The Truth About Being a Pro Footballer | Gareth Bale's Opinion

[@sowaveysuyat]

I understand what Gareth Bale is saying, he is not anywhere near complaining about being an athlete but he's expressing himself towards the naysayers, the ones who think its okay to shame athletes whenever and however they can. The point here is that 99.99% of professional athletes do not see their career as a problem or something they do not enjoy... the problem here is that 99.99% of fans and critics have no idea what it takes to BE and LIVE as an athlete. Most people do not see whats behind the scenes, they just see the match days, the glamour and the hype. Fans and critics only wish to see perfection... as soon as there is ANY slight scratch of the surface towards a mistake or flaw --- they swarm you. Any pro athlete that would trade their career for a lifeless job working for someone else, is not a real pro because real pros are people who have consciously decided this is the path they have accepted: the sacrifice, dedication and all.. even if that means you are a lower level pro making no where near what other players make around the world. Let's be clear here; professional athletes are not victims nor do they project themselves as so... they are achievers... achievers at the highest level. But even achievers need to be understood!

[@elmerwilber3308]

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[@leviwilliams9601]

People don't understand.... This kind of money means you lose you life in a way... People don't understand....

[@levianson1422]

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[@marshallbrixton8683]

@Levi Anson instablaster ;)

[@levianson1422]

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[@Kylenatalia1126]

The more work you put in the less freedom you are given. When you become serious you have to leave something behind. Love you dawg keep training

[@brockquillan9854]

Idk why but this inspires me even more to be a pro

[@evaincefone9051]

Yessir

[@aidangutierrez5736]

Discipline = freedom

[@obiechinaldo3648]

Cyclone Gaming yes sir

[@thefootwizard]

@@aidangutierrez5736 love this, why do you think that is?

[@melodica5407]

It all comes back to a quote "You can have the coolest job in the world, and it's still a job"

[@leolovesjesus6534]

🤯

[@ontiiexquisite5439]

No it's different it's all about what your passion is and if what your doing is passion than its not just a job its a dream come true💙⚽

[@melodica5407]

@@ontiiexquisite5439 You're full of shit

[@TheGamingAlong]

Once people grow up, they will realise that football has a lot of similarities with cubicle job.

[@Jramos100]

@@ontiiexquisite5439 When you sign a contract you’re selling your freedom/soul i know it’s hard to believe or understand…let the truth set you free

[@aermynebomb]

Absolutely unbelievable video... By very very far your best, I've been following since 3 and half years now, back in your Germany days... I'm a 19 yo semi-pro player in England and this video almost made me cry because of how much it just perfectly described my situation, it's my 2nd year where I only play football and all you explained is my life. I live on my own in a tiny appartement, my parents are split and both live more then 1000 miles away from me (so it's even more difficult to see them), I lost a 3y relationship w my gf because she studies in another city, I only have 3 friends in my city... but as you said all of this is worth it. All of those sacrifices are fuel that nurish my dream, which is to play at the highest level possible, be a professional player because I just enjoy this to much. And I can only thank you for highlighting this and talking about ppl like me, it really helps me be even more convinced I'm doing the right thing !! A lot of love Matt, I hope everything will go well in your life and career

[@charlievanveen2237]

Go get it man, I’ll in the professional game in a few years

[@jaydeepraijada2142]

Amazing bro, keep working, I almost had tears in my eyes seeing this, people think athletes are lucky and have a easy life but they don't know the whole truth

[@xavig8575]

What club do you play for?

[@costin_ilie]

You can do it mate! I hope all your sacrifices will pay off ! 💪⚽❤️

[@THEBOSS-fz5fz]

There has to be rain in order to form a rainbow.🤧

[@rajivkothur6407]

Not such a big fan, but, When u feel that way, remember how much Cristiano Ronaldo works only because he loves the work.

[@justinsichula6520]

Rajiv Kothur 🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@rajivkothur6407]

@array s how could he. He couldn't work a lot because he was always injured. Maybe he didn't focus as much on recovery and injury prevention as Cristiano.

[@1dayullsee]

And then there’s Neymar somewhere chillin with Rihana 😂

[@MxmdAmn]

I think that guy injures himself so he can enjoy life while young !😂 He's never serious

[@ebhs0089]

HUNCHO 14 and look how far he’s made it, good for him living life and playing football

[@likeagamer2]

EBHS00 €600k a week

[@MxmdAmn]

@@ebhs0089 it's not good ! He should aim for The ballonDor he has the qualities but he doesn't want it

[@aakashsubedi5662]

@@MxmdAmn bale is better at getting injured than neymar.

[@MRMAD9]

Rather be a “robot” playing soccer than a “robot” in a cubicle... easy as that. Come on now!

[@YoSoyKahn]

A lot of modern society makes you feel like a robot. Successful people are the ones who found a way to enjoy themselves everyday

[@CEOofSleep]

@@YoSoyKahn he enjoys football, earns millions I'm sure he'd find a way to enjoy... Most likely the pressure of not fulfilling fans' and what they want is what makes him feel bad

[@YoSoyKahn]

Genghis Khunt ah I see. Peace and joy aren’t the same thing. Successful people are the ones who find peace in it all with enjoyment time to time, is what I meant to say in that

[@byrong1561]

You are missing the point. Of course being in a 9-5 job in an office can feel like being like a robot in a cubicle. Your boss tells you what to do and you have to do it. But you still (in most cases ) get your weekends off. You can still book a week off to go on holiday and you can still spent time with your family at Christmas and birthdays. Pro athletes cannot do that. I live in the UK and most premier league footballers either have to train or travel on Christmas Day, because there is always a fixture on Boxing Day . They play 3 games in 10 days over Christmas. It’s fair to say they won’t be eating too much turkey or mince pies !!

