3 Steps to Make Him Fall In Love With You | Attract Great Guys w/ Jason Silver

[@monamonet2643]

#1: Show him your there for him, support his passions. #2: Support a safe net for him. Be a peaceful and give calm energy. Safe and calm connection, pay attention, look him in his eyes, focus on him. Be present, get off your phones, Be there, show up! Be a good listener. Focus on him and be peaceful and a safe space where he can cool off and be himself. #3: " Hero" Give him the challenge to give to you, to reach out. Women hold the power. Independent women that holds her own. Her has to earn affection. Be smart, funny and driven. Men need to feel like they've earned yoyr affection. Have RESPECT for yourself. Present yourself as a women with high value and on a pedestal. High quality guys line up! Make him work. Hone a high value women mindset. Act like a high value women to be one. Be calm, relaxed, let him come to you. Listen, help him connect. Support him. Be driven to make changes. * Inside the males mind in the description.

[@lisaluckman]

Thank you

[@vhayashi7369]

This works except with Narcissists.

[@joliesworld1519]

@@vhayashi7369 this is so true

[@deirdreday8731]

Thank you

[@evelinehaanstra9069]

Did and am all this; still, the narc got him in her claws yet again

[@kristacarvajal9692]

when he paid for my doctor and medicine when i went through a medical procedure, i started to realize he really didnt care about anything but that im alive to be with him

[@02prospect99]

As a man I saw a lot of truth in this video and everything he said was spot on.

[@Neongoddess76]

My last relationship, I went above and beyond way too soon and it didnt last. Now I've learnt to value myself alot more. I've got standards and I know to set boundaries and wont settle for less. I've learnt alot from these videos. Thank you Jason 👍

[@vivhiggins5656]

Not being funny i dont need eny one too tell me a bout men or what thy wont and men ran afere me go on face book and have look vhiggins whith my grand children in there teens i could not care less what eny one things i know i had and a shocking life you would be lieve my life story and had 7 children from 19 teen i brought my children up on my own has all he was fit for was drink yes i was married silly me but i would not like too go back a gain and on my own and will stay on my own till i die i have neaver wonted a nother man and i have learnt too love my self,people askd me why i neaver married but i will leave it there,

[@kmierta]

I dont throw myself at guys AT ALL. I find myself with a lot of guy friends and about a year or two into our friendship, they tell me they were so attracted to me, but were afraid to ask me out because I'm intimidating or they felt I was out of their league so they felt they would rather be friends with me, than not have me in their life at all. It tells me that they aren't high quality guys or have enough confidence in themselves to pursue a high quality woman.

[@cisgietm8998]

In my opinion this will only work if a man is healed from his own past relationship trauma and developmental trauma

[@cisgietm8998]

@Carol JL Wife I am so sorry. It takes lot of energy indeed. I hope you are getting support and you are taking good care of yourself as well

[@ljroberts3739]

Oy*

[@evelinehaanstra9069]

So sadly true...😢😭😓

[@cisgietm8998]

@Carol JL Wife ok. Good to know that you're taking good care of yourself. Havibg some space helps to get some perspective.

[@paulineplunket121]

On point. Biblically on point also. Thanks for the great content.

[@delyodonnell8461]

Perfect lesson! I was in the friendship but I'm the one Fall in love so deeply. But he never show me he care about me. I ended up hurting myself of my wrong expectation.

[@catherinekabasiita9800]

Just be strong one day God will bring you a good man ....Dely

[@catherinekabasiita9800]

@J p G I don't believe in that ......I only trust God.

[@delyodonnell8461]

@@catherinekabasiita9800 thak you Catherine!

[@catherinekabasiita9800]

@@delyodonnell8461 welcome hny

[@ljroberts3739]

Thank you ever so much for remembering the older set. While I may be 60 -- but look like mid-40s -- things happen in life and you find yourself "on the market" once again.

[@jessicayoung7132]

I hope one day I'll be ready for a relationship. If not that'll be okay too. Dealing and healing with my own co-dependency issues; one day at a time. Good video though. Thank you.

