Are modern women proud of being “masculine”?

[@msmulisha]

masculinity and femininity is a whole lot deeper than this surface stuff everybody is talking about.

[@seanyeah]

Thank u! It gets misunderstood everytime it gets brought up

[@FreeSpiritInGod]

Ok!!!!! Thank youuuu!!! Like wtf are they even talking about

[@carmesebranch725]

I honestly don't know why the argument.... Plain and simple women submit to your husbands and respect your husband. Submission from a woman if a man naturally leads and sits in his masculine. Natural carbon. However, when men ask women to submit outside of carbon (natural order) then we have a problem Houston

[@vuyokazinocuze7603]

And if you are not Christian then what ?

[@carmesebranch725]

@@vuyokazinocuze7603 hey sweets, once upon a time I was not a Christ follower until God revealed to me why John 3:16 was so crucial to us. We have a sin nature that is contrary to God and we cannot atone for our sins, but Thank God for Christ being ultimate sacrifice for our sins. Once we believe....we are to keep what God commands because this is the way we show we love God by keeping what he commands. We also need a relationship with God to know him. John 1:1 tells us that God is his word(bible) in it you learn God's character and what God wants of you....also prayer. John 17:17 his word sanctifies or cleanses our hearts 🥰....Jesus is the way the truth and the Light....Godbless you

[@marcellabenjamin6449]

Ppl do not understand energy or balance and how that works… In addition, how pain,trauma, family, relationships and etc… play a role. There’s an imbalance of energy not only in women but in men too! The cycle will continue until both self reflect, heal and reparent themselves. 🤷🏽‍♀️🙏🏽

[@TheMFTRUTH]

Dont care.

[@carmesebranch725]

That's exactly what I'm on and all of these perfect people are straight scary 🤣

[@samsimmons2831]

Heal on your own

[@Oir07]

If people continue to use it as an excuse I’ve been through trauma in my childhood and when I’m an adult. They will probably have trauma in the future has nothing to do with a person that I want to be with especially if they didn’t cause anything people have to grow up

[@mr.ineedit11]

​@@carmesebranch725aint nobody perfect but your last bf beat u up after u caught him cheating pls go see therapy or work on self before u start dating cuz u gunna only attract a person not healed like you or you gonna ruin a good dudes life get you a handsome full of life guy and 3 months later the man got no hair overweight broke drinking everyday

[@6enhoj6]

True femininity is a superpower some don't know how to use or understand.

[@ajack226]

He's speaking right to the lady that said Kevin's name, she has the masculine energy

[@Stayyyysilent]

The lady calling him Kevin Samuels was triggered 🙏🏽😭

[@HunnieSuckle24]

When a man constantly asks a woman, "What are you bringing to the table?", it gets to be where women are answering the question but many don't like the answer. It's not about being masculine or wanting to be masculine. Stop asking the questions that warrants thoe responses. I had an ex say that I wanted to be the man in the relationship because I paid the bills. Dude it's my apartment. Who else is going to pay them? He got paid weekly to my biweekly. He would open the bills and leave them until my next pay period. I then paid it and he would get mad. Why open them and leave them? Pay it and be done. Stop being nosey of you don't intent to contribute. Now whether my father did me a disservice or not, he told me to never depend on a man. I never have because I have to ask for things over and over again. I'm not a begger. I rather work for what I want, need and desire. That doesn't make me masculine, it just makes me self-sufficient and independent. Any man is welcome to step up but the moment I feel like I'm begging or feel like you are hanging something over me, I'm done and will get things done myself. I just had to prove this at work this week.

[@msmulisha]

Exactly 💯 The masculinity and femininity conversation is in ingenuous at best. These men flip flop back and forth between what they want, depending on our response to it. Women need to do them and stop listening to men.

[@MrkendrickH]

did you ever take the time to realize that bills are not weekly they are monthly. You do realize if he got paid weekly then a weekly check is smaller than a biweekly check. so did you ever consider that maybe his weekly check was not enough to pay the entire bill and he was waiting for his other weekly checks to pay the bill? But of course since he didn't do things when you wanted him to do things as if he's a child you went ahead an paid it yourself because that's what you was admittedly taught to do. hence the reason he said you wanted to wear the pants in a relationship. then you have the nerve to talk down on him as if he didn't want to do it just because he didn't do it when you wanted it done. you women sit around dreaming of a man that only exist in your head. it's like y'all want this nice sweet caring Thug who is the leader but listen to what you tell him to do lol smh. most of y'all will only allow a man to leave if he leads you the exact way that you would lead the relationship. not realizing that man and women are totally different you guys think emotionally first then logically a man thinks logically first then emotionally. so of course we will lead in different ways but what a lot of y'all don't realize is that is multiple ways to get to a destination but a lot of you guys will Rebel and claim the man doesn't know how to lead because he is not doing it the way you would

[@MrkendrickH]

​@@msmulisha sweetheart man have not changed much at all women are the ones who have changed a lot. we don't flip flop black man for the past 50 years have told women they don't like masculine women, they don't like colorful weave, big eyelashes, tattoos, obese woman, etc but yet yall continue to try to make us accept what we don't want and then Wonder why you can only get the bottom of the barrel men smh

[@msmulisha]

@@MrkendrickH exactly women have changed a lot for the better from what I can see and men have not changed for over 50 years 🙄 so yeah most men are the bottom of the barrel degenerate bandits and women should stop listening to them and stop dating them all together as far as I'm concerned. And for the record, We don't give a s*** what y'all don't like 😂

[@lydiaanderson2064]

​@@MrkendrickH When did this woman ever say she wanted a "nice, sweet, caring, thug"? You're outta touch with reality & should probably seek therapy. The most emotional comment here is yours.

[@Mstmakk25]

But when did taking care of yourself, have your own car, have your own place as an adult woman become masculine! I don’t see men lined up at the homeless shelter saving women.

[@joeydiaz5927]

You’re a fool. Firstly what’s masculine is leading with your money and stability. Many women throw in the face of men that they are independent simply for being an adult. We don’t care about the money. We care that you either throw it in our face or you show disrespect.

[@kitejohnson515]

Right

[@DewayneJohns-x7x]

They don’t save women that are masculine either

[@lakernation8370]

It’s not about a woman having your their own it’s that attitude that comes with some of these women that have their own.

[@DewayneJohns-x7x]

I don’t see women going too that door stopping a buglar or fighting off a predator, it’s only beneficial for the women when they get something out of it. If you want to be masculine the then deal with that situation. GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!

[@shereses.3298]

Sick of this conversation. From the depths of my soul 💯💯💯

[@JiceJohnson]

Where are these women?? I don’t know any woman who says this to a man. I’m trying to determine where they at. Men ASSUME a woman is masculine. I recently had my first conversation with a man from a dating app. We’re in general “get to know you” convo and he’s telling me where he’s from, where he is now, how he just got promoted, etc. Me too s he’s a GS8. Well I can look up your salary online. But money is not the top issue to me and I didn’t say anything because he was clearly proud of getting to that level. He asks me what I do. I leave it pretty general. I own my own business. He pushes and asks me more questions. Not one time did I say how much I make or even get into the details of what I do. But I could tell he deduced that I made more money than he did. His next question to me was if I was “dominant “ and do I even have time for a relationship. I asked him what made him ask me those questions. He said it sounds like you’re used to running things and petty busy. I said well I here on the phone with you so I have time. I said I do run my business but I run it like a woman not a man so I don’t see myself as dominant. I see myself as competent in what I do. He lost interest pretty quickly. It’s a perception. I was attentive and focused on him and simply learning that I make my own money was enough to make him see me in a certain light. People are out here with their own assumptions instead of seeking to learn about the other person they may l be interested in dating. That’s wild to me

[@somebodysomething3451]

My lady having things and telling me about it isn't masculine. She doesn't even have to need me. It is childish to have to be needed to feel like a man. Make your woman want you.. much better..