[@WatNeyHD]

Byron G Footballers only train for like 4 hours a day maximum. They’re free for the rest of the day. A career in football is way more free than a regular career.

[@AwkMike]

Everyone is trapped in their own circumstances, it's how you view it that defines you and things around you.

[@shakeelcampbell9267]

💯💯

[@loveuncut4236]

👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾

[@HaidukeNT]

The truth about having a job* "We're basically just robots"

[@Dumah.-]

Ado Meuporg facts

[@steve2394]

exactly any job makes you feel like a robot so I'm sorry but if your playing football and getting paid and complaining about it I kinda don't feel bad for him. if I could go back and do it all over again I would sacrifice anything just to play semi-pro...

[@vSoLaaRHD]

Still_ Steve these guys r just being pussies

[@LeterPerman]

except you’re allowed to have an opinion in most other jobs

[@tomcolton5662]

I'd be a robot for a few years for 50 million.

[@pvc8749]

Neymar never misses his sisters birthday aha Always injured during this period aha

[@3bwayne554]

Thesaus 974 😂

[@kypriee]

Big time players I guess it matters but doesn’t matter as much 😂he’s already being paid tones of money and is set for life however he still performs most of the time on a big stage

[@Drrss123]

@@kypriee lol where is it getting him now? seriously, even mbappé is better than him at this point.

[@kypriee]

Pervertedpeewwee that’s true. Neymar ruined his career by moving from Barcelona to play under the shadow of a younger Lionel messi😂😂 if he moves back maybe he can reignite

[@Drrss123]

@@kypriee no he left Barca for shit psg for money, fame, and power.

[@wks197980]

It's a hard choice. When I hung up my boots it was largely because I found out that there is always someone else out there that wants it more than you and you will HAVE to sacrifice. I had too many other dreams and couldn't half-ass my way to another contract. I appreciate the insight and breakdown you give.

[@dark_nightwing_xl2797]

Keep it up

[@terrylinwe1070]

Agree one hundred percent. It's true that when you feel like giving up, u look back to the number of people who wants to be in ur position. That keeps u going. The only thing holding me back is that I was born with a hip dysplasia and I'll be needing a hip replacement some time in the future. With that being said, I'm ready to sacrifice what ever to live a life of a pro.

[@donhouston916]

Ferland Mendy who just signed for Real Madrid had arthritis in his hip, you can make it bro

[@sacchini13]

This is easily the best video you have put out, nailed absolutely everything. I have never related to a single video more in my life, thank you Matt 👍🏼

[@anthonyyc.1]

cjsacchini shut up Yuu Virgin 😭

[@THEBOSS-fz5fz]

Futbol lifestyle is not made for everybody. If it was easy everybody would do it.

[@Bobbiejoe]

Pretty much every sport, or hobby

[@HertoftheCity]

Lol everybody can’t just do it you have to have an extreme level of talent

[@THEBOSS-fz5fz]

@@HertoftheCity you mean hardwork

[@skxll_da_goat8405]

THE BOSS A mix of both talent and hard work

[@THEBOSS-fz5fz]

@@skxll_da_goat8405 talent is your base, hardwork is your structure.think about it has a building

[@danialkhan3959]

It's worth it. I would happily "lose" my freedom for this

[@daveolly9416]

You say that but I was an academy player and even sacrificing stuff for me was really hard and I had the mentality that it would be worth it. Once you miss a few important events in your life because of football it becomes a burden

[@ay613]

@@daveolly9416 what type of events?

[@terrylinwe1070]

@@ay613 like your friends marriage, birthday, or even being there when u lose someone u love.

[@daveolly9416]

TITUS 3V5 People’s birthdays were always a big one for me. Don’t care about my own but nearly missed my grandpa’s 75th birthday because of it. Big moments like that are tough to sacrifice

[@ay613]

@@daveolly9416 yh i see but always remember that there is someone that is in a worse situation so look at the positives. Again i do feel ur pain.

[@MrEMann]

Great video. I still play at 54 years old because I love the game. I still work hard to make sure that I can play, even if it's just club games or pick ups at the park, and don't get paid a dime. Your insight is something people need to keep in mind as they criticize a player. I know how hard you work to make it happen. I respect you and all of the people who choose to bring us the beautiful game.

[@saxena0118]

I almost cried watching this as although I'm a 14y/o kid I understand what it's like to be in that situation.. Even though I'm not even the best in my city or school team I'm training fighting mentally and physically with my body parents teachers studies criticism failure rejection..I have been rejected 6/6times at trials...it's just what it is what gets me motivated is people like you and knowing that I'll have to sacrifice to become what I want...I did 22 individual training sessions in 19days because it was the summer break and I know I wouldn't get much time to improve later because of school..so thanks for the motivation and opening our eyes to know how the real world is

[@09zboy]

Keep working bro, no hard work is ever wasted

[@ilhandervisevic4154]

im also 14 y/o and i hope our dreams come true because i have the same exact dream and this summer ive been working very hard on my physical strength and its hard, but in the end its all worth it so keep working man it’ll pay off

[@sambridhathapa4313]

Learn to play in the streets with the tougher and older lads, mate. You'll improve in a meteoric level believe me.

