Back to Being Black in America (Travel Anxiety about the US) Being Black in the US vs Africa

We are getting ready to travel to the US next month and feeling a little anxious. We have to go back to being black in America. In this video we talk about the baggage that comes with being black in the US versus being black in Africa.
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[@ingababy5196]

It is wonderful to live in a place where everybody looks like you.

[@Greatpacificnorthwesterner]

It's HARD going back to the states when you've been gone for a long time. There's so much division and craziness and guns everywhere. I don't think that stress will ever go away. :(

[@sandindamae.iwantmetowin5652]

The answer is CLREAR….DON’T GO BACK TO US BABY, STAY PERMANENTLY IN AFRICA. AFRICANS LOVE AFRICAN AMERICANS. REMEMBER, WHITE PEOPLE EVERYWHERE IN THIS WORLD HAS INBORN HATRED FOR AFRICANS AND PEOPLE OF COLOR. IN AFRICAN COUNTRIES, AFRICANS ARE IN THE MAJORITY AND IN CONTROL OF THEIR COUNTRIES. IN SOUTH AFRICA, WHERE I LIVE WHITE RACISM CANNOT BE TOLERATED AND THOSE RACIST WHITES END UP GOING INTO OUR PRISONS. YOU ARE SAFE HERE IN AFRICA, LITTLE BABY….COME BACK AND LIVE IN AFRICA PERMANENTLY…WE LOVE YOU!!!!

[@NdeniseColeman]

It’s Hard To Come Back To Parts Of The United States When You Live In Different Parts Too. I Experienced The Same Anxiety When I Moved Back Home To Chattanooga, TN After Living The Fun Exciting Fast-Paced Life In Chicago, IL

[@Afrikaislife]

Last month Tony picked me up from the airport, thank you. My trip was full of wonder and exploration and after nearly three weeks I too had anxiety over returning to the States. It was a massive stress reliever not having to worry about being black while in Ghana.

[@irene8564]

I will never know, what that really means, to have that kind of baggage. But I really hope for you, that your grown self-esteem will help you to keep a bit that "relaxness" while travelling. And I will never understand this crazy world. You are BEAUTIFUL people. Look flowers like roses: Some are white, some are red, some are orange, some are pink, and all are beautiful. And wow, Luke is a very smart guy. He has said something so important. Have a nice trip (hope, with good experiences). Greetings from Switzerland.

[@letjwil]

Powerful statement “Pulling back your blackness!” Looking forward to the day, to visit Ghana. The baggage is real here in the US, especially Texas.

[@sandindamae.iwantmetowin5652]

I’M VERRY SORY ABOUT YOUR TERRIBLE EXPERIENCES IN USA BUT NOW YOU HAVE A CHOICE….PLEASE COME TO AFRICA AND LIVE WITH PEOPLE WHO LOOK LIKE YOU AND LOVE YOU FOR WHO YOU ARE!

[@maggielazarre78]

Yep, on the second day after I returned from Africa, this cop tail gated me for 14 miles on the highway! Yes, that was my welcome home. You have every reason for being stressed 🤭😔

[@markjakker2091]

He could smell you've been on the Continent

[@jacquelinekrantz3937]

Omg! What a fucked up place we live in. Can't even drive in peace.

[@kimmixerxs]

I remember, when I visited Ghana Accra in 2003. Walking down the lane; every one was Black and the uplifting feeling it instilled in me. It was within moments of this magnitude, that I fully realised the oppression of living in London, England UK.

[@Lydiatremayne]

Your video makes me want to visit Africa so bad now! I can totally relate to the trauma and anxiety growing up here in America! It’s so toxic

[@snowball6175]

You are always welcome... now there are direct flights to Ghana

[@sandindamae.iwantmetowin5652]

IT’S ABOUT TIME TO COME BACK TO MOTHERLAND AND ENJOY YOUR LIFE BIG TIME!

[@sherinebonsu8572]

Wow! Currently in Ghana with my children. We just had this convo this morning during breakfast with our family that we are staying with. I dread returning to the US right now. It is just too much chaos and confusion going on over there. Safe travels.🙏🏿

[@emeline9183]

Safe travels! Just focus on visiting the people you're looking forward to seeing, going shopping 🛍 to get the stuff you are missing (like grits!), going to the really good restaurants that you miss, and just have fun for your short stay. Don't worry about what other people think of you; it's more of a reflection on them anyway and where they are and has nothing to do with you.

[@adwoaa7419]

Very true

[@clarissajones5636]

Haven't left the states, but totally understand your anxiety. Sending supportive energy ❤✊🏾

[@jetunb]

I cried on the plane on the way back to the states. And was instantly tense once the plane landed. Good luck

[@africanadage852]

@jetun b. I hope you come back to the motherland soon.

[@evieo3320]

Me too. anxious going to the USA even after being g there for approx 2.5 decades!! Right now, I'm in transit in Amsterdam heading to the US....and in tears.

[@mosesparker1360]

Pulling over is highly different being a person of color in the USA. Yes, I love being Black and would not trade it for anything!!!

[@ExpatLifeGhana]

@moses parker - Love that! Thanks for the comment ❤️️🇬🇭❤️️.

[@kimberlymensah5063]

I can’t say I personally understand what you guys are going through but it is definitely good for me to hear it thank you for sharing

[@ExpatLifeGhana]

I appreciate that

[@akwasiowusuansah6329]

I wish you both safe journey and safe return.

[@ExpatLifeGhana]

Great comment - Thanks for adding to the conversation ❤️️💛💚!

[@cam-cl4ec]

I just returned from vacation in Accra and Kumasi. It was so great to be somewhere where my skin color is normal. A completely different feeling looking around and seeing representation of black people everywhere, and feeling not “other.” Then I had to come back to, well, all that stuff you said. One nice thing about the covid test coming back to US, at Kotoka they give you a choice of nasal or throat swab. Throat triggers your gag response, but less uncomfortable than their nasal swab which I had to do on arrival. That was super painful as I have a small nose, and I wound up with a sinus headache the entire first night I was there.

[@ExpatLifeGhana]

@cam - We will be glad when all of this covid stuff for travel is over and thanks for the comment 😊!

[@eileenwatt8283]

Next time use a nasal saline spray about half hour before. It moistened the nasal mucosa. The test shouldn't be painful with that.

[@psychodelicization]

I LOVE you two and the information you share! I will be joining you in Ghana, next year, 2022!

[@ExpatLifeGhana]

Thanks so much for that @psychodelicization, really appreciate it 😉!

[@Suhuyiniempirellc]

I left Ghana in July to pack up my place. When I got to California I caught Pneumonia, I was sick for 6 weeks 🙃 I've been back in Ghana for 2 weeks now! 🤸🏽‍♀️😘🙌🏽 I'm so happy to be back home!

[@johnakpalu2118]

Yes. The stress of being black in America is real. I have a friend who lives partly in Ghana and partly in the US. He is on blood pressure medication in the US but does not need the medication when he travels to Ghana! His blood pressure becomes completely normal throughout his stay in Ghana.

[@tracyMcC]

Wow!

[@NehesiNubian]

I seriously feel like I know you two. When I see the video alert from KZbin Im like "How are the kids!" LOL. Needless to say I look forward to the videos. I have gotten everyone in my household addicted to watching you guys experience in Ghana. I am from Houston, I totally understand where you two are coming from with most of what you say about Houston/USA. Believe me, the video about your rental house management experience had us FURIOUS! I wanted to call that rental management company and curse they a$$ out!! I was screaming at the TV, like "What!!! THEY did that!!! OH HELL TO THE NO, LET ME CALL THIS BS RENTAL MANAGEMENT COMPANY!! lol. I appreciate the videos. Please keep them coming.

[@ExpatLifeGhana]

@Xenophile Sapiosexual - We are so glad to have viewers like you! We hope to see you in Ghana soon and thanks for the comment 😊!

[@tjennings2126]

That is so real! I just left Sept 1st and I cried like a baby I had so much anxiety.. I just booked my flight I'll be back in Ghana by the end of the month.. I loved being FREE I miss it

[@blessingamin8615]

You are always welcome but try to visit the northern sector to Tamale.

