Arie Learns Bekah M.'s Age - The Bachelor

Bekah M. reveals her age to Arie on their one-on-one date. (From The Bachelor Season 22, Episode 4) Watch The Bachelor Mondays at 8|7c on ABC!
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[@monica52197]

Arie: I don’t know if she’ll be ready (Bekah has a child a year later, her own house, and her second child on the way) 🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️

[@ghiwanassereddine3406]

lol

[@LPempty]

anne smith i mean she clearly is very happy and if you’re not ready why would you have a second child with your significant other

[@cassie-cm]

anne smith lmaooo

[@pinkkx41]

LPempty because accidents happen lol

[@LPempty]

lindsaylovexo she seems like a responsible mother who cares and loves her family. Aka her changing into someone like this even if it was an “accident” proves that yes she was ready

[@npsck1802]

She is so freaking cute. She’s too cute for the bachelor.

[@nadia4067]

Næp Sæck ikr I’m gay for her 😂😍

[@candysweet434]

yeah she's too young

[@kateberry2004]

Yeah needs to do princess birthday party

[@ivvv24]

Næp Sæck she has her own podcast on youtube her channel is bekah martinez

[@cookiesarelikecream]

cswtx apparently she’s too young yet she’s already had a baby and has another on the way. She’s mature for her age and is ready

[@klar9852]

She’s so dreamy. She almost seems more mature than him in her way of communicating.

[@kelebeck5905]

That’s exactly why I thought she was going to say a much higher number

[@makaylasanai]

agreed !

[@angadgrewal7386]

@Babydoll it’s true

[@Blueeyesinthesky]

In real life she’s actually very immature

[@StaticNexa]

Not many people now bekah is my aunt and i was just with her today but no one will believe me

[@Lovelyhesaid]

He low key acting like a Dad

[@A580-f5e]

*RIGHT!?* GLAD U CAUGHT THAT TOO

[@jaanasyme4957]

he high key acts like a dad the whole damn season ugh how did i not realize it until I rewatched clips from that season

[@100cvcv8]

"oh my god, young pussy I like it"

[@paulinads8419]

@@A580-f5e FR

[@JH-no7dr]

That’s what happens when there is such an age difference....

[@jasminerathor6743]

“Do you like to like still like to go out” lmao that was funny

[@ScottGSP]

You forgot the "like" before Do, lol

[@ghiwanassereddine3406]

😂😂😂😂

[@nananichole]

What I don’t understand is half the girls on this show were 23. Literally MONTHS older than her most likely. So why did no one call them out🙄

[@jammastrjess]

This was Arie's season, he was 36. The two Bachelors since then were 27/28. It's not exactly the same thing age-gap wise.... and also people WERE totally up in arms about the girls on recent seasons being really young and immature. They DID get called out.

[@madisonmcmanners6605]

@@jammastrjess I think she meant on Ari’s season specifically! As in various other women on his season were 23 but it felt or was treated different than 22. However I realized both of you commented on this video ages ago 😂😅

[@SolangeLOLable]

It doesn't make sense at that age really not. Im young and i thought i wanted that but its just fantasy.

[@Mwit712]

Aw the look in her eyes. You could tell she knew she had just dropped a bomb and it would probably be a deal breaker. She held it together really well by even attempting to continue to make eye contact despite feeling so vulnerable.

[@Mwit712]

Really Though what does that have to do with her reaction? Also, it’s not pervy for someone who’s 22 to date someone in their 30s.

[@samschor]

I’m currently 22 and I could not POSSIBLY imagine dating a 36 year old omg😂

[@ghiwanassereddine3406]

Sam Ryan sameeeeee

[@mattc5329]

I would 🙂

[@BrokTheLoneWolf]

Hey hey heeeey! Watch yo dirty mouth

[@divyadureja7343]

Sam Ryan girl retweet

[@Catz1a]

Yeah definitely depends the person. I understand his discomfort. Its reasonable. Theyre in different stages of life. I dont like Arie but I respect him considering this seriously and it worked out for the best

[@butterflygirl141]

Corinne and taylor were 23 and nick was 36, no one cared!

