Become A Master Of Influence

[@TheSilverstryker]

Tyrion Lannister survival guide: 1. Offer gold 2. Offer more gold

[@Crick1952]

3. Tell a joke

[@Baalaaxa]

4. Demand trial by combat

[@nakiaudaku8691]

😂😂😂

[@ZaWarudo0316]

5. Use crossbow

[@lagroad]

6. Get someone else to fight for you

[@gsimon123]

"Never forget what you are. The rest of the world will not. Wear it like armor and it can never be used to hurt you." - Tyrion Lannister

[@TheGuardian163]

+gsimon123 do you remember which episode? I use this everyday of my life. I tell girls I'm an asshole. I didn't get it from Game of Thrones however

[@gsimon123]

TheGuardian163 I think it was episode 1 actually

[@TheGuardian163]

gsimon123 Don't say that, you'll make me fall in love with the show a second time and I'll have to watch it all over again hahaha

[@PrincessLioness]

Like fat Amy.

[@RileyElite11]

Please explain this quote

[@wastagwaga]

Tyrion Lannister - He puts the "imp" in "Pimp".

[@st.christophorus]

ohh OHHH I GOT IT

[@BasileusRex]

wastagwaga 'impin ain't easy

[@thewhitewolf3089]

Xohetzal damn. I was gonna say that lol

[@AJKecsk]

Tyrion Lannister - He takes the "I win" right out of Tywin.

[@DiMono]

"You fight like my sister!" "I've fought your sister, that's a compliment!"

[@marsonsaturn]

@Lok Mickson yep!

[@The_Jolly_Jackass]

I know that sentence from somewhere... But where is it from?

[@DiMono]

@@The_Jolly_Jackass The Road To El Dorado

[@tfaber9394]

Don't ever think a woman can't fight. Co-ed MMA. They can do everything a guy can do, but it is so much hotter. Men will pull the punches a little. Women don't. Not even in sparring. It's awesome.

[@MMAACC2014]

yesssssssssss El Doradooooo :D

[@funthirstictm3098]

when you see you are losing in school debate..."I demand trial by combat "

[@g.g3205]

Alpha Zey haha that’d be actually pretty funny 😄

[@kamuelalee]

Private detective quotes work too: "You're dumber than you think I think you are." -- JJ Gittes, Chinatown.

[@Justin-xd7zj]

Aka meet me behind the school at 4

[@Random-sk6hm]

Judge: we have video footage of you committing a triple homicide Me: I demand trial by combat

[@utsavdhyani8839]

School chooses your bully as opponent

[@Violent2aShadow]

Next time in traffic court: Judge: "Your options are either pay the fine or go to traffic school." Me: "I DEMAND A TRIAL BY COMBAT!!!!!"

[@TribalKatz]

I did not speed down the freeway. BUT I WISH THAT I DID!

[@markhenry2186]

W

[@HiMyNameIsSander]

+Violent2aShadow I demand trial by drag race!

[@mattarcher7919]

+Violent2aShadow There was a case were an old man demanded his ancient right of trial by combat because he didn't want to pay for a minor parking offence. xD www.telegraph.co.uk/news/uknews/1416262/Court-refuses-trial-by-combat.html

[@brcha]

+Matt Archer Lol, that guy is a king :)

[@dispatchforthwith]

You forget one VERY important thing... Some men can't be bought, bullied, reasoned or negotiated with. Some men just want to watch the world burn.

[@Worldtimes1]

+Turk E. Man You should tell that to Ramsey Bolton

[@trielt1]

+Jhony S Well, some men just want to watch the world get flayed.

[@Whiteroca]

+Turk E. Man Oh then, Mr Charisma should do a Batman Vs Joker breakdown.

[@Sebastianek1990]

+Jhony S Roose actually bought Ramsey... for a while, but still.

[@seamovies7406]

Turk E. Man so says alfred

[@Harshhaze]

"Everything that is possible changes based on your creativity" Fuck, that's a good quote

[@joshuahiemenz4857]

Everything is always possible, regardless of your mindstate. Mindset doesn't change reality. It's just changes your emotions and makes you see the same things differently without actually changing anything. It's just feels different cause you have different chemicals running through your brain

[@aronhighgrove4100]

@@joshuahiemenz4857 It's much more than that. Change of perspective can be as simple as walking around an object and seeing parts that were invisible before. You can always say, but they were there already, but it's meaningless if you don't know how to switch to that different perspective. Also in quantum mechanics, interaction changes the outcome, so you don't know the result before you have it. Not all reality is deterministic and you don't just pick a state from a state space.

[@phattjohnson]

@@joshuahiemenz4857 I tried willing an ice cold can of Coke into existence. I'm still sitting here thirsty and with a (lack of) caffeine headache.. So, at the very least, it seems willing crap into existence through sheer thought alone is currently impossible :P

[@jimmymcguire8217]

​@@phattjohnsonor is it??? ...yeah it is

[@host_theghost507]

This is one of the rare occasions when I'm happy when a title turns out to be inaccurate... this isn't about outsmarting people, it's about persuading them. Which is a lost art and seriously necessary. Thanks for opening up new options.

