The fact that so many people lash out at this man troubles me deeply. We need him, we need more voices like his.
@jlllx2 жыл бұрын
It’s because they can’t follow along with what he’s conveying.
@IVIRnathanreilly2 жыл бұрын
@@jlllx I'd imagine a good portion do but don't like it
@johnulmer67152 жыл бұрын
We don't need him, he needs us. You say people lash out at him, and that is true. People lash out at him because they know there will be no repercussions from the right. Anytime the left lashes out at the right, conservatives tuck their tails and slink off and hide. So, he's basically being thrown under the bus by weak people who he's trying to help. Shameful!
@Pro_Vaxxer2 жыл бұрын
He's just an over dramatic ranter lol
@Pro_Vaxxer2 жыл бұрын
What is his main point in this video
@zzboah2 жыл бұрын
outrage culture will never erase or come close to darkening the light that peterson represents in this modern world. he is our generations idealist,virtuous, and existentialist thinker. and his lectures can help everyone, especially those who think they despise him.
@kentburge67012 жыл бұрын
Dr. Peterson has helped me immeasurable, and I love what he represents.........honesty!!! ZZ, you have increased his value with your statement, thank-you. 🙏🏼🔥💪🏽 🌱
@dehistoriapisciumfish76392 жыл бұрын
People don't despise him for his self help stuff, but his political takes and other controversies
@zzboah2 жыл бұрын
@@dehistoriapisciumfish7639 they think they despise him but actually just miss the point every time
@dehistoriapisciumfish76392 жыл бұрын
@@zzboah Or maybe they are just left leaning? Like I said, no one is against him for his self help stuff
@panameadeplm2 жыл бұрын
Very self-satisied, sated comment about the state of the world you have there. Makes me want to slap you.
@TheHumbleCarpenter2 жыл бұрын
I could listen to Dr. Peterson’s lectures for days. The man is a national treasure.
@anassabir10512 жыл бұрын
*international
@raymondtendau27492 жыл бұрын
World treasure.🙏🏾
@TheHumbleCarpenter2 жыл бұрын
@@raymondtendau2749 you’re absolutely right! Not a National treasure, a WORLD treasure 🙏👍
@laurahano25872 жыл бұрын
I've absorbed so much JP that I've run out of material. Even then, listening to lectures again is an entirely new experience as I transform. I can hear a lecture on symbolism twice and get two very different experiences based on my mindset when I listen.
@TheHumbleCarpenter2 жыл бұрын
@@laurahano2587 totally agree!
@ZacharyTBatson2 жыл бұрын
Man what an honor it would have been to be a student in Peterson’s class.
@gianthills2 жыл бұрын
OVER RATED
@suncoasthoast94792 жыл бұрын
What do you mean you don’t believe this man is literally adolf Hitler??
@ZacharyTBatson2 жыл бұрын
@@suncoasthoast9479 your comment doesn’t make sense.
@googlearchipelago28252 жыл бұрын
Ya completely agree
@JaketheJust2 жыл бұрын
The Lion King is a film that teaches us responsibility. Simba, out of a false sense of guilt runs away from his throne, his responsibility to his kingdom, and meets Timone and Pumba who teach him No worries, but there is no meaning if all you do is sit and eat all day. Scar is a lazy monarch because he refuses to take responsibility when Pride Rock has no food and the animals are starving. When Simba gets a knock on the head, he faces what he was avoiding and became the kind of King his father was.
@GloriousGrunt2 жыл бұрын
I'm definitely still in the Hakuna Matata phase
@normanclatcher2 жыл бұрын
@@GloriousGrunt " *r e m e m b e r . . .* "
@Flayerthehatebound2 жыл бұрын
I like how Dr Jordan can take something like Lion King and show us how realistic it is in society
@HelerifiKtion2 жыл бұрын
Lion King is based on Hamlet, so thanks, Shakespeare, for discussing all these topics a long time ago. We simply have to get the trend of reading back.
@sampreece39002 жыл бұрын
@@HelerifiKtion People don't create ideas, they channel them. Thank the ether, lol.
@HelerifiKtion2 жыл бұрын
@@sampreece3900, I pick my terminology to paint a picture. You're free to use whichever you prefer when painting yours 😂
@sampreece39002 жыл бұрын
@@HelerifiKtion 😜
@ProJatior2 жыл бұрын
I thought it was Sundiata
@TheSocratesofAthens2 жыл бұрын
I think he's a bit hard on Simba; taken out of context, what Peterson says makes sense. However, Scar told Simba that he was responsible for his father's death, an extremely traumatic event for him. To cope with the shame, Simba spent time with Timon and Pumbaa, who saved him from death by taking him to an oasis full of food. Simba would have neglected himself otherwise and died. Likewise, they sheltered him from Scar who would have sought to kill him. Simba needed time away from the traumatic event to be able to cope with it so as later to process it. Only when Simba was truly ready did destiny appropriately and timely call him back to his true purpose: to overthrow Scar, his selfish uncle, and afterwards to rule the Pride lands. In short, Timon and Pumbaa are not as toxic as Peterson makes them out to be and Simba is likewise not as guilty. He was only a cub when his father died and had no one else who might safely take care of him. Self-responsibility is great, but adopting perfectionism all the time is unhealthy; Simba did the best he could under the given circumstances.