[@sullah828]

Yeah well we see just how mature Corinne was and how she ended up.

[@bradivanson925]

Yeah but everyone knew how immature corrine was so no one was justified nicks choice

[@natalies.6310]

Yeah, but I don't think Nick was that mature, so maybe the separation didn't seem so great.

[@TheArtimusMaximus]

"way out of his league"?! She's a nanny, not a rocket scientist. She's cute, yes, but not much cuter than he is handsome. He's from a famous family and fairly well to do. She's a cute girl...that's great but do you know how many cute girls are out there her age - loads.

[@lidejong4484]

I think it’s because her age was “hidden” until this reveal.

[@christmastreeking]

today she’s 26 with two kids and a house in california! love you bekah!!!

[@iamem7706]

Age is but a number Arie. Bekah is actually very mature and well spoken.

[@TheJpep2424]

Age isn't just a number. Maturity comes from life experience. Most people at 22 are not mature enough for a real relationship or even understand what a real relationship is.

[@iamem7706]

Interesting point. But for that I have to say I disagree. Everybody has a different life. Some at 22 are very mature for their age. They may have paid for college alone by working a full time job, they may have lost a parent and raised their siblings, they may have moved out and worked to pay their rent. Others who are let's say 32 may still live off their parents wealth, never had to study at college and balance that out, never learned to pay their own bills. Each life brings different experiences and thus maturity comes at different ages.

[@sarahkoob1156]

IamEm plsz don't knock people who live with ther parents I'm trans and have to live with mom and I'm still young at 33

[@iamem7706]

What makes you think I was knocking her down. I am 22 and live with my parents. My sister lives with my parents at 24. That isn't the point. I was saying Arie was being rude for not giving Bekah a chance.

[@ghiwanassereddine3406]

yea but... he looks like a dad lol

[@emilypich8203]

She’s super mature for her age and he never questioned that before i don’t get why it’s such a big deal

[@missun19951]

Mature for her age but not enough as to reach a certain point in life for marriage and kids. But you are right, the guy knows this girl for weeks. How come he never asks her. That just shows how surfaced their talks had been.

[@bunny_0288]

Nguyễn Thị Tú Oanh Ummmm I got married at 22.... and have been happily married for just shy of 9 years. Not all 22 year olds are the same.

[@SavvyMuhon]

Nguyễn Thị Tú Oanh Well she’s married with a child now

[@janeryan2709]

@@bunny_0288 Okay but happily married to a 40 year old? What's the age gap between you and your spouse? That was a part of his concern.

[@Bcdf-ei9el]

I think she is really mature for her age!

[@AlishaNic]

She is but not to the point of settling down in a serious relationship long term. She is still figuring herself out and discovering what she wants especially at that age. He is basically saying that he doesn't want to be someone's teacher, he wants a woman to be in a secure place in her life and knows what she wants because thats where he is at. Some older men like a younger woman that they can teach, guide and mold. I don't think that is what he wants.

[@mackenzie7768]

I got married at her age. Some people are ready for different things at that age.

[@SS-vq9ou]

Bcdf 1930 I think she is... But at the same time I think she just wants to have fun. And while that provides a thrill in a relationship. In some aspects it can become kind of an obstacle for them.

[@AlishaNic]

C0_0KI3 Well said!

[@noelleirina5628]

She's a good actress

[@lindzm2544]

Lol and two seasons later everyone is 21-25

[@TheNameIsGlennCoCo]

FR LMAO

[@lydies11]

Usually the girls on the Bachelor are so annoying but she is so cool!!!!!

[@jeanienguyen368]

Dude she’ll turn 23 in the next month. All the suspense about age is for the ratings boost.

[@oppsendless3814]

No way. 23? Sorry, but that is pretty much the same as 22. ;)

[@JPIII4079]

The “He’s 24” before Jessica even existed.

