Women Share Their Cheating Horror Stories

Wild photos, unknown husbands, and more are revealed when these 4 women share their wildest cheating stories!
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[@KarenSanchez-ui9dn]

My husband cheated on me with his ex, and got her pregnant, all while I was pregnant...worst cheating story ever

[@susanatamayo9826]

Damn I'm so sorry you went through that☹️ nobody loyal deserves that... I hope you and your baby recover well from the emotional pain and the betrayal 😣

[@JustineCarissa]

I’m really sorry you had to go through that. Thank you for sharing your story.

[@bri3915]

Aww I feel so sorry for you no one should ever have to go through this and you are amazing because you did. Stay strong

[@tatyana137]

My ex got two best friends pregnant while cheating on one of them with another. Now they both single mothers raising his kids together .

[@tatyana137]

And I m very sorry. That’s so messed up

[@christina5598]

You weren't the homewrecker honey...the wife was 👀

[@chloel.8007]

If she didn't know about the other side it's not her fault.

[@hannahleonie2651]

Chloe Easterling I’m pretty sure she meant the wife that cheated on her husband

[@chasityfeyvenske666]

EXACTLY!!

[@karinasanders2263]

YES

[@vroomvram]

YAS PREACH

[@mirandarichard122]

I don't understand cheating. If you are interested in someone else, END your own relationship then begin a new one. You can't have your cake and eat it too.

[@muffiesperance3126]

Mandy Olsen I agree but I think the phrase is “you can’t be sitting on 2 chairs at the same time “😂

[@1Skorpia]

Some people are extremely selfish . Until it happens to them..they dont care

[@xx___Bunny___xx]

Some people just dont care or hurt others cause they dont wanna be hurt. Its not right tho and its completely selfish

[@krisa3528]

Ricardio Rodríguez Life is too short but that’s no excuse for lying and cheating. Find someone who is into open relationships or polyamory.

[@angelal2961]

preach it! ive been saying this forever. so annoying

[@HollehMae]

I’m sorry but a “platonic weekend” with an ex??? So dodgy

[@thechristelle4]

HollehMae When it’s your first relationship and you’re young and in love you can easily believe the stupidest lies 😅

[@adri5817]

yeah people think it's jealousy issues not being comfortable having your significant other around their ex alone then stuff like this happens

[@christina5598]

Right!

[@recoil53]

First BF, give her a pass on that one.

[@katievanderpot5781]

I was once this naive ill admit

[@yolandadicks8979]

My ex fiancee cheated on me for 4 years. The other woman lied about being pregnant and so he took my ring from me and proposed to her with it because he claimed he believed in having a "family unit". Later he found out she lied and took the ring from her and tried to propose back to me with the SAME RING!!!! worst thing ever

[@marianaprado2856]

Should of said yes and just sold it 😂. But for real I'm really sorry you had to deal with that you deserve so much better.

[@shaniyac9639]

Mariana Prado I aspire to be your level of petty...well done👏🏾

[@emyo7256]

He's trash

[@ashleyrose5170]

What a scum bag !!!

[@sincerely__3771]

Wow should’ve smacked him while you had the chance to

[@aureliastokke3576]

None of this is okay. These women are all gorgeous and they deserved none of this.

[@elisekrueger1642]

Although being gorgeous and experiencing cheating have no correlation

[@allergictohumansnotanimals5671]

wow how observant of u

[@greekchick104]

I wholeheartedly agree! So many people that are close to me have been cheated on, and I seriously have a zero tolerance policy regarding it. It messes you up emotionally- I wouldn't even wish being cheated on on my worst enemy!

[@tatianaplummer3879]

Oml this is the first time I’m someone’s 1 thousandth like! I agree LemonJam

[@recoil53]

Intentional or not, saying "gorgeous and they deserved none of this" makes it sound like they don't deserve it BECAUSE they are gorgeous and everybody else just has to deal with what they get.

[@kaijahbrown9387]

Dang, felt bad for the soldier who probably came back from like a battle to find someone else there 🥺

[@EW-he9ld]

Por guy 🥺

[@PalestineTruth]

Por guy 🥺

[@noot_noota]

Por guy 🥺

[@catherineshore6995]

Por guy 🥺

[@hopeseoknamgivminkook]

por guy🥺

[@alicefuller2918]

Cheating isn’t ok, everyone needs to know this

[@ratherbenapping10]

Alice Fuller they already do

[@ADsahara]

They know, they just do not care. They are selfish.

[@maebeline2496]

@Brianna Tyler your life is a lie

[@322subject]

1 in 5 women lie about who the father of their baby is. It's not cheating.. its sampling.

[@alicefuller2918]

Brianna Tyler wow I’m sorry but I’m glad u found the truth

[@MusicIslife-nn9gn]

Red head girl cheating story was wildddd

[@Laurytalbot]

You mean Rachel

[@MiVidaBellisima]

I feel like she had so much opportunity to get revenge and she just decided to be the bigger person. I can’t relate. Lol

[@QueenStylin]

Also looks like that chain was giving her an allergic reaction. Her skin around the letter was all red.

[@tasneemkhanom6539]

QueenStylin yup, it was stressing me out

[@pinknessatisfy]

The story sounds so familiar! My bf’s name is Joe as well. We live 2.5 hrs apart. This girl and I had the same experience but I was the other girl. We’ve been dating for 7 months when I found out that there was another girl that he’s with for more than 2 years bt they never had a label. Romantic things stopped happening to them every since Joe and I met but they still hangout and they even went on a holiday to Brussels together. I was so devastated when I found out and I rang the girl as well and she never knew I existed! She confirmed that things have changed since that February when Joe and I met. But Joe was really clever in planning the dates when he hangs out with who. I’ve met all his family and the other girl has never met them. We broke up and I became sort of like friends with the other girl and we talk sometimes to comfort each other. In the end, I found it in my heart to forgive him and we’re trying to make the relationship work again. I was never as strong enough as this girl to walk away. We’ll see...

