Ask Nick with Tinx - Romanticize Standing Up For Yourself | The Viall Files w/ Nick Viall

Our first caller is addicted to her four year situationship - they met on Halloween only to end things around New Year’s, and have been repeating that same cycle three years running. She isn’t sure how to end it (and we’re not sure she wants to). Our second caller recently broke up with her boyfriend of four years, but has an upcoming trip to Tulum that’s too late to cancel. She hasn’t been able to find a friend to go with her, and is debating going with her ex anyways. Our final caller was ghosted by an amazing first date on the same week her dog passed - she isn’t sure if she should reach out or how to move on from him, or what to do if he ever resurfaces.
“You’re not his mommy and you’re not his therapist.”
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[@lalaa8653]

First caller he’s gotten use to disrespecting you and now feels you have no respect for yourself. Once a guy gets to that point there’s no coming back from it

[@acd1168]

💯

[@RissaC333]

Such a great episode!! Please bring Tinx back in the future!! 🙏🙏🙏

[@Infinitewake]

Great take with the caller “obsessed with their situationship”!!

[@clairenicholls8024]

Wowwwwww, guys this is a good one! Love Tinx . Good advices for these ladies. I agree and I can totally relate with each situation! Jeez! Taking notes 📝 these hit home for me. Change your narrative. He is someone who overpromises and under delivers. I deserve genuine romance that’s reciprocated in a consistent way. Feeling good now. ❤

[@tarenmiller4178]

Great episode! I feel like all of these callers need to read Nick’s book and also Tinx’s book! Most of us have been through these kinds of situations that make us feel horrible about ourselves, so thank you Nick for encouraging the callers to prioritize themselves and to not accept less than what they deserve. 👍🏼

[@taylortetreault1107]

That part where nick said be careful about telling him off and then you’re gonna feel like you stood up for yourself and now that that’s over you can go hang out with him again… he nailed that!!! I have been there and always wondered how I got sucked in over and over

[@brooklynschurek350]

Please add time stamps on video !!!🙏🏻❤️

[@tristamarie7115]

With the first caller, maybe ask yourself, 'If I was completely healed, would I still choose this person?' because one day you may be healed.

[@andreegodbout868]

Great advice again Nick!

[@hoopsaremylife123]

The first caller was hard to listen to :( I hope she never goes back

[@marcblake501]

Painful to get through…. So many ads… seems more than usual!

[@alala4027]

first caller- treat yourself like a friend. like a partner. and when you treat yourself you’ll set the standard for what you’ll accept from others. make it a boundary with yourself that once you’re disrespected, they no longer have access to you. there was nothing redeemable about that guy! it’s hard but committing to yourself is the best thing you can do for your self worth.

[@ilovejb17able]

Her skin looks so good....

[@youriaa9930]

love this! from germany 😊

[@savvyshopperdelivers]

Mexico is not safe for a single girl! There are travel advisories because US citizens are disappearing or being killed. That caller should not go alone.

[@Zerone19]

mexico is a large country. caller said she’s going to tulum. it’s fine lol

[@claudiapawlak6894]

Everybody is on the surface , there is no inner exploring. When you talk to your Doctor , you did the best you could with your ancestors , and look inside further. This romantic relationship, just adds over the surface. All the imperfections in your ancestors, are they overlooked ? That high , to be head over heels, go to your European ancestors ! Talk about creepy, when the next generation is not attracted. Why do some Ethics wear wooden shoes, and others wear leather ballerinas ? I don't think there is a perfect couple, unless you are from the same Ethnic. Love over looks imperfections , are you friends or boyfriend & girlfriend . Lifestyles in this country ,America will cost you , how Paradise is for some people , who is right or wrong in that Paradise . He maybe telling you about his Ethnic & Paradise, when you have to provide for that lifestyle.