The Insidious War on Men: The Destruction of Masculinity

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[@titoamadio6858]

Wear a dress if you want, but 1) Don't try to force me to like/be attracted to it and 2) Don't demonise us men who refuse to wear one.

[@adamjenkins7653]

And when all of you are ocama or cross dressers don't complain when we lose the ability to tell the difference.

[@jordanevans7499]

They aren't.... Harry styles chose to wear a dress and people freaked ( including Sydney).

[@Bradley_Lute]

Exactly. When a principal you hold starts to look like a scapegoat or a dunk on your political opponent, you know you've taken a wrong turn somewhere.

[@kacperparzecki7164]

It doesn't even fit my dummy thicc butt!

[@denisionescu5072]

3)not in public or in front of children.

[@paigehc6659]

Personally, I don't care if men wear a dress. But when you're demonizing men who are masculine, that's a problem.

[@rudytheduck4776]

yes

[@sindelscat9336]

I agree

[@vosaemify]

amen!!! I got yelled at by a girl because I SAID she looked super beautiful....I am still perplexed til this day. She insisted that she did not dress this way for compliments. SMFH

[@paigehc6659]

@@vosaemify As a girl, I know she's wrong. If she's dressing a certain way, then yeah, she's doing it for the attention

[@rudytheduck4776]

DJ GLITCH Vosa Em yeah... that’s how some people are, crazy that a compliment is taken as an insult

[@carolyngrey2853]

Men shouldn’t have to act like women and women shouldn’t have to act like men for us to have equality…

[@HANKSANDY69420]

Yeah, its about removing (bad) extremes and tweaking the scales, not swapping one another to the opposite scale

[@christophergillette7167]

Very true. Equal does not mean identical

[@oykuylmaz6105]

Why you try to surpress free people. They can act however they want unless they hurt someone.

[@oykuylmaz6105]

@@christophergillette7167 No equal mean WE ALL FREE! I hope you can understand this one day and express your emotions better.

[@christophergillette7167]

@@oykuylmaz6105 Ok. Let me try to express it better: Equality means that everyone has value, every life is precious, and people are free to make choices and have agency. Equality does NOT mean that all people must actually be the same. Two people can be extremely different, from different backgrounds, and with different beliefs, and yet they can still be *equal* in worth and freedom. An effort to make men more like women and vice versa is horribly at odds with equality. Forcing everyone to be the same means taking *away* freedom.

[@GenXfrom75]

Another point: my husband is a long bearded combat veteran, rides a Harley, and people never fail to make assumptions on his character based on appearance. I make no apologies for wanting a traditionally masculine man. I'm a very feminine woman. We have traditional roles, by choice. He respects me, cherishes me and I, in turn, respect him for all his contributions. There's nothing *toxic* about a man being traditionally masculine.

[@anablackwood6141]

Same here. I love that mine is more traditionally masculine. He once jumped between me and an aggressive dog that was going to bite me. I never forgot it even though it happened years ago. He was terrified but he still did it because he loves me.

[@QManagerin]

in my experience, most "masculine" and maybe "threatening" looking men are really teddy bears inside. IMO it's because they're confident and don't need validation.

[@Furienna]

I grew up with very gender-normative parents, so I know that it can work.

[@p382742937423y4]

Is he a nice Guy?

[@GenXfrom75]

@@p382742937423y4 not always. Not when he needs to get stuff done. He is nice when it's appropriate to be. He doesn't sugar coat. He can be rough around the edges and downright blunt. He's not cruel.

[@UnchartedWalters06]

Masculinity isn't toxic, the lack of understanding what masculinity is, is!

[@danieltakawi9919]

No one said masculinity is toxic. They said there is masculinity, and then there's toxic masculinity. Just like there are cars, and then there are blue cars.

[@SandShark350]

@@danieltakawi9919 wrong, MANY of them claim masculinity, all of it, is toxic and needs to be rejected.

[@jeimisonvaldezmedina8346]

@Eric M if is true what you say about young mens then i agree that’s sad and no one should feel ashamed of how they act but me being someone who doesn’t fit the “correct” definition of masculinity i can agree with you in the “there’s no such a thing as toxic masculinity” but there is such a thing as a toxic way to express masculinity and you can perfectly see it in people like candice owens or other people who like to mock or bully people because they don’t fit their definition of masculinity and if you don’t believe just go to Twitter and see the comments that people are making under candace post related to this ( and sorry for the bad english, it isn’t my first language🤣)

[@jeimisonvaldezmedina8346]

@Eric M thank you, I couldn’t agree more with you ✌️🧏‍♂️

[@danieltakawi9919]

@@SandShark350 Provide evidence. I've been involved with liberals and leftists for a long time and I've never seen anyone say so.

[@TheDraconnian]

When I was 13-14 years old, my mother, who is a social worker, took me to a lecture at her job, which was about domestic violence. She felt that as a man I should attend such a seminar to learn how bad domestic violence is. I was happy to attend because I always considered it a bad thing. The first thing the woman who gave the lecture said was that she was a lesbian. Ok, no one asked her, but ok. The next thing she said was that she wouldn't start teaching as long as I was there. Everyone was shocked, and logically my mother mostly. I was the only man, and the other women rebelled and said it was discrimination, that I was a boy and that I should hear those things. My mother got into a heated argument with her and told her that if there was no room for me there she would not attend either. However this woman who taught said that either I am going or she will not start talking. Not wanting to put my mother in an awkward situation, because it was her job after all, I got up and left. I have never felt so humiliated in my life.

[@alix6xgorg839]

Yeah, humans sometimes cant be taken.

[@donvee2000]

I think u did the right thing for your Mom. I'm sorry you felt humiliated...but that is a perfect example of what they are trying to accomplish. Getting men feeling guilty for absolutely nothing.

[@jinji0205]

in reality or internet, extreme lesbians hate man Than any other groups

[@lucaspanto1442]

That lecturer should be fired

[@charlesmartinjr3971]

@Chandler Burse Yeah, this is odd. We're going to rail against men, demand that they not be abusive, but then kick them out of anti-abuse lectures? That's like demanding that people give up alcoholism, but then kicking all the alcoholics out of AA.

[@christophergillette7167]

Since the first time I heard it, I have always been highly suspicious of the term “Toxic Masculinity.” To me, if a behavior is toxic, then it simply isn’t masculine, but a corruption away from it. Also, thank you for drawing attention to the seething hatred behind how so many men have been mistreated. Any victim of abuse deserves compassion and help. Accusing them of misogyny simply because they felt abused… that is so evil.

[@Furienna]

I will agree that toxic masculinity is a corruption, or it really is a display of an attempt to hide insecurities or other issues. But I don't have anything against the term, since it really explains what it is in my opinion.

[@zlinky1113]

I'm so fed up with women being terrified of me and treating me like there is something wrong with all of us guys. Most strong guys are really vulnerable inside, we are certainly not out to hurt anyone. Our natural instincts are all about protection, providing and kindness. You are actually helping women everywhere by looking after us. I salute you. : )

[@senormarston]

Yeah, I know what you mean; I'm a long hair metalhead with 6'5 height that workout and sometimes I see that women kinda feel scare when I try to talk or even make an eye contact hahaha

[@BansheeKing22]

Thats your natural instincts but thats not universal.

[@susmitabasu1549]

Read more the rapist are out there and its them who do it.

[@Pete_R63]

There's a line I love in one of the Rocky movies where Sylvester Stallone says something to the effect of, "I won't ask you to stop being a woman, don't ask me to stop being a man." Loved that.

[@edgarcastaneda9280]

Rocky 2 isn't it?

[@Pete_R63]

@@edgarcastaneda9280 Could be. I wish I could remember. I think in the first one he had a couple lines I liked- "I wonder if you wouldn't mind marrying me so much" and "I won't leave no hair in the sink". ; )

[@edgarcastaneda9280]

@@Pete_R63 Right after this I looked for the scene and it is Rocky II indeed

[@edgarcastaneda9280]

@@Pete_R63 His lines are so simple yet so memorable

[@Pete_R63]

@@edgarcastaneda9280 Completely agree!!

[@scottclark3761]

"Helping men isn't about helping men" And people wonder why we don't want to ask for help.

[@CaribbeanPirate]

We ask for help, we are called weal, insecure, not man enough.... yeah...like i'm really gonna ask for help to only get ridiculed and in a way have my manhood shamed to the point of breaking down emotionally.

[@sboz86]

@@CaribbeanPirate are these other men doing this to you?

[@CaribbeanPirate]

@@sboz86 No, it's women. The men i know, sure we'll have some banter, but they'd still help me out and not make it too invasive, giving g me that space to be comfortable in myself. with women... ah geez..the comparing begins and you have to work hearing them talk just loud enough for you to hear.