[@lilynugent9292]

"I made the mistake of swiping too far"... Honey would you rather not know? XD

[@tatyana137]

Sometimes

[@yourbooaddieperiodttt5705]

Well... I mean I would never be able to get that picture out of my head

[@Soeia.ElliotClark]

Sometimes you wish you didn't. You can't go back to not knowing, ignorance is bliss.

[@willardsandy2589]

I'm pretty sure the boyfriend was a pornstar .

[@michelepaccione8806]

Boyfriend purposely left her alone with the phone hoping she’d see the pics, be turned on and he could have a foursome. Come on...would you leave your partner with your phone with your threesome pics one swipe away?

[@rileyann3669]

For the third girl, I would have said to him, “I can’t wait for the sun to kiss my face and for me to kiss yours” to make him confused.

[@PalestineTruth]

@Brianna Tyler no he will hack you

[@shambhavimishra4977]

SOMEONE MATCHED MY LEVEL OF PETTY THANKS

[@ascendingneet2263]

Lmaoo

[@aestheticnugget6284]

Lol she should’ve texted the girl on his phone a picture of her and explained how he was playing them both before leaving 😂

[@monicanath4859]

😂😂😂😂

[@alyssalincoln5159]

Dated a guy for 6 months. Stayed at his house over weekends, never saw anything questionable. Until on my birthday I called to ask why he was late for dinner. His pregnant wife answered. They were taking a road trip with their 2 other kids. Turns out he’d hide all of her belongings and send her to her parents house for the weekends I was coming over. She knew the whole time and freaked out on me, the clueless one. Good times.

[@recoil53]

If she knew, why did she get to freak out? She's a part of it!

[@janethalvarado5117]

Alyssa Lincoln I need to hear more of this story

[@alyssalincoln5159]

Janeth Alvarado lmao I got nothing better to do! Ask anything! ( no really I’m boring and have absolutely nothing to do 😂)

[@mariaeligarcia962]

@@alyssalincoln5159 oh my gosh me too lol !!

[@ellagalle]

Alyssa Lincoln I'm curious by what "freaked out on you" means. What did she say?

[@BlackGrapes]

Can we have "Men share their cheating horror stories" next? I'm female, but curious about that too.

[@ChiChi-ns2ik]

Sameeee

[@independentthinker8930]

I have a story, two kids involved

[@ifeomaagbasi9644]

@gottfer sure!!

[@BlackGrapes]

@@independentthinker8930 sure, go ahead

[@nosodiumsalt]

@@shawnlee220 its buzzfeed, men dont exist in their books apparently

[@MeGirl191]

You aren't a homewrecher if you don't know they're married or in a relationship.

[@jessrose1728]

MeGirl191 I had messed with a guy and he had told me he was single and that he was done with his baby momma. They were long distance at the time too. Me being 18 and naive I believed it. We messed around and his baby momma flipped out on him and I felt like a homewrecker that I didn’t know he’d still be dating her.

[@draconicthorn1980]

@@jessrose1728 ur not a homewrecker! That’s the dudes fault

[@malorie8557]

There is no such thing as a homewrecker. Only two possible scenerios. A. Either the husband/wife didn't reveal they were married and therefore unaware of their relatiobship or B. He/She did tell you and THEY continued the affair and therefore ruined their relationship. Most people would obviously leave after being told they are married but all blame is on THEM if the marriage goes up in flames and no one else should be blamed.

[@pratiksha7432]

all these women are so gorgeous, but still it happened to them. so remember! don't ever blame yourself for being cheated upon :) *edit:* thanks guys for all the likes. it's nice to see someone agree with me on this.

[@allergictohumansnotanimals5671]

Rhea are u implying that people who aren't "gorgeous" can get cheated on?

[@pratiksha7432]

allergic to humans not animals nope. i meant there's absolutely no excuse for cheating on someone.

[@pratiksha7432]

Ghettoluv thank you🙄

[@MK-tq5ec]

normally girls blame that they are not pretty enough and that why the guy cheated, rhea said blame the cheaters, not yourselves

[@pratiksha7432]

M K absolutely✨

[@afshantayyab4136]

Cheating is not a mistake, it's a choice. Edit : Guys Thank you for 1k likes ❤

[@jov4369]

Choices can be mistakes

[@arlisiacoley3244]

Queen Afshan mis·take /məˈstāk/ Learn to pronounce noun an action or judgment that is misguided or wrong. "coming here was a mistake"

[@arlisiacoley3244]

Ary Chai ok?... y’all said it wasn’t a mistake but by definition it can be a mistake I never stated it wasn’t a choice. Cheating could be defined by either word anyone could see that. I’m not here to play semantics with y’all. So what exactly are you trying to prove? 😂🤔

[@arlisiacoley3244]

Ary Chai 👋🏼🤡

[@huh.2]

I think it can be both, but if someone claims it was mistake, that does NOT mean they don’t deserve the consequences for their actions

[@deesilver6486]

I was 4 months pregnant and was cheated on. The worst part is she knew about me the whole time. They were talking about raising the baby together and names... Pregnancy is already stressful and I have fibromyalgia which makes it worse. Never felt more alone and stupid.

[@ashleypetrini4627]

Hopefully YOU get full custody. It may be stressful, but it will be better than having your own flesh and blood turned against you. I'm so sorry you're going through this. I'm sure you'll be a wonderful mom!

[@azminamaqbul3507]

Oh my God, sorry dear

[@deesilver6486]

azmina maqbul thank you! It’s crazy to believe this is my life.

[@levistrudel9319]

Document EVERYTHING and get a family attorney ASAP

[@ttyngordon]

They were planning on stealing your baby? Omg.

