Assumptions Become Reality | Assume That I Can | World Down Syndrome

[@ipettynote]

“You assumed i couldn’t swear right?” GAGGED 👏🏾

[@Noughtsgnik]

GÆER

[@J4M.ST4RS]

SHE LITERALLY LEFT NAUR CRUMBS

[@REI.12-r5f]

NO, CUZ SHE ATE THAT PART

[@stone9802]

oh god autistic language guy was right, im gagged is replacing slay

[@_Kay15_]

@@stone9802gagged is AAVE it’s not autistic language 🌚

[@Maiyah.dtiroblox]

THE “ you assumed I can’t swear right 🙄” ATE. UP.

[@soupykim53]

Yikes

[@roryaphunter]

not gonna lie, the f-bomb hit me hard

[@mahdireza5695]

Honestly it's what Miranda Cosgrove thought she looked like in that one interview lol 😂

[@corndogboi]

Nah, she definitely didn’t ate. She DEVOURED.

[@ŁørdZ-žükò]

She ate that shit up

[@JarJar66]

Every time I rewatch this I get goosebumps. This video gave me a whole new perspective on disabilities.

[@Aj-yu6ec]

cringe right?

[@JarJar66]

@@Aj-yu6ec Hm, I didn’t see the video as anything cringe worthy. However, I did view it as very informative.

[@cruzyboijones]

@@JarJar66hell nah that shit was cringe as hell

[@Paws_sisters]

@@cruzyboijonesthe only cringe person Is you who thinks all disabled people should be babied 🥲

[@Paws_sisters]

@@JarJar66it’s ok that other guy is cringe he’s probably one of those kids who thinks they’re superior for hating on disabled people and thinks it makes them look cool.

[@jacobmorin485]

This is why as a behavioral therapist, I approach my job as a coach rather than a caregiver. I expect my clients to excel and perform at their peak capacity. Babying them only hurts them.

[@lunar3n]

honestly your wording here implies a pendulum swing to other side of the extreme: pushing your clients without regard for real disability limitations or the systemic oppression we face. the job position you’re in is one that is, most of the time, traumatizing and abusive to autistic people. please make sure you’re not swinging too far to either side.

[@Nameless-ny8nk]

​@@lunar3nIt doesn't really tho, the commenter said at THEIR peak CAPABILITY, not at the peak capability of neurotypicals, I do understand your concern tho, but that is not what the original comment implied.

[@lunar3n]

@@Nameless-ny8nk that’s true, it’s just that allistics usually do not get what we’re actually working against and therefore don’t usually understand what our unique “peak capacity” looks like, as individuals

[@jacobmorin485]

@@lunar3n I expect different things from each of my different clients. Some clients I will allow to verbally stim and scream while we are inside. Other clients can handle learning the distinction between an “inside voice” and “outside voice”. When it’s appropriate to be yelling and when it’s not. I have one client that is immobile and nonverbal, but I can still get him to pull his spoon towards his face in order to somewhat feed himself, but I still largely have to control his movement and scoop his food for him. I have another client who can use a fork, but prefers using his hands with all kinds of food. With him, we work on using only eating utensils, because I know he is able to. Every client is different.

[@Willnickf]

That's why even when my daughter was 2 I talked to her like a human no baby talk. And she's in grade 1 smartest kid already.

[@idkmate62]

as an autistic girl, i am so done with people treating me like a kid. say it louder for the people in the back.

[@Angel5557]

As someone who sits in the back I’m with you 🔥🔥🔥

[@CleenisNOThere]

Alright then stop playing with the fidget spinner and get to work🙏🏾Btw you getting a task done os not special you did something thats a basic human thing

[@idkmate62]

I do not own a fidget spinner. Also, what you are describing sounds much more like ADHD than autism. Autism is a disorder characterised mainly by difficulties with communication and sensory input. Maybe in the future, you should actually think before you write things like this. 🥰🫶

[@CleenisNOThere]

@@idkmate62 oh just get better at communicating then

[@CleenisNOThere]

@user-ir2nl8kc2p Meh I like yapping

[@wendigo4hire310]

At first, I thought this would turn into a message about overcoming oppression through personal strength. When it didn’t, I was shocked, but I then realized I was part of the problem. Personal strength will never be enough to truly overcome bigotry and oppression, and one person should not have to be stronger than another just because of the color of their skin or their gender. Sometimes, we truly just need people to stop oppressing us without having to “prove ourselves” first. And that’s okay.

[@SycloneDx2]

About a year ago, I met a 21 yr old person with high functioning autism who genuinely thought babies were made by kissing. It was funny at first but then I realised how messed up it was that his parents probably still treat him like a 7 year old till this day. edit: Just for clarification, most people wouldn't even suspect this guy was autistic until you interacted with him for a few days straight.

[@ServeraServera0]

And that is why having some sort of sex education at school is important

[@fallenafterling4128]

​@@ServeraServera0Nobody cares

[@panamacityboi]

Wait… that’s not how they’re made?

[@mell5955]

@@fallenafterling4128 clearly you did enough to comment lol

[@B-I-G-N-A-S-T-Y]

DSM is wild nowadays that is Not high functioning autism. High functioning is like having an IQ of atleast the normal average ,people used to call that Aspergers.

