Ask the Expert: Is sex any different after a vasectomy?

[@garygrow8373]

Post vasectomy pain is very real and glossed over in pre surgery discussion.

[@Kitiwake]

You handled it

[@j-ettz19xx56]

Yeah and they say oh you won’t hardly feel any pain during the surgery my ass I felt them snipping me and burning me but recovery I been ok

[@domr3753]

After my vasectomy years ago I could no longer bring my sexual functioning to full extent as before and alot of men report this including the money shot is no longer there, the ejaculation is or may not be as powerful, it may drip more, erections may feel a little more tired out than before or with a slight pain of over exertion like what I also get. No more second erections like before and I couldn't function as often as I did. Doctors and hospitals are lying when they say no possible difference to sexual functioning and they should be held accountable for ruining men's sex lives and having us suffer for the rest of our lives. I think the men who will notice a difference are the ones including myself that tend to have sex to the very full extent as much as possible and doctors will not tell you this because they may be thinking men should not be doing that anyways with women or on their own. HOW DARE doctors think this way and not warn us. I don't even have intercourse with the woman I see. Its mostly 69, oral then once in a while she sits on my lap without intercourse and I also watch quite alot of porn. So I don't use women like doctors think and should of never had a vasectomy that reduced my sexual capability. It ruined my life, and my reversal didn't bring it back to normal. It seemed my reversal caused me to have slightly less erections. You can't put a price on sexual functioning to climax. I wish I could go back in time and not have it done but its too late.

[@kvng3liel886]

@@j-ettz19xx56ah hell na , my girl b telling me to get this i said na cuz of this bro😭 glad u good tho bro

[@MichaelMabenMrMimeIndiana]

Biggest mistake I ever made was getting a vasectomy--a humiliating, painful experience that ruined sex. Don't make the same mistake I made--it hurt having it done and for years afterwards and then I got prostate cancer. I have regretted my decision ever since the procedure.

[@domr3753]

After my vasectomy years ago I could no longer bring my sexual functioning to full extent as before and alot of men report this including the money shot is no longer there, the ejaculation is or may not be as powerful, it may drip more, erections may feel a little more tired out than before or with a slight pain of over exertion like what I also get. No more second erections like before and I couldn't function as often as I did. Doctors and hospitals are lying when they say no possible difference to sexual functioning and they should be held accountable for ruining men's sex lives and having us suffer for the rest of our lives. I think the men who will notice a difference are the ones including myself that tend to have sex to the very full extent as much as possible and doctors will not tell you this because they may be even thinking men should not be doing that anyways with women or on their own. HOW DARE doctors think this way and not warn us. I don't even have intercourse with the woman I see. Its mostly 69, oral then once in a while she sits on my lap without intercourse and I also watch quite alot of porn. So I don't use women like doctors think and should of never had a vasectomy that reduced my sexual capability. It ruined my life, you can't put a price on sexual functioning to climax. I wish I could go back in time and not have it done but its too late.

[@MrBarrywes]

A small percentage of people have a problem with it and you need to let people know that. It completely changed my life and not in a good way

[@serignedrame9251]

What happened to you?

[@normprice5566]

Same. The feeling of ejac isn’t as good anymore

[@Tam-yg7pk]

What about ask someone who’s actually had it done- sex is definitely different way Les’s build of pressure before you blow leading to a less intense orgasm. The lies and misinformation surrounding this from the medical profession are unethical

[@Kitiwake]

After 2 weeks I didn't notice went difference.

[@Tam-yg7pk]

@@Kitiwake lucky you

[@FamFirst9039]

I just had my Vasectomy last Friday. This is day 7 for me and recovery was smooth. I didn’t have any pain but slight soreness so definitely ice as that helps a lot. Most importantly I just got a round in with my wife and everything was normal no pain and the most importantly the finish was better then ever. Goodluck if you are thinking about getting it done as i recommend it for sure if your done having kids.

[@mahesh_patil_02]

Bro please tell me is that any weakness you are feeling after vasectomy. And in which age you are getting it, I'm also planning to do it😅😅

[@cherrypicker8897]

I had the vasectomy 45 years ago, my view now is and for the past 35 years the vasectomy was my greatest mistake.

