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[@davetodd1738]

The problem is it ALL lands on us. We are the ones with potentially limited time our stuff works. Your channel is so focused on so the things we need to do in order for a woman to find us worthy. We have to push the right buttons in her head, last long enough, be the right size/shape, have the right energy, read her mind. If we’re not one of the lucky few who it just comes naturally to, of course our minds are everywhere. We have to get everything right, out she might not come back. A woman should feel lucky they have a man who cares so much about her experience that he’s willing to ruin his own. Should be open and willing to give coaching and get over the “it’s not sexy to have to tell him.” Be willing to work more for happiness later. If he’s not worth working for, let him go work for someone who appreciates him. It shouldn’t be all on us to make it good for you. Be a partner

[@mattkinneberg1791]

Damn, bro, your definitely a "boy" in the bedroom.

[@notmyname154]

This is a channel for men.

[@Bible-Christian]

As a fellow Male, I understand your frustration and the valid points you bring up about the pressure that is often placed on men in relationships. It can certainly feel overwhelming to constantly try to meet a partner's expectations and cater to their needs without receiving the same level of effort in return. However, it is important to consider both sides of this debate in order to gain a comprehensive understanding of the issue. Proponents of the argument that men bear the burden of making relationships work might argue that historically, societal norms have placed the responsibility of emotional labor and relationship maintenance on women. Men are often socialized to believe that they must meet certain standards in order to be deemed worthy partners. This can create feelings of inadequacy and may contribute to the pressure many men feel to constantly strive for perfection in their relationships. On the other hand, those who believe that both partners should share the responsibility of making relationships work might argue that true partnership involves mutual effort and understanding. Both men and women should be willing to communicate openly and honestly about their needs and desires in order to create a fulfilling and equitable relationship. It is not solely the man's duty to ensure the happiness of his partner; rather, both individuals should strive to support and uplift each other in a reciprocal manner. It is important to acknowledge that relationships require effort and compromise from both parties in order to thrive. While it is understandable to feel overwhelmed by the expectations placed on men in relationships, it is essential for both partners to communicate effectively and work together to create a healthy and mutually fulfilling partnership. By fostering an environment of open communication and understanding, both men and women can contribute to the success of their relationships and feel valued and appreciated in return.

[@davetodd1738]

@@Bible-Christian all great thoughts. I agree, communication is huge. The problem there would be getting her to talk about it. Either it’s weird or they’re uncomfortable, or “I shouldn’t have to tell you” or “if I have to tell you it ruins the vibe.” There’s always some excuse. But again, you ARE correct. Communication and real love are key.

[@firsthelix6726]

Exactly! Relationships require a certain degree of maturity, social and emotional competence from both in order to work. It often seems though the man as a leader only needs to develop those traits, and the woman is the prize, while in reality, men are still required to be the providers, protectors and satisfiers, and be the actual prize for their women.

[@tonyp4914]

I wish you made these videos for women too Caitlin. As men, we can do a lot of these things but WOMEN need some coaching tkk. Some are boring in bed,have become complacent in the relationship and many don't strive to be the great lovers gku coach us to be. They have a huge part in a lot of this

[@Observational_D-Block]

Boom.

[@Observational_D-Block]

Although I notice some women really open up performance-wise when they “feel safe” and they get wild and uncontrollable of their emotions and actions.

[@bradmorgan5615]

If you look at almost all of her videos, Caitlin does in fact coach women a lot ! What she does,(for both men and women) is quite difficult to do, in a caring compassionate and educational fashion, and she seems to do it better than anyone out there that I have found so far?

[@TomSawyerMDW]

Spot on. My own physically blocks my attempts to engage her in any form approaching sexual or sensual intimacy much less initiating lol..

[@tonyp4914]

@bradmorgan5615 B Rad...I wasn't coming at Caitlin bro. IJS that most of the time...historically...women want us to be these super lovers in bed and they aren't giving that type of energy to us. They lay there and expect the world from us. We wonder (and get coached) b/c of a lack of desire, performance, how to thrust, how to please better...all of that stuff. Sometimes, it had a LOT to do with who you're with and what they're doing (and how well). Sexual technique is a shared responsibility. A nagging lover, a selfish lover, a critiquing lover can all lead to men having performance issues. My overall thought was that women would gain a lot from hearing what Caitlin tells the fellas. If some go to coaching, that's awesome. I think couples counseling would fix a lot but I HONESTLY don't think many of them care. Historical, all that pressure usually resides with us as men. Thoughts?