[@Risingofthephoenix]

That's fucking right! She ate this up!!! We need more ads like this

[@n.e.r.d.2213]

Who asked 💀

[@ordinary_outsider]

@@n.e.r.d.2213 bye what💀 who asked if u thought this was goofy💀💀

[@POOKIETOOKIESKNM]

@@n.e.r.d.2213🤓☝️

[@Icommentalot61]

⁠@@n.e.r.d.2213how about you stfu ain’t no one gotta ask for everything No one asked to be born,yet here we are,stop saying “no one asked” or “who asked” because it’s generally immature and annoying asf

[@mahdireza5695]

​@@n.e.r.d.2213middle schooler comeback 💀

[@Xxcloudy.twilightxX]

“Assume I can learn shakespeare, so I learn FUCKING SHAKESPEARE” GAGGED SHE ATE WITH THAT 💗💗

[@wonktootie]

I work with special needs kids and I worked with a girl who has Down Syndrome for two years. She constantly blew me away with what she could do and what she knew. She always tried to do everything independently. She was so hardworking!

[@Blaz_Plaz]

Can you share something?

[@Emily-the-faerie]

Ok the way you said sp3cial n33ds is is a red flag

[@Blaz_Plaz]

​@@Emily-the-faerie How is special needs offensive now? Perhaps you should log off and take in your physical surroundings for a week.

[@Blaz_Plaz]

@@Emily-the-faerie ​How is special needs offensive now? Perhaps you should log off and take in your physical surroundings for a week.

[@Blaz_Plaz]

@@Emily-the-faerie Ah yes totally normal word is now offensive.

[@DafSpi]

As an autistic person I can really relate to this 🙏

[@neonice]

99% you don't even noticeably have anything wrong and no one notices it so no one actually treats you differently so you go around telling everyone you're autistic just so they treat you special

[@stillalivestillreal]

Do you feel frustrated when people talk about their disabilities ? Why does that make you feel bad ?

[@DafSpi]

@@neonice You obviously don’t know what you’re talking about. Firstly: I got first diagnosed with autism at the age of 6 and I have been ocstracised for it throughout my entire childhood and I still face many disadvantages in society until this very day because there are no proper accomodations for me. Secondly: Autism presents differently in everyone and some people tend to mask their autistics traits so they appear neurotypical (what people consider “normal”) ,often at their own detriment. Statements like yours are part of the reason why it’s so difficult for many people to get professionally diagnosed. Many masked people did in fact struggle but were labeled as “rude”, “antisocial”, “stubborn” etc. Autism isn’t just some TikTok trend. We really have more knowledge about it nowadays and that’s why “suddenly everyone is autistic nowadays” according to certain (ableist) people 👀 Anyways, I’m not going to argue with you about this any further. I have better things to do. See ya ✌️

[@PolishWoolf]

Everyone has it differently I guess. I can blend in with the normies pretty well. Heck, I conveniently lost all my diagnosis paperwork when moving precisely because I don't want to be treated differently. Most people just assume I'm cold and rude and that suits me just fine. Sure, I'm exhausted all the time since my life feels a lot like a never-ending theatre act, but I just suck it up and carry on instead of feeling sorry for myself. I guess I just see my disorder as an issue that I have to work on rather than a personality trait to accept or even embrace.

[@zzzzzuya]

@@PolishWoolf please just say "neurotipicals", calling them normies makes it sound like neurodivergenices are some kind of edgy subculture

[@kaitlyn.073]

SHE FUCKING ATE THIS UP AND LEFT NO CRUMBS YOU GO GIRL

[@EPGTRIO]

😐

[@kaitlyn.073]

@@EPGTRIO what’s your problem?

[@ihatewatermelonpeople]

@@kaitlyn.073that was so corny

[@EPGTRIO]

@@ihatewatermelonpeople fr

[@Y2kDreamer]

Exaggerated

[@serenitysfirefly]

I really needed to hear this tonight. I have ADHD and autism, and my father told me pretty much my whole life that college is too hard for me. It took years of therapy to undo that mentality that I am not allowed to pursue higher education because I'm mentally disabled. I'm currently working on my 800 word essay final for my second semester of college, and I've been feeling really burnt out. Thank you for reminding me that I can do this! 💞 Edit: Thank you for all the support! I got full marks on my essay and an A in the class!♡

[@sweetpeaon3]

You got this!!! 😊

[@heathercreates]

I believe in you!

[@456puff]

That's awesome that you're overcoming your trauma and the stereotypes! Keep at it!

[@zoyadulzura7490]

Burnout sucks, but it's good that you still believe in yourself and your abilities, which will help you get through it! Hopefully you can get a rest of some sort once the semester is over.

[@mr_scoobis]

800 word essay 💀💀💀💀💀 they putting you in some sped class lil bro

[@laurelcook9078]

This goes for all disabilities. Sure, someone may have limitations in some areas, but humans are adaptable and can find a way or a different route.

[@leguminous7564]

The message of the video is the opposite of adapting though. She's saying she needs support from everyone to do anything, as opposed to going for it herself.

