Are the Straights Ok...?

[@Aristogeiton367]

The people who seem to dislike their partners don’t make sense to me…No ones forcing you to be in a relationship…. Like the jokes about silencing women….why are you with someone if you don’t like when they speak and the way that they think. Don’t date women if you hate women. It’s simple.

[@wallytomlins]

Kids

[@sofia_aa]

My take on this is that their only interest is the social status (aka not being a loser) and having frequent sex with someone who is more likely to say yes.

[@plama8920]

@@irisieor they don't want relationship, just sex but they just end up married for some reason??? I don't understand it...

[@tasheve3015]

i’ve met SO many older people who talk about their partners like they hate them. “he sees his mates more than me haha!🤣” “would be nice to have some help around the house🤣” “we tolerate each other🤣” like you sound so miserable? no love or affection at all. but they’ve been together so long they can’t imagine anything else

[@chloebrown9106]

No it's actually so weird. I watched many guy friends of mine go all out on Valentine's day. Like they were completely in love and obsessed with making their gf/situationship happy so then to watch all these middle aged men shit on their wives like they want a divorce is such a strange contrast. If you hate your partner don't stay with them the jokes aren't funny they're sad and embarassing.

[@alinageorgiana8582]

why do these couples act as if their marriages are against their will? like hello no one made you say “i do” with a gun pointed to your head

[@cakebatter5555]

RIGHT JUST SAY U DONT LIKE THEM??

[@strawberryshortcake4345]

Until you're in a country where arranged marriages are common but even there, if you don't wanna marry that person you can just say no, if your parents are understanding enough they'll let you cancel it, so really can't see much of an excuse for this.

[@buckyyyb]

@@strawberryshortcake4345they’re not talking about different countries. they’re talking about couples that hate each other and act like they have to be together

[@strawberryshortcake4345]

@@buckyyyb yeah yeah I'm aware, I was merely just bringing up another possible perspective, because men tend to badmouth their wives in these cultures too, Hating your spouse who you married on your own accord is stupid as hell Just don't utter the words "I do" and leave.

[@buckyyyb]

@@strawberryshortcake4345 yeah yeah we’re aware. But given what they’re talking about, it’s not that. It is the topic of the video.

[@maryfrancess93]

Every time ive said "why marry/stay with someone who makes you miserable?" And mention that its not healthy i have ALWAYS gotten that patronizing headshake and been told " its like this for everyone. One day youll learn. Youre just immature. Thats just how life is" Like, are they are so deep in their bullshit that they cant even imagine genuinely loving their spouse and get angry when someone else does. Why just accept misery?

[@FruityHachi]

because misery loves company people glorify struggle love instead of learning communication and interpersonal skills there's even a ted talk "why you will marry the wrong person", basically saying to just accept your partner's emotional immaturity and insecure attachment style

[@e.s.r5809]

I literally don't think they know they're supposed to be friends.

[@joelleash8873]

Literally. My husband is my best friend, and I actually enjoy being around him and admire him for so many reasons-obviously, I married him. I just don’t understand this sentiment at all of hating your spouse but staying with them. Choose happiness every time

[@tdb517]

Cause it's the price to payfor having a stable family.

[@maryfrancess93]

@@tdb517 I don't think you understand what the word stable means

[@zackxeno1019]

I will never understand why some dads will literally threaten to shoot other guys for looking at their daughters funny yet they want their sons to impregnate as many women as possible like do they want grandkids or not

[@AngelinaParker]

It just reminds me of when the Maury Povich show was on TV. The episodes where they have teenage girls saying they want a baby and are having sex with a bunch of guys, yet they never had teenage boys on the show too, saying they are having sex with a bunch of women and wanting to impregnate them. Like they're doing the same thing the girls are doing, why not have boys on the show too. Hmmmmm it's as if, society as a whole hates women/girls so much, and let men/boys have passes for things hmmmmm.

[@wolfder6661]

It's weird limbo where father are super protected over their Daughters and really loose with thier sons

[@sakurayankishi9708]

It's the emotional incest and double standards for me

[@zackxeno1019]

@@sakurayankishi9708 I was honestly thinking the same I just didn't wanna jump to conclusions

[@reynellfreeman8761]

because from a dads point of view they raised their son to use a condom and pull out seriously no dad wants their son to be a dad at 16 on a more cynical point if the daughter says no she the boy can force it if the son says no the girl can't force him

[@hiimspee828]

"love is love, even if it's heterosexual" so brave, so accepting. We The Straights, are feeling very seen. ty Emily.

[@nuclearpancake3683]

Im bi and an ally ✊

[@aarasko]

I’m gay and an ally

[@kaehihi]

lesbian and an ally🙏🙏

[@Basicgenz]

I'm bi and ally 🙏

[@Sronya]

Im Lesbian and an ally 🙏🩷

[@tooth.face.]

“We’ve been trying for a baby!” I don’t need to know about your sex life brenda

[@abbygraham9743]

this is so real

[@highsourjamapple9141]

Like I'm not your doctor don't tell me that 😭

[@shampooedcows]

the blackmail story put me into anaphylactic* shock

[@xXArcherSwordXx]

same, but instead of epileptic shock, it induced a violent nausea for me

[@cakebatter5555]

RIGHTTT

[@cakebatter5555]

omg I actually feel so bad for that girl. she’s a victim. omg.

[@purpleflowers8723]

Yeah that was so terrifying, I'd rather d!e than have this happen to me

[@purpleflowers8723]

@dylanrodrigues true

[@PillowPrincess-cc1ze]

It's not a joke anymore, it's an honest concern.

[@g00dbunny]

fr like a lot of these "are the straights ok" people are nice until you tell them ur gay. like are they okay???? they okay?? yall need help??

[@fredrikchristmansson3700]

🤡🤡🤡

[@Amyshp]

I’m straight and even im concerned 😐

[@Mitchell.Gus.2007]

@@g00dbunny I'm really confused by what you mean in this comment. Am I being stupid or does this make no sense. I'm not trying to be hateful btw💙

[@g00dbunny]

@@Mitchell.Gus.2007 what do you mean ur confused

[@kubgamez]

Dads being so toxically protective 9/10 times is 1000% projection from who they are/were.

[@DanaTheInsane]

Because that dad was a horny stupid teenage boy at one point. This is true of most men. He knows what that guy wants. And he doesn’t care if he hurts your daughter to get it either.

[@hikki134]

no

[@nyah-bu1sc]

it could also be because of what they experienced and witnessed growing up. i hear about that a lot.

[@augustuslunasol10thapostle]

Id disagree id say its 4/10 the other 6 are seeing what others did

[@drakemartin2252]

They are afraid that boys are gonna treat their daughters the way they treat girls

[@OO-dq6dp]

Or when parents go 'he's/she's gonna get all the boys/girls when they grow up, haha.' And it's literally a 7 year old😕

[@negligible_reality]

no fr, because my 3 year old cousin gets treated like this by his mom. she calls him a "chick magnet" (unironically, and being dead serious), talks about how he's gonna get so many girls when he starts school, and even talks about his "girlfriend" (literally just a random girl that he sometimes plays with at daycare). it's really creepy and disturbing behavior imo, but it's unfortunately very common.

[@theshire9173]

Yeah, it’s weird how accepted that is. It’s also not healthy to assume your child will be strait. Back when I was a toddler, my parents thought that I would date my brother’s friends in high school purely because I’m female and his friends were presumed to be male. Turns out I’m aroace, never dated his friends, and he has female friends

[@fluffyspheal]

For my neice everyone is the same with her. Blonde hair and blue eyes, and they tease her about a boy in her class she plays with. And this little 6 year old told me one day "im sick of auntie (my sil) saying i have a boyfriend! Barrett is just a friend!" A little girl shouldnt be worried about that stuff!!