[@NutcrackerTM]

You describe very well how perfect a man should be for a one night stand, it shows how some women can have such senseless expectations. little advice here no man is that perfect but we can fake it for a number of nights if that’s what you want, thanx for the tips.

[@angieblevins1478]

This is definitely one I don’t eeeeevEN need to watch! lol

[@scottmartin6931]

Good advice keep .me informed .on the next video .

[@paulcohen6727]

Now you've got me worried. Is my bed partner a girl or a woman?

[@timeswithamber5236]

😂 right!

[@markusdippenaar331]

Excellent !!!!!!!!❤

[@shanewilder3638]

Love your videos. They help me

[@lukylittle8642]

I found it to be true and as we grow closer and older we truly do trust each other and everyone will try to please the other. But what do I know yet? Thank you Catlin V ❤

[@constantinvasiliev2065]

By the same token, a girl is just looking inside, focusing on her anxieties on how her body looks and is worried about her performance or is in her head space, kind of present with him and kind of not. And again by the same token, men are not interested in girls, but in women

[@mikeobier7913]

I would love for you to do more research on ADD / ADHD and make more videos on that. I 100% agree with this video. The in your head part that a ADD / ADHD man or woman is so hard to even begin to understand with ourselves. That video hit me so hard. I’m 37 and I was diagnosed with ADHD when I was 8 before anyone believed ADD / ADHD was a real thing.

[@timeswithamber5236]

My husband has ADHD and this is huge in our intimacy. He’s always in control because what I want to try/do he isn’t into. He’s always in control.

[@conspiratornot2215]

Yes. There is a definite difference. This has a lot to do with why so many women are in relationships with older "distinguished" men.

[@chipotlefanatic3713]

Commenting for the algorithm

[@1stNoelJensen]

Love your hair, Caitlin!

[@Snowflakeliberal]

Another great episode of your always fantastic channel. Also . . . You are looking MIGHTY HOT as usual, Caitlin ❤❤😍

[@johnduffy6546]

Powerful information. Thank you, Caitlin. I've been married 45 years and you always teach me something valuable....Hugs

[@francisbradley1027]

Just being safe and secure

[@notmyname154]

I never made the connection between safety and being present. It's kind of like driving. Interesting.

[@Snarge22]

Men can never be good enough. "Man-Up! or you're a boy" says everyone who wants something from men. To the ladies; have discussions with your men well before you have rounds in the sack. Make it a two-way conversation, speak what you want, then listen. Caitlin failed on this one. And it is so very typical of society these days.

[@muffemod]

She's just churning out content for views. This is not a quality video.

[@Chuck_Hooks]

Things were much simpler and clear cut in cave man days.

[@adragonro]

Did u live back then?😂❤

[@wsthankyou]

Depends on YOU...

[@aguasanta]

Instructions unclear. Now I'm being arrested for driving my car naked

[@gardendaisy]

Not always the case

[@erikweyand4735]

I got both

[@vincemilley2124]

❤

[@joelbjewell]

I dislike your shaming language, calling something you dislike and calling them boys is a bad way to start a dialogue.

[@juceh009]

There is some truth to this, but you're implying you do the boyish things, i.e. you're more focused on yourself, because that's what she's shaming.

[@joelbjewell]

@@juceh009 you are assuming a lot and you know what they say about assumptions.

[@dcooper1535]

@@juceh009 I appreciate your Asperger's.

[@pm71241]

Well ... yes ... it's not so simple though. Even if you're not going into it with the purpose of inflating your own ego, it is nice to at least maintain your self-esteem, knowing that you have what it takes to make it a good time for her. And girls do this too. If your partner is struggling with, say, delayed ejaculation, of course women will also be tempted to ask themselves whether it's because of them. So... Don't do it to brag ... but also don't feel ashamed by leaving the bedroom pretty proud of yourself. (At least... not if you have reason to. I bet the Dunning-Kruger syndrome applies to sex and many men's idea of themselves too)

[@DavidZ4-gg3dm]

In regards to experience, women don't give most men the chance to get much. Most men under 30 rarely or never get any action. That's because most are rejected by women who choose to share the top 10% of men. How can young guys who aren't well-off, high-status, tall, handsome, athletic, charismatic etc. compete with Chads?