[@Paws_sisters]

@@leguminous7564it’s hard to go for something for yourself when everyone babies you if her parents think she cannot live on her own and tell her that then she thinks that and thinks it’s normal. It’s not that easy

[@supayambaek]

​@@leguminous7564 ??? the ad shows people's assumption about her inhibits her growth. no man is an island, bruh.

[@leguminous7564]

@@supayambaek the ad presents it as her being completely prevented from growing, not inhibited. bad message.

[@bxxtrr]

@@leguminous7564it’s a good message I think you’re reading into it

[@krykryinfinitive2452]

my cousin was born with down syndrome and her mom was told she couldnt do majority of things “normal people” could but my aunt didn’t treat her daughter like she had down syndrome she treated her like a person and taught her all the things they told her she couldn’t do and before she died at age 32 she had accomplished more than any “normal” person could so ask yourself what really is normal when the ones we differentiate from ourselves prove that they are more like us than we could ever be

[@ratthew8098]

im sorry you had to deal.i m sure she ate

[@AnnA-jd4xm]

what did she pass from?

[@XhumpersX]

Choked on a plastic fruit 😔

[@MaxRealGolfcart]

​@@AnnA-jd4xm most down syndrome people dont live very long I heard.

[@MaxRealGolfcart]

Normal is just going ABT your fkn day. Everyone's normal nobody's special. Nobody's better than anyone else.

[@katycat1089]

With all the respect, I have never seen a person with down syndrome speaking this well in my country, probably because, as she said, they never encourage them enough as kids and they don't develop but because of the kind of education they receive and not because of being different 🤔. Thank you very much for this! And I hope this movement or mantra expands around the globe to touch everyone.

[@umopepisdn.]

People with down syndrome can have varying levels of intellectual disability, and some even live with completely normal intelligence. I saw a video of a man with down syndrome doing a speech advocating for more awareness and it was amazing to see because he spoke so eloquently. Obviously he was a very smart man. Smarter than some neurotypical people I know...

[@SuryaTwo-bk1ky]

people with down syndrome who got it bad can have as low as 25 iq, and some people are barely effected and have like 70 iq which barely constitutes mental retardation.

[@oatchia]

my mum told someone i was autistic and they then acted like i was braindead for the next hour because i was nervous. getting treated like shit absolutely sucks, i'm so sorry to the people who get treated like less than they are. ♥️♥️

[@Bobskabobs]

just dont be austistic... facts

[@sannegodijn301]

​@@Bobskabobs thats not how it works facts

[@bebopcola4643]

That’s horrible. I wouldn’t do that to you I’d give you graham crackers and a rubix cube

[@ben13828]

​@@Bobskabobs that's not how it works "if you have rabies then go to the doctor"

[@Bobskabobs]

@@ben13828 and if your autistic go to the beach the sun will cure it

[@MelodyToonie]

i hate this *"Infantilization"* towards people with disabilities smh.

[@blackqweenmars]

I don’t have down syndrome, but I’m autistic and a lot of people are under the impression that autism is like something that permanently delays your brain or something and that autistic people can’t consent or live on their own or do stuff for themselves and for cases of autism, it takes your social skills, but you gain a lot of intelligence.

[@AlexanderofMiletus]

I think that the slow replacement of classifying people as “eccentric” or “anger-prone” or what have you, with mental diagnoses is incredibly harmful for this reason. We should diagnose on cognitive disorders alone, not social or personality

[@AlexanderofMiletus]

@@MikeDonaldson-eh2ru All the more reason to not be so quick to "diagnose" someone with autism because they're awkward

[@NerdTrap]

It's like the slider between intelligence and social ability is dialled up all the way in one direction...

[@blackqweenmars]

@@NerdTrap fr

[@haji2nd444]

Ughhh yeah as an autistic person I hate how much we’re infantilized

[@stickyickybandit]

This is the best margarita commercial I’ve ever seen

[@MafaAstralStore]

How do you have only 390 subs???

[@LatinGiudo817]

I thought it was an ad for Shakespeare

[@RizzGyat-vi4ie]

She looks funny

[@Lovely_ALDC654]

@@RizzGyat-vi4ieshe was Down syndrome. Also, thats really rude

[@cooke_isobel]

@@RizzGyat-vi4ieshe has down syndrome and she looks normal

[@bigboy-k7n]

0:57 is a jumpscare

[@shelbycostilla3223]

That is what this world needs more of right now. That people with Down Syndrome can do things that normal people can do if not better. You go! Thank you for this message.

[@beebock]

Let’s not use the words “normal people”

[@shelbycostilla3223]

@@beebock You know what I mean. People with disabilities can do things that people without disabilities can do if not better.

[@embananasplit2935]

@@beebock Are “normal people” going to be offended or something?

[@MurtazaTalib]

Did you just assume my normality!