[@PiggyXMalone]

I was once teased by the school bully for wearing an unfashionable brand of jeans. I said to him, "It's true. I've never really cared much about following fashion trends. I always thought it more the sort of thing girls worry about." It did the trick. 1. I showed him I wasn't hurt or intimidated by his teasing (which leaves a bully without his main weapon) and 2. Left him either having to abandon the fashion concern or acknowledge that he was focussing on something that tends to be more of a concern for girls (which it was and probably still is), thus impugning his masculinity. He walked away without a word.

[@reycesarcarino4653]

Weird no ever used that tactic For the "what are those" sneaker brand insult. Pretty good way of turning their insult against them

[@derrickckt8024]

@@reycesarcarino4653 he can say "those are called shoes"

[@bobbieschroder6231]

At a former job, there was a female coworker who was a huge busybody.. at least toward me, as she began vocally policing my every move. It then occurred to me to blurt out to her (with a surprised look on my face), "I didn't know that you were so fascinated by my comings and goings!" That threw her for a loop, which totally shifted her attitude, and she never bothered me again. LOL!

[@thelastkage646]

@@bobbieschroder6231 you think maybe she was attracted to you?😏

[@bobbieschroder6231]

@@thelastkage646 Ha! No, I promise you, that was not the case. As I said, she was simply a problematic "busybody" who decided to pick on me because she didn't like me. And, since people like that don't have a decent life of their own, they have to nose and meddle into other people's affairs and cause trouble. I was never one to belong to any workplace cliques. People who belong to them usually have a low regard for an independent person who doesn't join up and fit in with their little cookie-cutter gang. Sometimes they have a tendency to be sort of like "office gangsters", so to speak. Believe me, I would've known if she'd been attracted to me. Although I'm heterosexual, I _have_ had some women to make passes at me (outside of work). While I admit to having been tempted by it, I haven't (yet) followed through on it. 😉

[@callum7081]

So watching game of thrones is literally part of your job now? I am insanely jealous :)

[@Charismaoncommand]

+Hubert cumberdale Hahahaha, I am living the dream :-)

[@caramullen9186]

SALAD FINGERS LOL yay.

[@fatjimmyfm5447]

+Charisma on Command do milo yiannopoulos

[@JC-yl5qh]

+Charisma on Command Do you have any videos breaking down the King of Charisma Harvey Specter from Suits

[@ANeonSkinJoke]

+Charisma on Command These breakdowns are great, really good channel you have. Have you thought about breaking down Marlon Brando's legendary charisma? For example, how he leads this interview? / watch?v=LAPDQ5MlLxE

[@LeonLush]

Dude, you crush these videos. You get my full watch time everytime, which is a high compliment in the days of wavering attention.

[@Charismaoncommand]

+Leon Lush awesome compliment, thank you!

[@jsmith8391]

I love you Leon.

[@DeJake]

Lol yeah no considering me and everyone I know it's really not a 'high compliment.' Your audience must be pretty bored ;)

[@noisaidgetlost9448]

Woah, dad used to watch them charisma vids?

[@Disastrouscharity]

Papa Lush!

[@Railstarfish]

Another aspect of Tyrion's approach of demanding a trial is he puts the other person on the spot - in the Vale, to deny him a trial is to openly admit that what they're doing is unjust, which undermines the legitimacy of the titles that give them social power.

[@cattfishing]

@@pamelascarpenter5208 lol I was going to say, isn't that what was explained in the video? Lol

[@sirtko]

Excellent point

[@UNcommonSenseAUS]

It's a scripted propaganda piece you fool.

[@porpus99]

Tyrion has shown himself to be clever, intelligent, charismatic, and off an on a leader. When the King fled the battlements, he stood and took command. Rallied the men and lead them into battle. It was a hopeless battle, but he showed himself to be someone that others could look to. He gets what he wants by asking what others want. In this way he gets loyalty. My all time favorite character in the show.

[@Alpha-Andromeda]

Yeah that’s what makes him so compelling, that he would be a natural king but instead he is turned into the eccentric half-man. Best character for sure.

[@sisterspooky]

@@Alpha-Andromeda- Tyrion was my absolute favorite. He and Bronn were such a great duo. lol Tyrion’s “confessions” at the Eyre were hilarious. That still remains one of my favorite Tyrion moments. 😂

[@xxxfirehuunterxxx]

Jesus man, your videos are just at Aristotle levels. I could never think of these, and how they're explained is just wonderful. You guys up there are some real professionals!

[@Charismaoncommand]

Glad you're digging it

[@abhayc4428]

Ur videos are simply mind blowing...Are u a student in psychology or philosophy??

[@UNcommonSenseAUS]

This is the worst kind of garbage. F this kid, get a life & learn your own way.

[@sid2112]

Philosophers are tourists.

[@myselfme767]

The "create options" one helped me tremendously in life! Tyrion is extremely well written character and your break downs are the best thing on the internet! As a person who's on the spectrum human interaction is challenging for me, I don't understand it and it would never come to me about this 3rd way, but since I watched this video I remembered this and used it multiple times when people were trying to take advantage of me. This and "no matter what, you'll be OK" really helped me. Thank you!

