ASMR Spend The Day With Me: Getting Out Of A Slump (Self-Care, Close Whispered)

[@Mace-88867]

This came out at the perfect time! I feel the shorter days and dark nights are getting to a lot of people. :( I’ve found socializing a bit (even when I don’t feel like it) and focusing on creative passions helps a lot. Thanks for all you do!

[@CalciferASMR]

I’m so glad to hear that, thank you so much! 🧡

[@chaeryosity9946]

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[@irenekatona7856]

I think a lot of people become entitled to other people’s lives and forget that you are a person too with your own struggles ups and downs and they should be happy that you make stuff for us, not demand it that takes the joy away so please everyone let’s be kind to each other ❤

[@CalciferASMR]

This is so kind of you to say. The empathy we all need haha. Thank you, really, I appreciate you.

[@dwighthopper1666]

Totally agree ❤

[@ChatswithSyd]

So true. Social media is the reason for that😭

[@alison-kg2ly]

i relate so much. the piling deadlines and projects got me into such a depressive slump that i neglected myself terribly. hygiene. diet. everything. i was stressed constantly and actually still need to regulate my nervous system from that chronic stress. i finally got out of it once i finished the assignments, but i kept telling myself "time will pass anyway" and tried to remember that so much stress wasn't worth it. thank you for sharing and being open !

[@astros69]

Keep your head up, stay motivated and don’t forget the end goal!!

[@CalciferASMR]

Yesss the time will pass anyways! I’ve said that to myself for probably a little over a year now and it’s really changed my outlook. Thank you so much for joining me. ❤️

[@ghala308]

hi haley! I’ve been a fan for a few months now and watching your videos has become my favorite part of the day, I watch them while studying and before I sleep everyday. you’re so beautiful inside and out and your presence is truly comforting, I appreciate all the work you put into this and I love all sorts of content that you make, especially the ramble videos because hearing you talk about random things is so nice while I’m doing other tasks, I also realized that I relate to you tremendously and coming from a person who’s dealing with similar things, I really hope that you go easy on yourself and prioritize your comfort, you’re doing your best and that’s what matters. thank you for sharing little parts of you life with us♡

[@CalciferASMR]

I’m so happy that these videos resonate with you, my friend, I truly appreciate you being here with me and being so kind. 🥺❤️

[@livrosedeg]

What you had to say about self care and the true depth of depressive episodes feels like you were inside my head! As hard as it is to show this side of life to a public audience, I feel like myself and so many others resonate with it-we’re all trying our best to get through each and every day, and I weirdly think that has the capacity to bring so many people together, so thank you. You’re right, we’ll all get through it!

[@CalciferASMR]

I'm so glad you felt this process with me. It really can be so overwhelming, but we do what we can to push through, and that is okay. Thank you so much.

[@D.Goertzen]

Don’t be too hard on yourself. Sometimes we can only do what we’re able to with the resources available. I was in a slump for many, many years before I finally connected with a therapist that actually made a difference in my treatment and finally found the correct medication combo for me!

[@CalciferASMR]

I think I am slowly beginning that process with a counselor I've connected to, so I am hopeful. Thank you so much.

[@zel5671]

This is the first video of yours I'm watching and it almost feels like I was meant to see it. Wishing you and everyone who's going through a similar time well ❤

[@CalciferASMR]

Thank you so much for stopping in with me, I appreciate you!

[@ashleylynn7069]

The shorter days are so hard on the soul sometimes. I really hope this was healing for you and you’re getting out of your slump. Finish the semester strong and take care of yourself in the ways that feel right for you! 🤍

[@CalciferASMR]

Harder on the soul is the best way to put it! Going to do my best 🥹🙏🏻

[@RonB246]

Thank you Haley for being so authentic and human.

[@CalciferASMR]

Thank you so much Ron 🥺🙏🏻

[@FlyingPurplePizzas]

One of the things that I realized recently was that something that was not modeled to me when I was growing up was how to love myself. I feel like I learned deeply how to do the opposite. I know well how to abuse myself through my thoughts and behavior patterns, but really loving myself seems like such a foreign idea. I was told recently that the more I learn to love myself, the easier it will be to create the life I want. So my new quest is to find out what loving myself really means and how to accomplish it. I think the more we take care of ourselves, the more love we are showing. Your videos are inspiring.

