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[@betterhealth1651]

Let me tell you Tony, this time last year, you made video called "Are you the price?". That video challenged me and hurt me a bit at the time. It also pushed me to make lifestyle changes. A year later today, I have dropped 40 pounds, I eat clean and exercise regularly. These messages may sound harsh in the moment but they are good for us.

[@coachnatishamommatish185]

Amen, sis!! #WaTshikuya Testify about your journey sugas!!! You go girl🙌👑💃🎊

[@lovettatobeyea190]

Yes Sis!!! 🙌🏾👏🏾❤️

[@nikitatbain]

Let me go and watch or rewatch that video because if I don't remember that means I didn't get the message

[@coachshenamajor]

This is such a wonderful update. Not only did you listen listened to what Mr. Tony said but you took action. Way to celebrate you!

[@nessparadis6948]

Maman anasema prize hapana prize. Lakini una fanya muzuri. Keep it up!

[@beedabee1221]

I’m on a budget so I stopped getting my nails done and I use cuticle oil every day...my nails have grown longer, stronger and healthier. I take my vitamins, meal prep and drink a gallon of water everyday and my hair is thicker and my skin is clearer. I love to workout so I threw away all of my busted active wear and invested in my clothes. It has helped me a great deal to love myself and I even work out even more 💕 there’s so many alternatives to live your best you! Now I’m ready to leave San Diego and explore. It’s helping me to work towards writing my book. Let’s get it family!!!!

[@arlenasargent1946]

I love it

[@rosezarco9185]

Self care = self respect

[@charladavis4937]

when u look good u feel good

[@CaramelCuban]

So true

[@2cherries]

This is true. You also turn a lot of heads.

[@wol3335]

Great message Tony. So many single women don't understand that there is a preparation that comes before marriage. Not only do you need to be taking the best care of yourself and present the best version of yourself before marriage, you must continue being attentive to yourself once you're married as well.

[@LifeCoachLi]

God ain’t sending no king to a mess!!! 💯 Point, blank...PERIODT [in my TG voice🗣😜]

[@sunshine-wb7gr]

A lot of us is a mess 🤣🤣🤣😇

[@michellegarcia9785]

On Peri-ODT hahaha I’ve been saying that the past 3 days

[@ameliaah]

🙌🏽 Esther, Rebekah and Ruth were not running around with loose booties. Matthew 25 talks about the 5 virgins that were ready with oil and 5 virgins that weren't ready for the bridegroom to come. As women of God, we have to always stay ready or in preparation for our bridegroom to come. We do not know the day or hour. Esther prepared for 12 months with oils Rebekah stayed about her business Ruth also stayed about her business Stay about you're business and take care of you're body and God will bring that man into you're life at the proper time.

[@kamalaallen459]

Amen sis

[@derondamonique]

Amen ‼️

[@nkulizondi3066]

True!!!

[@hhhoneycomb]

Amen love this

[@Tahtiluv]

I love Tony’s old videos. I know he’s tired of talking about the same thing over and over but these videos have such jewels I love watching them over and over

[@Onlyloversgetit]

Ladies take care of yourself and invest in your beauty routine, however that looks for you. Stepping into your feminine power is attractive and important ✨

[@MsLovelylady75]

Amen!!!

[@thevisionofbeautycoaching]

💫

[@overcomerbtbojesus]

💯 totally agree!

[@khocolateable]

Before this pandemic , I used to get my nails and feet done every 2 weeks . After the pandemic hit , and the nail spa closed. I purchased a gel UV light with gel nail polish from Amazon for $40 bucks. I learned and started to do my own gel manicures.

[@ladytosha15]

*same

[@janetday5431]

Girl where you living ? Are nails Salons are open in our town. People even open salons in their homes.

[@janetday5431]

But good going. Keep that money in the bank.

[@khocolateable]

I live in Los Angeles they open now lol

[@shanellepolk7257]

I don't do gel manicures. But, I'll do the basic, just because I don't like long nails. But, COVID forced me to watch manicure videos and learn how to do it on my own.

[@allisonj9763]

Tony is speaking facts we need to stop listening to these broke men on Twitter and fake financial gurus telling us to walk around looking busted and not spend a dime 😂😂 . I refuse I’m getting my nails done, I’m getting my ice coffee and I’m going to Sephora . Nothing wrong with bettering yourself. Start a business money won’t be an issue in a year if not sooner.