[@Andysaid420]

Same thing happened to me... I was dating a guy who claimed he was 100% gay... And then next thing I know his wife (who lived in another city) contacted me thinking I was a girl and she flipped the tf out when I said I was his bf. He's now fat, balding, broke and single.

[@evidancemogale3402]

Good!

[@adillahmaisarah8111]

Server him right

[@katerinasutton9115]

Karma !

[@hangry265]

Haha!

[@levistrudel9319]

Yeeessss 😂

[@sabrinaduarte3904]

One of my biggest fears is giving my all to someone only to end up getting played.

[@KS84692]

Hope this never happens to me either 🥺

[@TrapLordENT]

You look very young bro, don't give it your all until you know for sure they're worth it

[@donnajoseph-barford1076]

It hurts really bad. To have done twice is devastating.

[@FookinChipBrah]

I don't wish that on anyone bc not everyone is strong enough to go thru it

[@dinosaur7115]

Sabrina Duarte I agree especially the fact that if someone is having their first relationship.

[@katexx0848]

this is why you should stay sad and single forever

[@Anavid_reader18]

Lol yh

[@caitlinl7794]

100th like

[@cakedaymeza5990]

That was my perpis in life :3

[@bobaoballs]

Meeeee

[@andioop1618]

Katexx08 I lowkey felt that

[@yungroyalty6433]

Nobody is safe. You can be the most beautiful, loving, amazing person and still get cheated on. Find someone that knows your worth.

[@spookywitch0x0]

You're beautiful 💖 and you're right.

[@chittcx5712]

The girl with the pink splotchy chest isn’t allergic to her necklace. It’s a type of blushing (usually happens to people with fair skin tones).

[@kristenmoody4635]

Chitt CX she very well could be though ..

[@leary4170]

Definitely a nervous reaction

[@lindsaylindsay4884]

Directly underneath the necklace ?

[@karissastillar]

I usually get splotches all over my chest when I’m stressed. I can see her feeling very uncomfortable and stressed about her story.

[@alleycatalog]

I thought it was a new tatoo.

[@kyrar3221]

It’s not her necklace causing her to turn red. I do that too. I get super red and splotchy when I get hot or nervous. She’s probably just nervous.

[@anasuarez3408]

same i hate it 😭

[@yourpaldrphayul3048]

She's just splotchy in that area. It's definitely a reaction.

[@xKlumZeex]

It’s most likely fake silver. Lots of people react to fake silver.

[@jodihaskey6164]

It's a tell tell sign for emotional distress I do that also.

[@MH-hs6lh]

She also could have been playing with her necklace and her skin turned red. Mine does that all the time

[@nightnaughty]

Anyone who is a cheater sucks and it's a definition of bad person, have the courage to be honest and end the relationship you are in before going after someone else, because it is not about you only. They end up hurting people, creating trust issues and sometimes making the sweetest of people bitter and angry while they go around careless about the consequences of there actions.

[@alexandraschultz1481]

SJnight what about reformed cheaters?

[@nightnaughty]

@@alexandraschultz1481 There are no reformed cheaters, there are those that are lucky and there partners forgive them and/or decided to work on repairing the relationship with couples therapy, but the damaged caused on the people who were cheated it can't be taken away even with therapy. Nobody who cheats were forced to do it, they chose to cheat knowingly regardless of the commitments made and the damage they could cause to there partners. A good person is honest, ends the relationship first, and then goes after a new or the new person .

[@jokbok995]

@@nightnaughty a really good person doesn't judge someone who cheated Its not that black and white Its more than that I agree with some points you said but for the whole you are wrong

[@nightnaughty]

@@jokbok995 It is black and white when you decide to hurt someone when you had the choice not to and yet did it anyway, i'm not talking about cases of assault but instances when you have full control of your actions and instead of restraining yourself out of respect or love for your partner you cheat. The whole thing about not judging is pure hipocresy because if someone cheated on you or to some love one of yours it's not you or them who are at fault for getting angry, there are not to sides of the story only the side of who cheated and hurt you willingly.

[@iLoveTheBamx]

captain dirtypie there are reasons why people cheat. None of them are good. At the end of the day, we all have options and one of them being is to leave before infidelity happens. Or to be a stronger person and do the right thing, and not be unfaithful. It really does boil down to someone having the courage, honesty, and integrity to say I should not do this or I should leave my partner before I do/if I choose to do so. Cheating doesn’t happen in an instant. A series of actions lead up to it all, at which any given point someone can pause to take a moment and think about their actions and what they are doing, and to evaluate if it is right or wrong. Cheating is overall selfish and painful to all involved because it only comes back to hurt the one you love and ultimately to the cheater themselves after having to deal with the repercussions of trust issues, anger, and (potential) guilt. (If they have a conscience). We all know this.

[@casasasasasasasasl5698]

My cheating story was that my dog went to my frenemy at the park and started licking her. It was really sad.

[@SuperVandal101]

Jisungs Squirrel wifey honestly sounds horrible! Hopefully that never happens to me 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@SilverMoon459]

Omg

[@mjnerd0828]

Jisungs Squirrel wifey That really sucks :((( I'm so sorry that happened to you Also, based on your username, do you happen to be a fellow Stay?

[@casasasasasasasasl5698]

MJNerd c: yes I do happen to be a stay!

[@mjnerd0828]

Jisungs Squirrel wifey oh hi there fellow Stay! Sorry I don't see many other K-Pop fans on non K-pop videos so it's always nice to meet fellow fans 😊

[@bossbaby3497]

I feel really bad for people that are cheated on

[@Anavid_reader18]

Same

[@ivybonilla7048]

Hello fellow ARMY, hows it going.

[@bossbaby3497]

BTS_Army_Newyork 1 Heyyy😄 It’s going good ^_^ What about you?