[@CalciferASMR]

I love that you’ve decided to fully take on that journey then, you absolutely deserve the love!

[@CalmMello]

Best whisper voice and calming videos on KZbin. Thankful for you and your natural approach of you being you. Happy Thanksgiving to you and yours!

[@CalciferASMR]

You are so kind, thank you so much!

[@jaker.9275]

Please don’t think you owe us any explanation, we understand how much stress and pressure you’ve been under, your mental health is very important and I’m so glad to see you doing the little things to help lift your spirits ❤

[@CalciferASMR]

Thank you so much Jake, doing my best! 🥹❤️

[@C.bm3388]

I'm so sorry you had such a hard week 😢 It's ok to not feel ok. It's crucial to not feel any shame or guilt during tough times outside daily obligations. I'm glad you took time to take care of yourself! I am also experiencing Impostor Syndrome and this vlog felt like a warm hug! Your videos are always so hopeful and inspiring. They really mean a lot. Thank you for being so kind and positive! I hope that you feel the same about them! Have a great week sweet Haley, take care 🧡🍀

[@CalciferASMR]

Me and you both girl, thank you so much for always empathizing with me here. I really do value your comments, always ❤️🙏🏻

[@C.bm3388]

@CalciferASMR I'm glad my comments bring you comfort like your videos do to me 👼🩷

[@StarlightShimmerASMR]

I relate to this so much. Anytime I get overwhelmed, I just shut down. I stop taking care of myself, I lose the motivation to do anything, I would rather sleep the day away than do the things I need to do, or even the things I usually enjoy. I'm really trying to be more mindful when I start feeling like this, and I try to push myself out of the slump. I sorta try to "force" myself to do things I enjoy in hopes that it makes me feel a little better, because otherwise I literally just end up lying in bed all day. But i'm happy you took this little self-care moment. It’s definitely motivating me to do the same, because I know I have had a rough last few weeks. Also, please don’t stress yourself out about posting videos or anything like that. The people who genuinely care about you understand that you have your own life, with its ups and downs. We’ll always be here for you whenever you feel ready to post. Just take care of yourself, you’re an amazing person, and you truly deserve it. 💖

[@CalciferASMR]

Sometimes pushing yourself to do those things to take care of yourself is the smartest choice you can make, so I’m really glad to hear that you do your best with what you have during a slump! Thank you so much, ❤️

[@jordan95hd83]

Thank you for uploading this, Haley, it was a lovely vlog. 🧡 I'm sorry that you've had quite a hard week... Being in a depressive slump isn't pleasant, I end up in a slump myself from time to time, I understand how you feel, Haley, *but don't be too hard on yourself, beaut.* 🤗 It's really nice seeing you doing small things to help make you feel better. ❤️ And don't push yourself too hard about getting ASMR videos out, Haley, your mental health is very important. Take as time as you need with making the videos. ❤️ I absolutely adore you, Haley. 🥰 I really hope you're doing better, beaut. 😊🧡

[@CalciferASMR]

It’s definitely been a tough week, but I will preserve! Thank you so much for your continued kindness here, I will do my best to be a little kinder with myself! 🧡🙏🏻

[@overniteowl]

Haley there are times in everyone's life when you have to focus on oneself. Not selfish at all. Everyone does it. I have been through many semester endings, and they were never fun. I used to roll home from college about 5 days before Christmas and crash right into my job and was exhausted when everyone else was much more lively. People who truly enjoy your company are going to miss you when you are gone for several days but are also going to understand the need. Those assignments are crucial to your grades and what you have worked so hard for. Life happens. You have to remember the ones who send barb comments at you have taken all of 5 seconds out of their life to write their "expectations". You are the one who has to invest the time to make it happen and if you have important things you need to get done like final projects, work, studying for finals, you have to put that on the front burner. I love to see you when I can. I get it. Hang in there Haley!

[@CalciferASMR]

This is a reminder that I wish I were more conscious of more often, thank you so much my friend 🥹🧡

[@Worldtour1994]

This is such a lovely video! I too get in depressive slumps(A LOT) and this is very encouraging. I’m glad you’re doing better and hopefully the rest of semester isn’t too bad!

