The Absolute Best Method To Get Him Back (Without Games Or Manipulation)

[@christismith8052]

Wow! Just applied what Adrienne said “tell him, ‘I feel sad, but I trust that you are doing what is best for you’”- my man wasn’t leaving me, but because he was frustrated about a bunch of things, he made some very hurtful decisions that affected us. I had a long list of complaints lined up to “spew” on him, then listened to this video before I talked to him...and instead I said, “Even though some of your decisions and words made me feel hurt, I really do trust that you are doing what you need to do - just wanted you to know that.” It was HARRRRD to say that, but I meant it - and WOW - he apologized- on the spot, and again about 2 hours later and moved toward me and commented on how much he loved how I respected him and now is making plans for a trip for the two of us to take alone! Feminine energy works!! Thanks so much for your valuable information!! 💕

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, Christi! Thanks so much for sharing your experience here! 💗

[@surbhitak66]

@Helena Hart Does that mean, we shouldn't talk about the things which are making us feel hurt? But then these things can piled up and lead to frustration? ? Also, Isn't it a good thing to communicate about the things which did hurt each other, so that we can understand each other, rather than assuming things on our own? OR We should let go of all these things and not communicate about our feelings as it can be a pressure for them. I always get confused about it.;)

[@marisolmartinez5990]

@@HelenaHartCoaching hi, my bf of 9 years, has currently broken up with me, at first I would only message him once a day, usually evenings. Then, I did one long email, and maybe called him twice. This coming Saturday will be our 3rd week apart. We had a lot of wonderful years and I feel like family, media, stress,work, and debt and ourself might have taken a role in our break up. It is very very hard to do no contact. On the first time we talked he told me, I love you but am not in love with you anymore? That tore me apart. Should I continue doing , no contact?? I am grieving and currently in so so much pain. I feel like his family would encourage him not to contact me again. Any advice?? Please help me?? He doesn’t even try to contact me at all??

[@Lee-vt6rr]

Lets wrap this up by saying i love you thats not going to change! I just want you to be happy!

[@jamilgotcher5456]

That's so funny about almost making a Power Point presentation to present your case of why you should be a couple lol. I'm not laughing at her, I'm laughing with her, it sounds like something so many of us can relate to.

[@capricorntarot123]

‘Travel GPS’ your intuition and the energy of your connection . When you increase your self worth you become a magnet that’s why they come back . You’ve started living your life and shining your star and it’s seen from everywhere 💛

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I love what you said here, thanks for sharing! 💖

[@capricorntarot123]

Helena Hart 🥰🥰

[@melindacowles8969]

Broke up yesterday, I told him I was sad but respected his decision but I'm a hot mess today . We just spent an amazing weekend together. He changed his status to single today and that was a gut punch 👊.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

So sorry to hear you’re going through this, Melinda. ❤️ This video might be helpful, especially if you’re in “no contact” right now: kzbin.info/www/bejne/e3fNgHqajMSWbJI

[@melindacowles8969]

@@HelenaHartCoaching I'm honestly not even sure I broke up with him or he dumped me at this point after reading through our texts. I wish someone did 1:1 coaching.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

If you send an email to [e-mail], my assistant can try to find a coach who specializes in your situation. I’d also recommend Donna Barnes’ "Breakup Recovery Action Plan" (it includes messaging with Donna so you can get personalized help with your unique situation - you can use the coupon code STRONGER with this link to get 50% off): shrsl.com/3d4z5

[@theloveflows8773]

"Finding your true self in that grief" YES💙

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’m glad that resonated with you! 💞

[@smurph4959]

Transformation yes absolutely ... I've only just discovered my issue is my masculine energy ... I had no idea. Thank you 🌼🌼

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You're welcome!

[@IZionDawta]

Yes nine too. I have too much masculine energy

[@kelleybright3113]

Me2 darn it ..I got the memo

[@Lee-vt6rr]

Ok no games no manipulation honesty work on me give you space .

[@OttawaBlonde]

To both of you - thank you for this incredibly helpful video, and all the videos you make and share with us. This one caught my attention as I’m one of the ones in the ‘a breakup is eminent’ situation. All the classic signs have presented themselves, him pulling away, not calling, not texting as much, and sadly since at the moment we’re all going through this Coronavirus isolation period, we haven’t physically seen each other in almost 3 weeks. So, I’ve got my script ready, thanks to you ladies, to accept what may come. To allow him his decision about our relationship and take the time to work on myself. Thank you again for helping to ease our trouble minds.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome Jena, I’m so glad this was helpful! Much love to you. ❤️

[@Brendac549]

Wow! What you both said , just reinforced what I’ve learned thru my life in the hard way . Need to watch this video once again and again ! Thank you very much !!!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, I’m glad it was helpful! ❤️

[@simplymarilyn5295]

This is so awesome and comes at the perfect time. Just broke up w my man after five years. We are in total disagreement about several things but he became defensive & took no responsibly for anything.... in turn, causing me to make the decision to break up. I know we are very much in love but we need our space right now. The time frame is what I needed to hear the most..."appr. 30 days" no contact....to work on myself! He already says "I changed so much." And that's because I am a fan of these two lovely and intelligent, queens! I won't be leaning forward, that's for sure,! Thank you so much for this great video💕

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You're welcome Marilyn, I'm so glad this came at the right time for you!