[@POOKIETOOKIESKNM]

@@embananasplit2935im pretty sure they meant NOT to assume Down syndrome are not “normal”

[@vishishtmagan7203]

syndrome is down, but motivation is up ✊

[@Risingofthephoenix]

☠️☠️☠️☠️

[@RizzGyat-vi4ie]

Spit those bars 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@Aetirnel]

I’M DEAD

[@alicevesmet4116]

😂😂😂😂😂 omggg

[@BasicMemz]

wild😭

[@ItsCabb.]

syndrome may be down but we still up 🔥 🗣️

[@sobhas94]

This ad is one of the most powerful, well made thing I have seen recently

[@qawsdsqq]

LOL

[@garooraman5292]

fuck this ad

[@Aflecow]

This ad is fake news nobody would tap a retigga

[@domeshotz800]

YES SAR GOOD MORNING SAR DOWN SYNDROME IS POWERFUL!

[@StormySeas4596]

As an autistic woman, I proved that I can do things like normal people, and now that I have a neice with Down syndrome, I'm never going to treat her differently from her siblings. She deserves to be treated like a grown-up when she's an adult, but for now, she's only 2. Treat others the way you want to be treated. Would you, a neurotypical, want to be treated like a 3 year old? Didn't think so. People who treat individuals who happen to have Autism, Down Syndrome, ADHD, etc. like they're children are abelist. There, I said it.

[@StormySeas4596]

@MikeDonaldson-eh2ru I did, douchebag. I live with my husband and have a full time job.

[@JoRdi-ul4xg]

@@MikeDonaldson-eh2ru omfg how negative

[@hello_ree]

@@MikeDonaldson-eh2ru if you're getting government hand outs id take them lmao its free money

[@Justplainstrange-xy2xj]

​@@MikeDonaldson-eh2ruWhy are you posting multiple comments with ableist undertones? Take your pathetic ass elsewhere.

[@hello_ree]

@@MikeDonaldson-eh2ru lmao i dont care its more money for me

[@aturtlethatisred]

I’ve had a chronic illness since birth along with my ADHD and later I realized I’m probably autistic though the tests were inconclusive/borderline. Anyway, thank you so much. My parents have been on and off supportive and the world definitely hasn’t been in a lot of ways. This video really touched me and, help me to believe in myself again

[@Biancalovestosew98]

I have autism and this is relatable.❤️ I don’t like being treated as a child or being viewed of being incapable or helpless😭😩 I’m going to be 26.

[@lindseyherbst9444]

I just turned 26 a couple weeks ago, and was diagnosed with autism at 23. And yeah, big mood. Even if there are things I can't do, it's because of my own comfort (driving gives me anxiety, so I don't drive, but I was never told by my parents that I couldn't).

[@Biancalovestosew98]

@@lindseyherbst9444 I don't drive either! I honestly don't trust myself behind the wheel.

[@CoconutPlayzOfficial]

How is autism relatable to this people always think they r alike ur Autism doesn’t compare to having a mental disability

[@tay7655]

NEARLY CRIED YOU ATEEEEEE

[@ToniToniToniToni]

omg same this is so good

[@corndogboi]

Nah, she RAVISHED AND DEVOURED

[@kendall7117]

go outside

[@ToniToniToniToni]

@@kendall7117 wtf?

[@Oilupimtherein5]

Looks like you ate too, hit the gym tubby

[@jeddieorisadare]

“So, I learn F*UCKING Shakespeare’s” Girl you ate that line up,that teacher was left speechless!!!

[@monkeywithacomputer1349]

Not a real teacher, dude

[@vivi-ws9yl]

Whenever I feel someone treat me like a child, I immediately know my mom told them about my illness. A few days ago, I took in a package for my neighbour and when I knew they were home, I brought it to them. The neighbour told "Oh that's nice of you, you could've asked your mom to bring it up" I am 20 years old and able to walk a few fucking stairs. I knew she meant good, like all the other people do but it's so fucking humiliation

[@justlola5651]

Living in Egypt, we didn’t have the proper education on Down syndrome or how people can cope with it, I was however in a camp where several of my colleagues had Down syndrome. I was genuinely blown away by the achievements that many of them had accomplished, there were several Olympic champions and artists and very creative, accomplished individuals.

[@rutabega306]

Lol bet I can guess what kind of camp it was

[@ryonin1646]

@@rutabega306foul 😭

[@gabethedinosaur95]

I have special needs. And I wonder if I could survive in the real world and sure enough i fucking did in elementary, junior high high school and college . After finishing school I became a new me . And now im working , building a brand new life and filling my destiny. I’m 29 years old and I’m proud of myself for working very hard .

[@corndogboi]

Oh my god she tore this up in the best way possible. She didn’t ate, she DEVOURED AND RAVISHED IT. Also, the thumbnail made me laugh with the, “Fucking Shakesphere,” subtitles lol

[@sophiathekitteh]

Yeah I need her Instagram, she slayed this psa ❤

[@yunhanye]

you assume that I can't have sex. that got me

[@Sparrow-f1i]

Caught me so off guard

[@chess6620]

Why? Was anybody assuming she was smooth like a Barbie down there, or even thinking about it?

[@Sparrow-f1i]

@@chess6620 it just came out of nowhere is all 😭

[@thalesvondasos]

@@chess6620 There is a discussion to be had about people with down syndrome (especially those more severly affected) and whether or not they can give consent

[@mahdireza5695]

​@@chess6620the point is, she's not a child 😂 I mean it's a good point tho, an adult who has down syndrome should be allowed to feel like an adult and do adult things like any other adult.

