Become THAT Woman: Build REAL Confidence & Self-Worth

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Here are my best tips & tricks to work on your self-worth, so you can walk into 2024 as your best, most confident self! ✨
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timestamps:
00:00-04:09 understanding self-worth
04:09-09:54 resources & an exercise to uncover your self-worth
09:54-12:20 uncover your value
12:20-15:25 don’t chase what’s not for you
15:25-19:07 focus on your uniqueness
19:07-20:13 “that’s just not my thing”
20:13-21:32 it’s worth all the effort
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[@NikasInnerBeauty]

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[@ericaarvizzigno3768]

E non ci vai❤

[@ericaarvizzigno3768]

Non vai ❤

[@_akanksha2016]

The way u talk it's not even like u talking to the camera or the strangers...u fill in so much warmth on the way u talk... god's child behaviour 🦋🤍

[@NikasInnerBeauty]

Awhh that’s such a sweet compliment! Thank you so much🥰❤️

[@kristinalegin2204]

Just the video I needed ❤ thank you for your content

[@ruebennomura9143]

Like your confidence on this video merry Christmas to you

[@kevinnicolas1007]

Thanks for the video

[@conniechuha3113]

This is a wonderful way to start our new year. Thinking positive.

[@wagenna]

Good video! Thank you! And merry christmas, beautiful intelligent KZbinr. I've been following your channel for some time now and while it's sometimes for me filled with too much explaining I like your reasoning a lot. So I will continue watching your videos because you're smart. And therapy is always a bonus.

[@rumililla8679]

At 12:54 I laughed so loud! It's true, we need to put things into perspective. Thank you for this great video. XX

[@icegelofficial]

Thank you

[@alyssam3834]

Thank you for this video. You’re explaining a LOT that I’ve never considered, and never heard talked about before

[@savannahhope1683]

i think what i’m struggling with is people who USED to value and care for me no longer doing so. How do you navigate that? I have people who used to think the world of me suddenly not wanting me around anymore - with no change to my personality or circumstances. I can’t pinpoint why exactly this happens and it’s difficult to move past bc of that.

[@itsabooksworld]

Usually it's about them, not you. They can change, their values has changed, their lifestyle has changed. And if they don't want to explain that, it's up to them not you. You can ask them though.

[@K1111A]

There is a saying “everyone is you, pushed out”. I find it helps to look at the beliefs I’m having about people, what are the stories I’m telling myself in my head about them? Like “they don’t want to be around me anymore, etc”. Working on your self concept can turn this around. Deciding, and telling yourself over and over until you believe it that you are the person that people love to be around, that anyone would be lucky to have you as a friend, that the people in your life always stay and they value your friendship, etc. Look up self concept meditations on KZbin 💕. Everything begins with you, it is not about them.

[@shaylynnekaila]

thank you , your videos are so helpful and inspiring

[@NikasInnerBeauty]

Awhh I’m so glad! Thank you for watching❤️

[@LenaVorobey]

Love how everything is structured and to the point. Thank you so much for this video!

[@NikasInnerBeauty]

Awhh thank you! ☺️💕

[@cliciasilva2012]

Such a great video. Thank u so much 💓

[@NikasInnerBeauty]

Thank you for watching and I’m so glad you liked it💕💕

[@SinuBCA]

Amazing Video 👏

[@NikasInnerBeauty]

Thank youu❤️❤️

[@4eburawka18]

What if I want to change my values? E.g. I am very much into budgeting and being financially independent, but I truly want to have fun and just enjoy my life? I am attracted to people like 'Sarah' but in this scenario I am still 'you', so 'Sarah' would reject me and my wish to do smth with them? That's really heartbreaking 😞

[@ericaarvizzigno3768]

You are good and amazing

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You are my favorite ❤❤

[@sumaiyasamina]

everyone who is friends with you is SOOOO lucky

[@ericaarvizzigno3768]

Per basta. 😮❤

[@EnglishPractice.1678]

I like your smile and your content mam ❤ I am from India ❤

[@ericaarvizzigno3768]

Your own value is worth more than 🎉

[@ericaarvizzigno3768]

Che non se lo possono dire🎉🎉🎉

[@ericaarvizzigno3768]

Ma non se lo potevano ridire❤

[@ericaarvizzigno3768]

Ma tu lo dici❤❤❤❤❤

[@Matt-rw9py]

I hate it when I run out of sugar. I just have

[@ericaarvizzigno3768]

As valuable❤❤❤ more than 😅

[@ericaarvizzigno3768]

Che non se lo possono dire😮❤non lo puo dire perche tu sei legge❤😊

[@ericaarvizzigno3768]

Perché tu sei legge🎉🎉🎉🎉sei leggera e leggerezza❤❤❤😂😂😂 sei l`emergere di un addome e addominale

[@ericaarvizzigno3768]

Perché tu sei legge❤❤❤❤

[@ericaarvizzigno3768]

Cosi🎉perche tu sei legge❤

[@ericaarvizzigno3768]

Vuoi🎉🎉🎉🎉 e legge ❤❤❤❤

[@ericaarvizzigno3768]

Just not my thing❤😊😊

[@ericaarvizzigno3768]

Tu sei legge per la notte❤

[@HealthZo]

❤🎉🎄👀

[@visiontvdigital9115]

First comment 😅

[@ericaarvizzigno3768]

Cosi🎉perche tu sei legge❤basta ❤davvero❤😂🎉

[@ericaarvizzigno3768]

Money❤e tu sei legge❤❤❤more than 😊 😮i know things what said and done😅

[@ericaarvizzigno3768]

Just my thing not❤

[@ericaarvizzigno3768]

Se non ci vai ci rivai❤❤❤ shock

[@ericaarvizzigno3768]

Perche tu sei legge❤

[@ericaarvizzigno3768]

😊perché tu sei legge. E un comando mandatario 😂🎉🎉🎉❤voglia❤🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@ericaarvizzigno3768]

Passive aggressive🎉🎉🎉passive🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉😮😅😊

[@ericaarvizzigno3768]

🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤ legge e tu sei❤

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If false 🎉🎉🎉🎉 tu sei la legge E legge🎉🎉❤❤😂

[@la_petite_carotte]

Wow! This video is so useful! It was mind-blowing when you explained that "value/worth" was subjective as it helped me understand some patterns of my behaviour. Thank you so much🩷

[@ericaarvizzigno3768]

🎉🎉🎉se non ci vai❤❤❤❤ perché tu sei legge😢😅🎉😂❤❤

[@Laura-ve7wo]

Chad is NOT god and you will never prove yourself because Chad never cared 💔

[@jahirahere]

love how you instantly come with examples to explain us easily, trust me ur examples are incredible not 'silly'. Keep going Nika 🤍✨

[@NikasInnerBeauty]

Thank you love☺️💕