[@foodieqt4258]

Nice!!!! What’s your business?!

[@shanellepolk7257]

Go ahead and speak on it, Allison! I've decided to level up and learn as much as possible; so, that I can have the important conversation with my daughter that my Momma didn't have with me. I want her future to be brighter than mine & I want her to love herself & be confident when she walks into it.

[@tiffanyd.8660]

Stay ready so you ain't gotta get ready 💯

[@ElonNicole]

Perioodd

[@Bre.995]

Not to sound like one of those pick me simps, but the same women asking “why do I need to do all that for a man” are the same one’s missing out on potential matches. Expecting a man to be everything on your lists but you can’t even tweak your appearance or whatever it is to really catch that man’s attention isn’t fair. Be the best version of yourself.

[@Bre.995]

@@LA-wv7gf Once we become more honest with ourselves it becomes easier. We know we are beautiful but when we ask “am I the best me I could possibly be?” You really end up checking yourself. There’s nothing wrong with that. And half the time you’ll end up loving yourself more for those small changes you had to make even if you might have done it to attract your potential husband. Because when we are in love with our best selves imagine the energy you’re going to attract. Men can see when a woman is truly confident and in love with herself.

[@je39981]

They don't want to be honest with themselves. Yes, as woman we do it for ourselves but at the same time we dress our best to look good and get the eyes of others unintentionally.

[@GoodGrief101]

Tony is doing right by his wife. If people want to hate on that, there’s something wrong. I know men that make good money that would rather have the nicer car and make himself look better than the wife. I got the message and it’s not about materialism. Stay blessed.

[@ira_herself997]

I agree 💯

[@alyssadestany]

Wow

[@21angali]

Stay in your lane, do not kill yourselves trying to afford something that you can not. Aspire to reach your goal but if you cannot afford top quality, do the best you can until you can do better. Complacency is the issue. Do not stay complacent.

[@unbelaneablebeautyy]

BacteriER 😭 Tony Gaskins is hilarious man

[@ShyXoxo1920]

“If you can’t afford a bottle of nail polish, you don’t need to be worried about no man!” 🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂 but that’s real…

[@gemmerouge8828]

“Don’t settle when you know you’re not where you want to be” TG 🙏🏾

[@taga8006]

It's going to take another year for me to get my look together after all I've been through, but I will become all of that and the best version of myself!

[@Queengemi5]

Yea? So what’s the update sis, how you doing now. I hope well

[@LifeCoachLi]

Ladies, we need to stop gettin booty hurt when we hear messages that tell us to “level up” honestly we ought to be doing this already, before desiring to attract a future husband. DO 👏🏼YOUR 👏🏼WORK!!! It’s our pride and rebellious spirit that’ll keep us with “I ain’t doin this/that fo no man” 🤦🏻‍♀️dennnnn go sit in yo single corner 🤔😑Because with that attitude you ain’t ready to be wifed-SUBMISSION requires we learn in sacrifice in singleness-sometimes that sacrifice requires us to sit in front of that mirror and reflect on why we aren’t already desiring to be our best-for God, self then others. 💯💯💯

[@8lack8erry1]

This was 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@InspiredUno]

If we would do it for ourselves we wouldn’t have to do it for a man, but even our love for ourselves is conditional. We only get it together for a relationship...we’ve got to love ourselves enough to be our best selves for ourselves. And the men and everything else will come naturally.

[@mymakersdaughter6041]

That part!!!!

[@sxmpurplebarbie]

Whew 👏👏

[@winblessed1357]

Word 🙌🏽👊🏽💯

[@ladytosha15]

Tony is simply saying it's ok to enhance urself. but be urself!

[@HisaLight2mypath]

I exercise almost everyday I eat healthy, and I focus on my brand brain body and that is me being the best version of myself . You've taught me a lot. You're amazing at what you do

[@princessdiana2737]

I watched a similar video at the beginning of 2020 and I dropped 20 pounds and toned up my body. Also, stopped the cussing. Gross 🤢 can’t Beleive I used to cuss like that Starting reading more, doing my makeup everyday and putting on those eyelashes to work and drinking a gallon of water a day. I’m telling you, how differently people treated me. Even the grocery store lady bagged my own groceries, when your supposed to bag them your self and she put them in my cart. Men acting very different. Putting me on a pedestal. Always asking how I’m so in shape and what do I do, to get my hair that long and shiny. I didn’t know men liked women with long, shiny hair. Anyways, I had to look at myself and make a change, because I too want to attract my husband.