[@violetjensen3783]

I’m an autistic swim teacher and I push all kids. If they express it’s too far, I’ll stop. But they’re not dumb.

[@SussyBakaSenpai]

Heck ya this is amazing!!!! I have a baby brother with autism and down syndrome and my family always encourages him that he can do anything through Christ who strengthens him.

[@forensicdeathconsultants]

Very impactful! Bravo to #MadisonTevlin for paving the way and being an advocate and inspiration for so many to follow.

[@Galaxy-lr5tq]

1:20 the syndrome squad

[@Chicken_tenders-h8p]

Facts

[@SuryaTwo-bk1ky]

the tizzy team

[@Chicken_tenders-h8p]

the silly squad

[@scootergirl3662]

This does such a better job of explaining inclusion and why it matters in a non-cringey way than 99% of the Internet I will never forgive my parents for how much they have babied my autistic brother, and kept him from excelling They tried to do the same with me more on the basis of being female (even though I was also autistic, but girls didn’t really get diagnoses where I came from, unless they were very severe), but I was just too damn rebellious in nature

[@hellolittlenova]

"you assumed i couldnt swear , right ?" ATE DOWN.

[@charlesfishy97]

As a normal chromosome individual these are very true assumptions

[@eddiespaghetti8973]

Hey man wanna play sometime

[@melaniewut]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@yourlocalcrazy-jr9yl]

Yeah, there not true though.

[@cristinaguzman8408]

I had a friend who was a math tutor who was teaching a Down Syndrome student and a normal student. The Down Syndrome student understood the subject more than the normal student

[@DelicateSilence]

As a person with trichotilloamnia and ocd, you slayy! And I'm so done with ppl who treat me as a some psycopath or "ugly" child.

[@Spidergod1128-fd9dc]

Instagram reels would have a field day 😂

[@collinandrews-wl7sn]

fr

[@poggingmilk9452]

xD

[@zakarya569]

someone on her reels said “she must be their leader” 💀

[@pepto_bismol.]

"they're evolving" was the top comment on insta lmfao

[@novemberblake9505]

And why is that funny to you?

[@OnlyCleanMusicEdits]

The production quality is ✨FUCKING AMAZING✨

[@tamersmusiclol]

ATE AND LEFT NO CRUMBS

[@axe-tq2wn]

Hell yeah

[@diegeticfridge9167]

😭😭

[@Goebber15]

She certainly looks like she ate a lot.

[@Zombiegurl582]

@@Goebber15I’m sure u do too 😜

[@Lilys0609]

too? why did u admit he was right?@@Zombiegurl582

[@Triton69]

imagine being knocked out by this person

[@Sanseye]

You would have to have the most advanced imagination for that to happen 😂😂😂

[@Triton69]

@@Sanseye YEAH AHHA 😭

[@69picklesupmyahh]

id be embarrassed

[@ihatewatermelonpeople]

@@69picklesupmyahhwho wouldn’t lol

[@susanhaigh6005]

“To know thyself is the beginning of wisdom” - Socrates Knowing what is different about me was not meant to be a crutch, but a ladder to climb higher. It wasn’t meant to make me weak, but give me the strength to understand why I do things differently…..not worse, not necessarily better, just differently. It has helped me understand years of self doubt and fear. It has helped me to dispel that fear and run the race in life I was meant to.

[@Josie656]

I’m autistic and I had people treat me like a kid tell me that I’m not allowed to have a audiobook while reading, they were teachers who were going against my IEP!

[@samadritaroyxb2915]

Syndrome may be down but confidence is up

[@poggingmilk9452]

Nah this is wild

[@mahdireza5695]

This is honestly such a wakeup call for uneducated or ableist people!! This girl is a gem. ❤❤❤

[@honkyt0nk]

dont let instagram watch it

[@Rykalee]

🤫

[@GodisGudd]

They already did

[@ilovecake__]

@@GodisGuddi can just imagine all the comments 💀💀💀💀

[@Oilupimtherein5]

On God 😂😂

[@Tocalivvybear]

My cousin is autistic, he parents don’t encourage her to live alone and my cousin is 19, I always encourage her to do what she wants. Cuz she deserves it.

[@jasonchildress9124]

People forget just because you have a handicap, it doesn't mean you can't be great. Too many people look at your exterior and judge what you can and can't do. I'm 50 an can work circles around some of the guys half my age

[@zoyadulzura7490]

A matter that is implied but not explicitly stated is that because the people around a person with a disability believe that they can't do something, that person will often come to believe it, too. I am so grateful for the individuals who fight back against such messages, who say "Yes I can" when faced with "You cannot," for their own well being as well as because it demonstrates to others similar to them who may also learn to resist the toxic message of "You cannot."

[@hillwoop9101]

Assume that I can drink and drive

[@averag33]

exactly

[@poggingmilk9452]

Howd you know

[@cory5743]

Assume the family of 4 I mowed down are alive and well

[@Shark-pj8in]

This is fair, but a lot of mentally challenged people cant live alone. But i love this message cuz ive seen this time and time again.