[@CaribbeanPirate]

@Global Man I would say our ability to defend ourselves may be ruined, but that doesn't mean we still can't try to seek help. I'm glad I have a community that was there for me in my time of need, who knows where I'd be if it wasn't for them.

[@CaribbeanPirate]

@Global Man that would be geralizing, let's not follow their pattern, there are a dew good ones out there, but with all things, the loud ones tend to drown them out.

[@silver1021]

Emotional suppression is an extremely toxic trait, whether for men or for women. Emotional control and understanding are positive and necessary disciplines that, again, both men and women should work towards.

[@HighSpeedNoDrag]

Hear Hear!

[@dorothyhill5056]

One of the most significant experiences in my sons education was a male teacher in the second grade. He taught my son so much beyond reading etc, including discipline with respect and kindness, expectations and other masculine traits. I am forever grateful for this teacher as is my son who is today a teacher.

[@tmauntler]

My art and math teachers were walking doormats... My dad wasn't there (new wife, new life), my step dad was a doormat. My mother thought I hated her because i was always angry... In a house with a single mother, 3 sisters and no masculine role models. I joined the army, went to school, deployed a couple times and am now married to a beautiful wife who shares my distaste for everything covered in this video lol

[@theblackknight101]

I suggest keep your wife out of videos like these.. women tend to take these videos as attacks on themselves, because they think with emotions. Very rarely will they logically reason that this is about you, not her. She may not say this to you, but will cause a strain in the relationship in the long run.

[@helcurt2509]

@@theblackknight101 did anyone ask your advice?

[@xLionsxxSmithyx]

@@theblackknight101 you clearly misunderstood the point in the comment.

[@joemaxwell7892]

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[@theblackknight101]

A lot of people seem to have gotten triggered, but you cant run away from the truth guys.. you have to be more sensitive when talking to women (despite what ever is being said about both sexes being equal and what not).. including content you watch with them.. honestly im too lazy to answer to everyone so heres my last response in this comment chain.

[@meghanmary4566]

My cousin is a high school teacher at a school in a low income area, and is also the boys baseball coach. He's the closest thing to a father figure for many of these boys, and I respect the hell out of him for making sure these boys have a strong male role model!

[@stephenc2481]

All kids need a strong male and female role models. to think a father figure is trivial, the kids suffer.

[@donixion4368]

@@stephenc2481 Shhhhh, those are blasphemous words to hard-core feminists.

[@benlotus2703]

@@donixion4368 the "complexity" of a VVoman's mind, generally speaking, is simply being ruled by emotion and lack of stability. Don't sugarcoat an inferior quality

[@dinimueter539]

@@benlotus2703 found the incel.

[@saintofsinners]

@@benlotus2703 Sounds a lot like you're projecting. Bad childhood?

[@himurahaibara1459]

As much as i love Harry Styles voice i don't believe he wears gown or any other woman clothing because he's comfortable in it. I believe it's a brand he built consistently to create a specific unforgetable image to target specific demographic. And it works.

[@al-imranadore1182]

He's like Nikokado Avocado.

[@Creepy_Cuckooclock]

I am late responding to this, but I am so sick (as a woman) of society pushing the message that I need to be more assertive and man-like. I quite like domestic life, and am soon wanting to start a family. I am young, and in the peak time of my life to bring children into the world. Also, it is so toxic to make fun of women who are more "traditional," too. The women who love make-up, high heels, and everything. I only like some jewelry, and light make-up, but still. Women need to stop defining that being a woman in this modern day means having to act more manly. On another note, as a child of a single mother, my mom did the best she could raising me. But, I wish I had had a father; according to studies, children need fathers. Children growing up without them have a higher rate of depression, and mental disorders. Yes, I realize that in the modern day, it is important to have both parents working (especially with the economy the way it is). But, I am fine with living being a stay-at-home mom, because my job would be to raise my beloved children to become good, and responsible members of society. That is a very important duty.

[@johnrborges2363]

As a mature man, I send you a loving strong manly hug, with lots of love and concern. I will pray you meet a man to love you and your child to make you happy as you deserve and desire. Don't lose hope! Peace in Christ. JB 🧑🏻

[@BansheeKing22]

I was raised by a single mother, im fine. If I have issues then oh well I dont care.

[@dae6831]

As a woman, i send you a strong manly hug

[@veroniquecastel9582]

What studies? Please provide links.

[@elisabeth9947]

As a woman, the injustice and idiocy of this behavior towards men infuriates and saddens me. I hate how (some) women do this stuff to them and try to appear strong by fabricating a victimhood for themselves.

[@Springfairy92]

@Global Man Are you okay..?

[@CaribbeanPirate]

That's basically this in a nutshell; woman calls rape, man is dragged through the mud, even if he's innocent. Man said he's raped, they asked him why complain for the freebie. The way how different acts are treated alone shows how bad the scale is tipped.

[@timallen643]

Elisabeth: As a mature real man unlike some of these people here, I'm proud of you stating what's on your mind despite the fact that other women won't share your opinion. I see that some people on here are viewing your opinion with skepticism. I guess they can't believe people with real life opinions are actually telling the truth. Because continuing down these diverging paths leads to a broken Society. It appears that the some of the younger crowd of women believe that you can sleep with an endless count of men and expected to remain valuable in a man's eyes. What this Behavior leads to his lack of self-control, which in turn promotes the lack of trust on our part , which also means she has a stronger chance of cheating to get her next fix so to speak and the same goes for men also. After all Beauty and value are in the eye of the beholder.

[@timallen643]

@A. M. I believe most are immature ill informed broken young boys who are mad at some women's behavior. They have no real life ambitions just video games & non-real human interactions.

[@timallen643]

@A. M. & Elisabeth just view us as carrying torches that are lighting up the dark & know that we will never drop. Do not go gently into the night.

[@Goregreet]

I will always be a manly man And i will always be proud of it

[@Deejaay83urj38]

As you should be. But effeminate men are still "all god's children". Or if no god . .equal citizens with right, whether unattractive to some, or not. Good and bad in every group

[@pamelasindisiwemutasa9320]

OK manly man as a 16 year old guy I have a question. It's OK for a guy to cry right?

[@Beregond1861]

Same

[@Beregond1861]

@@pamelasindisiwemutasa9320 Yes, but emotion it complicated. For example, if everyome always acted willingly upon every single emotion, evil acts would be unbelievably common. So while some emotions should be ignored at certain times, *yes* it is perfectly okay to cry regardless of your gender. I've honestly and openly done so multiple times while watching the Lord of the Rings.👍❤

[@Goregreet]

@@pamelasindisiwemutasa9320 even though i personally can't cry i have to say To cry doesn't mean to be a man or not It means to be human So yes it is okay

[@amandasamson4513]

I Love my husband because he makes me feel safe, he is my protector and my best friend. I love being the housekeeper and looking after the children, I love that he want to take care of us and be the provider. we each have our roles within our household and it suites us so well

[@starrymoonlight]

Even if there was only one gender, one sexuality, one religion, one country and one race, humans would find other excuses to be at war w each other.

[@OliveDoctor]

No person in this world will make me deny my masculinity and my role in my family.

[@marchedgie6838]

Same here brother.

[@aswd90]

Preach!

[@ravenclawthestral3964]

Oh dear god do you call yourself an alpha male?

[@OliveDoctor]

@@ravenclawthestral3964 nope, just male

[@blossom6265]

@@OliveDoctor iconic response

[@joshuastokes3142]

I am a single male and dating is a nightmare. Something as simple as holding a door for a date is grounds for an argument on "toxic stereotypes". I have begun getting more thrilled about spending time with my dog than going on dates. I know good women with common sense are out there, but the search is getting more scarce.

[@balazszsigmond826]

Consider this: by being who you are and who you want to be, and by hearing these women complain about this, you are not spending months in meaningless relationships, while these women show their teeth. Now is the time, when they feel they are supported by society, and now they don't hide their venom. "Toxic masculinity, you say? Oh, glad we are on the same page here. I'll go home now."

[@lewisaino]

In my case I don't talk to girls in a sudden since I don't to be accused of Sexual Harassment.

[@lucascampestrini467]

Did this acctualy happened? I realy doubt it

[@meiko431]

@@lucascampestrini467 it happened to me with a guy , he was like what do you want, stop invading my space there are free benches elsewere aaand i left 😂😂😂😂😂😂.

[@gustaf3811]

Steve Rogers is a perfect example, he isn't strong and tall with a beard. He was selected to become a super soldier because he was a good man, he was brave enough to be humble and humble enough to be kind.