[@laurencameron3150]

Thank you! Men say they want to be needed and then complain that women don’t bring anything to the table except for used cat

[@graws7009]

Well said

[@cutedude13]

and what's 2 ways you can make her want you?

[@somebodysomething3451]

@@cutedude13 treat her with respect and the another is rated xxx.. use your imagination the list is long... Believe me, you don't want money to be at the top..

[@solobellimino2356]

It's not really about her having more. It's about the women wanting to be like men. That's the issue. People like you quick to take offense, before you think.

[@23andme77]

I had a ex that I always assumed was confident. He owned his own home had a good job cars etc. I never spoke on what I had or where I worked -when we 1st meet. He ALWAYS told me he made xyz and hour, he had these kind of cars, he spent xyz. I never said anything about myself. The 1st time he came to my home he was shocked. The 1st time he came to my job to eat lunch in my office he was shocked. Eventually, I stopped talking to him. He started acting so funny after them. I blocked his number and just moved on. Years passed (about 2) and I ran into him again. He was realer with me this time. He told me he didn't know where he fit in in my life. He told me I seemed so self assured. He told me what really made him insecure....was (He didn't use that word but that's what he was saying) He was insecure because I mention my kids college fund. We spoke about that the 1st time we dated. I didn't think it effected him, I just was so proud of the fact that I started it when they were babies. They were only in elementary school then , but I managed to save a couple thousand before they were outbof elementary school. I told him my biggest flex was going to be paying cash for my girls education. He told me he didn't "feel" needed. I still ended up deciding not to talk to him anymore..because I dint want to have to walk on egg shells around someone's ego. But I was glad he shared his feelings with me. I'm not going to be broke, homeless and penniless until I find a man to save me. I'm not a bragger..at all ..I think it's tack for men or women to brag about money or things. I think men need to get over this superman complex. Most women are not waiting around broke for some superman that will never come. Excuse my Grammer and punctuation. I'm typing this as I eat lunch and chart. 😂

[@KNDNumba4]

When you “said I think men need to get over this Superman complex. Most women are not waiting around BROKE for some Superman that will NEVER come.”woooo hooo I felt this.

[@laurencameron3150]

@@KNDNumba4 And when women are broke and penniless waiting around, they’re called gold diggers

[@bryanmason13]

​​@@laurencameron3150. No. When they want someone JUST for their money, they're gold diggers. Because there are plenty that are not broke or penniless.

[@23andme77]

@Hot Coco Well we (the black community) will forever be stuck. Bw are lest married ..even before she get degree and can provide. So are we suppose to live with our moms and just be broke until a man earning 35000 a year decides to come and save us? If a women fully needs a man ..she is categorized as a gold digger...Men constantly complain about hownprices are high and men can not take care of a house financially with just their income. I'm not (nor should other women) ..have to dumb their self down for a man. If he wants to feel needed he needs to go to a low income apartment complex and find his women there...because I can NOT.

[@23andme77]

@Hot Coco I think if it works for you and him that's great. I'm not knocking other women or cultures but I just didn't have it in me to be "saved" by someone.

[@tweetybird1480]

Had an ex say something once that was the most honest he ever was. "You have your own car, and you have your own place, what do you need me for?" All of a sudden I understood all the issues we had. Because his sense of self was only in a perception of if he could do those things for me. And no, I'm not going to pretend I can't do it for myself. I wasn't living on the street when you met me, and I wasn't riding a bicycle. Because in his past relationships, having a girl who needed him to provide those things gave him control. Which is ultimately what he wanted. I asked him for a ride somewhere once and he said no (he was pissed about something and I guess this was his attempt to "lay down the law). I didn't worry. Said ok, went and got in my car and drove myself. 😂🤣😂. Dude was pissed. The girl before me didn't have a car, wasn't well traveled, lived with her Mom. So whenever he wanted to exert his control, he'd stop helping with those things and she'd fall in line. But I wasn't about to cry if you didn't want to give me a ride. I was asking for a ride so we could spend time together. But I can drive myself, and if the car was in the shop, I could always take a cab🤷🏾‍♀️ Too many men find women having the ability to take care of themselves offensive because a woman who can do for herself cannot be controlled.

[@somebodysomething3451]

You just described a full grown boy.

[@BeButler55]

perfectly said

[@carmesebranch725]

Yassss ma'am....I'd rather u have yours and I have mine .

[@tweetybird1480]

@@carmesebranch725 and the thing is, just because I have for myself or can do for myself, does not change the fact that I truly appreciate that you want to do for me. But you should want to do for me because you care. Not because you're needing control. And in the same way, considering "traditional roles", no male loved one of mine should ever be in a position that if their wife is vex with them they'd starve. They need to know how to cook, clean, wash, iron etc. When you both come together, you are two fully independent, self sustaining people who CHOOSE to join together, and build together, such that what you build together is bigger than the sum of your parts. Wouldn't you be proud as a husband, to know that if something happened to you, your wife was able to make sure both she and the kids would be ok?

[@missmytime]

Same thing happened to me! Unfortunately a lot of “traditional” men have a warped codependent view of masculinity that requires a woman to “need” them to thrive. In any other capacity, we would call out that mess for what it really is - narcissism.

[@D3nMe]

Just be yourself. Nothing else works. Be you

[@Kweenkisses]

There is more power in Someone “Wanting” you.

[@PrinceInawRakah]

You needing him makes him want you.. If you don’t need something.. that means it’s inherently unnecessary. You don’t need a 3rd car.. you don’t need 55 pairs of heels.. That’s what men are to you ladies.. extra.. excess.. something you can dispose of or sell when you want to save money/downsize.. A man doesn’t want a woman who perceives him that way. That’s why so many BW are without a man.

[@laurencameron3150]

@@PrinceInawRakah Your comment doesn’t make sense to me because 1) a need is something you can’t do without and 2) most BM aren’t married either so what does that say about y’all? Either way, would you give this advise to your daughter? Would you tell her that she needs a man and should make him feel needed?

[@bryanmason13]

​@@laurencameron3150. We can agree that fathers are men and are needed, right?

[@bryanmason13]

Its not about power.

[@egujuga]

​@@PrinceInawRakah I'm sorry but some men literally think of women that way to a lot of them do they see women as a sex toy something they can play with and leave like nothing happened because he's a man

[@NikkiDavis80sbaby]

So because a woman doesn't need a man it makes her masculine 🤔.... Here we go with the foolishness again! A person should be glad another human doesn't need them! There's more value in being wanted.

[@MrkendrickH]

It's crazy how women just make up stuff people are saying when they never said. Y'all listen with your feelings instead of listening to understand. It's your personality traits that make you masculine. Basically how you think, talk, and act. It has nothing to do with you working a job or not needing a man. A man is absolutely needed for a straight woman. You don't need to call a man your boyfriend or make him your husband but you still need a man. even single women have a man around in some form or fashion. No straight woman on the planet can honestly say if she spent her entire life never once getting help, attention, affection, compliments, or sex from a man she would be totally happy. If that ever happened to a woman she will then realize how much a man is needed. But since they get those things so easily and so frequently throughout their life they actually believe it's not needed.