[@quinxx12]

what age were you when you did it and did you freeze some of that juice?

[@Mr_Kevnat]

Why do you say that?

[@drewainge1059]

After the procedure i can feel that there is a vast difference after my vas deferens got snipped.

[@Frustrated_worm]

got my twins snipped surgery was easy a week off sex etc after that exactly the same no pain literally back to normal

[@IAMHIM414]

Dr Jay did my Vas. Very cool guy!

[@tonimartin6167]

My vasectomy caused severe ED and my testosterone dropped. The vasectomy was the worse decision of my life, my life is over😢😢😢

[@Joe.8671]

Get it reversed if you think it did that

[@domr3753]

@@Joe.8671 My reversal did not bring it back to normal. It seemed it may have caused me to have slightly less erections.

[@saucyflirtxoxo]

The orgazoms for some is not the same at all my husband had it done couple months ago his are way different he like only half gets there a lot of the sensations he got before are not there anymore that intense feeling when having an orgazoms is basically gone we are scared it will never get better hes depressed now

[@kwilson4125]

@saucyflirtxoxo Wow. Sorry to hear this. Will the doctor reverse it for you? I never hear them say that anything will change after.

[@leighbyford635]

@@kwilson4125 Mine left me with life long chronic testicular pain. Extreme pain on orgasm. The whole industry around vasectomy is full of shit. They don't want to admit the damage they are causing people.

[@saucyflirtxoxo]

@leigh byford yes you are very right it is bs for sure my husband has gotten worse now he doesn't feel anything at all he can't have an orgasm at all he says he feels nothing it kinda feels good when we start but the feelin starts going away Till he doesn't even feel his penis he has ejaculated but he says it feels like he just peed himself no pleasure at all we are so very scared the doctor never said anything like this could happen he didn't go over anything with him now he has so many doctors appointments to try and fix it no idea if it can be fixed

[@leighbyford635]

@@saucyflirtxoxo I have spent 20k on surgery out of my pocket. i am still no better i very sorry to say. I say get to a reversal by the best person you can find as fast as you can and hope it helps.

[@timmarchand4145]

I still have an orgasm but it feels weird and no where near as good. I honestly don't even feel like having sex anymore.

[@zyncarla]

I got mine done at age 40 after having my son at 37. Had my test checked before and after and it was unchanged. The only difference I noticed was slightly less pressure when I unload in my wife. My muscle mass didn’t change but I started with a lot and it never left even at 40. Benched 455 before and 455 after

[@leighbyford635]

Sigh. Same same same bullcrap. No it fucking isn’t the same. I get incredible testicular pain on orgasm. On top of a generalized chronic testicular pain that is 24/7. I also feel no sense of relief. Which I’ll admit could very well be psycho somatic but that’s irrelevant because the outcome is the same. Vasectomy completely ruined sex for me. Before vasectomy I was having sex 2 - 3 times a week. After , maybe once in 3 months . I have had a reversal and nerve ablation. Spent 15k off my own money on follow on surgery’s. Now I take SR opioids , Gabapentin and an SSRI to cope. Unequivocally the worst decision of my life. Don’t have one.

[@yaboijinxy3360]

When did the pain start

[@leighbyford635]

@@yaboijinxy3360 I knew something was wrong by day four after vasectomy. Took me 6 months of seeing doctors to realize how fucked i was. Pvps can happen at any time post vasectomy though. It can happen years later .

[@leighbyford635]

@Soluções Hi. The reversal and nerve block did not help. I have heard that Papaya seed can help PVPS but I haven't tried it. I'm dubious. Regarding anti-inflammatory medication, I have tried many. They don't help. Unfortunately nothing helps. Medicine is extremely bad at fixing anything complicated.

[@DownTownJackieBrown]

Wow! I am so sorry to hear what you went through. Your comment was about a year ago, has it gotten any better.

[@leighbyford635]

@@DownTownJackieBrown Thanks. It hasn't stopped , its for life most likely :( Its been 8 years. I might try another reversal but its another 15k out of pocket and im struggling to afford it.