[@retrold8]

I really agree with the education part. At 16 I was a bit "out of control", more like not being myself and was very lazy. If it wasn't for a very good male teacher of mine (maths teacher), I don't know if my life would have been the same. He told me he was proud of my previous academic achievements, but had fallen extremely behind lately. He then asked me if everything was alright and if I needed help (he also "challenged" to do better the next semester and he would give me a better overall grade). As a "man", I did not really give him much feedback, but his desire to help and just him approaching me was a very important milestone in my life. I had countless female teachers, but none of them took their time with me. tldr: a man needs male (and masculine) role models.

[@Evija3000]

There are good female teachers that care about boys. My uncle was about to be sent to a correctional facility, but his teacher visited his parents and talked them out of it and the young thief and problem child became a pastor later on thanks to her standing up for him and defending his future. But overall I agree, would be great if there were more male teachers, we need a better balance.

[@hannacamacho]

My husband fixed the washing machine and the pipes not because he was too proud to call a professional but because he wanted to prove himself he can take care of our family. And that is why I love him so much!! When he fixed everything I never felt more attracted to him. Masculine men are sexy. Period.

[@johnrborges2363]

You are so blessed. I do the same in our home. Peace. 🧑🏻

[@BansheeKing22]

Thats weird.

[@susmitabasu1549]

Its not exactly too masculine definitely not feminine but mixed.

[@ScienceDiscoverer]

You need brains, not muscles to fix the machine/pipes. Brains are not related to masculinity.

[@umbrasyl]

What are you gonna do when your husband leaves you when you can't even fix your own washing machine 😂😂😂

[@charlesminton7021]

Boys are falling behind. I tell my son to never be ashamed of his talents, intelligence and accomplishments. All too often he comes home and says he got the best grade on a test or something, but is admonished by the teacher when he feels excited in class by his performance. The dismantling of competition based on skill, intelligence or some other measure, robs boys of a sense of accomplishment.

[@ameilioracryptos5298]

I'm a girl but I enjoy competition as well

[@CreativeCreatorCreates]

I took my kids out of school. I have three boys. They really thrived once they were out. I gave them the choice of staying in or homeschooling and they all chose to learn from home. They are respectful, kind, helpful and they love volunteering in our community. I wish I could have done this, because school was terrible. Then again, back when I was in school starting from the early 80s, we could also be physically punished in school, so I’m sure that acted as a deterrent. Now it’s mental abuse they are dolling out.

[@calvinjohnstone2664]

Everyone gets a participation trophy. There are no winners because that makes those who lost feel bad😕🤔 bullshit.

[@jazzman1626]

Eh? Your son got told off for being pleased with his accomplishments? I would have had more than a few words with that misandrous, psychological abuser of a teacher for that.

[@josephdillard9907]

That's this notion of "equity" that they are pushing so hard. It doesn't allow for success, it doesn't allow for people to thrive, to shine, to excel, it doesn't allow for greatness, it only allows for one thing: everybody being pushed down to the "equal" level of the lowest common denominator. Meaning all people will ultimately be forced down to illiteracy and abject poverty and serfdom. It's a process that has already long since began, and is progressing more and more every day. It may take a little while for us to get down to that rock bottom level, but we are on our way and accelerating toward it constantly, and we will get there soon enough if nothing is done to change it or to stop it.

[@tonycleek4981]

Your words reminds me of that meme that says, “Hard times create strong men. Strong men create good times. Good times create weak men. Weak men create hard times.” One of the many issues is that we don’t allow men to have their own space. We don’t let them be creative in they way that men have been in the past. As you commented, strong male role models are needed for future men to succeed.A family man can teach boys how to treat women. I was luckily to have both of my grandfathers around me when I was growing up. They taught me several life lessons that have benefited me to this day. It seems most young men could benefit spending time with the older generation.

[@2OldGeeksTalking]

Well said.

[@mmcc5070]

Yes men need their own space!

[@tonycleek4981]

@Nic Name 10 spaces that are exclusively for men.

[@tophercIaus]

That's not just a meme, it is from a novel by G. Michael Hopf.

[@davidcox9371]

@@tonycleek4981 How about a urinal...?

[@susanfisher2581]

Masculinity is not toxic. I have strong supportive and masculine men in my life. These are men who support me, their family and take the role of being a protector seriously.

[@Evija3000]

Well for the most part toxic masculinity isn't meant to be any masculinity, but a specific corrupted type of it. Like when some men are needlessly aggressive or putting down women. Although there are some idiots who will equate the two.

[@stivothemenace559]

You successfully put my thoughts into words. I'm sick of seeing this awful behavior from these delusional women. Thanks for making this.

[@Mykool-1]

I think we've all been brainwashed by the media to divide us, men and women. It is political control through fear and division. The value of the Sheconomy should not be underestimated either.

[@mrfenris4416]

The closest I'll come to wearing a dress is my kilt, goes well with my combat boots and my sword.

[@memesfromdeepspace1075]

And Shield don't forget Shield as for me i take double trowing Axe or one in kratos have

[@mrfenris4416]

@@memesfromdeepspace1075 I don't own a shield yet but I am looking at getting a buckler.

[@weswolever7477]

Q: What’s the difference between a kilt and a skirt ? A: if you’re wearing underwear, it’s a skirt

[@overlordwarlordtheomnilord9473]

I hope the world in the hopefully near future can look back at these times and wonder how certain humans can be so stupid. Them trying to bring men up is actually putting them down completely to the point where the word man could be looked at with disgust. If we got rid of women hood completely I wondered how they would react(I’d put my money on the same way)

[@KeizerSosebee]

The closest thing i have to a dress is my robe....over my perfect titanium alloy full body armor. Doom out

[@turdferguson9356]

woman: spends last 6 years gaslighting men about the nature of masculinity also woman: confused why she can't find a good man

[@rexfrog]

She can always adopt 100 cats and live happily ever after.

[@CapnTytePantz]

Fact! 🤦‍♂️

[@RedRoseSeptember22]

Feminism in a nutshell lol.

[@sonycans]

While I am trying to see your meaning to your response @@CapnTytePantz however there are plenty of media produced articles where women are unable to find good men.

[@smartgoku9048]

@@sonycans probably because the good men don't want them. would you want someone who can't bond with you and is most likely a gold digger. i know i don't.

[@08krishni67]

Thank you Sydney, as a white heterosexual male I have been dodging bullets for decades, and your words help to deflect them.

[@Mykool-1]

Thanks Sydney well spotted and presented. The unfortunate result is that men are walking away from women.

[@michaelsantangelo6192]

I pointed out the high suicide rate in men to my feminist sister who is a therapist. Her response? "Men kill women. Men kill men. Men kill themselves." Wow, such compassion and empathy from a therapist.

[@anthonygonzales207]

"Do you want to go throw rocks at Construction Workers while they lift heavy things? We're fighting the Patriarchy today." I was weak. 😂😂😂😂

[@colinklang]

Also pink hair Sydney: we need to do something about the housing and infrastructure. Fight for $15

[@acedelta12]

"CAN'T YOU TWO SEE I AM MOURNING?!"

[@seminolekilla]

Sexually assaulted men in prison feel they were made “to feel like a woman” - women most affected.

[@Skeleton-bs7zy]

It because when there degraded the say they feel like women, hence the feel women are beneath them, also have to do with fem doesn’t mean it effects women the most giving them better ideas of gender roles would make dealing with that stuff easier Also which side is tying to solve prison problems, is the right trying for prison reforms or help men talk about abuse?

[@KipdoesStuff]

@@Skeleton-bs7zy The left isn't trying to solve anything except happiness. No one deserves to be happy in their view.

[@Skeleton-bs7zy]

@@KipdoesStuff pal where are you getting that

[@Skeleton-bs7zy]

@@KipdoesStuff there are large movements for prison reform

[@JackHaveman52]

@@Skeleton-bs7zy It's because making them feel like a woman is making them feel like someone that's not them. They're men. They want to be men, not because they feel better than women but because being who they are makes them feel better about themselves. Try to change who they are and they feel alienated from themselves. That's what they're talking about. It would be like forcing you to become a Christian or Muslim or atheist if that's not who you are. The pressure will cause a great deal of stress and unhappiness.

[@katiepg6168]

As a mom of 2 boys & 1 girl, this makes me so sick. I hate that today it’s seen as such a bad thing to be masculine! It’s really hard for me as a mom to teach them how to be a real man. Boys are pushed to be much more feminine & if you don’t agree with it your a biggot. My ex husband was brought up by hard core liberals, so he believes everyone is equal. He doesn’t understand the man’s role as a husband, father, & provider. It’s so sad and makes my life so much harder because I am a woman & don’t know how to properly teach them to be real men! I wasn’t meant to be around in 2022, I wish I was a mom in the 50s.