[@ivybonilla7048]

HelpINeedNamjesus So sorry I’m replying late. I’m just glad I always seem to find an ARMY in all comments

[@bossbaby3497]

BTS_Army_Newyork 1 It’s okeyy ☺️ I’m glad too💜💜

[@HoneyGun]

My ex husband cheated just after we finally bought a house together and were planning to start a family (we had been together 12 years). He has now cheated on the woman he cheated on me with. People like him will never change.

[@kikitab]

Oh that's so sad, but true, my sister had a boyfriend for like 4 years, they were even thinking about moving in together and getting married, etc, then she was studying in a dif city and she found out on a weekend she was visiting him he was cheating with a coworker and he got the co-worker pregnant ... My sister was devastated... Years later she found out he had cheated on that woman with another 🤦🤦 they never change

[@gpaje]

"He was a musician..." She could have ended her story right there, knew exactly where this was going.

[@fwromel]

how

[@lollolololoolololololololo3983]

Huh?

[@PinkCrystalzx]

^ to reply to these, the majority of, specifically male, musicians are cheaters or are guaranteed to break your heart.

[@e1amena]

To y’all asking why: it might also be bc this is called “cheating horror stories”

[@ivymorgan7629]

Cause he's a player! Hehehe....puns

[@ae4285]

“Trying to be cool and let my boyfriend go on a road trip with his ex” .... why does he want to go on a one-on-one vacation with any other woman besides you. absolutely not.

[@Myuserhandleisbetterthanyours]

A E even people new in relationships know that she obviously didn’t ask her friends for advice

[@devyn5174]

I always thought it was good NOT to ask friends for advice and to do what you think is right because that’s what will ultimately help you reveal things about the relationship. Basically, their growth is organic. Yes it led to him cheating but that is what she needed to learn by allowing him to go. If she listened to her friends and told him he wasn’t allowed to go, then it would have taken her a longer time to figure out what scum he was. Ideally she would have known he was scum the moment he wanted to spend time with another woman one on one. The correct next step would have been to break it off there but even if her friends told her to do that, she wouldn’t because she was infatuated/in love.

[@boobear7807]

@@devyn5174 Woah that's really good advice!

[@videofan1010]

This is a big fat nope.

[@emmashepard6222]

In high school I was dating this guy for 6 months when I started to develop a crush on a guy on my cross country team. I did the right thing and immediately told my boyfriend I'm sorry but we need to break up. 3 years later I'm happily married to the boy from xc. I felt SO guilty developing a little crush on someone I had to tell my boyfriend at the time. I don't understand how people can cheat.

[@hangry265]

Bless your heart

[@tang3151]

You're a good person with morals.

[@monicanath4859]

What a wonderful person you are! Good on you for being honest!

[@leliavoinea1942]

Atleast you acted like a decent human bing and that is ok.

[@Nav00000]

To everyone currently going thru this: You are going to be ok, you are enough. And you’re worthy.

[@eugeniahernandez6642]

oooooo girl when boys still talk to their exes nothing good comes outta of that.

[@pessimisticperfectionist2152]

My current boyfriend still talks to some of his exes and now I'm very worried ^^'

[@eugeniahernandez6642]

Pessimistic Perfectionist my ex of five years started “dating” someone else in September and I just found out yesterday, she was yelling at me like I was the “side piece” and I told her everything showed her receipts, turns out he had been cheating with other girls besides her too, we came to the conclusion he’s a hoe lmao but girl imma pray for you you don’t need no dirty man

[@pessimisticperfectionist2152]

@@eugeniahernandez6642 well my very first boyfriend (as in serious boyfriend) cheated on me 6 times ^^' so I've always been a bit of a worrier since. Then my second boyfriend made me feel awful if I ever brought up anything I had a problem with. My current boyfriend has definitely been so good to me. He always assures me when I have an issue that everything is okay and he loves to spoil me - though I feel guilty for having money spent on me. I really, really wanna believe he's good ^^' I appreciate the prayers ^^' I hope this one goes well

[@eugeniahernandez6642]

Pessimistic Perfectionist hey good for you girl, but I will say this and it’s not me trying to make you think negative. A man can post you all you want, can let you go through his things, he can be with you 24/7, he can make you feel the best you’ve felt in years if he wants to he will find a way and cheat. Not trying to be negative but sometimes it is like that. Be careful. I wish you the best of luck

[@pessimisticperfectionist2152]

@@eugeniahernandez6642 thank you ^-^

[@renyp.b2172]

The last girl is really hurt by her ex-girlfriend

[@nightnaughty]

That girl is of the worst kind because she didn't even show remorse about lying to her, also it encourages the bad rep that bi people are given

[@purplespray3768]

It seems fresher

[@carmillastephens9497]

@@nightnaughty you're right... I refuse to date bisexual women for the reason of that type of sneakiness.

[@carmillastephens9497]

@mia morales I'm sure that's true but the experiences I've had with bi women are enough to make me want no parts of them on that level.

[@mariac1160]

@@carmillastephens9497 Wow. Maybe you should examine what it says about you that you think you can judge people and determine their (negative) traits based on what gender(s) they were born being attracted to. I'm bi and honest is my #1 thing in relationships. I've always made sure not to act in any way that I would be uncomfortable with my partner knowing about, or that I would be uncomfortable with my partner acting. What if I said I refused to date lesbian women because they're all judgemental of bi women? I'm aware that just because you are, and I've encountered a couple who are, it doesn't mean that it's a result of who they are sexually attracted to - it's a result of you/them being judgemental people.

