been like "WHAT THE FUCK! women and children only?! that's utterly sexist! I demand to be left behind in the freezing cold water to die as you let more men into the lifeboats! it should be totally even; 50% men, 50% women!".

[@frednil8304]

@@PaladinGear15 50%/50% That's equality, absolutely nothing to do with Feminism.

[@tomnorton4277]

It's because feminazis, SJWs and NPCs lives are meaningless so they try to find meaning by creating problems that don't exist.

[@PaladinGear15]

@@frednil8304 that was my entire point

[@frednil8304]

@@PaladinGear15 ...and I was agreeing. ...feminism has nothing to do with equality.

[@guille040690]

"thanks Mom, now a know that if a girl stabs me I shouldn't report it because is not assault, and if I do I will be arrested, so I should die not saying anything"

[@ri682]

Thanks Mom now I know if I do get raped, even as a child, I shouldn't say anything or else I will forced to pay child support if she got pregnant

[@tpmiranda]

That shit actually happened in Portugal...

[@axelhedensio2948]

"Thanks mom, now I know that as a woman, I should always see myself as the victim and as a defenceless little girl, while men are strong and fearsome." The whole thing of victimizing women and punishing men is not only hurting men, but also, contradictory to what many think, hurting women as well. This whole thing is just scuffed as hell.

[@cloud77hot40]

Reminds me of a comedy bit from Christopher Titus where he was running away from his girlfriend trying to stab him. Then at the end she convinced him that it was his fault that he got stabbed since he was not able to unlock the door.

[@justarandomsasquatch1480]

and now apparently - not - having sex with a woman because you aren't attracted to her..is somehow 'fat/trans phobic rape'

[@Mysticus11]

Agree. Genderising violence is delinquent. Women abuse women too, but clearly we’re miles away from true understanding 😱

[@ectokidplayz9184]

Hold on a minut, if men re going to report the violence from women to anywhere then they will be mocked till the end.

[@hyprspd]

The first thing I thought when I learnt about men and women having equal rights I thought Then why is it not okay for a boy to hit a girl but it is for a girl to hit a boy It shouldn't be okay to hit anyone

[@cordalienevanmarrum6534]

Speedeo 2020 v or should it be ok to hit everyone?

[@ruru_nii4800]

Speedeo 2020 only if mortal kombat was real..

[@archivist_13]

I actually got into an argument with one girl on the bus. Long story short she kicked me alot and then again and again, after that I lost my cool and I kicked her a couple of times she begins crying and moves to a different seat. We both had to write an email to the princeple explaining what happened then he would send it to the other family. And you want to know what she wrote? In her version I was the one that kicked first and she never kicked back. Luckly, we were able to clear up what actually happened. And the only punishments I got were a few extra chores and a couple of letures and stories. Im not sure if she got punished, but anyway thanks for reading!

[@rile06]

During my last year at uni, one of my flatmates was an ultra feminist who loved arguing. She would often ask me things, just to start a sort of debate. Anyway, once she asked me ''Who do you think should be dominant in a relationship?" I said I didn't know, because it's not something you think about. Then she was, "At least if the woman is dominant, she won't beat the guy." Also, she would occasionally tell me how, despite being small, she could fight me and most likely beat me as well. Anyway, feminists these days behave like crazy lunatics.

[@tteoke]

rile06 tbh, I think they’re takin notes from the suffragettes (not to be confused with suffragists)

[@miloshihadroka018]

seems to be white women are getting worse

[@kevg1617]

rile06 ?!?!?!? neither, no thought necessary for that answer....

[@kevg1617]

rile06 she actually demonstrated one of the fundamental problems in many unhealthy relationships: a lack of reciprocity. it's akin to 2 people buying 2 oranges and then looking at each other and saying: which one of us gets them both, and which one of us starves?

[@rebelangel8227]

Very crazy indeed.. and such questions dont take into account the very aggressive females.. much of whom arent even femanists.. my dad was a vietnam vet and my mom an angry mexican women who came from a blood line of viscous women her great grandmother was an executioner from the mexican revolution.. and she was just as spicey.. i watched her many times punch my dad in the face and my dad had to physically protect himself.. and i and my brother wasn't exempted from her wrath until one day i pinned her against the wall and said if she ever laid a hand on my little brother again id kill her and vigilantly go to prison for it.. she never touched my brother again but our fights were wars afterwards till she was facing her mortality and came to me not like a mother but a frighten little girl afraid to die and apologized and asked for forgiveness for our years of fighting.. I said i forgive her but its her job to put her hate to rest...my mom was a scary and yet loving women at times.. and the parodox educated me with tools a lot of men dont have these days..

