How I Conquered My Fear of Speaking Up

[@askvinh]

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[@jameereugene9035]

I understand you completely, it was same for me but I learned few things along the way 1. I stopped being a people-pleaser and started focusing on my goals -instant shift in mindset 2. I read all books on Mindbloomery 3. I stopped listening to negative people and ditched them out of my life

[@mkmahabub8513]

Hi how are you bro

[@askvinh]

Amazing! Love how you focused on yourself this is huge 👊

[@ayzeenferman]

I don't know if you're gonna read this Vinh, but I've been watching you for a while now, and the things that I've learned from your teachings regarding communication has helped me a lot not only in social situations but also my hobby of making youtube videos in English which is my second language So, THANK YOU Vinh, Hope I can attend your workshop meetings one day

[@askvinh]

🥹🙏

[@OfficialStevenCravis]

I like that he said the echo chamber of only people who agree is “frightening”.

[@RaghavVijay]

Wow this is inspiring, learning to disagree respectfully with people is so important at times because you are a unique person, and you should embrace that rather than believe in something just because of others. Love this video Vinh, Looking forward to your masterclass in 5 hours to learn more inspiring and interesting views/ communication tips! -See you there :)

[@DysVeteran]

I agree. The problem is people don't know how to agree with others opinions, if it doesn't alin with them they change their way or thinking and end up judging its absolutely sad. Society needs more communication and less technology.

[@researcherpoint2809]

Hey Vinh, Your videos has really helped me in transition from a shy, reserved guy to an ambivert . I am still in transition in my college days but hope to improve even more, especially in public speaking

[@tanishkasingh6157]

It was extremely wonderful watching this video because I recently turned 22 and I was a people pleaser for almost like 21 years and 8 months and so as you get the idea of when I hit the rock bottom and decided to speak myself and to not just sit back all the time trying to people please which is why I found this video damn relatable to me. To see you being what I look forward to become really had me clapping at the end of this video. You are really an inspiration to me. 🙏🏻👏🏻❤️

[@maryva867]

Hey good for you for being honest, I admire your courage a lot. People are bonkers with over-reacting these days; take a chill-pill people and stop taking everything so seriously! If people truly believed in kindness and respectful dialog, they would stop bashing other people over small differing preferences, such as what podcasts someone might like to listen to. Thanks for the work that you do Vinh, I enjoy listening to your podcast.

[@Taee60]

Wow. Disagreement is a key part of develop ourselves. Many kinds of suggestions we can have from this. Thanks for sharing this idea. Love your contents. Keep learning.

[@covakoma1064]

Disagreement without real argument mean nothing. So it doesnt pass on my field.

[@Taee60]

@covakoma1064 best wishes to your field & in my field it's crucial for my development specially with my mentors.

[@covakoma1064]

@@Taee60 so if somebody disagree without you just for fun that is good for you? Its call trolling... there is nothing good in that and will lead you nowhere

[@Taee60]

@covakoma1064 every time it's not troll. I think you are smart enough to understand which one is troll and which one is genuine suggestion. Best of luck.

[@VincentIsHuman]

⁠@@Taee60I've never seen an internet thing like this handled so well😂

[@Gyaahz]

Thank you so much for this video. This issue has been on my mind for a while lately. Even people nearby tell me I need to learn to stand up for myself, while at the same time not listening to me trying to speak up. This is an ongoing process.

[@_talouf]

love this! the different methods of being yourself in person and online.

[@hafadaze9046]

As someone who grew up and still is a ppl pleaser thank you for sharing your experience! I really wanna break out of it but it’s like my default already I hate it

[@Nanami_Simp]

wow... wow... Sir that was too relatable Thank you soooo much for this!!!

[@onepiece_luffysgirl]

I was a people pleaser my entire life. It's so similar to people stepping all over u. I doesn't feel nice a bit. Ever since i got this one suggestion on KZbin(I don't remember which) how not to be a people pleaser,i realised what i was. I was livin the wrong way. I wanted to change my ways. I was disgusted with myself honestly.then one day i stood up for my self when some person was stepping all over me. I told her to respect my boundaries so and so. then when I talked about it with my parents they attacked me for it. They were like why did u say so. And they will do this and that. I got so angry and told em how my whole life felt and I don't care anymore. They still see me as some monster for saying that😅.(don't worry they r so Christian) but when I stand up for myself, when I talk to this other person like I don't have to be people pleaser I just have to be myself I feel so confident like I own em. Thank u utube. But also be careful this power doesn't mean u have to be a dk.