[@Cabenah]

4 mins into the video and 17 of us have already liked the video without watching the full video lol I think it’s a good thing lol

[@kimberlymensah5063]

I always hit the like button before I Watch the video because I know it will be valuable content I pray that God will protect you and help you successfully accomplish everything you are going to do and may you arrive back home in Ghana safely

[@ExpatLifeGhana]

@Faith Beema - Love that! Thanks for the comment ❤️️🇬🇭❤️️.

[@annetteclaus-madison9043]

Can't wait to hear about your experience after your visit.

[@sandindamae.iwantmetowin5652]

GREAT STORIES ABOUT MOTHERLAND! I PRAY FOR YOUR SAFETY WHILE IN US AND THE LORD BRING YOU BACK HOME IN GHANA SAFELY. PROUD OF YOU GUYS! BE BLESSED…

[@arnoldarnold8459]

Please make some videos of your visit while in the States and share with us. I want to see Tony eat ALL the food he's been missing especially the crawfish.

[@tango1tluvtango]

Wow I love this💕I agree even if I could change my color ..i would never consider it.,❤️Black is beautiful And there is nothing evil connected to it. Evil is a personality not color

[@TheEchoingPen]

I had anxiety too after being home in Jamaica for 2 years and I had to go back to America for my daughter graduation. After 5 days I was ready to leave.

[@HughJass-jv2lt]

😆😆

[@copperessentialherbalprod9126]

I am trying to get ready to leave kenosha to come back there. I hope the food doesn’t make you sick. I have been back since the end of September and eating the food here has made me sick. That lets you know the food in Africa is full of life. Be safe

[@sabrinasmith75]

I prayed for you. I send peace, love, and safety for your family.

[@Bragse2Africa]

I know what you mean; I was in the same predicament few weeks ago but I survived it and I'm not going back there in a long while. Have a safe trip though may the ancestors protect you all the way

[@nefertemur8951]

Greetings Expat Life Ghana, awesome conversation and have safe journey back the USA. Ensure your home or apartment is highly protected while you are away as you know, the thieves are always watching in Ghana and around the world as well. Thanks for sharing..

[@kwamenyame1277]

Awwww…. Safe trip. Enjoy your time there (make the best of it)… and we will see you back in Ghana soon

[@ExpatLifeGhana]

Thank you, we will.

[@thechaffers6393]

Smh. Thanks for the talk. We will be going back to Houston, Texas, too, for a week in Dec. Same feelings.

[@lucianasmalls2320]

Thank you for your honesty. I had the opportunity to visit Ghana in October 2021. I had an amazing time. I wanted to stay however they are no jobs in my field. 🥺😭

[@blackabroad]

Safe travels! Luke is spot on with that comment. I love yalls vibe and my wife and I will be tuned in... Eric

[@joycewells1530]

Love you guys- safe journey back to US- and Tony you’ve got this it will be ok. Thanks for being open you’re helping many out there- God bless you and your beautiful family xx

[@mawulekumitokponwey9086]

It is so difficult to unpack the comments that you made about going back to America after being in Ghana for so long. I was recently in Togo for three weeks visiting family. I never worried about my blackness, just that I look different from the Togolese people. I am 5’ 9 and built more like a large Nigerian, so I stick out. When I open my mouth, it is confirmed that I am different. With all of that said, I still would rather deal with that than deal with the lifetime baggage that comes with being a Black man in America. We plan to eventually spend the majority of our time in Africa, coming back to the states to handle business and deal with health issues if they come up. We are torn between moving to Ghana and moving to Togo where my wife’s family is. Ghana would be less complicated because we don’t have the language barrier to deal with or the infrastructure issues that Togo has. Our only real downside with choosing Ghana is we will be totally on our own. I love your show and love you guys! Your honesty and relatability is a real plus. Continue to keep it real and you will have a fan for life! One day we will hopefully meet. Take care.

[@seph2x538]

You guys are awesome. I have been here for 40 yrs and suffocating guys. I have been done with this place so I understand how you guys feel. People do not realize how much stress and tension there is living in the US. I normally spend time outside in different parts of the world and believe the stress goes away Just hold your nose and get it over with. The place has gotten a whole lot crazier now so brace yourselves.

[@oluwaremilekunbell6159]

"I gotta go back to being black." Love it! I'm Nigerian-American and know what you mean!!!