[@familyguyshorts42069]

3:40 Sydney in 2018 "everyone has an agenda in 2018" You have no idea how bad its going to get.

[@masterfourteen]

people like you are rare to this world. thank you for this video.

[@blaker9152]

almost 15 years ago I had a neighbour that was always getting abused by his wife. She was bigger than him and used to abuse, belittle & physical assault him on a daily basis (even in front of their children) I know for a fact that he did not hit her back EVER because society dictates that it's wrong for a man to hit a woman, regardless of the situation. One day I heard her screaming abuse at him ( more so than usual) you could hear her clear as day threatening to slit his throat while he was sleeping & another terrible things. ( all in front of their kids mind you) later that afternoon I saw him in the backyard and invited him over for a beer and a chat. Ask him what was going on & eventually (though reluctantly) he told me what had been happening and that it was at the Point that he actually was starting to fear for his life. I told him I can't keep going on like this and tried to convince him to report her. When he went home he copped more abuse for having a couple of drinks with me. Later that evening he came over again almost in tears. i said enough was enough & i drive him to the local police station where he told them what had been happening. Well, the police just laughed and made fun of him for getting beaten up by his wife & Basically laughed him out of the station. (NO REPORT WAS FILED) I offered for him to stay at my place but he said no and went home. That night he HUNG HIMSELF. I told the police AGAIN what was happening prior to his death. There was an investigation into his death & even with 10+ character witnesses against her- no charges were laid. I even went to court as a witness against the two negligent police officers that refused to file a report & laughed him out of the station. But it was their word against mine. ( you can guess who won that) And even though she knew it was because of her, she still played the victim & got sympathy from everybody. He was such a good/kind man and a great father. There was a great Injustice to him on so many levels. I feel partly responsible for what happened to him myself. That's why I want to tell his story, so he didn't die in vane

[@WERNUTZ]

This attitude is why "Suddenly" A good family man with no history of violence our mental issues decides to kill off his family and himself. Wife abuses cheats and knows how to manipulate laws bias, while presenting herself as dutiful fully innocent wife-mother. Dude has enough and can't live with tge abuse or without his children so he decides to off the whole family including himself.

[@drsiigabb9935]

I would have gone back and shot the police with a pink gun

[@Azaelris]

@@whowhat7135 i am pretty sure india doesnt believe in islam idk

[@itssugarfree]

I had a neighbour who's wife and kid suddenly disappeared. He even helped "look" for them. My dad was asking him one day if he had any news - where was his wife? And he just said he didn't know. He hung himself the next day and his wife and kid were found in barrels in the bush somewhere. This is sadly not that uncommon a story.

[@deusvult5738]

well that is messed up. you need to tell more people about this. this shouldn't be just a youtube comment. this should be a headline. to think the police made him hang himself by laughing at him for getting abused.... I can't believe it... and no charges were laid.... what is this?

[@jet4557]

As a female who read most comments abouy women abusing men, I'm terribly sorry. I know that many of people get abused, but for real, the women who give reasons like "He cheated on me!" "He deserves it!", right after giving men physical and emotional pain? It's really unacceptable, but I don't pretend to understand or know most of men's problems. What matters is the truth, if you did nothing wrong then you did nothing wrong! Be prepared for most things, know that there are people who... Are not that kind and special, both men and women can be suspects and victims, one thing I hate about women abusing men is, women are more cared about than men these days, I'm completely upset that there is no true equality in these situations. Utterly. Disappointed in society at points.

[@keztarnlad1218]

Bridgette De Jesus if they cheated on her they do deserve it. Causing that much emotional pain is as bad or worse than temporary physical pain, it’s like being raped except the complete opposite reaction where they think they aren’t good enough for the rest of their lives.

[@jet4557]

@@keztarnlad1218 Everyone deserves a second chance, remember that. But if he did cheated on her many times, he's taking advantage. She just has to leave the relationship or confront him in a strict but caring way.

[@jet4557]

@Alex Nutman The feminism in our generation became worse I might say, most feminists put themselves above men and think they are bosses. I was like that before but I stopped, disappointed of those kinds of feminists. Equality has that word, equal, meaning, just the same. But it changed into fighting for roles and such. And I am very sorry for your experiences, you don't deserve all of that. You can show emotions and if possible, move out. I'm completely disappointed in your mother for all of that, but don't let anyone put you down. Okay? Many people care about you, even though I'm a stranger in a young age, I care. You matter.