[@Noobly533]

Just don't go demanding trial by combat everytime someone proposes only 2 options to you!

[@phattjohnson]

@@Noobly533 Not EVERY time.. but some times I'm sure it's the most socially acceptable option :)

[@shaleensharma4157]

Turning the tables on an insult: Oh I'm a monster, you should talkto me more softly then. Monsters are dangerous, and right now kings are dying like flies.

[@lambycorn5253]

Wtf

[@1636276]

@@lambycorn5253 I think it's a skit of game of thrones. One was called a monster, and he said watch your tone with me, allot of hierarchy are dying(assasination) you dont know what i can do to you. Basically

[@jeremysmith54565]

The whole series is loosely based on the War of the Roses a civil war about who was had the right to sit on the throne in England prior to the Tudors that Edward IV was illegitimate and every monarch since has been, there's others but the main jist of its based on the War of the Roses, largely the Plantagenets (Houses of Lancaster thats now belonging to the Crown to this very day (is with that and the Crown estate that for the vast majority financially supports the Monarchy only costs the British taxpayer 70p approx each year to fund it) vs the Tudors sort of.....

[@lswilcoxon]

That was ONE OF THE BEST LINES IN THIS ENTIRE SERIES

[@inspectorjavert8443]

Yeah but that line came back to haunt him

[@BFP2021]

Humor is a powerful weapon...should never be under estimated.

[@TomahawksNShotShells]

Had a girl tell me that. I knew I wasnt overly attractive or intelligent but I knew I was funny. Once I got her laughing, the victory was mine lol she told me she had no intention of going home with me but after a few jokes, well she didn't know what happened until the next morning 😏

[@dynamo5326]

Its the hardest weapon to use

[@derrickckt8024]

@@TomahawksNShotShells guess she was laughing at you not with you

[@Mr3DLC]

@@derrickckt8024 who cares, per se? Apparently laughing at him or with him still got him results:)

[@McCRBen]

The art of Presidential debate is to ensure your opponent can’t talk to the electorate by non stop talking. The art of being a President is based on listening to experts.

[@sameersinghnarayan]

Tyrion was completely something else. If Tyrion had the chance to face The Night King, he would have convinced him to build the wall and go back.😂😂

[@iad.s.8256]

Yes lol 😂

[@herculesmclovin]

That 👆 comment is so underrated 👏 😂

[@NorthernKitty]

I remember being with a friend who some class bully got upset at over something petty and ridiculous and felt he needed to assert his image in front of others with violence. He began to charge my friend with raised fist, clearly intending to start fighting. The bully was large and almost certainly a cinch to win the fight. My friend calmly and without any sign of fear said "well, this doesn't bode well for my recent dental work, wish I had put that off for a month." The bully hesitated and laughed, and my friend immediately followed up with, "I'm honestly confused, what are you angry about?" which forced the bully to then talk about it. Within minutes my friend had the bully convinced it was a simple misunderstanding, apologized to the bully for it and diffused the situation entirely, letting the bully walk away with his ego intact (and my friend with his teeth intact). Everyone who witnessed the interaction knew who really "won the fight".

[@elvisvan]

clever, what's your friend's name and at what tone did he friend speak the sentence?

[@aluhutmann4622]

yeah the bully lol

[@masonkane5884]

Next time I get hauled in to traffic court, I'm gonna ask for trial by combat.

[@farmerboy916]

It is TECHNICALLY legal in the US, iirc. I mean, you'll never get it, but it's in the common law adopted from Britain. It was outlawed completely there a while after the War of Independence, but never was in the US.

[@Jikester82]

Haha I just did that a few months back when I got popped for having a glass smoking pipe with weed residue. The looks on the faces of the judge, DA and officers was priceless, but the prohibited acts charge was reduced to a disorderly conduct and a $300 fine.

[@95TurboSol]

Brilliant

[@michelleschreiner6418]

It is not possible now since King Tommen of the House Baratheon the First of His Name abolished trial by combat.

[@cestarianinhabitant5898]

Woah it really is technically legal, but I guess for any truly serious cases it's always gonna be rejected. Wish it was the same here hehe, would be pretty funny. You might actually be able to pull it off though if you have a weird tough nut case where there's enough lack of evidence I guess. But how that combat would be done is another deal, I mean dueling is illegalso it'd probably have to be like a ring fight.

[@Gina-xt5jc]

Your Tyrion videos gave me a great boost against my fear of conversations. There are tons of videos about how to start small talk, but very few about how the game of communication may actually work. Finally something that actually helps me feel less lost! Keep it up :D

[@Charismaoncommand]

That's awesome to hear - glad you're digging it!

[@jamesallen74]

I second another comment made here. A full list of persuasion tactics Tyrion uses sounds very interesting. Please do this. And please discuss sales tactics used in "Boiler Room". Excellent movie.

[@Charismaoncommand]

+James Allen Oh my god - I love those clips. Thanks for reminding me :-)

[@andrewa2646]

Boiler Room group interview scene. Awesome.

[@LUXAETERNA6603]

You should put a review of your main points up on the screen at the end of every video so it's easier to retain. Otherwise it's just passing eye candy that your audience will ultimately forget.