[@patwilson1257]

That’s awesome. You did the work👍🏽

[@abby-hv6ll]

ladies ladies ladies it’s so important to take care of yourself. if you can’t take care of yourself you can’t take care of no one. stop worryin about a man and worry about ya self😘

[@fa_lee_lee2133]

Oh boy!! OK.. I need to stop biting my nails, get my cuticles cleaned and start wearing polish!!! I do bite my nails!! I'm the kind of woman that wears sweats and jeans to work!! Time to clean it up!! We need to look more soft, y'all... Im not a tomboy, I just dont take the time to fix myself up anymore because I've gained 70 pounds, I'm in gradudate school and I never go anywhere... It's time for me to get it together!!

[@stephanietinoco1565]

You got this!✨

[@tracyroberts1562]

You can do it, Lovely!💜

[@LifeCoachLi]

I NEED a man with clipped and clean fingernails. 💯🤞🏽👏🏼 It’s so important to me. Hands/shoes/teeth Funny, my sons are 22/24 and I never see their hands messy. I taught em well.

[@jess_is]

🥰

[@coachnatishamommatish185]

Right on sis!!! #Lisa Marcotte 👑💃🙌🎊MmmHmm Same here, my son's👑👑 are 23&22 They are a reflection of me an they know to look and be presentable at all times especially those nails Chile. Happy 2021🎊👑🙌☺

[@LifeCoachLi]

@@coachnatishamommatish185 Yasss lovely! Happy New Year 😊🙏🏽

[@cindeed4422]

Take care of mind, body, and soul in 2021.

[@Chillmaisha]

I died when Tony came out with that pillow 🤣😩

[@virtuouswoman1846]

Me too 🤣🤣

[@peaceful_and_blessed2879]

Thanks for the laughter and light heartedness here Tony! The “dont be out here lookin like Raggedy Ann” the fake belly, and the beaver chewing on the finger nails! 🤣💅

[@TheFactsofLife237]

😂😂😂

[@prettytaurus3671]

The beaver took me out 😭😭😂

[@nikkinanette8807]

Chiiileee 😩🤣😂🤣😂

[@user-pf3xx4uv6d]

Go to the store looking a mess and see if that man in front of you hold the door; He won't, but when you looking good they run to get that door.

[@kikic7637]

This is truth👌

[@PeaceBeStill-]

Smh

[@janetday5431]

You are so right. They always hold that 🚪.

[@shanellepolk7257]

Facts!

[@nadulamb4141]

🤣👏

[@conversationswithanna9452]

It’s a mindset if you can’t afford makeup, cosmetics, or good quality clothes it’s a choice. They have so many companies that participate with Klarna, afterpay, and affirm. These companies will break down your order into 4 easy interest free payments. Not trying to advertise just spreading knowledge, sometimes you have to fake till you make. Thanks Tony, not trying to disrespect you are your family by this comment. 🥰

[@alicehardy8040]

I use them all. Good info

[@conversationswithanna9452]

@@LA-wv7gf do you mind sharing some of these youtubers, I am to trying to become a minimalist. Only if The Queen and Tony allows.🥰

[@thefacetsofdee8291]

Amen! I agree it’s a mindset, all the options available today. Also how many quality clothing items(with tags) Calvin Klein, Donna Karan, Nordstrom, Talbots, Lands End , Ralph Lauren etc..I’ve discovered at thrift or consignment shops? Shop Marshall’s for many quality beauty items, Shishedo, Olay, Shea Moisture & so many others, gotten at reduced prices, I personally do press ons & you wouldn’t believe how often my nails are complemented, even my 1.25 dollar tree ones. I’m basically saying these days there are sooooo many options available for self improvement, so yes, it’s a mindset 👏🏾

[@Lynn-gb9zj]

“ Don’t wear the wig and not comb it out!! “ Break it down Tony... 🤣😂😂🤣😭😭

[@b.d7058]

🤣🤣🤣

[@MinaMina-nb5tl]

I've seen sum of those stiff wigs they b a hot mess!😅🤣😆🤭

[@winblessed1357]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@tanyadiego6778]

There is a huge difference between materialistic impressionist and a humble, respectful decent citizen who is asking for authentic love.