[@ActNormalKid]

😂😂😂

[@hiccup61]

Jacob Painter HAHAHA

[@Dreamlillie_95]

Markel is 23 and nobody's talking about that!

[@terriboucha4030]

I actually thought 23 was young too, I thought, hmm maybe she'll be around until mid season. I actually thought bekah was 25 or something (my age).

[@rachels4874]

Bekah is the youngest person ever in the Bachelor Franchise.

[@Lion08888]

Rachel S no she’s not the youngest person on it was 21

[@Lion08888]

*the girl was 21, Mackenzie on Chris’ season and Cassandra on Juan Pablo’s season

[@kaylaimani9160]

Celeste Jacquet i believe her age is only a big deal is because he is an older bachelor.

[@SiobhanConnolly]

Arie was such a great Bachelor because he wasn't afraid to ask the girls deep questions. For instance, when he asks BeKah M., "Like, do you like to, like, still, like, go out a lot?" That was a real turning point in their relationship. Personally, I don't think they were able to recover. I don't think we'll ever, as a nation, find someone who can live up to his legacy. Thank God for Amazon, where you can purchase full past seasons. We will never forget you, Arie Jr. Thank you for your service.

[@meganpearl914]

Siobhan Connolly the amount of the word like in that question 😂

[@missun19951]

Arie for the first time shows up his vocabulary. I never heard him say anything beyond beautiful, awesome, like like like, i love it, cool. How does he sell houses, this house is so, like, beautiful, and like, awesome, like, you would love it. So you pay in cash? Like, your money is so cool. I start to realize his conversations are dull and surface, although he stroke me as a very fun character 5 years ago. Hope things heat up soon.

[@sugarqueen8332]

Yeah, I feel like with these girls he has not surfaced a real connection yet, so it is hard to have a conversation that is meaningful to them. These relationships he is "forming" aren't there yet, which is why when he is at a loss for words he just starts kissing them, and he cannot keep up a proper conversation.

[@floridagirl7093]

“Like, your money is so cool.”

[@dragoncatte]

WHEN ME AND MY BF WERE WATCHING THIS SEASON WE HATED WHEN HE SPOKE BECAUSE HE JUST SAID NOTHING, AND "YOU KNOW" A BUNCH, HE IS VAPID

[@vince4213]

Being articulate does not necessarily mean you have depth. I don’t know where you got that idea from but you need to get a life. Just from reading your comment I can sense you are dull. Much duller than him.

[@alllieejune9798]

@@vince4213 HAHAHAH talk about someone needing to get a life.. you’re the one who’s got the vote in that aspect bud. i’ll never understand this theory under which people feel it’s necessary to personally attack someone because they have a difference of opinion. it’s a pretty easy notion to arrive at that people who can’t form more than a handful of words while having a conversation, probably don’t have much depth to them.

[@Isnt-it-Lovely]

I was 33 when i met my now husband. He was 21. Very happy together 12 years later.

[@clare1759]

She is the cutest human being alive omg

[@ilaysahmangroe4351]

Arie really likes her. Judging by their conversations ya know, they just flow with ease. The topics they talk about are a lot deeper compared to those with the other girls. Don’t get why people are making a big deal about her age.....she’s young but whatevs. It’s reality tv after all

[@litebrite3249]

Her eyes are so sparkly 😭

[@jmds5693]

Why they making big fuss about her age this season!?😏😏 Its like bekah is the only one woman who dated morethan 10 years gap to the bachelor. The past season didnt brag the age

[@ashs7887]

Janica Mae Sildo for the drama and make people watch

[@jillh7934]

The problem is that there isnt one damn woman near his age there. And he ditched the only 30 plus the first night

[@JG-tk7cn]

I don't follow that either. They seem to have always had women on that were much younger than the men. Not sure why they are scared of getting women on the show closer to the age of the men.