[@CheesyLittleMouse]

Movies can help. Male role models are well shown in Batman, Braveheart, Gladiator, The Lord of the Rings for example. There are also some books like Meditations from Marcus Aurelius and Letters from a Stoic by Seneca

[@SK-tk6bi]

I feel sorry for your boys. Hopefully they can find their own path to becoming confident individuals.

[@Furienna]

Define "a real man", and be glad that your sons at least have a father around.

[@umbrasyl]

Your husband doesn't undersatnd a "man's role" because he believes everyone is equal? You need let go of social constructs honey, you sound mentally ill and your sons seem better off with their father.

[@fairygodmother139]

Ummm why marry him then? Also you’d be getting punched in the face for not having cooked dinner in time back in the 50s be grateful…tf is wrong with ppl man.

[@davidstevens4392]

As long as there women like you there will always be "real men" around. Thanks for doing what you do

[@imopman]

“And if you think tough men are dangerous, wait until you see what weak men are capable of.” : Jordan Peterson

[@crazylizze98]

Masculine does not equal strong. Feminine does not equal weak

[@FelixVDW]

@@crazylizze98 Morally, not physically

[@crazylizze98]

@@FelixVDW define "morally"

[@imopman]

@@crazylizze98 Gandhi was masculine , he had courage and moral fiber , masculinity is (not) - ( edited , I forgot the not in this sentence ) exactly how physically strong you are ( although being a physical wreck will not be helpful ( imagine Gandhi as obese ? )) but requires strength of character. Young Gandhi had a normal masculine upbringing , he roughhoused as a child , got into fights , smoked , ate meats and even went to a brothel with friends , bring him up with the indoctrination currently being pushed onto boys in schools forbidding even the game of tag as too aggressive and he would not have had that strength.

[@imopman]

@@crazylizze98 True , but for men and especially boys there needs to be a physical challenge to their lives , boys will wrestle AGAINST each other and race AGAINST each other unless you actively prevent it. There is an larger aspect of physical strength and ability for boys that is needed for them grow into a healthy and happy adult.

[@Blakmage3]

If toxic masculinity was a thing, then the children raised with Dads around would be turning out worse than kids raised without one. That’s not what’s happening though, is it. 🤨

[@natsumiyumiko9644]

Imagine boys arent only influenced by dadas but also tv, peers and teachers

[@Blakmage3]

@@natsumiyumiko9644 TV influence is very indirect. Peers are too busy being uninfluenced by their own absent Dads. The vast majority of primary school teachers are female. Children need real, live stable men in their lives.

[@bastardhyena7882]

The saddest thing about this comment is that fathers never win custody of children when abuse is inflicted by the mother. And so they were raised without one, no father figure destroys our children.

[@j.danaclark89]

And let's not forget, it's more common to see a mother abuse a kid than a dad.

[@madzz5925]

@@Blakmage3 Reminds me of my childhood where I lack male affection. Seeing other kids having father that treats them well made my younger self jealous

[@darrensucksatgames]

As someone who was regularly called the real F word in high school, I today would be considered overly masculine and that quite bluntly is INSANE!

[@belh4wk]

you're a breath of fresh air in terms of what and how you cover certain topics. when you covered the way people feel when wearing certain attire; i immediately went "yes, this", as much as nice clothes can affect a woman to feel powerful or sexy, in the same sense, a certain outfit can make a guy feel a certain way too. when i first put on my uniform back when i joined the belgian army, it immediately gave me a certain sense of not just belonging, but i knew it also made me look a certain way and it was quite a special feeling (even though a uniform is inherently meant to not make you feel special about yourself compared to others who also wear it).

[@gopipo123]

On single-parent households: yeah well, of course. By blurring gender roles, you start pitting men and women against each other in every aspect of life, instead of forming powerful couples that cooperate and complete each other. Do not let your role be defined by screaming turd-wave feminists, no matter your gender.

[@MFMP007]

The real toxicity comes from the media.

[@seandillon1359]

My first GF and her roommate were raving about Harry styles picture. I then said “would you say that if i took that pic or is it just because it’s Harry styles” and they both admitted it’s just because of who wore the dress

[@TwistyTrav]

In my experience as a man, the single most defining aspect of masculinity is the ability to say "no" when necessary. Having an openly strong opinion with principles that you always consistently stick to is the epitome of manliness. It's the building block of a safe, strong foundation that family grows upon. Its the primary factor that acts as a mechanism of protection and trust because of the expectations of the role model father figure.

[@TwistyTrav]

@@HeckenschutzeMoHTrue, but you can't really be competitive if you don't stick to your principles and form a strong opinion. This is what makes masculinity at odds with femininity because it promotes compassion instead.

[@ahmadsyed9714]

Nobody: Society wants men to show their feelings Also Society: Men dont have feelings

[@southwestoklahomaairsoftcl9889]

I have feelings I feel recoil from my rifle.

[@ahmadsyed9714]

@@southwestoklahomaairsoftcl9889 LOOOOOL THE AK GO BRRRRRRR

[@ket451]

I only have 2-4 (publicly shown.) feelings as a male. -Happy (to a degree) -Completely Normal (straight faced, no smile no frown.) -Angry (depending on situation) -Man (oo oo ah ah.)

[@akashverma4280]

No, the moment you show your feelings someone is gonna use it* against you. Like a fking leverage.

[@chrisgould101]

I have quite dynamic emotions but am also a pretty tough boi . No one usually messed with me. Though lately I have closed off my overt emotions , due to a traumatic experience. Who even knows. Well aware of the narrative and agenda though, I did 8 years in family court as a man. 4 dismissed refusals to attend "anger management" a whole host of leftist court appointed females out for blood, a natural refusal to comply undeserved punishment, even an outright refusal with jai time threatened if I wouldn't comply with the phony order. And guess what. Nothing happened. Nothing. It empty threats and is turning men from women and our children. They cannot stand a strong, uncompromising, incorruptible male father role model. I wonder what my daughter will think of all this not just family courts but how she's been alienated from me her loving father and being exposed to this disgusting agenda.

[@Moayad56]

"I just want you to cut me down a tree and build me a house" -Sydney watson

[@thagiraffe2010]

If you actually did this, most girls would just complain about the house you built.

[@skytronixgaming8724]

As if 1 tree could build a house

[@CapnTytePantz]

On it, ma'am. You want a two or three bedroom house? Also, there will probably be some leftover lumber, after we're done clearing this plot. You want a shed and a wraparound porch to go with? Sorry, someone like Sydney asks me to build her a house, I do it. 😅

[@RedRoseSeptember22]

@@CapnTytePantz A real man right here ;)

[@RedRoseSeptember22]

@@skytronixgaming8724 As if you understand sarcasm.

[@GenXfrom75]

This one hits close to home. My husband and I are a married couple raising boys. We've been together 19 years, married almost 18 years. He even adopted my firstborn son when he was 10 years old (his biological father died when our son was 5 months old). We are raising GENTLEMEN, regardless of how society is trying to absolutely demolish chivalry. How society says men are trash, unneeded, and disposable... I pray there are parents out there raising daughters who will one day be SEEKING a partner who also has traditional values. It feels overwhelming most days but it's my genuine hope that our sons witnessing their married, in love, respectful, and faithful parents will show them the right path when they are old enough to start wanting a family of their own.

[@maeevans4631]

I love your videos and how you break things down. You truly do your research and explain things very intelligently. I am a proud mother and wife of a strong man. Knowing your place as a wife and mother is not degrading, it is empowering for you and your husband. We both have our roles, strengths, and talents. I couldn't do what I do if he didn't do what he does and visa versa. I love my strong masculine man!

[@zerosin4100]

In my school days all my teachers where female and they'd ignore all male students struggling but rushed to help a girl

[@sillygostly]

Zero Sin : I went to a partially sex-segregated private school, and the girls had the best building/facilities/opportunities. Meanwhile, us guys were confined to shitty demountables and were treated like a pack of oafs that will never amount to anything. I was a one-man anti-sexism campaign for a time, but I had no support.

[@Englishsea24]

Probably because they have no clue how boys learn, which is totally different to girls

[@ameilioracryptos5298]

@@Englishsea24 they don't have good attention span and prefer hands on learning but all they get is long pages and pages of theories to memorize

[@tyrellthiel2201]

Every school counselor I ever had to deal with.

[@Endoptic]

Research says the same. The only boys good enough are hyperfeminine who are more likely to be teacher's pet for overcoming the evil of their unfortunate masculinity. The rest of us are just defective females. www.bbc.com/news/education-31751672 www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0272775718307714

[@joshualowe618]

Strong men aren't being destroyed, they're just walking away. There will come a time when society will wonder, "Where have all the good men gone?", and nothing but silence will meet them.

[@dannym3613]

I feel that time might be coming soon, or has probably started. My older friends and family, who are single, are asking that very question when relationships come up. I just smile and say maybe they will show up some day.