[@crystalyanez2400]

I need relationship guidance!! I am tired of this cycle!

[@tianiemitchell5692]

What you truly need so that you don't make any mistakes while you are trying to find it

[@sshuteandrew]

I love your personal story 😭💕

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Thank you Stacey! I hope my story and experiences help!

[@keekeedavis3521]

Ok now y’all are speaking my language! We are on a break right now. Day 4. Except that I called for the break but we both mutually agreed. My reasons is because I feel hurt and think we need to do more things together. Anything! He’s tired from work. I get that. I also want to communicate more. It seems we argue about the stupidest things or disagreeing and I hate it. We’ve been together a little over five years and I don’t feel like he knows much about me. Yet he agrees I know tons about him, from him. His gripe is that I need to make more of my own money and that I’ve been getting lazy with that. And I agree. So now here we are, both waiting to respond to each other in some sort of push and pull nonsense or were both going back and forth with I love you I miss you and ugh! I can’t hire anyone right now to help me....I need to make more of my own money at least first lol. No but seriously, thank you for these. Idk what temporary stupid tips I would’ve already tried from KZbin by now if it weren’t for you and your special guests. Omg thank you so so much. I love him and I know he loves me. And we both really want to be together but we got to straighten it up!!

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Five years is a long time to be 'just dating'. While I hear deep love with the two of you, remember a man will get relationship-lazy with time. Since you are bored too, you may be reaching for him to fill your life up and this is where your life is changing and you must fill it up with the things that you love, not just the man. Please use the tools we teach you in the Unzipped program to tie his heart up for good: goo.gl/A6L7SW Using these methods I'm certain you two will get back together and build a strong and lasting union. Not just dating. Love to you.💋

[@keekeedavis3521]

Adrienne Everheart's Love Academy thank you so much 💐💐

[@marinatiunova7565]

Thank you, ladies! Be happy!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! 💖

[@marlenegabrielacontrerasga5929]

well again, thak you so much for this girls! I mean I am sure I am older than you girls and still I find this information from you so important, like we should have classes of this in highschool or something jajja for real! because no matter how good everything in your life is, if you are heartbrokened you just don't get to enjoy it as well :)

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You're welcome Marlene, I agree!

[@dianalereve5402]

😅 Love the idea of the Power Point Presentation listing all the relationship pros... 😂😂😂😂

[@parsistmarak1547]

Love to watch this video.. Similar things used to happen with me.. Every time pull away, it's very exhausted

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I'm glad you enjoyed the video, thanks for watching!

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Thank you for watching! 💋

[@yasminekalaidji]

He left me after 2 years telling it didn’t feel real anymore that we drifted apart. Yes we had issues, but have so many beautiful moments so i was in shock. I begged him, but now I’m leaving it in Gods hands. Hopefully he will contact me and want to work things out

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

So sorry to hear that, much love to you!

[@tianiemitchell5692]

I concur about teaching it in school just like home economics they should have classes for young men and young women

[@healing.jaemader]

Even just male friends that fell off the map are reaching out to me. The ex I want hasn’t yet

[@chantgarza8764]

I've been vulnerable, set boundaries and told him how worship his is for me, after nearly a year of dating. Let him go by "trustin his decision but also by telling him I could not do this anymore because we were not up to the same goal and my feelings for him were now very strong. It's been two weeks since it happened. Maybe it's nothing talking about time haha, but it's been the most difficult time for me. My bday was two days ago and he didn't show up. While at the end of every day I just figure out that I really miss him and that I really would not like this to be over, it breaks my heart to think he is not feeling the same and I doubt he could come back. 😔 I do think he needs space, but at the same time I'm afraid of him not coming back because I didn't really leave the door open. I wish him back and really would like to text him ..but I stop myself.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Sorry to hear you’re going through this right now. These videos might be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/jHbOq2CFiLt3mNE and kzbin.info/www/bejne/qmeZfKajZqZ_m9E.

[@tianiemitchell5692]

And to be able to see things from the more clear perspective

[@Dianna129]

I haven't contacted mine in 7 weeks. Was hoping it would help

[@leebeex8]

Oh I think I did a Hail Mary on my guy recently, I said something very similar to what u did, I haven’t heard from him in a week. I didn’t contact him again, the ball is in his court. I quietly walked away. I have just been focusing on myself.. I assumed I scared him & he doesn’t reciprocate my feelings. I guess time will tell

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Hope you do the inner work too! It changes everything! More in my program if you desire going deeper.

[@shannonr5122]

There with you!

[@Kimberlyelayyne]

How are things with you now?!! I hope well!

[@bhaskins80]

What if you already made the first mistake? Two months after the breakup after reaching out and finding out he just started a new long distance relationship. Then he cheated on her with me. The next morning he told me he made a mistake, that we wouldn’t work, that he was going to work on his new relationship. That’s when I made the first mistake. Well the second mistake I know 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

[@karlacorona7426]

My guy texted me at the end of this video. 🤣🥰😀

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

We actually hear about this happening ALL the time! 💞

[@gl8533]

So if a woman is busy with her feminine power and a man feels neglected by her, and decides to leave her.... then what? My husband gets jealous when my attention is on someone else. So he goes into a childlike, sulking, passive-aggressive behavior pattern. Then we end up in an argument because I’m exhausted trying to do everything while he literally sits on his butt doing nothing. He will push all my buttons to anger me and then tell me my reactions are the problem- why he’s leaving now. My husband puts me in the masculine role by him refusing to take the lead and then turns on me because I’m telling him what to do all the time. Any advice???

