Avoid These Types Of Korean Guys

[@Waridi23]

What she's saying is use your brain. This applies to everwhere in the world. And for both men and women.If dating interacially or interculturally then you must use your brain 100 times more as the risk is higher..

[@jiminswriter4209]

The risk is not higher unless you think other cultures have more bad people.

[@m.m.7183]

@@jiminswriter4209it depends. I think Asian women should be careful for Western men looking for a meek Asian woman in Asian countries. I have seen abuse to these women who were brought to Europe.

[@Waridi23]

@@jiminswriter4209 the risk is higher because you're more vulnerable hence easier to be tricked by the bad people in those other cultures. Hence why you need to use your brain 100 more times

[@willfungusman8666]

That's not what she's saying

[@shelbyw6135]

Race has nothing to do with it 🥴

[@almeidareis]

That is a smart suggestion...to have arguments to see how they react

[@MrYega-zq7rz]

I agree. I met a lot of women gaslighting and not knowing how to handle arguments. They just ignore, never say sorry and become cold. It's like the worst. If you cant love even when angry then it's pointless to be with them.

[@hemantmarmath6689]

Yeah that's what i thought 😄

[@B1LLBILL]

Don’t women do that anyway?🤨🤨

[@lspence6810]

NOT ON PURPOSE. That’s childish.

[@PolineChan]

You have to keep this mentality when arguing with women "Either she's right or she's right"

[@malachitestorm]

What an intelligent person, and stunning too!

[@bi.fruitsalad]

Exactly ❤❤

[@woodmanmorning1234]

That’s beyond stunning that’s charming, gorgeous

[@TheFoofoo86]

It smells like jealousy 😂😂​@@sara.cbc92

[@neonotcultured]

@@sara.cbc92 just bc her bf dumped her doesn't mean she's any less pretty

[@soumya5832]

​@@sara.cbc92her ex was blind and a fool 😂

[@Burn143]

Her name is Anna Lee btw and she has a KZbin channel. She gives good advice.💯

[@ramsaycobbler8499]

This was a random encounter?

[@Burn143]

@@ramsaycobbler8499 Honestly idk. It could be possible he just randomly saw her on the street, or he called her up for a video since many of these interviews are planned. Either way, she gives pretty good advice usually haha.💯😁

[@User948Z7Z-w7n]

Ok

[@user-m__]

​@@ramsaycobbler8499 I think he always brings one sort of celebrity, and others are random people passing by

[@aaawwweeee]

Yeah her channel is very good and she is really levelheaded. highly recommend.

[@toxiknao8826]

Idk why people are saying "she's so wise" this is common sense most people should think this way.

[@yam-w1u]

A lot of people don't though

[@Raven74408]

Compared to some of the brain dead advice we've heard in this series like "don't date people who are friends with the opposite sex" this is much more intelligent. 😂

[@ventaliq]

fr

[@sofiya6941]

It is but people tend to ignore the common sense

[@AmberPatterson-x7v]

Exactly! Most people shrug off the " weird instict,or gut feeling" the first sense that pops up when you meet someone. They re-think it and convince themselves that the " feeling or sense" is wrong.

[@mkay0630]

What she's saying about seeing how they react to arguments makes so much sense. It's better to fake an argument early on just to see their reaction (for safety reasons) rather than potentially wait however long, when you're already invested and the relationship gets serious, because by that point you're probably less likely to drop the person. I don't know if there's a term for this, but the more familiar a person is to you, the less likely you are to call them out when they say/do something toxic in order to "keep the peace." I'm talking about situations without a power imbalance (which you're obviously much less likely to leave the relationship for a myriad of reasons.)

[@chilledjuice]

If only I had argued with my husband before marriage.. makes so much sense

[@stevegfromnc3482]

If you haven't had some disagreements about something, you probably haven't spent enough time together. Or someone is totally letting the other make all the decisions and totally refusing to say what they think when they don't agree.

[@TheDreamFairy439]

Pretty common in the beginning of a relationship (agreeing with everything) and then later, we regret it lol. She's right. It is better to voice your opinion and argue it out.

[@clockeat1300]

its anna lee giving smart advice

[@Burn143]

Per usual😌

[@james_l4337]

Make sure no marriage

[@itachiuchiha-bl5wv]

Having an argument to see how they handle them is really a golden advice...because when your emotions run high you can't keep up a facade so all the masks come off....off course barring sociopaths/psychopath..