[@wastelandlegocheem]

It's already jappening. But instead of silence, we meet those people with not a response, but quoting the same people basically scaring away said good men.

[@ilincagagafan]

@Sesshomaru Uzumaki this is the only rational comment in this entire comment section

[@kube410]

@Sesshomaru Uzumaki True. Think about landsknechts :P

[@justabraziliandragonborn3642]

"And were are all the gods..."

[@bendavisson1264]

My ex who I have two kids with flat out told me that she doesn't believe that fathers have a unique and irreplaceable role in children's lives.

[@alexanderbrown5707]

Western culture divides feminine and masculine into two separate bodies, Eastern culture understands that each of us are both masculine and feminine, the balance isn’t in two separate beings aligning, it’s in ourselves. Many of us are realizing this and breaking free from the western concept, and men are embracing their long-suppressed feminine energy, women are also doing the same with their inherent masculine energy. We all share both. Balance is something personal that you can only achieve by yourself. No other person can bring that balance into your life but you.

[@blumenthal7528]

Its ironic when you said that because eastern cultures are even more patriarchal than the west till this day. And no, strict divides between man and woman in two separated bodies are not originated from western culture, it was from the middle eastern culture, long before 'western' culture even exist.

[@sillisalli8207]

There’s toxic masculinity and there’s also toxic femininity, doesn’t mean all masculinity and all femininity is toxic though.

[@dyingwaffle95]

What would you define as toxic femininity?

[@sillisalli8207]

@@dyingwaffle95 radical feminism for example

[@Vortex20000]

@@dyingwaffle95 Amber Heard...

[@iconikevans327]

@Akshay 004 or simply just individuals carrying out shitty actions

[@christopherblondell4340]

@Akshay 004 I agree. No part of femininity or masculinity is toxic. They are at the least, neutral or benign and at the most, essential.

[@michaelsmith1481]

This surf shark is the best lmao “I think he’s stalking someone else”

[@tammylaronde8593]

😂😂. That was so funny.

[@ThinWhiteAxe]

It was fabulous 😁

[@superchicken6b610]

Lol, I think she has a secret little crush on a certain person. This is how my daughter talks about someone she hasn't told me about yet😁

[@Neal7891]

I got a chuckle out of it.

[@clintonlindeburg5482]

I switch between wearing traditional male and female clothing, depending on my mood. I went through a period where I flirted with the idea of transitioning, male to female, and spent years on hormones. I stopped short of surgery, but discovered that breasts don't go away when the hormones stop. Oops. Now I'm in limbo. Like everything else in life, it has both drawbacks and advantages. It has made me appreciate what women have to go through. Dressing as a male, I can be ready to leave the house in a couple of minutes. Dressing as a woman takes at least an hour and the amount of accessories i have to wear and carry with me are truly daunting. One day I'm chopping firewood, the next my getting facial and having my nails done. I have one foot planted in each world, but don't i think i would feel totally comfortable embracing either one. I feel sufficiently balanced and i am happy where I am. My attitude wouldn't meet with the approval of the LGBTQIA + community, because I'm a little of each but refuse to identify with any of their classificatios. I would never expect or demand that anyone accept me as anything other than what I am..... an off beat but happy male. I live in my on world but I'm not crazy enough to think that wearing a dress and having breasts makes me a biological woman. Gender is assigned welll before birth and no matter how much i play with my hormones, my chrromosones remain the same. No amount of wishng or pretending can change that basic, biological fact. I had to talk to shrinks as part of the tranitioning process and they agreed that I'm sane and had the right to change my mind. But, for the country as a whole, I'm not sure it is sane anymore. Most people were nice and condescendingly called men dressing as women, women. Now these charmingly delusional transexuals are insisting that they are real women and will try to destroy the few sane people that refuse to play their little word games. Language is in freefall. I'm starting to feel like I may be the sanest one here, because I still have the ability to look at a tomato, know it is a tomato, can call it a tomato, feel confident that it was a tomato yesterday and have equal confidence that it will still be a tomato tomorrow. Slicing and dicing, changing its appearance and adding other ingredients does mean that it ceases to be a tomato. The last words spoken in Bridge Over the River Kwai express my feelings about the direction our society is taking... Madness! ... Madness!

[@ImogenShade]

Tomato’s! Thanks for sharing & being true to yourself!☺️

[@7shinta7]

See? This is how it's done! I'm totally happy for you that you can live your life however you want. And I'm also grateful that you accept basic biological facts and don't force other people to change their behaviour/speech/reception of things in any way (and against better jusdgement). This would be the ideal way for everyone. 😌👍

[@THE_CDN]

Imagine how young boys are made to feel. Btw, I'm a traditional masculine man and have been punished (changing work duties and locations, being overly critical, out-right lying etc.) for being masculine by female managers. It's exhausting.

[@GeorgeWMays]

"Manly Men" will not argue with anyone about this nonsense. They'll likely smile, wag their head and walk away.

[@Human_2.0]

When we snap it will be ugly!

[@tommymacander32]

Amen. Who gives a crap?

[@bettermanchannel770]

Truth needs no defense

[@Human_2.0]

@@deepakpatnaik8457 I don't do "stiff upper lip" I don't even count to three. That ship sailed years ago!

[@xcyted4now]

Oh I've seen feminist say something along the lines of " time to see if I'm having a girl or an abortion!" It sickening!

[@lukecarter4291]

I’ve just discovered your channel. I can’t tell you how much I appreciate women like yourself who speak out against these increasingly flawed cultural norms. Thank you

[@jaquirox6579]

Sydnarnarnarrrr you are absolutely spot on! I’m surprised you didn’t touch on speech and mannerism, as well. I can’t help but be repulsed when I see a married man acting and speaking feminine. There’s something extra sad about the MARRIED man behaving so…. weak.

[@martinmehus1406]

Honestly, this discussion is really simple: stop telling people what to do. Stop telling men to be less masculine. Stop telling men to be more masculine. Let people do whatever they want as long as it doesn’t harm anyone directly. It’s fine that women have preferences. It’s fine for a woman to say that she will not be attracted to a man who wears a dress, but it is not okay for anyone to tell them that they aren’t allowed to. Same thing goes with basically everything else. I’m not attracted to girls with blue hair, but I am not going to tell anyone that they shouldn’t dye their hair blue if that is what they want. Do your thing, as long as it is not harming anyone else. Thanks.

[@gulpgulpgulpgulp5417]

This beautifully written comment here deserves more likes.

[@mariacamilaarredondovargas3577]

@@gulpgulpgulpgulp5417 couldn't agree more

[@cadethumann8605]

Agreed. It irritates me when people dictate how exactly men and women should act. Just be kind, don't dominate over others (at least without their consent), and other basic civilized behavior.

[@cadethumann8605]

@Bernkastel Frederica Dude/Miss, where did I say that I had a problem with men wearing dresses? I even said that I don't like it when people dictate others in how exactly to behave (it irritates me, for instance, when men dictate what is masculine/manly and what is not). A man wearing a dress is of no concern to me.

[@f.ylimee]

True true true

[@xjosephwilliamx9076]

If a bloke wants to wear a dress or make-up, more power to them. When they start bugging other people to do it, then we have an issue.

[@analigiabatres9114]

Well said

[@fleurbee8360]

you have to be an australian for a 'bloke' to wear a dress and make-up.. he he....

[@vibreitor43]

omg yes, like you do you, but make others do you too.

[@saulelcrack8177]

Thisss

[@xjosephwilliamx9076]

@@fleurbee8360 or brit ;)

[@aced4fun]

I’ll never understand what’s wrong with gender “norms.” It’s the *norm,* meaning you aren’t forced to follow along with it. It shouldn’t be encouraged to eliminate the norm in its entirety, but rather to find what is a comfortable way of life for yourself.

[@PrimordialNyx]

What is wrong with gender norms is that it's forcing plenty men and women to act in a different way than the one they feel comfortable. Like: A man will be shamed for wanting to be feminine. A woman will be shamed for wanting to be masculine.

[@Juli6SS]

I would like to live in a world when everyone can do whatever they want if it doesn't hurt anyone.

[@johnrborges2363]

That world is just around the corner, but I will be raptured when it gets that way. Google, "The Rapture" -- I hope you join us.

[@DannyDevitoOffical-TrustMeBro]

That is the dumbest, most asinine take on this. No, there’s no such thing as a society that doesn’t care what its people do, because if it didn’t, it would be total anarchy. There have to be standards. There have to be expectations. They shouldn’t be cruel or unfair, but they have to exist.

[@MarcoMazziniYT]

A man wearing a dress is not a problem. A man wearing a dress and bragging about it is.

[@uhmnope4787]

I am in full agreement with you!