[@lovinlifewithlaine]

If y'all going to Texas, it's a free for all. I was there 2 weeks ago, in Arlington/Dallas, they're living La Vida loca.

[@clintonfoster4673]

Hello Tony: The "baggage" you refer to is sad but true. All of us carry the baggage. Some are more conscious and others subconscious. The strength in us keeps us focused and uplifted. We do not start our day saying, woe is me--I am black in America. We thrive regardless of all our oppressions. Stay safe my brother and sister. Do your business and return safely. CNF

[@pabuah7132]

I did my COVID test at SYNLAB: 17 Ridge Road, Roman Ridge. It cost just 250GHS and it's a throat swab and very quick.

[@geralddavino8221]

Reread Paul Lawrence Dunbar’s “We Wear the Mask.” The poem speaks to your anxieties. Concerned that there are health issues; try to settle them definitively. Eat what you missed. Perhaps the first episode after your return will be a stunner. Suspect that you will perceive EVERYONE differently. Still enchanted and viewing from Uruguay. Good trip. Get back to Ghana fast.

[@MrsAsamoah]

YES MA’AM @Ayo! Driving in Ghana is a beast!!!

[@russellboyd5262]

If i was black.i would consider moving to africa,But i was lucky enough to be born a white upper middle class ,college educated white man.My life has been blessed,because of it. I wish it was like this for everyone,life is not fair,never will be.Your wife is still the best thing that ever happened to you.You are trully a lucky man in your own way for sure.goodluck russell wayne boyd.

[@Nogo844]

Great topic! Great title! Hi you two. I am feeling your stress and I haven't left yet. Lol But I have traveled other places and felt that reluctance to come back to insanity. I just didn't want to face the racial obstacles anymore. Obstacles and challenges come with life, but racial obstacles and challenges are a extra unnecessary burden. So I feel you. Can't wait to find out if your anxiety is as much as you thought 💭 Safe travels.

[@deborahmccloud622]

I love you two! I really appreciate you sharing your experience with us. I wish that my hubby were on the same page with me. I wish we could visit next year, but he worried about not having enough annual leave. 🤦🏾‍♀️😩😢

[@ShayTBD]

I LOVE Nima... So much culture and authenticity there - Hmmmm

[@blackhannahofficial]

Safe travels guys 🤗 Just "get in and get out" ❗The ship 🏴‍☠️ is sinking...

[@mykelsackey8034]

Oh yea. Be safe on your trip.

[@nobs997]

"I am not arguing, I am Ghanaian" Whoever wrote that never met my fellow Nigerians.

[@ExpatLifeGhana]

@No BS - Now Nigerians are on a whole different level and thanks for the comment 😊!

[@papa22631]

@No BS - You are so right.

[@ssimpson2939]

These food and supply shortages are going to shock you. Wish my family and I were there now. We will be visiting next year. 😊

[@actionjackson5759]

EXPAT LIFE GHANA, I WOULD HAVE BEEN IN GHANA BY NOW, BUT THE US PRESIDENT WANTS TO MANDATE A VACCINE ON ME TO TRAVEL INTERNATIONALLY, WHENEVER THEY STOP THIS MADNESS, MAMA AFRICA HERE I COME AND MAYBE I WILL FIND MY FUTURE BRIDE THERE. YOU GUYS MUST BE RICH TO STAY THIS LONG IN GHANA 🇬🇭

[@jacquelinekrantz3937]

The anxiety you feel is for good reason. Hope your trip is stress free and productive. May the ancestors protect you, safe travels.

[@markettaosieko9641]

I understand your concerns. I lived in Kenya for almost 20 yrs and coming back to the States was an adjustment.At the time of my return , going to the petrol station. In Kenya there was full services and at the time I knew nothing about putting petrol in a car. BOY! I tell you anxiety would overshadow me each time🤣 Enjoy your stay in Houston.

[@Kya1942]

I am your fun from Katy, TX. Wish you are coming this way so we can meet up. Your son is very intelligent. What he said got me thinking.

[@lorek3377]

Really sorry to hear how "black" people feel..... My wife is African, my 5 kids are black in the US, and I know my kids did feel some prejudice mostly when they were young.... May Jesus make all things new!!