@cletusjones94112 жыл бұрын
Great counterpoint!
@markymark20692 жыл бұрын
Underrated comment. Timon and Pumba were actually good friends and did the best they could for Simba.
@andreyseas2 жыл бұрын
Well put. I feel like JP is projecting his own disgust towards himself onto Simba (perhaps JP felt like that towards himself during certain seasons of his life and he has yet to forgive himself.) It's almost irrational how disgusted he is by an animation of a fictitious lion.
@paulnoecker12022 жыл бұрын
This, this is exactly what makes me object to Peterson. He demands I take more responsibility without authority over the fruits of my labors. It's slavery to take all responsibility and see no profit.
@sun_buddy2 жыл бұрын
@@andreyseas He is projecting, yes.
@3VOLUTION3692 жыл бұрын
I firmly believe going to the gym is the simplest and most practical thing you can implement to gain a degree of control over your life when you’re feeling lost. The discipline it takes to embark on a daily conquest of your own body and mind provides the foundation from which all other areas of success can grow. It’s the start of a perpetual cycle of positive growth.
@andrewclemons86192 жыл бұрын
@@mikegyver3193 King James with the Apocrypha? You mean the bible that was translated in 1611? Over 1500 years after Jesus was here? I'm not sure that's the best translation. Ever heard of a guy name Bartholomew Legate? They say King James had him burned alive for denying the Trinity. I gotta say I'm not sure I'd trust a guy that burns people at the stake for not agreeing with him.
@blahblahblah19882 жыл бұрын
Wtf?👆🏻🤣 OP, I definitely agree!
@andrewclemons86192 жыл бұрын
@@blahblahblah1988 cool name bro
@Dendrite202 жыл бұрын
I'd have to disagree, it can also lead to a state if complacency when you provide yourself with the illusion that you've been productive but all you've realistically done is stay healthy, which is what we should all do anyway
@juankplaysmusic2 жыл бұрын
@@Dendrite20 And maybe not even healthy: steroids, excess protein (cancer) and narcissism is very typical in the gym. You gotta make sure you are not devoting yourself to your body. But yes, some type of sports (team sports I would say) might be even better (and gym/weights as a sideline)
@MrDrumStikz2 жыл бұрын
An interesting side note, regarding when Dr. Peterson comment that it's a wonder Nala missed Simba: That is a woman's superpower. She can see the potential in a man she's interested in and will spend considerable effort making him useful. The two main plots of a romance are "Beauty and the Beast" and "Strong Woman and the Coward." In both, a woman encounters a man who has potential but, through either cruelty or mildness, is useless as a partner. But through mutual development, she becomes accepting and he becomes useful. The dark side to this idea is the woman who cannot separate her vision of potential from realistic expectation. I think most people have encountered a woman who believes she can change a man who has no interest in changing for her, and those relationships never end well.
@GloriousGrunt2 жыл бұрын
"I can fix him" lol
@elmateo772 жыл бұрын
I mean Nala was also Simba's half sister, so there's that as well... Ah disney, teaching important life lessons through incest.
@lagopusvulpuz15712 жыл бұрын
@@elmateo77 It’s a cartoon, they are humanize characters. Scar probably would have killed Nala in reality since dominant male lions kill cubs from previous dominant males. Nala was said to be the daughter of an another male that left the pride.
@andrewdaniels96982 жыл бұрын
Brilliant.The depth of understanding Dr. Peterson has is stunning. The reason why he is a teacher is abundantly clear. When a person attacks him, it is through ignorance or evil. Ignorance is a condition which can be treated by the willingness to know more, to be more completely human. Is wilful ignorace worse? Of course it is. To do nothing when the facts are known is to be juvenile at best and a coward at worst. To openly attack truthfulness is sheer wickedness. This is the light against the dark, friends. Know the truth. Stand with it. Thank you again, dear Doctor. Keep the lessons coming.
@3nd042 жыл бұрын
Spoken like a true Peter 👍
@bradyklockenga77652 жыл бұрын
@@3nd04 haha ikr. I read this comment in Jordan’s voice.
@NoWhiteGuiltClips2 жыл бұрын
Take back your destiny. Become who you were meant to be.
@avertthymortaleyes34602 жыл бұрын
I want to so bad. Fear and the inability to focus is really a problem for a lot of us.