[@saxena0118]

@@sambridhathapa4313 I play with the older and tougher lads only...you learn a lot from them but sometimes it affects your confidence in a bad way

[@sambridhathapa4313]

@@saxena0118 Do they shout at you? If yes then learn to ignore them. Say yes nod your head but continue playing your own game. You'll learn to take the hate later on life.

[@adey2707]

Really try working a Job for 40+ years just to earn an average lifestyle Jokers

[@matiasihl777]

There is always someone in a worse situation, try being poor in South Africa. Try to understand a little, emphazising is not only an hability to apply with the less economicaly fortunate, thats just a plain communist thought that never leads enywhere. Joker.

[@yoursports6910]

Really try living in poverty for your whole life and have a horrible life Grow up and understand the point of the video

[@thefootwizard]

As a pro whos currently on a similar path I relate to this so much. I've learned that the balance is so so important. Thank you for making this, its beautiful.

[@TMM-N]

if u have a balance life..u end up like him..so so career.

[@MrBalancelight]

@@TMM-N It depends actually.

[@thefootwizard]

@@TMM-N This is a misconception. Mental health is something not talked about in football very much. And it's interesting because if you're happy and not depressed, you're going to play better, and feel free to express yourself on the pitch. A balance is crucial to this. At the pro level, you're get paid to win, to be as close to perfection as possible, that is immense pressure and takes a toll on you. Find something outside of football to ground you. Look at Ronaldo, puts in his work and goes home to his family and unplugs.

[@Georgeg15]

Kyle Kozak when was the last time you played a match ??

[@thefootwizard]

@@Georgeg15 last week :P

[@joegeist3600]

Just found your channel-interesting video. Very well done. A few things that I’d share as a 43 year old, 4 year college player who didn’t play pro. 1. To succeed in business, medical school, law firm any vocation, it’s never just 9-5. The same work ethic you apply to the pitch you’ll bring to your next career. 2. When you finish playing you’ll have to start a career after others have started 10 years prior and will have more experience, money and authority than someone just starting-that will be a difficult transition for you-or anyone. If your passion for the game and the sacrifices you are making aren’t leading to the compensation you want and the fulfillment you desire, rethink your current path. Having said that during 4 years of college, I missed some parties, couldn’t skateboard (too close to campus), formals, weekends because of training, travel, games, lifting or study halls-yes. Rehab after an injury to work your way back to the starting 11 was lonely but I can say that within 12 months of graduation, playing in open leagues while establishing myself with my career, it was those times on the bus, playing, locker room, weight room, camaraderie, ups and downs that I missed more than anything. Enjoy your ride-at some point you’ll be working 60+ hours a week, creating a new career and thinking about your family, retirement plans and savings, with a few weeks of PTO...missing all that soccer gave and took away.

[@chakradharachowdary4850]

This video made me cry, the emotions are real, in the end its a dream were all chasing and if we can live that life its the biggest gift of all.

[@aelizon85]

So true my man. My dream is t be a professional soccer player. We all share the same goal and drams

[@ElYuyuBoxing]

Great video brother. I am a young professional boxer I can relate. As a professional, you would think you have MORE freedom but really you don’t. You revolve your day around your training and when you’re not training you are studying or recovering or watching your diet. It is definitely a short career and at the end it is worth it wouldn’t choose a different lifestyle!

[@geirmagnusson2803]

I would happily “lose” my freedom to play professionally. Still is a dream of mine. Might even sign for Hartford Athletic soon. I am excited and willing to work.

[@afnanhisyamhussin2589]

Geir Magnusson good luck! 🤙🏻🤙🏻🤙🏻

[@ay613]

God bless

[@ay613]

Btw m8 u wont lose all ur freedom it isnt a monk life or something u will have time its will just be stricter than ur life now basically.

[@GamerKing-qo1hp]

Yo I’m from ct TOO bro but I’m a sophomore so can’t go pro yet lmaoo

[@jasonmason6910]

good luck ! My Icelandic friend

[@elijah8350]

Keep up the hard work bro. It's tough to sustain that level of a proffesionlism especially in football. I know this due to being scouted to play for ODP (olympic development program) and made the U15 team all the way to U20 for the national team, and at such a young age I had to sacrifice so much and at the same time I had to keep a level headed mind and give it 110% I loved it, then hated it when I kept having the pressure, injuries, and missing my friends back at home. It is tough and I do feel for Gareth bale and now your situation due to experience. Keep fighting and when you no longer enjoy what you do, thats when you hang up the boots. Set certain goals and try your best to achieve them. Hang in there bro you are not alone! Great video btw!

[@michaelbucknor7434]

The point is we're doing what we love ❤

[@jmustardb382]

Now u the realest here bro 💪🏿⚽

[@MrBalancelight]

Yes BUT with due respect, the most important thing I get from Mat's video here is how far we are willing to sacrifice of other important & necessary things in life. For example, you do absolutely love playing soccer but at the same time you do feel really sad when you need to live alone far from family, missing important events of your love ones, or your partner wants to break up with you because she is not sure about the future of you and her due to LDR. So I believe the WILLINGNESS to embace the consequences of your sacrifices are the number one factor to succeed rather than just deciding to do what you think you really love as your career.