[@CalciferASMR]

Thank you so much my friend, I hope you’re being kind with yourself! ❤️

[@ChatswithSyd]

Your asmr never misses. You make me so sleepy every time😂

[@CalciferASMR]

Awee thank you! 🥺🫶🏻

[@ASMRDaz]

I understand, this hits deep for me. I struggle so much with procrastination and always have. The struggle with anxiety, depression makes it so hard to function. In these situations all we can do “self care.” Sending lots of love and a massive hug your way. I am proud of you. 🫶💜

[@CalciferASMR]

Thank you so much, your kindness and motivation truly means the world!

[@ASMRDaz]

@ you are more than welcome. That is what friends are for!

[@anamartins-ny5te]

uhg such a great video! we all struggle from time to time and it's always nice to see that we're not alone! good to see you're taking care of yourself, because you deserve it and inspire a lot of people by doing so much love my girl ❤

[@CalciferASMR]

You are so sweet, thank you so much. I'm really happy you enjoyed this.

[@torpemiller1011]

Life has been crazy busy lately with me, but I wanted to stop by and tell you that you’re amazing, life will get easier (for both of us) and you will come out on top!! Keep being amazing and true to yourself. Well wishes from Pennsylvania!

[@CalciferASMR]

Always glad to see you when you can stop in, thank you! ❤️

[@starburst740]

im most definitely in a slump rn, mainly because of losing a very close loved one recently. this video is encouraging

[@CalciferASMR]

I hope you are doing what you can to be kind with yourself in this time ❤️

[@tlars36]

Hello my dear, please ignore the trolls as all they have to do is take cheap shots at people who are actually trying to make other people's lives better! It is self hate and loathing that drives them to do it, so don't even give them the time of day! Thank you for another excellent video ❤️ 🤗

[@CalciferASMR]

Thank you so much! ❤️

[@ASMRDaz]

You are enough, I will say it again You are ENOUGH! You are loved and you are important.

[@Dibellaslove]

Right there with you girl. 🥹

[@CalciferASMR]

[@HaysCatnap]

I’m in the same slump too, unfortunately I failed my classes this semester because of it. I’m slowly getting my room in order but as for grades they are long gone! If you haven’t already a good self care day (everything shower) and some fresh sheets with a candle always makes me feel better. It’s easier said than done but i’m going to try to aim that for myself soon. I hope you are doing better hun! 🤍

[@D.Goertzen]

I can relate to this. But the important thing is to not let that prohibit you from trying again. Failure is a part of progress. For all students: “Maslow before Bloom”

[@CalciferASMR]

Ooooh the beauty of an everything shower and clean sheets. A literal breath of fresh air. I hope you are pushing forward and being kind with yourself, we are not in a race, though that is a difficult concept to hold on to for myself as well. Thank you so much, I hope the absolute same for you.

[@lizzykosinski]

My sister had my son over for the night last night and I took an everything shower. Even did my nails and watched movies which I rarely get time for. I woke up feeling so refreshed and rejuvenated.

[@mansoor3159]

Thank you so so much Calcifer for Another Amazing and Beautiful ASMR Vlog.Thank you for always being such a Beautiful, inspiring,and wonderful KZbinr.I will always support you so so so much 🥹🥹💗💗

[@CalciferASMR]

I will always appreciate you being here when you can, thank you so much ❤️

[@pcmdias94]

Thank you for this...I've been on an ADHD slump lately and today I kinda managed to do some stuff. Somehow it makes me feel less alone in this situation. Thank you so much. Really

[@CalciferASMR]

I’m so glad this gave you some comfort, we’re in it together my friend!

[@chad6780]

Your videos are amazing Haley thank you for making my days better hope your having a peaceful and relaxing day Haley 😊

[@CalciferASMR]

Today has been quite peaceful actually, thank you so much.

[@chad6780]

@ Atc Haley I’m really happy to hear that I know you gonna do awesome in your finals

[@RiefertMulder]

You are so special , keep up the amazing work 🫵👸👸👸

[@CalciferASMR]

Thank you so much! ❤️

[@BFrancais]

Haley! I haven’t commented in a while but 100% been going through these same 20’s struggles, I appreciate your insight and relatability! There’s a book called Make Your Bed, some schools made us read it but I think that book goes well with the topics you’re speaking on with motivation and how the little things go a long way…keep pushing and being a rockstar per usual 🎉

[@CalciferASMR]

The little things absolutely do go a long way, thank you for stopping in whenever you can! ❤️

[@Anishaaaaa1998]

You talk so lovingly 💜would you do a video on giving motivation for those who are feeling lonely and unmotivated

[@CalciferASMR]

I would love to keep that in mind, thank you so much ❤️

[@nitosevero6561]

Just when I need you most 🤧

[@CalciferASMR]

So glad this came in time for you!