@sophieclinnick952 жыл бұрын
@@avertthymortaleyes3460 soo true
@sophieclinnick952 жыл бұрын
@@avertthymortaleyes3460 soo true
@sophieclinnick952 жыл бұрын
@@avertthymortaleyes3460 soo true
@charlottetaylor44712 жыл бұрын
Any actual practical advice?
@ayo_02 жыл бұрын
Lion King taught me alot when i was young. Thanks Dr. Peterson for teaching us one of the most important lessons in Life.
@GloriousGrunt2 жыл бұрын
Same, avoid hyenas, elephant graveyards, stampedes and scheming uncles at all costs.
@selenecelestial5498 Жыл бұрын
My dad took me to see it when I was five, and I was pretty much just traumatized by it. Very dark themes for a supposed "kids" movie. But then that's no surprise from Disney, when you know the truth about it.
@TheRig234292 жыл бұрын
Mr Peterson’s lecture series on the lion king is probably one of the best things I’ve ever seen or heard. Absolutely love it and it changed the way I view certain things for the better!
@SpiritScienceOfficial2 жыл бұрын
Your biblical series was reallh solid - you brought Wisdom from the Heart. Lately, I am concerned you're spending more time being cynical of the pain of the world, and bringing less of that Truth and Love that you used to embody more of. I don't blame you, the worlds pain brings pain to us and then we take it on and don't know how to transform it. Nevertheless, I love you. Thank you for being always authentic.
@luisantos19962 жыл бұрын
This channel is not overseen by him
@SpiritScienceOfficial2 жыл бұрын
@@luisantos1996 i know, its the energy of the statement that counts. if he’s meant to see it, he will.
@NotARussianDisinfoBot2 жыл бұрын
Peterson talks about aiming toward the highest possible goal. When he has made political statements, it's been to bring attention to policies that are causing incredible harm, such as the situation with the Dutch farmers and the government-induced shortages of food. I fail to see why this doesn't line up with the same JBP who talked about the Biblical lectures. There are absolutely evil people using absolutely ignorant people to achieve mass murder. What should JBP be doing? Acting like a philosopher lost in stoic apathy?
@debstarsdevils2 жыл бұрын
people need to back off. they hurl their abuse once maybe 2 times at him then move on. he is constantly experiencing these situations it must be horrible but he handles it well. I'd love to be able to safe guard him from it all but unfortunately all I can do is comment and hope he reads it. ❤
@SpiritScienceOfficial2 жыл бұрын
@@debstarsdevils i agree, and I don’t blame him at all for it 🙏
@alessandrovico64522 жыл бұрын
I’m glad I was around to witness such a mind like his ❤
@debstarsdevils2 жыл бұрын
I think your great Jordan Peterson dont ever let anyone who disagrees with you make you feel sad or unworthy, your words inspire, comfort and enlighten me. Never have i whitnessed any Malicious intent by you, i am saddened with all the disagreeable people causing you grief. All the people who attemp to portray you as anything short of the inspirational philosopher that you are i really pity as they miss out on your teachings and all what you have to offer your very much a genius. please keep up the great work your appreciated by all of us ❤❤❤
@mariagarced10132 жыл бұрын
"What am I going to do about it?" FIGHT BACK! Gracias, Pescador de Hombres! Te amo!
@laurahano25872 жыл бұрын
Amazing that Jordan reaches so many cultures. How did you find him? Are you South American?
@mariagarced10132 жыл бұрын
@@laurahano2587 Puerto Rican. My husband showed me the Cathy Newman interview back in January of 2018. I was fascinated. I've been following him since then. This was right after Hurricane Maria, and in the middle of Trump's term. It was a crazy time, a difficult time in many ways. Many women I knew hated Trump and were feminist. I just didn't know it until I started considering Dr. Peterson's points. Then a young man interviewed him, and then the Vice interview came out- I was shocked, again. This was also the year Halle Bailey was announced to be The Little Mermaid. It was a time of accustaions of sexism and racism. Finally, I am now left only with KZbin, and express myself carefully, but honestly. All my friends, or almost all, were liberal, and I lost them eventually. You see, you couldn't support Trump in ANY way, and you HAD TO blame everything on the Patriarchy and on White Priviledge. Dr. Peterson helped me speak up for myself. I could also make peace with my Catholic upringing, and the Humanities. I appreciate my culture more now, and am faithful. I have a more defined identity, and for that I'm grateful, for I didn't know how lost I was. Thanks for asking and sorry for the long response, but I had to. Take care, stranger!
@sriharshavarma38912 жыл бұрын
@@mariagarced1013 that's a truly fascinating journey you had. Kudos to you for maintaining rational mindset even when surrounded by the unreasonableness.
@mariagarced10132 жыл бұрын
@@sriharshavarma3891 Thank you!
@theuniversityoflanguageinn56702 жыл бұрын
This guy is just such a wonderful professor I just love hearing him explain things Thank you Dr Peterson
@HelerifiKtion2 жыл бұрын
Peterson is parenting through his lectures and I like it. He's also noticed the same thing I did, that women do often have to "nag", or rather, finish the parenting process by having certain reasonable expectations. It only takes some reason to win over the selfish and hurt ego, and there's no longer a boy, but a man in front of you.