[@michaelbucknor7434]

I got that too but its a sacrifice cz i just love playing soccer i dont need a pro contract to play but how else am i going to do what i love and take care of my family so i understand the consequences of being a pro but i am willing

[@snowhillmediainc4383]

Its a breath of fresh air listening to someone being real about a situation that from the outside seems "entirely perfect". One thing I can say is you've made it a long way despite the challenges so keep going! You're motivating me to get back in the game so keep being an inspiration. God bless 🙏

[@s_.1052]

Mo Salah is on holiday and looks to be having the time of his life

[@Technolini]

"looks to be having the time of his life". Important to note that it's just what he chooses to share on social media, he probably works about twice a day a lot of those days. It's probably his only vacation time right now aswell, then back to the grind. For him, with the money, fame, and titles, it is probably all still worth it though. You sacrifice some things to gain others.

[@jasoncoathis600lbsobese6]

@array s except being a footballer is 10x more stressful on the body and mind unless your a business owner

[@alexj1650]

He is playing at the african cup of nations

[@s_.1052]

@@alexj1650 still having the time of his life

[@harrisonsonandalama8418]

@@Technolini "Money, fame, and titles".... titles, he said TITLES! 😅😅

[@Gamedome]

You know. I can't say how comforting that is to become aware of. Thank you dude. I think there are tens of thousands of us that needed to hear this one. Well put together, well articulated, maybe once you decide to hang up the boots consider becoming a coach, I have a funny feeling you would play to a strength you have yet to realize you have, and that is inspiring others. The effect of this varies but for young players full of hunger and ambition, you could very well be the catalyst to bring them several steps closer to their dreams. I hope you keep going sir, live the dream no matter the price, keep reflecting on it and share with us your insights, and always look forward to the next step because even if someday the game may leave you behind, you can never leave the game behind. Have a blessed day

[@deyanvladimirov3280]

Great video, Matt! Really important topic, because people need to be aware what is the reality of being a football player. It involves a lot of sacrifices, difficulties, pressure and etc.Also people don't see what happens behind the scenes and judge football players so much.Most of the time their judgement is not right and they don't understand what it takes to be playing at the professional level.

[@franckkabran3637]

workers go through this for less. I mean, that's the sacrifice. Think about soldiers. They put their life in for much less. So I think footballers are better off.

[@jestersage8700]

Soldiers are the only real example though tbh. Many workers work for less because there isnt any rarity or high demand for what they can do. If they acquired something that was unique and in demand then they'd get more. Simple as that. Professuonal Footballers work hard to develop something you can't get with the hundreds of thousands maybe even millions of footballers worldwide. So they get what they're worth.

[@matevzpotocnik]

Imagine not having Mimi. All the best Matt. Stay positive 💪

[@markorajkovic8894]

i am from Serbia and i am following your channel for a months. Thank you for recording all of this and helipng kids with a dreams.

[@fbefbeaz]

Definitely a great video, and i can relate a a lot to what you're saying. Although it is very different in terms of what level you're playing at. I myself have been playing professional football in Denmark for 6 years now, and from my experience in the Danish Superliga, it is definitely not as robotic as you say, and this lifestyle is literally the dream.

[@alanwestbrook9632]

I have followed you for years, since I was trying to help my daughter learn to kick a knuckle ball and you had some tips video I came across. Your editing, and overall production skills have progressed SO much. I agree with others that this your best video from a production standpoint. It has been an amazing journey to follow, and I am sure you have great things coming. Not to be too Dad-like, but you should really be proud of all you have accomplished, on every level, not just soccer. Thanks for sharing.

[@LC-py2es]

This really touched me, Matt. I played all my life, but due to the fact that I wasn't able to land a pro contract a few years ago (had a semi-pro contract) I had to take a choice to go and find a regular job. Now I live well, but I'm unhappy trying to do my best to play again, even if it's just for a few coins until my body can't take it anymore. I know I'm close, I'm 26. I won't have this energy in 10 years. I won't be able to play the way I want to in 10 years. And the thing is that I really think, in the bottom of my heart, that even all I've been through, the effort it's worth it the minute a match starts. It's crazy. Those that are passionate to play this sport will understand. I look forward to keep watching your videos, keep working hard, man. Peace.

[@bhf11em]

Great video Matt! Definitely have to make sacrifices but it goes with the profession just like a lot of pro sports or jobs that require 24/7 work! At the end of the day I think it’s all worth it especially if you enjoy it and you’re passionate about it!

[@nathanhunnisett9197]

Wow this really shows a different point if view that I never would have imagined. Thank you for sharing that.

[@danielyorwarth8845]

Moral of the story - everyone has something to complain about, no matter your situation.. its relative. However big or small it is, its how you deal with it. Don't make excuse, change your mindset, change your outlook and it will change your life.

[@jaymarjones876]

I can see that it's true but that doesn't matter me I want to become a professional player with gratitude

[@erockthehorse]

My high school soccer team gave us this packet that says your priorities should be 1.) Family 2.)School 3.)Soccer But if you really want to go pro it has to be the other way around

[@jaymarjones876]

@@erockthehorse yup

[@MrBalancelight]

@@erockthehorse on point!

[@erockthehorse]

@@MrBalancelight I just missed my global regents wtf

[@MrBalancelight]

@@erockthehorse Haha..ok2, relax dude. But what had actually happened? Whatever it is fear not, I know that there were soo many pro and star football players who had been facing similar problems or even rejections in the beginning of their football career. Keep pushing.