[@sourcestvghmotherland2381]

Amen

[@africanadage852]

@Thomas Joseph Lorek. Amen. He renews all things.

[@amencal]

Shame on u racist.

[@lorek3377]

@@amencal?

[@lorek3377]

@@amencal who's a racist?

[@johnnyh.9327]

Good Luck my ppl and pls try and be safe... We will be praying for you all...One Love.

[@jettunion7430]

Hi Tony and Ayo. The feeling is real, Tony you will be ok, before you know if you will be back in Ghana. I work in Houston at theTexas children hospital for 3 months as a travel nurse. My coworkers was telling me to be aware of where I was at all times. Could not wake for my contract to finish. I was out of there so fast did not know when I past the time zone in Florida. Did not stop in the Panhandle except for gas to get to Orlando.🥴😜I can’t wait for may to get here, my daughter off to college and me one way to Ghana.

[@ExpatLifeGhana]

@Jett Union - Houston has definitely changed and thanks for the comment 😊!

[@jessicadonald9873]

Try to enjoy your stay. I admire you two and I hope to move there one day. You have given me important information from your videos.

[@shadrackbrobbey4944]

Hi Tony and Ayo. Good to see guy guys. Talking about going back to the US with all that's going on is certainly a concern. My wife went back at the end of October and got Covid a week after that. She sent me her Covid results and you just can't miss the word "POSOTIVE" plastered right on top of the results paper in red! The threat is really real folks! I'm also going to visit for 2 weeks at the end of December, but I'm not extremely worried as I've taken the Moderna vaccine. I'm still going to be following all the precautions though. Anyway, have a Covid-free trip to the US and back. Love you guys!

[@ExpatLifeGhana]

@Shadrack Brobbey -Oh no, hope she is alright and thanks for the comment 😊!

[@shadrackbrobbey4944]

@@ExpatLifeGhana She's feeling tired but OK and resting now. Thanks for asking.

[@myrtisallotey8928]

I went to Malawi, layover in Kenya airport and then on to Ghana. No problems. I had had the Moderna vaccine but no one wanted to see it. Had to pay for 3 tests. Wash your hands and bless your food. I'm in Minnesota now. That was in April and May of this year 2021.

[@GarveyMarcus1111]

Hugs. ❤ I see you having flashbacks. Everything will be fine. Enjoy your 'visit' to the US

[@marylou7105]

Wow, hearing African Americans say how afraid they are living in the US makes me sad. I am African American and hubby and I are in our late 50s. We raised three children in the US and had the opportunity to live abroad in several countries including Cameroon Africa. Our interaction with the police here in the US has been very little (2 or 3 speeding tickets over 30 plus years). I don’t know anyone personally who has been shot. We have lived in great neighborhoods both in Florida and Virginia. Please tell your son that you do need a permit/card to carry a gun in the US. I cannot imagine being so afraid to live here.

[@markjakker2091]

Your experience is not the norm for the MAJORITY of Black Americans

[@marylou7105]

@@markjakker2091 it is for the people in my circle and family.

[@TheRichardsonsJourney]

I’m surprise you can’t update your passport online since everything else can be done on the internet; I feel you all pain coming back to America (there’s nothing like having a peace of mind while being in Africa) please be safe…

[@toofy7253]

Our system is still backwards in many ways

[@citylinkproject9901]

Be safe , have a nice trip and take care

[@natashagold7877]

Wishing you a successful and speedy trip and a safe return to Ghana.

[@josephinemarfo7672]

I have enjoyed watching your videos. Please make some videos about returning to the U.S. Safe Journey.

[@sarahdompim2254]

I don't understand ,Ayo is a ghanaian so why can't she get a ghanaian passport ?i'm married to a ghanaian in the US and our daughter went to the ghana embassy in DC and got a ghana passport so she is a dual citizen

[@markjakker2091]

Wrong video and topic. She explained in that video that its the immigration office and their rules that caused the problem. She is still on the path of Ghanaian citizenship. God bless

[@MeEntertainmentJo_876]

Good luck on your travels! The violence is a very real concern but the one place that police typically do actually protect are the touristy/hotel areas. So long as you stick to the Fairfied Suites or something you should be fine. And it's only a brief trip and you should be ok.