[@mayasims1370]

She’s really a star I love her 😭

[@camilaleon4473]

She looked like she was about to cry when she had to tell him her age

[@Bellachris75]

That reaction right there, is the reason why she didn’t tell him how old she was. Or the girls in the house. She’s really mature, you can see that because of how everyone treats her, they don’t treat her like a child because she doesn’t act like a child and knows what she wants. But now that her age is revealed is like they won’t take her seriously anymore and it sucks.

[@sweetsour6619]

She’s probably the prettiest among the girls so cute

[@colombianomanifesto]

Funny how she is such a smart ass and he is such a dud! B: “I didn’t want you see me through the lens of my age” A: “Well I haven’t” B:“Because you haven’t known lol” A: “I know”

[@Jen_nifer99]

I’ve never watched the bachelor and don’t know who this girl is, but she looks like Giannina from Love Is Blind

[@LeeLooface]

I really like her. She's mature and seems really fun.

[@melilol2796]

Why are they making her age such a big deal like is not the first time in bachelor history where there is an age gap I think she's very mature and so full of life don't see the problem

[@Recubs0608]

When I was 22, I was still exploring the world. And I never ever think about marriage.

[@KA-eu9sy]

She was one of the most captivating bachelorettes on the franchise. A star quality about her. Ala Audrey Hepburn ish...should have become an actress

[@buttcheeksguy]

this video would have been one minute shorter if they both refrained from using the word "like" as a comma

[@basket19832001]

Lol

[@kyrstenmarie]

Lmfao so true!!!

[@KateBrinfour]

I can tell you're a fan of Brown kids humor

[@buttcheeksguy]

i am hehehe :d

[@jeremybrown8654]

hodan issa it a Californian thing... I catch myself doing it as well

[@pwetty4r4]

pweeesh I thought she was going to say 18 or somthing

[@lizzieball3795]

Me too

[@FreckledPapaya]

Lol he can't even say a valid reason he's ready except he gets up early which has nothing to do with marriage... He's just judging her for her age

[@desofiiali1503]

Age is just a number after all! And honestly, the connection and chemistry between them is AMAZING!!! love love love them together 😊❤️

[@loveafrica97]

Confidence. I love her confidence.

[@fizzyfuzz5878]

From episode 1, Bekah: "What are 3 things that make you excited in life?" Arie: "Excitement"

[@mirhakhan9355]

Drinking game: take a shot every time Arie says, “you know what I mean”

[@shelbypotter334]

Mirha Khan literally .

[@lovelleliam4635]

The second she said she’s 22, immediately Arie’s like taken aback and pull up the barrier and be like ok no.

[@shc9535]

Took a shot everytime he said "like" - I am on dialysis now #prayforme

[@a.j.caberto5897]

No joke, thus is my experience with any older guy I date. I hate it when they say “you’re so young, you have more experience to go through”

[@Fornonme]

Why the hell people in bachelor or bachelorette use “like” so much is it mandatory to use that word in the show 😂

[@monserrattrevino3426]

I really don't like him

[@becuteforme]

Monserrat Treviño He's secretly demanding and girly.

[@mackensieedwards3851]

I dont like him either. He seems sketchy and his emotions towards some of the women feel very very fake.

[@arichalevas2298]

It dosn't matter. You don't have to date him so why do you care?

[@becuteforme]

She's just sharing her opinion, calm down.

[@mackensieedwards3851]

Mia CW I care because hes going to keep hurting women. I dont think he is on this show for the right reasons

[@ipsitasarkar4109]

The fact that she is going to be a mommy so soon is *boom*

[@dorothyelston1222]

she’s sooooo pretty

[@r.y.e.n.230]

She's so pretty😭❤️

[@huskboo]

As someone who is 24 and dating someone who is 30. Age does matter! A lot happens with a person between 22 and 36. A lot happened to me between 18 and 24. People grow.

[@johnivantaro6684]

Ironically, despite being the youngest contestant, she was the most mentally mature of them.

[@TheAfgchick]

This is Lowkey predatory lmao HIS REACTION HAD ME ROLLING 😂

[@oh2cute4words]

She’s too educated for him and pretty!