[@ehsaankhan7078]

That was so deep and so real, it hit me hard, much more respect for all pro athletes around the world especially lower level ones

[@ay613]

Ultimately its ur choice there are people with a stricter lifestyle so i still see it as a blessing.

[@nomoremrniceguy368]

Yeah, like people in the real world who have jobs. We're told what to do, where to be, when to eat...it's called having a job. Sorry, not buying bale's whiny nonsense here.

[@ay613]

@@nomoremrniceguy368 innit

[@MrBalancelight]

@@nomoremrniceguy368 hihihi

[@nadeemparab4159]

Its not easy being a footballer. When i started my semi pro career i came to know why the players are paid so high. Its because of their hard work and all their sacrifices. You just explained my life that is going to be in another few yrs maybe. Great love for u Matt. Touching video

[@darrencritcher3570]

Great piece Matt, valuable insight into the life of a professional footballer. Looking forward to progressing with you on the programme. 👌

[@paulrichnelagbor7136]

Well done! You just explained every job, you get told what to do when to do. And It's more boring than kicking a ball

[@Vidz.3901]

I would literally be playing 24/7 on the training ground learning new ways to play and be better at my style of football then vacation

[@okay7562]

lmao

[@DevPatel-vf3mw]

Bro you will be in the mls very soon , just remember to never give up . You deserve to play in mls

[@Bianconero-ce2ky]

9:20-9:25 when u talk about always having to be disciplined with what u eat and then u show that beer commercial i started cracking up

[@plf5695]

Everything comes with a price attached. Lovely honest video that, besides professional football it highlights what is wrong with the modern world.. I wish that I could contact you to help to change the situation. Thank you for having posted it,

[@JoaoSilva-mr9sw]

Well. I'm not Professional Soccer Player yet But my "Second Job" is IT and that happens to me becuase I was putting so much Pressaure on me to be the Best and I start to feel like a Robot. More Later I discover that I was doing the things wrong and I need to relax when I feel my Brain having a Burn Out. Is Natural that People Judge You (Good or Bad). You don't need to be a Robot to be the Best you only need to Enjoy the Game (Knowing what is your Paper in the Team like a theatre performance, not equal because you can change all the Time :) ..). When I play soccer I don't think in nothing I only enjoy what Im doing with my Hearth knowing what I need to do. Good Video

[@soccerfanbronxny]

Man, I don't know if you're ever going to see this message but man, I love seeing your videos. You are living the dream, and I'll continue to pray for you to continue to succeed. This business is crazy and you open the eyes to all this young guys. Man, all these young kids want to make it and some kids have talent but don't know the actual work that needs to go into it. This work is when you're by yourself, not in a pick up game. Those minutes when your by yourself trying to get better. I've told so many young kids, those are the ones that separate you. Man, I wish we could meet. good luck to you and I'll keep following you .

[@j.lizbardo]

In escense it's just like a regular job, that pays alot more if you are in the 0.0001% I have never seen a true and good professional of any profession who is NOT costantly worried about any decision made. That is basically adult life. Anywhere, all the time.

[@isaacmckirgan7735]

IMO your best and most compelling video yet Matt keep up the good work

[@bangbang3690]

Honestly people need to stop praising every single thing Matt says... he is not right ALL the time. I understand that he speaks the truth and tries to explain how the pro life is as honestly as possible because I am also a pro player in a very similar situation as him and I definetly get where he is coming from when he speaks about the pro life because it is very true. Although sometimes he just comes off with negative thoughts and point of views that are just not helpfull in any way what so ever to tell to people who haven't been through the process yet. For example theres a part in this video where he is going through his thought process and he thinks to himself "i will keep working now because if I am lucky enough to play for a decade of pro soccer, I will be able to live a normal life then, after my career". That is just not a good thought process to share on here because there are alot of kids and teens seeing this who look up to him and try to copy him in every way possible to reach their goals, so that thought influences them in a very destructive way because there js no need for a player who just starter playing pro or semi pro to get near that thought process. some people actually dont worry about all the sacrifices they made some people just live life day by day and aren't worried about what they have lost in the past or what they sacrifice in the future or what they are missing out now. Some people just want to play and reach a higher level or be better version of themselves every single day due to the fact that they have very big goals futbol wise.

[@nelsonavila2573]

I hear you man. I usually agree with Matt but he's giving the wrong message on this one. I mean he lost me when he started comparing pro life with being in prison. I understand theres a lot of sacrifice but its worth it.

[@Nitepsychotrip]

Both of you have missed the entire point of the video, smh 🤦🏽‍♂️

[@Nitepsychotrip]

Nelson Avila 🤦🏽‍♂️

[@bangbang3690]

@@Nitepsychotrip not at all man I get he is trying to make people aware of the sacrifices and losses you will take for the career but he speaks out in a pretty negative way man

[@nelsonavila2573]

@@Nitepsychotrip I get the point of the video. Matt is simply informing his younger fans about the realities of pro life. Thats great and I respect and appreciate his honesty. What you fail to understand is that I disagree with the prison analogy and with Matts overall message hes sending in this video. In a nutshell, sacrifices and loss of freedom are inevitable in any worthwhile career path, not just sports. Heck, it's a reality of being an adult in general. So complaining about not being able to go snowboarding and comparing that to prison is frankly just disrespectful. Matt should have done a better job at making it clear that despite all the sacrifice, it is worth it if you truly love the game. He didn't.