[@_LemonLimeade_]

@OfficerZ637Did you choose to be straight? It works the same way.

[@kaorusgf2804]

⁠@OfficerZ637Just a reminder that this is why you have no friends your family doesnt talk to you and you arent allowed to go near people on a 100 meter radius

[@Shindai]

People really need to get better at breaking up when things aren't working instead of sticking around for decades resenting their spouse like this. This made me more sad than anything tbh

[@wonderwalledit]

I totally agree. It's really disheartening to see 😢.

[@cakebatter5555]

righttt

[@Patsanford220]

Sadly I’ve learned in my early 40s that the older people get in a marriage and have kids, the less time they spend connecting with each other and then it’s all about the kids til college. Many couples stop having sex and even sleeping in the same room/bed. They start having affairs but stay in the marriage “for the kids “ even if the home environment (and if this is happening, there’s definitely some tension and fighting at home) is really toxic for any child to grow up in. They’re terrified of divorce and losing half their assets so they stay miserable for the rest of their lives. This is my parents, my brother, an asshole who groomed me who I worked with, a former coworker, etc etc. I’ve seen it way too much and it’s really depressing tbh.

[@z3onix]

fr

[@PureRythm]

​@@Patsanford220but I think it's changing. I hope so...

[@alyssiaschiess]

6:40 straight people will get upset about “gay people flaunting their sexuality everywhere” but wear shit like that loud and proud

[@b19wing]

Help true

[@highsourjamapple9141]

They also complain how gay people are happy living their lifes and go out of their way to say "gay people ruin everything" when it has nothing to do with gay people

[@thanos6346]

The stigmatization of the discussion of mental health and its consequences have been a disaster for middle-aged heterosexuals.

[@wonderwalledit]

I agree 👌

[@StanTwiceee314]

you've commented this so many times im starting to think you're only trying to convince yourself.. "being gay is a choice and I am not making that choice!!" like grow upppp@OfficerZ637

[@maisogyny]

@OfficerZ63787 comments ouuu you mad

[@iclynnx]

​@OfficerZ637 Look, a bisexual in denial ☝️

[@brogr5464]

Is this a Teddy K reference

[@Spicypepperjackcheese]

I love when the straights trauma dump in the form of multiple different fonts and "live laugh love" paragraph format. They're just so extra and spicy like that

[@Turquerina]

​@OfficerZ637Honey... If I could, I'd choose to be gay any day but I'm afflicted with the hetero curse so it is what it is.

[@verdehue6319]

@OfficerZ637the correct choice

[@demetriam2408]

​@@verdehue6319my bisexual ass on an "are you gay" quiz

[@starfulmemory]

@OfficerZ637Oh god yes!! I wanna be hated!

[@Mikey-jv5fv]

No fr because who hurt this man and why is he making “keep calm and carry on” posters about it instead going to therapy???

[@ravenartistofficial]

As a bi girl in a hetero relationship, no the straights are NOT okay. It’s like people can’t grasp the concept of a male bisexual and a female bisexual dating either, it’s hilarious!

[@alyssaakabob]

As a fellow bi with a bi partner, I agree

[@chemillustrator7499]

as well as the idea of a male asexual dating a female asexual lol

[@Moon-vn1rq]

@@chemillustrator7499 literally, people can't understand you can love someone without it being sexual

[@chemillustrator7499]

@@Moon-vn1rq also the ideas that make asexuals exist since all men has to be testosterone junkies haha

[@b19wing]

@@chemillustrator7499right???? Like asexual and aromantic people can have relationships they are just different

[@slytherinlady3907]

“oh haha are the straights ok we’re just gonna be laughing at nagging wife jokes” i was not prepared for some of these outright disturbing posts

[@strawberryshortcake4345]

I really only thought there would be nagging wife jokes T_T

[@-flo4688]

Most people underestimate the normalization of misogyny tbh

[@mahifishie]

real..

[@wonderhoyami]

Hatsune sou....

[@Vindicador01]

Women have it so easy

[@moviemania23]

As a hetero man that manages men, it is in fact like raising children. It boggles my mind how much of my day is spent asking "what are you doing?, why did you leave that there? Why didn't you clean up after yourself?, why do you choose to not be responsible?

[@cookiesnbubbles]

Us women much appreciate the additional validation!

[@moviemania23]

@@cookiesnbubbles yeah I really don't like being lumped in with them 🤣

[@TrineDaely]

Raised and released two husbands, thank you!

[@scottbuck1572]

@@TrineDaelyWhy? Why would ANYONE date another person that is incapable of basic adult functioning?!?!?? Like if I was talking to a woman, and she expected me to clean her laundry because she doesnt know how, shes not getting clean clothes until she is willing to learn and do it herself. If shes not willing to learn, Im not willing to be in the relationship. Like being single and lonely is better than being an on-demand servant lol

[@Crazyhead432]

You’re not a good manager then

[@kalinaribic6383]

"10 reasons why men prefer guns over women"? Fine. 2 can play THAT game. " Top 10 reasons why women prefer cats over men".

[@Rozeline9]

Love how they always use cats as a insult as well 😂

[@ZeroTheFianceeToSolospell]

@rosemilan3149 men often dont do that, its more so women than men lmfao

[@kysim]

​@@ZeroTheFianceeToSolospell assaulting people? Lmao sure because that's definitely what the statistics say

[@ZeroTheFianceeToSolospell]

@@kysim 😂 thats alot of stupidity if you think those statistics arent just a mass of false reports, and its been normalized to abuse men, specifically emotionally, so they likely wont report it. women often get away with shit and if they are caught, its often a less sentence compared to a man's.

[@ZeroTheFianceeToSolospell]

@@kysim women get away with disrespecting men aswell but okay lmfao

[@Vixhilia]

I don’t get how these types of guys can sit here and make jokes about how terrible being married is and how much they hate their wives when they were the ones getting down on one knee proposing. Why get married if you don’t even like the person you’re with

[@negligible_reality]

societal pressure to get married and have kids; that's literally the only reason these types of men decide to go through with it, despite how obvious it is that both them and their wives would be much happier and better off if they didn't.

[@Rozeline9]

I just feel sorry for their wives.

[@Smanaha]

RIGHT like, this is no way to live and I think deep down they know that!!!

[@Layleyy._.]

Because it’s a joke

[@sakurayankishi9708]

@@Layleyy._. Everything is a joke at this point, you people need new material

[@alisha-9889]

The voice crack when you said “so romantic” is killing me😭😭 10/10 comedic delivery

[@wwandmitski]

timestamp pls?

[@alisha-9889]

@@wwandmitski9:27

[@wwandmitski]

@@alisha-9889 thank u!

[@maxnibler6090]

Regarding that disturbing marriage story, people in abusive relationships and their children are usually going to normalize their situation and reject evidence that what they are experiencing is problematic. I just feel sorry for that family and I hope things work out for them

[@catwithabighat773]

Specifically Catholic straights for this story - I was talking to a friend of my parent's and he was talking about how Catholics tend to have a lot of children. His response was "Well, if you have trauma, push it down, because having a child is going to fix everything." My mum laughed. I was horrified.

[@cakebatter5555]

WHAT

[@catwithabighat773]

@@cakebatter5555 literally exactly my response

[@Kensuke22]

Jesus Christ!

[@danika9411]

Yeah I heard something similar, but the petson was orthodox...