[@NikkiDavis80sbaby]

@@MrkendrickH think about what you just said. Everyone needs someone ( not necessarily the opposite sex) but that's not what the current topic is about. I never said I don't need anybody. We all need other's help from time to time. The need of a man is the topic. I was saying a person should want to be wanted rather than needed. A woman taking care of herself without needing a man is not masculine it's being an adult.(this goes vise versa as well.) Alot of men throw that masculine word at women alot of the times as an insult. Me being able to function as a able-bodied adult without a man coming to my rescue should not be intimidating to a man. Alot of women want a man but they don't need one and some men are just butthurt that in this day and age women aren't dependent on men like back in the day. We can choose if we want to deal with a man and all that comes with him. Mama and grandma likely didn't have a choice. They had to accept a lot of foolishness and pretend they were all smiles. If you look at alot of the independent women of the world they'd probably love to have a man come in a take away some of the stress....it simply boils down to making her confident enough in your abilities. Alot of independent woman want to be allowed to rest in more of their feminity but they aren't being given the chance to.

[@MrkendrickH]

@@NikkiDavis80sbaby I already clearly explained everything you mentioned in your comment and all you did was basically repeat the same thing. And once again made up some things I didn't say listening using your feelings instead of listening to understand. I was clearly talking about a woman needing a man most of the things that I listed a straight woman cannot get from another woman. The same reasons you want a man is the same reasons you need a man. I'm simply talking about the need for man not the need for the title boyfriend or the title husband. Most women couldn't even survive without men. The home you live in was built by man. The car you drive was designed by a man. The food you eat was gathered or killed by a man and ship to the stores by a man. The company that pays you money to survive is most likely owned by men. If you're in danger you either call your man or call the police who is most likely a man. The military who is mostly man protect you from Invaders coming to kill you. You even being born is due to the sperm of a man. If you self-employed the technology that you use were created by man. I can keep going and going. It's no way around it a woman needs a man period. A men is able to provide for himself and survive without a woman but you don't hear man running around talking about their strong independent and don't need a woman. Just because you're needed doesn't mean you're not wanted and just because you wanted doesn't mean you're not needed. It's very possible to be needed and wanted. Once again I clearly explain you're not masculine simply because you work a job. There are Indian women, Asian women, etc who also work but they are not called masculine. Black women back in the days worked also as housekeepers, cooks, babysitters, etc and they were not called masculine. Once again people call you masculine based on the way you think, act, and talk

[@NikkiDavis80sbaby]

@@MrkendrickH lol after this I'm a let you have it cuz you clearly don't get it. If you want to go all the way into everything was built by a man,etc well men wouldn't exist without women just like you were so adamant about us not being able to survive without men. There are women builders and hunters, police, etc If you want to go there. Everything is not all because of a man but that's besides the point I was getting at. I still stand on what I previously said and we can just agree to disagree. You have a nice one.

[@MrkendrickH]

@@NikkiDavis80sbaby no you don't get it. Of course a man wouldn't be here without a woman which once again is why you don't hear man running around saying they don't need a woman it's dumb just like it's dumb for a woman to say she don't need a man. Y'all women just keep talking about you don't need a man because you can pay your own bills as if that's the only thing a man is needed for. That is my point but good day.

[@shannongraham4246]

I met a woman that was the very definition of femininity. I truly looked up to her. Now I live in mine 6 days a week 😌

[@carmesebranch725]

This guy told me I was masculine and yet I was working a 40 hour job and taking care of myself which I am supposed to. However, this man never took any stress off of me to allow me to be more lady like. I would have most def got dolled up and cooked more than 1 day week if not so stressed trying to work and meet his needs. Now that we are done I am so grooving just meeting my own needs. I have even been teaching myself on off days how to draw and paint....stress free

[@domicascott7596]

I feel you girl and it's so many reasons a woman would be that way. In my case I have been thru so much shit with men that I got to the point where I'm content with myself and I'm happy being by myself, waking up by myself, moving the way I wanna move without a ninja calling me asking, " when u comin home", what chu doin", or you need to get home." Just being controllin and I'm not sayin this to sound like.... I don't need a man which I don't but I feel like shit gotta be mutual between man and woman and that don't mean go hoein' around. Dude that's sayin he don't like it, he's not trying to find out the reasons why other than what he said

[@carmesebranch725]

@@domicascott7596same here with guys father on down....so I just got to the point that solitude is a good friend. A man is not a highlight...not to say that they aren't lovely creatures and created with a purpose. I'm just not desperate for a relationship. At this point in my life I actually want people around....the small circle....difference between need and want. I don't think I'masculine at all I just don't need to be stressed out with lies and cheating, then yes I become I nagging irritated bitch because I can't trust you and you playing with my feelings and possibly jeopardizing my bpdy and health....so nope I gotta move on

[@deborahfrederick916]

@@domicascott7596 Sis. Preach!! All of these points.

[@BeButler55]

that's right girlfriend do you

[@heyyoo38]

There you go. Seems like you found some extra time to sneak in some extrA activities. Amazing how you find time when you reate an excuse to do it. Example---- Man unhappy with his wife because of all the flubber she has gained. Wife says we don't have sex like we did before. That floppy is unattractive to him.Women can open there legs at anytime even if they don't like it. Men need to be excited to perform or maintain an erection. She won't stop eating up everything. They seperate. 8 months later tiktok video of her with the weight off. Only for the hopes of you want me now too bad. If you could've been this focused while being together the separation wouldn't have occurred.

[@tweetybird1480]

Why is being able to take care of yourself considered masculine? Shouldn't all grown adults be able to take care of themselves? I'd be very suspicious of someone who was with me because they couldn't survive on their own.

[@PrinceInawRakah]

Literally we are all here today due to that family dynamic that you are “suspicious” of.. Women working 40-60 hr weeks at the office is new.. Women used to go from their fathers crib to their husbands crib.. no college.. no office job.. from daughter to housewife. It’s crazy that you didn’t know that

[@tweetybird1480]

@@PrinceInawRakah yes, and children died in child birth and from vaccine preventable diseases. And black people couldn't vote or own property, or go to school. And many of those women, had no agency whatsoever, so they had no choice. 1. Why when you talk about "back in the day" are you only content to go backwards for women but not for your fellow men, especially men of color. 2. Why does a woman's ability to have a choice offend you? 3. Why does someone having the ability to control their own life bother you? They aren't trying to control you.

[@MrkendrickH]

Being able to take care of yourself is not what makes you masculine it's the way you think act and talk I don't understand why y'all can't grasp this.

[@MrkendrickH]

@@PrinceInawRakah this is why women be confused by your statement it's simply untrue. A woman simply working does not make her masculine. I don't know if you're black but most black women have always worked as housekeepers, babysitters, Cooks, etc. But they were still able to be feminine.

[@elizabethhenderson9729]

@@PrinceInawRakah its crazy that you don't know history and that black women have traditionally always had to work. My mother, my grandmothers, and my great aunts all had JOBS.

