Your Healing! | Independent Woman University | Tony Gaskins

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[@kishiamay3478]

“You’re tired of singing on microphone after microphone and you ain’t got nothing to show for it but a sore throat” Now you ready to go eat you some Peach Cobbler .. lmbo Tony idk where you get this stuff from but I enjoy every minute of it

[@TiffanyBTV]

😂😂😂😂😂 chiiiiiiilllleeeee

[@akuasalaam490]

I hollered 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣!!!!

[@sabrinalibakari1]

😂😂😂😂

[@kambajatarr9090]

Wooooooow when he was saying that I was so confused, now that I'm reading it out loud it clicked😅

[@donnajeffreys8252]

😂🤣 he cracks me up

[@beedabee1221]

Popping that tongue then saying “ohhh” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@officialwatchamber]

Bee 😭😭😭😭😭

[@CeeJay060]

Hilarious

[@CrystalsThoughts]

Right!???? 🤣😂

[@Fit_Ministry]

I be waiting for it on every video 😂😂

[@mmommo-hx4dx]

just love it!!

[@Jazz.Ministry]

Do not rush your healing process 🙏🏾

[@mochahontas4840]

... And don't let anyone ELSE rush you😑😉.

[@markesastewart4741]

I'm determined an committed to allowing God to healing my woundedness. I devorce licking my wounds to no longer beating myself up.Pursuing divine healing in journaling, taking notes no longer counseling myself out .

[@latricelynettemirroroflove8175]

I love it. I decided to take 6 months from dating to allow God to heal my heart and renew my mind, but its not east.

[@Neaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa]

I’m doing the same thing sis. And it is not an easy task by far. But God got us and we will come out renewed and restored.

[@latricelynettemirroroflove8175]

@@Neaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa Thanks. I will be praying with you. We worthy of the best.

[@tinajones1932]

My Sister, no, it won't be easy, however, it is necessary . You will be pleased with yourself and the end results. Please don't give up, stay determined.

[@officialwatchamber]

Latrice Luckett congratulations on that decision 💖

[@InspiredUno]

Congratulations, that is one of the best decisions you could make to truly and fully engage the healing process. I took some time, I call it a dating sabbatical. The Lord actually led me to that time and instructed me not to date. I’m grateful because I would have attracted the same type and been even more broken and bitter!

[@nadeidgedorcelus9607]

Tony, today my son asked me” did you subscribe to Tony Gaskins “? Because he is in my recommendations. I told him” I sure did. You are on every device in my home

[@mmommo-hx4dx]

nice

[@araceliscollazo5067]

“Love like you’ve never been hurt before” Amen!

[@kishacalhoun6414]

Thank you for addressing this. I myself as a single woman will not do any chasing but I am open and willing to love.

[@erynd.9911]

Nah we not out here chasing sis! The Bible says “HE who finds a wife”..but unfortunately there are some women out here that really think it’s ok to chase/pursue a man..I just can’t do it ..it doesn’t feel natural for me

[@kishacalhoun6414]

@@erynd.9911 amen!!!

[@peggyoneal325]

@@erynd.9911 , I am in agreement with you......

[@tanikawashington8246]

Exactly

[@nikolinabynina]

@Ashley Genius - - - 'u

[@ashleycbla]

It’s the women who go into the relationship like this 👀 “wide-eyed and don’t understand men”. Men know right from wrong it’s just too many women accepting the wrong because they either don’t have standards or truly don’t understand men.

[@mbrook4983]

Or just thinking they can change the man.. I’m preety sure all of us women can relate

[@JustBeingJae01]

*lipsmack* followed by the Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh takes me out every time *slaps knee* 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@CeeJay060]

Love that!

[@queenuthopia4003]

LMBO crying 😂😂

[@melodichomage1832]

“A slug is not going to settle down with a bottle of salt.” Hahaha!! Truth!!

[@mmommo-hx4dx]

wow trying to grasp that.....very good...

[@lovingme6896]

I have a biter soul and spirit after my ex broke up with me. I am trying to find myself and truly heal. The days are hard and I know things will get better. I will watch this because I know I need to hear it.

[@aze7324]

Me too

[@peacefulbliss323]

Acknowledging that you need to heal is your first step to healing. It gets better as you continue to grow and heal. Stay blessed!

[@cocoj2252]

God can take a feeling away from you. Read the Bible, heal and grow. Don’t feel that way. God has even you grace to move on with your life. You can be a better person for yourself. Time heals all of that, you just need to start the process of healing.

[@chocty03]

I went through that last year I know you probably heard this but it will get better an eventually you thank God for not giving you what you thought u wanted. I will pray for you.

[@andreamagyar7776]

Just feel the feels, be angry, bitter, whatever comes up. That is the right way to acceptance. In a year you will be fine. Give yourself time. Take care.

[@NaudiaLittle]

“Independent Woman University” yay! I love this already 🥺😪🙌🏾😌🥰 Tony plz talk abt getting rid of the spirit of fear & distrust 🙏🏾

[@officialwatchamber]

Anaudria UrFavorite Rapper yassss love this topic 🙌🏼🔥

[@TakishaDanet]

Hallelujah 👏🏾😌 yessss I rebuke the spirit of fear and distrust.

[@NaudiaLittle]

Takisha D. Fields I touch & agree with u. Amen 🙌🏾

[@SilverDragon.222]

Yes please, I need that the most 🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@nikkyshamz2696]

Prayers and doing the work to begin again intelligently

[@Annahbri]

I’m ready to hear this. I feel a dark cloud hovering over my head today. I just booked my first therapy session on your site and I hope it gives me some clarity.

[@officialwatchamber]

Annah congratulations on booking your session 🙌🏼💖 God bless you.

[@Annahbri]

WatchAmber thanks! It’s actually with you 😂

[@Annahbri]

Fiya ❤️

[@deonnadenae]

Prayer helps, praying for your strength and endurance 🙏🏽

[@deonnadenae]

Prayer helps, praying for your strength and endurance 🙏🏽

[@tinnyhartwill547]

I’m so happy that you decided to to this for the ladies! We woman have been put through the ringer and we need some guidance. I’m not giving up on men but it is hard to see these good qualities in the men when their representatives is vouching for the grown boy.

[@mistyjordan7147]

Ikr. 😇🙏💙💜💯

[@erynd.9911]

When he sucks his teeth and rolls his eyes omg 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂 whew he cracks me up lol bc this is exactly how some of us act ! But let me tell you something! I’ve learned to close my mouth right on up and just listen lol

[@cynthiasmith1583]

Ya. Always. 100. On. Time. Peace. And. God's. Blessing

[@toriyt2714]

One of the first lessons I received once I started watching his videos was to just stop talking and listen.

[@avianne]

Lol, the fact that i was able to bring to memory the story of the woman who was annoyed at Tony for handing her a flyer tells me that i am probably on his channel too much, lol! I feel involved and in tuned. Thanks, Tony!

[@ChristinaAlanna]

Me too !! 🤣🤣

[@RubyRoxxie]

Same! I remembered it immediately! 🤣

[@Candace0730]

Right! 😆

[@milliontimesover2180]

Member berries

[@gigibrown_wright]

Same lol

[@Dr.Elaine1]

“When you are an independent woman, you cannot see yourself.” TG

[@cocoj2252]

I would love a video on how your wife teaches your son how to study.

[@evocentricpodcast1643]

😂😂😂😂... these women voices kill me.

[@CrownedxKay]

I cackle EVERYtime ‼️😂😩🤣

[@TARLEASE02]

They are Hi-larious!!! Right!?!? And he's always spot on.

[@officialwatchamber]

EVOcentric Podcast 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@erynd.9911]

Right i be rolling 🤣🤣🤣🤣 especially when he rolls his eyes lol

[@MoodyA1999]

Omg yes 😂😂😂... he’s so damn funny man

[@ShiaGirl18]

56:08 You're right, Tony! Ever since I changed my thoughts and started to speak what I want in my life, God has blessed me with so much more. i'm not saying God was not blessing me before, but it has increased.

[@cocoj2252]

I never thought about how my energy makes him a different man. I needed this video.

[@syrethashirley]

I would love it if your wife created a book on motherhood. I would love to get her insight on what it takes to be an awesome mom before I decide to have children someday. :)

[@Thebramefam]

I was raised since young by a single mother to be independent and strong willed. My dating life was affected because of that thought process. I now see potential daters as room to know them as a real person with emotions and baggage. Thank you for this channel and your Godly advice! God bless you and your family!🙏🏽

[@emmabennett1100]

May God continue to bless you and your family. Thank you for all that you do for us ladies.

[@LuhkeyCurls]

Tony’s transparency is pure comedy... Nobody: Tony: “I got to take my hat off, spray my hairline on and gone get in this gym” 😂😂

[@nikkyshamz2696]

😅😅😅😅

[@CrystalsThoughts]

🤣😂

[@tiffaniimichael]

I hollered when you said you look like 12:01 am💀💀💀💀💀😂😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@helenbooker4735]

That was funny!!

[@dezerismith7529]

😂😂😂😂

[@sharonwilchcombe9801]

Great teaching

[@tiffanyg1419]

Uncle Tony dropping Gems 💎 once again....Let’s goooooo!! 👊🏾👊🏾👊🏾

[@officialwatchamber]

T Gaines ALL FACTS!!!

[@DeoneeEats]

You a COMEDIAN, I'm screaming!!🤣🤣🤣👊🏽👊🏽👊🏽

[@paradiselivinginpurpose]

"You could've been on the treadmill...But you here in the comments..." I died a little there hahaaha

[@jewelsafire6844]

Very true, you do have to heal before you can start a new relationship. The process & timeframe are different for each individual. Show yourself a deep abiding love, before expecting it from someone else. Sounds corny, but no one can love ME better than ME. Peace & Blessings to those who continue to work on themselves. Don't give up!❤❣🙏🏽❣❤

[@akuasalaam490]

Sounds ACCURATE and BEAUTIFUL to me Queen!

[@jewelsafire6844]

@@akuasalaam490 Thank you🌹

[@SilviaHernandez-lx4zz]

Thank you girl, the support while you in pain feels so good 😘

[@jewelsafire6844]

@@SilviaHernandez-lx4zz Keep pushing forward. Hugs🤗

[@amykbarnes]

I’m so glad I hit that subscribe button! As a 27 year old single woman this coaching has helped me a lot. I’ve really been working to better myself and get closer to God. Thanks Tony for all your advice and words of wisdom, as well as a bit of humor mixed in😅🙏🏻

[@jussjess2829]

When Tony said, “ A slug is not gonna settle down with a bottle of salt.” I almost threw my phone out the window from laughing so hard. 🤣🤣 I just can’t

[@TakishaDanet]

“ he at Master P and nem college IDC “ 😩😂

[@purpleDescent]

Is IDC I don’t care or for something else?

[@heyyashleyyy2669]

Mekeda ICDC College lol

[@TakishaDanet]

HeyyAshleyyy exactly ! ICDC 👏🏾😂

[@purpleDescent]

Takisha D. Fields whAt does it stand for? @Heyyashleyyy

[@2LoveJones]

Good afternoon Queens 👑

[@RoslynRaymie]

"We Speak From Where We Are" -TG...Facts!

[@nooraoraha9294]

Tony you have really inspired me. I have been working and getting a promotion, going back to studying online in construction and will be opening up a business in a few years (I always meet my goals), I have been taking myself out on dates, getting into the word, delving deeper in my relationship with God, working on my body and it has been so life changing ever since I have come to look at your videos. You are doing amazing because I was a woman with a reprobate mind to the Nth degree because I was so hurt, bitter and so disgusting and angry! But slowly and surely, I am slowly healing.

[@MinaMina-nb5tl]

Thank u, Tony! U helped me dodge a bullet concerning a man a few months bck! One of ur vlogs talked abt grown boys mind games. He tried 2 run those mind games on me. They worked @ first but I started watching ur vlogs. Everything changed 4 me 4 the better. I think he's given up 4 now. I think he will try again but this time with ur help. I will b prepared 4 him! Thanks, again! 🙏🏽

[@lashawnda.michelle]

The last book that I read was A Woman’s Influence. ✨ I enjoyed it so much. It has definitely helped me on my healing journey and understanding my worth. Thank you Sheri and Tony Gaskins! 💕🙌🏽

[@reneehernandez4797]

I've been single for 4 months now. My relationship with God is stronger, focused more on work, working on me, my credit has gone up and now I'm going to purchase my own place soon, so many blessings I have coming my way... I have been watching and listening to Tony Gaskins now for 1 year and he has taught me so much and motivated me to be better thank you Tony Gaskins! you're a blessing to so many of us 💛 Bless you 🙏 ❤

[@Longliverey]

Same here !

[@goingmyrightway]

You can see how comfortable Tony is in front of the camera now. The voices, the skits, the tangents. It's hilarious.

[@poetcapri17]

Listen Mr.Gaskins and Mrs. Gaskins book came into my life and help me understand what i was doing wrong and helped me to let go of what has been the worse relationship experience. They filled on the holes my mother left in my education on how to navigate matters of the heart.

[@mmommo-hx4dx]

yep my cheating ex of 38 years loved it each time I found out. he loved to see the reaction. sickening. not anymore, so happy now I cry.

[@goldanai]

Bapbapbap! Tony Gaskin seh Independent Woman University!!! I'm Jamaican and fully here for it🙏🏽 love your videos! Shout out to your wife for raising such a well educated man!

[@donnahemmings6265]

Girl these video has been a blessing. Fellow Jamaican here, we both know our Jamaican men🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@daniellesullivan5]

I def watch your videos on auto play 🙌🏾

[@madisonboucher8579]

He be dropping gems & making me laugh 😂

[@venda1008]

Yes i listen to Tony everyday, and I certainly have a mindset shift. I have grown tremendously ,Thank you so much Tony. I am constantly working on the 3bs to live my God given purpose

[@donnajeffreys8252]

I appreciate you telling us about men because just like you said, men know men and women know women. Reading books and listening to good God fearing men like you has really helped me to make much healthier choices, infact I've stop dating about five years ago, been celibate 11 years. Enjoying the peacefulness of singleness 💙 working on me.

[@brianicole181]

Definitely about to create a notebook to give to my daughter. That is such a great idea!!!

[@arianna2679]

Hey Tony, how are You doing today? We need you and appreciate You for helping us. I plan to continue to listen and join your university for growth and wisdom.

[@sabrinalibakari1]

God bless you Tony, thank you for putting out all this free content✨ Just bought 2 of your books from amazon which are, ‘What Daddy never told his little girl’ and ‘Dream chaser’🔥& God bless all the women trying to better themselves and putting in the work🥰

[@faye_bulous]

I’ve bought ´Mrs Right’ and I’m about to buy ‘woman of influence’ book, read je first one in few hours 🤩❤️

[@sabrinalibakari1]

FatooBoop check you! My aim is to get a collection of all his books!😂 keep going sis and you’ll see such a big change in all aspects of your life, now don’t forget the 3B’s😘

[@officialwatchamber]

Sabrina Ali-Bakari Dream chaser was the bomb!!! 🙌🏼

[@sabrinalibakari1]

Alexia Bartholomew oo thanks for the review!💓 can’t wait to start🥰

[@sabrinalibakari1]

WatchAmber honestly can’t wait😜 just subscribed to your channel💓

[@saliciapresley8764]

🤣🤣🤣🤣Spray your hairline on and go train! Tony you are so funny. Having me crack up during my lesson!

[@angelawatkins1234]

Tony is hilarious 🤣 He said you tired of the video but you come to my page and click the video 😂

[@reinaquisha9418]

Good afternoon blessed tribe ✨

[@mariw2185]

That ooohhhhh takes me out. I always find myself doing it with him 😂😩. Finding Tony has helped me finally let go of my grown boy soon to be ex hubby

[@BlackPlightPeople]

Thank you for this because l was feeling some kind of way today. I was remembering what I went through with my ex-husband.

[@deonnadenae]

You’re always on point. Healing was the best thing I could have done for myself. Everything has been better since I decided to heal from my past trauma. Sometimes it just takes some self examination to really see what others see.

[@small11989]

“I’m not making fun of you, Go ahead Go ahead” 😂

[@cheekscheeks5840]

Hear listening again thank God fir favor

[@Glamrocs]

Just by the TITLE I’m ready!

[@evocentricpodcast1643]

Assess the situation and then make changes...

[@luluxinator7935]

Been married 7 yrs & u are spot on with all ur wisdom it takes work ppl want results with no journey & wedding photos they can flex with it takes work my marriage is perfect & I wish I could bless the world with this love but the work must be done 💜gotta be the women he wants for him to be the Man U want

[@katrinawilliams5928]

Not ready to go eat some “peach cobbler,” cause yo tired of “singing on microphones!!!” I just died!💀💀💀💀🥴🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@daughterofzion2146]

Healing is a constant work I believe. I find when I call myself taking too long of a break, I start back falling off wagon all over again

[@jayray420]

Tony, God speaks through you. Praise the Lord!

[@denisedean8503]

Yes Healing is very important I'm on my Journey right now taken my time. GOD BLESS YOU TONY GASKINS KEEP BRINGING AND SHARING THIS KNOWLEDGE 🙏

[@kimberlyyoung4843]

I receive your insight Tony. I will not be eating any peach cobbler! (Niecey Nash)

[@sharoncobb2547]

Niecy Nash has serious issues!

[@GoldenGraham25]

My gawd!😖🤦🏾‍♀️

[@lauralei4446]

You have great insight. I was in several relationships that were pretty bad and I then decided to step back and work on myself and follow my dreams and visions. I haven’t been in a relationship in years and I just really don’t want to be. I am doing all of the work on myself so when I do find someone in the future, I can be my best self. I will never regardless of what I have experienced be a man bashed because there are many great men. I have never had trouble attracting men but realized because of unconscious mindsets about myself I was allowing the wrong men into my life and with Gods help really started to heal myself. You’re appreciated

[@bosslady325ilme]

Tony said “Worry about yourself”🤣

[@anik6523]

When you said a man would rather leave than cross over you cuz you’re pure I actually had a man tell me this. That I was very pure and he knew he was not and not ready to change. Fair enough.

[@yolamayo2689]

This is true about some women being done with men.... The girl that does my hair she has a girlfriend now after the last guy left her while she was pregnant

[@nata6835]

She probably had a thing for women and just didn’t know it. Lol

[@Melissiabeats]

Tony sometimes i forget how funny you are literally im in stitches on this. Words of truth keep up the good work 😭😂😂

[@donnadaniels5095]

Thank you Tony, 🎯 absolutely right people, are broken and hurting, but I find all they want to do is complain🙉 not heal🙏

[@keeplivingintruth]

You know Mr. Tony Gaskins you have Kind eyes. I could tell by mens eyes when theyve let their egos go. GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.

[@missangel412]

BLESS YOUR HEART TONY, for putting up with that mess and STILL SHOWING UP AND SHOWING OUT, teaching ... Amen💛

[@mymakersdaughter6041]

Thank you for this TG! I come ready to learn every time I sit down to watch one of your videos, because, I don't know what I don't know and I want to learn. Daily, I am watching and/or listening to your videos, podcasts, sermons, etc so that I can continue to grow so that when I get back out there, I am armed! So, THANK YOU Tony for passing on your knowledge. Many of us are so grateful!!!!

[@MakeupTiffany]

That deer story though!!! 😂 I can always count on Tony for lessons and laughs! 🙌🏿

[@MakeupTiffany]

I love the idea about putting negative thoughts in a jar and replacing them with good ones as you grow! Thanks Tony!

[@donnahemmings6265]

Oh my lord, Tony is hilarious. 🤣🤣🤣. I love listening him. He has helped me identify the grown boys.

[@annafabjanczyk531]

Thank You from the bottom of my heart for Your wisdom. I am a woman in the process of healing.God bless You . Greetings from Eastern Europe,Poland .

[@juliereams1720]

Thank you! Couldn’t sleep and watching this at 230am. I really need to heal from my pain. Need help starting. Love your messages, thank you for being real

[@kadinethompson9442]

I just had this conversation. I will not allow any bad situations that I’ve been in before cause me to be a monster to new people that want to come into my life.

[@shereses.3298]

I think I learned the way of man through my marriage and divorce. I am definitely still on my healing journey, although I have definitely dated since the divorced a year and a half ago. I think for me its the patience. Men require a lot of patience. Patience that I have yet to fully cultivate, and I am totally fine with saying that.

[@RubyRoxxie]

I remember you saying your dad telling you to love like you’ve never been hurt before in previous videos. I didn’t realize he was telling you this BEFORE the quote was viral EVERYWHERE years ago. It really is everywhere to this day! So awesome to know where it came from! Can you trademark it I wonder? 🤔 Not sure if that’s even possible but would be amazing if so! ☺️

[@SFreeanna]

I am in love with this series!! So thankful for your content, courses, and your authenticity!! God bless you and your family!🤍✨

[@hillalthea5816]

😅😅 I’m dying with the comedy in this serious video. Tony you are the big brother I never had 😂

[@ibcandy]

“You coulda’ been on the treadmill...” I’m dead ☠️☠️☠️

[@pamelatpwmsend1691]

Yes!" We must look at our situation, and make a change".

[@jenniferjohnson7310]

I'm so grateful to have you to listen to Tony. It helps a serial monogamist like me from jumping Right back into the Wrong relationship

[@yoyo-jt6yp]

Discovering this channel. And watching and learning has been a game changer for me. I know you wont see this comment brother tony but you have changed my perspective regarding life and men. I am so grateful to Lord for sending this blessing to me.

[@Micahsophia]

Girl me too, I knew some of this stuff, but needed to go back into class to regain more knowledge & new skills to keep me moving in the righ direction with men & my relationship with GOD. Tony is defentiely a blessing to so many men & women, a Real one.

[@Amih1018]

Once again, thank you for what you do.

[@officialwatchamber]

When he gets up out of the chair to trade places with another man 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@natashavaugn1018]

"that worked on the last one? that worked on the last one??" AHA me in my head 25/8.

[@dublingirl1691]

Great message! Listening to this video again. It’s not enough to just listen to fill in the time. You have to apply it and put it into action! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻

[@EarthGurl08]

A little accountability goes a long way.

[@mimidph]

I started listening to Tony about 2 months ago. I wish I knew about Tony about 3 years ago or sooner. I hear you Tony. I appreciate your service to helping women. Your teaching and coaching really helps me. I just want to say that you are so funny. I get so tickled watching you talk about how women talk and act. You are the truth! Keep up the good work brother. God really has worked a beautiful work in you. You look like a man of God! May God continue to bless you!

[@LIVH_Olivia]

Tony did you say ‘you have inter-neck 🌐(internet)?’ I’m laughing but I’m healing at the same time.This message is necessary for women.

[@JabouJ.]

You’re a great storyteller I be over here cracking up 😂 but while learning!! Your insight is a gift, thank you! 👏🏾

[@cindeed4422]

Love your quotes that you write and that you state from others in your videos Tony. I love to write my own as well. My quote: “A leopard doesn’t change his spots unless he has Jesus in his heart”. The change has to be inside of you not on the outside. My husband said he used to take women to the park on a first date and not out to eat at Red Lobster. He said that told him a lot about what kind of person she is. He took me to the park on our first date and we were married over 22 years!

[@FutureAttyInTheMaking]

Confirmation, Confirmation, Confirmation!!!!Blessings to you all! 🙏🏼

[@nolavegadaboss]

If you settle for a cheater, then you are a concubine. 😭👌🏽

[@akuasalaam490]

Chilllllleee 😒😫😫😫😫😫🤣

[@CeeJay060]

Absolutely

[@elizabethschilling7178]

You tired of singing on the microphone and getting "so throat" 😂😂😂😂

[@jennifersalinas716]

😂😂

[@chocty03]

I'm done 😂😂😂

[@moniquealexander9375]

Lmaoooo he is something else. I love it 😀

[@yw6502]

😂🤦🏾‍♀️

[@nikkirowland]

💀😂😂😂😂

[@thevisionofbeautycoaching]

Right on time!! 💫

[@keelaw6749]

Right on time Tony!!