[@kellhumphrey5]

When he slid the lace front I hollard 🤣🤣. He ain’t lying.

[@ew0711]

Reminded me of Ezell from Friday 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@tiffanywilliams6644]

So did I!!🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@magalir.535]

Ladies, I'm not one to wear acrylics. They make me so uncomfortable, but i decided to start taking care of my nails 2 months ago. I use nail polish sometimes, but I found some inexpensive nail polish strips called dashing diva nail strips and I absolutely love them! They make my nails looks so beautiful and clean! Drop your self-care tip below! Let's level up our appearance this year!

[@whitneyallman8365]

Pedicures and Clinique 3 step skin care🥰

[@MinaMina-nb5tl]

Nails n eyebrows (threaded) last me abt a month for $10 ( eyebrows) nails ( SNS nail powder) abt $45. So that's abt $55 dollars a month. I'm in NC so my prices cld b more r less far as nails n getting ur eyebrows done. KZbin 101 cn teach u hw 2 do ur nails, hair, etc. Ijs

[@LadyAngela678]

Avoid Rainbow clothing and spandex clothing at ALL costs!! 😂

[@trinesha7716]

I exercise using KZbin videos and walk the neighborhood. I also cleanse my skin every morning and night and wash or change out the pillowcases every week.

[@Proverbs-vw2sc]

Use a soap or cleanser with goat's milk to cleanse your face for clear skin. Also aloe vera gel helps fade acne scars.

[@jackeelaboratory72]

This man said” looking like you just fell off the back of a train!” Lmbooooo 😆😆😆

[@TiffanyBTV]

“That’s not in the budget. I’m tryna have financial peace. I just lick em” 😂😂😂😂😂

[@nessparadis6948]

@@LA-wv7gf , he’s always making jabs at DR, and it makes me laugh bc I’m trying to be on that financial peace AND have an abundance mindset.

[@TheFactsofLife237]

If you don't take of yourself, how can you possibly take care of someone else? How can you take care of a husband? Self care is urgent as we strive to be our best! Happy 2021! Life Coach Sophie

[@coachnatishamommatish185]

#TheMoneyWoman @Sophia Happy 2021 👑💃🎊 I know that right, we as woman must take care our face,nails,hair,feet&body!!! Much love Sis , peace&blessings unto you and yours!!!😘👑🙌☺

[@jzzsuccess]

My Zig Ziglar, Tony Gaskins. Almost listened to that plucking weeds Sunday sermon 16x’s! I need to hear all of this cause it’s already what is on my heart and this is like always, my CONFIRMATION.

[@smiles83ish]

Me too! 💜

[@coachnatishamommatish185]

👑🙌😘

[@Rdy2win]

Amen! Yes 🙌🏽

[@april85br]

Listening to you and my mom walks in saying “speak brother! He’s telling the Truth” 😂 keep doing ya thing Tony! We appreciate you!

[@KrystleLaughter]

The truth hurts, but it’s necessary. Thanks Tony.

[@coachnatishamommatish185]

Amen, so true sis!👑🙌😘

[@ClaraCouturexo]

You know at work tomorrow (first day back since Thursday) I can honestly say I’m excited because I’m going to have these videos LINED UP for me in my head phone in one ear and the other ear free to incoming patients!

[@Anairis0701]

That’s what I do at work lol Happy New Year

[@xannairriaware4251]

“If I clip them.. then I’ll be the 5th member of Jagged Edge” 😂😂😂😂😂😂💀💀

[@ezprod6564]

😂😂😂😂

[@LaMadrinaGrace]

Excellent advice, Tony. Ultimately ladies, we ought to be adorned with Jesus. With the necklaces, crown and jewels he places on us. Our bodies, including our appearance, are the temple of the Precious Holy Spirit. Eat better, sleep better, get into a good and fun physical fitness program for you, wear appropriate and lovely makeup that works for you, style your hair, nails etc. but make sure our houses are in order too. Keep our eyes on the beauty of Jesus Christ and the Holy Spirit shall usher us into true undefiled beauty inside and out. The man shall come when we are ready but Jesus is our first love. Blessings and Happy wonderful New Year 🔥🌈🌟

[@s.r.125]

I started getting ready for 2021 November last year! Lost 30 lbs and still going. Getting in shape jogging 7k 6 times a week, growing spiritually and mentally! Gotta work on my 3 B's...issa must!