[@mikamiteru3281]

Teacher: ''Leave the classroom at once.'' Me: ''I don't think so. I DEMAND A TRIAL BY COMBAT. ''

[@ChitChat]

I first learned about frames years ago after reading one of Friedrich Nietzsche's quotes: "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at any given time is a result of power, not truth." Though I have much experience with frames I still learned a lot from this video. Great vid.

[@gaillouise8310]

Thank you for the Nietzsche quote....was just having a conversation with my son last night about power and I will be able to relay this to him because I don't think he's heard it.

[@trowawayacc]

In a world of lies there is nothing more powerfull than truth.

[@ChitChat]

@@trowawayacc Everyone has their own truth. Books are written just on the elusiveness of truth and what it means.

[@thefuturist8864]

@@gaillouise8310Be aware that Nietzsche wasn’t necessarily talking about power in the sense of ‘might’, and that he was likely taking critical aim at philosophers who wrote about human freedom as being the central animating force. Nietzsche liked to take ideas that seem inarguably true and turn them upside down. The appearance of control is not control.

[@thefuturist8864]

@@ChitChatIt’s very easy to say that we all have our own truths, but if that is ‘true’ then it undermines itself. In order for the statement ‘everyone has their own truth’ to be true, it would have to be correct no matter what people believe.

[@zelalemayehu]

A lot of people don’t say this but thank you for the videos. They’re actually pretty well done. Charisma/personality behavior videos interest me a lot, but I can’t spend a whole day listening to people teach me about how I could act in certain situations.. you on the other hand mixed my favorite tv show w my favorite characters (Tyrion, Jon, Varys, Tywin) & held my attention all day lol so thank you:)

[@sudhim9240]

Anyone who liked or subscribed have in one way expressed their gratitude

[@phattjohnson]

@@sudhim9240 But bots also like and subscribe.. can AI articulate a response capturing the nuance of human culture and emotion so aptly? No.

[@sheryllafferty2255]

"Whoever controls the options has the power." That is profound. You can see that as a parent I can say to my toddler "do you want to wear the red shirt or the blue shirt?" But it's obvious I am the one with the power....because I controlled the options. So simple but amazing to have it explained like you did.

[@RobertoBlake]

This was an excellent video and a great breakdown, excellent points, well researched and thought out. Congrats on your channel growth as well.

[@Charismaoncommand]

+Roberto Blake Thank you! I really appreciate the feedback. Will definitely make more videos like this.

[@valentinaespinosa7894]

Your deepest confidence isbno based in controling the perceptions of others but embracing the truth of who you are

[@animeisdope5264]

Me: *messing with friends* Friend: so you have chosen death Me: I have chosen trial by combat Friend: oh so who will be your champion? Me: for my champion I have chosen your mother Friend: SON OF A-

[@adairia4300]

Apparently I've been watching your videos for a couple of hours now... This is yummy stuff to a writer's mind. :D

[@belha1075]

this is exactly what i was thinking ! can't stop devouring this :D

[@adilsoncamacho6378]

Exatcly. Good material to build characthers

[@baahcusegamer4530]

Read this as I have my 3rd novel's manuscript open in Scrivener.

[@TheGuardian163]

I did this before. The girl was mad at me because I texted her in the middle of the night, I was learning about sales at the time. She said "You can't text me after midnight! If I want to talk to you, I will contact you! I have a husband! What do you think he would say if he saw that text!? What do I say to him?" "Tell him I have some products to sell"

[@Mr11kankan]

+TheGuardian163 What the fuck did i read?

[@caelvanir8557]

We got a badass over here!

[@glutegains3656]

+TheGuardian163 Ohhh shit watch out now you do not want to fuck with TheGuardian163

[@TheGuardian163]

Jor Zap Not really. It didn't work she just kept yelling hahaha

[@ankitsaikumar6866]

madlad

[@haleffect9011]

Please Please Please make a full list of Tyrion's persuasion techniques

[@TheRastyPasty]

Please please please answer this guy

[@HasinArefinKhan]

+rasti pasti please please please listen to her.

[@AlbinosaurusR3X]

+Hal Effect (Grand Admiral) That would be an extremely interesting video.

[@FocusMrbjarke]

+Hal Effect (Grand Admiral) do this please

[@kebman]

+Hasin Arefin Khan please please please listen to the guy who want you to listen to the girl that wants to listen to Hal!

[@Archie6666]

Love this - since I’ve used framing my arguments/debates have become more effective. Nothing like watching someone burn knowing they have not affected you like they desire.

[@b.melakail]

Scarecrow: "Death or exile?" Tyrion: "I demand a trial by combat!"

[@Evija3000]

Creating the third option... Reminds me of how Daenerys got her army of the Unnsullied. It was set up perfectly there. She had two advisors, one said to sell the dragon for the army the other to not do it, they had several discussions about it. In the end she made the third option - Drakarys. Again, one of the most famous scenes of the show. She also made her own options when she decided to act like a real wife to Drogo, to walk into the flames with the dragon eggs, and I'm sure other times as well. She's a creative girl. And turning an insult around reminds me of Lord Snow :)

[@matheusb.dambrowski4639]

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[@DoReMeDesign]

+ReptilianIlluminatti BD15Cthulu How is it being an 11 year old in today's society?