[@stinkicow9551]

They all deserve better

[@Stella-xy2bk]

Ikr I feel so bad for them

[@mushkadruk7844]

Plot twist: his name is *actually* Joe

[@lindseybrannock8871]

Like that part in the story where she said she saw him standing outside of her window. XD

[@jkoziarski1]

nobody: the ex’s watching this video: 😶

[@satsat247]

Some of the dislikes was their ex

[@kirstbielle]

Oh please, like they care

[@carolinemussallem9320]

When someone is cheating on you, the energy from them is so off and you’ll know.

[@kipnaryco7980]

Caroline Mussallem 100% !!

[@princetonshot]

Sometimes they act the same though

[@FookinChipBrah]

oh most deff, you'd have to be really intuitive to feel the difference.

[@ETXBP]

Not always. Narcissists have no guilt and definitely do not act any differently. They can be sexting an ex while sitting at the dinner table with their family and not bat an eye.

[@cindy846]

@@ETXBP Absolutely true

[@m23star1]

Walked in on my ex with an overly underage girl. Felt like i was in a bad movie.

[@kiks4757]

Oh Christ! What happened afterwards? Did he get arrested?

[@ascendingneet2263]

O h m y l a n t a

[@theblackkittie13]

I hope the ending of that movie is that person went to jail...

[@shanelchamik2177]

I would call the cops on him. That's just disgusting

[@saintep.mizero9701]

Nightmare, dating a freaking pedophile ewww

[@jorayner9350]

This was about 5 years ago now, found out my ex fiance was cheating on me the day after Valentine's. He had given me his old phone because he got a new one, but forgot to unlink his email accounts from it. So, he's sleeping and I get an email notification on this old phone and it's from a dating app. I clicked on it and it took me directly to his account and I find that he's not cheating on me with not just one girl but 13. I read through all of the messages and walk into our room and just stare at him for a good chunk of time before I decide to chuck the phone at him. Not a very nice wake up call for either of us that day. 😂

[@tulip5210]

The way she just sweetly says “I destroyed his favorite cds and hid it under his chair.” xD

[@zeekeeren8423]

I found out I was being cheated on by my ex-bf the day of our 6th anniversary. Worst day of my entire existence. It was my rock bottom for sure. No one deserves to be treated like crap.

[@monday2471]

damn people can be COLD. imagine being so in love with a person not knowing you're their side chick

[@myanoel0]

monday2471 yup. for sure. i know that feeling.

[@princetonshot]

Yup. It's heartbreaking

[@taylorcarter2857]

I can't trust a guy that is friends with his ex's. I'm not even sorry about that.

[@user-lb1qt8fu4x]

U really can't trust anyone who's still friends with their ex honestly, people don't know their boundaries

[@lexyruse603]

@@user-lb1qt8fu4x I'm friends with some of my ex's. One of my ex girlfriends is my bridesmaids in my wedding. If you can keep things platonic that's all that matters.

[@Megan-zz3xu]

@@user-lb1qt8fu4x I think it depends on why the relationship ended, I'm still friends with my ex, no feelings for each other, the relationship just didn't work out so we ended it.

[@user-lb1qt8fu4x]

@@Megan-zz3xu true true im just saying in genral how cheating has become so normal now a days it's disgusting

[@iam_vannguyen]

Lexy Ruse Very true I believe you can be friends with your exes... But allowing your BF to go on a trip with their ex?? Very suspicious.

[@Ronnie__]

Jay-Z cheated on Beyonce. What hope is there for us mere mortals?

[@Lauren-ub7ih]

More. We don't have money or options like they do.

[@lindsaylindsay4884]

Ah Bee men love this one. These men are not JAY-Z!

[@Finlay693]

They are not the standard for relationships nor are they relationship goals🤨

[@123RileyRoe250]

@@Lauren-ub7ih Haha as the wise Chris Rock once said 'A man is as faithful as his options'!

[@ektasharma3520]

Women , there are men who are faithful to their wives or girlfriends.They just do not flaunt about getting laid like those man child. Don't drop your standards to get a man. Man is as faithful as his integrity in his eyes and not as much as his options.

[@ryannecasanova3645]

My husband cheated many times with a college student, a housemaid, numerous prostitutes, tinder match whilst having 3 kids. It was a mess but a relief knowing the truth.

[@princetonshot]

You divorced him right ?

[@serahemy7]

That guy must be really terrible & a pervert

[@granola1210]

Hope he's Ur ex husband now. Don't let him bring diseases inside your home

[@monicanath4859]

Good grief how truly awful! I hope you have moved on, now!

[@saraptv4364]

That girl who donated these clothes is so sweet 🥺

[@Kalee-ed5md]

Rachel is so sweet she didn’t even go through his phone up first she just looked at the screen and omg she melted my heart she was being so nice and she like just tried to be nice to her like OMG ISBUSNDH 🥺🥺

[@kellyjjoy3]

Could there be a video of people who cheated sharing their stories? I'd like to hear the flip side of some of these stories, or just any cheating stories

[@ghosttree3082]

Kelly Joy Johnson my ex told me it was because he wanted to be like his dad (another huge cheater)

[@alishajessa]

Watch the Unfaithful series on OWN network!! They have some on KZbin too and you get to see both sides :)

[@eroshiyda]

When I was 19, I had an abusive boyfriend who threatened suicide if I broke up with him. I cheated on him once so that he would break up with me. That didn't work, so one day I just moved to another city with a family member where I felt safe from him. I haven't talked to him since then.

[@Barsookmik]

I cheated on my bf after 5 years of faithful relationship on my side. He was mentally abusive, I was miserable in that relationship and I was abroad. That helped me finally break up with him right after I got back home (didn't wanna break up over a text). At the time I believed HE didn't deserve such a horrible gf. Now, I know it's no good and I plan to never cheat for the rest of my life, but 3 years past thinking about that time still makes me happy

[@nidhinagaraj5334]

Watch it on this KZbin channel called, 'The Spectrum'

[@OGfromQueens]

My ex husband cheated on me with his coworkers. They used to come to my house to our gatherings and he had me watching their children when they were "in the field" They used to eat my food and leave their children with me. On top of that when I confronted him he became physically and financially abusive.