[@akoayakosilaaysila2095]

"Enjoy yourself and everything will follow" - Pele Movie "Enjoy yourself" -Goal 2 Movie What is the point of football if you are not having fun?

[@kika6857]

Amazing Insight, my son is at Sheffield united academy he enjoys watching your work. 💪🏾

[@stephentackett4064]

You are also describing a life in the music industry. A guy told me a long time ago " If you can live without music/sports then don't go pro. Only go for it if you simply can't feel alive without it"

[@Nitepsychotrip]

Some of you stopped watching the video halfway and didn’t listen to what he was saying, and it really shows 🙄

[@scmcguy4232]

Kenny J. Rebollo how did you know🤤

[@justinsichula6520]

Kenny J. Rebollo it’s just that most of us have heard this jargon spewed over and over again. No disrespect but that’s the world of sport. Crying about the injuries the travel does not make sense. It’s part of the game. Plus the dude lives in the US, Vegas is like a 5 hr flight from most places and most hotels have gyms. Dude can rehab and spend time with his family. Some of us have been displaced since we were 18.

[@Nitepsychotrip]

Justin Son you literally missed the whole point of his video then 🤦🏽‍♂️ and no, he can’t rehab and spend time with his family, the majority of professional footballers have to stay with the club so they can keep track of recovery progress, etc. Did you stop watching halfway through the video? You would’ve seen where he literally explains that. It’s not always as easy as buying a plane ticket and going. You don’t know what expenses he may have, what his finances are like, what goes on even further behind the scenes that you won’t see in the video. The video isn’t to complain about his life it’s to share the reality of a professional career to those that might be oblivious to the sacrifices and hardships that come when you are a professional footballer

[@justinsichula6520]

@@Nitepsychotrip No man I think if you take a look at the comment section most share my sentiments, and we have watched the video to its entirety . I meant if the family has an outing in Vegas, what's stopping him from spending the weekend with them, when he clearly stays a few hours flight away, we see high profile players doing this all the time especially during rehab. Also, when was the last time you actually saw professional players having the time to record edit and post youtube videos. cmon man he plays division 2 football in the US but complains like he is playing premier league football.

[@nelsonavila2573]

@@justinsichula6520 thank you sir. Im not hating on Matt, Im actually fan. But he literally made a 14 minute video complaining about not being able to go snowboarding or going to birthdays. Like bruh Ive had to let go of friendships and family members because they were bad influences on me for this dream. Im sure you and all the others who disagree with this video probably had to make similar or worse sacrifices. The point is, thats life man.

[@hilltan2611]

Hi Matt. That's so motivative. The pain is always temporary and we are designed to forget about them as time elapse. On the flip side, the absolute pain of regret of not realizing our ultimate potential can be life long. If you felt like the pressure is too high to handle, try to talk to a performance coach. The pain and boringness of living a robotic life is not a pathetic consequence, it's the only reason why we are able to consistently deliver while those normal human beings don't.

[@LuisMartinez-um2mu]

To be honest with you, I would have loved that life. To me, this should be more of a military approach instead of "prison" approach. Great video.

[@killua287]

Freedom is really what a human wants isn't it? I'm one of those guys who thinks you're having the dream life but this video actually opened my eyes to the reality of it all.

[@adamfoxx3209]

Still a lot better being a soccer playing robot than to be a robot in a cubicle all day coming back home every day stressed and lazy

[@isaiahslucher9741]

THANK YOU MATT! This video is the best video I’ve seen on this subject! I will be Heading to Brazil to play 2nd division ball with Figueirense. I currently live in Phoenix let me know when you travel here so I can see you again PHX Rising! Best wishes and GOOD HEALTH in 2019

[@Closed4good0]

This is a terrible mindset for anyone trying to be someone in the game not just to have the title “pro player” You keep grinding my friend.

[@alphabah49]

It's the reality. It's to make people who are considering this path that's it's not all roses and money. Of course it pays really well but you must be 100% committed to playing pro football It has to be your lifeblood

[@cheesemouse7774]

Matt, It takes a lot of courage and tenacity to do what you're doing. Most people can't do it and even some of the ones who can don't, because of the fear of failure. My best to you on your quest to be elite! Cappy

[@ToxicAfricanKing]

In essence, it's a fear of passion losing its spark and becoming a chore. That is when passion becomes a task, a burden, and something to be resented.

[@MikeSmithTX]

Matt. One of your best posts by far. Every kid seriously considering a future in soccer beyond high school age should watch this. God bless and thank you!

[@firaz_futbol]

I rather be a robot doing what I love , instead of having more freedom and doing something that I don’t like ⚽️❤️

[@Anthony-iv9eq]

This comment is stupid. I don’t need to elaborate on why it is.

[@ay613]

A robot cant love tho

[@ay613]

U cant get true love unless u have freedom to choose

[@johnyp2967]

The majority of us are stuck in a job we don't want it have no interest in.

[@fernxxiii8720]

I’m 16 and this is how I live my life, I’m not sure if I’m wasting my life or if I’m setting myself up to be great, I believe this will pay off one day but I rarely hang out and only train and get good sleep. I’m not a pro however so I don’t know how Matt may feel however.

[@tobiasede8011]

I wish I had a life like yours, but it the idea of trying to go pro with no backing from anyone. ( family friends teachers) but I want to show them wrong. I don’t care that I have to travel to play, to train mainly everyday, just for that chance of making a dream come true Matt I just want to know how did you persuade your family and friends to make at a decent level, even though you might not make ? Love what you are doing, big fan Don’t let dreams be dreams Tobias Ede

[@ay613]

Mat God help ur life

[@Tubingonline1]

This channel is easily the most authentic one on KZbin. Thanks Matt for being so honest and transparent and sharing your soccer life here.