[@matheusb.dambrowski4639]

Oscar Brogden Actually im 15

[@matheusb.dambrowski4639]

Oscar Brogden And I live in Brazil. I wake up at 5:30 A.M. everyday, I dress up, eat, the bus picks me up at 6:30. I sleep in the bus. I get to school at 7:40 A.M. My normal classes end at 11:45 am. I have lunch at school. I start my eletroeletronics classes at 13:00 PM. At 5 pm they end. I hang out with my friends. At 6pm The bus picks me up. I get home at 7pm. I do my homework, study and then go play some games.

[@DoReMeDesign]

ReptilianIlluminatti BD15Cthulu Sounds like you've got your process down.

[@explainedwithallenderick4979]

This is one of my favorite videos on charisma. Framing is so powerful and really has helped me a bunch. Thanks for the video Charlie!

[@m.c.m2689]

i love these kind of videos! its so clearer and you explain it so clearly and by using game of thrones as reference its nice to see how it works.

[@Charismaoncommand]

+M.C.M glad you love them! :)

[@MrSsb2000]

I have done this with bullies in school without even realising till I saw this clip. Lovely analysis. Humour and calmness are quite useful.

[@leahrose5425]

In my opinion this is no question the best video on this channel. I have used what is taught here several times over the past few years to my benefit.

[@nonmihiseddeo4181]

You've never used fiction to make your points before, but you're very good at it.I understand and can immediately apply the concepts to my everyday life. Plus, I enjoy watching and learning. Bravo!

[@PeaceEpieces]

This is brilliant mate, never seen an analysis of anything quite like this. I wasn't expecting this when i clicked the vid.. I was looking for some interesting game of thrones talk and you didn't offer that. Instead you broke my frame and made me interested in this new pattern of thinking for when I watch the show.. Im going to keep this in mind when i see season six, subbed. Thanks alot

[@TheNightcrawler1993]

+Sam Schutte Exact same thoughts brother. I never knew a single shot could hold so much meaning to it until now, my perspective has been shifted.

[@marcinskibinski8263]

Its amazing how accesible this powerful knowledge is these days, i mean it takes someone like you Charisma on Demand to translate your knowledge, the way you look at the world to someone who never paid any attention to the concept of charisma - me. After watching this video it really struck me how any personality trait can become dominant when practiced to an absolute perfection. Great job

[@briannelson6013]

Oh, yes, enjoyed it immensely. For me, it's very important to remain authentic throughout the entire encounter and that can be really difficult for someone like me, who immediately wants to trust an interviewer's best interests are aligned with mine. So, I often stop by ahead of time...for instance if there are dressing rooms, I poke in my head and genuinely let them know how excited I am to meet them...adding (only if I can say so, genuinely) how encounters, like this, when I know I'll walk away better than I was before...those encounters are not guaranteed. I know you have to continue and I wont hold you, but...thanks for having me! I've been able to show respect for their person, their thoughts, their time, my admiration and that I believe the special nature of moments like this change life and therefor the world. It typically works and since I do want to change the world, it's always worth it. In an interview, I find something about their office or self-presentation that I like or aspire to...then apologize for jumping right in using my enthusiasm as an excuse...adding a tiny gesture of embarrassment like taking a deep breathe, as if you're regaining your composure...adjusting my pace and tone to show composed and genuinely, "I'm so happy to be here." then remain silent. I've acknowledged I am in their space (or domain, office aura, etc), their superior power of presence, my excitement and ultimately, my desire to here them speak. These things usually endear the interviewer to me and I do not take advantage of them, afterwards. Any possibility of them attempting to make me uncomfortable later is either abandoned or clearly noticeable in this moment. Then, I'm ready, either way. Love your videos

[@oleggeraschenko4932]

notice how Tyrion's face changes through the seasons: from a likable mostly smiling face in season 1 to an always not smiling bearded face nobody would have loved if they had started with it

[@smr144]

best definition of frame I have ever seen

[@sagara4e]

Please keep making these videos! By combining these two dimentions: popular movie and self improvement, you´re the most orininal guy on youtube.. haven´t seen anyone doing it.. Good intuition :)

[@Charismaoncommand]

Will definitely keep going :-)

[@tanerbrienza154]

I think going with Game of Thrones was a great way to relate with an audience. The writing/acting is amazing and lot of people can grasp the concepts. Nice job!

[@TheMayerHarmanTeam]

Brilliant! This is one of my favourite quotes from Game of Thrones "Never forget what you are. The rest of the world will not. Wear it like armour and it can never be used to hurt you." - Tyrion Lannister (the dwarf), Game of Thrones

[@Isaharif]

"The point is this: whoever controls the options has the power. Your options are rarely exactly what people tell you they are because that's how people have power - they control options. The truth is that everything that is possible changes based on your creativity. Nothing is fixed so you need to be resourceful. You need to not take what other people put on the table as your only choices. When you're faced with the decision that says 'This or That' and you don't like either choice, refuse them both and create a third way. The way out is probably going to be different every time but the realization that your options are never just exactly what people say they are, and that you can break free from the options that are presented to you is going to be valuable for the rest of your life...and that is how you win in the Game of Life!" I needed to have this cleared up or me. Thank you.