@chinitowon2 жыл бұрын
You know what makes a society productive? Love. From the bottom up. From the top down. And everything in between. Honesty and trust are byproducts and fruits of love. LOVE. LOVE. LOVE. LOVE!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@user-xl5kd6il6c2 жыл бұрын
Hate is pretty productive too, there's no love without the duality of hate.
@chromenut77592 жыл бұрын
This video accurately describes what I'm going through right now, and that amazed and freaked me out at the same time. I'm trying to better myself by working out and upping my grades in college. My self-improvement journey was begun by something like the explanation at 8:26 in the video. I didn't have anyone to place those ideals onto, so I made up two beings in my head. One was the ideal man I wanted to become, and another was the woman, as described in the video. Both judged me (and still are) for wasting my life away, and that led to me to begin changing myself. I'm only three months into this. I still got things to change, but I'm losing fat and putting on muscle. My grades are still questionable, but at least I'm retaining the knowledge now. Yesterday, was the day I decided to seriously attempt to end my addiction. What it is, I won't say because embarrassment. This all stems from two people I made up in my head, so maybe there are some other issues I'm going to run into for that. It may even make me delusional or something, but it's working out so far. I think.
@パンの耳ライオン2 жыл бұрын
You don't have to say anything, but I struggled with a porn addiction for over 18 years. The freedom I was longing for and love and acceptance was finally found in Jesus Christ. He has been there with me through everything, thick and thin. I also love Jordan, I think he is a great teacher. Just know there is a better one, a perfect one, who loves you and His name is Jesus. Many blessings my friend
@Mmackowi2 жыл бұрын
Keep going. There's plenty of dignity in the choices you're making, whether it all turns out how you want it to or not. At the end of the day, you can sleep well knowing you at least tried to take steps towards improving yourself when you very easily could not have. Best case scenario is you turn into that person you imagine, you find the woman you imagine, and then you can set different goals for yourself and find even more meaning. Best of luck.
@RohanBanerjee02 жыл бұрын
Dr Jordan Peterson, I know chances are slim that you'll ever read this, but I want you to know that I love you. You're the most genuine person I've come across on youtube and you are very inspiring, to say the least. May the Heavens bless you, now & beyond.
@bonnybonny84032 жыл бұрын
2 weeks ago I wanted to sell off my PC cheaply to settle some debts but as I was laying down in the house completely discouraged and angry; I remembered the one person who gives me hope when I am COMPLETELY down. Jordan Peterson. I woke up listened to him. Got to work. I have been the first person to arrive at work for the last 2 weeks. And guess what; within a few days I have settled my little debt; I still have my computer. I feel fresh and ready. Its is amazing what a little encouragement and will power can do. Thanks a lot Peterson!.
@the8u92 жыл бұрын
I love how all the guys sitting in the front row, the moment JP says male gangs are broken up by individuals' relationships with women, they all smile and look at each other because they know EXACTLY what he is talking about haha
@johnhoylessceptreofself-so62142 жыл бұрын
*whip noises*
@BoostedPastime2 жыл бұрын
In the book Tong Wars the third tong war was started over a woman, it was the final war and it eventually led to the end of the Chinese criminal underworld in New York City.
@robertbeckman20542 жыл бұрын
I don’t know if you addressed this, but one of the big things holding Simba back was his unresolved guilt he held for causing his father’s death, as lied to by Scar.
@WilliamTeller2 жыл бұрын
7:23 also made me think of West Side Story... All of this is so great, Dr. Peterson is such a gift.
@r4ngerr4ge322 жыл бұрын
There should be a subtitle for this video called, “The Roast of Simba,” because DAMN SON, Jordan went straight for the jugular in this clip.🤣
@Sergio-yi8ro2 жыл бұрын
Review G. I Guedjieff and Self-Remembering. The true way to BE conscious is to avoid the activities that make the consciousness fall asleep. 1. Identification with everyday life situations, money, problems, relationships. 2. Judging others. When one makes a conscious effort to practice Non-Identification and and Self-observation / Judging one self, then you start giving shocks to your consciousness. It becomes stronger and therefore manifests more often
@BreakiingDark2 жыл бұрын
This is exactly why I am stunned every time I see someone with "hakuna matata" foolishly tattooed. Have they ever bothered seeing the ending? Simba outright rejects the selfish "hakuna matata" life, fights for his kingdom, and reclaims his throne. The meaning of The Lion King is the exact opposite of "hakuna matata" -- the meaning it's to be selfless, honorable, and step up to your duties.
@hx14872 жыл бұрын
I guess he met Nala at the right moment, before it was too late. What is very common these days is to see men well into their 40s behaving like that, and a reasonable woman will not be interested in them at all. So it is too late
@TheMr04svtcobra2 жыл бұрын
MGTOW
@daffyduckling69582 жыл бұрын
Men are better off single anyway.