[@MeEntertainmentJo_876]

Oh and a follow up: would you be willing to make a video about your travels to and from the US when you get back? Sort of like a before/after? I know you've spoke at length about the difference between the US and Ghana but it'd be cool to see what you have to say after a trip like this.

[@beebeebiggs]

Have a safe trip and a quick return home🙏🏾

[@ShayTBD]

Are you all doing your TEST at Nyaho Clinic - I travel frequently in/out of Ghana (for company/work travel) & that clinic has been expeditious in providing results when I need it - Thanks for sharing - I'm am NOT looking forward to going back to the States for anything - I have a surgery I need and hoping I can find a place abroad instead of dealing with the US ever again -

[@howardcash8301]

Tony and Ayo! Enjoy your brief return to the US, keeping in mind, 'IT'S ONLY TEMPORARY!" Yeah!

[@bebisterling6571]

Please don't be afraid for the covid test. I was very afraid to do it, but did it last week, it goes so fast and it is painless in the throat you don't feel anything, in the nose you feel something but no pain!

[@ExpatLifeGhana]

@Bebi Sterling - Afraid of Covid, not the test and thanks for the comment 😊!

[@clintonfoster4673]

The comment your son made is very profound. Seriously profound. His observation references guns and Covid-19. This says a lot about the state of America and its values. How sad! CNF

[@SunkissFlower]

Safe travels. May God's grace cover you all.

[@itscyberqueen13]

Safe travels my friends. It's will be nice when you are returning to Africa and you feel like you are home when you land in Africa and not America. I hope I get a chance to feel that some day.

[@vivieneroyal9735]

The weather in USA is going to be cold as well! Arrrggghhhh

[@poetauthor4952]

BE IN BEFORE NIGHTTIME HELPS A WHOLE LOT WHEN IT COMES DOWN STAFTY. SORRY YOU GUYS HAVE TO COME BACK FOR A STAMP.

[@ExpatLifeGhana]

@Poet Author - Where are you talking about and thanks for the comment 😊!

[@poetauthor4952]

ITS AN OLD SAYING IN SOUTH CAROLINA AMONGST OLDER BLACK FOLKS WE SAY TRY TO BE IN BEFORE DARK IT CAN GET DANGEROUS AT NIGHT DUE TO POLICE BRUTALITY FOLKS GETTING STOPPED FOR UNEXPLAINED REASONS. YOU GUYS CAN NOW GO EAT AT YOUR FAVORITE RESTAURANTS AND SHOP AT YOUR FAVORITE STORES. 🙂

[@kwamebushman606]

The shootings are getting worse it's so crazy. I stay in my apartment and work online, it's crazy in America right now guys be safe

[@tracyMcC]

Well Tony does have a preacher's voice.

[@mohammedanane92]

Thanks God just a quick Visit n please come back to Ghana

[@ExpatLifeGhana]

@Mohammed Anane - Real quick trip and thanks for the comment 😊!

[@CottonForTheSoul]

Hey Tony and Ayo, safe travels. Be safe back in the USA.

[@maggielazarre78]

Don’t leave the mattress behind...again...🤣🤣

[@olivercoleman3844]

I love you guys please stay safe and leave America as soon as you can.

[@kfelix2934]

I'm flying to Sao Tome again but via Ghana next year. I hope to spend a few days in Accra and hopefully visit some friends in Tema.

[@bhat_ysrael]

Each person should carry one empty suitcase for items that you want to carry back from the States. Make certain to make all of your Amazon purchases before you arrive to the States. You can have those items shipped to a locker near the place your staying at. If you celebrate Xmas then this may be a cheaper option.

[@pallotey810]

Please let me know when you get here. I will come over for a short visit.

[@ExpatLifeGhana]

@P Allotey -Who are you and thanks for the comment 😊!

[@junebrowse1010]

You both look so well beautiful glowing skin. Wish I could get some of sunshine ☀️❤️

[@Kingoftheimmigrants4646]

America is harder than ever!! Inflation is higher and they have even increase the prices of soda!! 100 dollars in the supermarket doesn’t even buy u much

[@gibson2675]

Still america is a better place for its poor than Africa

[@ExpatLifeGhana]

@Infamous made IM - Everything is going up and thanks for the comment 😊!

