DETACH: how to actually protect your energy, become magnetic & achieve your goals

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This is how you detach in dating, manifesting and daily life! In this video I explain what detachment is and what it isn’t. We go through all the misconceptions and all the ways detachment can transform your life! I share many examples, tips & tricks + exercises to introduce this practice into your life. Detachment is the key to creating the life you want and get more peace of mind. By adopting a detached mindset you can start building your dream life and stop wasting your time and energy on things that are not in your control, or simply not worth it! xx
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timestamps:
00:00-02:31 detachment
02:31-04:13 tip 1
04:13-04:54 tip 2
04:54-08:21 tip 3
08:21-10:20 tip 4
10:20-12:56 tip 5
12:56-13:21 tip 6
13:21-18:03 tip 7
18:03-21:24 tip 8
21:24-23:18 tip 9
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[@NikasInnerBeauty]

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[@aworldofasunshine]

Nika, I’m halfway through the video but got the urge to tell you. It’s such a beautiful gift you’re giving us to pass on all your knowledge about healing. Like this you turned it all around and maybe you see all this “suffering” yourself as a gift now. I got so much out of your videos already and I’m just very grateful for it. THANKS for being you 🧡

[@malakabugnaim1408]

I honestly think the same thing every time I watch one of her videos

[@Elizabeth-sx7gs]

Yes! Plz talk more about detachment in relationships! And getting your finances together as a separate topic lollll

[@beethemessiah9973]

There’s a difference between controlling behavior and wanting respect. I have no time to control a man but he will respect me. I want him to do him. I encourage it but respect me. I respect him. I practiced this and he cheated on me. I did not take him back. I stood in my word and still do. Once they or I make the decision to leave, it ain’t no coming back. I will continue to do this because the right one will come around.

[@tanishkawardhan]

You are just an inspiration . I found real comfort whenever I listen to you. As someone who is really into self care and mental wellness your videos helped a lot❤

[@poojashinde291]

Watching you makes me realise , "if nika can, i can too" .......😊

[@amayramlew]

because of you, I am experiencing an incredible rebirth❤ my life, feelings and relationships completely changed and 1000% improved bc of you Nika, forever greatful to you!!

[@RealItInWithReidCox]

Love this message! Detaching to the outcome truly is the secret ingredient to manifesting! I was single all of my twenties and it wasn’t until I completely let go and detached from my yearning for love, that I finally met the love of my life!

[@ronikalcho]

Yes, please, detachment in relationships !! Can’t wait for that video! I really love this topic and this video is amazing as always, thank you Nika, your videos have helped me tremendously throughout the past year, I can’t express this enough. Thank you ❤

[@renata.7]

Nika, for the last 2-3 days I have been constantly researching videos on this topic, as if you knew - thank you! 🤗🖤 Also, I really like the example with the tornado 🌪😊

[@jenniferc4834]

I will watch this so many times to soak up every word. Thank you for being so aware of how to overcome and reframe situations for so many women.

[@NaomiVlogs08]

Yess! How to detach in romantic relationship episode ❤

[@olivia_olona]

Nice topic! Detachment is very key to our own happiness. I´ve been practicing it for more than a year now, and it has improved many things in my life, specially my Self esteem.

[@melymendez6235]

Nika! THIS was a video that was very much needed. Love the topic of detachment and everything you said was super useful. Much love

[@b.lanche_9977]

Now I understand detatchment. THANK YOU, your channel is precious

[@EcomCarl]

The concept of detachment as a strategy for conserving energy and focusing on personal growth is powerful and transformative. Embracing this can indeed create a magnetic presence by allowing us to invest in our self-worth rather than external outcomes. 🌟

[@alyasarahmy202]

youre literally my comfort person

[@chvp4605]

one of the only KZbin channels/ podcast videos that give genuinely good and caring advice. Thank you 🩷

[@carolinekelly8481]

So good ! You can’t control the outcome & it’s so true because manifesting has people trying to manipulate outcomes and control things to happen and you can’t!

[@Lyca1512]

This video made me follow you, and now I'm binge-watching all of your videos while working.

[@rocioperez2934]

Hello Nika! thank you soooo much for this amazing and useful video. I would love to see a video about detachment in relationships, I think this is a hard one for me and I tend to control many situations to not feel rejection or to suffer. All the best 💕

[@Stillshot10200]

She says: "I hope this video helped you out..." I'll be honest, this video seems like it was made for me since it covered everything I've been thinking about. I'm glad to keep coming back to your channel to find gems like this. Currently traveling the world to "find myself" and this video hit home more than anything. You're an amazing example of what someone looks like when they appreciate themselves.

[@mrslindaofficial4720]

Thank you so so much for this video 🥺❤️🌹

[@RoraEmmi]

I would definitely love a video about practicing detachment in relationships💗

[@sophievo8315]

Thank you for this video! If you make a video about detachment in relationships, can you please also explain how to balance letting go and speaking up your needs/wants? Sometimes, I find it hard to distinguish between trying to control the situation in a toxic way and communicating my feelings/the changes I wish to see.

[@user-eh1es3hr9u]

YESSS! I love that topic

[@Bestvid599]

Your videos are being very helpful for for me please, make such kind of videos as much as possible.

[@la_petite_carotte]

Such an inspiring and instructive video! Thanks, Nika! And yes, please I do want to learn more about this and I would appreciate if you could make a video about detachment in relationships❤😮

[@irishgem72]

Yes please a detachment video thanks !

[@user-ur4gz6ku1n]

amazing, thank you so much

[@erikasolis14]

Love video. Very inspiring, ty

[@sherrieb2396]

Y 18:17 your examples are stellar

[@kanunsibrays5569]

First of all if you really want to change your life you have to change your mind first than after that your life will change by it self for better and with some advice omg!!❤

[@jacksonebendick9592]

My favorite KZbinr

[@anishadas7547]

Love your videos❤

[@AradhanaRajbhar]

Hi Nika I love your voice and your video love you this is for you ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ for improving my life

[@thefelixfoxx]

thats my bestieeee ❤❤

[@Hxxx31]

I like your story to move to another place, I have the same desire and this is give me hope ❤️❤️

[@ritikatanwar9544]

I Just love the video :)

[@icegelofficial]

Thank you

[@giselle_avila]

For instance I have been studying English for one year and I feel frustrated and overwhelmed sometimes because I think : I won't be able to get my job 😢 and I'm just wasting my time I don't have any idea how to control that and to feel I'm Worthy of that

[@theotherway1639]

I had to stop rejecting myself. There was a meditation book called 30 Days to Overcome Rejection by Harper Daniels that I really enjoyed.

[@francescasiragusa4691]

Did you ever make a video about how to detach in relationships?!

[@francescasiragusa4691]

Oh wait!! I just realized you made this video! Girl I’ve been watching ALL of your videos. I wasn’t even paying attention to when you posted them 😅 ❤

[@jenifaahmed527]

😍😍😍

[@artyabd3170]

Visualize this part of yourself that is calm , trusting and rooted in place like leaf with roots and eye of storm. Things are happening for me and everything happens for a reason What am i meant to learn from this? Give yourself examples from experiences you have Do cognitive reframing : change meaning of the story Consistantly let things go and happen Let them show you who they are Trust instead of control Find which feelings are attached to it and find things that make you feel the same way How will i feel when i achieve it What will having this mean about me If i let go of something what will happen?

[@magicalvoice9081]

She is same as Tam kaur I mean her personality is same

[@alyasarahmy202]

love them both

[@ebbyalhakam6105]

Are you south African?

[@adaritaa]

I believe she is from Slovenia

[@roxaneroessel4734]

I needed to hear this 🥹

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