[@TheAvos18]

Only a kilt is acceptable with strong calves and a beard

[@nigsbalchin226]

A kilt is neither a dress nor a skirt, and a real man has no need or desire to brag about wearing a kilt; for bragging comes from insecurity.

[@jasonlee8497]

Oh....they're both problems

[@scottjackson1636]

@@TheAvos18 more places to hide knives :)

[@richardaaron4454]

This is what made Jordan Peterson so popular. Men who have grown up without a father, I believe see Jordan Peterson as a father figure. Which they needed desperately.

[@sg2412]

Hi fellow lobster 🦞

[@VFFP54]

well, it depends on what you mean by "a father".

[@richardaaron4454]

@SkillsDND You think Jordan Peterson would be a bad dad?

[@richardaaron4454]

@@VFFP54 Well I was lucky to have my grandfather who was a Marine in WWII at Guadalcanal who filled in for my absentee father who I never met and I’ve only seen a black & white picture of... my grandfather did everything he could that a father would do to raise a good man. I can’t imagine what my life would’ve been like if he wasn’t around in my formative years.

[@richardaaron4454]

@SkillsDND Well hopefully we can just agree to disagree

[@umacorcolorida6694]

I like so much your videos, because, at some point i hear too much about what i need to make me feel like a "real" man, and sometimes i feel divided by that feeling of insecurity, that i'm no man enough and i'm actually fine and such things happens, but more important it's not about feeling man or woman and yes when you make me feel able to put my feets on earth and make me feel human again, thank you for real

[@Wisdomseeker1028]

Spot on! Thank god people are already realizing this now. Harry Styles wearing a dress is bad because of his fame and how many young men he will affect. We as men need to be protectors, and we need to reject corruption in society.

[@scratchy996]

You think Harry Styles wearing a dress is bad ? I guess you're new to this planet. Male rock stars have been wearing women's clothes, makeup and hair styles for decades. Why are now people getting upset about it ?

[@flyingpaladin2712]

I am a toxic male. Former military, protector of those weaker than myself, provider for my wife and children, and Peacekeeper Capable of violence in a protection of God family and country.

[@KaiisEgo]

“Dang man your pretty evil!” How they expect people like us to respond to that PROPAGANDA

[@_.BlackArmor._]

Respect, sir.

[@jay21597]

I'm surprised they haven't started throwing rocks yet

[@no-stresscat1519]

Thank you for your never ending service.

[@lyletanner744]

As a veteran and a retired LEO I'm behind you on this one my friend.

[@sg2412]

That teacher part legit hit me hard. I was just talking to my mom about my middle school days. My female class teacher at the time used to make me sit with 'intelligent' students and told me it would help me since "they knew more than I did.". I legit carried the belief that this would always be true, that I would never be as good as those students.3 years later my maths teacher came along, and I started to attend his extra classes since I was a weak student. He told the class on my first day there," Beware of him! He has the potential to be the best here.". Those words of encouragement were boon to me. I realised how I was undervaluing myself. I studied hard, he encouraged me. Later on in high school (probably the best years of my life NGL), I carried it on with the same belief, that I was enough to get myself anywhere. Not to brag, but I became the vice-captain of my team, broke the districts record for marks in physics and chemistry. I would like to thank you, Mr. Arora, I wouldn't be in my dream college if you hadn't encouraged me.❤️

[@drscavv2661]

Dammit this is too wholesome

[@The_amazing_dust]

That's awesome! Good for you man! 👍

[@longstrider2734]

Good for you.

[@Deejaay83urj38]

Fantastic

[@paytonwilkerson955]

14:23 As a guy, I 100% agree with that statement. I learned the most from male teachers in school.

[@loka-chan6695]

I feel like as long as you are the one that choose to wear what you want it’s fine. Don’t force anyone to be more feminin or masculine.

[@joeyyy4864]

I am a man and proud

[@ahsidodna3355]

The fact that we need statements like this is pretty sad

[@mirali4467]

It’s fine to be a man.. you just can’t be straight... or white.

[@ahsidodna3355]

@@mirali4467 lol

[@joeyyy4864]

@@ahsidodna3355 yeah a statement like this used to be for the exceptions not the normal male population.

[@joeyyy4864]

@@mirali4467 😂

[@captainconundrum8463]

"She doesn't like that ugly table that ya bought in 2009" Excuse me, it was 2008 and actually my roommate found it lying on the side of the road.

[@drgunnwilliams5185]

The Curb Store! You can always find great things. Put some pretty nice antiques in my home from there!

[@captainconundrum8463]

@@drgunnwilliams5185 This table is real sturdy! You won't find any IKEA junk that can hold a TV for this long without breaking. And yes, the table from the side of the road is right there in the focal point of the living room. I just like money.

[@J8n3eyr3]

@@captainconundrum8463 Slap some white paint on it and call it "rescued" or "distressed." Now you are the hero of the story.

[@rembrandt972ify]

You should have kept that roommate you had in 2008. She was sexy.

[@allyourpie4323]

Was it a spool?

[@peterwill9660]

Thanks Sydney. Great work.

[@moosechuckle]

“Masculinity is a sickness” Don’t worry I’m wearing a mask... hope my beard doesn’t get in the way.

[@michaelt.b264]

Never had a problem with performers rock stars wearing dresses David Bowie Freddie Mercury probably my most favorite performers. Straight white male

[@Primal_Robin]

When you have a full mountain man beard it sucks to wear a mask

[@moosechuckle]

@@Primal_Robin my beard is my mask.

[@rikijenkins6729]

That's sound manly. Manly is bad. Whimpy is good. Ha ha ha

[@statesrights01]

Epic!!

[@thetileguy1492]

I refuse to apologize for being a real man, and you know I am proud of it.

[@lyletanner744]

As a veteran and a retired LEO I'm with you buddy.

[@brown2833]

As a newly recruited soldier I will never apologize for being a manly man

[@ngonyamastudios2542]

Amen,Amen,Amen That's the best thing I've heard .

[@ngonyamastudios2542]

Amen,Amen,Amen That's the best thing I've heard .

[@oksbpodcast7005]

That’s why I chose a male only MOS, with the exception of a few female officers.

[@HunterDog721]

I don’t understand why this is such a difficult concept for many people to grasp. Masculinity isn’t toxic; toxic masculinity is toxic.

[@arib515]

feminized men is toxic masculinity

[@martajoy8462]

I remember watching one of the videos around the topic of 'walking alone for 10 hours in NY'. I'm not from the US. In my country men rarely pick girls up so openly on the streets. I agree that some of the examples could be anoying. But in many of those cases I couldn't see anything abusive - if someone said 'Hello, beautiful' I would respond 'Hello, thank you'. Some of those men said nothing more than a simple "hello" - when has it started being a crime?

[@ForABrighterTomorrow]

I want a masculine man so that I can be feminine and protected. I also want a masculine man, with an ax, walking towards a forest, to build me a cabin, so that I can decorate it and turn it into a home.

[@alaster1403]

Woow Actually that's a pretty cool thought

[@stephenc2481]

You should marry men who stick around, protecting you.

[@RTRTM_]

cool

[@diesertan4181]

I Love this comment cause it's littarly the ultimate Win Win for both sides

[@goldstein10493]

Well, for me, I just wish I can be more masculine, or know how to. All I know is that masculinity is largely genetic and physical.

[@alkebabish]

I'm a man who has quite a lot of feminine qualities. Like I'm drawn towards caring jobs that are mostly done by women, I'm better at talking about emotions than putting up a shelf and so on. And I enjoy being this way. But in recent years I've noticed that any time I express masculine qualities, I get shot down and accused of being egotistical. I've also dated a few women who hated masculinity, yet were attracted by it, so basically the relationships were confusing AF. I've noticed that the more manly of my male friends are having a hard time, made to feel bad about themselves for being who they are. I'm cool with people not being super constricted by their gender roles... but society has already made this possible. What's happening now with the demonisation of masculinity is to me part of a wider pattern of human disempowerment, basically it makes us easier to control.

[@fum4491]

I think that most people forgot what masculinity actually means. It's not agressive Rambo-like violent, or Han Solo opressive flirt - charisma. It's being compassionete, thoughtful, brave (being brave means winning the fight with your fears). Being masculine is also something to be proud of, just like women should be proud of their unique traits (not acting like ,,toxic masculinity" they have commonly issues with, to prove they are ,,not weak"...). That said, man needs to be a bit like a women (for example - caring), and women a bit like man (for example - brave). I don't know it that makes any sense, but I am sure that it's great to have femine qualities, as long as they are positive traits (it's hard to deny, that both of us are born with flaws). We are born men and women, to learn from each other and live in peace, not compete...

[@greasysquid1857]

Human disempowerment.. that's the perfect way to describe this era.