[@ReinaAfricana]

Yeah divided states is harder we can't wait to leave

[@stefanieneubert4842]

Great video. But would just like to add that plenty of European Americans like myself, also others, get the really scary issues going on in the US, which include racism but also lots of other problems. I have no illusions about the US and my husband and I are also looking to leave.

[@angelapinnock3793]

🥺 Can't be comfortable being black in the States and many other places around the world. TRULY HEARTBREAKING...😥

[@christinemcdonald1943]

Hey you guys, good to hear from you all again. I would like to know, is this your first time out of Ghana, since you moved there? Do you have to take that 24 hour test, I heard that's what they wanted to start to implement? That's the part that have me nervous. And also when I returned from Ghana, and I was only there for 2 weeks, but when I returned, it was like I had a difficult time breathing this air, like it was sharp or something, and my body temperature was off. Had to put on the heat. So dress warm. It's a big difference from here in the states and that tropical weather. But then you probably already know this.

[@lisaappoh6484]

Just returned to USA from Ghana. Temperature changes this time of year. Went from 89 degrees to 37 degrees. Came down with a cold immediately! You will be fine. Try not to go too many places…. I’m in the Northeast Region so not sure about the wild Wild West. Mask up, and hand sanitizer. If you’re in and out, the “race” issues hopefully won’t be a problem for you. Safe travels!

[@willjoful]

The only place I feel I have to be black is on KZbin. There have been a lot of changes in the United States since Covid. Not, to say racism have going away. To put it like this, America have lost a lot of people do to Covid. I can feel the the difference.

[@Dennhunt1]

What about just traveling up to London and coming back for the passport stamp? It’s a lot less expensive. Sorry to hear your residence permits still aren’t sorted out.

[@johnampiah2110]

Have safe trip guys ❤️🔥♥️🥰🙏🏾👍🏾

[@sarahdompim2254]

Just yesterday my husband was stopped by a state police for no reason atall

[@cityladybekind2366]

Love to watch you guys 💕 Ly couple. Stay bless

[@Jabwoy4444]

You guys will be fine These experiences in the USA Is grossly generalized and exaggerated. Yes there are issues in the USA but it’s definitely NOT the worse country and probably the best for many people. It’s interesting how our Western privilege has us in a state of anxiety. Yet there are people in some parts of Africa, Middle East and Eastern Europe facing atrocities right now. I have travelled to 71 countries and lived in 10 countries. I cringe when people ask which is better than the other. I tell people there are no comparisons, each place is a different experience that I treasure, even my American experience is valuable. Just be fully present and enjoy the experience wherever you are.

[@AMANFIFARMS]

They happen to enjoy life better in Ghana despite whatever “atrocities “ may be going on somewhere in Africa, just like some people prefer to live in America despite all the crime and racism

[@toofy7253]

I think their anxiety is real and for good reason. It's not your place to tell them that their experiences aren't logical. Just make your own channel to give some light into your anecdotal good experiences. Then we'll have a more diverse conversation. You can live in several countries and still have different experiences than others who lived in the same country

[@Ale-dw7ww]

@@toofy7253 when you’re in Africa still talking about America and the cops, it means you’re still oppressed lol. You’re right about diverse conversations. We need more meaningful conversations about the mission and vision for Africa. How are we participating? What organizations are we forming to build industries? How many children are taking off the streets to provide skills and education?

[@Ale-dw7ww]

@Invisible But Strongwe are NOT black, we are Africans. The adjective “black” was used by the Europeans to describe us as strange ugly inhuman. The word permeated in us, in the Western world and we continue to use it. Please refer to history.

[@ExpatLifeGhana]

@Gypsy Girl - We are basing our opinion on what we saw last year as we were leaving, there was no grossly exaggeration or generalizing in that. America is the worst country in my personal opinion. It is all smoke and mirrors and thanks for the comment 😊!

[@davidlittles5469]

You are a wonderful couple to ask this question...why is the "dashiki" he is wearing not an African cloth nor print?? ....try an imitation batik cloth from Indonesia that is so often presented as of African origin