[@jasonlee0290]

Thats right! Not every guy you meet in Korea do those extreme things. Lots of good people to know both Korean guys and girls.

[@yoyaserdx]

그냥 맘대로 생각하게 내비두셈 ㅋㅋ

[@QUINTUSMAXIMUS]

Yes, but Korean men heavily vote for right wing parties and most are anti-feminist. They prefer the culture in many ways the way it was 20 years ago. Yes, many are good, but she's downplaying. The percentages point to a rejection of new cultural ideas that many Korean women have adopted. 60% of Korean men think feminism is simply female supremacy.

[@lisab1854]

"Before you get married, at least have a couple of arguments with them to see how they are when they get angry and how you resolve conflicts together..." 🤔 Wow. I'm in UK. I've dated a few people but it never lasted long at all. So I don't consider myself experienced in relationships. We never argued (maybe that was the problem?) - except one guy who argued with me... 🤔 Come to think of it now, I'd add: be smart enough to recognise a bad situation, strong enough to walk away, and have the confidence enough to break it off when it's not right. I was shy and timid then. He was cruel and I should've left then and there. He left me shortly afterwards so it worked out. Thank you to this pretty lady! Her advice is gold ✨

[@chinadjunior]

She's wise. WISE!!!!!!!!!

[@yogyal292]

Finally someone who can speak 😢 tired of small minded ones ❤

[@Feministt]

Obviously, she is correct!

[@nicolejones3686]

See, this is why is you don't marry people straight way instead of knowing them first 😒 Arguments help you see what type of person your with, they could only hide that for so long 😊😏

[@Kitana2020]

She's absolutely right. For me personally, I would like to see videos of Korean people speaking about how foreigners behave in their country.

[@QUINTUSMAXIMUS]

Oh back in say 2007 to 2010, there were so many anti-Western propaganda in the Korean media. Also during COVID-19 they forced foreigners to test. They also exaggerate drug taking and fighting. Most Westermers have degrees and many have higher degrees.

[@bi.fruitsalad]

She’s stating facts

[@Sayuri199x]

I like how honest and constructive her opinion was, coming from a stunning lady as well.

[@fisherprice6012]

I love ppl from other countries.. you can learn so much from a simple conversation

[@mitsubachihachi9643]

This is actually pretty insightul advice, sometimes a person's true colors shhow when theyre angry with you!

[@derrickcarwardine4516]

Wise woman. The good times are easy. A person really shows who they are when they are upset or angry.

[@daveondiekaaron2204]

SHE IS VERY SWEET AND HONEST ❤️💯

[@zzzmisun]

ANNA LEE, you are the BEST 😊👍

[@keithprice8923]

Best comment I’ve heard in years that actually makes sense hopefully everyone will get it.

[@AmberPatterson-x7v]

Always, always use your gut. Instinct is spot on, and if you feel something or someone isn't what they seem, then generally, thats correct.

[@Kpopeditz_2024]

THATS ANNAAA I LOVE THAT WOMAN❤️❤️❤️

[@SupremeMaster-he4rc]

This lady is Anna Lee. She has a successful channel on KZbin. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@vikramdutta5557]

She's a good example of "Beauty with brain" ✨️

[@heididay6364]

I can tell she have a smart good personality. I am from Australia and live Aussie life but I definitely agree with every word she said and it makes me feel less alone in this world thank you girl and high five 🙌🏼

[@HonestThoughts-bq8fs]

That’s too funny since Anna is both arrogant and stubborn amongst shady 😂

[@jojojoan6310]

She looks gorgeous

[@samleigh3495]

I need this girl as my life coach lol

[@LordTitus7]

She totally didn’t answer the second question at all

[@dr.sunflower6336]

Yes she's totally right. You said have at least a couple of arguements and fights to see if that person is willing to resolve things with you.

[@JohnChristenNizzaDiCorsi]

So going around instigating fights with people that you like ? Just to see what'd happen? Sounds like *insanity* ?

[@santtu6930]

​@@JohnChristenNizzaDiCorsi You understood it wrong. They're saying you should get to know them well enough to know how they behave in conflicts. Not to start them on purpose.

[@Miraken81]

I agree 100%. She's totally right from my opinion.