[@AdrienneEverheart]

I'm so sorry. Do you have "500 Ways" as the ebook goes far more in depth into this sort of situation. You are stuck with him in a cycle that must be broke. As the saying goes: Don't wrestle with a pig because you'll get all muddy, plus the pig loves it. This means, do not engage. This work is as much about you (your power) as it is the man. Love to you and let us know how it goes. 💋 goo.gl/ADS53Q

[@ultravioletspirit]

I finally went on a date with my ex who wanted to get together to exchange Christmas books we had discussed. I was very honest and said I don't stay friends with my exes, I said I had feelings for him and either we work things out or let each other go. That it wasn't fair for him or me to keep each other tagging along. He said he moved on when I broke up with him in October so we shall go our separate ways but for some reason the guy does not let me go and keeps messaging me. I don't even answer anymore and decided not to see him or answer his messages. I really want to move on because he either wants me in his life or he doesn't which i said . I really don't know what else to do.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here, I know many women can relate. ❤️

[@ultravioletspirit]

@@HelenaHartCoaching and now what Helena? What to do from here?

[@terukiato]

@@ultravioletspirit try ABC to get him back by Adrienne Everheart.

[@Mrs.T305]

What do you do if he's only sending morning texts, nothing else. Do we respond or not? He was never like this in the beginning I think I pushed him away by moving to fast for him.

[@kelleybright3113]

I did that shit 2 he was headovrr heals now no talkn it's ok I'm feeling myself in my beyonce voice facts

[@kiminfante9652]

Thank you 😊for this great video

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You're welcome, Kim!

[@Elkraiden]

I did no contact and he started stalking me

[@sarahjaynescott545]

lol

[@amitypurple]

😂

[@aashigupta3740]

Im with a guy who is 12 yrs older than me...we r tgether for 1.5yrs..long distance rltnship...he is a real n grnuine guy many times said he loves me and alwys managed to meet me wenevee m at his city..bt for few months i hv beeb thinking dat he is less interwsted or im forcefully keeping him into this..so we discussed but it leads to no ending of a rltnship....i dont knw wt shud i do..i hv nt texted or called him in a month.. Warlier also even if i didnt want but the rltnship was into silent or no contact thing as he is busy n its a long distance thing...i feel he loves me but i dont knw he is hiding maybe bcz of hsi past or bcz of long distnce or maybe bcz of age gap n all...he has not texted or called me in 15 days...im keeping my silent n no contact thing on...i want him to open u about his feelings...now im shifting to his city for my career...how can i make him get to open up or to trigger him about losing me..should i continue thsi no contact n wait fir his call or text..wat shud i do..wenver i meet him shud i act normal like never before or shud i finally ask if u wana end this or what..or shud i act normal n make him fall for me more and then ask him for ending...?

[@tianiemitchell5692]

You don't show him you just be yourself

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Yes! Thanks for sharing your insights here, Tianie! 💖

[@ashleyoverholt449]

Am actually doing all this stuff, with my current boyfriend mark, he has been coming back around, and trying to contact me. Even though am not interested in him any more, he is the one who has been trying to contact me, but am not interested in talking to him. Because I really don't have anything to say to him, and that is why I put him on block, which would keep me out of the contact mode. But I do know, that I really do not what him back at all.After all the pain and hatred, that he put me though, deep down I really feel that I deserve better.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here. I’m glad you’ve realized that you deserve better! 💜

[@bambiiii4858]

What to do during the no contact period???? Also what if he already contacted you after the no contact period, what would you do???

[@sherryfeliciano4109]

I just found this video so I don't know if it does any good to comment. My story... I've been with my guy for 11 yrs. Long Distance. He's getting ready to move here with me June 2022 and boom!! he ghosts me. Now he has a daughter where he lives. I have to mention here that he's 70 and I'm 67. He texted me once after 13 days of silence to say " in love with you always" I did not respond. Anyway he didn't come because he couldn't move away from his daughter. Talk obout blind sided. Didn't see it coming.

[@tianiemitchell5692]

I heard a song on the radio today that reminded me of you, and it made me laugh

[@thebluebutterfly5177]

Loving this ladies and you. 🥰 I’ve been seperated since April last year. I have three boys with him. I have been struggling with letting him go because I love him so much. This and another video from Adrienne has been so helpful. The backing off on contact though is a real challenge. He see the boys every week, we communicate about things for them and we have been doing family things together. I don’t know if that’s weird or not. What do I do about the no contact thing? Should I stop the family things?

[@Kimberlyelayyne]

Hey! I saw your comment and wondering how things are for you?