[@vince4213]

And he’s way too rich for her poor ass.

[@nikkiw2548]

She looks like a sim literally perfect

[@cookiesarelikecream]

He ended up with Lauren B but she was only 23 a year older than Bekah. Literally no difference

[@hellomynameisjen]

I think he has valid reasons to be concerned. I think it’s not so much the age gap but more about the fact that there’s still a lot she probably wants to experience and she’s most likely not ready for marriage and kids like he is.

[@23ofSeptember]

The problem with being "ready" is that people usually jump into marriage with someone they probably would not have considered when they were younger. They lower their standards, especially women, while the guy they dated in college was probably a better choice. Its almost as if everyone is expected to date the wrong person in their early twenties and then they somehow find the right person right after they finish college. From experience, I know I dated a few women that would have been much better wives than the one I did marry.

[@allysonmessina1785]

Consistently Random Thats pretty horrible thing to say about yout wife...

[@23ofSeptember]

Don't worry, we are separated.

[@58kenstyle]

Jesus Christ the way you threw your poor wife under the bus😂😂😂😂😂

[@23ofSeptember]

Make me look bad? You don't even know my name and no one else does either. I'll post about my personal business if I feel like it. Therapist? Eww gross!

[@23ofSeptember]

Gossip Queen? You're one to talk!

[@youtubecommenter37]

Out of all the women on the bachelor, she sticks out the most to me. She just looks so cute and unique. The short haircut, the hoop ear rings.

[@jewele.1362]

I like her and she is really mature for her age. I don't think that she would have gone on the show if she wasn't open for the opportunity if he was the right person for her. I am sure she knew that this is usually what happens at the end of the show. Plus, I think it is the shows fault, to be honest. I think in the beginning when they are choosing all the women, Arie should have a say in the age of the women. For example, I prefer taller, brunette women between the ages of 25-40. Age is just a number. Women who are 40 still act catty and immature and aren't ready to commit. I am glad that he kept her around.

[@joshweatherly8715]

How many times can a 36 year old man say "like"... go Arie!

[@makaylasanai]

idc what nobody says she would’ve been great for him. the chemistry is so natural and she ended up getting pregnant not too soon after the show anyway 😂😂😂

[@number36420]

When he found out he obtained an accent from the shock lol. Oh my Guaddddd lol

[@tulip5210]

I didn't watch this season, but I like the vibe i'm feeling from this girl!

[@KelseyIsla21]

the only real convo that happened on this show. love Bekah!

[@imapineapple15]

"Do you like to like, go out like a lot?" He could have phrased it differently and said, "I'm kind of a lame homebody, so hopefully we're compatible that way otherwise, I don't want this to cause problems later down the line when you're bored with me."

[@JusTheKing.]

Late to the party, but not all homebodies are "lame and biring" though...just like not all party people are constantly exciting 24/7. Not everyone has to go out all the time and be wild to be considered exciting.

[@clcoulter09]

I'm just going to say in real life this doesn't matter much. My boyfriend is 27 years old than me, we are the happiest we've ever been in our lives. I do think 22 is too young for marriage, but the age gap is nothing to worry about. Plus of she is mature beyond her years like i was at 22, she can handle it especially because he's an older man

[@katiie7]

Now she’s a mom though!

[@ineselmabrouk5887]

"I just feel like I've become a little bit more boring" "yeah."

[@jimmasterson7143]

That right there is a Creeper...watch his face and body language change when she reveals her age he gets supwr excited inside bc he knows hes not landing a youngy in his "that creepy guy over there" personal life

[@BenjaminButton6573]

He does raise a good point

[@nitaliahope]

I've never wanted to watch the bachelor but their chemistry and DAMN she is so pretty and smart.... makes me wanna watch

[@cloudburstlia456]

The fact she’s a mom now and settled down proves her age was not such an issue they tried to make it out to be

[@Andyyoureastar]

I was NOT expecting her to say she was MY age. 🥴🤐😰

[@stephaniesophia4042]

It's okay Bekah is living her life now go check out her channel

[@lily-ux7gj]

She looks older than her age. That's why he think she older. She looks like she 34 years

[@sarahbaron1888]

she might be young but she's way smarter than every other person on the show

[@lucbordage7291]

Long live BeccaM! Awesome girl.

[@syednoorerasul]

The number of likes spoken in this video is more than the likes for this video

[@claireanai627]

take a shot everytime arie says yknow what i mean !!

[@HarryJohnson69]

If he’s straight, I’m Zach Efron

[@walle4660]

"do you like to like go out alot like do you like to" - Arie

[@caitlinbishop6624]

This goes to show she doesn’t equal maturity. Bekah was seen as too young but now she has a baby, one on the way, a steady relationship, a house & career. If you listen to her podcast you can hear her maturity. Meanwhile there are girls on this show about to be in their 30’s who do nothing but party on brand trips & post outfit of the days.

[@thefamouscommenter]

Okay so I started going down a rabbit hole of research and I can't seem to find what she does as a job now? I see she's no longer a nanny but like what does she do now

[@caitlinbishop6624]

thefamouscommenter she has the chatty broads podcast, and I think other than that sponsored posts like the rest of bachelor nation lol. her boyfriend owns his own gym & she makes money from the podcast & sponsorships and I know she is trying to start her own ethical clothing line!

[@thefamouscommenter]

@@caitlinbishop6624 that's v cool!

[@li22ylizard55]

LIKE LIKE I LIKE LIKE THINGS BECAUSE I LIKE LIKE YA KNOW LIKE....🙄its a trend

[@Asims-ue1or]

Lizardgrimlins Artis it's a horrible damn trend!

[@nishinigamage1647]

i need his skincare routine right now

[@shilanaisilang]

Kit from Matt's season is only 21.

[@briahumble1858]

I feel bad for her that her age changed everything like that.

[@Ninaagabi]

I heard glass shattering as everytime he said 22

[@smcd6101]

For all his worrying about the age gap, I'm pretty sure he said "like" more times than she did in this conversation, lol

[@lauryn8777]

I didnt realized how handsome he is 😮

[@Jacjiemanhue]

Lauryn Rock HE REALLY IS FOINE!!!!

[@A580-f5e]

he doesnt deserve her after disrespecting her like that. Shes a woman. Its that simple

[@pennyboo24]

Why do people comment that they got married or had kids at 22? Do you want us to congratulate you? Being married and having kids at your early 20s is not something to brag about. And I don’t care if your mom or grandma did it successfully. 22 should be the time that you get educated, turn your key to your own apartment, have your first real job, be an independent woman, be critical about yourself. You have your entire life to get married and have a family. So stop thinking that you have accomplished something.

[@katelynnmarie5742]

But DO you know what I mean?

[@iPandaliciouz]

36/2 + 7 She’s a bit too young for him... but idk.

[@pepper1188]

Like. Like...Like.

[@AnjaFourie]

Pepper1188 Do you like to, like, still go out, like, those things, like.

[@emkeshqipe8852]

Like I thought I was like the only who like noticed.

[@chealester9958]

I was getting annoyed with all the likes....it made him sound immature

[@Banana-tc8pv]

I'm, like, from, like, California and that's, like, all you hear.

[@trinityburrows]

Now she has a kid and another on the way! ❤️

[@keivan222]

And now she's 6 months preggo lol

[@MJ-qc3qy]

I feel like sometimes age isn't always a factor and some people just know what they want from the beginning regarding marriage and children. I'm 22 and waiting until marriage and truly want it. I was never enamored with dating and being in multiple relationships I just want the one and some ppl just know that from the very beginning.

[@manugulati1105]

Like you know what I mean you know 😂😂😂😂

[@mariachalsev5611]

anyone wants to count the 'likes'?

[@ernestkuma240]

Maria chalsev...like I believe it was like 36