[@Leauradelalune]

Your voice is so therapeutic friend. You must make the interviewee feel so calm every time 😂😊

[@Kai-gom88]

Whooa..😮 she's so smart and a well spoken pretty girl😊

[@MissPomegranate_kaleidoscope]

I'm glad she is intelligent. A lot of people are sadly not

[@walimarimjhim]

i like her sm. she is soo fluent and she said the wise things which make sense!!

[@makeupbyashley828]

First of all I love her! Second, your hair looks amazing in every video!

[@morgannavel4552]

I'm kind of stubborn and she is too ㅋㅋㅋㅋ. When we have conflicts usually it's not big ones, but when it does happen it gets better over time cause at the end we love each other. I know it seams too easy to be true, but I assure you that sometimes you just need to wait until it resolve it. This kind of experience reenforced our love because she confessed to me her fear and her pov so I could understand. Understand the why before figuring out the how.

[@spectralspectra2282]

Actually, having an argument with someone to see how they react before making any decisions is actually pretty clever

[@RedThunderSP]

Surprised you ran into Anna Lee on the street! Her story is very interesting. Great video!

[@michelleprestegard7284]

They are friends

[@kanhaiyabankebihari434]

Wise lady❤

[@tobyod]

Argue before getting married! Love it!!!

[@jimbogipson199]

What a wise soul bless you love

[@echo.echo08]

She made a lot of valid points and good advice. Personal experience in dating Korean men, most (not all) only dated me, a foreigner, just for the experience and to brag to their friends. And most are "mummy's boys"-like they marry for their mothers. They wouldn't marry someone their mum can't communicate well with, so MUST be fluent in Korean; they wouldn't marry someone who refuses to let their mum live with them; they wouldn't marry someone who refuses to consult their mum in family decisions; they wouldn't marry someone who refuses to slave away serving all the male relatives during chuseok; they wouldn't marry someone who makes them help in house chores because their mum wouldn't allow their precious son to be involved in any of that.

[@Xinkgs]

She is on point with it

[@CherryPopBlossom]

Smart woman!

[@nisansalabandara7569]

👍🏼👏🏼 I Should Listen To This Every Day 😊

[@njskyline976]

OMG, love her answer, very smart and realistic

[@marialanagoldsworthy8670]

She’s 100% correct about how you should at least have a couple arguments with your s/o before taking them very seriously or moving in, and of course do these things and move in together before marriage.

[@yessir6619]

She is so cute

[@jamesmckeon9139]

Chick seems like she argues to argue

[@SAGETAKES]

She just provided some really great information for people when they’re courting.

[@sailo9055]

I am stunned with how this generation kids think it's absolutely a thoughtful statement she gave kindly do follow these. Our days were not like that just we followed what our parents said and now regretting 😢

[@mickeysaathoff938]

she is right on

[@codybrinsdon-hall6672]

Like and respect this person alot :)

[@marktheshark7588]

She's beautiful😍

[@sshhxxu]

very wise and spot-on relationship advice!!

[@oceanstar1220]

SHE'S SMART

[@M1SS1ONARY]

She’s so amazing

[@kdramaluvr9916]

I love her! ❤

[@ugonneeugenes9182]

She spoke wonderfully❤

[@priyajeongguk8935]

She looks like KIM GO EUN 😭😭🫶🏼

[@wcdirect9217]

Good idea, I will start an argument with my girl and see how she handles it.

[@gingerslush6301]

I agree...those who are arrogant and stubborn wouldn't make a good partner

[@LX777]

The interviewer sounds to me like young Snoop Dogg. He would kill if he says "hey baby girl what's up" 🙈🙈🙈

[@winonna613]

She’s definitely right.❤

[@KennethPriceRainfordIII]

I am a military brat so i missed out on going to China but there's so many little china's nowadays.i love steamed pork bun steamed veggie bun steammed sweet bun. Now a days I'll settle for link in Illinois i feel ruined by mindy but cultural difference are the children that grew up with samurai pizza cats.

[@FedorSTR]

This is very wise! The only thing which I`d add to it is- listen very carefully what a person is telling about former boyfriend/ girlfriend becouse, probably, the next his/ her botfriend/ girlfriend will hear the same about you. Some people are not able to keep themselves within the bounds of decency and after disputing with them you will not be able to communicate with them anymore. So the earlier you find it out the better.

[@asiankitchen5294]

Before i got married i told my gf that there can be only one captain in the house. She is ok with it. Now happily married more than 30 years. My wife knows her position in the family hierarchy. She has no problem with it.

[@hannah60000]

Good for you too. Others prefer to have a true companionship with their significant other.

[@santtu6930]

At least you were honest and didn't trick her into that situation, I guess. As long as both are fine with that dynamic it should be fine. Forcing is another thing.

[@michellemckinney4678]

Awe Anna and Jerry! Friends in my head!

[@limitlesssky3050]

But women love arguing with men that they are dating, and when they lose the argument, they resort to name calling. When the man lost, they wouldn't let it go even after apologizing. And it's a very huge red flag if you try to fake argue out of nowhere, that's a drama queen. You don't need to actually fake it, you will be in conflict sooner or later anyway.

[@hermi1-kenobi455]

i like the way she learnt english without an american accent

[@QUINTUSMAXIMUS]

She maybe had British teachers and went to the UK. It depends who the teachers were. Most have Canadian or American ones.

[@rhera]

Ooohh she ia so right about argument part 😮!

[@bellastyles456_]

Smart smart women 💘

[@mojoeherb3280]

I can hear an English accent but I would date her, she's beautiful 😊

[@maya_jones3411]

Keep dreaming

[@ruebenaguilera771]

She's great

[@ts_cohn]

The misandry is real too y'all: all these K-drama have men consistently crying. I haven't seen one Korean man crying like dramas.

[@keybgbeez5713]

Cool, I'm more into women anyway so thanks for the tips!

[@ThePeasentMonarch]

Her accent is throwing me off, sounds Korean and British. Pretty dope

[@hannah60000]

Yeah, she spent some time in the UK. I agree with you, but the Korean accent it’s equally, if not slightly dominant when she speaks English. Her name is a Anna Lee, and she had a YT channel!

[@MadelineCahrie]

She has a beautiful smile ❤

[@StayMinaa]

She looks a bit like Suzy Bae ❤😊

[@acexae2411]

Very true and fair

[@priyanshu-jais]

She is so pretty 😻

[@Lyxs4s]

People are treated the way they allow others to.

[@gabriellep9866]

She offers good advice!👏👏👏

[@jiminswriter4209]

He's really digging for stereotypes about Korean men after she said all that. There are no "certain traits to watch out for" in Korean men compared to other men.

[@Eli-pt9ft]

Well it is mainly because people think Korean men are from a kdrama when in fact they are just like any other dude in the world.

[@mystictraveler8642]

​@Eli-pt9ft korean heart and romance is better than the tv shows in kdrama. But kdrama is a reflection of korean society.

[@mystictraveler8642]

@user-dk9xr4ry3w What you speak of is true, but it's very superficial With what you are talking about, because it's on social media. But you don't really no. The deeper underlying fabric of korean society. There's nothing to keep up with the rapid changes. Korean drama's been around forever. Even after the war in the nineteen fifties. And bullying has been around in korean schools forever. The internet and social media has changed not only in korea but the whole world. Each country has their own version of change. The korean people and their heart is still so centered. The american entertainment capitalist do try to pollute Korea with a lot of cunning P. R devices.

[@slee2695]

​@Eli-pt9ft do most people think US men are like Hollywood?

[@Home-o2v4h]

​@@Eli-pt9ftisn't it those women's fault then ?

[@Precious685]

Yes i love how she stated it clear, bad pesons exists everywhere.

[@tambourinedmb]

have a couple arguments to see if he’s the type of guy you can push around

[@ChrisBartleyLeo]

That’s great advice.

[@mrs.4414]

He said, "I am heaven and you are land"it means he is higher and i am lower which literally means slave

[@MegaMaverickMan]

She Looks Good In That Black Leather Jacket!

[@CyranoForever101]

I get her point, but she used the wrong verbiage. No, you should NOT argue with someone to see how they resolve conflict. Arguing is toxic. What you SHOULD do is merely have a civil, calm conversation about your disagreements

[@caleb0388]

My bros hair is on point though

[@wengo44]

to fight fair is not easy so having an argument with a partner to see how they behave sounds like a good plan.

[@kenichi407]

everyone's different... no one is qualified to really give this type of advice. one thing that's a fact is too many koreans try to "counsel" or "consult" when they are completely unqualified to do so.

[@1Techdrawer]

The beautiful woman said it best. Make them angry on purpose and see what they do.😊