“Bad at Ghosting” with Lauren Lapkus

[@colle31]

First caller: 10000% not random. Moshe’s advice was spot on.

[@nikkihorvath993]

underrated podcast. underrated fashion. Super Guests. Lots of eye candy. Funny souls seem kind and always beautiful.

[@meredith12438]

The dogs are particularly cute in this episode

[@Kbwintyy]

The little croissant on the pillow

[@M255-n9z]

U know the breed?

[@colle31]

The Messiah’s “I hate the system” joke did not get the laughter it deserved

[@bridgidigital]

The solution is obvious; set up both of your callers on a date with each other. They kinda sound like the solution to each other's problem. He seemed like a sensitive guy who won't go soft panic attacking over an ex.

[@HawksleySummerson]

The introduction to Meryl Streep at 3:28 is hilarious

[@Qualia.]

"Life is a dream." -Natasha Leggero Love it. 🥰

[@jag5014]

Bad at Ghosting sounds like a title of a song from The Cure

[@ladylo-fi6979]

It might help the punk rock musician to only date men who have *not* seen her onstage. I have a feeling these guys she's been dating are pretty impressionable, have totally idealized her (which is easy to do when you see a good musician onstage) and this messes them up. Then when they're with her--this perfect punk goddess--and they feel that they can't do everything absolutely perfectly, they freak out.

[@NotChillin]

Lauren is so talented.

[@stalkingpedrochannel]

the only explanation to Emily's situation is that she comes from a long line of witches and men just can't handle the power I think moshe was right tho... you change yourself and you find that the world changes around you. She's stuck in a pattern. She's the one who has to get herself out of it In _regard_ to Nathan, it sounds to me like she kinda got freaked out when he texted her a few hours after the hook-up asking if they're an item. I know I would... and it seems like he was a little intense with his words because she felt the need to say "please don't worry." Maybe he needs to keep his cool if he wants to keep a girl Also, Natasha's face at 1:19:39 after leaving her body for 10 seconds

[@angiesunnie8469]

Both of the advice is perfect. 1. She needs to mix it up. 2. He needs to play it cool. 💜💜💜💜

[@Dumballa]

Loved this episode. Lauren is so cool 😎

[@bobagal7120]

Love the dogs having a solid snooze on the couch!

[@9Randompeoplz]

Threedom and endless honeymoon, my favorite podcasts coming together ❤️ you guys need to have Scott or Paul on the show, Scott probably won’t disclose any information but it’ll be fun

[@Fadeout815]

Natasha is right. Step back and wait till after that date. If she texts, GREAT! If not, move on.

[@johnplunkett7120]

That’s so cool that a fellow north shore based musician is on this podcast! I wish she mentioned her band name.

[@badlarrys7958]

;)

[@mikayocc]

Lauren is the best! I love her podcast studio!

[@gorkmusic]

Great episode! ❤️

[@peepspers]

Hell yeah Lauren!!

[@nicholkid]

Lauren Lapkus got me into Wordle

[@victoriasunseri2009]

I just have to say that Chick-fil-a is not a 3 dollar meal. Basically, no fast food is 3 dollars besides value menu at McDonald’s, Taco Bell, and Burger King. It’s like an 8 dollar minimum.

[@thatonegirlfrank5639]

You wash produce for the dirt sure, BUT FOR THE PESTICIDES YOU GUYS

[@misejohns]

EHP foreverr

[@colle31]

Second caller: Bro, whatever you do. Do not wish her good luck on the exam. Hit her up on the 16th or 17th. Until then, radio silence.

[@Remember-Death]

I agree. Ignore her, go out on dates with other women and make sure the roommates girlfriend knows about it.

[@pauljoseph8338]

I love Nat’s Aunt Jemima headwear

[@LOLCoolJ]

Huge crush on Lauren

[@matthectorne143]

53:30 "Laura" lol

[@vlogwhatevs]

Laura is the producer.

[@SleepyTelly]

I’m just realizing you got a nicer camera!

[@cameron7236]

Love her!

[@holynoise]

oh heck yea!

[@ratatouillefightclub]

Oh Nathan, you sweet summer child.. “The test is real”😅

[@brooke9297]

The gal is definitely a dominant type. She started the thing off chastising a famous host of the podcast she called... This seemed clear from the get-go, that she's serious and a little somber -- and she's going for damaged dudes, who are going to be totally traumatized by coming out of a relationship and going straight to a dominant, confident, assertive (and maaaaybe a little condescending) lady. It's a yin/yan pattern of their individual darker traits attracting each other. I've known loads of sensitive, emotionally crippled guys who end up repeatedly dating women a lot like her - and same deal with genders reversed (or out of the picture completely).

[@Remyinthesystem]

I wonder if they love each other...?

[@melbanunez2733]

Music scenes is where she’s meeting them. Lots of drugs and alcohol could be the issue. Also they may hv been gay boys that don’t know they’re gay yet. Our it could be the girl appeared depressed. She may be a depressed anxious person and therefor attracting those type of men.