[@bestlifeever4548]

I'm in same position now with 3 boys and want him back

[@thebluebutterfly5177]

@@Kimberlyelayyne hi, sorry just seen your reply. Didn’t get a notification for some reason. No different. I don’t get any financial support, no signs of any kind of changes. I can’t stop contact as it would make things even more difficult for me. It’s been 2 years and 7months and whilst occasionally he says all the right things, nothing changes. Absolutely nothing. 😔

[@thebluebutterfly5177]

@@bestlifeever4548 you’ve got to make sure he is exactly what you want. As much as I hate being in this situation I have to be truly honest and he just is not the kind of man I want to be with or the kind of father I want for my boys. This sucks to admit. He has a choice, he’s choosing to replicate the beliefs he is useless. 🤷🏻‍♀️ I’m not quite sure how I am creating this but it sucks.

[@thebluebutterfly5177]

@Cynthia no thanks!

[@Strwby04girl]

Does this sort of thing ever work on someone you were just dating?

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Yes, if he’s truly the right man for you this works in that situation as well.

[@crystalyanez2400]

What should I do with my guy who still talks to me, but seems to be distant in his communication? For example saying * I hope you have a good day today! Instead of *good morning baby, I hope you have a good day!

[@wendyhenderson2698]

Thank you.. I do have Adrienne program.. he keeps texting me I told him what I wanted and how I felt.. today he said why dont I talk to him.. he wanted this he walked away.. he sent heart emoji with stars. I dont understand I'm still confused. He so unemotional. He never opens up his heart.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! That would be a red flag to me if he’s unemotional and doesn’t open up his heart to you, but this video might be helpful if you’d still like to try to see if things could work: kzbin.info/www/bejne/qmeZfKajZqZ_m9E

[@aashigupta3740]

How to act when u meet him after no contact?

[@aimees4990]

You should act open and warm with him. Let him take the lead 💕

[@heidijay5902]

I’m in a long distance relationship, & I feel like he’s pulling away. So I’ve been giving him space & he’s been contacting me more often & a bit more attentive (I even managed to forget about him to an extent for a while). But now I just want closure, I want my happy & power back. Am I best to just leave a message telling him how I feel, leave the ball in his court & walk away so to speak? Which program would be best for me to begin with? Edit - So he just messaged me & absolutely made my day... but I still want to work on myself, for myself. Which program/s do you recommend? I already have Helena’s femininity program, but haven’t yet completed it yet.

[@AdrienneEverheart]

I encourage Find & Keep the One first, or the complete bundle. If you truly lose him, you'll want Get Him Back.

[@leebeex8]

Gosh be careful, I just told my guy how I felt & he said nothing at all so now I feel disrespected and cut him off. If u think he doesn’t care deep down don’t do it but if you believe he will reciprocate your feelings then put it out there. Only you will know

[@heidijay5902]

Everheart Love Academy TV Just purchased the heartbreak/ find & keep the one bundle. Can’t wait for what I can learn

[@chempanda6388]

This is so lovely. This is a great learning but i dont think i can use it, since they’re with someone else and it seems pretty serious.

[@AdrienneEverheart]

In my Get Him Back program I talk about how a new relationship for your partner has a high incident of failure statistically. While I don't wish that on anyone, I can honestly say you'd be surprised how often couples reunite no matter the odds and can rebuild again, stronger and better than before.

[@noorelhouda3478]

How to apply No Contact if my x and I are part and work with one organisation and we see each other? I found it so difficult. I need help please to control stay away from him.

[@AdrienneEverheart]

I'd speak to him about it. "I've accepted your no and want to give you all the time and space you need. Yet at work this feels difficult. What do you suggest we do?" Then let him solve it. Once he sees you honoring his time apart and accepting his 'no' he will likely find you irresistible again. Trust me on that one. When he asks you out for lunch one day, be sure you are prepared by reading '500 Ways' and studying the Unzipped Collection. goo.gl/13eFcT

[@basakc2597]

I wish I had discovered your talks beforehand.. Is there any remedy, a chance of compensation for the situation where you showed that masculine energy, trying to convince and return him back to the active communication you are afraid of losing?

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

This video should be helpful for you: kzbin.info/www/bejne/r4GUg6aPdtGEiaM

[@basakc2597]

Thank you

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! 💕

[@AdrienneEverheart]

I completely turned my relationship around and you can too. The ABCs shows you how in depth and step by step. Please keep us updated!

[@pureeraco.9177]

Thank you very much for your insight. I'll try this and post the result once I've done the work :)

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, we’d love to hear how this goes for you! 💕

[@shirleyliew6905]

What if we break up for 3 year ?

[@AdrienneEverheart]

The time matters not. You can still rebuild. xo!

[@Saboramii]

Hey Helena, does this program and similar programs also apply if the woman is the one who broke up with her man? But feels she made a mistake?

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Hi Nicole, I would ask Adrienne about that - she would know best since it’s her program. 💜

[@rachelsmith3235]

Does this work the same for long distance as well? We were great for 6 months and he chased until I started doing masculine energy things (now that I've learned), he pulled back, I kept reaching out trying to pull him back and he got more and more distant. We didn't end badly, but he hasn't made the first initiation in about 3 weeks, but just responds when I reach out. Does "pulling back" or doing "almost no contact" still have the same effect when long distance?

[@junisalaugo621]

Any update?

