Why We Keep Attracting Toxic Partners

[@001101011010]

I’ve attracted partners who were detrimental to my mental and emotional health throughout my life. Now that I’m older, I’ve been focusing on healing my emotional and mental health, and I’ve been shedding those people who do not show respect and demonstrate love and compassion not just towards me but to all creatures. I just dumped a person whom I considered to be a friend for not showing a genuine interest in having a relationship with me, but sought me as a source of things. I’m happy to be with and by myself. I’m learning to love myself at 60, and I am assured I will die happy. I chose to listen to this video on Valentine’s Day, and to celebrate love for myself. Thank you Nada for your beautiful insights. I listen to you every morning and you always brings me joy.

[@Cherabreena]

My pattern of being and attracting avoidant types really started changing once I started thinking of potential romantic interests the same way I think about potential friends. This among other things really changed everything as I have very high standards when it comes to friendship, and I would not want to date someone who can't first and foremost be a great friend to me, vice versa. Now I am in the longest, happiest and healthiest "situationship" I have ever been in. :)

[@AwakenInsight]

Aw, that's wonderful. So glad to hear that things are going so well for you. And that is a really great way to approach relationships. Thank you for sharing

[@a.jlondon9947]

That is Brilliant. You are Right.

[@susielee8101]

I grew up with a narcissistic father who cheated on my mother lots of times and has physically harmed her and me. As much as I wanted to find a man unlike my father I fell for men exactly like my father therefore my love life has been one tragedy after another! I didn’t understand why I gave up many good guys who pursued me during my college years and ended up chasing after bad boys. but now that you mentioned because of familiarity that I found comfort in and because I didn’t believe a good guy will stick around too long I always felt it’s safer to remain with an abusive partner. It’s sad how many women are insecure like me and don’t love themselves enough to accept good men into their lives. I find your videos very helpful to help me change my life for the better. Thank you for your honesty about your personal experiences and for generously sharing your wisdom.

[@KJ-pu8dw]

Watch what people do. Not what they say.

[@speterson6668]

Spot on. When I married my husband I choose him because he was 100% different than my father. I purposely made a choice to not go with "my type". 23 years of marriage and I still love him.

[@charlotteblx9050]

I love hearing what i already know from you. I enjoy how accurately you use words. Thanks for your content 🙏

[@nalawatt7157]

Beautiful and profound. Very well presented. Thank you so much for the insight.

[@AwakenInsight]

Thank you for watching. I'm glad you found it insightful.

[@kkhodgkinson]

Thanks for sharing. I've been single for many years and it's been so peaceful although not always fun. I've had much time to contemplate myself, my reasons and options for a romantic relationship. It's been exactly what I needed. :)

[@sandramutter8811]

I watch a lot of your videos, very insightful and honest talk, thank you 🙏

[@FancyRavenmoon]

Truth!! Never heard of it this way!!! I want to know more! I want nothing to do with a relationship unhealthy!! I want to know how to change my habits! Wisdom and discretion is my sister and truth is my brother! My lover is my king!!!!

[@FoodTrucksForDummies]

So much valuable information thanks.

[@FancyRavenmoon]

I’d like to find someone who has a deeper understanding like you, Your compassionate and blessed in the heart of your soul!!! Sending this to my Universe!!

[@candicemariebeadco]

Very true - personal experience! Thank you for this!

[@MakeDemocracyMagnificientAgain]

it's never about WHAT you do. it's always about the WHY, where it comes from.

[@PriyankaPandey-yz8ky]

I like how calm your videos are... you explain things beautifully... everything makes sense... thank you for sharing your perspective on this topic...

[@domedweller4202]

Thankyou for these words of wisdom.❤

[@Santha2011]

Love our self first, thank you🙏👌

[@awakenedsouls3206]

You are a living validation for rare people like us here. I know that validation we shud learn to give ourselves but it's just sometimes we r not in that state and u act as the right trigger to get us back on track , to basically recognise within us , our worth and values , that we already knew .