[@MDBowron]

sexism is unfortunately a two-way street, men can be sexist towards women, and women sexist towards men, along with other gender varieties. I also have some feminine traits, like empathy and intellectual strength. The thing is man and woman aren't genders, they're sexes, biologically speaking. genders such as masculine and feminine are cultural, but there are many different cultures. I was wondering if feminism was more of a western trait, as the west seems to focus more on individuality and autonomy, while the east tends more towards communalism and submission to some degree, in a very generalised way of course.

[@MDBowron]

@Charlton Jones yeah I wouldn't recommend doing the bugs bunny technique of kissing other guys like elmer fudd and so on to distract them and get away from being bullied, you tend to more get marked as gay and bullied for now entirely a different reason. I had to learn that lesson at 10 or 11 years of age the hard way.

[@lionelthawne7723]

Not to mention weaker as a whole

[@klynne8410]

My son has had some issues with gender dysphoria he wore dresses for a while but it was because he wanted to never was forced he now does not dress as a girl but he still struggles with his gender he tells me that he was supposed to be born a girl and he was born in the wrong body. It's very hard for me to know what I should do. I'm just going to love my child no matter what. ❤

[@knightu1642]

Seek professional help from a licensed therapist who specializes in gender dysphoria. You don't have to listen to me. But I would only allow your child to do any form of transitioning, if they choose, when they are 18 years of age because they then have the power of choice. Anything before that may lead to future problems with you and more importantly, with themselves.

[@johnrborges2363]

Have him watch good old fashioned James Bond movies, or Charlton Heston movies or even war and adventure film classics from the past. Have a pop-corn party with him and show him some real men. That's what I would do if he were my son. My dad was a photographer and a movie buff. JB 🧑🏻

[@stephaneclerc667]

Lol, that surfshark commercial you did was hilarious.

[@Lordbaccus]

Aristotle said: When your Men & Women are interchangeable, your society is in Decay...

[@peterstrom9618]

From the Gospel of Thomas, found in Nag Hammadi Egypt, one of the gnostic gospels that describes the secret sayings of Jesus. Jesus said to them, “...and when you make male and female into a single one, so that the male will not be male nor the female be female...then you will enter [the kingdom]." Just as a counter argument. From: gnosis.org/naghamm/gosthom.html

[@theredheadwiththread1275]

@@peterstrom9618 I mean, if what you've said is true then you're actually agreeing because it sounds as if Jesus was saying "when men and women become the same the rapture is nigh".

[@joemaxwell7892]

Blessing's; Alert.! For those with eye's too see. "Here is wisdom"! KJV Bible Strong's Concordance ... C- Ovid 19 > C = 3 = Abaddon (satan) Rev 9:11 ... Ovid ... From old Roman Latin = Sheep ... 19 = Slaughter. "Hence, satan, Sheep, Slaughter''! A rtifical Intellegence = A.I. = 19 = Slaughter. The 5G network. 5 G = 57 = Sorrow's Matt 24:8. The Fee Mason G = 7= perish, destruction. Exactly what's going too happen too this world, Our King Christ Lord Jesus Immanu- EL; us coming for His; people. Repent brother's, and sister's. Keep the Ten Commandment's, Especially the Fourth (Remember The Sabbath Day Keep It Holy).. Check out ... www.JonathanKleck.com It's worth a 'Crown'! 2020 = " Deliverance "! Time is short. ''We are going home'' Amen.

[@GeneralProfessor]

@@peterstrom9618 From that link Jesus apparently also said: -"Those who have found themselves, of them the world is not worthy" - "If you do not fast from the world, you will not find the (Father's) kingdom." - "If your leaders say to you, 'Look, the (Father's) kingdom is in the sky,' then the birds of the sky will precede you. If they say to you, 'It is in the sea,' then the fish will precede you. Rather, the (Father's) kingdom is within you and it is outside you. When you know yourselves, then you will be known, and you will understand that you are children of the living Father. But if you do not know yourselves, then you live in poverty, and you are the poverty." And he continually describes the kingdom as something small or hidden or something that needs to be discovered: - "The Father's kingdom is like a merchant who had a supply of merchandise and found a pearl. That merchant was prudent; he sold the merchandise and bought the single pearl for himself. So also with you, seek his treasure that is unfailing, that is enduring, where no moth comes to eat and no worm destroys." - "The Father's kingdom is like [a] woman. She took a little leaven, [hid] it in dough, and made it into large loaves of bread. Anyone here with two ears had better listen!" - "The (Father's) kingdom is like a shepherd who had a hundred sheep. One of them, the largest, went astray. He left the ninety-nine and looked for the one until he found it. After he had toiled, he said to the sheep, 'I love you more than the ninety-nine.'" - "The (Father's) kingdom is like a person who had a treasure hidden in his field but did not know it. And [when] he died he left it to his [son]. The son [did] not know about it either. He took over the field and sold it. The buyer went plowing, [discovered] the treasure, and began to lend money at interest to whomever he wished." - "The person is like a wise fisherman who cast his net into the sea and drew it up from the sea full of little fish. Among them the wise fisherman discovered a fine large fish. He threw all the little fish back into the sea, and easily chose the large fish. Anyone here with two good ears had better listen!" So maybe the kingdom is within us. Deep in the subconscious. It is small and difficult to find but is so valuable that it may as well be the meaning and purpose of life itself. Carl Jung talks about this in his book Aion, and if he is to be believed before one can even attempt to reach the kingdom, or the tiny white fish symbolizing both it and Jesus throughout time, one first has to integrate their shadow. Confront your dark side and bring it under control. Then one has to do the same with their anima / animus. That is where your quote comes into play. To integrate your anima / animus is to incorporate your sexually opposite subconscious element into your being, bring under control it's negative aspects and allow the positive ones to thrive. For a man, for example, that would mean to allow some of your positive feminine qualities, like nurturing or emotional intuition, freedom to function in harmony with the rest of your being. By the way I think the idea of complete replacement of your primary category with the secondary one (for example the common leftist insistence that everyone should completely adopt their opposite sexual element and discard the primary) is misguided and is based on incorrect literal interpretation, as is their insistence on androgyny (assuming they are motivated by what I'm describing here). Once this second step is complete then one can attempt to find the divine spark within them and try to use what is best described as a sort of magnetic force to draw said spark out of hiding and into consciousness.

[@angelacox96]

Smart guy 😂😂

[@majesty9985]

I kinda feel like there's a war on gender as a whole, the whole "fluidity" and "toxic masculinity" and "women can be like men" too is quite worrying. Lines are no longer there and no one understands the importance of feminine and masculine energy, the balance is incredibly important AND beautiful !

[@silashurd3597]

I know who I am, I’m a male and always will be. I don’t need a society to tell me what I am, because I already know

[@sundaymourning5329]

Yes!!! The beauty of our differences is being not only ignored, but outright demonized today! It is so sad to see where everything is headed...

[@breakmanradio2530]

Yin and yang in the East. Order and Chaos in the West. Both represent, in part, the balance between the masculine and the feminine. Look at the little black dot in the white and the tiny white dot in the black. Every man has a feminine side and every woman has a masculine side. That complex aspect of the masculine-feminine balance has been corrupted by the minds of people without critical thinking skills. Ideological possession rejects the use of logic and evidence to come to conclusions. You think what you're told to think. Feel how you're told to feel. The ideas have you, you don't have ideas.

[@toomanysandwiches8665]

because gender is "fluid". men can have feminine interests and women can have masculine interests. yes there should be a balance, but every individual is unique and different. telling some one they have to behave in a certain way to fit in, is very wrong and dangerous. let people express their true selves, without harming or hurting others. if a man wants to wear a dress or put on make up whats the big deal. just because he's doing it doesn't mean everyones going to start copying him. that's the beauty of individual freedom. people can be themselves.

[@comrade3720]

Noone cares

[@Solararisa]

I love how people are like, "you can wear what you want, but don't force it on me", but the opposite of that happened with Harry Styles, he wore a dress and he was the one who got attacked for it and people freaking out left and right (including Sydney).

[@knightu1642]

He should have his career ruined for promoting the weakening of men. He's a man who according to him, loves women but wants to dress as a woman. What kind of twisted nutcase is he? Oh yeah. He's wanting to wear women's clothing but doesn't classify himself as trans? I hope you have a boy that grows up to be the most masculine man. I wonder if you'll love him for being a man or ridicule him for not being effeminate?

[@IntoTheVoid1981]

The problem here is that his message and the message of this fashion trend is that you will have to wear clothes like this. If I see him on the street in this clothes, I would say: "He is a stupid freak, but anyway it's his taste." - and I move on. If I see him in magazines showing me the future trends for menswear, I say: "I will never wear this shit! I will never let force this on me!". - and I am triggered. Do you copy now?