[@noyb901]

The punk rock girls situation seems obvious. To begin with... she's extremely dominant. She is everything she says she wants in a man. But dominant men look for submissive women. She needs to understand the role she embodies (or drastically change it). She is attracting submissive men and doesn't know what to do with them. They're falling apart because they're feeling threatened (which they want)... but not controlled (which they require). She is what she is... she just has to understand the responsibilities that femdom entails. Once she learns the benefits of having a submissive (or several) she'll have a much richer sex life. I find it highly unlikely that she could become a sub. She reminds me of the punk rock girl in the viral video... that brought the guy up on stage and peed on his face. That girl knows who she is. So did the guy. They both were very happy.

[@robertmiller4264]

Moshe pushing the dog away all mean like : (

[@levantjbean2712]

You pushing everyone away being an ass like

[@robnorwood3591]

Two very funny and smart women...and Moshe.

[@M255-n9z]

What’s the dogs breed?

[@HH-gv8mx]

Too bad this is a year old and I’m just now finding this podcast. I’m loving it so far. But the advice to the guy who’s in love with the medical student seemed a little off to me. When I was in nursing school I had to be laser focused During exam time. And I needed men to be super aggressive to get me to go out. Men often give up too easily because they think that you’re not interested when really medical school is a big deal you’re paying a lot of money for that that’s your whole future. If he’s into her he can wait

[@Zlatan32289]

Why is Moshe dressed like Justin bieber?

[@ckyleu]

Bad at ghosting? what is this, a special about West Elm Caleb?

[@jennyonthespectrum4581]

No one asked what the actual sex was like. It is very weird for someone to panic after sex. That may also be a clue. I am a little afraid she dated a longterm ex of mine 😂. Just kidding . . .same area, different taste in men.

[@ahoytherekaty]

Yeah - that definitely made me a little suspicious. One guy having anxiety? Sure! SIX?! That’s wild. The only time I’ve ever felt that way is when a boundary was significantly crossed. Seems like some key pieces were missing there.

[@SWHBOYCE]

:35...and leave alive !!!!!!! (2...is that a Teddy-Fresh beanie ? I agree ; she's funnier than Merril for sure .

[@Iamlightandlove888]

He just gave himself up, they can see your face???

[@itsbiancamitchell]

wait is Kristen Wiig a nepotism baby??!!

[@9Randompeoplz]

Can we cancel moshe for pushing that dog at the beginning of the pod? Thanks

[@robertmiller4264]

I love everything about Moshe except the way he treats animals

[@pleasedontdestroythiseither]

40

[@Sadie33]

Schools should teach history and science and the fact that every single punk music dude is severely mentally ill with no treatment or uphill stride, because these are the everyday things people need to know

[@melbanunez2733]

A question not asked was. Is she bisexual. We’re the guys bisexual. There is a lot of identity differences out there. Seems more and more young folks are bisexual etc.

[@daphneglasurus7886]

I mean this question with compassion I swear: but does it seem like in the modern era, straight men are less equipt and resistant to normal sex with women? Sure, we don’t know how older generations really felt about dating as anything scandalous would’ve been silenced, but it doesn’t seem like men in the 40s who were in their 40s were having erectile dysfunction problems or stirring up anger towards women in themselves to the degree they can’t socialize with any of them normally. There seems to be a growth in a subset of men who self sabotage relationships with women as if they really don’t want them. Women however in the modern era are finding their sexuality and willing it share that with any man that is just borderline decent and yet she can’t because they whip their dick out or make a rape joke. Self sabotage.

[@brooke9297]

Second dude: sad possibility is that she was turned on by her man Bo Burnham and invited him over for her to work out her seksyewal energy. She is very very not interested but trying to be polite (while sadly stringing him along).

[@HamzaFarooqui21]

I think a larger conversation to have is this admonishing of male emotions. Like i was kinda appalled how they were talking about these peoples panic attacks as if they were repulsive and negative. Men can have emotions too. And the fact that feminists always talk about toxic masculinity and at the same time make fun of men who cry is quite appalling and gross tbh. Mens feelings and expressions are being so subdued and these types of comments do not help. I think the chicks attitude is shit tbh. As well as the hosts attitude. I hope all those guys are okay and i wish them the best in their life.

[@jennyonthespectrum4581]

Maybe people should treat childless women the same way . . it seems like you aren't considered a friend worthy woman until you've birthed a child in some people's eyes.

[@norman8084]

🤪 P r o m o S M.

[@lmpnchi9416]

People ARE doing indoor things with friends, esp if vaxxed. That's the point of the vaxxes. What even is the positivity rate in LA?

[@lmpnchi9416]

Set up a pod with other kids, and test once a week if you need to. Its not that hard

[@urabagofcells2228]

Washing lettuce sucks.

[@janinekloet3166]

I don’t think the punk girl is to blame sub-consciously or consciously. I think it’s all on the guys. People with anxiety are common in this world.

[@For_The_Watch]

Hate to have to be the one to break this news to you all, but you really are in a bubble. Teenagers are still making out smoking weed in cars, I promise you, hell in my red state they never quit.