@Spinogrl20002 жыл бұрын
@@TheMr04svtcobra Please keep watching JP so you can change that mindset. Men need women as much as women need men.
@TheMr04svtcobra2 жыл бұрын
@@Spinogrl2000 🤣 you're funny good joke.
@Spinogrl20002 жыл бұрын
@@TheMr04svtcobra Well, at least you admit women are funny.
@checrimmins74182 жыл бұрын
I cherish the privilege to have access to this information and I wonder how much worse off I would be without it. I'm still in the states of adolescence and pleasure seeking, I want to grow up and mature but don't have good role models and lack ambition. It's scary to consider the possibility of not living up to my potential and wasting away but this gives me some hope.
@aroseydragon28732 жыл бұрын
To the final statement: Nala and Simba were childhood friends who were set to one day rule together. When scar told the lie that Simba had died, she was a cub who had no way of knowing the truth so she truly believed her best friend and possible crush was dead. When she finds him again, she is thankful that at the very least he is alive, because even in his sorry state, she understands as long as Simba is still alive, there is still hope for the both of them and the whole kingdom.
@caspremedia2 жыл бұрын
This channel will become of the most important channels of KZbin
@Erduk2 жыл бұрын
It's only a matter of time before he is banned.
@omerfaridkhanpodcast2 жыл бұрын
This was profound, thank you.
@plutonium1202 жыл бұрын
watched this one 3 years ago, easily one of my favorites from dr peterson.
@littlemisssunshine56282 жыл бұрын
You are Greatly Loved, Jordan!!! 💗🙏🌹
@HorrorLe1L Жыл бұрын
The Simba reference was a great choice in the presentation not only visually but it entertaining as well. I would've liked to sit through this lecture , this clip was a great eye opener, kudos to Jordan Peterson 👍
@avertthymortaleyes34602 жыл бұрын
Things have become very heavy around us all. I use escape mechanisms all the time. Reality has become surreal.
@jeffp39992 жыл бұрын
Instead of looking at around you go within then and find the answers why.
@chadvix58612 жыл бұрын
@@jeffp3999 sounds like they use drugs, mate. I think all they do is "look inside" and trip, lmao.
@jeffp39992 жыл бұрын
@@chadvix5861 good dose of shrooms could help, though prolonged use of meditation would fix the constant feeling of "poor me, the outside world is the problem", rather than feeling self-centred and afraid instead feeling "poor society needs our loving attention to heal", that's when you know you are really ok.
@chrisg77952 жыл бұрын
Rafiki is actually the arabic word for “my comrade/my friend”. So I don’t wonder at the Rafiki in the movie being wise and looking out for his friend.
@theascendunt99602 жыл бұрын
Peterson didn't have to do Simba like that. Murdered by words 🤣
@ebinflo1022 жыл бұрын
This is a perfect video for all of the outrage junkies & social justice warriors that wish to dismiss JP as some sort of misogynist etc … I don’t know how much more clearly he can state his position, but fools will be fools and JP is the antidote for this!
@astang10722 жыл бұрын
A harmless man is not a good man. A good man is a very very dangerous man who has that under voluntary control.
@vobser21642 жыл бұрын
I know it no new things from the beautiful soul but I love the life lessons with the elaboration coming from a children’s cartoon for the most basic understand of the concept he is trying to explain . Beautiful human.
@christabel20032 жыл бұрын
Thank you Dr Peterson.. absolutely profound...
@KEW-pd1jn2 жыл бұрын
When everything is sinking around you. You better enjoy the continuous realizations of finding out how ignorant you can be, while researching and learning multiple like-new aspects of life. The kind that you wish you never had to, yet, can still appreciate the potential for how wise you will be in the outcome.
@blinnbh2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely on point. I wish that I could of been mature enough to face the hard truths 20 years ago. But hey, I guess it's less complicated now in my middle age because I've already had the stuffing kicked out of me. haha Life has gotten easier since I don’t have to deal with the false-ego / arrogance I was infected with in my twenties and thirties.
@themanufan82 жыл бұрын
My foundation has been Catholicism. I go to Mass every single Sunday (or I go to confession) and I try to go to mass every day of the week alongside daily rosary.
@stevrgrs2 жыл бұрын
Just remember the thief on the cross next to Jesus didn't need a rosary ;) He humbled himself before Jesus and asked Him for forgiveness. Right then and there Jesus told him he would be with Him in Paradise :) ❤️
@Acinica2 жыл бұрын
I want to take this course today, from Dr. Peterson.
@HeartReeves2 жыл бұрын
I have a feeling I needed to see this. Don't know if I'll be able to put it into action but glad I saw it.
@crystallucifer62252 жыл бұрын
Being to malicious that too
@The_Idea_of_Dream_Vision2 жыл бұрын
The issue of trust and honest is what's lacking in most African countries. We have most resources yet we poor.
@elinope47452 жыл бұрын
You are lucky not to be easily subject to a trick that causes your people to kill themselves off. You are still resource rich while they become resource poor. You have honorably suffered on your grandchildren's behalf to leave them a better world, the others were tricked into stealing from their children.
@lagopusvulpuz15712 жыл бұрын
I saw a documentary from a country of Africa, were there is the wealthy & the starving poor, there wasn’t middle class, or you were poor or wealthy. It was a country rich in precious minerals like diamonds. It was a distribution issue & development. Probably corruption was part of it.
@The_Idea_of_Dream_Vision2 жыл бұрын
@@lagopusvulpuz1571 sounds like most of the countries in southern Africa
@oscar76462 жыл бұрын
Great representation of universal principles and virtues we know to be true.
@lisaschuster6862 жыл бұрын
I guess it’s time to watch that movie. My kids loved it.
@patallan14652 жыл бұрын
"Ground to a halt. " ...sounds like the UK today. Love that man💕
@paulkelly21402 жыл бұрын
Consider myself called out
@BIGGELATO2 жыл бұрын
The female lion letting Simba know who he really is and trying to separate him from his dopey friends makes me rethink a lot about my ex. She dumped me, but there are so many reasons why. But I did everything wrong, everything to ruin the relationship, but it was my first relationship and I didn't know I was making a fool out of myself. We were perfect. People looked up to us. 4.5 years together, I wanted to propose to her, having known her for 5 years. But as time went by, her standards raised because of her career and she saw how much potential I had. I was learning online business, marketing, selling, closing, etc... but I kept going back to my bad friends that she hated. I dug my own grave. I'm living this victim mindset because I can't forgive my failures and now fear failing anything I do, and doubt all my abilities. It's been 3.5 years now since I was dumped, I moved back to mom's house far from the city, it's half dead here, too peaceful, too comfortable, in the basement, gaining a bunch of weight, and depressed hoping and wishing for no tomorrow, it's hell. I'm grateful of what I have and that I have food and water, but I have all these opportunities and can't seem to do anything. I keep punishing myself, I have a really hard time forgiving, apologizing, accepting that I've failed, its obviously nothing, and should easily move on about it but I cant think, idk wtf is wrong with me. People make mistakes and move on, but it feels like I'm stuck 3 years back and can't put a foot forward. I can't focus, I'm stressed, I can't cry since it's "feminine", I can't do anything, I see black. "boo hoo" says all the men that have figured it out. I haven't yet. I can't take it anymore.
@mikewizoski75932 жыл бұрын
Bro you seriously need Jesus, like I ve been through so much pain and only God can help me. And I know he can help you too. Learn to forgive yourself. Focus on smaller goals like focus on your stability, make sure your family has what they need because they are helping you. And when you are ready go move out and work hard. Be open to meeting someone again to start a family of your own. In the meantime when you are feeling sad or hopeless, pray.
@OpenThisChannel2 жыл бұрын
Islam will solve of your problem of if you learn about that.
@andrewdomo2 жыл бұрын
You lost her for a reason, brother. So you can learn. That's the masculine imperative. You need to go out and have trials and build up the strength you need. Cry it out man. When shit gets hard for me I'll just scream into a pillow at the top of my lungs. You need to let that shit out, let it go and move on. We get lessons like that to become stronger. Don't let this valuable lesson go to waste. I love this quote from Marcus Aurelius: 'Think of yourself as dead. You have lived your life. Now take what's left and live it properly.' You sound like a good dude, obviously that girl wouldn't have been with you in the first place if you weren't. So just understand you're good and go forward and also understand there are billions of women out there, a perfect one tailor made for you. I say all this because I was almost in the exact same position and this is what I would honestly tell to a younger version of my self. You have no mountain to climb, my guy, just layers of darkness to remove that aren't you. Hope you find peace.
@jodaph2 жыл бұрын
It's time for you to join a band of brothers, my friend. I recommend getting into martial arts (I suggest Brazilian jiu jitsu). It will help you understand others and, more importantly, yourself better. If money is an issue then a local sporting league like basketball is a good alternative. The main point is to get around other men and to get physical.
@olliefoxx71652 жыл бұрын
It's good to look at yourself when a relationship ends and see where you might have contributed to the problems. It's not good to put your ex on a pedestal and think she was a Saint. No one is perfect. You have the ability to make things better. Reminiscing about your ex is not helping. You need to figuratively bury her in the past and move on. If you must cry, do it alone in your room. The first thing you need to do is, Set attainable goals. The second thing to do is to get your body in shape, get off social media for awhile and start working on your mind as well. Work on your goals as you work on your body and mind. I have been through things that most people will never go through. What helped me get through them is knowing "this will pass, it can't go on forever". Get into hobbies you enjoy, get back out there with some friends that are successful in life. Be around successful people. Mimic their positive traits. I hope things get better for you.