[@darkacadpresenceinblood]

true! i don't think the message is that everyone can do anything, just that you shouldn't judge kids'/people's abilities based on assumptions and rather learn what they're capable of by getting to know *them* and helping them reach *their* goals (something that goes for everyone and not just disabled people tbh, way too many parents project their own wants/assumptions on their kids instead of supporting them in what *they* want, but obviously in this case it's about disabilities)

[@alyssapinon9670]

@@darkacadpresenceinbloodfor real! As a non disabled person, educating myself on support levels and needs was really helpful in understanding the spectrum of disability

[@Shark-pj8in]

​@@darkacadpresenceinbloodyea I agree with that.

[@AmaxFNBR]

Wow, honestly really good way of saying it. People can be truly horrible, but your spreading the message and doing it correctly.

[@poopsmith6853]

Yeah, because we need to promote spreading genetic disorders

[@KitTheNewsboy]

As someone who is neurodivergent, it hurts me to see how other people have to go through the same thing I go through with my teachers. I was talking to some kids about a fight that had happened and my sped teacher walked up to us, laughing her head off, saying “guys stop you’re gonna involve kit in it and we don’t want that” (for context, my name is kit) I understood completely if she didn’t want people starting drama, but to specifically point it at me instead of everyone involved (including me), really hurt me. It’s really terrible and I just hope we don’t become the next minority people debate on in the next few years.

[@chaysecrossley.]

THAT WAS ICONIC ❤

[@ihatewatermelonpeople]

more like ironic

[@aMindSetFree]

If partying, drinking, and having sex is what life is to you. Then i assume your on the right track.

[@matthewd5883]

Goes for all disabilities. The best way to treat anyone with a disability is you treat them like everyone else. Treat them as if they are a person, and treat them like a fellow human being. That can be a lot more capable than you think.

[@shikumas]

YES I LOVE THIS MESSAGE! I don’t have Down syndrome, but I am autistic and adhd yet people infantilize the shit out of us. I don’t need to be talked down on when I can accomplish so much despite my deficiencies! Thankfully my parents didn’t treat me like I needed support 24/7 and kept the hard Asian parenting while also being sorta supportive

[@poopsmith6853]

Down syndrome is a genetic defect caused primarily by geriatric pregnancy. Shouldn't be praising it or encouraging them to breed at all

[@jstwlkawayoldman]

Booooom! That was powerful! 👏👏

[@julyisjason]

As a deaf girl, student here! When in middle school, teachers treat me like a kid, but, why? Because they damn think all deaf people have disabilities. No, they can do everything like people with disabilities. They can do anything themselves! I’m not a kid! But what If I can’t hear? JUST listen the music (feel your heartbeat from the loud music 100 volume)! Some deaf people tried their best to speak! They can LEARN to SPEAK! They can READ lips! They can DRIVE! What if a police car- No, deaf people can see the flashlight from police car! Also hospital car too! Be aware! Deaf people and people with disabilities can do anything! Don’t treat them like children. It’s kind of annoying… When teachers took me to the disability class, a few students with disabilities… But I am not stupid anymore. Deaf people and people with disabilities are NOT stupid or dumb! I’m VERY proud for being DEAF! I completely was born as deaf. I cannot believe that students kinda left me when I said I am deaf… It’s very disrespectful.

[@itsshush_]

We need to stop either ignoring people with disabilities or treat them like children

[@gamerstreater9314]

both

[@ollie3428]

My son has down syndrome this is very positive, his speach is already improving massively

[@Zaktastic-u2f]

You ate the building up 💀

[@Urfavtheaterkidd]

She didn't eat... She devoured

[@ihatewatermelonpeople]

and it shows in her stomach

[@HappilyMundane]

"Assume that I can drink a margarita" One week later. "Sir you are under arrest for serving 30 children with Downs copious amounts of alcohol. You are beyond grossly negligent, and are a danger to society."

[@supayambaek]

bro, of course you don't serve margarita to minors lmao.

[@poopsmith6853]

​@supayambaek you don't let people with deleterious genetic disorders breed either.

[@69picklesupmyahh]

i assume i can eat knife without bleeding

[@jaizereal]

so i eat knife without bleeding

[@69picklesupmyahh]

@@jaizereal what is your pfp...

[@gl0omblooms]

kitty ​@@69picklesupmyahh

[@Horsey-Twinkle-Toes]

Lmao

[@69picklesupmyahh]

@@gl0omblooms ;-; if you say so

[@LylaGames100]

The sex part is crazy 1:13 and also fucking Shakespeare is funny

[@Miendoz]

the syndrome is down but the money is up

[@fullmetaltheorist]

the syndrome is down but the confidence is up🗣🗣🗣

[@Derek_Antonio]

“Assume that I can drink a Margarita”. Mf if we get caught serving a minor an alcoholic beverage, you be putting us in jail 🤣🤣

[@sparkly21]

She’s not a minor, she’s an adult

[@poopsmith6853]

​@@sparkly21age wise, sure. Faculty wise, not at all

[@no-zy7bv]

This is a good message about not making assumptions. But it also somewhat implies that she requires other people's approval or permission to do things for herself. You have to advocate for yourself, for what you want, and what you deserve. People are always going to make assumptions about other people regardless, so you should ignore those assumptions and prove them wrong by achieving the things you want to achieve.