[@victoriapeaches7447]

Hi Adrienne, I’ve only just stumbled upon your videos following “space” which led to a break up yesterday. For two weeks of space I had so much anxiety and did all the masculine mistakes. I told him when he decided to break up I’d miss him sad it’s over but glad to have met him. I also was completely honest and told him someone had already asked me on a date in two days (I think I subconsciously forced myself to move on in the “space” during which I made all the masculine mistakes). Anyway I love your videos and advice and I would love a session with you if you offer it? Or would you recommend your programs? He is the first and only man I saw forever and kids and everything with so you can imagine my heart is broken. The distance with him working away doesn’t help either. Thanks ❤️

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Sorry to hear you're going through this right now, Victoria. Our Heartbroken To Happily Ever After program might be helpful for your situation, you can learn more about it here: everheartcoaching.com/unzipped/

[@ravenseals9864]

My husband 2ants to separate how do. But we r still living together so what do I do

[@erikasalamanca2640]

So Helena what if I have already pushed my man so far off by trying to get him to talk to me? By texting and calling constantly 😞 ugh I feel so defeated and I don’t want to lose him forever

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Hi Erika, these videos will be helpful for your situation: kzbin.info/www/bejne/sKu4mKmpgaapg68 and kzbin.info/www/bejne/b6vUgIl5eZytqq8.

[@djmosame3585]

God bless you

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

💜💜💜

[@JK-wk4yd]

What if I was the one who ended things? We were dating for a bit less than 2 months, but he started pulling away and being distant the last couple of weeks. I figured this guy isn't really into me, so I decided to end things. But now I actually want to give us another shot. He says he misses me, but I haven't replied to him. Been in no-contact for a week now. Any advice?

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

This video should be helpful for your situation: kzbin.info/www/bejne/qmeZfKajZqZ_m9E

[@veronicakennedy4882]

What if he's jumped into another relationship

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Personally I would move on for now, you don’t want to sit around “waiting” for him if he’s with someone else.

[@trippytoestravels]

Absolutely love this one ☝️ im gonna try getting some tips on this

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’m glad you enjoyed it! This video might also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/e3fNgHqajMSWbJI

[@ClaudiaSanchezQuintero]

So true!! That is happening to me!!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here, Claudia!

[@aashigupta3740]

Im with a guy who is 12 yrs older than me...we r tgether for 1.5yrs..long distance rltnship...he is a real n grnuine guy many times said he loves me and alwys managed to meet me wenevee m at his city..bt for few months i hv beeb thinking dat he is less interwsted or im forcefully keeping him into this..so we discussed but it leads to no ending of a rltnship....i dont knw wt shud i do..i hv nt texted or called him in a month.. Warlier also even if i didnt want but the rltnship was into silent or no contact thing as he is busy n its a long distance thing...i feel he loves me but i dont knw he is hiding maybe bcz of hsi past or bcz of long distnce or maybe bcz of age gap n all...he has not texted or called me in 15 days...im keeping my silent n no contact thing on...i want him to open u about his feelings...now im shifting to his city for my career...how can i make him get to open up or to trigger him about losing me..should i continue thsi no contact n wait fir his call or text..wat shud i do..wenver i meet him shud i act normal like never before or shud i finally ask if u wana end this or what..or shud i act normal n make him fall for me more and then ask him for ending...?

[@nicoletobey2356]

Hi Helena & Adrienne, thank you for the video! My ex and I have been in no contact for 2 1/2 months. He has made no attempt to communicate other than unblocking me on Facebook a few weeks into no contact. He hurt me, felt bad about hurting me, and is EXTREMELY stubborn. I don’t foresee him reaching out. I’m trying to get over him and heal but i want a new relationship with him. What do you suggest at this point? Thank you! Nicole

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Hi Nicole, this video might be helpful for your situation: kzbin.info/www/bejne/qmeZfKajZqZ_m9E

[@espydelcampo3053]

I was very upset because he didn't not show remorse for hurting me and I called him names because I was experiencing so much anxiety because of what he did. Is there coming back from that?

[@danielagba2756]

I know a very powerful spellcaster who can help you OK he helped me get my ex back , he can also help you too

[@danielagba2756]

[phone]

[@danielagba2756]

Text him on WhatsApp

[@sshuteandrew]

Great video 💗 So true- I got my ex back a couple days after our break but it only lasted 3 days. Unfortunately, I hadn’t done any work on myself and we fell right back into our pull/push dynamic. Now we’ve been apart 8 months and I’ve done a lot of reflection and inner work but he’s shut down and too afraid too trust in us again. Any advice? I’m now on day 7 no contact since I’ve been in pursuer mode a lot.

[@AdrienneEverheart]

I have a lot of videos on No Contact and I don't suggest it. It's inauthentic and staged which is not natural, warm and open. It's a fine line truly. In "Heartbroken to Happily Ever After" Helena & I go deeper into this subject. I'm certain it will help! www.everheartcoaching.com/courses

[@sshuteandrew]

Feminine Energy Love & Dating Thanks- by no contact I mean I have stopped reaching out via texting so he can have space. I’ve been texting since the break up besides a few 2-3 week periods. He still hasn’t come around, so I thought I’d lean back.