[@ntc.00]

Honestly life has been so hard this week, choices have caught up with me. Been super sad and don’t know what to do so this is a nice escape.

[@CalciferASMR]

I hope you’re able to take things one step at a time, doing what you can to take care of yourself along the way ❤️

[@Sil3ntGam3rttv]

I suffer badly with anxiety and panic attacks alot an ur videos help so much thank you ❤

[@CalciferASMR]

I’m so glad they do, thank you ❤️

[@astros69]

Just the video I need for my daily after work nap 😴

[@CalciferASMR]

Enjoy your rest! 🥰

[@victoriaablett9098]

Love you. I'm just grateful for any posts. Please don't make yourself poorly trying to please people. 😘😘😘

[@CalciferASMR]

Thank you so much! 🥺

[@cassie8215]

i remember a few months ago when i was traveling to spain i downloaded like 12 of your videos and listened to them on the plane ride all the way there and back

[@CalciferASMR]

This is so sweet, I’m so glad you like them ❤️

[@jamieneill4627]

You so real for this one 🫂

[@pcmdias94]

She is, it's so comforting to see it.

[@CalciferASMR]

I'm so glad you enjoyed it, my friend.

[@andrija2328]

Had a day off, and my shift starts in 4 hours from now, this shall help to get some sleep for sure, glad you posted at perfect timing as well, greetings from Serbia, 2 AM atm ._.

[@CalciferASMR]

Hopefully you got through your shift okay! 🙏🏻

[@YourAsmrHut]

Small Asmrtist here 🎉😢🎉😢

[@CalciferASMR]

❤️❤️

[@YourAsmrHut]

@ 🫶

[@RiefertMulder]

🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 stay amazing women😊, thanks 4 all your effort Haley

[@zubizahid7051]

I loved the video ❤so relaxing also i love your hairs

[@CalciferASMR]

Thank you so much! 🧡

[@T0FFII]

This week without you posting has felt long! This video feels all the more special though for your return

[@CalciferASMR]

I think so too, it has felt like forever to me. Thank you so much for stopping in with me, regardless.

[@rameyza_elya]

I hope you always have a beautiful day Queen

[@CalciferASMR]

Thank you so much beautiful!

[@karanaima]

I think you've really been growing confidence lately. It might not be obvious to you as you're in the "trenches" everyday, but looking from a distance, once a week, I can perceive a significant change happening over time. Even though it feels like you're going through it basically all the time (it's kinda what you express in your voiceovers and ramble videos), it's not all for nothing. You're getting somewhere Haley.

[@CalciferASMR]

I genuinely appreciate you saying this so much. What a sweet thing to reflect on, especially since it can be so hard to see “progress” when I’m probably in the middle of it. I always value you being here Karanaima

[@karanaima]

You're very welcome, I love the little friendship-ish parasocial relationship we've developed lmao

[@CalciferASMR]

@@karanaima friendship-ish parasocial, oh my goodness 😂😂

[@karanaima]

​@@CalciferASMRYes ! Let's send each other virtual hugs, talk about friends we physically can't have in common, share a meal when it's lunch time for you a dinner time for me. No pressure, no judgement, no commitment. Just casual, wholesome, enthusiastic conversations. Isn't this wonderful ? Sometimes someone like that is all you need to make your days better. Love you Haley 🥰

[@JanidetLujano]

I get the same way love. Listen to music ❤

[@DylanMarx-vw8ze]

I love your videos, so does my girlfriend, and my dog!

[@CalciferASMR]

I’m so glad! Thank you 🥺

[@AetherSummers]

Uni sounds really busy Hailey! If you need time to focus on your studies, then it’s completely reasonable to prioritise that. Great video as always :)

[@CalciferASMR]

Thank you so much, my friend. When needed, I absolutely will.

[@ZackyASMR]

Hi happy Sunday ❤❤

[@CalciferASMR]

And a happy Tuesday now!