[@dofri8373]

I had a talk with my boss. He gave me 2 options: I could work only part time at my current position or search for a job in a different company. I presented him some options that he wasn't happy about so i directed the conversation by listing some of the problems in a different part of the company. He then had the idea (or atleast he thinks its his own) to create a position in the company especially for me to solve the problems using my experience it that field. Saved my butt there 😅

[@icawn]

I was in this situation recently and tried to present other options, because I have other related skills. It became apparant that my boss simply wanted me gone, whether it would be bad for the company or not. I'm not sure how to get out of that one. But, what I did do before losing facility access is have 1on1 conversations with the other managers in the facility and presented the option of contract work. What I really wanted to understand is if the decision to eliminate my position was mutual among managers, or an isolated decision by my boss. It was clearly isolated, which I guess might mean I have the potential to apply for other positions in which my particular manager has no jurisdiction. The only caveat is that, if I do turn in this severance agreement offered, I cannot work for the company for at least 6 months. 15 years of service reduced to nothing.

[@lolwhatidk]

And what happens when someone pulls a Cersei and says "fuck your frames" and orders your execution?

[@dimitryhazel]

"Power is power." - Cersei Lannister

[@dweliq2993]

+idk Thats the problem with persuasion, it doesnt work against enraged, insane, determined, fanatical or otherwise persuasion resistant targets.

[@edi9892]

+Dweliq If you show their hypocrisy in front of their own men, you may die, but it harms them too.

[@dweliq2993]

edi No, actually the underlings mostly only care about money, so everything youd achieve is dying for nothing.

[@XYxTheOppxJX]

+idk its called suicide

[@manan0603]

Best Frame changer was George Costanza: "The Jerk store called. They ran out of you"

[@MalloryNewcomb]

Not only are these videos so entertaining but I have actually used the Create a 3rd Option tactic in my own life. Bless you Charisma on Command

[@evequeen8282]

I have never seen a KZbin channel with so much content packed into such an efficient time frame. Keep it up!!!

[@DreamerEternal]

Great video. When it comes to any literature really, including sci fi and fantasy, they are all based on human experiences and interactions. They can all be symbolic for things we can recognize in our lives. So yes, please continue making these videos. They are very enjoyable :)

[@sebbe3391]

"Power resides where men believe it resides" - Varys

[@Mr3DLC]

Control is illusion What would it matter whp is president if everyone said no?

[@Anthony_in_Bloomington_Indiana]

This video is brilliant and insightful and educational! It is really about social interaction and dealing with people who try to have power over you. It is not about power on a large scale, say, for example, how Apple abuses and mistreats workers at their factories in China.

[@WYalmicW]

*Posted from Iphone 6*

[@JC-ks3yk]

My favorite, snarky rejoinder to an insult is, "I've been called worse by better." It disrupts, flips, and may even elicit a chuckle.

[@rantioloye7722]

You actually solved the riddle of how do you get people to pay attention in the world of social media?! You teach a deeper meaning in what they pay attention to. If you had used a real historical figure like Shaka Zulu, they probably never heard of him. But everyone knows Tyrion lannister. It's the "game of thrones ". So well-done, you made it fun. And, most importantly, you got thru to me like I was 5yrs. old. And that's genius. Encore!

[@PrettyBoyKii]

Funny enough, # 1 actually works very well for children in a tantrum. The best way to break it is to disrupt the tantrum by changing the site of the tantrum by moving them to another room. It allows them to disassociate with possible triggers or whatever it is that they are holding onto in that state. And then you can begin to talk to them about what their needs are.

[@Sionnach1601]

Good point 👍

[@ojasvsingh5142]

"if you don't like the options on the table, turn the goddamn table about"- Frank Underwood (House Of Cards)

[@2211gk]

I am a bit disappointed that you did not put Tyrion's "Never forget what you are... wear it like armor" speech to Jon Snow in the part of the video with Rob Stark fending off the insults... Anyway, GREAT Stuff and VERY interesting angle... enjoyed quite a lot... Subbed

[@neuralmute]

+Giorgi Kelbakiani Tell me about it - that's practically my life's philosophy! I'm a tiny, female nerd, and I know that I will be constantly underestimated by nearly everyone... until I've already run circles around them. ;)

[@afrosymphony8207]

As a screenwriter this is GOLD!!

[@digitalnomad828]

I stumbled upon your channel and can't stop watching. I love how you incorporate the various film clips which instantly connects the viewers to the point you are making. Great content. Well done.

[@TheFinalGirly]

This was a really interesting video, very well analyzed!

[@obradinn7491]

+GirlDoesRant You're a GoT fan? o.o Dayum.