[@dhavalpanchal5923]

Omg this was just so great to listen and understand. Good luck 🙌

[@iieder9453]

" enjoy it right now and keep pushing" Thanks Matt for always motivating me to work harder!

[@nyanewratto1680]

I'm sure David Beckham, Thierry Henry, Ronaldinho or Drogba would not be feeling like robots. Soccer players only make these sacrifices for about 20 years. They have the rest of their entire lives to live in affluence. Imagine other careers in which people work all their lives feeling like robots and living on a paltry pension.

[@abrahamcervin2643]

20 years is a lot of your life man

Love your channel, I’m recording mi way to college soccer, I’m Mexican, I’m 17, and I’m a goalkeeper, I understand you perfectly.

[@AsaFletcher]

I have to say this is the best video you have ever made.

[@MrLeetuck]

I can relate to a lot of what you just said, being a pro footballer myself and living across the other side of the world. We have a lot of ups and downs. Miles away from loved ones is real tough but doing what you love is the highest reward. On the flip side of the coin being close to home but working 8 hours a day in a job we hate while having someone telling us what to do... Now that's what I would call a robot. I guess every job going will have good/bad mate. Stay strong. We all have the same thoughts that come and go bro.

[@manjusharai92]

You have to sacrifice freedom but after 37 you are free to do anything....... WORTH IT.

[@MrGts92]

Yes and no. All those years of being told what to do where you go, to absolute "freedom" is a culture shock that not every footballer can get used to. Money doesn't sort out everything.

[@WatNeyHD]

A ton of them can do anything after 23 lol

[@eloy3318]

Man it’s totally worth it and keep going, I really look up to you and always strive my best, you make me want to keep getting better everyday.

[@albertopina5043]

About how much do u get paid in that club? I’m just curious

[@randomperson8162]

Bale earns like 12 mil euro per year

[@randomperson8162]

Plus other money for advertising etc

[@The_Fitness_Vault]

Hi Matt, My name is Hubert Brzoza. I enjoy seeing your perspective, what life is like as a pro. I'm a youth soccer player from Connecticut, USA. I'm a winger and a forward. I've captained my high school team for two years, scored some important goals, and I think I have enough talent to go and chase my dream, of becoming a professional footballer. Right now, after graduating from high school, I am in a difficult situation. I think I am a good player with a lot of talent, but unfortunately, I have not shown enough to get scouted. Despite being a key player, my first three years in high school were not good enough to get scouted, and my senior year I fractured my collarbone in pre-season. Therefore, I did not play a single game. With many setbacks, I was unable to play again until March. After coming back from my injury in March, I joined a local premier team and played out the season until June. I am confident I have a lot of ability, but I see it just as a matter of an opportunity coming along, and me taking this opportunity. Now, I am in a position where I don't know what to do next. As of right now, I'm in a financial situation where I might not be able to go to college, to play soccer in college. What is the best option for someone in my situation? What kind of pro opportunities/trials should I be on the lookout for? Do you know of any good academies/clubs in the CT area? Also, if I were to go to college, do you think it is better to play for my college team or look for a high-level club on the outside? Thanks, Hubert

[@younghustla8714]

Having a job makes you a robot dude. If you love football you won't feel like a robot... Take an example from Cr7.

[@MrGts92]

CR7 who acts like nothing but a robot, making sure he's diet is on point, training is on point, lifestyle is on point, has to have body guards, has to deal with people fcuking him over, media politics, keyboard warriors, and now has to deal with a rape case.

[@TheBassAngler1]

What?! Cr7 is the definition of a robot. Dude does everything a specific way everyday. If you’re a cr7 fanboy how do you not know this lol. His whole appeal is how he works himself into who he is. He isn’t raw talent, he’s refined talent at the highest level. Dude is the definition of a robot athlete.

[@younghustla8714]

@@TheBassAngler1 read again bro i said you won't feel like one,cause you love what you do and cr7 is an example of a passionate guy that loves his job.

[@ay613]

@@MrGts92question is does he feel like a robot??? having a strict diet just shows discipline

[@MrGts92]

@@ay613 well I made several point making him robotic. Not just one thing

[@Snowboarding2020]

At 33 I can tell you that the last 15 years zoomed by, the only thing that's important to you has to be football and you must be able to enjoy all parts of it. The moment you have second thoughts about things like practice, gym or nutrition then it's pretty much over for your career because you mentally checked out.

[@briandalton2786]

U have to love the sport to succeed

[@juniorclos1007]

Matt appreciate the vid. New generations gonna have it a hell of a lot easier with channels like these

[@ko88881]

I still want it and I will get in Jesus’s name I will be a professional footballer🎚⚽️❤️

[@esechamo2521]

Amen

[@klopcodez]

You have to work hard to be there, God helps those who try

[@معاذ_الجمَّال]

Kumar M JIL good luck

[@amosk3938]

You will get there, believe.