[@MusikNLyfe]

Yes, nothing wrong with getting ish done🤷🏿‍♀️

[@PrinceInawRakah]

If you pay ur own way as a woman.. then all a man can offer is dick.. so that’s all you will get, sis.. men are not tryna be ur buddy. Women who actually need a man to step in and take over will have husbands.. You’ll get dinner and dick occasionally.. and you’ll have to work until your 65.. as long as you coo with that, we good 🤷🏾‍♂️ And if u married, let him know today that you don’t need him

[@cocobrown1031]

Listen....i am an alpha woman and will be in my masculine energy WHEN I'm in a defensive mode or when I'm untrusting. With that said i am now for the FIRST time living in my femininity with my man because he provides safety, trust and I trust him to lead. It's how he TREATS ME. That is the key. It depends on how the man tears you!

[@PrinceInawRakah]

A feminine woman handles all conflict in a feminine way. Doesn’t mean she gets stepped on.. it means that she’s ladylike and is unfamiliar with the need to puff her chest out, talk like a knigga and flex her muscles when a man does something she dislikes..

[@joeydiaz5927]

So should I wear a dress and heels until a women comes that’s feminine ? Your logic is trash. Men must me masculine all the time so women should be feminine always. I’m not converting you. Ima just bust those cheeks and marry a girl in Africa.

[@samsimmons2831]

That's called a chameleon

[@MrkendrickH]

Some of you women say the craziest things and actually believe it sounds good. Saying you are alpha female shows your mindset and shows that you're truly not feminine. Acting feminine when things are perfect is totally different from being feminine. If a man was to say I'm masculine only because how my woman treats me. But the moment I get in defensive mode or don't trust her I get feminine. Do you not see how crazy that sounds but yet women like yourself will say this type of stuff all the time and think it sounds perfectly fine.

[@Vr30Boostlyfe]

Alpha Women🤣😂

[@shane-o-matic]

How about this? How about everybody just do you? Have whatever standards you want to have and let the chips fall where they may. You 400 lbs and think you should have the rich man? Go right ahead, Sister. You broke and want a supermodel? More power to you, brother. Let’s stop telling everybody what they should want. You want what you want. Good or bad. Healthy or toxic. Do you. If you end up with what you want. Good. If you’re being delusional, you’ll find out eventually. Let folks roll the dice if they want to. It’s not our job to fix people. 😂

[@BeButler55]

y'all need to know the difference between masculine women and Independent women, we've been hurt we've been dogged out by men so there is trust issues in the process of that we work for what we wanted as well as what we needed without the help of a man. there are men out there that wants to be the head but it's hard for us women to depend on them because we've been broken to a certain degree. so for a man to say an independent woman is masculine that's so totally wrong. a man should want to have a independent woman in his corner because they can build together instead of him doing it all himself, that's the masculine/independent woman version and that's the type of man I want, a masculine independent man

[@jayaddy8044]

How can you as a female tell a man what he should want. I could tell you, you should want a average man 40k....but somehow yall usually end up with pookie nem. Then blame all men. WHEN MOST OF US ARE CHILDLESS WITH JOBS WHO WANTS A FAMILY

[@GlobalMusic4Life]

Remember Neo song: SHE GOT HER OWN I think was the name. There are a lot of men who still feel that way

[@504gucci4]

No they dont, that was a song to sell records. "When you lie, women buy"

[@FreeSpiritInGod]

Im so confused into how providing for yourself is having to be or being masculine??? Whew the gaslight is reaaaal ! 🙄

[@MrkendrickH]

Working doesn't make you masculine. it's plenty of women with jobs who are not masculine. It's the way a woman acts, thinks, and talks. He was simply giving an example of how masculine women act. They will throw up in your face what they have. Think about it if a man lifted weights a lot and was rich and he went around two females talkin about how strong and Rich he is. Women would find that totally unnecessary and unattractive. So the same thing applies to a man. He is unattracted to a woman who throws in a man face she's strong, independent, got a degree, and don't need a man.

[@shay8782]

These men will say they want 50/50 and then have an issue with the woman that brings that energy. But when a woman gives space for him to be masculine they complain she’s lazy/gold-digging/looking for rescue 🙄

[@MrkendrickH]

What on Earth are you talking. Why do y'all act like making money consider you being masculine. It has nothing to do with the money or the ability to pay bills. Vast majority of all women of all races work. But they're not all masculine. Gay men work n pay bills but they have no problem with being feminine. What determines if your feminine or masculine is based on how you talk, act, and think.

[@CeeSparks]

I think ppl need to revisit the definition of masculine. Taking care of your business is not masculine nor feminine. It's adulting. Because I don't need u, doesn't make me more masculine. Modern men wanna feel so needed that it's sad. How about ppl wanting eachother. Yes, I am educated. Had my own house b4 marriage, car, health, life insurance, etc. I think many if my characteristics is what attracted men to me. Most guys will call una gold digger if you have nothing or totally depend on them. Why not want a woman who's empowered. My husband finds it attractive

[@evos469]

No we need to look at why men need to provide, protect and lead cantankerous women.

[@CeeSparks]

@evos469 nah...yall worse than the LGBTQ changing up pronouns. Yall are as bad trying to Change definitions of what a word is. Sit your insecure ass down

[@MrkendrickH]

I don't see how you women don't understand how unattractive it is not that you have a job. The way you think, act, and talk is what makes you masculine. For example you fell a need to run off the fact that you're educated, had a house, car, health insurance Etc. Like who gives a damn a man doesn't want to hear a woman running around constantly talking about what she got and that she's independent and don't need a man. If your man was running around telling you he independent and talking about all the stuff he had and was telling you he don't need you. I guarantee you would find that unattractive so I don't understand why you women can't comprehend that it's also unattractive to us when you women do it

[@CeeSparks]

@MIND ELEVATION I don't aquire things on the fact what men consider feminine or masculine. Most men don't find a woman working or who aspires ro have a great career, as masculine. Again, you cantbchange the meaning if a word fool. My husband is proud of my accomplishments. He's not bruised a d bitter and dumb like you are. It's not an accomplishment to most women to sit around having a man's babies. Those who choose that, great. I didn't and had no regrets. Men who come on here arguing with women and their life-style, aspirations, beliefs, etc...are the ones who truly exude feminine energy. 😄 mynhusband and brothers laugh at you fools. They never say such men so emotional about what a woman does. This is y yall can't be true leaders in your homes ir your jobs. White man will always outshine you, because u spend tome competing with women. Wth? If you're that insecure , just say it. My parents raised me to have goals and an education. They didn't raise me to depend on some dusty, such as yourself. Luckily most men aren't as stupid as you. You can't handle a woman who is smarter, who makes more, and that can make better decisions (lead) than you. You obviously fall in the weak man category. That's why you're so hurt n bitter. I'd venture to say, you have no major accomplishments. You're the obe who has the weak woman with no goals and can only clean and have babies. She dare not speak her voice and feelings, because massa gone say she masculine. That's mere gaslighting. No woman with any sense would stay with your domineering ass . And for the record: mynhusband says he'd rather be wanted vs needed. We all need water and food. ButvI want him. Nothing sexy are enticing about being needing...yall broke dusties want to be needed and catered to so badly. Yall are worse than modern day masses. 😄 🤣 😂

[@MrkendrickH]

@@CeeSparks Poor little tink tink so upset lol. Let me educate you. I don't consider a woman working, having goals, and not needing a man to pay her bills as being masculine. It's the way a woman think, act, and talk that makes her masculine. That should be common sense for the simple fact that most women of every race have jobs. But men don't call all those woman masculine. So it's obviously not about her job. All I said is that I don't give a damn about what a woman have. The problem is women want men to be attracted to the same things they are. Why would I care about a woman being successful that is her money not mine. Why would I care about her college degree I can't use it. Why would I care about a woman buying a home? I'm a successful men myself who have my own home and would never move into a woman house. We would buy a new place together or she would move in with me. Need has multiple meanings like almost every word. It doesn't only mean you will die if you don't have it. It mean useful, very important, desirable. You can both want and need something at the same time. A man that says he really cares about what a woman has is either lying so she will not get mad and start talking crazy like your doing now or a broke man who needs her help.

[@dariusbeckford8697]

My gripe is his example. Saying you don’t need someone means masculinity or femininity. Working or having education doesn’t denote that either. Clearer examples would be better

[@tweetybird1480]

Exactly. I'm not sure when being able to take care of yourself became a masculine trait. That's something all grown adults should strive for.

[@PrinceInawRakah]

I’m a man.. I’ll explain: A masculine woman wants control of the relationship.. she wants the man to do as she says, but not vice versa.. she wants the man to fit into her life, not vice versa.. if she also pays her own bills and makes okay money, she feels as though she entitled to that control.. A feminine woman can work and provide for herself.. but her ultimate goal is to find a man to take over and be a good leader for her and the kids.. she will not have a mind full of important business decisions for work and events stressing her out, because the man removes that burden.. This is as clear as it gets.. so hopefully there’s not confusion

[@AmandaAmanda28]

@@PrinceInawRakah if you describe a masculine woman as doing all that then isn’t that the same sh!t men do ?

[@PrinceInawRakah]

@@AmandaAmanda28 that’s a masculine man.. a man who can take control and not feel guilty about it.. men perceive women as delicate creatures so he will typically lead with care.. therefore the more she trusts his judgement the more he values her and would rather die than to disappoint and mislead her.. A woman taking on that masculine role is confusion.. nobody who witnesses a relationship where the woman is in the leadership position respects the man or woman in that union.. it is unnatural and we all recognize that subconsciously.. If a woman gives herself to a bad leader who can’t even lead himself to stability.. she will face the consequences.

[@shikhasophia2784]

​​Nonsense hate men who take control of women.. and justifying this is masculinity

[@denicewms]

What characteristics should a woman have in order to be considered feminine and what characteristics make her masculine? I always saw my grandmother as the most feminine woman I knew. My granddad passed before my birth, she never remarried. She worked full time. Owned her home, did her own yard work and tending her gardens, she cooked, cleaned, handled her business & investments and loved all people. However, I suspect today she would be considered too independent & not feminine.

[@ashyoung8801]

Yes we do I don’t want to be masculine I’m trying to find everything I need to get my husband and family right

[@kezlyndavis5498]

Be the Lion that walks into a lioness life and allow her to take the load off of herself. If you not helping me you are hindering me. Team work makes the dream work!

[@bimbobello8067]

I never knew earning a living was masculine ? Hmmn

[@Brittjb612]

It is ....to the weak

[@courtneyhannah5771]

That's not what he was saying

[@tweetybird1480]

​@@courtneyhannah5771 but that's the example he uses. Had an ex say something once that was the most honest he ever was. "You have your own car, and you have your own place, what do you need me for?" All of a sudden understood all the issues we had. Because his sense of self was only in a perception of if he could do those things for me. And no, I'm not going to pretend I can't do it for myself. I wasn't living on the street when you met me, and I wasn't riding a bicycle. Because in his past relationships, having a girl who needed him to provide those things gave him control. Which is ultimately what he wanted. I asked him for a ride somewhere once and he said no (he was passed about something and I guess this was his attempt to "lay down the law). I didn't worry. Said ok, went and got in Mt car and drove myself. 😂🤣😂. Dude was pissed. The girl before me didn't have a car, wasn't we traveled, lived with her Mom. So whenever he wanted to exert his control, he'd stop helping with those things and she'd fall in line. Bur I wasn't about to cry if you didn't want to give me a ride. I was asking for a ride so we could spend time together. But I can drive myself, and if the car was in the shop, I could always take a cab🤷🏾‍♀️

[@courtneyhannah5771]

@@tweetybird1480 I get where you are coming from 100%, but me personally I felt like he was talking about the way we say things sometimes. Yes you've accomplished many things and may not need a man, but you don't have to throw it in his face especially if we are supposed to be together. I would never tell my man I don't need him because I have a degree, car, house, etc and yes I do think it comes off as masculine.

[@CeeSparks]

​@Courtney Hannah exactly what he's saying. That and a few other examples of what he "thinks" masculinity is..

[@queenkny]

Honestly this whole "masculine" thing is weird, they seemingly want every single woman they encounter to act like a wife but they don't act like husbands unless married. 🤷🏾‍♀️ Insanity

[@MrkendrickH]

Being feminine is acting like a lady not a wife lol smh

[@leonildes86]

If you look up feminine energy you get a lot of definitions that sound like this: Feminine energy is soft, nurturing, and grounded, but don't mistake this for being a pushover. She is soft on the outside, but strong on the inside and exercises her boundaries. No where are you going to find that feminine energy is helpless or the old damsel in distress. A lot of men don’t know what feminine energy is. And a lot don’t know what they want. If a woman wants a man to provide; then she’s a gold digger. If she wants to work; then she’s independent and masculine. What they really want is someone that works, but doesn’t make more than him or doesn’t know her worth. When you have to depend on someone else, you’re basically stuck with whatever behavior they expose. I don’t trust anyone to put myself in that position. So call me independent or modern, but don’t call me masculine.

[@queenkny]

🎯

[@stoplayingwithsin]

Facts!!!!

[@redscorpion9325]

He’s speaking Facts

[@latoyatmissdivasupplies4504]

Thank that lady for allying this fool out 😂 If you are the woman in the relationship then you will attract a masculine woman. Hello! Good evening xoxo

[@PrinceInawRakah]

If y’all both work, who’s the woman in the relationship? 🤔

[@joeydiaz5927]

You’re a fool not the guy in the video. Crazy how you missed his entire point. Smh that why y’all the most undesirable

[@latoyatmissdivasupplies4504]

@@PrinceInawRakah this man would be the woman in the relationship

[@latoyatmissdivasupplies4504]

@@joeydiaz5927 the subject of the video in no way coincide with the point of the video. You like the man are equally lost. That’s why y’all are the bitches in the relationship

[@dm7744]

​@@latoyatmissdivasupplies4504it's not about who works !! It's about her feminity!! Y'all hear what y'all want to hear I swear. Further proving his point.

[@ms.bbseyyay1175]

Absolutely agree to the extent of that is something that she want to be. In some cases she recognizes that the male is not masculine having her to tell him that what you are presenting or displaying to her as a man is not it. Causing her to be in a disbalance in her femininity!🙅🏾‍♀️

[@carriebell3566]

You should care why though….hyper independence is a sign of trauma. Sit on that for a while.

[@theezenriarinze9203]

Your trauma isn't our problem.

[@carriebell3566]

@@theezenriarinze9203 oh you’re highly deluded. Have you ever heard of murder? What do you think murder is? How about theft? Or infidelity. Do you really think trauma doesn’t EVERYONE? That includes you. You are the kind of people that are shocked when people loose their shit, YET people like you helps create that sort of thing. If you think YOU can’t affect those around you, you have some awakening to do, and I pray when you do is in a gentle way.

[@RielinREALife]

It’s not bragging. If a woman had to fend for herself her entire life with no support. It’s embedded in her and have to be unlearned. Have grace for those women.

[@kennadydunn]

I personally think that a lot of modern women are put in positions were they are forced to take on a masculine role I.E single mothers/women, women that work in a male predominant field, etc. and once they take that role that’s all they know. If women weren’t put in positions of having to fill in for absent men we could exuded more feminine energy. If we didn’t have to work, and take care of the kids, while trying to be a mechanic, and a cook etc.… women have to assume many roles. Even down to the simplest things like walking into the grocery store as a woman and a man goes before you just to let the door slam in your face instead of holding it. If you’re a woman and you do your part plus what a man should be doing I feel like you have every right to be proud of that. The I don’t need a man comments, are women clapping for themselves and appreciating the fact that with or without a man shit is gonna get done. More men whenever they see/hear those comments need to learn to not be offended or get defensive but to let that be a driving force and motivate them to be present where they are needed and take on that role so that women don’t have to act as a fill in and ,so that they can be that feminine woman. How do men expect women to be all out feminine when they don’t do their part as men.

[@TheAKD56]

Too much excuse... Like usualy. You chose your men, then divorce and decide to be single mom, most of Time.

[@SwissMissss]

​@@TheAKD56🤦🏿‍♀️🤦🏿‍♀️🤦🏿‍♀️🤦🏿‍♀️🤦🏿‍♀️🤦🏿‍♀️🤦🏿‍♀️🤦🏿‍♀️🤦🏿‍♀️🤦🏿‍♀️🤦🏿‍♀️🤦🏿‍♀️🤦🏿‍♀️🤦🏿‍♀️🤦🏿‍♀️🤦🏿‍♀️

[@HunnieSuckle24]

​@@TheAKD56 So it a woman is widowed, she killed him or did God put him out of his misery? That's pretty much what you said. Most women are not single mothers by choice. It's always the woman but men are supposed to be the leaders of the world. Nothing about men being better humans.

[@deborahfrederick916]

Ooh Girl, you are describing my life. The number of men who have literally walked over me, let a door slam in my face, or kept me waiting at the register where he piled his purchases on the counter, then left to continue. I am literally starting to hate men I don’t even know.

[@joeydiaz5927]

IDGAF you’re making every excuse but not taking any accountability. Women choose trash men and choose to have babies with them.

[@drewwitty2878]

At this point sistas the discussion of female masculinity is a mute point...If after all the dialogue back and forth for over a decade on public platforms like this haven't been able to resolve the disconnect between the two sexes, it's time for brothas to politely grab our collective hats and coats and make way for greener pastures...Respectfully of course- Now I don't speak for all the brothas who have became disillusioned with the prospect of any type of reconciliation with our counterparts, heck I can't say that I speak for a majority, but everyday the gap widens and in the long run,of course, the Willie Lynch philosophy will prove too much for our collective communal consciousness and dissolve the black footprint of America- Brothas are checking out with passports and interracial and/or intercultural relationships...Like it or not sistas, when the men any social construct decide to turn their backs and walk away, it's never a good thing...For both,but especially for the women folk...I just hope that y'all find some group of men that can deal with this cultural phenomenon of female masculinity before it's too late- Have a much blessed day... peace and good luck to you 😎✊🏽

[@NellzBK_]

First of all, "Trying" to be masculine and naturally developing a certain level of masculinity, are 2 different things. Second, if a large majority of women are too masculine these days, who's fault is that? Oh... okay

[@PrinceInawRakah]

If a man is effeminate.. wants a woman to take care of him and be his leader.. wants to be submissive and seek a woman for guidance.. who’s fault is that?

[@NellzBK_]

@Humble servant I know you didn't think you ate with this comment 🤣 SIR, IF MEN ARE SUPPOSE TO BE "LEADERS" AND THE "HEAD", YET HAVE DROPPED THE BALL TIME AND TIME AGAIN... FORCING WOMEN TO TAKE ON A MORE MASCULINE ROLE AS A TRAUMA RESPONSE...THEN HOW IS IT OUR FAULT???? That's low-key victim blaming Sugarfoot.

[@joeydiaz5927]

Society and single mothers taught men to be soft. Now we got a bunch of remind men running around. Thankfully Kevjn Samuels and others are showing men what it is to be a man. Then y’all complain about him too lmfaoooo women will never be happy

[@NellzBK_]

@@joeydiaz5927 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Did you just say KEVIN SAMUELS? I can't even dignify this foolishness with an actual response. Have a great night sir.........

[@joeydiaz5927]

@@NellzBK_ the only women that don’t like kevin samuels are the ones that he warned men about. So thank you for exposing yourself.

[@MichelleRom]

I haven’t heard a woman say “I’m masculine”. I’ve heard a woman say I can take care of myself. I want you, I don’t need you. If that’s a problem, I don’t think it’s the woman’s issue, it sounds like a man needs to be needed but in that case, provide. Make a girl feel feminine.

[@MrkendrickH]

So let me get this right a woman has to say that she masculine in order for her to be masculine lol smh

[@MadAudi]

Real men don’t fear women’s success and don’t shame & label women for working hard and being successful. Only little boys and modern failed men do this.

[@theezenriarinze9203]

Nothing he said was about fear, seems a lot of y'all can't listen 🤣

[@thyshallrunitup5297]

Join my hoop tournament this Saturday with yo masculine self 😂 we need a big that can stretch the floor 😂

[@dm7744]

​@@theezenriarinze9203they don't listen! It's sad and disappointing how so many adults comprehension level is this low!! Like wtf

[@MrkendrickH]

Y'all label yourself as strong independent women not us. Why on earth would anyone fear there spouse success. Sometime y'all say the most dumbest things

[@MadAudi]

@@MrkendrickH You say we are dumb… yet look at what you wrote. You cannot spell. You don’t know grammar. You need to go back to school and take it seriously.

[@NaturalSelection1776]

Where’s the full conversation???

[@MrkendrickH]

For some dumb reason they don't play full episodes they only have short clips even on the KZbin channel

[@cece55toronto55]

he be threatened by a woman who knows herself and wont SUBMIT..I dont like you....

[@MrkendrickH]

She can't beat him up so why would he feel threatened

[@cjzanders5430]

The need vs want argument is a semantics tangent. We know that a feminine woman wants a man to lead, and a masculine woman wants to dominate. That is energy, inflection, and rhetoric he was saying.

[@elizabethhenderson9729]

Women today don't necessarily need a provider. What they want is a partner and emotional intelligence and availability- a lot of men aren't willing to provide that.

[@PrinceInawRakah]

That’s because women can’t describe what any of that is to a man.. it’s vague and open ended language.. What is emotional intelligence? What does a male partner do for you? Since you work and ur busy, what does availability look like? Please explain

[@elizabethhenderson9729]

@Humble servant not playing this game. This is like when a ⚪️ person asks a person of color to explain white privilege or teach them about racism. Emotional intelligence has been a topic of discussion - in BOTH professional and interpersonal spheres - for a few years now. If men really cared to know, they'd be willing to do the work of finding out.

[@joeydiaz5927]

This is false. The majority of women still ask for a provider. They ask for a man that makes as much preferably more. So stop lying. Y’all won’t support a broke man.

[@elizabethhenderson9729]

@@joeydiaz5927 First of all, I wasn't speaking in absolutes and let's also be honest- most men are not happy in a relationship where the woman has more money than they do either.

[@joeydiaz5927]

@@elizabethhenderson9729 exceptions don’t matter. The majority of women want a man to provide for them. Even when they are high earners themselves. Instead of tryna highlight outliers let’s focus on the truth. And also men don’t care if a women makes more than them, what men don’t like are women disrespecting them bc they make more. She can be a millionaire but if she respects, submits and honors her man he won’t have an issue. Your cope is super strong.

[@waitwhat6056]

Listen carefully: He's low-key telling YOU he doesn't see these women as feminine. So right out the gate, if you disagree with anything he says, or are the least bit independent, you're automatically not feminine to him.

[@cr2135]

Calling him "Kevin Samuels" is NOT a insult

[@FreeSpiritInGod]

Obviously it was

[@cr2135]

@@FreeSpiritInGodMaybe to a Feminist eyes. Or a Simps eyes.

[@indsmind7475]

Mmkay

[@Eddy77434]

I really wish they added links to the full video...I want to hear the whole convo

[@JoFlirt]

She got offended because he told the truth

[@tiaradub5926]

I think that the why some of these women are showing this side of themselves is important.

[@LupitaSin21]

Life has made me a hardened person...on the outside because I NEEDED to be, not because I chose to be. I wouldn't consider myself as masculine but being soft has only brought me pain and suffering by those who were supposed to "protect me". I have been independent most of my life but if someone cane along who treated me with kindness and respect, who's loyal and loved me instead of playing with my emotions, I would have no problem submitting to him and giving up my independence for him. I'm not one to say "I don't need a man to..." cuz I do, all women do whether they want to admitted or not, maybe not financially but in many other aspects, we do. I'm not looking for a man at this point of my life but if one comes along like I mentioned, then great. Let's build something together, if not, I guess love wasn't meant for me in this lifetime.

[@MrkendrickH]

Alot of women are in your shoes. Alot of the issues they had in life actually started as a child/teenager. An in there mind those things happened because they were soft, kind, feminine, nice, loving, etc. But in reality it had nothing to do with those things. It was simply because they were a child and had no control over the environment they were placed in or the family they were given. But as an adult you have full control to simply leave bad situation its no need to stick around an fight and be hard. Some of issues may have started as a young adult. It didn't happen because your soft or whatever. It was either because you were imature, naive, gullible, low self esteem, or simply comfortable or addicted to negativity. What women have to realize being hard, putting up a block, or being masculine is going to repeal the type of man you really want. They're not even going to waste their time to attempt to prove to you there worthy. The only man willing to do that are bottom-of-the-barrel because there desperate and have no choice. Women claim they do these things to prevent issues they're trying to avoid but in reality being that way only enhances those issues. So they're constantly in a fight or flight cycle. They don't realize that law of attraction is real.

[@LexxLuther100]

S.I.G.N.’s (Shame, insults, guilt & need to be right) Kevin left us with tools. Notice them fellas

[@calvindproject]

Some are mistaken being able to take care of yourself as masculine. Nooo, it's about how you move and how you speak.

[@adriennelove6999]

Okay ,Ok Now real talk ...👂 Listen up most women do not want to be masculine but when you left with "no choice". Most man won't even hold the door at 7-Eleven unless you got to BBL or look like you did.👀 Let's get it together out here and tell the truth. And there is something about alpha male that makes most ladies more feminine .It's they energy, respect the way they carry their self. 💯 It's not brain surgery!

[@adriennelove6999]

T or F ?

[@Niece88]

Yall got my dude Justin Blue!!!! Big Fan!

[@sfwatxyo2162]

Keep the legend alive. Even the haters can't keep KS outta their mouth 🙌🏾

[@sherylhenderson2836]

I get where men are coming from. Honestly, I feel my degree is something I earned that can never be taken away. That degree gives me direct access to resources that most men don't have access to. As a result of my degree, I make 6 figures, I secured home ownership, and I have able to live in different countries. And I don't have to be worried about a man walking away and taking all those resources with them

[@MrkendrickH]

I wish you women stop with this unnecessary fear that y'all force females to believe. First off this is why marriage is important and not just running around dating people. Men very rarely walk away. 80% of divorces that are filed are by women. So the woman are ones walking away not the man. An if a man walk away the woman is not left with nothing. She will get spousal support if she was a stay at home mom. She can get child support and can even take half of everything that man has.

[@sherylhenderson2836]

@@MrkendrickH Yes, a woman can get spousal support and child support. However, the average man makes $45k. Whatever, the wife gets won't be enough for her and the kids to live on. And he would definitely be shit out of luck. It's a bad situation for everyone.

[@MrkendrickH]

@@sherylhenderson2836 sweetheart you are changing the subject at hand. You were speaking on the fear of a man leaving you and taking all his resources and I was simply explaining that that does not happen to stay at home mothers. Also women who do have the ability to stay at home husbands are not making $45,000 a year he's making a lot more. And people always make this mistake but 45,000 is actually the median income of a black man not the average. Those are two totally different things the average is actually much higher. Plus once you leave your man you simply go get a job it's really just that simple. On top of that you will still also get child support in spousal support. so once again this fear that you guys have is total nonsense if you actually get married and stop laying up with men for years having babies out of wedlock. If black women was as picky about who they marry as they are with who they have kids by they wouldn't be in the situation they're in in the first place.

[@NaturallyDupreea]

Lord! We have to understand what femininity is…I was conditioned to operate in my masculine energy growing up not seeing a feminine woman but as I grew and developed myself more I didn’t want to live in that. Learning how to let go and operate only in your feminine energy is a process but worth it. Taking care of yourself or anything that you desire from a man has nothing to do with you being a feminine woman. Experiences can cause us to want to operate in that masculine energy more but it will only get you masculine results.

[@alicerp2008]

Masculinity is the default status of survival. Group 1. Some women have been put/forced into situations to be in survival mode because they lacked a masculine man to protect and look after them. Group 2. Some women have been taught to be in group survival mode because of older women who where in the first group I mentioned above. Group 3. Some women where moulded to be in the survival mode by their very present father's, because the father's knew how dangerous the world can be for women, so they moulded their daughters to be in survival mode. Either way, it's a man's duty and position as a masculine man to use wisdom to know what type of woman you are dealing with, because ultimately you are accountable for the home. So don't be showing around creating more masculine women🤷‍♀️ And for ladies, we have to be careful of the language we use, such as, we don't need no man, yes we do, and that sentence will never make a man play the position of a loving masculine man, it rather pushes them away. Ultimately, be prepared in your heart and mentally to stop being masculine around the right man.

[@LupitaSin21]

Also, he should definitely care about the "why". He doesn't have to be with that woman, but it would perhaps help men understand why women who are "masculine" are the way they are, truly.

[@jaycrillion7916]

That exactly wat he was talkin bout these females be out of line

[@PawsNPlaymedia]

Fellas the wall is comming and women will regret

[@uwilberforce4628]

Because it proves they will last whether YOU, MAN, ARE THERE OR NOT. WHY, IS THE CORRECT QUESTION, MAN?????

[@MrkendrickH]

Why what?

[@JaniceMba]

He told every part of the truth and when he gave very good examples she didn't like it, proving his point. Why did she have to call him Kevin Samuels, he was simply making a point.

[@151icy]

Thank the lord I married a classic traditional conservative lady from the Bahamas 30 years ago

[@kayjeffs3741]

The fact that someone would describe someone being accomplished and being able to abundantly provide for themselves as masculine...is just...it says a lot.

[@claudiaclarke1466]

Just because women have to be on pt at the job and have to take care of things, you should never, ever doubt that you are needed, wanted and loved!

[@mrhl2008]

bingo, I was searching for this type of comment.

[@josephmakea5383]

You say that so smooth... bitcch switch! Trippin Kevin Samuals

[@thomasjarrett1042]

I don't care if a woman is masculine or not,but when she's with me, she is going to be feminine. Because I have a macho spirit and I'm a real man through and through.

[@thegreatone773]

He’s absolutely correct.

[@CyborgNS6NL]

God Bless KS, she called his name in vain. S.I.G.N language, you can’t make this shit up.

[@Jack-zr3mx]

Cant have a mature conversation with a closed minded women. She called him Kevin Samuels, as if that was an insult. She knows shes in trouble now. Here comes the logic that women refuse to apply.

[@Mayrita77]

American women are very masculine in general. I'm Mexican and I can see the big difference. They have many traits men have, and encourage other women to be like them

[@GetRightGetLeft]

The Dark Winter is coming…

[@phillyraider4927]

When I can get a woman to change her hair style for me❕I know to alway compliment her when she get it done in the style I like, and don’t compliments when she change it up❕

[@JustTheConcerts]

This dude is talking truth. One of the main issues is today's women have fallen prey to the poisonous feminist movement of today. Feminism use to be something good and helped women to get equal rights. Then, once that happened, it turned to women don't need men at all, and worse yet, women can be men. Men and women compliment each other and both have different strengths and weaknesses. That when they come together the right way, form a dynamic duo. Ways to have a great relationship turn into a great marriage is to always put God first. Husbands should love their wives like Christ loved the church. Husbands submit to God, and wives submit to their husband. Both are equally important. Submission is a good thing and not meant for men to walk all over a woman or have some power over her. It's all about relationships. Just like God, Jesus and the Holy Spirit. 1 God in 3 different positions. Right now marriage rates are at about 50%, if you're a Christian couple, it goes down to 25%, if you also save yourself for marriage, it goes down to 10%.

[@jessicaseaton5855]

I feel like he's equating being independent with being masculine. Being able to take care of yourself is important for men and women. And very few ppl want to date someone who can't take care of themselves. Same dudes who will say this would be mad if she showed up to the first date with no money 🤣.

[@shevonnesmith6881]

Well having a job and not haveing a reliance on anyone is why we gravitated towards masculine which is more important than what some men like. I'll be feminine in the bed room. I'm a boss for my life, health and wellbeing. I was married for 15years. I will never be submissive to a man ever again it ruined my life letting a man take control 😂its fine thanks outside the bedroom it my degree it is my job that need's me to be masculinity to reep the rewards. Its just the society we have respectful made 😔 if there was space in the world to be feminine and still make money we would but that's not the world we live in.

[@underthablud]

KEVIN SAMUELS - IS THAT YOU IN THE HAT? Returned from hell to continue the torture huh.

[@michaelparker9860]

WINTER is here

[@champaignegallagher8313]

He shouldn't have to "look" for it. If they are compatible, then he would bring that out of her. She would bring masculinity out of him. In finding our partners I believe that our best self is brought to the surface.

[@MrkendrickH]

This notion that you women love to claim that a man should bring out your feminine side is outrageous. If a man was to tell you I'm feminine but if you bring it out of me I can be masculine the vast majority of women would not accept that so it blows my mind that you women believe we should smh

[@champaignegallagher8313]

@@MrkendrickH I'm sorry. I guess I should've said emotions and behaviors associated with being feminine and masculine. Just like meeting the right person makes you want to be the best version of yourself.

[@andreas956]

It's about being allowed to be the man in the relationship. To be the leader, to be the protector, to be the rock while the woman brings out her nurturing and caring side which is so beautiful. I have seen relationships with strong men that does all of this but the women can not allow herself or her man to be in that masculine position, she constantly competes about that position. Her femininity is not there and she does not allow the man to be masculine and just like that the polarity goes away. Then later you here both of them arguing about irrelevant details when the obvious cause is never tackled. Women can continue being stubborn and keep doing this, but they will not find a truly happy relationship this way.

[@EmanStrong36]

Case in point

[@MissTaylorMade101]

Most of them aren’t “alpha” or “masculine” they’re just hurt af and trying not to look weak

[@kraven8525]

She prove his point right at the end

[@haleygamere1239]

Well, we looking for masculine men👀

[@omotanwa2986]

The really is most men are not doing their jobs to help the women. So what are we supposed to do? Sit there and cry or go work?

[@MrkendrickH]

Most men make middle class income or higher. So what exactly do you mean most men are not doing their job?

[@kitejohnson515]

@@MrkendrickHthey’re not providing for women the bills have to be paid. If you’re not doing it I have to do it to survive I don’t get what you guys are not getting do you want t see wmen destitute and desperate just so you can feel powerful?

[@wolfdogg9938]

We say that so you walk away if you don't like it. I would rather be ghosted after the first date than find out you expect me to change in six months.

[@MondoSzn]

I don’t care why I just don’t like it facts homie

[@atlsongbyrd6084]

No! I don’t have degrees or more money etc. However, my personality has always been more masculine than the average female. That doesn’t mean that I don’t need a man! That also doesn’t mean that I don’t wanna be more feminine.

[@JoshNtheedrifter]

What he is saying is that- instead of focusing on bragging about "taking care of yourself", as an adult... He's saying, that he wants a woman to focus on not being a man mentally. So many are focusing on the wrong thing- which is why one in four black women are married and are THE LOWEST percentage of married women in USA 🤯 Suitcase marriages in the building! ✊🏾

[@JoFlirt]

He's right

[@joeshmoe0136]

This is going to sound really stupid, but please humour me. What does this man mean by "masculine" Women? Because to me it sounds like a woman being an adult and being responsible for herself.

[@SaturnRae]

I feel like men should stop looking at the masculine women and start looking at the feminine woman and go that way! They are just more relaxed than us working and shrug my shoulders wish we could be more feminine!

[@midoscent]

Dude just shared his intimidation... bragging about accomplishments is not a masculine trait

[@jeseverage-allen570]

Men should want to be needed not want to be needed. One implies choice the other a must do. I need you because you enrich me or I need you because I can't make the bills.

[@jayaddy8044]

YOU NEED MEN FOR A FAMILY!!!!!

[@MrkendrickH]

It's sad how women look at men as nothing but dick an a wallet. Because the only thing you guys say is that you don't need a man because you can pay your own bills as if a man is only good for paying bills. I don't understand why you women don't see how unattractive that is. If a man constantly was around you talking about how strong and independent he is and how he don't need you. Talking about all the stuff he got you would be totally turned off from that guy so why on Earth would you think we wouldn't be turned off with you women doing the same thing?

[@thomasgregory5452]

He spoke truth.

[@djames6255]

Where is this full video? I gotta see it

[@thyshallrunitup5297]

Word!