[@kamrie87]

"If not that'll be okay too" 👏👏 you have a healthy view on this!! Way to recognize what needs healing and growth, and to be okay not having someone in your life during this time. That shows you have security in you as well. This is all said as encouragement for you and show that I'm impressed with your mindset!! I'm encouraged by your comment!!

[@delyodonnell8461]

My problem is , I'm Soo effectionate woman, I lost control when time were together but nothing in return .

[@catherinekabasiita9800]

Same here I hope one day , I will be ready for the right relationship but we have to pray for our heavenly husbands not chasing them......a God sent man will always be there for you....

[@SirenUndine]

With this being a snippet of what else you can offer, I'm excited to learn more from you.

[@d.joannbrenes5977]

I am not able to financially join any of your extra help. I am 61 years old and on SSI due to an accident that was out of my control. Thank you your mini sessions on here. I just feel so lost though and can't afford the help. May God continue to Bless you! Love and Light!

[@psbloj1121]

He is the best when it comes to recovery relationship

[@cakesweetykenya]

I love your content👌👌 I just hope that one day I will find my partner who will show me love

[@kendrariedelrealestateprof2932]

This is so amazing and exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you so much 🥰 for all you do for us!!!

[@psbloj1121]

He is the best when it comes to recovery relationship

[@eptysss3256]

I agree with your comments, but it works both ways. The man has to be just as interested in the woman and then it's success.

[@tammylombard]

This is so great. Information that I wish I knew a long time ago. Moving forward I will use these tips.

[@ssiddiqui7301]

I liked him but I didn't told him , he texted me I just answered them after a month he started calling me his best friend and now lover 😂. But I still just like him. Omg my trust issues

[@user-yk9sk7pg6v]

Point #3 is very good (and very true). Thank you.

[@kristacarvajal9692]

we both do that safety for each other, he makes everything safe for me too when i need ot

[@user-yk9sk7pg6v]

(Thank you for the closed captions)

[@kinawinkelstrahle2431]

Thank you so much! You are truely saving my sanity, by explaining I give too much n scare mrn away. I wish I had known this years ago. 😂💔💕 Thanks again/ Kina fr Sweden

[@dellyvlogs1284]

Thank you for the great content.

[@Satillite1111]

I disagree having a man rely on his partner to basically being the comfort. Just remember women generally have a job as well to come home to from a hard days work. Sorry everything is on an equal basis. Yes ladies, pull back and don't give your all to an AVAILABLE guy you see as your future investment. Men generally are fickle in the department of knowing boundaries to be a true gentleman. They should teach this stuff in High School... Why should it always be up to the woman? That's why many women end up single cause the men are too lazy to do the work... I've lived a long and fruitful life to know better... Good luck and hope you find your person. They do exist but are rare...

[@adelachaves8550]

Spot on

[@lindslou9654]

Good advice! Well done, Jason! Thank you for all you do in your content! So helpful.

[@TarotbyTanyaa]

Thanks... I now got... Where I'm wrong... But now no more.. Thanks Jason ❤️

[@AA-bk1jr]

I’ve given up. I’m gonna die lonely. It sucks cuz I’m pretty and cute and super fun and almost all females like me who know me but I just can’t get a man.

[@toeareg100]

I don’t agree with number 1 and number 2. If you do that, you come into the Friendzone. But it is excellent advice if you’re already in a marriage.

[@delyodonnell8461]

I'm feeling so badly of my carelessness. I feel so bad and regret the action i made a mistake to a men that great pretender. I find out he's having relationship for two years with other women at the same time with me.

[@MBAinternetmktg]

Love your pep talks!

[@deirdreday8731]

How does this apply when you are older like in your 70's. Time is of the essence retired and being happy for the first time in 40yrs. He lost his wife 2yrs ago. I got out of an abusive marriage nearly 5yrs. I have helped him grieve and he has made me feel my own self. Thing is we can't fuff about. I think we need to act so we can share the next hours and moments on a closer level! I don't want to push it though. Can you guide me my next move?

[@Lulu-kt6gr]

Good question for anyone who doesn’t have time to waste.