[@Sarah-re7cg]

I was raised Catholic. I’m ex-Catholic. This sounds about right. I think they’re a bunch of sadists who get off on child abuse. They have a bunch of children they probably don’t even actually want and that they can’t afford and then they also force everyone else to (even preteen r word victims) to remain pregnant and I genuinely can’t make any sense of it other than they’re sadists who enjoy abusing as many children possible.

[@AKbaby89]

My (incredibly abusive) ex husband blackmailed me into marrying him, so hearing that story is crazy to me. Everyone around me tried to get me out of my relationship because he abused me in front of them. So hearing that a family thinks that their story is cute or even normal is scary.

[@edayavuz1667]

I'm sry for u but no one has to go through that in order to know that right? At this point living such a horrible experience themselves won't change their minds anyway... They're just lost causes

[@AKbaby89]

@edayavuz1667 no, I never said someone has to experience it to know it's wrong. I was just saying I have experienced it, but the people around me acted the complete opposite, so it was weird to see. I'd really hope someone wouldn't have to experience abuse to see it's wrong🤷‍♀️

[@edayavuz1667]

@@AKbaby89 exactly but seeing this reaction shows u how little their capacity is to empathize and they'll prob never understand the problem with this by feeling empathy. So that's why telling them those stories alone won't help u rly have to spell everything out for them. U have to tell them that women are ppl and no human being deserves this. U rly have to take the time and go to the basics with those ppl

[@duazia9737]

I really hope you're okay now..

[@lav3nder.bxrbiee334]

I'm so sorry you went through that. I hope you're ok now. I wish you the best.

[@swimfastky4136]

“He cheated so I threw his moms ashes in the River” is absolutely crazy

[@Chukz05]

do u think that's a bit too far?

[@pannajohns5255]

Can we pls talk about how disgusting it is, when I see videos of literal toddlers of the opposite sex hold hands, and you get comments like ‘Bros a player/has a harem’ is such a weird thing to say, it’s not even a ‘joke’ it’s just really weird 😭

[@Mary-Ann_B_Mabaet]

Maybe there should be a word for "Cousin of Pedophile, that wants Children to have Relationships too early" because what in actual fuck!

[@fogisherenow]

Just leave the kids alone

[@MossTunic]

i had some customers who were a young married couple while i was ringing them up talking about their daughters friend. the wife was smiling saying the boy lights up when she (the daughter) is there & they're so sweet with eachother. the husband can only be described as genuinely crestfallen (i never use this word, it's just the only word that does it justice 😭) saying that, "i thought there would be more time..." hearing more details as the wife talks more, & i shit you not, the daughter was not even a year old. LESS THAN A YEAR OLD. they are talking about infants being hetero romantic & all the sexual pressure of that... like, would the dad not be just happy his daughter is having fun in daycare if it wasn't for him already seeing any kind of boy & girl interaction being sexual in some way. there is no other explanation for how sad & worried he was in reaction to an innocent little story.

[@blue-dabad33]

that genre of pictures of a baby boy (like a literal infant) looking at a woman's chest and the caption being like "lol men will be men hur hur hur" I fuckin hate them so much 😭

[@ZeroTheFianceeToSolospell]

gay people are the ones doing that, tf are you on?

[@theshire9173]

I heard that the reason for many of these types of posts is because the right to no-fault divorce is relatively recent. Back then, if you fell out of love with your spouse, you couldn’t do anything about it unless they were abusive or cheated on you, so people would make these jokes because they were stuck in loveless marriages. Nowadays, young people tend to look down on this type of humor because we know that if you hate your spouse, you could divorce and it would be for the best for both of you

[@Patsanford220]

That makes so much sense!! Also before the Violence against women act was passed in 1993 (coincidentally one mr joe Biden was responsible for that, and i am not trying to be political!) rape and abusing your wife WERE NOT ILLEGAL. So that could also be part of the surprisingly violent tone of those old school remarks!

[@Patsanford220]

@dylanrodrigues he was responsible for pushing the bill through congress at the time. He did have allegations against him which I’m not sure what happened. Honestly I just said that as an incidental fact, not trying to bring politics into it! Just pointing out that violence against women was a lot more “accepted” in our society in the not so distant past.

[@emilyb.8219]

Some states are working on rolling back no-fault divorce laws. I think it was Oklahoma I saw recently that was trying to pass a bill to make divorce much, much harder, which is utterly horrifying for so many reasons.

[@PureRythm]

But is it easier to get a divorce in today's times tho??

[@sarah_757]

Often abuse was not grounds for divorce. The wife and kids just needed to pray more and that would fix the problem.

[@fludrew_9257]

BRO that gun sign was in a literal store in colorado and my mom and i were so mad. it was in the women’s bathroom

[@sophialouisa2232]

Eskiuzmi?!😭

[@b19wing]

HELPPPP THATS ALARMING

[@loveline119]

im so glad you didn't equate hating women to being gay! 😭 i hate when people make that correlation, its just insensitive and plain wrong.

[@roxassora2706]

Some gays are sexist, though.

[@Mandango]

IKR??? Like those instances when a guy would literally shit talk women into the ground and then be like “omg no homo tho😂” bro where was the homo you are just being misogynistic

[@thealluringmysticc]

Thank you!! I hear this all the time, especially from straight women.

[@llamaconiglietto2633]

In some cases of domestic abuse from men to women it's because they're sexually repressed so actually it does have a correlation, not all the time, but sometime yes

[@thealluringmysticc]

@@llamaconiglietto2633 But here’s the thing, closeted gay men are not hating women because they’re repressed, what they hate is the situation that they’re in. Of course this doesn’t excuse abusive behavior, but abuse doesn’t equate to hating women either.

[@cherryflavoredplaylist753]

I saw a comment the other day under a post abt men shopping for their gfs the night of Valentine’s Day and a man commented “ ugh, I bought her gifts all for her to just go to sleep“ and implying he wanted her to have s*x w him because of what he got her.. I rlly hope his gf saw that comment

[@Amiyuu0]

oh my god

[@jeanivanjohnson]

nonono, you don't get it, he bought her sleeping pills as a gift because she had a lack of sleep. what a nice guy, he cares about her sleeping habits!

[@maryfrancess93]

I remember asking my male coworkers for ideas of gifts for my ex boyfriend once. I asked "what do you usually get for your girlfriends?" They laughed like it was a stupid question to ask. Then said "what do you think?" When I asked them if they really thought sex was all they had to offer they were genuinely confused. Like, imagine not caring enough to give an actual heartfelt gift but instead thinking just your dick itself is The Gift.

[@portraitofman2063]

Yes, because it’s so unreasonable for someone to want to, or anticipate sleeping with their partner on Valentine’s Day…smh

[@SunnyMinty12]