[@harshitapathak1458]

i already called him aftr no contact of a month and tried to ask him wat he wants n he said he doesnt want to continue as i put him in panic. Nw he just wants to focus on his career as he is job less.. just one directiin n end all forever with me. Plz guide me how to bring him back.. he soad he has feelings but he feels its been three months gap.. not proper understanding btwn us. As we had fights.. i just hav a single chace to meet him aftr 10days plz giv me wat can i do to make him feel come back.

[@missl6517]

I just love you both ladies and your work. I follow Both of you. But I wanna ask, does this work when there was no break up talk? Like he changed our meetup plans without letting me know and I was annoyed and we haven't spoken ever since. It's been 3weeks.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you! Yes, this could apply to that situation as well.

[@fy9526]

@miss L I'm in the same situation

[@joannehibberd4918]

Absolutely nothing works if they don’t want you! My ex totally blindsided me and cheated and left me for the other woman after being together 8 years, Not once did I beg, cry, ask him to come back just let him go and get on with it, they were engaged, living together and married within 20 months and he’s never tried to contact me ever!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Yes, we definitely don’t want women trying to get a man back who doesn’t want to be there. I always say if there’s another woman in the picture the best thing you can do is move on and never look back. 💜

[@ediewall6360]

So , I want the end of the story. Did Adrianne marry him?

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Yes, she did! She’s happily married to him now. 💞

[@ediewall6360]

Lovely to hear . TY

[@ediewall6360]

@Marian Olivia Sound like religious programming

[@ediewall6360]

@Marian Olivia Not ethical for you to be advertising such services here. I do not need those services. If I did I would not follow recoomemdations of someone displaying your ethics

[@ediewall6360]

@Peace Sakwe Not ethical for you to be advertising similar services on this site. You show poor judgement and I would not follow any recommendations by you

[@bestlifeever4548]

Does this work if he is talking to other women?! If he didn't have other people on side and focused that on our 20yr marriage we would be great.

[@danielagba2756]

I know a very powerful spellcaster who can help you OK he helped me get my ex back he can also help you too

[@danielagba2756]

[phone]

[@danielagba2756]

Text him on WhatsApp

[@rachaeleena]

Perfect video

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you, Rachael!

[@alysehiltbrunner9448]

Question. How can I ask a question about my certain situation? I broke the non contact :( and now he is saying probably no chance of getting back together because I get too emotional and I texted him like five times after that 🤦🏼‍♀️ he said basically he didn’t know about the future but for now needs space. Do I still have any hope?

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Hi Alyse, feel free to join The Goddess Community Facebook group if you’d like support from women who may be going through something similar, or The Goddess Club if you have questions you’d like answered by a coach in a private online forum: helenahartcoaching.com/the-goddess-club-inner-circle-free-trial/

[@rosenblau]

You ever heard about the clean Slate message? Look it up. You basically apologize for stalking him, tell him that you were not acting like yourself. Tell him that you are sad but that you respect his decision. And then you simply back off and you must focus on yourself and do things you enjoy or find things if you don't have anything. You can do this!He said that he didn't know so that's good... He didn't reject you completely. Give him space to miss you if you want him back.

[@vitabuonavita2565]

i messed up, i texted him, because he texted me....i'mgoing into NO contact now

[@tinyyhippiee5558]

I’m trying to focus on myself but it’s so hard when I’m sad but my ex and I are see eachother but still single but he keeps messing with my feelings and I just don’t know what else to do

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Sorry to hear you’re going through this right now. You might need to go into a period of no contact if this keeps happening. ❤️

[@tinyyhippiee5558]

Update: I finally let go of my ex and on to a better relationship with someone new and excepting 💙

[@shannonr5122]

Yeah well what if he thinks your done with him because of what you said to him? Then what?

[@AdrienneEverheart]

ABCs shows you exactly what to do... First your vibe must change for real, not just in theory. Second, he will FEEL your change from afar, and when you two meet up he will feel it more and there will be no need for words or telling him you have changed or changed your mind. He'll fall in love with you all over again. 😘

[@thisismetoday7423]

I made a mistake because I went into major convincing mode with 2 very long texts because I knew I had messed up but I could explain why. He said he will be thinking. Is that a good sign? I told him take as much time as he needs. Now I have to wait. 😭

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

This video should be helpful for your situation: kzbin.info/www/bejne/e3fNgHqajMSWbJI

[@foxy5136]

I told him I love him but I don't want anything more than just friends now I dont want anything more now

[@foxy5136]

@Gift Cynthia that would be great

[@selenalovely7499]

We got into a huge figh and haven’t spoken in 7 months yesterday he spoke to me for the first time .. but it was something about my dad , did he do it intentionally ? He and my dad are well know why didn’t he just tell my dad himself ?

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

It might have been intentional, it's hard to say without knowing all the details. What's important is what he does next (whether he keeps staying in contact with you or not).

[@Jules-740]

What if he doesnt wait weeks and he reaches to you in 3 days?

[@Jules-740]

Do i ignore his messages for weeks?

[@Jules-740]

And then he text me again what if i replied right away? And then he went back to ignoring me

[@aashigupta3740]

Shpuld we keep posting pics n other things on social media during no contavt or shud i not?