[@Ironeyes128]

+GirlDoesRant The books are awesome I'm on feast for crows now and I guarantee there's more fucking, violence, epic charecters and more fucking

[@Charismaoncommand]

+GirlDoesRant > Awesome feedback! Thanks for watching. :)

[@mythologic]

Charisma on Command ... great presentation. This is truly power. One of these days you should have a presentation on how good people can overcome bad, manipulators in the workplace, school, and anywhere in the most emotionally intelligent and of course neurolinguistic way possible. Peace! Keep you work coming. It is simple, but brilliant.

[@mythologic]

One thing that is most powerful in your presentation is your acknowledgment of options and understanding what you can do to survive.

[@Charismaoncommand]

Appreciate the feedback. Always open to what you think we're doing right and what we can improve.

[@mythologic]

Charisma on Command ... thank you! I am just inspired to speak my mind here and to point out things the very best I can. Like I have said on your other posts I have had the honor and blessing to have worked with someone to notice and work out these things too, so I get it. I just hope my comments are pertinent and that any suggestions makes the grade so you can modify anything you plan to present in the future. Peace!

[@cerebrumexcrement]

I found this vid by accident and learned how to be more like Tyrion. Cool.

[@Charismaoncommand]

+thenotorious ong > Glad you like it! :)

[@ironwolf4555]

I really liked this video. As a doctor i have to deal with this sort of thing every day. Every patient you work with brings a different frame into your office. Most are fine but you get those unruly one that you really have to be in control of the frame. I dont know if you have seen Burn Notice but Michael Weston even takes framing to another level where he uses it to mind control his opponents. Its definitely one of my favorite shows of all times.

[@moristhetiger]

Basically what you are trying to say is that we should not get carried away by what others are saying, one must use his own mind and one should not be a person who simply gives in to the beliefs and nonsense of others. This was a wonderful video I learnt a lot. I haven't watched Game of thrones but this video was wonderful - I guess I am seeing this video for the second time, last time I watched this video 6-7 months back then I guess I didn't really understand this video or perhaps I was not able to emotionally connect with this video, after a few experiences that I have had over the course of these 6-7 months I think I am able to emotionally connect with this video in a much more deeper way. I think it is very important to apply one' s own mind and to be creative - Let me tell you a story I have a friend of mine and he is a wonderful person but he is has been suffering from depression I guess he is kind of getting out of it now, he thinks a lot - I think thinking a lot is a good thing but then out fear and our lack of confidence we don't really apply the creative things that we think and this is what causes depression - The moment you do what you have being thinking about you will automatically stop overthinking, really - Don't get bogged down by small mistakes I believe that humans are the finest of God' s creations and I think that it is fine if you think you don't believe in God, perhaps deep down you do. Really we are so capable of doing things please don't get bogged down by mistakes. And Thanks a lot for this video I just love this channel.

[@josephboxmeyer5730]

One of my brothers, John or Paul, tells the story of his confrontation by a school bully. My brother drew a line to separate them and then challenged the large fellow to "Cross that line." When the bully had stepped across, my brother then greeted him with the exclamation, "Now you're on my side!" The confrontation now having been surprisingly reframed, the unprepared bully then simply agreed.

[@calebfuller4713]

That is brilliant.

[@simplyvlogging6940]

Definitely would appreciate you going deeper on frame. Great video

[@matthewkevinobispo6582]

Thank you for having these videos. You connect fictitious characters' behaviors and relate them in real life... Well done

[@michaeld4861]

Anytime you put Tyrion in a video I will watch it! Breaking down his interactions are priceless.

[@aridsingly3518]

this way of explaing using scenes makes it much easier to make sense of the points , great video

[@heroicmuffin9972]

Damn man.. Your explanations are so on point, and i'm really persuaded. My problem is applying all of them, as my social anxiety makes it so hard to do so..

[@shashanklaur507]

Explain that to The Mountain's face

[@dominikhameder629]

What face?

[@sghosh1615]

MrLegaropex 😂😂

[@octavian3287]

The Mountain never had any real power. Political power. He was always subservient to those who did.

[@alexsm3882]

@@octavian3287 But had the mountain been a smart/smarter man, he could have taken the world over. But he ends up being a grunt, thankfully...

[@lollynone1108]

Yes, I love these videos, and thank you for them! I know you as a brilliant writer, and value your views here. As a thrones geek, Ive seen and enjoyed these segments without articulating why. So cool!

[@Rob-wy7ro]

Only 6 years later I discovered this gem of video and yes please more videos on tyrion persuasion techniques would be GREAT!!!!!

[@Marzeliax]

Moar Game of Thrones related analysis videos! I'm having a marathon of them. This has consumed my evening. Seven blessings!

[@ugmomoe]

This channel has really helped me to understand myself and some things discussed among friends in the past. In one of those discussions, my best friend since 5th grade discussed that there are three types of power/manipulation 1) Those that are generally disinterested in power and manipulating people, 2) Those that actively seek to control people - whether subtle or not, and 3) Those that are exceptional at controlling people but do not realize it. I am apparently the third - my friend asserts that it is because I had an overbearing mother and I had to outwit her to get my way. I think Tyrion is much the same way - his father was a jerk to him his entire life so he had to learn wit and the ability to maintain power. Yes, he learned about power from books - I have a PhD and Master's in the management sciences and an MA in Sociology, so I also have the booksmarts on power, but it comes naturally. I am the absolute master of coming up with the third options and making myself seem valuable by focusing on what people want. Now that I am cognizant of it, I'm going try some of this stuff out and see if I can't get ahead even more.