[@takeauthority30]

Nowadays women don't mind changing the outside of themselves to look the "part" but when it's time to strip away mindsets and patterns there's a conflict. We should desire to be pure gold not 14k plated gold....just as we want a pure heart ❤ and body . Don't be in a rush for a thing (a man, a job, a title or position) go after God. Desire to be what He says you should be. Stop caring about what men say and inquire about what the Lord says. Growth is beautiful ....work on you and WAIT ON THE LORD

[@ShyXoxo1920]

Tony shifting the lace front!!!!! 😭😭😭😭😭😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@LifeCoachLi]

Yepppp-both Esther and Ruth 👑

[@4EverLisaTSS]

Yes I agree Tony woman should keep themselves together rather they are married or single. Good video.

[@queenofthesouth4205]

Tony, I workout 7 days a week. I walk or ride my bike. I am fully invested in myself. I wear "NIKE" from head to toe because their legging/ tights are excellent quality wash after wash!!!

[@StingM3Naptural]

Ladies please listen to Tony, as an esthetician it still blows my mind when a woman comes to see me and during the consultation she tells me “oh I only wash my face 2x a week” 🥴😧 this is unacceptable bc I see you with this 80inch silk weave but your face is congested with dirt😐 when you take care of your self from the inside out and invest in whole foods, fitness , and proper skincare, you will have a natural glow💕

[@nessparadis6948]

How’s that possible? If someone doesn’t user cleansers everyday, the could at least use a bar of soap in the shower.

[@StingM3Naptural]

@@nessparadis6948 Girl its possible😑😩 I did a facial earlier today and during my analysis, I said hmm what cleanser did you use today bc you’re very dehydrated (we can tell by the wrinkles in your forehead) her reply “oh I didn’t wash my face today”🤦🏽‍♀️ me😃 ok no problem bc I’m about to give you two cleanses 💁🏽‍♀️ she’s a sweet girl, but needs more discipline in that area, luckily she has good skin genetics.

[@ElonNicole]

I’m thinking the same thing Ness. Who doesn’t wash their face in the shower? 🤔🤔

[@MissTracy-Ann]

"You are enough...but there are different versions of you" ✔ Thanks TG 🙏🏾

[@yaniebtime7998]

I had to turn my phone down cus now Tony coming for me 🤣😩 I’m broke busted an disgusted but I’ll change 😌

[@whitneyallman8365]

Lol the first step is to realize that we have a problem 😂😂😂

[@coachnatishamommatish185]

Walk into your purpose!!! You got this sis. Happy 2021🙌🎊

[@yaniebtime7998]

@@coachnatishamommatish185 thank you so much! I will definitely be on it ♥️

[@elenanoelle5745]

This message came right on time! I've been preaching to the choir about how important it is to level yourself up, in all aspects of life, physically, mentally, emotionally, spiritually, before being concerned about being in a relationship. Some people just aren't ready to receive such a message. Meanwhile, I'm focusing on elevating myself while some women I know refuse to do the work on themselves and wonder why they continue to attract, low-value, no good men.

[@layamcnamara8787]

YESS presenting ourselves as our best version to attract the best version

[@louiseottley4995]

And believe me i am getting the best

[@tiffanymitchell-ross6902]

Back in the day we use to dress for success because you never knew whose watching but this person could help you to get a better job. So why not be your best self? Losing or gaining weight is not easy but gotta get on the work because BMI to high can cause diabetes and high blood pressure. You don't want to finally meet a spouse and be sick. I will admit since March 2020 Covid-19, being home it has gotten easy to be lazy jogging pants, PJ's & not have hair done working from home. However, I will make myself presentable if I must go out. Thanks Tony I appreciate your honesty which is the best policy. I can't stop laughing you are crazy! Going in today Tony. God bless you and your family, the truth shall set you free. Amen

[@christineporter9914]

Ikr, isn't Bro Tony something else 😂

[@stephaniemarie9850]

This is my tagline for my signature at work. Be YOUR Best

[@marvahammonds6850]

I remember when my eldest daughter told her lil brother girls don't like dirty boys we couldn't keep him out the bathroom lol.

[@nessparadis6948]

😂😂😂

[@overcomerbtbojesus]

😂🤣😂😂🤣 he’s listening 😂

[@patwilson1257]

Some people JUST DON’T GET IT, they got a rebuttal no matter what you say. But, thank you for taking the time to HELP them out. SMH

[@ClaraCouturexo]

As I journal?! Two videos! Wow! God’s glory! Praise GOD!!

[@VintageAfro91]

Yes! We have to be the best versions of ourselves period. There’s no getting around that. Side note: I just about died when Tony pretended to have a huge stomach. 🤣😂

[@Kathyyyyy123]

“You is a beaver”😂😂😂😂

[@TiffanyFG]

That was hilarious.

[@mymakersdaughter6041]

I peed my pants🤣🤣!

[@melissaadilene9744]

“well no that’s not In the budget I just lick them and that gives them a shine” had me dying 😂😂😂

[@daughteroftheking4301]

Tony, are you sure you aren't a comedian on the side? You have me screaming in this house! lol!

[@kristinbrittanysmith535]

2021 is going to be a great year...TG just gets better with time! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@yazmynebright5892]

I have to level up this yr. Great video.

[@Synquette]

Thanks Tony for this! The coaching call on Friday inspired me to level up, and help me break out the poverty mindset the next day I decided to go to the mall & get matched correctly for makeup because I said why not upgrade my look & I decided that I would try and purchase some quality makeup because I usually buy make up from the drug store (not to say there isn’t quality makeup at the drug store) I just wanted to get in the habit of exposing myself to the finer things in life. Unfortunately because of C19 the makeup people can’t touch your face BUT I walked away with some quality skin care products to improve my natural skin so when I do wear make up it’ll look better! So I’m excited to improve myself & my wardrobe I said I wasn’t going to buy anything for myself until im at my goal weight but why not treat myself to a nice pair of shoes or a quality purse in the meantime. I feel like this year I need to really focus on the body B in the three B’s more.

[@mirandaholley9797]

Dress nice for the size you are now. Represent for your current body type while you slim down.

[@blackspanese]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 The water bottle & the pillow nearly took me OUT!!!

[@21angali]

I know watching ads help so sometimes I will walk away and make a cup of coffee or tea and let the ads play. I am so glad that I came across Mr Gaskins. Knowledge and a laugh all for free.

[@YvetteP77]

This man delivery cracks me up 😂

[@specialt8042]

Tony was off the chain in this one 🤣🤣🤣

[@justsomeideas9594]

OOOOHHH WWWEEEE!!!!! Tony stepping on all kinds of toes in this one! This one had my dying laughing out loud, Tony even laughed at himself on this one. Seriously though, this is nothing but facts. We all should be always working on improving ourselves and not be complacent.

[@mybrwnisbeautifulhin1165]

I’m so excited about what 2021 has in store for me! Going to continue to do the work on my spiritual being, physical body, and mind.

[@kishacalhoun6414]

I appreciate your words of wisdom and knowledge. Whatever we need to change we must take necessary steps to improve. Thanks God bless you

[@salenasheppherd2834]

Tony is spot on in this video!!! Being on the journey of becoming a "Better you" is such an empowering and liberating journey! Not only are you preparing yourself for Who God has for you but you're also learning more about yourself as you evolve through the process. Physically, spiritually emotionally and financially.

[@love7loyalty-MHA]

Perfect video to conclude the night 💫

[@DeborahK55]

Your messages are spot on. I’m 25 and have been listening to your videos for about a year. You have helped me so much! God bless you.

[@tajaunjohnson5177]

I'm really thankful for your free course you just gave out if yall haven't went to go sign up at Tony Gaskin academy soul tie and self love course you will be very grateful like me

[@TrishC5280]

I can't with Mr. Gaskins and the pillow and the beaver nail biting 🤣 You are not lying in this video Mr. Gaskins 💯

[@yettabell]

I know this isn’t supposed to be funny but I be needing these laughs. I be cracking up, I hear you loud and clear though Mr. Gaskins

[@QueenOfWands1111]

The blessed tribe is here 🙏

[@imaniwilliams153]

“Who want somebody who nails look like u is a beaver?” 😂😂😂😂 God Bless you Tony !!❤️

[@marvahammonds6850]

I agree in keeping your appearance up

[@MarcinaRiley]

The parody of the Spirit of Beg to Differ is the absolute best.. it’s how and what a loving big brother would say to his sis, and it’s got the right amount of truth and positive emotion to integrate the lesson. So good! Thank you, Tony! ♥️

[@briana_b_]

This is probably one of my favorite videos 😂

[@mymakersdaughter6041]

Mine too!

[@bossbabe8797]

I agree. Everything you mentioned is a part of self love. How a person looks is a representation of how they feel about themselves. If you love and care about yourself you will always strive to be your best self. Looks and otherwise.

[@carolyndunbar7203]

Tony, you are hilarious!! The wigs though!!

[@DunstanW]

This was 🔥🔥🔥... I believe in investing in self, and if it's not the level you're able to afford, do you in that season, but don't get comfortable there... Coach Tony always putting it plan and easy to follow, I truly appreciate the nuggets of wisdom, confirming this journey I'm on 🙏🏾Blessings to you and your family... BLESSED TRIBE

[@coachnatishamommatish185]

Amen🙌🙌🙌👑😘🏆

[@MichElle-py8lk]

I don't know why ladies get so offended when a guy who works out, eats right and takes care of themselves is not attracted to them who are overweight/obese, doesn't eat right and say I'm "curvy" not realising a man doesn't want to do extra weightlifting!

[@bre_s9164]

A quote I came up with is “You are more than enough YOU DESERVE THE BEST YOU.” Don’t seek to validate or conform. When you’re your better self everything will fall or start to fall in place.

[@kilimanjaro5537]

This is the question I have to constantly ask myself: Am I doing this for validation from others or validation from myself?

[@bre_s9164]

@@kilimanjaro5537 I can definitely relate to that... trust your intuition or use your level of discernment to guide you. You can’t go wrong with those two. ❤️

[@Thatslaw]

You don’t have to get your nails done professionally. Just keep them well groomed and painted. That’s cheap! My cousin lives on government assistance due to being legally blind. In Alabama, she gets paid about $700 a month. That’s it, but manages her money so well. She always looks done up. Her nails are always painted and presentable. Her clothes are from Dollar General and Walmart most times, but she never looks cheap. She gets a lot of compliments on her appearance, especially her big beautiful natural hair.. which she managed to grow with good (but cheap) products. No excuses. If you went to her Instagram you wouldn’t think she was on government aide. And her apartment is so nice. New furniture, new TVs, super clean. Everything she has, she saved for. Super great at budgeting to the point I asked her to help me budget.

[@ms.butterlove9394]

I'm Glad you don't know my business....

[@Ashley21138]

@@ms.butterlove9394 lmao 🤣

[@mssouthernlady222]

May God continue to bless this young man and his entire family!

[@neeshas3191]

All the “oh’s” are killing me 😂

[@chocolatechick412]

It’s not just hair,nails and toes and material things it’s the attitude u might need to shift also I know girls who will pamper they self like nails,hair,toes,waxing, every other week and they have the most terrible attitude and loose booty 901 but expect a good man

[@kilimanjaro5537]

Yes! this is so true, you have to be more than just good looking physically but also have a good soul, mentally and spiritually.

[@iamTiffanyEmpowermentPodcast]

Tony is hilarious U got me hollering 🤣

[@Rdy2win]

Yes I'm starting a new eating lifestyle change. Order me an Ab and squat mini gym. Tread machine is next. Reviewing my closet. I'm doing a self evaluation with these video. Thank you Coach Tony! it's tight but it's right. 🙏🏽❤️💪🏽

[@debbiee.6990]

Tony I was laughing so hard about how you were describing the wig I was crying!!!

[@eversoslayed]

Whew my spiritual brother talk dat ishhh this video right here gon strike alot of weak bihs you speak the truth and nothing but the truth I was cracking up the whole video 😭😭😭😭

[@paulettecomrie2303]

The belly tho😂😂😂😂 true point. you have to be what you want to attract .

[@kaysgraphicalexpressions219]

Tony you just gave me a word....At the end . I like what you did , you save the best for last by saying we shouldn't settle for even the right person if we are not where we need to be...that took me out