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Hi Aashi, Adrienne and I recently recorded a video about what to do on social media that I'll be posting soon. In the meantime, this one might be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/jHbOq2CFiLt3mNE

[@anudeshmukh2011]

If u blocked him,post anything who cares,he isn't there to see 😂😂

[@ramonaedwards5338]

During this no contact if he tries to contact you dont respond correct?

[@jilllibertucci9304]

Oh well for one thing I didn't know somebody can block someone's email I thought that they couldn't well then I guess that must be what he must have done blocked my email prof. My tub f*** my phone this is ridiculous because when I was told him he actually let me touch him on his back or to rub his back and his nose so if he doesn't love me or not in love with me anymore then why is he letting me touch him he's at or so he's being very very stubborn and I'm a cancer this has got to stop I need to speak to him I need to get back together with him I don't want to sit around and wait for him

[@urvijani1862]

Wow.... I needed to listen this right when I need it. I am dating a guy through a dating app. It's been a month and a half and we text led a lot and phone calls and video calls. Etc. All good good things. We both agree that there is a definite connection between us and we had some very nice mature authentic conversations. But since 2 weeks he is been a little distant. The vibe I get is that he had pulled off a little, not totally. What vibe I get is he is distant and busy and kinda closed off. We have never met and he is 1000km aways from me. I really feel that I focused all my energy on him. And I do feel I need a break. What should I do.??

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I'm glad this was helpful! Did you ever have plans to meet up with this man in person?

[@urvijani1862]

@@HelenaHartCoaching yeah. I do. We have planned to meet in March end 2018. But he has totally shut down for a week. However texted him a 5 days prior that saying " hey how are you? It's been radio silence from your side so just checking up on you. Have a great day. Bye." He haven't texted back. I didn't texted or called. What should I do? It's sickening and suffocating feeling all these overwhelming feelings. What should I do?? Please. ..help. I am so grateful that you replied. Thank you so much.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Unfortunately there’s not much you can do if he’s not responding to you. As difficult as it is, I’d take your focus OFF of him for now, focus on yourself and on meeting men who are available and interested in pursuing you right now.

[@urvijani1862]

@@HelenaHartCoaching thank you so much. I had watched your videos and it helped a lot. I am doing that, trying to take my focus off I am working on myself. It's difficult but I'm trying. I promise. What should I do if he ever reach out to me again?

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

This video should give you some ideas: kzbin.info/www/bejne/pnO9ZamMbNtkeZI

[@jilllibertucci9304]

We've been going out for 11 months and we had a little argument and with a petty one this happened last Monday it's now Sunday so it's almost been like two weeks I think it into what happened 9 days I guess and I seen him in like this door and walking down the street I try to talk to him he listens but you don't say anything and then I go to him to his house and he still listening to me but you don't say anything then finally he just goes inside and I told him to go with his heart and and and stop going with what he thinks it is head and what is top I'll listen to everybody else has to say so they how much longer is he going to need

[@alysehiltbrunner7184]

What if I already made those mistakes? Texted too much, got crazy, and so forth? I am not texting him now and trying to give him space but do I still have a chance to redeem myself?

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

It's definitely possible depending on the situation, this video should be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/r4GUg6aPdtGEiaM

[@gypsyrain1470]

I am already guilty of texting him and actually blowing up his phone. I think he has blocked my number. My issue with giving him space to think about it is that he will date other women and I dont know if I can handle that. I have already seen him with other women. I already repelled him. I dont know what to do.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

If he’s dating other women, he probably isn’t the man for you in my opinion. That being said, these videos might be helpful if you still want to try to work it out: kzbin.info/www/bejne/qmeZfKajZqZ_m9E and kzbin.info/www/bejne/jHbOq2CFiLt3mNE.

[@gypsyrain1470]

@@HelenaHartCoaching Thank you for responding. We are not in a relationship and don't date so I guess he figures he is single and can date whomever he chooses. We just hang out at his place about once a month. I have been trying to manifest a commitment with him but he keeps rejecting it. Like I said earlier, we are not even dating so I cant say hes not the man for me. I do want to work it out with him. We have been hanging out now for 3 years but again only about once a month at his place. Still I have put in alot of time and effort and energy into whatever it is we have....with the intent to be more. It's possible, I believe

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

This video should help give you some clarity: kzbin.info/www/bejne/eaa6mZtjedN_gLs

[@samhill7471]

He left me for a rebound who is so wrong for him. Total opposite. An introverted wallflower. And he’s super extroverted and outgoing. It makes no sense so I don’t trust that he knows what’s best. Since the breakup, every time he gets emotional about something or drunk, he reaches out to me. I don’t know what to do. He’s made it clear how bad he wants me every time he’s drunk or emotional but then backs off and stays with her when it passes. I’ve tried the no contact but he keeps reaching out and then I can’t help but respond. Any advice from anyone?

[@kayligo]

Block him.

[@kayligo]

@Mayer Clothier He's dating someone else and only reaches out to her when drunk....hmmm...yeah...

[@pur3devil]

How to do this in quarantine?