[@شروق-ن7ح]

I love your videos❤❤😊

[@CalciferASMR]

Thank you so much 🥺❤️

[@DAK_Smashes_it141]

Love the vlog type videos sister 💯

[@CalciferASMR]

Thank you! :D

[@tungleeage16skilledingungf27]

Hi Haley I hope your doing well I hope your family Is doing good as well and I hope you have a wonderful thanksgiving

[@CalciferASMR]

You as well! Thank you!❤️

[@CC-eh3vr]

seeing we have the same yeti tumbler really struck a cord with me that i need to do the dishes

[@CalciferASMR]

Hahah hopefully you got it done! ❤️

[@PatricksWRLD]

Your hair is winter fire...January embers. My heart burns there too.

[@CalciferASMR]

Thank you so much!

[@annasophie7362]

Wonderful relaxing!!!!!! :)))))

[@CalciferASMR]

Thank you! ❤️

[@TheWingknight101]

Tbh im probably gunna listen to this while i clean because i also need to get out of the slump im in now

[@CalciferASMR]

I hope you’re being kind with yourself today! 🧡

[@ВладимирБ-х7е]

❤

[@CalciferASMR]

[@Pness99]

2:24 thick of it 🥶🔥

[@Seroxgunss]

Please god no

[@JanidetLujano]

Do you! You get to the recipe when you can. 😊❤

[@CalciferASMR]

Thank you so much girl! 🥹🧡🧡

[@JCdoulos74]

I bet you'll be putting those Christmas decorations away until next summer 🤣🤣

[@CalciferASMR]

LOL I am almost always on it because my room is a scared space! 😂

[@jono3175]

I hope you’re doing ok missed your videos for sure but you being in a good place is more important

[@CalciferASMR]

I've missed making them, for sure. Thank you so much for stopping in to watch.

[@Berniesbruh]

You are so sweet you deserve everything :( don’t argue with me

[@CalciferASMR]

Thank you so much my friend 🥹

[@Berniesbruh]

Yes please ma’am

[@FJAR679]

♥️

[@CalciferASMR]

❤️❤️❤️

[@Oways7643]

As humans were not productive 24/7 we have hours/days where we are lazy/resting.

[@CalciferASMR]

Absolutely:) 🧡

[@pandaasmr9333]

😍

[@XMAX-VELOCITYX]

Were all here for you. We get it depression suxxx........also whyyyyyy you put the sheet upside down

[@CalciferASMR]

Thank you, but hahaha I didn’t even notice!

[@Deedog555]

question how tall are U?

[@d.o.5190]

🥺🫂🩷

[@CalciferASMR]

❤️❤️

[@OriginalPhil]

What really bothers me about academia and the university system is that it robs young people of their motivation and sense of wonder, while making them feel like it’s their fault. As an older “nontraditional” student who is dealing with the same thing, I can only imagine how daunting the process must be for people recently out of high school.

[@CalciferASMR]

It certainly is so overwhelming, especially when you feel you’re already juggling many other things. But we are going to do our best, because that’s as much as we can do! :,) 🧡

[@OriginalPhil]

@ Well said! You’re doing an excellent job. KZbin must really add a level of complexity to life too. Knowing you though (parasocially, at least), you’d probably feel like you’re complaining by bringing that up 😩.

[@lusinebabayan382]

💛🧡❤️💋💋🐈

[@CalciferASMR]

❤️❤️

[@lusinebabayan382]

@@CalciferASMR 🌹🌷🩷🩷

[@Alina-tm9wy]

🤍🤍🤍

[@CalciferASMR]

🥹🧡

[@Ricardouchiha809]

Second

[@CalciferASMR]

☺️🧡

[@Im-lost-pleaese-help]

Hailey your so pretty 😭 mad jealous

[@CalciferASMR]

Awee you are too sweet 🥺🥺

[@7dawid7]

Resist him, strong in your faith, because you know that your brothers and sisters throughout the world are enduring the same kinds of suffering. (1Pet 5: 9) I always feel comforted listening to you about the same kinds of difficulties I face. Thank you for confiding in us my friend. 🫂

[@CalciferASMR]

Love this reminder ❤️

[@Dolphin_D]

The crazy thing is we only exist in these comments for you. 8 months ago I didn't even exist, I'm just a concept fr. 🐬

[@CalciferASMR]

I knnoooow haha, so strange