[@solarwave8726]

Im a male 18 yr,and lived an alright life so far, ive had a very supportive mother although my father and step father paid no attention to my life my mother divorced them both for very solid reasons, ive had to deal with strife frequently though but that aside,. There is an big issue about whomever holds the power in a relationship or any foot hold over someone else, and those who are power seeking, most males can dictate how most of life plays out because they've had that position already which is unfortunate, I dont have a problem with a little bit of feminism helping balance those aspects but the extremists (m/f) arent making it any bit easier by victimizing others or taking advantage of anything they can corrupt to feed there desire. We need to cut the shit and give everyone their fair opportunities.

[@qp4904]

Bridgette you may like to explain to rape victims why they are treated as if they caused their own rape. There is no equality of rights and opportunity, which is what Feminism is. And no, I am not a Feminist as I appreciate the difference between genders and find they can be helpful. Being realistic, if there were equal opportunity for both sides to be heard regarding domestic violence, in all likelihood no one would be punished because unless you have it on film, there is no actual proof. Just take the young man who locked his hook-up on the balcony at night after yelling at her..she tried to climb from the balcony to escape and fell to her death. He walked free (because apparently she was drunk too and it was her fault). Just like the young man who was caught after raping a 7 year old recently will probably walk, just as he walked after allegedly raping a 9 year old. It is not even as close to simple as you think. If you paid attention to the video and ridiculously OLD studies and tv footage (decades old in some cases), it said in Victoria 89% of reported rapes are against females. It also said 77% of domestic violence reports had female victims. Yes men are also victims, I had a partner once who was previously assaulted so badly by his girlfriend that she hospitalised him on several occasions. Yet, he refused to hit a woman. The bigger picture, and one we are all failing to open our eyes and see, is that people CHOOSE these people to live with and have relationships with. Some pretend to be nice and then go violent, but the disrespect surfaces a lot sooner than people want to admit. They just ignore it. Their partner starts to make fun of them and call them names. They stay. That's the beginning of the end. We have to acknowledge that people need to be responsible. Sometimes we do end up somewhere we don't want to be, and this is why we should make sure that if our partner is not respecting us, we leave. Simple as that. The respect dies long before any violence starts. We are just all too cowardly and lazy to pack our bags and go. This is not decades back when women were forced to quit their jobs if they got married. Men don't legally own women anymore. People can leave, and they should, no matter which gender is the victim they should get out and be safe.

[@calumzmemez5075]

im going to be honest... this is why im afraid to date.

[@georgecuyler7563]

I know a couple case's where the women were the abusers over and over again and the one time he reacted he gets jail time even though he had reported her abuse and the police basically told him to grow some balls. Justice isn't blind.

[@jn5379]

"Females out here living on recruit difficulty while men out here living on veteran difficulty" Birdman 2018

[@univex4164]

Jacob Negrete Ah, i see you’re a man of culture

[@cloudnigh]

*I'm tired of these females lying*

[@theghostanihalater9391]

A man of culture

[@jn5379]

@@theghostanihalater9391 indeed i am

[@nyeoncolors6949]

Playing “F.N.G” while the rest of us are playing “heart of the Reich” on veteran difficulty.

[@soupsandwich685]

I've seen a man be abused by his spouse, my friend was incredibly sick and got to the point where he didn't even want to move, yet even though he was sick he would clean up after this woman, do her laundry and wash her dishes. And what did he get in return? An argument that got so physical that this woman broke his his hand and smashed his television. Sometimes people are just assholes. PEOPLE, men AND women.

[@jadynmurrell80]

You see some women just want to watch the world burn

[@musicalbininja0356]

We have the same pfp :0 and yes i agree

[@speedstarregeneration2573]

Fuck... thats pretty bad.

[@REEbott86]

Glad to find stuff from Australia most of these feminist debunk channels are from the US.

[@conan850]

Sydney, to know that you experienced any kind of abuse and that you are able to have such a mature, open and earnest view from all sides without vilifying men en masse, just makes me so glad to know I've appreciated your commentary. You are clearly ahead of the curve and more insightful and honest than your peers, to say nothing of any detractors who consider themselves right, right out of the gate.