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

This video might be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/lYPQZJWfZqmBipo

[@andreabellott115]

Adrienne... please help me I feel my situation is unique as I had gone through cancer we were together 18 years it wasn't perfect but I never thought he would leave me and he's gone it's been three years I have chemo brain out on permanent disability so I lost my power job of over 100,000. Every time I feel like he's going to come back he bolts again I'm so confused and I'm still grieving because I'm grieving about my identity everything is all intertwined please help me. I may have messed it up too much but I did do what you did because he said we have to start some place again as friends and I said that I love them too deeply I cannot just be his friend but he insists on coming over to the house and still trying to help with things I'm very confused

[@danielagba2756]

Well I know a very powerful spellcaster who can help you OK he helped me get my ex back he can also help you too

[@danielagba2756]

[phone]

[@danielagba2756]

Text him on WhatsApp

[@foxy5136]

And i mean it

[@sabrinavanart5948]

Wow!

[@northerncaliking1772]

Does this work for an avoidant girlfriend who wants space?

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

This video might be helpful for your situation (it can apply to both men and women): kzbin.info/www/bejne/rqacnoRsotmZmbc

[@northerncaliking1772]

@@HelenaHartCoaching Already binged all of them

[@bronzegoddessmusic8361]

What if you broke up with him 😩

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

This video might be helpful for your situation: kzbin.info/www/bejne/qmeZfKajZqZ_m9E

[@inexorablelove]

what should i say when my ex says “ it’s too late” i hurt him quite a lot during the relationship because i wasn’t able to trust him after his mistakes and lying to me and constantly brought it up. we’ve taken a break for 3 months and i’ve really come to realise my mistakes and gotten professional help for my anxiety which i think played a big part in the way i was.

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Let me get this right... YOU hurt him because trust was missing after his lying? This is classic masculine guilt maneuvers. You did nothing wrong. Watch this: kzbin.info/www/bejne/aGinmaeHjb5noLM ❤ I applaud you for getting yourself some quality care and learning how to manage your emotions in a healthy way! ❤ A big part of the work Helena and I both do is working with inner nasty voice and personas or inner parts who run the show. You'll want this program: goo.gl/13eFcT When you get your vibe flying high, your man will likely reach out to YOU. This happens 90% of the time with my ABCs program. Men can FEEL your vibe! However, given your situation I recommend the Unzipped Collection Program with myself and Helena. The VIP Library has a personas book in it, as well as in class we covered that in depth. That will help you with him or whatever other man you choose. 😘 Much love and continued healing to you! xoxoxo!

[@missfrostproof07]

Lmaoooooo hahaha an ex from behind the bushes 🤣🤣🤣❤️❤️❤️

[@manuelapmunoz5872]

I know I can I don't try hard and he's next me... I had 8 men come looking for once they heard we weren't together. . I left withy ex husband to the motel. That tthe other guy was at the motel watching thro6 the bottom curtain saw us having sex. Spooky

[@Maoceia]

I just don't know how to do the slow burn. I've always treated guys like a cake in front of a girl on a diet.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I know exactly how that feels, and many women can relate to what you said as well. This video might be helpful for you: kzbin.info/www/bejne/gWfEYp6Krsmrq6c

[@Maoceia]

@@HelenaHartCoaching thank you so very much!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! 💕

[@bardo677]

I know what I'd do. Send him off with the biggest tramp I knew then just move on 🤷

[@bardo677]

It's not that difficult. Litterly know you enermie then just chuck some breadcrumbs about. If a woman can take your man they likely deserve each other

[@bardo677]

Then role around your own bed like a queen not worrying about anyone eating toast in your bed

[@bardo677]

Christ. I got with this bloke a while back and there was glitter in his bed. . . Like his house mate wore. I remember those days I used to wear glitter for that very reason

[@bardo677]

Twenty for hours. That's long. I swear help him pack his bags you can get that time down

[@bardo677]

Bloody hell. My X of twenty + yea s moved out because he'd met his soul mate. I used to come back and find him sitting in my house.

[@gayanetigranyan5582]

♥️👍👏

[@deanalainv]

How to get a woman back ? A fearful dismissive.

[@healing.jaemader]

Even just male friends that fell off the map are reaching out to me. The ex I want hasn’t yet

[@healing.jaemader]

Update. My ex is spending the night(spare room, he lives 6 hours away) this weekend we’re finally celebrating our son’s 1st birthday. A few month late but life happened I guess. Our oldest is excited and our little keeps grabbing my phone yelling dada. He never send me pictures but he did the other day. A few weeks ago I saw a beautiful photo of a couple who had shaved their heads together, I told myself I want to do that with someone I would marry. He told me he’s growing his hair out until January.😍 So let’s see how this weekend goes, also I didn’t realize it was Mother’s Day and he said he has a gift for me.

[@healing.jaemader]

Update. He kissed me. Says he’s scared to recommit and that he’s not been able to commit to anything even jobs, workout plans, new eating habits, social plans or any of the women he’s dated.

[@mlong506]

@@healing.jaemader updates??

[@healing.jaemader]

@@mlong506 I let him go. The man of my dreams came into my life shortly after and were getting married in May! 👏👏👏👏💕💕🥰🥰🥰

[@mlong506]

@@healing.jaemader congratulations!! I can hope for the same then 💞