@lightgrey53652 жыл бұрын
JP is an exception in this cult like virtual environment, he's loved even by people who dont agree with him all the time. I think he's going to be remembered as a genuinely good man, good being a type of intelligence, the rarest type maybe.
@Mytube8I2 жыл бұрын
The good ole days. Great message.
@mostrecommendedmovies2 жыл бұрын
3:06 THE LION KING - Walt Disney. “Freud started doing the analysis of these spontaneous fantasies. Then Jung linked up dreams to mythology across history. A lot of that is embedded in this movie.”
@RobertJohnson_Zeppo2 жыл бұрын
Radioactive gynocentrism inevitably results in the consumptive force overwhelming the productive. Your question should be followed by an appropriate mark and the answer is, "Understanding the "Why?" in it. And how "I" got lost in the shuffle with "We." Though "I" suspect it had something to do with excessive "sacrifice" and insufficient "investment."" Oh, don't cry... stop.
@mariagarced10132 жыл бұрын
"Scar, there's no food, no water..." Scar-" It's the LIONESSESES JOB to do the hunting!"
@GloriousGrunt2 жыл бұрын
great leadership lol
@威張る外国人2 жыл бұрын
Tbh i dont think disney was thinking very deep when they made the movie. Not this deep at least
@lisaschuster6862 жыл бұрын
And my kids weren’t thinking that deep watching it either…
@mikohargett2 жыл бұрын
That's awesome. Honesty and trust help with wealth creation. That makes perfect sense.
@myalteregostacy95522 жыл бұрын
Ignore the problem until you go away sounds reasonable.
@DimRagga2 жыл бұрын
What do exams look like in one of JP's college classes? I would definitely either ace it or fail spectacularly, and I'm not sure which.
@ivanovaili2 жыл бұрын
We would totally be his favorite students. Only if a 5 pages essay is required as a test that is.
@wowser44 Жыл бұрын
@@ivanovaili if I was a teenager I would naively think I can be a thieve forever and repent when I’m about to die, there’s more to it found in scripture I’m sure as well as anywhere in the internet about that.
@ivanovaili Жыл бұрын
@@wowser44 I'm lost, are you assuming I'd cheat? These comments are from months ago...
@BeiBe427802 жыл бұрын
Breaking shackles of my people never be easier then cleansing them to have faith..
@cypressbutane45752 жыл бұрын
Can you do a psychological critique breaking down the meaning of the Human Centipede movies?
@OmgAuntySuzanne162 жыл бұрын
This man needs to have the Noble peace prize for ‘thought’
@YeshuaIsTheTruth2 жыл бұрын
"Look at him, he's all resentful and useless" lololol I love the way that Jordan Peterson chooses to show the truth
@bbcmotd2 жыл бұрын
Fun fact, the Soviet Union was the first country to make women completely equal to men in all rights, as early as 1917.
@formerlyknownasanessential26232 жыл бұрын
wonder if JP figured that out
@anton189012 жыл бұрын
He tells it like it is without being vicious
@PeeGee852 жыл бұрын
I think it's a mistake to say that the feminine symbolically represents chaos. I think it's rather the child that represents chaos, the feminine is only the advocate for the child, since she stands between the father and the child. The mother discovers the child's virtues via positive reinforcement in the first years. The masculine is the advocate for the world, since the father is what stands between the mother/child and reality/society. The child represents chaos, but it also represents creativity (as opposed to the adult, who is conscientious/orderly but rigid). In a society that is overproducing, you want chaos/creativity in order to invest in new niches. In a society that is barely scraping by, you want to find a single niche and optimise for it.
@jeffp39992 жыл бұрын
Peterson fears his feminine nature, the nature that must inevitably consummate him (ego) to transcend him-self 🌞💖👁️
@rayshaelizabeth82882 жыл бұрын
I can see what you are saying. I agree with his analysis that woman are chaos. I think it actually compliments your opinion because woman need to be chaotic to be the link to children and reality. Also, our hormone flux’s keep us in perpetual chaos. All of this benefits the family and it takes a well balanced man to handle the chaos and create order from it and keep the mother one foot in reality.
@PeeGee852 жыл бұрын
@@rayshaelizabeth8288 Interesting! I have a slightly different take, using the axes of masculine/femine and adult/child, so both man and woman have to mature (create order from chaos). Medusa has snakes for hair because she is the childish feminine, a woman-baby in a place of authority, unwilling to compromise with the masculine and follow rules. The minotaur is her opposite, a man-baby in a place of authority, trapped in a maze of his own unwillingness to compromise with the feminine, instead imposing his own rules on nature. She will keep a man spellbound, but never give him anything, leaving him terrorised for the entire relationship, just like the minotaur terrorises female victims in his maze. In a good relationship, partners turn their weakness inwards toward each other, and their strengths outwards to whatever challenges the relationship. The man turns his strength outward to the world/society and his weakness inward towards the woman, the woman turns her strength inwards to the child and her weakness outward towards the man. Both must become adults and trust each other, help each other overcome their own dragon/chaos, but without putting their own burden on the other, that's a mature relationship.