[@77biker777]

I feel different. Libido is like gone. I don’t regret it because it takes a lot of pressure off of my wife but I feel weird. Maybe it’s too soon to tell

[@leighbyford635]

I found there is no sense of relief. No feeling of completion. The uncomfortable feeling in the balls before sex is still there after. Worst thing I ever did.

[@tonimartin6167]

It will get worse. My vasectomy was the worst decision of my life

[@timmarchand4145]

It feels different to me too

[@77biker777]

@@timmarchand4145 libido is back but sometimes there is inflammation at the cut site of the vas def that feels like a ball and hurts but ibuprofen helps if you ever have that.

[@Yours-2000]

I think having a vasectomy makes sex not pleasurable for men. I mean, we only feel pleasure after cumming, and having vasectomy means not being able to blow load at all

[@30morph]

yes it is different! First of all, after my vasectomy I had pain for at least six months. And when the pain subsided my testicles had shrunk, I have fewer erections. The erections I do get are less hard, probably due to a testosterone deficiency. cumming is weird, the part you squeeze out of your balls doesn't come through. After the climax, your balls tingle or you have groin pain. never do it, at least 20% of those who do it are not satisfied with it afterwards. I deeply regret my vasectomy.

[@Mr_Kevnat]

Wow thanks for sharing that..

[@Nigel74587]

Welcome to the comment section always filled with negative comments. The reality is vasectomy has a 98% success rate but those who've had a good experience go on with their lives. They're not in the comment section writing negative things!! Im sorry that some of you had bad experiences with vasectomy but the truth is you're still a minority around 2% of cases. Me and my buddies had vasectomies and we're all good. Thousands of guys get vasectomies everyday and are absolutely fine. Its always the comment section where you find the negative shit. Some people on here arent even telling the truth and never had a vasectomy. Some are just here with a hidden agenda going against vasectomies

[@tonimartin6167]

The vasectomy completely destroyed my life

[@BadAssDude69]

Details please.​@@tonimartin6167

[@johndgarland]

So 200 men out of 1000 is a small amount? Are you fkn kidding me? If the same principle applied to things like pharma products then there’d be people dying left and right but guess what. It’s not allowed. Because 2% is astronomical. A vasectomy ruined my life and had me suicidal. I got a reversal after many years and surprise surprise. Things all returned to normal and no more pain.

[@michaelbrowning8082]

Totally agree! Ridiculous amount of negative comments does not jive with the science!

[@michaelbrowning8082]

​@tonimartin6167 how so? If you don't respond then you are just commenting with a hidden agenda!

[@johndgarland]

It’s sure different if you are one of the unfortunate ones who suffer with lifelong PVPS following a vasectomy. Sex is painful and balls feel like they are going to explode after ejaculation for about 2 days then subsides.

[@larryholcomb7243]

Organism after a vasectomy is much less intense. Personal experience!

[@hgvgazwatson3177]

These comments must be from yanks so fkn dramatic

[@MrBarrywes]

Are you fucking kidding me everybody is different

[@j-ettz19xx56]

I got one bro me and the wife did the deed on day 6 and gave me some discomfort but other then that all is well

[@jimbock4471]

Yes , sex is different and yes some guy's suffer the rest of there lifes. Just man up and say no to vasectomy there is better birth control than getting your vas def cut. Not worth the risk of ruining your health life to short 😢😢😢

[@OliverM-kz3oc]

I'm sold, just the expression on her face when I shot a thicker and substantial load was worth it, I used what I mentioned last month and after the first 3 weeks or so my volume visibly doubled, I just go'ogled Jan Venstaker's Shooting Ropes and the intensity has been insane!

[@classicrecordings]

All wrong! Worst decision I ever made. Don’t do it.

[@mindsolutions9575]

I'm planning to do it, bcs I always scared of pregnancy. Does it affect your libido?

[@Greynarl1234]

Why?

[@MrBarrywes]

I feel the same way. Worst decision for me my life was never the same

[@KH-mq4rg]

How come?

[@jacqueandrew1033]

Yes big difference. Not getting any after the wife is off the pill. She's no longer interested. So guys, no reason to get one.

[@Savagedesigns]

Absolute bullshit. I wish i never had one

[@MrBarrywes]

It doesn't work the same for every man it was the worst decision of my life