No. ( And read all of it before you say something. And I swear if I get a " I ain't readin allat " I'm genuinely gonna lose more hope In men and humanity in general 😭😭 )It's because men see S3X as something they're owed. For "being a good boyfriend or husband or whatever and buying you whatever you want or something. Arnt the point of women to have S3X with men to please them or something and have kids" when half the dang time men do the bare minimum for their wife or girlfriend. And when we get suspicious because men LOVE cheating to get as much S3X as possible, all of a sudden we are overdramatic?? And yes, some women take it way too far, but a good amount of us don't??? And then the pull the "after all I've done for you??" Card when we get tired of their crap. Along with the "women need men for everything cuz they are weak or somin" which is funny, because in the wild, men live shorter lives that women! Same with humans, too. Men also very often get k!113d off by the women because they know they just cause problems. Take bees for example. The worker bees are female. And the drones are male. The drones have no stingers, can't do any heavy hive work, and just sit around waiting for the queen to let them mate with her. Similar to real men, huh? The females take care of the kids, Build the hives, make the queens, defend the hives, get food for them all, and the men just take up space. They mate with a queen, then die. That's their purpose, and we acknowledge it in the wildernes, but in humans, we try to swap it up. The woman k!11 the men during winter, because it's just more mouths to feed. Female praying mantises eat the heads of their mate after mating, similar to how if a male jumping spider can't impress a potential mate, they get k!113d and eaten. The men just take up space and be, well, selfish like they are by nature at this point. Lionesses Hunt, protect the kids, and feed them along with keeping them safe and grooming them. Much like most men can't cook and just eat their gf or wives food, male lions just steal half of the dang food from the women AND THE CHILDREN, and attack other males because they are interested in 'their lioness' similar to how men just love to claim women as their own, then proceed to abuse them. And you wonder why there is a rise in lesbians? Because women are finally starting to realize men are kinda useless if they can't do anything but beg you to have S3X with them, and abuse you, so why keep em? And I'm not supporting the KAM campaign ( if ykyk ) but I'm starting to wonder if it was warranted. Yes, it was overly aggressive, but c'mon men are starting to get on our nerves. And wonder how men responded? RAW campaign. Yes, KAM was stupidly aggressive, but that was just straight up illegal on every level. Though, I'm going to say, women do need men to reproduce, nature has made it obvious that men's purpose was to reproduce then die after, so I'm saying men want to swap that up because they are selfish and want power. Though, it's wrong to treat anyone like that honestly. And the factor of men saying S3X is the only way to reproduce, yet if you go back to biology class ( and go back to school fully cuz a lot of men and women are just -1000 braincelled idiots ), you just need a sp3rm sample, and a fertile egg. And I'm not saying all men are like that, because assuming the commenter is male or nonbinary, they obviously aren't like that. But your user just gives the kind of person you are away bud. @@portraitofman2063

[@vibing_person]

2:16 that seems like some 40-50 year old who got salty from being rejected by someone who knows where

[@tomlxyz]

Or someone that age in a marriage with poor communication

[@Louise_Moura]

As someone who lives in a household full of them, I can affirm They are, in fact, not

[@ladylabelle0407]

@OfficerZ637i didnt choose to struggle here 😨

[@Louise_Moura]

@OfficerZ637 why would someone CHOOSE to like *men*? Ew

[@robertbearden785]

⁠@@Louise_Mourasounds like you’re making fun of gay men lol

[@Louise_Moura]

@@robertbearden785 lol it's the opposite, gay men are the living proof thaf sexuality is not a choice

[@PureRythm]

​@@Louise_Mouraoh, so you hate men..got it!!

[@nuronurio]

Girl I love your hair in this video you look so good and those rings definitely deserved a mention, you look STUNNINGGGG

[@chouetteboi3826]

Omgg yes. I just clicked on the video and omg she looks so chic and classy. So stunning

[@soniyashi]

She really did. I stay for her sass and humor. Her always looking so nice is the best icing.

[@XxxXgggi]

@OfficerZ637right.. So being straight is a choice too, if you think it's a choice then maybe you might need to do some revaluation.

[@TheMarshmallowMushroom]

if some guys dislike women so much... why date them in the first place???

[@Rerianyah]

BECAUSE THEY SEE WOMEN AS OBJECTS AND CORN CATEGORY , PRODUCT

[@Elidessinnn]

Then date men

[@Imtiredofyourbs]

Because they want sex and someone to have power over They'd gladly have a sex slave if it was legal

[@hanshysher6266]

I dont get why men that date women hate women, and women that date men hate men. Maybe they sgould just be gay/lesbian

[@ayo3181]

The number one pet peeve of mine is when people say "JUST ADMIT YOU LIKE MEN" whenever they come across a misogynistic guy. Hating women doesn't equate to being gay. Like, don't combat misogyny with homophobia.

[@honestlyali27]

I agree but I think a lot of ppl say it to make them mad like, "how do you hate women and like women... you must be gay 😜" bc guys who are misogynistic are usually homophobic

[@Arginne]

@@honestlyali27uhmmm there is a lot of gay men who are misogynists

[@Arginne]

Yea a lot of men hate women so bad they become gay. Maybe you never heard the way some gay men talk about women but I have.

[@honestlyali27]

@@Arginne i know, but that's totally irrelevant. im not saying people who are misogynistic are always straight and homophobic, but usually when a guy is misogynistic and straight, he's also homophobic. at least that's the reasoning of the ppl who say that

[@mhawang8204]

I know this is not what you meant, but I believe many men say stuff like in this video to seek approval from other men. So in a way, they do like men more than women. Women are the same as cars, guns, and toys that they can put on a scorecard and show off to other men.

[@the_day_you_try388]

im a straight guy and i broke up with my gf a few months ago. tbh, stepping back, and not really being part of that whole community of couples has really helped me to realized how f*cked up this generation of couples is, and also my own mistakes. like, can everyone just like... be in a relationship with someone they seem to like. we all really need to work on our communication skills!

[@joeschmo4646]

It’s never gonna happen. It’s over, in fact it’s never been more over.

[@the_day_you_try388]

@@joeschmo4646 respectably, i disagree dude. i think people just need to look beyond their own egos and see change within themselves. it most certainly is possible. i personally just think people need to be careful with their influences, especially from the media. while change is difficult, it can certainly happen :), i'm sorry for whatever experiences you went through, though. i promise you however, that people are absolutely capable of change. i'm a person who came from a place i never thought i would be able to come back from. and yet, after humbling myself, extensive therapy, daily gym workouts, meditation, and LOTS of mindfulness, i am the happiest i have ever been, and i understand myself even better than before. we all have the ability to change, we just have to look beyond ourselves :) i wish you the best man, much love.

[@cocosulx9282]

​@@joeschmo4646nah, newer generations will learn from our mistakes just like we learnt from the mistakes of those before us

[@scottbuck1572]

@@joeschmo4646Straight facts. I am never dating again, I literally cant deal with all of these children that some how made it to their mid-twenties with no life skills

[@yoachim91]

As a fellow straight man with a wife, yeah when the pressure came off marriage and children, our parents and grandparents forgot to put in place a new structure, that is why you see marriage fase out and so many relationships go wrong. Now people start doing their own thing till they find someone they are realy compatible with or till they developed. It's realy weird to see, like my niece is 25 she still lives at home has no stable job, no boyfriend, no plans. I am 32 and when i was 25 i had a running business for 6 years and i was a new father... Both men and women need to learn that we communicate different and we need to come to a consensus of what a good relationship looks like without being extreme and teach it to the children in school and literally make a class for relationships at home, at work, we don't do enough of that stuff and let everyone just run into a ravine.

[@beraudmusic]

Omg the meet cute story. Those kids are so traumatizing they think their dad’s behavior is normal and quirky.

[@_Yeeboi_]

People like the examples on the video always talk about how gay marriages is "unhealthy" but then they would go around and support the most toxic and abusive straight couple relationships or be in a miserable 30 years relationship and somehow see it as more healthy than two guys who love and respects each other and never talking about abandoning their children. Why cant people just be in a healthy relationship or even not feel obligated to be in one?

[@randomfan4966]

It reminds me of when the U.S. fought with this one government that was terrible to its people just because it wasn’t communist… I think it was in the Vietnam war..

[@soullesscadmium30]

I'd like you to know that my brother came into my room just in time to hear "I believe that love is love, even if it is heterosexual" with no prior context. The amusingly baffled look of "what the fuck" he gave me caused me to pause the video and lie face down on the ground for two minutes, laughing uncontrollably. Thank you, gods of perfect comedic timing.

