Ask Nick - My Husband’s a Shopaholic | The Viall Files w/ Nick Viall

[@JaneWoodBranam]

Being shamed by a man about your past is a dealbreaker. She dodged a bullet and shouldn’t ever contact him again.

[@InMy1987Era]

Exactly. It’s the double standard like always. Breaking up with you on text says A LOT about his character. First caller dodged a bullet

[@joanne8084]

Definitely a deal breaker, I do sorta wish she could shame him back by pointing out she’s disappointed to find out he texts breakups & how his thinking is ridiculous & judgmental & sexist. If he tried to get back with her tho it’d be terrible for her to give him another chance, which it sounds like she would, because he’d be a condescending jerk most likely through what we have heard so you’re probably correct in that she should never speak to him again.

[@Agata_Balbina]

She trusted him and wanted to open up to him and she definitely shouldn't be shamed. I think it was more about having it with supervisors during a conference, while being a teacher combined with the attitude " I've always thought about it, so I guess it was the time to do it." It could damage her career.

[@embeth446]

I think it’s hilarious reading the bride to be’s text message, and it comes out that SHE also did not go to her friends engagement party OR bridal shower!! Did you all catch that? 😂 Everyone is so “I need to put myself first” these days until a friend does that back to them and then they’re outraged. Grow up, sorry. You’re getting back what you put into this friendship.

[@Sunshinelollipops223]

Agreed I kept thinking what did you do in the relationship lol. And then thought double standards when you didn’t go.

[@eliskacharlottew.2408]

No LITERALLY - as soon as she said that I was like bitch how tf are you upset about this even - you literally did the same thing

[@vickinathan8777]

I thought the exact same thing. It’s no wonder her friend did this. I’m surprised the caller couldn’t see this.

[@mrsjessicasmith]

and Nick didn't call her out on it really.

[@princessjenn93]

and she "forgot" until the moment she knew it was gonna come out PLS

[@sandralinke9150]

Ohhhh yaaaa Listening further, that text message was WAY TOO MUCH to the friend who didn’t come to the engagement party. Yikes While she was justified in her feelings…that was not effective

[@heatheraggus7501]

I think the opening discussion is evidence of why getting married young is usually not a good idea.

[@Brittanyyy_M]

Nick, you give good advice….BUT you repeat yourself too many times. We heard you the first and second time. No need to repeat it 10 more times.

[@joanne8084]

I agree. Love the advice but I do find myself skipping ahead after he makes his point and starts repeating repeatedly 😂

[@nk47100]

Repetition is necessary when the callers are not getting it. It’s not about whether you heard him - it’s about the caller getting it

[@peidan86]

I agree. He loves the sound of his voice way too much.

[@Dumbfoundead27]

Caller 2, “I’m just on vacation with my middle aged parents” Also caller 2, “I met a cute army guy at the bar” 🤔

[@catherineritch6241]

My thoughts too

[@HS-ot4sm]

Please stop promoting better help!!!!!!!! Their practices are unethical- do your research please

[@hannahadams1207]

Can you explain? I’m curious

[@mrsjessicasmith]

@@hannahadams1207 I think its been found out that they hire unlicensed therapists.

[@steven4570]

“Do your research” 🙄

[@Jzone-zg5mw]

Lmaoooo this guy saying he wants to give her a baby, buy her a house, while having sex w someone you’ve known for a couple of months? That’s crazy Emotionally immature men do a lot of future speak in the context of not knowing someone all that well

[@crystalxoxos2]

That made me cringe so hard when she said “this must be it” because he said those things during sex 💀

[@lalaa8653]

2nd call that guy didn’t like you enough and was looking for an excuse out.. cause that’s bullshit and is clearly not mature at his age it’s only been a month I wouldn’t bother with him anymore

[@andreegodbout868]

First caller..you were a shitty friend too. I can't blame your friend for not coming to your engagement surprise. This is not a true friendship. Move on a d be a better friend in the future.

[@ruthdahl5551]

People make way too big of a deal of getting engaged especially if you have picked a ring , live together . Shows like the bachelor have skewed ideas of how much attention engagements should get. I know you put much thought into yours but if you weren’t a social media person I doubt you’d have been so inclined.

[@madelynnstibbard3564]

Thought I might share this TED talk of this researcher who talks about the biochemical reactions of men and women falling in love. It's a little eyebrow-raising in the beginning (the researcher's grandmother starts talking about women "jumping into bed too early"), but the research found that the female "love" chemical (oxytocin) spikes for women just after sex. The male "love" chemical (vassopressin) however decreases after sex. When a male "commits" to a partner however, they found that their testosterone drops, which allows for the receptors to receive more vassopressin. Essentially, the research found that women are more likely to fall in love after they've had sex whereas men fall in love once they have committed romantically to a partner. kzbin.info/www/bejne/m6rUY4qlacqIesk

[@kellystewart9291]

Nothing has resonated with me more.. "convincing ourselves of something we don't even want to do"... just saying it out loud makes me go "oh whoa"..

[@jodilower8484]

Why aren’t you talking about your CW series Matchmaker? I listen to your podcasts weekly, except Monday. When was this filmed? It seems like a year or more ago.

[@emmagraham8657]

PLEASE do some research on weighted sleep sacs before promoting 😭 they are not safe for all sleep. At least in Canada they are not

[@sandralinke9150]

The caller re: the “best friend”/ bridesmaid….oooof Painful to listen to That woman has shown that she just isn’t a true friend. Married or not, you show up and/or communicate in person and with EMPATHY with a close friend.

[@alenamccall1877]

I love this podcast

[@maydaze5934]

The young married contributor will say anything to rationalize being married young.

[@Badnewsfeminist]

Haha I noticed that too

[@kativanmeter4928]

Happy Monday 🎉

[@jas4640]

Will Nick let people talk this time around

[@tamilee9462]

Who is this guest?

[@catherineritch6241]

This free will free choice, have all the sex you want is for the birds. You definitely wouldn’t tell her to eat all the junk food she wants, go explore and eat all the rotten tomatoes. Living a wholesome life,It’s the harder path, but it will bring you the best results.

[@claudiapawlak6894]

When young people pull closer, or chase each other . Why are their so many disappointments in America , live on water . The simple & innocent in young people is a discovery . When Ethnics acknowledge soul mates . What happened to hot couples ? What happened to a household dressed hot everyday, children, grandchildren to open conversations . Some Ethnics have different variations within their group . When the maturity is a love affair .

[@cindicleee]

❤❤

[@seven92023]

Second caller was rightfully rejected based on her sexual past. It's even worse that she doesn't think the threesome was a mistake. And Nick is a bigger hypocrite.

[@lalaa8653]

Oh grow up. You don’t even have to like threesomes it doesn’t mean you need to be high and mighty towards ppl that do

[@lalaa8653]

Oh grow up. You don’t even have to like threesomes it doesn’t mean you need to be high and mighty towards ppl that do

[@lalaa8653]

Oh grow up. You don’t even have to like threesomes it doesn’t mean you need to be high and mighty towards ppl that do

[@emiliasvensson6125]

Oh susshh

[@seven92023]

@@emiliasvensson6125 Silencing a man? That's sexist.