[@rosebudg8302]

Ugghh what a pos 😠

[@kikihenz3946]

@@rosebudg8302 exactly what I said

[@devikaspanicker5189]

That S.O.B...

[@monicanath4859]

Disgusting!

[@neko2412neko]

Seriously, how can you even reconcile cheating with your conscience? I don't get it...

[@VegQuaker13]

I was with this guy for about 3 years during college. I had a brain tumor removed and had massive injuries in 2016. I was in a coma and basically fighting for my life. I was in hospitals and stuff for a long time. When I was in one, he broke up with me and I found out he'd been cheating on me while I was in the ICU and hospitals.

[@cankerbl0ssom616]

@Lori A that is really sad nobody deserves that:(

[@VegQuaker13]

Can't say that I miss him!

[@samiarahman5152]

Lori A Just forget this jerk as if it’s a bad dream . Take care of yourself and InshaAllah u will get a better person who will stay with u forever and also love u 😍😍😍😍

[@VegQuaker13]

@@samiarahman5152 I am engaged now to an old friend from my childhood! Things definitely worked out for me!

[@samiarahman5152]

Lori A congratulations 🥳 Hope a better life for u nd ur future husband. Btw how is your health?

[@Luvv1226]

Cheating is something wrong to your lover and that it is too much work , if you don’t love them then end it instead of hurting the other person.

[@KeepingUpWithJaz]

I got cheated on for 2 yrs. Ignored every inch of intuition in my living body 🙄

[@LEtoileRouge-io9fn]

same. learned my lesson.

[@lizbosen771]

Been there.

[@christyjohnson5618]

Me too. He had a whole side bih family!

[@tembokbunga]

My ex was straight up mentally abusive. He would always said that i cheated on him with my guy friends. 2 years, i let him walk all over me. Turns out he was thirsty on tinder and all the other app. Glad that r/s is done cause i met my husband and we are waiting for the arrival of our twins!

[@aluralaymon236]

Rutherford congrats!! that’s amazing love ❤️❤️

[@melissaperrotta1054]

Rutherford my ex husband did the same thing to me!! I didn’t have guy friends persay, so I was basically cheating with all his male relatives.... he is currently shacked up with my first cousin, raising a child that is now my second cousin. To this day, he still claims I’m the jerk (I never cheated, but I left him as soon as the mental abuse became physical). What a sick and demented freak. They did me a favour!

[@Maryannam78903]

Being cheated on is the utter most worst feeling ever when someone makes you feel so less and low about yourself its like you lose yourself and you wonder just WHY they did that to you. To not even consider your feelings nor respect the relationship its really sad. I was cheated on by an ex girlfriend on our anniversary and i felt like my heart was ripped out from my chest. She basically lied and said it was "just a friend" then i find out she put their in a relationship the day of our anniversary as if i wasnt gonna find out. It was one of the most horrible nights of my life then she wanted to take me back and say "she loves me" i also really fell deeply for this guy i dated a year ago and he led me on for 6 months saying im the only girl hes seeing and wants until i stupidly got close with him and i found out he was cheating on me with other girls at car shows and trying to get them under his wing too. It hurts soo MUCH. I dont understand how people can be okay with themselves knowing they hurt someone.

[@mazayashah213]

That Dubai story is crazy!!!

[@1Skorpia]

Make this a series: this is some juicy crazy stuff- and I'm here for it. Hit the like button for these poor souls 🥰I hope they find true love.

[@pelumio4908]

the first girl : i was looking at him and he was looking at me me: and we were thinking,,wOoOaAh

[@hevinleigh2604]

Go DeMarcus

[@tjaspire]

The redhead that said she is “non confrontational” is low key a crazy chick. 😂 Not going to lie, I am 100% here for it. He deserved every bit of It! Mortal Kombat voice, “FINISH HIM!”

[@jodihaskey6164]

When they say once a cheater always a cheater there not lying my ex husband cheated more than I care to remember and since our divorce he has wanted to cheat on his current relationships with me. There never happy it's just about respect and these cheaters have none. Single and happy

[@emilywithers8299]

Omg the girl who donated that $500 dress what a boss!!!!!

[@RainWalking]

She was 18 at the time and her partner was married to a guy for 5 years? How old was her partner....

[@thecottoncandylette]

Awakened Spirit literally could have been 23, if they got married at 18. Military people tend to marry quickly.

[@RainWalking]

@@thecottoncandylette Good point, so that means as a Teen they are dating someone over 5 years older.

[@RainWalking]

@@thecottoncandylette Yea military people get married young. Because if they die, their partner is gonna get paid.

[@eleognora]

0:52 she said her girlfriend was older than her

[@RainWalking]

@@eleognora Yea but how old? Sounds like a predator preying on a teen.

[@olivedizzy8215]

At least she had some courtesy to tell you. Better late than never. 🙁

[@watchmeuploadandenjoy4278]

I’m over here being loyal to a guy I’m not even dating:/

[@littlesparrow303]

Watchmeuploadandenjoy! : omg same!!!! I’ve liked the same guy for many years. Yes I’ve had crushes on other guys but they don’t make me feel the same way the way he does when I see him. He told me once he would date me so it’s a possibility it can happen again. I still see him looking at me, wants me to become better & wanted to see me at my 1st job.

[@tanveesharma2636]

@Watchmeupload... That is next level loyalty Sis

[@laz7167]

Why would u even let ur s/o go somewhere with their ex?? ALONE at that??

[@omgemojiis2603]

Yeah didn't understand that. But I guess it was a test to see if I can trust you.

[@pessimisticperfectionist2152]

I haven't actually watched the video yet so ^^' but she may have been manipulated into believing she's a controlling, psycho girlfriend if she didn't let him do what he wants :P

[@ghosttree3082]

My ex told me it was because he wanted to be like his dad (another huge cheater)

[@milobeauchamp1332]

It’s just a trust thing. If you trust them it shouldn’t be a problem. And you should talk to them about what bothers you

[@marley92282]

It sounds to me that girl overestimated the relationship status.... in his mind things were prbly super casual and open, in her mind they’re like a step away from getting hitched. Maybe I’ve just been cheated on too many times, I’m familiar with their mindset and different perspective.

[@binathapamagar3424]

When i was seventeen i was dating a guy . I was totally in love with him . He proposed me i said 'yes' (worst decision ever 🙄) our relation was going fine but he was into the things like my ex is my friend . He used to hangout out with her and his friends. And i was like cool that's a small thing. Not only his ex he used to hangout with other girls too. I mean i was literally tying to be cool 😂 no that doesn't affect me i don't have any problem . But inside that used to kill me . After six month of dating i get a message from a girl . She said that he is cheating on me. She shows their text messages that how much he loves her like more than the stars on the sky and all the stuffs like that . I was totally mad and freaked out i mean i trusted him what did he do ?cheated on me . I said it's over. He begged me apologized to me . After having fight for more than a week. Again we started dating and yeah that sucks me now because i was so in love with him i just couldn't. After that day nothing was the same . We used to fight a lot . I keep on saying him that i don't trust him . Obviously how could i 🙄 and then i just could not take it any more i decided to breakup . Still he was not over me . I blocked him through every source. But still he used to come to me. Ask for forgiveness and the answer was no not at all not anymore. Now he is dating another girl . Like it's not even two months damn it how can he get over me before he was begging and all . I knew he was not for me . Now i am single but not lonely. I am very proud and happy that i kicked that man out of my life . Sometimes i miss him but surely never gonna go back to that jerk .

[@aprilaugustine4853]

You did the right thing sis🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@dahliadoll7323]

The Red head is what Jaclyn hill used to look like

[@Neverlandishome]

doll 😂

[@jjcymbolic]

I THOUGHT I was cheated on once by my now husband. We were a month away from being married, hanging out with my mom as we watched a movie. He got a call and I heard a girl says, "I can't do this anymore, you either choose her or me." And he just hung up on her. I sat there for a while. I tried to connect the dots in different ways, but the only thing that broke up the consistency was how he hung up. He was nonchalant and didn't even mention it. I left the room, went outside, sat beneath a tree and just cried. I still wasn't completely convinced that he had been cheating on me, but the fear made me well up. He came out soon after, let me know it was nothing and called the number back. The girl said, "people don't usually call us back." and she explained that she paid to call him up and say those things. We found out who did it and it was my best friend's sister. So... we got revenge. We acted like I had run away and wasn't coming back, that my phone was off, etc, etc. And eventually taught her the lesson that you shouldn't fiddle in relationships like she did.

[@queensaharaice7376]

Wow. I'm glad it worked out for you both and it didn't destroy your relationship.

[@monicanath4859]

Bless you both!

[@michellestella7477]

My ex cheated on me. With one of my mother's best friends. For about 6 months. 😒

[@lifewithlanda883]

Michelle Stella oof

[@lifewithlanda883]

That’s tough☹️

[@michellestella7477]

@@lifewithlanda883 yeah he was a piece of s*** 😂 It's ok. Karma will get him.

[@jellyfish928]

Did your mom know?

[@michellestella7477]

@@jellyfish928 she found out. She's the one who told me. And no, they're not friends anymore. Apparently her "friend" was really upset with my mother and asked her why she told me. "My mother should have minded her own business." Smh

[@Katie-iu3ic]

“I started dating this guy, let’s call him Joe”...me: 👀

[@whereiswaldo5872]

The moment I find out you are friends with your ex is the moment I’m leaving. Call me immature but I didn’t play that mess and I’m not competing with no ex.

[@magasela695]

Sometimes people are better as friends than lovers

[@whereiswaldo5872]

Minnie M that’s all good but I cannot be your lover, you not going to play me for a fool. If you aren’t good enough to be my lover you are good enough to be my friend

[@magasela695]

@@whereiswaldo5872 Fair

[@oreoemsa304]

Having a gf and going on a trip with your ex without your gf... A little disrespectful to me.

[@cindy846]

VERY

[@Boom-ue8zo]

Especially when your relationship is still so new

[@jesshigginbottom3866]

I'm from MI.. my ex is from SoCal.. Except we lived together in Michigan for 5 years. It wasn't until we broke up & he moved back to California, that I learned he was cheating on me & multiple other girls his entire time in Michigan... 😳😳😳😳 thankfully he's gone now!!

[@LewisKay89]

Who leaves their phone in front of her knowing that picture is on there, other than someone who wants to be caught.

[@niyahguthery]

Thought the same thing, I just think he didn’t wanna end it himself...

[@_tacins_]

"The way you exit a relationship is really important, you keep your dignity. Always" - Dita Von Teese No point in destroying the other person's property. No point in contacting the other person. Just walk away.

[@malorie8557]

👌👌 100% I could not agree more. I've never seen the point of wasting any more time and energy on someone who was willing to do that. Simply "boy, you're not worth it."

[@justsomeone4229]

HOW CAN YOU BE INTIMATE WITH YOUR «GIRLFRIEND» AFTER YOU’VE CHEATED I _DON’T GET IT_

[@spookywitch0x0]

I DON'T GET IT EITHER 😐😵😡💀

[@leeshabroda]

Giiiirl, been through this. It sucks, but we're strong and know our worth to get out of it 🤙🏽

[@roxannazales4960]

“I’m going on a weekend trip with my platonic ex” ‘Chea OKAY.

[@LivingMyLife22]

Some of those stories just blew my mind

[@lisalmf123]

That awful feeling when you can relate. 🤦‍♀️ I had something similar happen. Met my ex online. Online dating sucks by the way, very rarely are they successful. Anyway, we started dating we were together for a almost 2 years and I find out this jerk is married and had been for a year. Before people say I should have known, people are very good at being deceptive now a days. And yes, I had MANY doubts and thought he was cheating but never had proof and NEVER in a million years thought he was married. Some people lie right to your face, manipulate and emotional abuse you. Some people are evil. Single is the way to go peps.

[@janerosaGermany]

„see ya never“ Should have been the thing I told my cheating ex.

[@BeckaMackers]

Was with my ex for almost two years, had had my suspicions for a while but couldn’t prove it. Was on holidays in a foreign country with his entire family (parents, grandparents, cousins) and I find really provocative messages revealing he had slept with a girl he’d been dating before we met. They had slept together only the week before we went away. Had to stay the rest of the rest of the holiday because flights only went once a week. I found out on day two of said holiday.

[@selmawinston6715]

does anyone notice the redhead look like young Jaclyn hill? Just me?

[@bee_ba]

I’m 22 and I caught my best friend of 10 years and my boyfriend of 3 and a half years fooling around in my own home and I’m traumatized. It literally happened a week ago and then my ex told me he was falling in love with her but still tried to keep me around. I’ve blocked them both. And they’re still connected on social media so I’m trying to ignore it. I don’t understand people and the pain is ridiculous I can’t even put it into words. I don’t understand the thought process in people’s heads when they do this. No body deserves this.

[@enbyweeb902]

This is why I'm happy to be a single potato!

[@omgemojiis2603]

Not really though, I'm in high school, so only thing I see are couples. Kissing. In the hallway. Yeah😔 Forever alone.

[@alivia5968]

dont call yourself a potato. its cringey

[@hpierre2294]

OMG Emojiis I’m 22 years old and never was in a relationship. If I can give you any advice, it would be to seek higher things. I’m a verry career oriented person. I have a Bachelor Degree from a prestigious College, and I’m also currently undertaking my masters degree AND an engineering degree (both at a same time). To be honest I’m so bussy I don’t even have time to think about getting a relationship and am much happier learning and securing a bright future. Life is not just about relationships or money it’s about what you want it to be. Education is a good life goal, but maybe for you it’s sports or arts or anything. Just don’t stress about it at some point in your life you might meet someone who you’ll be happy to ne with. High School is just a facade people like experimenting there but when they get into adulthood you can start seeing that most of them don’t know what to do.

[@indiaxlovee]

The Krught ❤️

[@bisanlibillai7329]

🤞👍

[@neuroseptember1020]

Lesson: in your first real relationship don't be overly accommodating for someone who is much older than you

[@eurekamreum5458]

Period. Happened to me as well and it didn't serve me at all.

[@matthews2365]

That last girl was a sweetheart

[@andreabennett1786]

The one where here gf is in a relationship with the dubia guy sounds like those Nigerian prince scams😂

[@helenpavon9457]

is it just me or does the red haired girl look like jaclyn hill? lmao

[@melisa6609]

This is why I’ll be single forever and legit no one will ever like me😂😂😂

[@omgemojiis2603]

At least we single pringles don't have to go through the pain.😅

[@notyourren]

I love the way she said "Obviously I looked at it" 😂😂😂

[@KuncanDastner]

these hurt my soul. These women are stronger than anyone I know

[@caitlinl7794]

If you're a single Pringle... | | | | | |

[@gracecampiti8112]

Caitlin L you're

[@midnightmist814]

A lot of people aren’t attracted to individuals with poor grammar

[@bri3915]

Hello fellow single person

[@caitlinl7794]

@@midnightmist814 it was autocorrect but okay......

[@omgemojiis2603]

Single club forever😭

[@SabinaStitches]

2 weeks ago I was planning my wedding on a Monday night. Tuesday morning I found out about Sonja. Couple years down the drain right there.

[@christyjohnson5618]

SabinaStitches damn girl 💕

[@quarantinedcosmonaut4082]

Michelle...this is what happens when you try to be that "cool girl" trope in movies. I hope you know now that it's not okay to be a doormat. There were SO many red flags you just shrugged off. ROCK THE BOAT GIRL!

[@preskiryazova7691]

Love these

[@virginiabuchanan775]

"We're gonna call him Joe" My mind went straight to Joe Goldberg

[@iB0NKERS]

My first love was texting other girls that he’d date them after me behind my back. :) 1 was a daughter of a family friend I knew, 1 was a ‘friend’ who lied to me about not still having a crush on him still, 2-3 were younger girls from my classes. He briefly dated A LOT of girls after me which I thought was a bit odd but I guess he liked speed dating since we were together for almost 2 years.

[@user-lv2lw7xr6w]

I wish i found out 4-5 months into our relationship not after 5 years together

[@miissmiser6927]

Never ever date someone who is friends with their ex's

[@evaivii9436]

...you.. you can be friends with an ex and lose feelings completely, you know that right?

[@dottedlines]

@@evaivii9436 It turns out to be false in 90% cases. The feelings are hidden away in a tiny corner if things were very serious to begin with. An ex is an ex for a reason. Not gonna take a risk for 10%.

[@puffball5329]

@@dottedlines nah... like once my high school friend and I made out and kinda had a crush on each other. Dated for a couple weeks, seemed so off so we just decided to be friends. Really good friends until now

[@dottedlines]

@@puffball5329 That's the thing. Y'all weren't in a very serious longterm relationship or invested in it very emotionally so it's different.

[@puffball5329]

@@dottedlines exactly not every relationship is serious . So its unfair to say you shouldn't date people who are friends with their ex