[@oghenevokemuagba2306]

@@IntoTheVoid1981 you said a bunch of nonsense. Why would you verbally attack him if you saw him on the road in a dress?

[@IntoTheVoid1981]

@@oghenevokemuagba2306 You can not read. Learn more.

[@dontspikemydrink9382]

​@@IntoTheVoid1981we can read, it is what you said

[@alexkade1506]

In my personal experience (being a quite an emotional teen) my father hated when I showed emotion "man up" or "stop crying before I give you something to cry about" i think it's still the opposite that's being attacked because its still not acceptable to report rape or get therapy and even commit suicide

[@AoiKaze2000]

... I wonder what Sydney would do if some guy showed up at her door, sweaty with axe in hand and said "so I built you a house"...

[@rogueboner8138]

Them jeans.. be creamy.. guaranteed

[@mode4801]

Him... That's what she'll do...

[@sbyrstall]

Now that's a silly question. She'd drop whatever she was doing.

[@mrpickles2573]

Whatever she pleases as its her call lol

[@mallardofmodernia8092]

Im a guy and im not into that but fuck id go for it, seems like he would be a decent dude better than most people nowadays

[@b-side3682]

_"Take away the men from the house, just like you take away God from humanity. And watch them collapse."_

[@petrusstreamrock5315]

Where did that quote originated from? Info please?

[@smartgoku9048]

@Xelbayria i don't think that is the work of a god. after all nature can be destructive all on its own. it's just humans are the ones who keep building and living in danger zones.

[@andhbhakt4369]

@@smartgoku9048 it's because china loves to play with Nature. Remember they had distinct "sparrows" and end up decade long food and economic crisis.

[@smartgoku9048]

@@andhbhakt4369 don't know anything about that but don't we all like playing with nature

[@bettermanchannel770]

A culture without men is doomed

[@eitanshpitser9702]

Sydney is underrated as hell, we need to make the KZbin algorithm show more of her videos

[@madisonc8886]

She hates feminine men.

[@petermarchi1935]

This is what gets me, "They want men to be more like women, but when it comes to fighting off a mugger "The want a manly man.""

[@themodernmusketeer877]

What’s wrong with men and women being different. We can be different but still equal

[@ChaoticButterfly]

Currently? In Western culture? Mostly the fact that femininity (being a woman) is seen as lesser. People, individually, might say they don't see it as lesser, however, using feminine traits/terms/etc. as insults, or as means of describing how you feel... "feminized" vs. "emasculated," even though, even in the definition of emasculate it associated femininity with cowardice ("make effeminate and cowardly"). Feminine traits are bad. Masculine traits are good. This is society's message. Predominantly feminine jobs aren't valued as much. Computer programming used to be female-dominated. The position got paid more when men took over the position, mostly. Hell, female work isn't valued as much. As more women become Biologists, the pay drops... same happened with Designers. I'm hardly a raging feminist. I look at facts, though, and facts are unfortunate, in many cases... for both sides. I'd like to think we can be different but equal, but we can see how that went in the Jim Crow South... it takes both sides being equally _valued,_ equally elevated. But, as long as there are "chick flicks," "chick lit," etc... I don't think equality is in the cards... unless we are gonna start calling some books "dick lit," or something... where the woman is not "the other."

[@stephenpenniket9976]

Is that the equal where some are more equal than others?

[@Scott90314]

@@ChaoticButterfly I think be feminine in some cases is bad and conversely masculine can be bad also it is the context that is important. I don't mean to be that guy, but biology has shaped us in ways that in the current year we still do not fully comprehend. I think it is silly to compare men and women as it is more of a apples to oranges comparison we are similar in some ways, but are different on more than just a skin deep level. The way we think, act, and carry ourselves is shaped some by our upbringing and environment for sure, but also by virtue of our sex in others. The jim crowe comparison is a bad comparison on a few levels, as those laws where made to sabotage and subvert the budding black middle class in the 50s, and secondly their is very little difference between a average black man and another average man. Where as the average man and woman compared the difference can be quite jarring in most cases. Shit the fact that there is no shortage of chick flicks or generic superhero/action flicks and people still gravitate to them is not that we are not equal by virtue of we are not the same, and to compare the two needlessly is just a attempt by some to push an agenda or be decisive for it's sale just my two cents anyway.

[@bryanfeliciano4102]

@@ChaoticButterfly "the wage gap" is more than just a gender thing (experience,education,negotiation as far as raises go,hours worked, wether or not you take maternity leave,etc.)

[@ChaoticButterfly]

@@bryanfeliciano4102 I am well aware, it's still pretty damning.

[@paolatropical]

There's nothing sexier for me seeing my husband fixing his bike and buying new pieces in eBay. I love my masculine man a lot.

[@benlotus2703]

MGTOW

[@bobbydyne]

@@benlotus2703 Are a bunch boys that cry victim

[@benlotus2703]

@@bobbydyne Sometimes The media tells women that they are a ''star'' while the government pays them royalties (with Mens/Husbands monies)

[@benlotus2703]

@@bobbydyne Bobby, you will cry during your divorce :)

[@bobbydyne]

@@benlotus2703 I agree that women have many advantages in today’s culture but to ignore them, wholesale, because of fear is cowardice.

[@kenc9236]

Your ads are the bomb girl.

[@woodythump8741]

Like the message. Love the delivery

[@TheSarinaide]

I see that Sydney has now joined the hitlist of contemporary intellectuals hated by the left. Well done Sydney, keep up the good fight.

[@worsethanjoerogan8061]

That's an important milestone for any commentator

[@richardcaldwell6159]

LOLOL. Sydney is intellectual?!

[@TheSarinaide]

@@richardcaldwell6159 more so than someone whom lolol's

[@richardcaldwell6159]

I don't hate Sydney at all. Instead, I'm saddened that GOPpers have such a shallow creed. When I consider a topic I dive deep. I generally learn something when I watch an intellectual's stuff. Not so with her. Sydney didn't make a single point that was more substantial that a coat of cheap paint. I get the impression that she's a decent person, but for whatever reason she doesn't dive into a subject. I suppose some folks like to float comfortably instead. Intellectuals don't float. We constantly seek refutation of our current conclusions. Now, I've only watched one of her videos (along with a bit of this one), so I can't place high confidence in my conclusion, but the odds of my learning anything new from her are low enough that I doubt I'll watch another

[@bwconn1317]

Typical lib type projecting, nothing new here, gop’s are not the notorious ones who are shallow btw scurry away now

[@markhewitt4307]

First "Orange Man bad"..now all men are bad. Guess I'm just horrible..😂..it's not that we men are acting "over masculint", its everybody gets a trophy and most kids are raised nowadays thinking their feelings are more important than facts.

[@ameilioracryptos5298]

Watch the suicide rates go up...these self hating people... natural selection will runs it's course and only the same ones will remain in 25 years

[@vipulvaibhav7353]

I agree, I saw an ad where they said "what kind of a victory isn't awarded to everyone" And I was like, WHAT? If everyone wins then why are we even competing

[@aprilarlidge2807]

"Have you guys met you....seriously." To true!

[@rutniktrainer]

How many commercials are out there where an agressive woman acts like a jerk and it's considered empowering. But if a man ever did that it would be toxic.

[@fenrirtheicewolf2019]

"Hard times create strong men. Strong men create good times. Good times create weak men. And, weak men create hard times." - G. Michael Hopf

[@ange1098]

Correct. One of the reasons why the west is now becoming communism and all that entails.

[@lordofthepizzapie9319]

And of course women have nothing to do with the situation at all, right? Just disregard the agency of roughly half the worlds population and instead put everything on men. Because as we all know burdening men with having to fix everything while not even asking if women can do anything to help worked wonders for us up till now.

[@elainewalter8685]

Certainly true and i hope that when i have my own boys that they will grow up to be strong men

[@loki76]

@@lordofthepizzapie9319 You are literally one of these "weak men" and sound like a male feminist and the very reason this video was made.. Now go put on that dress and kiss some women's feet. You clearly don't understand the quote he made.. Men built this world. Women are tearing it apart.

[@lordofthepizzapie9319]

@@loki76 So continuing to disregard women's agency and impact on the world are we? It's hilarious you're saying _I'm_ just like feminists when one of the consistent behaviors of feminists is the complete refusal to view women as agents, what do you think patriarchy theory is? It's an assertion that only men have an effect on the world and women just exist in a void where they can only be acted upon. Equally it's hilarious that instead of trying to argue against my point you're attempting to shame me for not fitting your (rather small) mold of what masculinity is. That's what female feminists and women in general do to men who aren't doing what they want. For the record it's generally not women tearing things down, it's men desperate for approval doing it at the behest of women. So maybe if enough women stopped demanding everything be torn down and instead convinced men that they have value men would stop, how about that?