[@Sionnach1601]

Wow, everybody just wishes they were you.

[@clovis2240]

@@Sionnach1601 🤣

[@sanaldbz]

This was great. I think you should do one using 'House Of Cards'.

[@Charismaoncommand]

+Sanal Das thanks. I've had quite a few suggestions on that so definitely keeping that in mind! :)

[@ev4rcroft]

Charisma on Command Please make breakdowns of Frank & Claire Underwood.

[@MeshPlus]

@@Charismaoncommand When ?????

[@sancrosanct5070]

@@Charismaoncommand this probably isn't happening is it?

[@jasse85]

I prefeer the hounds way of handling "frames", he rarely argues with anyone and when he does 90% of those people die by his hand.

[@deusvult980]

Difficult in medieval times Useless nowadays

[@MegaInitiative]

A frame is a pattern formed and established by a particular sequence of an experience. One needs to be creative and think outside of the box to break out from these patterns. Creativity is the key.

[@christopherkinnel8679]

Dude, this is sweet work. Entertaining, GoT and a fast speaking amigo on the microphone. Keep it up. You are not only discribing how to take someone for yourself.

[@ahikernamedgq]

You know, I expected this to be a crap video. But, this is some high quality content! Good job! This is great.

[@RainAngel111]

This channel is pretty amazing... These are lots of things that I sort of recognized on my own but it's cool to see them put into words in a more understandable way.

[@Charismaoncommand]

+RainAngel111 > glad you think so! Thank you for watching

[@mistyculous9644]

Yes, using an author to illustrate your points makes sense. Have you read Maria Konnikova's book: "Mastermind- How to Think like Sherlock Holmes?" She shows brilliant problem solving mastery level tactics and how to embody them as you seem to be teaching here. Highly recommended author.

[@Ahmedbohamad]

Your advise is great, but in order for them t work, you have to have an actual power "leverage". In the case of game of thrones, no matter how smart and well spoken you are, if you were a poor commoner with no good poition, you will be stepped on.

[@alexbroderick5213]

+AHMED ALBOHAMAD 100% agree.

[@kadmonzohar2]

+AHMED ALBOHAMAD ...pretty much...I would just be as nice as I could to Khaleesi. That might be one exception where money or birth parents wont matter but integrity. You could always go guard the wall but you really can't talk your way out of a situation with White Walkers. But the Wall it seems everyone starts from scratch.

[@K4113B4113]

Well you could, as a poor commoner, reframe yourself as someone important by speaking and dressing like one

[@kingharry3260]

That's what I was thinking watching this. Tyrion always gets out of trouble with promise of money and his reputation for being rich. Without that leverage none of this will work.

[@kingharry3260]

+K4113B4113 This is underhanded but works. I have a friend who picks up women this way. He's not great looking and only makes around $30,000 a year but he bought one expensive outfit and fake gold jewelry and watch and goes out and tells women he works for a modeling agency. He even has fake business cards.

[@alexanderhilary]

Y’all are killin it! I came across the channel like a month ago and it quickly became a favorite!

[@codypendant6745]

Touche. Great examples and I love how you utilized Tyrion of the hated Lannisters for your video. When I first experienced Tyrion, I did not care much for him(the character) As the series progressed, however, I began to admire and appreciate how he was able to re-frame other people's thinking and intent. Plus he became more honorable as the story unfolded until he was thrust up to the pinnacle of political power. Among so many strong characters in that series, my 2 favorites were him and John Snow. "I'd trust the eyes of an honest man more than I'd trust what everybody knows" Tyrion about John Snow's report of 'White Walkers'.

[@MrsMauraMae]

Love this video!

[@Charismaoncommand]

°Thanks!

[@raeshaker2126]

Great job! -- concise, efficient, well presented. Important practical knowledge and tools necessary to navigate the hazards of a competitive culture and protect our sense of self and self-esteem. The great filmmaker Frank Capra said if you want people to hear your message, you must first make the laugh.

[@RyanSaplanPT]

Informative and entertaining

[@Charismaoncommand]

+Ryan Saplan Fat Loss Strength Coach > Thanks for your awesome feedback! :)

[@sookiebyun4260]

Using Game of Thrones to teach is BRILLIANT!!! Keep it up!

[@SupercarEnjoyer]

Among abundant other wonderful traits, these videos are extremely unbiased!!

[@matthewbittenbender9191]

“I drink and I know things.” Tyrion is the man!

[@cs94njw]

Loved it! Thank you very much!

[@Whatworksthisworks]

Love this!!! Please do more!

[@tyler1250]

Good stuff. One reliable go to (that he uses): always remember people are naturally and expectedly selfish. Selfishness and greed are one of, if not the most powerful conditions of the psyche. People won’t do much for you, but they will do everything for themselves. Combine them

[@arjunnagar2415]

It was really nice the way you noticed Tyrion's tactics in such detail. Looking forward to your next video 👌