[@FarruxbekValijonov-j3m]

Your words consoled me, because I more time encounter like this problem

[@lucapellegrini4616]

You're an inspiration for us!

[@AashishKhanal-dz5pv]

Thank you Vinh,Currently I’m struggling with this.

[@yaqubshaz]

I love how inspiring you are. Thank you for sharing this information.

[@futontsubasa]

As someone who doesn't like Joe Rogan, I still enjoy some of his podcasts. And I appreciate you sharing your story about standing your ground.

[@TishaYadav-l1k]

I love your videos!! You are really helping out, Vinh!!

[@mkmahabub8513]

I am also trying to do

[@CryptoLord-sj7fj]

Thanks for sharing this value. I am presently at this stage of my life. Am looking forward of get out of it too...

[@mkmahabub8513]

Hi how are you I am also trying to do

[@angelacasanova-jz1st]

Your wisdom is truly appreciated. Thank you kindly Vinh!

[@askvinh]

Happy to help you out! 👊

[@phanhuyy7237]

"It's okay to have people around you who think differently to you."

[@Javiermunante79]

Vinh really love your communication skills it's really helped me out in my sales Career

[@mkmahabub8513]

Hi how are you I am also trying to do pray for me

[@DANNYBEEGAMINGG]

Im actually in this situation. I find it hard to stand up for myself just to keep the peace and im afraid of hurting/ offending people that i love the most. I don't know how to change that but i have faith ill get there.

[@mercenary16]

Thank you for this video. I very much related to your experience.

[@luciahuong2581]

I need to improve my communication skills, thanks for sharing the video. 🎉

[@S54321]

Insightful! Wonderful video. Keep up the great work, Vinh!

[@Mark-bd8zt]

Hey. I honestly and intimately understand you

[@Irving-x9i]

Thank you Vinh, i just do what i really wanna do now.

[@humbertofonseca1991]

"STAND UP FOR YOURSEL" 💪👊👍🌟

[@MRNICEPARADOX]

This is the finest piece of life advice I received thanks a lot bro

[@sirdaura]

I am inspired by your personal story

[@Kumariello]

Thanks Vinh

[@DeveronFFN]

I think I missed the "how", but I appreciate you sharing the awareness that inspired the change. I guess I'll have to watch again.

[@humbertofonseca1991]

YOURSELF 👍 THANKS

[@humbertofonseca1991]

STAND UP FOR YOUR SELF

[@jasurbekabdumavlonov]

Love from Tashkent❤

[@Sijuwade_jubril]

This is a rare gem 💎 Vinh

[@SucessulSaima]

Thanks for sharing ❤

[@AM-ts8vg]

I think the balance is important, if you always state the truth or what is in your mind without thinking others fillings that will not bring good things. But if you balance ⚖️ these things then 🎉.

[@rogeliorodriguez8518]

Get this man on Joe Rogan! I disagree with Rogan a lot but agreed that his conversations are informative and entertaining.

[@charliebourdaud1200]

Thanks a ton

[@moodymagicmaple]

Loving your videos Vinh! I’ve entered and actually won quite a few public speaking competitions and much of it is attributed to you :)

[@D37fit]

Just subscribe to you, man thank you for this video

[@meib1115]

Love the part about the echo chamber.

[@Beast-h7f]

Thanks vinh bro I'm from India and I like your videos ❤😊

[@jennifercoleman6947]

You are in my head on this

[@mezza001]

Would love to see you on JRE soon!

[@Ake-JTS]

@Vihn Giang your my mentor on communication and my mentors are my only friends

[@mkmahabub8513]

Hi how are you I am also trying to do

[@Debunked421]

If you don't stand up for something, you'll fall for anything

[@rimshaahsan8516]

Hey you have been such an inspiration for me ! Can I know how did you actually got into this career path? And now you tutoring other about communication skills . You also held organisation on that Would you like to share your journey?

[@muhammadammar571]

Vinh, I am planning to agree with you and disagree with you😅 at the same time.

[@Kai-otic]

I have an upcoming english elocution on Saturday, Wish me luck! 😅

[@nolukewarm72]

Goodluck mate!!

[@OmiGiri147]

Good luck bro 😊 Boom the stage by your speaking skills !!

[@hrshlgunjal-1627]

Liked, commented and subscribed.

[@gerasol85]

Thank you for opposing cancel culture. We can listen to everyone without automatically agreeing.

[@futontsubasa]

Hi Vinh, can you show us how you make your hair as amazing as your vocal image?

[@JanRodriguez1]

Everyone can like a person but no one loves a person for all that they are.

[@im_no1special_except2my_father]

Not "everyone" can like a person... but "me & Jesus" (lookup song) loves you for who you are not what you do...

[@himanshudisuza773]

I am too blunt, even though I don't want to. I sometimes unintentionally hurt people's feelings. What would you have done in that condition and how can I improve

[@subbasslines]

Without challenging the thought, will it ever grow or develop to something greater? We're terrible at realising what goes on in other people's heads because we are trapped inside our own. Darren Brown.

[@sahilgujaria8406]

Brother u changed my perspective to live i am really thank full to u thank u brother 🫡🫡🫡

[@sadiamajeed1766]

I am working hard on it

[@GoldfishOfDoom]

@1:32 Most relatable expression XD

[@ryanwilkinson9487]

Hey Vihn, love all your content. My question is this, how can you identify an innovative person? I know there are lots of tenants to innovation, but when you’re trying to build an “innovation” group, how can you weed out those who are interested vs those who are just dabbling?

[@rayson6317]

Bro the first few minutes, man that was tough for me to hear, that’s exactly how I feel since a few year like word for word. Please teach me! What did you do to change that ?

[@mkmahabub8513]

Hi how are you I am also trying to do

[@askvinh]

Start improving your communication skills and realise that your thoughts and opinions are valuable 🙏

[@josereyna4617]

Vinh, when are you showing up in JRE

[@Trilluminati713]

Respect Vinh even more now that he listens to Rogan

[@AnjaliSingh-v2y]

Wowwww 🔥🔥

[@elorsar]

Vinh how do i subscribe twice?

[@jaganm87]

Good

[@OutOfPaceRacing]

Hey Vinh! I don’t know if you will see this, because you are busy, but I got to try! I am a private carpentry/construction contractor in Sweden and I want to grow myself into a full construction company one day - now I am working alone for a bigger construction company and they just proposed employment for me - but that would completely ruin my financial balance as I am heavily invested in my future and it would actually get harder, but really, really love working with them - I want to say no, but in a way that I can keep the partnership going - conversation will be next week - can you give me some bullet advices so I have effective arguments of why it would not be the best idea forward?

[@podcast885]

❤❤🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@dade_23]

Vinh, my social battery runs out very quickly, it hurts my social interactions. i struggle to talk to people. id much rather be by myself than go through the pain of thinking what to say, having awkward silence etc. What advice do you have for such a person?

[@Boat1111]

Wow, the shape of your face has changed a lot. How did you change the shape of your face?

[@comoane]

By moving his jaws.

[@iamkevinkouassi]

Different hairstyle, and glasses (that’s more on the outer part though).

[@nateo7045]

Okay but how did you accomplish the before and after on your hair because I still be looking like the first pic 😅

[@ZM-vs8of]

Has anyone taken Vinh’s courses. I have some professional development dollars this month and I’m curious which class I can take on my own time.

[@amirahezouat]

❤

[@PotatoCuber146]

👇People who have transformed their communication and still have'nt subscribed😅

[@frozenfire9058]

I disagree✋😔

[@tahiryours9771]

why does bro look homeless today💀

[@comoane]

Nah, blatant sexism, promoting right wing ideas and conspiracies are not a matter of opinion. I am happy for you you were able to reinvent yourself and find a good woman, but Rogan taps into a field of “masculinity” dumb theories and perceived succes that is deeply troubling and in fact in the end simply ….. childish. His curiosity and thinking are on a pretty low level intellectually speaking. That again is not a matter of opinion. If you’re really interested in complex things I would forgive you for starting at Rogan, but by now that should be something to look upon as a teenage fascination. Growing pains if you want. So if you have it in you grow up a bit more and get on. Or stay friends with Rogan, the benefits are easy to see. But it’s NOT a matter of taste. Truth never is. It’s a matter of intellectual abilities and choice.

[@Trilluminati713]

You can go live in communist china

[@InternetUser73]

Daam it, you guys are so depressed.

[@Trilluminati713]

@@comoane typical liberal. Cry some more 🤡