[@phrogishere2698]

When someone older than you or someone you're supposed to listen to ( like a parent, a coach, a teacher... ) tells you you can't do something your first reaction would be to listen, especially when you've been treated like that from the start, and if it starts with those people and it ends up being everyone else that tells you you can't do anything you'll start believing it, I guess that's what they were trying to do

[@commentsforthealgorithm]

Well she does need the other person to sell her the alcohol in order to purchase said alcohol. She does need another consenting adult to have sex with in order to have sex at all. People with Down syndrome are usually only hired as cleaning crew and at grocery stores so that makes job hunting much more difficult when they feel that is all they can get. Just to name a few examples she mentioned and that it is literally approval and permission with these things.

[@darkacadpresenceinblood]

"she requires other people's approval to do things" that's... how being human works. not that every single thing you do has to be directly allowed by someone else but the way we as a species work is that we learn everything, including things like what we ourselves are capable of, from other people. and when the things older generations teach you are false, for example because of stereotypes and assumptions like the ones she speaks about, that has an effect. your comment has a nice message on the surface but it's so much harder to succeed without support

[@novemberblake9505]

Yes and she is doing that advocating right now. It’s hard to deviate from a pattern, especially if it has been like that for your entire life. If her parents never even assumed she could live on her own they won’t teach her skills she would need. By the time she wants to move out she will feel like it is fruitless to even try because she is missing all those skills. There are studies done that show that teacher‘s impressions of a students skill level severely impact their ability to succeed. If a teacher assumes a student is stupid, no matter how smart that student actually is, they will perform worse. Simply due to the subconscious cues the teacher is giving them. Imagine getting these cues for your entire life. Of course you will feel unable to achieve

[@poopsmith6853]

​@@darkacadpresenceinbloodno, intelligent and independent people can find and discover things for themselves

[@wolflover306]

Disabilities are a spectrum! And so are mental disabilities! She ate it up!!! 🎉🎉🎉

[@ratthew8098]

SHE STRAIGHT GOBBLED.

[@NeighborhoodBasketCase]

The narrative we’re taught has a powerful effect on us. We need to stop infantilizing disabled adults!

[@bubbles_plays]

So what about the people that can’t..? We assume they can, both parties get disappointed when the truthful assumption comes out.

[@PersonallyVictimizedByYourMom]

Why does that matter…? That’s not what she’s talking about

[@bubbles_plays]

@@PersonallyVictimizedByYourMom But it has to be considered. You can’t expect too much of people as it pressures then and therefore often makes things worse.

[@mahdireza5695]

​​​@@bubbles_playsI mean... You can't speak for everyone tho, no matter who you are. Some disabled people can do more than other disabled people, it's just how it is in life. Doesn't need to necessarily be a bad or inconsiderate thing to not include every single type of disabled person, especially when specific challenges aren't relatable between severely disabled or mildly disabled people. It's a HUUUGE spectrum so I just don't see what the problem is with her not mentioning the people that can't physically do things she's probably capable of herself???

[@miles_quartz]

you don't make an assumption, you ask. that's all. or get to know them. instead of assuming. some people who use wheelchairs can stand but still need wheelchairs to get around, others are completely paralyzed. don't assume someone's ability. offer help when requested and help push them to be their best self, but don't force them to do something. :)

[@thornsandrosess]

Whats important is that you give them a chance. And only then you change course in order to support their needs. Its not always about 'can' or 'can't'. Sometimes being able to do something just looks different, because we need a little more support.

[@juststudy869]

ok i’m pretty sure im neurotypical and i don’t necessarily relate to this… BUT THAT WAS AMAZING I LOVED THAT

[@gamerstreater9314]

lucky

[@feetofclaymusic]

I'm autistic but my parents and teachers have always treated me as any other kid with the same expectations - now, I have a great life, both socially and financially speaking.

[@xphxntomx]

One of the most down to Earth people I’ve seen on the internet.

[@owenhans3633]

Ain’t no way you said that💀

[@ihatewatermelonpeople]

@@owenhans3633hurtful but truthful

[@sikeLAWps]

As a person who is allergic to peanuts, this really opened my eyes.

[@ServeraServera0]

Now prove to everybody that you can eat some peanut butter like everyone else

[@tsukikage]

Above all of this, make sure that accommodations and supports are provided and accessible so that small limitations don't become big ones. I have disabilities that have made it difficult for me to succeed in school, but am now finally on the path to graduation after figuring out what I need to succeed and getting the appropriate accommodations and supports. Hell, I might have aced IB English in high school if I simply had our various novels on CD/mp3. And so far I haven't been able to drive, but I was provided a driving assessment at one of the local "rehabilitation institutes", and they determined that I probably would be able to drive if I receive alternating lessons from one of their specialists and behind the wheel practice with a friend or family member, and laws in Minnesota have changed such that my disability waiver may even end up covering those specialized lessons. Us people with disabilities may not be able to do everything as "simply" or "easily" as those without our disabilities, but people without disabilities usually need help too, even if the types of help they get are taken for granted.