[@deirdreday8731]

@@Lulu-kt6gr thank you I have had no direction on this yet! I'm getting concerned!

[@MB-fr6gu]

Thank you for your video Plz I have question.. if I like a guy.. who should start?

[@ThuyTran-zm4ik]

Thank you so much. I learned a lot from all your video. You are so amazing ❤️❤️❤️

[@a.n0185]

hi i have a suggestion for a future video: what to do if you got intimate too early. how to make sure you're not seen as easy, after letting him close to you, how to make him chase you without being cold after you were already intimate. :)

[@kristacarvajal9692]

yes let him lknow you always have his best interest at heart

[@colleenc.9900]

Well done. Thank you.

[@nutanrajdeo2618]

What message shall I take when my man keeps blocking me for small reasons even though he knows that it hurts me and then shows up again after 2~3 days. I have been going through this situation for 3 yrs . What shall I do?

[@Sophie-to5bw]

That's called 'ghosting' or 'silent treatment' which is a toxic behaviour. It's a manipulative tactic to control a person. My advice would be to leave him, he's not worth it. He will keep doing it and in the long run will suck up your emotional energy. I'd suggest for you to go 'no contact'.

[@nutanrajdeo2618]

@@Sophie-to5bw thank you for your adivce I guess it's time for me to block him from my side

[@hlengiwe7250]

He's just not that into you

[@cydoniemiles1535]

He sounds like a nasty person, end it for sure!

[@lindabarcheers2668]

Great Jason I will do this 3 things good job 👏 T y

[@janinetapp6482]

You guys are such hard work 😆

[@aremuseun3194]

I can connect you to someone who help me attract my ex back after separation❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@rhodoramoran4074]

Thanks sir Jason silver 👍👍

[@victoriacutshall7170]

Right on... great advice...

[@laurieschwarzrock7724]

That’s interesting. I’m in a relationship right now when I send loving emojis he pulls away when I don’t he pursues

[@Lulu-kt6gr]

OK you might want to put that tip out about paying attention when your partner is talking, put it out to men also! Men are especially awful at giving a woman full attention and interest instead of just waiting to tell his own story or talk about himself. This is what women need to fall in love also. I suggest a post directed at men for that.

[@Fiiii4567]

That is true but its about attempting to change someone ie your partner. When our power lies within what you and me do when a partner doesn't give you the attention you deserve. Best way to get a child's attention when they don't come when they call you? Rustle some wrappers quietly- they hear it and know that there is candy somewhere in the house. Same for men, do fun stuff away from him and let him hear the silence and he will wonder what you are up to. The sound of silence worries them cos it means you are somewhere entertaining yourself. Watch his attention turn then 😂😂😂

[@Lulu-kt6gr]

@@Fiiii4567 Yes I agree about that but I was just talking about in-the-moment conversations between men and women.

[@sparrowwilson4514]

Easy fix. Don’t date guys who don’t listen to you. They will get the message eventually.

[@ayannalewis8470]

Good nuggets

[@keshmak5972]

Thank you so much for this🙏🥰

[@smithoves2679]

⏯⏯⏯➕13462394222⏭⏭💕💕

[@kristacarvajal9692]

actually, withdrawing it is very helpful after he is used to it

[@marytetteh380]

Awesome video

[@smrk2452]

This is good. Thank you.

[@aremuseun3194]

I can connect you to someone who help me attract my ex back after separation

[@judyroth8928]

@@aremuseun3194 i need one please hunny

[@josephinec.villanueva873]

Thanks a lot it's a big help😊❤

[@ttzitz4977]

I have a question mark I met someone on line a few months ago, but since the covid broke out I haven't met him yet I am 64 we text each other but I really would like to see him, should I keep the relationship or brake it off

[@janetpotts8833]

Keep

[@catherinekabasiita9800]

Keep the relationship if he's worth waiting or if he's real not fake Have you ever video called each other? .....if No n he keeps giving you excuses please don't waste your time.....coz he may be a scammer.....

[@spiritualrebirthsanctuary]

Well. Some guys just make snap judgements. Then these techniques do matter. But it is still good practice 😌

[@ayannalewis8470]

That's mean in a relationship with both individuals have to open to each other paying attention with one when they down and other they need comfort of saying am here for you speak to us and when you all finish you pp champagne and but on music and pull to dance with one another or and you both smiling and hugging one another always

[@alelirafols918]

Wha9t about in online dating also. Could a guy really fall for a woman and be in love there only?

[@interlene]

Is there any coach out there who teaches men how to treat a woman and not just to get her into bed? If there are you can probably count them on the fingers of one hand in the whole world because 95% of men are not interested in that sort of thing, so no market out there.

[@krystalricciardi7776]

I wonder what would happen if women stopped giving a flying fuck about relationships and just enjoyed life? Would we go extinct?

[@interlene]

@@krystalricciardi7776 I LOVE that!

[@adelachaves8550]

@@krystalricciardi7776 you are right. I think we invest a lot of time trying to find ways to make relationships work etc. Time we most probably would invest better on ourselves. As someone told me recently: " most men just want food,sex and success @ what they do " 🤔 simple

[@kristacarvajal9692]

i know that i dont want to live without him and he feels the same

[@chandanachakrabarti6967]

U are great dude

[@karenhollister4273]

There are no real men left😎

[@vivhiggins5656]

There neaver was haha,

[@katherinemccubrey852]

Yes there are…we need to confidently give off the positive, independent, loving, safe energy that Jason is trying to teach us. So grateful that there are intelligent people who care enough to share their wisdom!! Thank you Jason💞

[@splitraven7060]

@@katherinemccubrey852 I found two!

[@vhayashi7369]

Yep. I've been single for two years. Especially if you are smart and beautiful they really don't want you!

[@vhayashi7369]

@@vivhiggins5656 haha! 🙌😂😂😂

[@aytnkrimli4130]

First comment 🥳❣️

[@timelessredlipstick]

I agree.

[@LearnGermanwithMarzipanfrau]

Sounds great.

[@ssiddiqui7301]

This is how I'm so he is running for me 😂

[@belssage]

These are the VERY SAME things a man needs to do for a woman.

[@petsforlife4581]

Not going to happen I don't think God intended love ro be so complicated. He wouldn't have given a Bible in rules how to live he would have given us a textbook in how to be a partner I truely don't believe in this do this and that and then you'll bee happily in love and have a happy ever after. Truely it's rubish

[@ednapearson1866]

I can’t find the man. 😂

[@momof372]

Older men are different, they are jaded from previous relationships and don't want a commitment, even if you are there for them emotionally. They may appreciate it, but they are still too jaded. I guess women do the same.

[@elitephantom9690]

Did all of that and still not committed.

[@kavitasomaru5979]

This guy is friends then he call ,tex and curious ,want pictures now he does nothing but he never saw me as yet what next

[@rosetrombley6106]

Alot of men find a woman who has a higher makes more money than they do.

[@ttzitz4977]

Oh he owns his own business in construction

[@ayannalewis8470]

A high value woman could take out her man surprise dinner in restruant it do not have to me a occasion or birthdays is being loving the day he was down or make dinner at our modern HOME

[@kalaichelvithayalan9292]

Nahn man last Halt st9p

[@bubu4951]

I think I`ll never get a boyfriend. :D

[@catherinekabasiita9800]

You will get one if you trust God.

[@sharonbartley808]

I know how you feel. Its all games

[@hlengiwe7250]

Me too i think

[@catherinekabasiita9800]

@@hlengiwe7250 when it's the right time your man or boyfriend will come.

[@lindatallon4036]

Stop with the false hope. The days of men wanting a relationship are forever gone. It's all just "smash and dash"

[@paulcolin9071]

Treat us well simpl

[@paulcolin9071]

Simple

[@mayleenrosa346]

True

[@persiancat1597]

What's well?

[@treasurefound1408]

😷😷😷😷😷😷

[@bernf9329]

Fuck love.

[@DeeAnn486]

Way too much game playing

[@persiancat1597]

What game?

[@alelirafols918]

Wha9t about in online dating also. Could a guy really fall for a woman and be in love there only?