[@ko88881]

King Algebra thanks man I know I can do it

[@jeoc1717]

Best video i’ve seen in a while from Matt...not to discredit any of his other videos but he really spoke about the reality of what it means to make sacrifices not just in an athletic lifestyle as he stated it’s a prison sentence although he is willing to be apart of what this dream has to offer there are others that study their asses off in high paying professions like physicians, lawyers ect. To those that don’t make their dream whatever it may be you probably didn’t take into consideration the sacrifices that have to be made such as time, friends and family. This applies to anything you want to be great at and truly successful in your day to day life

[@pouriajaderi3858]

Notif squad

[@ryanlee7796]

This is really deep. I've been playing for the last 6 years at an academy level and as a kid we all get that fun but come to think of it am I ready to lose all that freedom. Going pro is definitely a dream for me, especially since soccer has been a huge impact on my life and with this it opens up to the reality

[@orangotango9231]

Are u pro now

[@gwen-ib4gq]

love the videos!

[@JodabeniTV]

I started playing soccer in 10 grade. Its probably the only thing that kept me moving forward in life, because it gave me goals and better things to attain. Forcing me to complete all my tasks so I can be free to play, and now Im at a D1 school and it continues, and I can't wait to join the pros and see what God has in stored for me. It won't be easy, but I can definitely handle that over my 7am to 6 pm engineering job.

[@anthonycruz2147]

Good video,you are the best!!!

[@tylonkosi861]

After actively chasing the dream of being a soccer player for 8 years , I quit 2 years ago ...I used to watch all your videos and they really helped me a lot , I became good enough to play at U/19 level for a professional soccer team in South Africa ,and then went on to play Castle league(national U/21 league) I ended playing a handful of friendlies and one league game ...I had one bad game and the coach lost all confidence in me and I eventually lost confidence in myself and that went on to be my last ever competitive game of football... I couldn’t get my confidence back and I eventually got dropped from the team ....football is amazing , but I started hating it , and I went through depression...that’s when I decided to quit ...I don’t regret it though , I still play for fun and that’s enough for me .

[@sanzharsmc]

how is it going now? r u ok bro?

[@ttyninja]

If Gareth Bale doesn’t like his lifestyle I would be happy to switch with him

[@anirudh7829]

me too..

[@Nitepsychotrip]

Brandon Santiago you’d last one week

[@Alex722]

But, Real Madrid wouldn't....

[@wolacuil2054]

@@Nitepsychotrip Agree lol

[@theanomaly404]

Man...I'm just so touched...its truly one of the best reality video that I've seen lately

[@haxgaming9291]

Love this guy but 100% don’t agree with that prison sentence quote

[@BecomeElite]

Haxgaming 92 that’s fine, here’s Cavani describing the pro life as a prison sentence as well: www.theplayerstribune.com/en-us/videos/edinson-cavani-uruguay-freedom

[@nelsonavila2573]

@@BecomeElite I understand the prison analogy in relation to losing your freedom. But I disagree with the context you and Cavani are using it in. At the end of the day, both Cavani and Bale are making enough money so they and their families are set for life. Perhaps, for generations. That alone makes the sacrifice and loss of freedom worth it. Not to mention the people and fans they have inspired over their career. Its not about what your losing but what your loved ones are gaining. Thats the mindset you need to have. Like you said, youre not being compensated like they are, so I get why you may feel or have felt like a "prisoner". But I find what Bale said and what Cavani said disrespectful and immature.

[@nastynautical4599]

I am a aspiring professional soccer player. I was supossed to go to germany on trial and because of covid I wasnt able to go. Im currently living in a family friends room above their garage. its tough man my coach has a good rep but is terrible with communication. im 20 years old and my best friend of 13 years plays soccer in spain and i miss him so much man. im just trying to make this dream come true and its so difficult. but i am in it for the long run and am willing to sacrifice almost anything to make it come true. i really enjoyed this video. i feel a weight on my shoulders. but am willing to stand strong under that weight. i am sitting at my desk typing this tearing up because of the reality of my situation. i have to keep telling myself "this is what you have always wanted to do". im making a change to my lifestyle BECAUSE OF THIS VIDEO. I am so glad i came across this video. you have inspired me to BECOME ELITE!

[@rahatahmed6188]

Bro keep playing football, work hard and waste your life. Bro, Foden got scouted when he was 6. Don’t waste your life with football, you won’t make it.

[@pcat_5644]

Meanwhile rashford is in his villa training and chilling everyday with friends yeah mean it's hard men

[@thegamingspot2304]

pcat_5 tf is that profile pic

[@RegensDominor]

Great video. While I cannot be sympathetic to professional footballer's woes I do understand them e.g. missing out on family events etc. But on the flip side as he said "it's what we signed up for". As we know professional footballers when they get to the big leagues are paid a lot of money. I would say that's fair compensation. Of course for players in the lower leagues they're not paid as much, but they have the potential to make it into the big leagues. Great pay, model girlfriends, flashy cars. Lots of down time. And they play football for a big rather than being stuck in an office for 8 hours a day. It's not a bad life.

[@zukeow117]

Yeah Gareth, it's called job, and you should be thankful that you are getting paid millions, because there are people that go to the mine and got paid 10 dollars. You have all: respect, money, cars, houses, fame and just have to train few hours at week to be in shape, which is also good for your health. You're a privileged and have the face to complain? Omg.

[@John-mu5ow]

he said in the video that he doesn't earn that much lol 🙄

[@danielarpentii3088]

A few hours??? Nah man. A good body shape needs more than just a FEW hours

[@zukeow117]

@@danielarpentii3088 More than a good body shape u just need a good resistence and take care from injuries. