Be The Woman He Never Wants To Lose By Leaning Back The RIGHT Way + The WRONG Ways That Turn Men Off

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Helena Hart

Helena Hart

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@HelenaHartCoaching
@HelenaHartCoaching 4 жыл бұрын
Check out our Magnetic Mastery online course here: www.chelsearoses.com/magneticmasterycourse If you're interested in private coaching with Chelsea, you can schedule a FREE consultation call with her here: chelsearoses.as.me/schedule.php?appointmentType=34430277
@iamrhondai
@iamrhondai 4 жыл бұрын
So excited! I just signed up. Thanks ladies❤️
@HelenaHartCoaching
@HelenaHartCoaching 4 жыл бұрын
You’re welcome, we’re excited to have you in the course! ❤️
@jacquelinedegruyter5356
@jacquelinedegruyter5356 4 жыл бұрын
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@jacquelinedegruyter5356 4 жыл бұрын
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@jacquelinedegruyter5356 4 жыл бұрын
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@crystaljenkins1653
@crystaljenkins1653 4 жыл бұрын
He pursued me and was texting pretty much everyday but now has personal things going on. I no longer hear from him very often and have just let it be. If he wants to reach out he will and in the mean time I’ll keep working on myself and losing weight as I have been.
@HelenaHartCoaching
@HelenaHartCoaching 4 жыл бұрын
Yes, absolutely! 💕
@melatimohdsalleh1880
@melatimohdsalleh1880 4 жыл бұрын
The same as he my guy did. It’s 4 days with nothing no text or call at all after he pursued me every day until we had a disagreements. I’m always taking care of me and let him be so if he figures out his feelings which isn’t sure of anymore then he will reach out again to me. Let go and let more other people and things if it’s him or not coming towards me.
@soystef
@soystef 4 жыл бұрын
This video was SO HEALING- reinforced what I knew and forgot. Spent a few days straight moping around in my self-pity after being dumped... but you ladies knocked some sense back into me. He wasn't that great of a match for me and he didn't want to step up in masculine ways that he should have. I'm feeling SUCH a weight off, happiest I have been in days ... all thanks to you!
@chelsearosecoaching
@chelsearosecoaching 4 жыл бұрын
I'm so happy to hear that!! thank you for sharing!
@HelenaHartCoaching
@HelenaHartCoaching 4 жыл бұрын
I’m so glad this was helpful, lots of love to you! ❤️
@LisaGemini
@LisaGemini 4 жыл бұрын
There are millions of selfish people out there who will waste your time. If he crosses a boundary, let him know you have to end it. I've had to end a few budding relationships. No loss, ladies, it just means there's a better guy out there for you! Love and protect yourself first. Don't be afraid of expressing your feelings in a caring way.
@HelenaHartCoaching
@HelenaHartCoaching 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your insights here, Lisa! 💜
@LisaKinoti
@LisaKinoti 4 жыл бұрын
I love this! Take care of yourself first and if you must contact him, only do it from a place of happiness and security. RELAX!!! 🙏🙂
@HelenaHartCoaching
@HelenaHartCoaching 4 жыл бұрын
I’m glad this resonated with you, Lisa! 💓
@LisaKinoti
@LisaKinoti 4 жыл бұрын
@@HelenaHartCoaching awwe.. Thank you for responding. Yes, been doing a lot of self-love work and realizing that everyone is me pushed out and that when am in a bad place mentally, everyone rebels. Lol. 😂 😂 😂 So, yes, I know this all too well. I would love to have a personal talk with you though. Any chance this could happen?
@annamarie3288
@annamarie3288 4 жыл бұрын
Im happy to hear this. I just said No to something he wanted, I feel like this might be the end too. But it's okay because I respected myself. Thanks ladies 💕
@HelenaHartCoaching
@HelenaHartCoaching 4 жыл бұрын
You’re welcome, I’m glad you were able to take a stand for yourself! 💗
@lindafanat9829
@lindafanat9829 4 жыл бұрын
This was one of the best "Leaning Back" and "Feminine Energy" you tube I have watched. You gave so much clear information. It was super helpful. Thank you both. You are awesome.
@HelenaHartCoaching
@HelenaHartCoaching 4 жыл бұрын
You’re welcome Linda, I’m so glad this was helpful! 💝
@richbeauty212
@richbeauty212 2 жыл бұрын
I absolutely love this session. One of the best advice I've heard. I will replay this over & over. I too wish I'd learned this in school. Feels good to know that the dynamic can switch in seconds if we express our needs and boundaries in a correct way. Love it!
@HelenaHartCoaching
@HelenaHartCoaching 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! I’m glad you enjoyed it. ❤️
@ananeixon
@ananeixon 4 жыл бұрын
I have found difficult to set boundaries and I started to do it from a place of non flexible angry or defensive attitude. Then I realized that even though he was respecting them it was not really comfortable and loving conversations so the trust was still not there. I am trying now to come from a loving place expressing my need or boundaries from a safety position (it is possible and I deserve it) but it is sometimes hard to learn this or access to your assertive part. I guess it is a process... first you have no boundaries and then you have strict non possible boundaries expressed with resentment (you don’t do this to me anymore) until you find the balance of the femenino energy to have boundaries integrated in your believe system 😌
@HelenaHartCoaching
@HelenaHartCoaching 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your experience here Ana, I know many women can relate. This video on boundaries should be helpful if you haven’t seen it yet: kzbin.info/www/bejne/nZi3i3SAj9NkhKs
@sarathephoenix7051
@sarathephoenix7051 4 жыл бұрын
Yes.. me keeping quiet, were just dating... Going very slow... I finally just spoke up... He listened well. Timing had never been right... He wanted to get back to me... I think he wasn't ready for an open honest mature conversation. Can't wait to hear back what he says... (He left town for work) he has been messaging though. I feel so good that I did it... I was afraid... Either stay or go, at this point, our relationship was getting stagnant... thanks for this video, it's perfect
@HelenaHartCoaching
@HelenaHartCoaching 4 жыл бұрын
You’re welcome! 💕
@kaylasheppard7746
@kaylasheppard7746 4 жыл бұрын
How did it go??
@sarathephoenix7051
@sarathephoenix7051 4 жыл бұрын
@@kaylasheppard7746 he came over last night, brought flowers and made dinner for my daughter and I. It's been a month that he's been gone. If I judge by actions I'd say it went well. The only comment he made during our conversation after dinner was that he didn't want to be controlled. Not me must be leftovers from previous relationships... I know where he is coming from. I don't want that either.him being gone gave me a lot of time to figure out what I want this new adult relationship to be like..
@junebrezgis1652
@junebrezgis1652 4 жыл бұрын
This is so great Thank you! I got out of a 4 year relationship that did not feel right. I finally know I can do so much better. He was nice but not the one.
@HelenaHartCoaching
@HelenaHartCoaching 4 жыл бұрын
You’re welcome, June! I’m glad you listened to your intuition. My latest video might help give you some confirmation that you made the right decision: kzbin.info/www/bejne/pXfZl4GjjLKom6c
@huongnguyen2504
@huongnguyen2504 3 жыл бұрын
Two beautiful coaches! Thank you so much, Helena and Chelsea!
@HelenaHartCoaching
@HelenaHartCoaching 3 жыл бұрын
You’re very welcome! ❤️
@bethshaferman6712
@bethshaferman6712 4 жыл бұрын
Bummed to miss this in real time! Thank you ladies. Can't wait for the next , much needed video. I met my guy after I completely healed from an ex. Everything was so good and then he asked for space. I miss talking to him daily, the good-nights etc. I have that "losing him" fear. The struggle is real😩, I wish I could just live in the outcome and not overanalyze anymore. Ughhh. Thank you Helena💗💕
@HelenaHartCoaching
@HelenaHartCoaching 4 жыл бұрын
You’re welcome Beth, I can post that video next! 💞
@karrynlipsett5187
@karrynlipsett5187 4 жыл бұрын
I feel u & I also feel like I could say so much on this subject but for once im gonna not. I'll leav it up to the pros to help u.
@bethshaferman6712
@bethshaferman6712 4 жыл бұрын
@@karrynlipsett5187 thank you. Feel free to offer your insight/advice!
@karrynlipsett5187
@karrynlipsett5187 4 жыл бұрын
Hi Beth, I would talk 2u about things iv learned & what iv only just been thru myself over msgr, i jst dont want 2b goin into it all on here. I don't think its fair & some things I just want to keep personal. - However I do know what an awful, trying time u must b having & how exacerbating it gets.💗🤗
@bethshaferman6712
@bethshaferman6712 4 жыл бұрын
@@karrynlipsett5187 thank you so much. I don't have msgr. Just email. It's not awful and I just have to understand that in order for him to keep appreciating me, I have to respect him and his needs. In the meantime, trying to cultivate peace of mind with yoga practices, workouts , reading and catching up on with series I normally wouldn't have time for. I need to understand my desire is there bva the Universe and to not focus on him so much and have faith he comes around when I he's ready? Maybe then I'll bealso. Or ill just become a nun, might be easier. 🙊🤣.
@christinaregan-ardito4559
@christinaregan-ardito4559 4 жыл бұрын
This was so amazing and helpful to understand how I am functioning! I am grateful to step back and continue to be my independent self and let go and let it flow.
@HelenaHartCoaching
@HelenaHartCoaching 4 жыл бұрын
I’m so glad this was helpful for you, Christina! 💗
@kyleighcooley8667
@kyleighcooley8667 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for answering. And yes he has expressed that there are romantic feelings between us and it's more of an unspoken knowing that there is a potential for more, but the friendship aspect had made it a little more complicated to navigate these principals. But I got a lot of great info from you and Chelsea so thank you again.
@HelenaHartCoaching
@HelenaHartCoaching 4 жыл бұрын
You’re welcome Kyleigh, I’m glad this was helpful! We’d love to hear how everything goes for you. 💞
@donnebonne
@donnebonne 3 жыл бұрын
@ about 58:00, of you're engaged and your sex isn't great, ask yourself, "am I ok with this for the REST OF MY LIFE?" Sex is only about 10% of your relationship, but it affects all the rest of your life. You will begin to dread having him even touch you. So as Chelsea says you MUST have that heart to heart convo with your man. If he doesn't care about pleasing you now, he certainly won't want to try harder to please you AFTER you get married.
@HelenaHartCoaching
@HelenaHartCoaching 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your insights here, Donna! 💛
@DL-vibes
@DL-vibes 3 жыл бұрын
Once you focus on yourself the rest falls into place.
@HelenaHartCoaching
@HelenaHartCoaching 3 жыл бұрын
Yes, thanks for sharing! 💞
@tamaraschmitt6184
@tamaraschmitt6184 4 жыл бұрын
I Love all my guy friends...in the Middle of a 10 year break up...Thznk u for this, it's helping me!!!
@HelenaHartCoaching
@HelenaHartCoaching 4 жыл бұрын
You’re welcome Tamara, I’m glad it helped! ❤️
@sallybanks4361
@sallybanks4361 4 жыл бұрын
I've been listening and learning mainly from Helena and Jack Butler for just over a year now and have so far identified a few key things about me and my energy. I have in past relationships either withdrawn completely to protect myself or leant forward out of neediness. My true feminine essence is really starting to show through since I started deliberately practicing present awareness and being consciously aware of my intrinsic value. From this place I am redescovering my boundaries and gaining deep sense of peace.
@sallybanks4361
@sallybanks4361 4 жыл бұрын
And I'm loving this interview with lovely Chelsea and the last one about how she met her man in France. It was so liberating and so informative. 🌻
@HelenaHartCoaching
@HelenaHartCoaching 4 жыл бұрын
I’m so happy to hear that Sally, thanks for sharing your experience here! 💗
@chefsepi372
@chefsepi372 Жыл бұрын
2023 this is hitting all the correction tones, topics and pure want to heal women!!!!
@HelenaHartCoaching
@HelenaHartCoaching Жыл бұрын
Thank you! This podcast episode I recorded with Chelsea might also be helpful - it’s available on Spotify here: open.spotify.com/episode/26XozzBwzEctyoPtIziVhT?si=d0x4VQRHTTGkn4aIvA-9kw …and on Apple Podcasts here: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/master-your-magnetism-with-helena-hart/id1585522214?i=1000581758639
@Supsup7777
@Supsup7777 4 жыл бұрын
Right there... if you can’t or allow to express your needs it’s not a safe man. I was punished by my ex for expressing any needs. It didn’t start that way but it got so bad I couldn’t say anything. He did not want to try to make me happy.. so the writing was on the wall for me. But.. I learned and I grew from that relationship!!
@HelenaHartCoaching
@HelenaHartCoaching 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your experience here, Marisa! I know many women can relate. 💞
@sweetness34km
@sweetness34km 4 жыл бұрын
Only you can make yourself happy. It's called self love. Until you understand that nobody but you can make yourself happy and stop looking for other people to make you happy nothing will change.
@Supsup7777
@Supsup7777 4 жыл бұрын
Music lovers yeah I already know that. Thank you.
@user-yk9sk7pg6v
@user-yk9sk7pg6v 3 жыл бұрын
This was very good - thank you both.
@HelenaHartCoaching
@HelenaHartCoaching 3 жыл бұрын
You’re welcome, I’m glad you enjoyed it! Here are a couple more recent livestreams I’ve done with Chelsea if you’d like to check them out: kzbin.info/www/bejne/pJ23fXWwpqySisk and kzbin.info/www/bejne/mGfchpqHeNmlsKc.
@SurrealismByKia
@SurrealismByKia 3 жыл бұрын
I personally won't tolerate it if my man does not talk to me or hang out with me on the holidays.
@HelenaHartCoaching
@HelenaHartCoaching 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing! 💞
@staceyannsawyers7392
@staceyannsawyers7392 2 жыл бұрын
Just broke up with my guy for this. He thinks I am controlling because I want to spend Christmas with him.
@Cre8tivedz331
@Cre8tivedz331 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing! Look forward to more on this topic
@HelenaHartCoaching
@HelenaHartCoaching 4 жыл бұрын
You’re welcome, Cindy! 💕
@FEMSuccessCircle
@FEMSuccessCircle 4 жыл бұрын
Wonderful ladies thank you
@HelenaHartCoaching
@HelenaHartCoaching 4 жыл бұрын
You’re welcome, Charise! 💕
@tianiemitchell5692
@tianiemitchell5692 4 жыл бұрын
I would start suggesting what you would like and if he doesn't give you what you would like go do it with someone else start setting the boundaries like Elena said
@HelenaHartCoaching
@HelenaHartCoaching 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your insights here! 💜
@yawyawdumaguete4103
@yawyawdumaguete4103 3 жыл бұрын
Watching from the Philippines
@HelenaHartCoaching
@HelenaHartCoaching 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching! Chelsea and I will be doing another livestream together tomorrow - here’s the link if you’d like to join us live or watch the replay: kzbin.info/www/bejne/pJ23fXWwpqySisk
@user-qu8sr6ii7p
@user-qu8sr6ii7p 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this video!! I’m beginning to understand the concept of leaning back and putting my energy on me . I’ve understood that my energy is about receiving but I’d love if you would talk about giving your man from a feminine place. Love you helena
@HelenaHartCoaching
@HelenaHartCoaching 4 жыл бұрын
You’re welcome, Maryam! Absolutely, this video should be helpful (I’d love to hear your experiences with this!): kzbin.info/www/bejne/b5rFq5JsYtBqd8U
@monet2251
@monet2251 4 жыл бұрын
Would you confront a cheater? How do you? Should you ignore it! Is it over always?
@ginevram3489
@ginevram3489 4 жыл бұрын
Can anyone tell me how long each live training in this course will be? An hour or so perhaps? Its during my workday but i really want to try the Magnetic Mastery course! I've been following Helena for years and she has made such a difference in my life. I can't wait to hear more from Chelsea too!
@chelsearosecoaching
@chelsearosecoaching 4 жыл бұрын
Hi love! I am so excited to have you in the course if you feel called! the trainings are about an hour long give or take and they will be recorded for you with lifetime access! if you can't make it the trainings live you can submit your questions to me in advance and I'll answer them on the Q&A portion of the live training! Please let me know if you have any more questions, you can also ask me via email at info@chelsearoses.com
@simonalibrenti2929
@simonalibrenti2929 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for your precious advice and your energy🌺💖
@HelenaHartCoaching
@HelenaHartCoaching 3 жыл бұрын
You’re welcome, Simona! I’ll be doing another livestream with Chelsea tomorrow - here’s the link if you’d like to join us live or watch the replay: kzbin.info/www/bejne/pJ23fXWwpqySisk
@keonagirl435
@keonagirl435 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah post that vid ! Insecure or doubt etc yes we need that!
@HelenaHartCoaching
@HelenaHartCoaching 4 жыл бұрын
I’ll be posting that one next weekend! 💗
@colleenmariebeautiful1897
@colleenmariebeautiful1897 4 жыл бұрын
Love This~❤ So Grateful for all that you've shared and just what needed to hear right now with where I am at with a Gentleman I'm getting to know!!! Thank You ☺
@HelenaHartCoaching
@HelenaHartCoaching 4 жыл бұрын
You’re welcome, I’m glad this came at the right time for you! 💗
@viciousscorpio22
@viciousscorpio22 4 жыл бұрын
Very informative information I appreciate the tips lady’s thank you 💞
@HelenaHartCoaching
@HelenaHartCoaching 4 жыл бұрын
You’re welcome, Lilly! 💗
@donnebonne
@donnebonne 3 жыл бұрын
You asked what isThe one thing I absolutely will not tolerate... that would be lying in any form...omission or commission. I let lies slide with my wasband for 26 years... never again. That includes doing what you say you're going to do... or at least text or call to let me know you're not able. This also means inconsistency.
@HelenaHartCoaching
@HelenaHartCoaching 3 жыл бұрын
Yes, that’s so important! Thanks for sharing. 💜
@Kmahersh01
@Kmahersh01 4 жыл бұрын
What do you do if your long term boyfriend is very loving, but VERY selfish and mostly thinks of his needs and gets lazy, forcing me to lean forward? For example, he rarely plans dates anymore, if so it’s just dinner. He always wants me to come over to his house, and somehow I always end up bringing food to cook dinner together. He usually cooks, but I have to bring the food. The one time I didn’t come over with food, he seemed upset and the next few times, he asked me well before dinner time to thaw out some fish (from my house) to bring for dinner - forcing me into bringing dinner. This seemed to come after we went out for sushi and the bill was $100. Way over priced. I feel like it was his way of making things even, but now we’re in this pattern of never going out anymore and me bringing dinner to his house almost every night. He makes about 5 times the amount of money that I do, so I’m taking it that maybe he only sees me as casual and not someone serious that he wants to invest in. We’ve been together for 2.5 years. How do I break this pattern? It makes me feel used but it seemed like the over priced sushi made him feel used. We’ve been out to eat at very nice places and the large bill was never an issue. I tried to lean back by not bringing food, but it just made him mad. What are your thoughts?
@HelenaHartCoaching
@HelenaHartCoaching 4 жыл бұрын
I would start by adjusting your mindset around him “forcing” you to bring dinner, and see that as a choice that YOU’RE making - that will help you feel less powerless in this situation. Have you let him know that you love spending time with him, and bringing food over to his place every night is starting to not feel good to you?
@vhayashi7369
@vhayashi7369 4 жыл бұрын
Sounds Narcissistic and selfish. If you are not happy, I would leave the Relationship. I had the same issues with my last boyfriend and told him and he refused to change and wasted more of my time. If you aren't happy, leave. I get the feeling he won't change.
@Kmahersh01
@Kmahersh01 4 жыл бұрын
I’m just re-watching this video. #1 hit home. “By not having a preference or standards, you’re going to attract a man who doesn’t want to know your preference or standards.” It says I need to get clear on my standards for dating. I struggle with this because I’ve always been passive and indecisive and struggle to enforce any boundaries. As a child, I never had a say with two dominant older brothers, so I learned to be happy just going with the flow. Now it’s carrying over into my relationships. I need coaching on how to figure out what I want in life/relationships and then how to actually enforce those standards. I’m so used to just being grateful for what I’m given and as a result attract self centered men where the focus is alway on them and never on me. Thank you, your videos are so helpful.
@HelenaHartCoaching
@HelenaHartCoaching 4 жыл бұрын
@@Kmahersh01 You’re welcome! Thanks for sharing your experience and insights here, I know many women can relate (myself included!). If you're interested in private coaching with Chelsea, you can schedule a free discovery call with her here (make sure to let her know you’ve seen this video): chelsearoses.as.me/?appointmentType=12356265
@TanyaChisholm
@TanyaChisholm 3 жыл бұрын
What if you are Married already? Divorce seems so drastic, but I’m not getting my needs met even when I’m asking clearly and kindly. Don’t want to dismiss someone and nit give them a chance to grow, but where do you draw the line when you have built a life together?
@HelenaHartCoaching
@HelenaHartCoaching 3 жыл бұрын
Hi Tanya, these videos might be helpful for your situation: kzbin.info/www/bejne/bYqoY4eDeZiEZ6s, kzbin.info/www/bejne/pmPVmaaDg7atgbc, kzbin.info/www/bejne/movKn3aYbN2NZ8k, kzbin.info/www/bejne/mJyzgHywh9GgoK8, kzbin.info/www/bejne/gqKpYYSwlNOHibc, kzbin.info/www/bejne/rqacnoRsotmZmbc and kzbin.info/www/bejne/e5vCdqRqhbhqitE.
@an.1465
@an.1465 4 жыл бұрын
So if you’re seeing a guy and he’s been communicating with you consistently, if he suddenly stop and goes a week without contacting you, can you say how it bothers you in a very loving and gentle way?
@HelenaHartCoaching
@HelenaHartCoaching 4 жыл бұрын
Yes, you absolutely can! It’s important to feel comfortable expressing your feelings like that, rather than “stuffing them down” or pretending anything. 💛
@andreatorluemke4982
@andreatorluemke4982 Жыл бұрын
Baby step your way through it ❤
@HelenaHartCoaching
@HelenaHartCoaching Жыл бұрын
I’m glad that resonated with you! 💕
@lifelover1149
@lifelover1149 4 жыл бұрын
Hello Good morning! From S.C. I have enjoyed watching you Helena for 3+ yrs.
@HelenaHartCoaching
@HelenaHartCoaching 4 жыл бұрын
Hi Jamie, thanks for watching! ❤️
@positiveandhealthy2728
@positiveandhealthy2728 4 жыл бұрын
Wishing everyone love ❤️
@Mrs.T305
@Mrs.T305 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you. This was much needed.
@HelenaHartCoaching
@HelenaHartCoaching 4 жыл бұрын
Love your positivity! 💖
@positiveandhealthy2728
@positiveandhealthy2728 4 жыл бұрын
@@HelenaHartCoaching Thank you!
@Jess-hp6rt
@Jess-hp6rt 4 жыл бұрын
Guys seem to have needs too, how to deal with that when you express your needs and those trigger a mans insecurities?
@oscarhill240
@oscarhill240 4 жыл бұрын
Love, love love you xxx
@happiness6488
@happiness6488 4 жыл бұрын
thank you so much, minute 15:30.... : my recent experience 😞 this is so helpful...! I should have found this video in my KZbin feed weeks ago!
@HelenaHartCoaching
@HelenaHartCoaching 4 жыл бұрын
You’re welcome, I’m glad this was helpful! 💗
@kimgordon3695
@kimgordon3695 4 жыл бұрын
Never sensor YOU. BE YOU 💝
@CleanSweetHome
@CleanSweetHome 4 жыл бұрын
You two are amazing! Thank you😇😇
@HelenaHartCoaching
@HelenaHartCoaching 4 жыл бұрын
You’re welcome! ❤️
@jasminedebjamatia4801
@jasminedebjamatia4801 4 жыл бұрын
Helena, what shall we do when our close ones think we should not take too long or else guys change mind Vs leaning back because the guy doesnt wants to rush things? Is there a time limit that we should know that actually it's not going to go to next level at all?
@jasminedebjamatia4801
@jasminedebjamatia4801 4 жыл бұрын
Many times he would say yes he wants a family for himself and we would meet and all but he got me into language school for settling with him but suddenly he got commitment phobic and broke up after a year. But still the question I asked you remains in my mind. I leaned too forward because I wanted to make him feel like coming home. But then I still question myself what to do when someone says not to take too long Vs leaning back .What would you say Helena.
@HelenaHartCoaching
@HelenaHartCoaching 4 жыл бұрын
What is this man doing right now - is he showing you with his actions that he wants to be with you in the kind of committed relationship you want?
@jasminedebjamatia4801
@jasminedebjamatia4801 4 жыл бұрын
@@HelenaHartCoaching we are in no contact yet he wishes me on my birthday and asks me if I and my family is doing fine if I am unavailable on social media. Doesnt like to get emotional msgs though. May be it's time to pursue other connection but if we get serious with someone, It's difficult to understand when should we not take too long (my neighbours and friends say) Vs leaning back
@HelenaHartCoaching
@HelenaHartCoaching 4 жыл бұрын
Leaning back NEVER means “waiting” for a man who’s not actively pursuing you. If he broke up with you and you’re in a period of no contact, I’d move forward in your life and trust that the right man for you isn’t going to let you slip away. 💜
@jasminedebjamatia4801
@jasminedebjamatia4801 4 жыл бұрын
@@HelenaHartCoaching True. Thank you dear Helena. Much love to you💖
@azieldagalea6962
@azieldagalea6962 4 жыл бұрын
Hi watching from Philippines
@HelenaHartCoaching
@HelenaHartCoaching 4 жыл бұрын
Hi, thanks for watching! 💜
@inspirationsbyheather4319
@inspirationsbyheather4319 4 жыл бұрын
How does a person stop attracting narcissist...because apparent.. I keep having that come in that's not what I want at all. I left a relationship and now I know what I want but still get the same results and i'm getting breadcrumbs...it upsets me so.. when I gotten close to certain gents..They always go back to being all about them. How do I stop this
@cryptointegrations9854
@cryptointegrations9854 4 жыл бұрын
Learn about and establish clear boundaries and learn about what a codependent is. Learn how to not be codependent.
@cryptointegrations9854
@cryptointegrations9854 4 жыл бұрын
I was in a bad grandiose narcissist codependent relationship that was crushing.
@cryptointegrations9854
@cryptointegrations9854 4 жыл бұрын
I had no boundaries or self love at the time.
@inspirationsbyheather4319
@inspirationsbyheather4319 4 жыл бұрын
@@cryptointegrations9854 I do that but apparently. Its seems to be all about them. I'm setting standards. Enough is enough. I know what I'm worth and not taking breadcrumbs.
@cryptointegrations9854
@cryptointegrations9854 4 жыл бұрын
En Joy beautiful said! This sinks in so well. Thank you for sharing your feedback.
@lyndamcmullen9410
@lyndamcmullen9410 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you both ♥️
@HelenaHartCoaching
@HelenaHartCoaching 4 жыл бұрын
You’re welcome, Lynda! 💝
@fy9526
@fy9526 4 жыл бұрын
How do you respond when he comes back?
@HelenaHartCoaching
@HelenaHartCoaching 4 жыл бұрын
These videos should be helpful, depending on your situation: kzbin.info/www/bejne/j5XZo3SHhL9obMk, kzbin.info/www/bejne/fmHIiZKhasqfi7s and kzbin.info/www/bejne/jHbOq2CFiLt3mNE.
@fy9526
@fy9526 4 жыл бұрын
@@HelenaHartCoaching thank you 🙂
@HelenaHartCoaching
@HelenaHartCoaching 4 жыл бұрын
You’re welcome! 💕
@nandinimelodyn5723
@nandinimelodyn5723 2 жыл бұрын
What if he was there. And after some fights suddenly he isnt there or when he is inconsistent and you put boundaries he pulls away again fully and is there only for day to day financial, but no more enojis or good mornings etc. What if thats hos way when he is mad
@HelenaHartCoaching
@HelenaHartCoaching 2 жыл бұрын
It sounds like this might not be the right man for you. That being said, this podcast episode might be helpful for future reference - you can listen to it on Spotify here: open.spotify.com/episode/0jWpu1Q0E24v1Evg5iGpU6?si=859rlXkMSZGtdgVu7FgP7w …or on Apple Podcasts here: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/master-your-magnetism-with-helena-hart/id1585522214?i=1000536824110
@ravenroseadventures
@ravenroseadventures 4 жыл бұрын
Helena .... I did exactly this ... my ghosting man came back momentarily and called me ... he said he wanted to keep chatting and meet ... but then went back to weird 1 word random texts again ... I told him it felt good getting to know him but that I wanted someone who wants to meet and really connect... not random text buddy ... he said he is so busy with sons hockey ... so I told him that I understand the busy but was uncomfortable with the random texting and that if he decides he wants to meet .. then I will it with him I didn’t get a response... this is 2 times I have told him I would prefer to meet and I deleted his number ... he keeps coming back but being flaky ??? ( I am really trying to date other men like you said .. 2 dates this weekend ... it’s really hard to put myself out there with multiple men but want to find a great guy ... but the connection just isn’t the same ... I deleted his number again but I can’t let go )
@HelenaHartCoaching
@HelenaHartCoaching 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your experience here! The fact that he ghosted in the first place tells you everything you need to know - this man is clearly not for you. I’m glad you deleted his number when he didn’t respect your boundary! This video might be helpful in letting go and moving on: kzbin.info/www/bejne/aoSlqYh9h6d5nKs
@ravenroseadventures
@ravenroseadventures 4 жыл бұрын
Helena Hart thank you!!
@HelenaHartCoaching
@HelenaHartCoaching 4 жыл бұрын
You’re welcome! 💕
@notnow7829
@notnow7829 4 жыл бұрын
You can let go! Dont let it turn into 2 yrs like I did. Haha he wasnt worried about my life or my time and I finally let go and it felt great😁
@vhayashi7369
@vhayashi7369 4 жыл бұрын
You are doing great! Keep focused on yourself and what you need! You handled him exactly right! Don't settle! Stay focused on what you want and it will come!
@audreysilverstein5846
@audreysilverstein5846 4 жыл бұрын
Hi, I am in Fl, looking for a long term relationship, my husband died 3 1/2 years ago, I am very lonely and finding a real man who is not a liar or a WTB scammer is not easy. I like a guy a lot, met him him on POF, but did not tell the truth about my age, he is now upset with me, we get along very well, don't know how to get him back. I am a senior, do not look my age at all and know I get away with murder with the way I look. I am petite, and thin, have very long hair which the men like a lot. HELP
@dnibcn93
@dnibcn93 Жыл бұрын
What if a guy wants to go dutch on things and you don’t feel comfortable doing that? I don’t feel valued if I went dutch… should I bring it up? Or leave the situation?
@dialmstyle
@dialmstyle 4 жыл бұрын
This helps me so much.
@HelenaHartCoaching
@HelenaHartCoaching 4 жыл бұрын
I’m glad this was helpful, Michelle! 💗
@miyawinn623
@miyawinn623 4 жыл бұрын
I just enrolled in the "Magnetic Mastery" course. I'm excited and a little nervous about this investment in myself.
@chelsearosecoaching
@chelsearosecoaching 4 жыл бұрын
I'm so excited to support you! Its going to be amazing!
@miyawinn623
@miyawinn623 4 жыл бұрын
@@chelsearosecoaching Thank you very much!I have a question about the Zoom calls. Can I ask you here or is somewhere else better?
@HelenaHartCoaching
@HelenaHartCoaching 4 жыл бұрын
So glad you’re joining us, Miya! You can email Chelsea directly at info@chelsearoses.com. ❤️
@chelsearosecoaching
@chelsearosecoaching 4 жыл бұрын
Hi Miya!! I answered your question in our membership portal but yes feel free to email me at info@chelsearoses.com too!
@miyawinn623
@miyawinn623 4 жыл бұрын
@@chelsearosecoaching Thank you !
@MJ-od5sh
@MJ-od5sh 2 жыл бұрын
I have been dating a guy 4 months but he has taken no sexual advances towards me. He is out every Saturday with friends. Only made one Saturday night for me . He messages morning & when he is home from work & is generally lovely & we get on so well when we do see each other but it’s only once a week. Well I finally had enough I told him what I expected from a relationship & him keeping me at arms length is not fair anymore . The fear I am his ex wanting constant attention is not fair on me. His priorities are all wrong. Well he has taken it I don’t trust him & he has walked away. So I guess he isn’t ready for an adult relationship.
@HelenaHartCoaching
@HelenaHartCoaching 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your experience here, MJ. 💜
@audreysilverstein5846
@audreysilverstein5846 4 жыл бұрын
Another man is wanting to meet me, but physically and looks are not what I like at all. He is very attentive, knows I am having back issues, in pain, not fit company to meet anyone now. He offered to pick up anything I might need but, I am very upfront, tell them what is important to me. HELP
@kimgordon3695
@kimgordon3695 4 жыл бұрын
Understanding subconscious patterns is the doorway ✓✓✓
@HelenaHartCoaching
@HelenaHartCoaching 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing, Kim! 💜
@trippytoestravels
@trippytoestravels 3 жыл бұрын
Omg this changed my outlook .. 🤩
@HelenaHartCoaching
@HelenaHartCoaching 3 жыл бұрын
I’m glad this gave you a new perspective! 💞
@missspammer
@missspammer 4 жыл бұрын
Are you two twins Love your advice
@HelenaHartCoaching
@HelenaHartCoaching 4 жыл бұрын
We’re not but thanks so much for the compliment! 💞
@keonagirl435
@keonagirl435 4 жыл бұрын
What would you call a HIGH quality guy?
@HelenaHartCoaching
@HelenaHartCoaching 4 жыл бұрын
Great question! These videos should be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/hpScd5Rmptx9o68 and kzbin.info/www/bejne/qJ-7oH6JgqaHpaM
@keonagirl435
@keonagirl435 4 жыл бұрын
If I can't take your classes yet when would they be available again?
@HelenaHartCoaching
@HelenaHartCoaching 4 жыл бұрын
I’m not sure if or when they’ll be available again, but if you aren’t able to make the live classes you can submit your questions beforehand and you’ll have lifetime access to the recordings where they’ll be answered. 💜
@patriciagrell9865
@patriciagrell9865 4 жыл бұрын
A man that is nice. Not mean spirited.
@monet2251
@monet2251 4 жыл бұрын
I tried to go to Chelsea link for one on one but it’s saying no appointments
@chelsearosecoaching
@chelsearosecoaching 4 жыл бұрын
Hi love! I just updated my calendar with new availability, so it should work now! So excited to connect with you 💕
@karrynlipsett5187
@karrynlipsett5187 4 жыл бұрын
I want sum1 to tell me if its still not ok for a girl to make a move on a guy in at least NY if not the whole of America?? It would just really help me to make sense of all of the things these American women say.
@kimgordon3695
@kimgordon3695 4 жыл бұрын
#LeanBack101 ✓ 💝 #SharedAppreciation
@tinalscott3444
@tinalscott3444 4 жыл бұрын
Kentucky
@HelenaHartCoaching
@HelenaHartCoaching 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching, Tina! 💕
@melissabarrett3088
@melissabarrett3088 10 ай бұрын
❤❤
@zeetasahai203
@zeetasahai203 3 жыл бұрын
Zeeta I love him with all my heart 💜❤️❤️ I am 50. He i38.
@amandafrank1064
@amandafrank1064 4 жыл бұрын
Chelsea reminds me of Camila Mendes from Riverdale for some reason :)
@chelsearosecoaching
@chelsearosecoaching 4 жыл бұрын
haha I've actually gotten that a lot and take it as a compliment so thanks!!
@lorraineamico42
@lorraineamico42 4 жыл бұрын
Hi Helena Hart your fabulous and bringing people in for us too learn more in all different ways @lorraineamicothemakeupartist Staten Island New York
@HelenaHartCoaching
@HelenaHartCoaching 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! ❤️
@LiloulaMe
@LiloulaMe Жыл бұрын
Chelsea looks very Irish
@susannaleesings
@susannaleesings 2 жыл бұрын
FYI men don’t really want to be “friends” w women.
@HelenaHartCoaching
@HelenaHartCoaching 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your insights here!
@zeetasahai203
@zeetasahai203 3 жыл бұрын
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