[@Observational_D-Block]

Yoh must become a Chad. Or a passport bro…

[@DavidZ4-gg3dm]

@@Observational_D-BlockAre there many passport bros under 30?

[@ghee-3387]

Subscribed recently. Appreciate your content! Definitely picking things up. Thanks! What if you are a Aries? We are predisposed to being selfish. Trying my best not to be. Like I said. Thanks! BTW, I love some of your tops. 😉 🤙

[@ghee-3387]

What up then?

[@TheNationOfTexas]

I'd say the majority of human beings are predisposed to being selfish, regardless of astronomical signs. If you just look at children: no one has to teach them to be selfish as it comes naturally. You must teach them to be generous. I personally think we just have to work at it. I definitely had to train myself to be less selfish.

[@ghee-3387]

Respect! Signs and symbols rule the world. In my opinion. I have learned from them. You are absolutely correct though! Convenience is King in this brave new world! 🤙

[@raycarlbrown-amory3509]

I be worried if there is boy in bad 😅

[@BrutalAthas]

I disagree with that video. To be your example of men you need to like yourself and in this time it so hard, second giving myself fully will be meaningfull only when women will do the same and im 100% sure she will not be like that, its allways expectations not commitment. This is why guys trying ti grasp something for them from that and i dont think that somethibg wrong beacuse he will be feeling better and it will be showed in actions toward partner.

[@slightlyOnion]

Neither.. cuz I'm Non-Binary ;P

[@jnmc-vx4fw]

You make things complicated. She should be doing the things you want and you should be doing the things she wants . Simple

[@tcb5141]

Take her on a brief Vacation

[@sebastiangruffydd2765]

The women are looking for a free servant, not a man.

[@ptff216]

This might be THE most confusing post yet. Focusing on her pleasure is really all about male ego. NOT focusing on her pleasure is all about boyish selfishness. Focusing on performing = bad. Focusing on pleasure without consciously focusing on her pleasure at the same time = bad. If me want to literally devote intimacy solely for her pleasure, it's not allowing her to give as well? Yikes. That's the message I've gotten from the last couple of video posts. Maybe what actually does make sense can only be found from private coaching. If that's true, cool. I'm all for plugging the biz. But everything else is just confusing as hell in the meantime. We can, you know... just take it the kindergarten route. Sharing is caring, and reciprocation so everyone has fun without pressure. But I guess that's too much to ask and isn't "romantic". We do all love your hair though.

[@axsmn8085]

Good advice. But me and my wife see so many grown woman behaving like little girls in US. Loosing there own respect. Bedroom boys might be playing along.

[@christopherregister2246]

Considering I'm a 46 year old Virgin I would say I'm a boy and most likely will always be a boy and to me sex is more for women than the ma

[@RobertTaylor-gz2fu]

Women always reject you?

[@christopherregister2246]

@RobertTaylor-gz2fu dude I've been rejected my entire life by everyone and everything so getting rejected by women is no big deal besides I'm not a dime a dozen guy and I don't want a dime a dozen woman majority of women today are dime a dozen hoes that's been ran through used up tainted tarnished and ruined by dime a dozen guys I like to say I was born in the wrong time

[@Dulcimerist]

I'm neither. I'm an animal.

[@CaitlinV]

top comment today, for sure

[@juceh009]

Exactly what a boy would say.

[@Dulcimerist]

@@juceh009 Exactly what a boy would say for you, too.

[@AallthewaytoZ2]

Unsubbed that thumbnail is creepy AF.

[@JayB-JayB]

CHANGE THE THUMBNAIL! 😕 UNSUBSCRIBE

[@rockyroll8]

I been told I'm a man cause I'm hung.

[@juceh009]

So internal. Exactly what a boy would say.

[@rockyroll8]

@@juceh009 🤣🤣 far from it stubby.

[@collingregory8813]

First comment

[@Rick_Cleland]

🥇🥇 🥂🎉🎆🥂🎉🎆🥂🎉🎆

[@sasapetroski981]

Wild beast with 44 years old, can have 4-6 rounds 💪💪💪

[@user-ld1dy3yc8j]

I think there are enough narcissists to go around here.

[@afanporsaber]

Do we?

[@afanporsaber]

I'm another girl. Yup.

[@NutcrackerTM]

You describe very well how perfect a man should be for a one night stand, it shows how some women can have such senseless expectations. little advice here no man is that perfect but we can fake it for a number of nights if that’s what you want, thanx for the tips.

[@offairhead]

❤