[@camillapalmer82]

I just found your channel today and really enjoy your messages - they really resonate with me and are very helpful. Thank you.

[@abigailbencosme8192]

Thank you so much for your insight.

[@anitazetsche820]

Can't hear this often enough....even when we're already aware of it...thank you for bringing it back into awareness again..🙏

[@ericcraig3675]

Oh man, I listened to this a good few times, you have given me my answer why I pick this type of partner, the light bulb just came on, Thank You.

[@tazaratsarina9445]

You’re a pure heart, pure soul. Thanks for your wisdom ❤️

[@dv5084]

Another video worth sharing indeed. My thought that I would say is also true, not to sound negative, I tend to think as I'm typing this that there is a third factor that I've considered and that is how I perceive or relate to the "drama" of the "world" and likewise her current thoughts and perception or relationship with her world. So I'm simply saying in any friendship platonic or not between two people there individual levels of consciousness may or may not be a third factor to consider.

[@ge8402]

Beautiful video.

[@fionam3735]

If I go back to my parents relationshit, I’m doomed! It’s a hopeless case. I would be far better single, no joke

[@abdulmateenmaher6956]

Very insightful! I appreciate this free knowledge you share with us all.🙏

[@chessc.3407]

What an eye opener. Your explanation truly made sense and now it’s about applying this and truly thinking about it and connecting the dots. Ive realized this is one huge area I need to think about more.

[@marcelaperalvo8806]

You are awesome, thank you!

[@eessa1727]

'Leaning to eachother talking about love and universe under the moonlight..knowing that you are mine and I am yours" but why do people fake love hate and disrespect such devine feeling..loving hearts deserve love..it has to be..always..🙏🧚‍♀️

[@Abeliabasil]

Thank you ❤️🙏🏼

[@Unconditional---love]

I think the world is designed for things to go wrong because it's a school here so conflict guide us in the direction of self development and wisdom. It's all conspiring to grow you. If things went well all the time they'd be boring and we'd end it and learn nothing from them.

[@susielee8101]

I think you are such an awesome spiritual person. I wish you will find the love of your life soon that will totally adore and appreciate who you are 🙏

[@tarikcamacho]

My gratitude to you. Your videos is helping me so deeply. Thank you.

[@Q8HADEL]

Thank you so much 🙏🏻

[@hamypeach]

Thank you

[@lisagouldson8373]

Looking for love in the wrong place ❤️

[@missmizer]

Holy shit..... I'm so glad I found this video.... this is exactly what I do. What am i gonna do... sigh

[@OkayAmit]

I grew up seeing an anime show called Inuyasha and was and still very attracted to the main character called well Inuyasha and he’s not a very nice guy he have those good things I look for and also a lot of bad thing and recently I started dating a guy and he’s totally different from the ones I’ve dated before and truly as you say it’s not very interesting to me we only went out to one date he was so thoughtful and kind but I just didn’t felt it and I kissed him and that’s something I don’t do in first dates and I didn’t felt it and I’ve come to realise that one of the many reasons is that i look for guys that are like him but he’s an anime character he is not real and characters can change and it’s a story not real life and that’s one reason out of many that I keep finding in emotionally and spiritually draining relationships and that maybe the idea of if Inuyasha and Kagome went 7 seasons 4 movies and another final season to be together maybe it’s worth all the bad things because eventually it will be good

[@OkayAmit]

Btw found your channel one year ago with the video of letting people dislike you and it was the same toxic situation with the same guy and now a year later it’s over (the whole ordeal not only the relationship)for the final time and I found it hard to accept moving on and your video came around and I started watching more of your videos and found it very helping spiritually and emotionally so thank you🙏🏻

[@jclev99]

In a nutshell: you're trauma bonded.

[@MakeDemocracyMagnificientAgain]

Why we keep attracting toxic partners? same answer as why we keep suffering...

[@coppertonenz]

thankyou

[@shyrin369]

💘

[@vivekamar99]

Does the same apply to friendships and platonic relationships as well?

[@stebarg]

Life is a bitch.

[@mariajosegarciapallares9447]

Thank you 💜