[@mamatalog4640]

This one got the premium version

[@Choclatesmufin]

YOU ARE EVIL BROOO

[@andybenson2971]

A bartender would give you a soda because you look like you're 12. That's not his fault.

[@justlola5651]

Saying that is nonsense and very rude as well

[@m.z1256]

@@justlola5651 exactlyy

[@vivid_404]

A twelve year old probably wouldn't be at a bar 😭

[@supayambaek]

if the bartender let a kid into their bar, i'm pretty sure that their fault.

[@MrJareth]

If you cannot pronounce the words you cannot say. No margarita or sprinkles for you. If you walk in the most peculiar way. No Kungfu for you. If you think a potato is a fruit? No alcohol for you.

[@CandysChannel]

Mic drop! Wow powerful Madison! I LOVE it!!! My 18 year old niece has DS ❤❤❤❤

[@stefanie8025]

This is amazing I have autism and people always underestimate me this was amazing ( I almost sent this to my mom luckily I watched the full video before doing so lol)

[@TOTU]

This is so real. I used to be considered special ed, and so my EA’s treated me like I was stupid. So, I didn’t learn anything because they assumed I couldn’t. However, during Covid that all changed because no one was there to assume for me, so I went out and now I’m considered “gifted”. WOW. Just how things change 🙄

[@infjelphabasupporter8416]

Yeah... What about the teen that had sex with a mentally disabled girl his age, with her consent, and then later got charged because she was mentally younger? I actually think it's better for people to be treated according to how their brain is developing. It's about equity, everyone getting what they need, not everyone getting the same thing. This all sounds very nice on paper but the fact is a mind that's different being treated differently means society is adapting to it instead of ignoring it. Ignoring our differences can be very dangerous, especially for the people with said differences. I know that as someone neurodivergent myself. Facts are assumptions are not reality, and that goes both ways.

[@sophiaschier-hanson4163]

Autistic here. This is not about “being treated differently” in the sense of reasonable accommodation (which requires ASKING ME what I’D find HELPFUL to do the thing I’ve I WANT to do!). This is (mostly) about serious decisions with potential long-term impact (educational tracking, hiring, etc) being made by people in positions of power over you on snap judgments, profiling, and nasty stereotypes alone. What is shown here is the polar opposite of reasonable accommodation.

[@supayambaek]

this is mostly about the ones on the high-functioning spectrums. you also have to use your own judgement too, not just assume they can't.

[@infjelphabasupporter8416]

@@supayambaek again, a guy did that same thing, AND asked for her consent and got it, and ended up in court all the same. A child's mind can't consent.

[@luizanascimento9930]

​@@infjelphabasupporter8416Each case is different. People with down syndrome are not all the same There are people with down syndrome who have a driver's license

[@Theshingodzilla1954]

I’m putting this on ig reels so I can see the chaos unfold

[@Natalie_Anne21]

As someone whose on the spectrum, the amount of people that infantilize me is ridiculous and I relate so much. Not only because of my asd but also because I look 16, so people talk to me like I’m a kid even though I’m 21. It’s ridiculous and I hate it!

[@Taxevader-yv5hh]

this one Advanced bro up syndrome 💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀

[@kaitlinski493]

Partying and having s3x should not be life goals. For anyone.

[@yellow_hearts1723]

As long as they're done safely it's perfectly fine. 🤷‍♂️also these examples aren't only life goals, one of them was litterly about cussing. Shes just listing things that ppl assume she can't do due to her down syndrome.

[@vivi-ws9yl]

That's all you got from this video? Where did anyone even mention that it was a life goal? Is writing a comment on KZbin a life goal of mine? No...? But I still do it

[@peterthosegriffins666]

Bizarre comment. How do you think you were made? Two drunks at the dog track decided their next life goal was to get frisky with the whiskey and a few months later, you popped out one of their taints 😂

[@samyakchhajed]

@yellow_hearts1723 She can list committing murder, robbery and going to the jail as well. It doesn't matter if she can do it or not. But it's most probably not even her fault. It's the fault of those around her who have put a pedestal on x, and partying, and alcohol, around her.

[@ThatAmbientGuy]

Yeah that’s the one problem I have with this ad

[@IlovePolarBears4ever]

Im autistic and I have adhd, And OMG- YOU ARE LITERALLY ME- YOU EARNED A SUB I LOVE YOUR CONTENT! ❤

[@xX_zach0verHere_Xx]

instagram will NOT let this slide 💀💀💀

[@smyaansheth6952]

REAL

[@Dragons_aregreat]

Well this is youtube so jus let people be happy dawg

[@torrist.]

u lucky this isnt insta

[@Klop345-rf5hw]

All the other people trying to teach us the only treat others. the way we want to be treated type of shit. Meanwhile this person actually teaching us a real lesson

[@unkokusaiwa]

Bartenders should not serve you, as you appear impaired. Its not for us to assume risk just because you want to drink.