[@DevikaBTS-qu4op]

"they would love it if I was silent. So actually, I have a lot of words and I'm gonna say it out loud" YES GIRL

[@cloudbankcity]

i talk about this with my bestie all the time... i HATE the narrative of straight guys being like "ahh women are so hard to figure out" or like these jokes about "what she says vs what she actually means" like just be normal and treat women like a f*ckin person?? it's not that hard!!! just f*cking communicate with your partner? in my experience as a gay guy, women are usually easier to talk to bc they aren't afraid to talk about their feelings (as much) and i feel like you can have deeper conversations more quickly/easily 😭

[@cloudbankcity]

@OfficerZ637 oh buddy i WISH it was... i would love to be bi but when did you choose to be straight?

[@cloudbankcity]

@OfficerZ637 IDGAF

[@STEPHxCA]

probably because they keep choosing to continue talking to toxic women, one of my previous coworkers was like that until I + other people started holding her accountable

[@sakurayankishi9708]

@OfficerZ637 You buddy

[@sakurayankishi9708]

@OfficerZ637 Be for real, if you didn't care you won't be commenting this much

[@Pricklyrose-l2o]

I always found those partner hating "jokes" so weird.... like if you are so miserable why marry? I never understood that

[@wordlife94]

"Top 10 Reasons why women prefer bears to men"

[@four2896]

Beastiality FTW!

[@hanshysher6266]

I prefer bears too, but not the same kind of bear

[@k.milavictoria]

8:35 men try so hard to like women omg at my work they were hiring more people and I was watching the interview… my boss asked a man what was the hardest decision he had to make in his life and he said: “the hardest decision was saying ‘i do’ to my wife at my wedding” 💀

[@cakebatter5555]

LMFAO WHATATTATTTTT THUS IS WILLLLDDDD

[@elfixe]

BROTHER WHAT??? WHY DO THEY ACT LIKE MARRIAGE IS THE WORST THING?? WHY DID YOU DO IT THEN??

[@aarasko]

then don’t???

[@lav3nder.bxrbiee334]

Bruh no one held a gun to his head and forced him to get married, and he was most likely the one that proposed too💀💀💀

[@watermoon0605]

They be acting like the marriage was forced 💀💀

[@Smokinlqnd]

I like to be aware that statistically, men are happier when married, while women are happier when SINGLE. Yet its the men who always whine about how their marriage is awful and how much they hate their wife. Also when they go on a speech of love when proposing, telling their girlfriends/fiancees how much they love them and how much they changed their life and how they couldnt live without them, but once they get married, they whine. Like, make it make sense😻

[@VideosForYou90]

This!!!

[@placiddreams6334]

It’s because on average women are more mature and know how to cook clean etc. also typically we don’t value sex as much as men. So these men like that they get to live with someone that cooks, cleans, and provides sex.

[@scottbuck1572]

Its because they are lying to statisticians to prop up their own sense of self-worth despite being miserable

[@sjejsj7615]

I think the biggest difference is that women(for the most part) choose to be single while men don’t usually have a choice. Usually those women that are single still can get people noticing them, asking them out or even sleep with someone if they wanted to. If you compare that with a single man usually the man doesn’t have those things mentioned and has to develop more traits to get in a relationship. Also, you mentioned that men say how much they love their girlfriends but after marriage it’s about hate. This sounds similar to when women say how they give birth and all of a sudden they hate their husbands or that the husband changed, can’t this also be said for the men that married those women?

[@missselenam5586]

it's cuz men know exactly what to say to get women to fall for them, and then once she's fallen for him, he can switch up. I unfortunately know from experience.

[@TheREALnagitokomaeda]

3:55 the princesses should just marry each other 😭😭

[@phyzarel1845]

“the gays are going to hell… right right… look at my new rings!” Is crazy lol!

[@Syndie77-gk4xk]

The family photos are a little jarring because, like, as a teacher I have a slightly larger sample size than your average parent and...little boys tend to be a lot louder than girls of the same age. Like, a lot a lot. I actively dislike gendered observations, especially among children, but this one has stared me in the face for years. I think it's mostly socialization - it is developmentally normal for kids to be energetic and loud, but girls seem to be taught to be considerate of others at a younger age, and media aimed at young girls is a little less likely to be...edgy, for lack of a better word. There are self fulfilling prophecies at play - boys are told that boys are gross, loud, and physically confrontational, so they grow to embody these traits. Exceptions kind of prove the rule here, as boys from families that don't subscribe to this post-90s consumer study idea of boyhood usually raise boys with more prosocial traits, though these boys are still influenced by their peers, and the broader culture.

[@bluegoose777]

Nope it's just that boys are fundamentally different and far more naturally aggressive. "Gendered observations" just means being aware of reality. Boys and girls will never be the same.

[@dewdew80]

3:27 I will never forgive my mother for throwing out my favorite t-shirt. It had an astronaut riding a unicorn over a rainbow.

[@chloskyskies4399]

A moment of silence for that awesome sounding shirt …

[@Supermateo97]

_“Bye sweetie. Mom’s off to get jackhammered - and I’m not talking concrete”_ Emily stop 😂😂😂

[@hallofries]

love is love! even if it's heterosexual (in some cases)

[@mudsywudsy]

as long as they keep it away from the kids, they don’t understand that kind of thing /s edit: the ‘/s’ is /sarcasm y’all

[@Janiya_H531]

@@mudsywudsy yup

[@g00dbunny]

@@mudsywudsy THANK YOUUUU kids don't understand ANY love people just like to say kids don't understand gay relationships and leave out the other part as an excuse...

[@joe5tar]

@@mudsywudsy frr pedophilia can be in any sexuality. Not that liking kids is illegal, but most people who ARE pedophiles act on it too which IS.

[@brídeann]

As long as they don’t tell anyone they’re dating/married (most likely for fear of people burning bridges w them) /s

[@tedeby5351]

Im gay and tell people "my boyfriend and I have been trying for a kid, but the Lord hasn't blessed us yet" if im ever asked about having kids.

[@hanshysher6266]

Thanks for the idea

[@elymations9628]

NOT THE MOMMIFICATION OF GIRLFRIENDS 😭

[@carmenalns4156]

I'm so used to saying "mommy" as a compliment that my brain initially processed your comment as "not the yassification of gfs"💀💀

[@miguelpadeiro762]

No mommification They're already mommified, it was the norm. Get out of your house, leave your mom, get married to a woman, get another mom to do your housework. Fortunately that stopped being the norm as time went on, but yeah, you still have some dudes expecting the second mom treatment or even, which is honestly ridiculous, the "redpill" internet movements trying to make the trad "stay at home with no life of your own" relationships hip and cool again

[@cocosulx9282]

​@@miguelpadeiro762by this logic weren't boyfriends daddified back in the day too and now you still have some women who expect dad treatment from their boyfriend? This whole "daddy" and "mommy" shit is weird and creepy as fuck

[@calebdune6949]

NOT HAVING TO DO THE BARE MINIMUM OF BEING A DECENT PARTNER AND OVERALL HUMAN BEING AND ACTUALLY SUPPORT YOUR PARTNER😭

[@teathesilkwing7616]

Thought that said mummification lmao

[@lavapug]

I once commented “why do straight people hate their spouses” under one of these types of posts and a bunch of homophobes got mad at me 😭

[@celtickawaii57]

Straight people will say The Gays are ruining the sanctity of marriage and then treat their spouses like crap.

[@Amiyuu0]

what were their responses like? curious

[@lavapug]

One guy said “ugh I bet you’re one of those lgbtqabcde activists” Like he got the acronym right but felt the need to put extra letters lol. Stuff like that.

[@kyleglendinning9414]

Why do lesbians beat their partners?

[@SwiftlyGay]

LMFAO I wanna try this just to piss them off and see how they respond

[@ivoryphoenix7]

1:40 The image I got from this one was a grown man sitting in an elementary school class that had just been assigned to write their own fairy tale. All the kids are writing normal kid stories and the man’s just at his tiny desk, writing this.

[@midgevong41]

I feel like it should go without saying that a same sex couple would better be able to understand each other as their life experiences probably match up fairly similarly. A young man and woman are treated vastly different from society and we have to acknowledge how that can have a major impact on their upbringing.

[@n1ghtflight]

agreed

[@maimtubeTV]

I mean, generally yes, but this idea can also be pretty harmful if we let it set our expectations ngl. I was raised with less female gender roles than most people, and being a bisexual who's had mostly female partners, I've found that my desires in relationships are both "masculine" and "feminine", and that my female exes have all had invisible expectations of me that they assumed I would understand and immediately be able to fulfill for them just because of my gender. I'm also probably autistic, but... yeah. We shouldn't normalize the idea that finding a good partner will be easier just because they're the same gender.

[@midgevong41]

@@maimtubeTV If you let any wide reaching generalization shape your entire outlook, that is almost always going to be a bad idea. I feel like you're attacking a lot of points in which I am not trying to make. For instance you mention finding a good partner being easier, but I never said that nor did I mean to imply it. I'm more speaking on societal issues, like how women will be sexualized at a very young age by men far older than them and how that can lead to them having some very unfortunate scenarios come up in their life. Or how young men are often not given the same attention as young women, which can lead to them lashing out more and looking for that guidance in other areas (like the andrew tates of the world). Whether we like it or not these experiences do shape us in some ways and having your partner be more likely to have similar experiences in theory should make them understand some ways you may act better than if they didn't have that lived experience. I know this doesn't fit everyone, which is why it's not a fact, just a generalization. We should always treat people as individuals first and foremost.

[@ImmNot]

Oh god now I understand why men hate their wives so much, they’re just treated differently poor them 😔

[@Mushess]

I guess that’s fair but I can’t really see ever raising a son to be one of the “men” in this video. The parents of the people in this video did a horrible fucking job and should never raise a kid again.

[@dmoney8017]

In a lot of videos I see where wives/girlfriend's point out their husband/boyfriend's incompetence or failure to complete a simple task, the comments are all like "stop recording and show him what to do" or "give him a detailed list" or "explain to him what to do," but as soon as the wives/girlfriends start explaining things or telling them what to do they are all like "stop nagging" "why do you assume I'm dumb". There is no winning

[@HackersSun]

My friend's girlfriend is the way with my friend too He's a good guy but overall doesn't want to listen to the person trying to help with his overweight and sleep apnea He calls it nagging and she just wants to help him! I could push him on these issues on him, but the point remains he should listen to his gf, my word!

[@maevav5645]

@@HackersSunif he stills doesn’t change his ways, maybe is not That of a good guy you seem to think of him🤔

[@arishemthejudge6780]

@@HackersSun Isn't asking someone to workout a lot, bodyshaming these days? Some years ago I had asked my friend to start exercising and hit the gym and she got extremely offended. I'm genuinely curious whether its okay to ask someone to hit the gym? I understand that people have their own reasons and its their choice,

[@MultiArtStyleTWT]

@@arishemthejudge6780 Even if it is, if you have a partner you would want them to be much healthier and live longer

[@linegodballe3222]

right either it’s “why are you micromanaging?” or “well you weren’t specific!”

[@mittenista]

Dad: No dating for my daughter! Daughter: I'm aro ace! Dad: NOT LIKE THAT!!!

[@Phone_guyFnaf]

That was me and my dad when I came out

[@VoxAstra-qk4jz]

Nooo! I want to be able to control you!

[@aquarixstxr]

i can relate

[@ShinoriDelfrim]

Oh no….Too familiar…I relate to this…

[@nohintshere]

and then the mom's like "b-b-but grandkids!! traditional marriage!! i want to live vicariously through you because i'm disappointed in how my own love life turned out!!"

[@eves1322]

"homegoods run by andrew tate" had me

[@catherine34smile]

Ah yes, the extreme policing of sexuality towards daughters from their fathers. Honestly, that hits a bit too close to home for me and I wish it was far less common than it is. I mean, you have to maintain your "purity", but if you don't date anyone until you are older then you are a "prude". Oh! And if you do date more than what is deemed acceptable( ?), then you might be called a "whore" or "easy". There's really no winning, and there shouldn't be. Like, do heterosexual men even like women? I wish we could be treated like people who could make sound choices. It really is beyond just asshole behavior and people having more "traditional values", as it's a breach of trust and an act of infantilization. Ugh. Anyway, I love your new rings and this was a fun video!

[@gargoylegutz]

this !! when i was 15 i went to the hospital for a suicide attempt bc i thought i was pregnant. my period was a day late at that point and i freaked out so bad bc i have pmdd. i was diagnosed with it soon after and doctors reccomended i start birth control but my dad wouldnt let me because apparently if i got on birth control then it'd make me feel safe enough to start having sex. i'd been having sex at this point for like 5 months. eventually he let me get on it a couple months before turning 16, last month was my 3rd year of being on birth control. he still doesn't let me and my bf close the door when he comes over. and he isn't religious either, he literally used to work at strip clubs and has told me so many stories about his time working there like it was normal, yet for some reason has a problem when *i* wanna have sex.

[@ZeroTheFianceeToSolospell]

that isnt about being straight, old people are just dumb

[@raposinhachan217]

My dream is go in a wedding and the groom make that "save me from this marriage" joke and then start to scream something like "STOP THIS WEDDING! THEY FORCING HIM TO MARRY HER! HE ASK FOR HELP" and make the biggest fuss and ruin the wedding

[@muggleintheupsidedown]

My husband(31) and I(32) have been together for 12 years(married for 7), our sex life just keeps getting better and better! I’m so glad he’s nothing like some of the things presented in this video lol. His parents are incredible, raised him well! Even with a 10 year old(hence the name of my account lol), we still are madly in love, make time for one another and he treats me with so much respect. I grew up very religious and was told to submit to my husband, he’s not religious at all and never understood that! Fortunately lol. We are teaching our daughter to never settle for anything less than she deserves! He never says I nag him, we constantly joke and laugh and fall more in love everyday. And he knows I’m also attracted to females and doesn’t judge that lol. Our daughter told us she likes girls and his response? “That’s amazing! Anyone in particular? As long as they treat you right!” He also thinks threatening our daughter’s bf/gf is insane and not okay. He’s protective! But not in that way. Thank the gods lol

[@feliznavidad6958]

I hope your blissful marriage continues, thanks for sharing.

[@stone_forest3802]

I'm so happy for you ❤️ hope you two will have a long happy life together. You're a shining example for your daughter, hopefully she can find the girl of her dreams too. I recently got into a new relationship and everything feels so *just right* and our relationship is full of love. I hope the future will hold a marriage like yours in store for us.

[@muggleintheupsidedown]

@@stone_forest3802 thank you💙 I make shirts and whatnot, made a sweater that said “I’m my obsessed with my husband era,” my daughter told me that I’m always obsessed with him lol I’d much rather her see us in love with each other than anything else! I hope your relationship is full of love and laughter!💙

[@peacefulchaos333]

This is so sweet, honestly gives me hope lol

[@UNSTABLE111]

I am absolutely happy for you both..may you both live a long happy life!!

[@Sycee__]

11:34 I blatantly misunderstood #8 because it just sounds like our gun-preferring man here really, REALLY liked his bro's "gun" but couldn't "try it out" Then I remembered we were talking about wives, not... "guns"

[@geekgirl_luv4262]

I heard it the same way 😂

[@nyah-bu1sc]

that's so outrageous man 😭

[@rosanora]

My dad is one of those guys who always tells me to avoid men and never wants me to be with a man or have kids, I've heard him say he hopes I'm a lesbian... 😭😭 His prayers are getting answered

[@SeaSwallow-esx]

I love this😭

[@F0rest_f1re]

Your dad sounds so cool 😭

[@gamesdeen3768]

12:18 Ironically, this part isn't even true. Silencers aren't actually a real product that exists in the real world. The little pew pew sound you hear in movies isn't actually possible in the real world since the loudest part of a gun is the bullet breaking the sound barrier and the sound of the metal parts of the gun slamming back and forth during operation, not the sound of the combustion of the gunpowder, which is what SUPPRESSORS can hide. They are not "silencers" they do not make a gun silent, in fact, it's still REALLY loud, they just prevent you from going deaf the second you fire it. Although technically, if you wanna get pedantic (which I clearly do) they do make bullets that fire below the speed of sound, and when fired out of a firearm with a manually operated action and a suppressor, it gets ALMOST as quiet as it does in the movies. It's definitely still gonna be heard by anyone in the building, it just might not immediately be recognized as a gunshot. But nobody who calls a suppressor a silencer knows about subsonic ammunition, let's be real. FFS you'd think the sexist gun nut might actually know something about guns but you'd be wrong I guess.

[@edayavuz1667]

U know I had a hunch that it's wrong I think it's becoming common knowledge now but that's by far not the biggest logical error in their analogies

[@ariesearthdragon]

I was thinking the same thing when that line was read.

[@GIEarl]

I guess he's also not listening to his guns hahahahaha.

[@stoppit9]

They just collect them like Barbies, they don't actually use them

[@geekgirl_luv4262]

So glad I wasn’t the only one who got kind of annoyed at that part lol

[@MatthewTheWanderer]

I'm 42 and I've never even touched a real gun let alone owned one! Gun nuts, especially ones who would write the list at 12:20 are completely baffling to me!

[@Patsanford220]

Likewise on both points!!

[@Mary-Ann_B_Mabaet]

Likewise. Only Air Soft Guns. I want a real gun for defensive purposes ONLY because as the saying goes "Better to have it and not need it than need it and not have it." There are just some highly demented people in the world and I hope I NEVER get put into a "kill or be killed" situation in which I'd wish I had one on my person. However, there are people like those SPECIFIC Types of Gun Fanatics that exist. If you read it carefully, it also means they wish all Females are Biological Objects for Trade, Share, Cum Dumpster USAGE. It's abhorrent and diabolical. Absolutely filthy.

[@DanaTheInsane]

I have a couple of pistols but it’s not a religion it’s just a hobby I used to have.

[@yoachim91]

It's probably something hanging in the bar at a shootingrange, it's just jokes...

[@MatthewTheWanderer]

@@yoachim91 That doesn't make it any less baffling.

[@nailsareevrthistg]

the way she maintains both serious& sarcasm thrughout the video make me more curious and addicted to her vids. Emily we all love u and god bless you for pointing out all these problems that almost everyone can relate in this society nowadays♡

[@foxcat4770]

My ex’s grandparents had a super cute meeting story. She was in the church choir and when he saw he thought to himself “Im going to marry that girl”. Except he was 21 and she was 15. Her parents were 100% supportive of the relationship but wouldn’t have allowed it if “it was any other guy in town”. They married when she was 17 and got pregnant immediately. Now I thought they had a wonderful loving respectful relationship but I was sent for a doozy when I was told that he was 21 and she 15 when they started dating. I had a hard time reconciling my feelings for the grandfather because I have a deep hatred of pedophiles.

[@radioactivespoonsinthevoid]

Thats crazy that an adult male went to see a choir and saw a child and his first thought was "I need to bang that."

[@KittyKatt420]

Welcome to the world. People accept pedophilia but not both sided love 😔

[@havilynwakuche]

10:40 the story about the mom is also a red flag for the boyfriend also because that’s the man that raised him and he think that’s normal

[@SpremeCalami]

12:12 I know it’s a metaphor but the word “use” really rubs me the wrong way and I’m a dude. That whole section was painful

[@emilyrose3490]

10:16 if her child ever starts getting into toxic or in that case abusive relationships, there’s a chance her boyfriend or his parents, her child’s grandparents might defend it, causing emotional damage to my child. So yeah, I’d break up with him

[@yourfavperson3748]

Same ngl, if the bf things it's normal then he might do the same thing to her

[@kristenjoy226]

the amount sexism people have is absolutely insane 😐

[@Rozeline9]

It’s so tiring…

[@ultravioletpisces3666]

18:04 the “stupid” question is “what are you thinking,”. because she’s feeling so in love and she wants him to say that he could stay here forever or how special she is to him, or for him to connect and bond, but he’s like, “derrrr…. Football??”

[@Dvmor_]

15:52 “URETHRA” got me 😭😭

[@CoffeexToffee]

Same I almost pissed myself😭 (pun intended)

[@ivangutierrez7602]

Im straight and married and this kind of "humor" is so distasteful, I've never gotten the people that talk like they hate their spouse, that said and not to give any excuses, the guy who stared at his wife when she was chocking on water and then fell asleep again just sounds like a case still being half asleep, like imagine this, you are asleep, the sound of choking wakes you up, you open your eyes and your wife is coughing on the bed with a glass of water, probably says somehting like "I was just drinking water" or makes a motion, you asses the situation as safe then fall asleep again. Like that scenario while a little untactful does not scream relationship issues to me, once i woke up my very heavy sleeping wife because I heard glass shattering in the middle of the night and asked her if she heard it, she said "It's probably fine" then fell asleep again while I made sure we where not being robbed and she barely remembered by the morning

[@maryfrancess93]

The way that "overprotective" dads hate the idea of their daughters dating is ironic considering how often that same type of guy looks the other way when shes being bullied by her siblings. Etc It gives the vibe that its more possessiveness than actual care.

[@NaughtWalter]

It's *especially* ironic considering that the reason that these fathers are so "overprotective" of their daughters from other guys is so they can prey upon them themselves. It's a more sinister version of the "boy mom" trend that's been going around recently

[@gowrisankarimr4284]

Exactly.I've seen that happen.The girl ran away with some broke dude.The sibling favoritism was wild.The dad was exactly like you mentioned.

[@Imtiredofyourbs]

Usually? They're just aware of how shitty they and their friends are treating women around them, especially when they were teenage boys, and don't want their daughters to be treated the same way. Same goes with mothers. They're also fine with catcalling and harassment until it's their mother, daughter or wife. Because they're not someone's but THEIRS.

[@LiIbeanbagbean]

18:38 PEGGING MENTIONED⁉️⁉️🗣️🗣️🔥🔥🔥

[@kimifw58]

If she's stuffed with a "turkey," he wouldn't have made the "stuffing." He would have made the "turkey." A better metaphor would be _her_ being the turkey and the baby being the stuffing.

[@supersoakerrr9000]

would that really have been better

[@negligible_reality]

@@supersoakerrr9000 no, but it would have made way more sense

[@edayavuz1667]

The problem is noone tries for a "stuffing" 😂

[@elfixe]

.. that's still as bad 😭🙏 plus who wants sex jokes on infants clothes

[@yjlom]

@@elfixe eh they don't understand it so what's the harm really still kinda weird but not that weird

[@Kdkdleeme]

Cannot wait for the weaponized incompetence video omgggg I deal with it all too often

[@crow_moriondo]

The “Peace On Earth” thing is not new. This has been going on for at least a few years and it’s definitely giving ✨*kidnapper*✨

[@thecoolestcowboy]

14:51 “it was the best 4 minutes of his life-“ I GASPED

[@caligulasAquarius]

the raising my husband shirt is so real except it was a gay MLM relationship. Weaponized incompetence is truly a universal concept.

[@_KungFuBarbie_]

I’m a gay man but I’m also gay for Emily. The hair today is on pointtttt!!!

[@equally.marketable]

I ain’t straight but I can appreciate a gorgeous woman 🗣️🗣️

[@irun_mon]

The weirdest thing about straight people especially the guys is that 99% of str8 guys will see their female friends as potential mates, doesn't matter how close or long they've been friends. I asked all my straight friends about this and they all agree

[@jian6569]

Real. Whenever a girl, friend or customer service worker is being nice to them they get a hard on and it's disgusting. I only become friends with gay guys/Guys in a relationship. It's gets annoying to reject every dude lol

[@calvinhoward3808]

Welcome to the world of all guys

[@irun_mon]

@@calvinhoward3808 in the gay world it's so different, we all know it's also toxic but we still can be friends with other gays especially when you're not attracted to each other 😂

[@PureRythm]

I think you exaggerated it a bit at 99%. Like near to 3.9 billion males?? Seriously buddy?? And that too over a bunch of YOUR friends that are with YOU and YOUR other friends. Maybe 99% of guys in your group...not the entire fucking world...geez🤦🤷

[@alexradjenovic]

Which gets especially weird when they literally have girlfriends, and still 'keep their options open' when it comes to their female friends. Although it really depends on who you hang out with, none of my current guy friends are like that (thank god).

[@katherinethomas7487]

Wow my parents are like this. They’ve slept in separate rooms since I was seven. The last time they ‘did it’ was decades ago- I was born through IVF.

[@okmentalhammer]

18:12 im a actually sobbing this is so funny help please😭😭😭 the voice and the accent are crazyyy emily is such a talented actress for real

[@tremkl]

When you started the AITA on the “meet cute”, I was expecting what How I Met Your Mother called the Dopler-Dahmer effect, which is a situation is cute if you find the person attractive but creepy if you don’t. Then you told the story and I was like “How could ANYONE find this story cute?”

[@MillyThe_Rat]

When I was a small child, my dad said I would only get a boyfriend at 30, and I CRIED bc I interpreted it as "no one will like you" and why would my own dad do this??? I came out last years and he has not said shit about dating since then

[@Kayweethatonegirly]

As a straight person, I'm Concerned too....

[@torawalker392]

real i'm scared bruh

[@ZeroTheFianceeToSolospell]

by gays yeah

[@torawalker392]

@@ZeroTheFianceeToSolospell fr fr

[@splatz4669]

Me too 🥲

[@Hariboz_shen]

5:29 it's giving "erm actually...🤓👆" 😭😭 On a serious note I'm generally concerned for those people's future relationships and children

[@randompersonontheinternet2333]

ateez mentioned :o

[@VeryBeowulf]

It really does make me sad that so many people are so unhappy with their marriages.

[@max-pn7pt]

ill never understand the "i hate my annoying bitchy wife" trope. like ok. get a divorce. why r yall together?? i get that couples have their ups and downs, but HATING your wife CONSTANTLY is insane. like what did ur dates look like..............

[@max-pn7pt]

if you tolerate your partner that isnt love and the fact its normal within our society is insane

[@kannonfps]

@@max-pn7pt society is insane as a whole... on every levels

[@minecraftnerd2175]

If you just want people to hook up with, don't marry them. Just have casual relations where everyone knows what's going on. I'll never understand why tf these men are commiting to marrying people they hate.

[@yoachim91]

Well i can explain that for you. There are different phases to a relationship, some people are better at some phases and horrible at others, and the longer a relationship lasts the bigger small problems become. You have to be growing together and put the time and effort in, BOTH, and talk, if one stops it's over. Not sure if you realise but for men a divorce costs half their worth so we are not so fast with that decision like women. Most don't actualy hate their wife but people can do things in the run of the relationship wich makes the fact that you loved that person so much turn it into the worst hate because they hurt you so bad. People will always complain about everything it's in our nature and a mechanic to vent stress.

[@yellxwlilqc]

I’m so confused- 😭 this video just got uploaded 3 minutes ago and y’all be talking like you watched the whole thing. This video is 20 minutes 💀

[@fredrikchristmansson3700]

Narratives pushing.

[@transsexual_computer_faery]

HAHAHHAHHAHAH

[@Shampyon]

People comment while they watch. Also, the upload time is set to when the video is publicly listed, but sometimes they're still accessible through an unlisted playlist.

[@transsexual_computer_faery]

@@fredrikchristmansson3700 bro its not that deep. people love commenting

[@AmsterGamester13]

I watch on 2X speed 😍

[@DangerousKaos]

As a Black Queer lmao the sub reddit is hilarious. I've seen some of these posts in the video. Like it's wild sometimes.

[@Blissfully_unawareoflife]

I've always found it so odd that people complain about their marriages/relationships or their partners just in general. I know that breaking up can and will be hard, but if both parties are unhappy with what their relationship is and want to leave, do it. (Or, if they want to, they can try and salvage it, but just seeing how stupid some of these squabbles and relationships are, breaking up is probs the easier solution imo.)

[@hrantabrahamyanlol]

as a gay person, this topic had been in my mind for such a long time 😭😭

[@Nosiop09]

Fr as a fellow gay person straight people scare me seeing my parents cause me to have a mental breakdown due to their weirdness

[@Chloe-AMD]

NoahFinnce makes a lot of videos on this topic if u wanna see more of them x

[@hrantabrahamyanlol]

@@Chloe-AMD thank you!

[@Chloe-AMD]

​@@hrantabrahamyanlolno problem :)

[@aaaaannetteeeee]

omg same 😭😭😭

[@leonv1472]

man, back when i was growing up and not out as trans yet my shitty abusive ex-stepdad whipped out the "if he touches you i shoot him" spiel for my first relationship, which just immediately marked him in my mind as the least safe and understanding person i could talk to if i did get assaulted or something. lol

[@jolie6185]

15:50 not Emily saying urethra instead of eureka lol underrated

[@therealcheesewoman0812]

Not even emily

[@azro3774]

3:58 im a trans boy and i went on an overnight school trip and shared a room with the girls. the boys room was across the cabin and we could hear them clear as day all night long. i don’t know how men came to the conclusion that women are the loud ones.

[@e.s.r5809]

I'm additionally delighted to report as a trans man that testosterone doesn't make you angry. Or less emotional. Or sexist. Or more logical. Actually I've had no emotional changes at all lol. (The science says it's a nocebo effect, where men who believe testosterone makes them aggressive will act more aggressively. There's even evidence high testosterone makes you more prosocial. So much for the "man cave".)

[@jøy_what_riley_loves_the_most]

most women love to sing together songs they love, and I believe it's the only situation when they are louder than men. so i overall agree with this comment

[@genderender]

@@e.s.r5809 i'm just as angry on estrogen as i was with my birth testosterone. only now i am able to actually process those emotions healthily

[@teathesilkwing7616]

WHAT DO YOU MEAN?!?!? US MEN ARE SUPER QUIET AND NOT LOUD!!!!!

[@iLoveBread_101]

i’m also a trans boy :3

[@lailayasmin4259]

I seriously have a deep inner dilemma deciding whether to laugh or cry when i watch your videos.

[@vaguelyanonymos1064]

"homegoods run by andrew tate" WHAT A SENTENCE