@sydneyhunter28072 жыл бұрын
If modern day men and women actually loved each other and worked together like a team we would have so much potential for great things but because how people are we fight for survival why young men aren't even trying to get with a woman all we can think about now is survival Scary world we live in
@zachvinka67642 жыл бұрын
Degradation of maintenance brought on by excessive complexity of the whole system separates those with the knowlege to build the physical structures and those who built the theoretical structures decouple and contract into a lower state of energy
@lisaschuster6862 жыл бұрын
I loved watching my son become a bower bird. He knew he was going to need his own place if he was going to attract a woman. He likes to cook and shop and all that and a young woman just married him… a lawyer who makes $400k! She’s 28! He takes care of everything for her. I would like to have seen him work a job, but he has really freed her up. He’ll be a great dad.
@cbcsucks22052 жыл бұрын
Things are not sinking around you. Due to following The 12 Rules you are rising!
@Sunny-j5y2 жыл бұрын
Love this man. He is so brilliant and wise.
@iamhypnotist9942 жыл бұрын
I thoroughly enjoyed that
@anonymousperson64622 жыл бұрын
It's interesting to think that one can give a lecture by applying situations in the lion king to situations that happen/happened in real life.
@AverageAngel9 ай бұрын
I like how he mentions the clueless, self-indulgent naive look
@rickybobby72762 жыл бұрын
It’s not just natural resources but geography like navigable waterways and coast line. Japan had plenty of coast line and fishing resources.
@vanveen84722 жыл бұрын
I have to call bullshit to the property ownership question, try not paying your property tax for 10 or 20 years then you will find out who really owns it
@cerave37422 жыл бұрын
Thank you Mr. PETERSON 🤔🤩
@zenoofcaledonia24392 жыл бұрын
Hakunamatata. He seems fine until he meets Nala
@preyingmathis25172 жыл бұрын
We already live in the own nothing and be happy society.
@fightthegoodfightoffaithmi86762 жыл бұрын
2 Timothy 2:21 If a man therefore purge himself from these, he shall be a vessel unto honour, sanctified, and meet for the master's use, and prepared unto every good work. 2 Peter 3:18 But grow in grace, and in the knowledge of our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ. To him be glory both now and for ever. Amen.
@NewAgeSlaves2 жыл бұрын
Brilliant
@aprild32502 жыл бұрын
I don’t understand why any woman would have a problem with this man. This is the one of the most uplifting, female positive speeches I’ve ever heard.
@MrManDiller2 жыл бұрын
So very astute
@joedavis41502 жыл бұрын
.. substitute the word, regiment, for the word, tyrannize.. public school is good at this.. regimentation of action of thought, and of speech.
@Jabberwockybird2 жыл бұрын
Public school is the oldest form of socialism in North America. It pervaded culture so long before the cold war that no one noticed it or called it out during the red scare when people were hyper-anti-communist.
@thetruth22082 жыл бұрын
Natural Resources breed corruption. Honesty and trust are true natural respurces. Blown...
@pilesthedonkey2 жыл бұрын
If things are sinking take the things out of the water, unless you want them in to sink if so leave them them in the water.
@jimlakey83662 жыл бұрын
yes.
@amykrueger3396 Жыл бұрын
I love you so much Jordan Peterson! 🤗❤️🙏
@mikemcneeley15802 жыл бұрын
Be careful of projection...
@CH-ce1rm2 жыл бұрын
Holy shit, i though key and peele was just joking about the lion king skit, but this man took that and really used it in a class
@ArcticWolf21102 жыл бұрын
One of the takeaways with Simba story is that, he is son of the king. Which to some extent reinforces the idea that, to be a king, you need to be born with privileges. This is true in the real life too and can be attributed to the reason why people do not want to take responsibility anymore.
@ArcticWolf21102 жыл бұрын
@Caleb Newman92 I haven't met anyone who made it big coming from dirt and is a millennial.
@amandarayner94752 жыл бұрын
Brilliant analogy JP, & probably my favourite movie! Haha
@Joe55610002 жыл бұрын
You do not "own" property in the U.S. you rent it from the Government. They have simply changed the name of the payment from "rent" to "tax". Property tax is one of the most unconstitutional taxes that our Government has imposed, because it negates the ownership of privet property. If you do not pay property tax you are evicted from your property and the Government reclaims it.
@MichaelSHartman2 жыл бұрын
An interesting Peterson clip, as usual.
@Proud_Troll2 жыл бұрын
Jordan is the opposite of a woman hater/incel. Jordan is making me less and less of an incel everytime I listen to him.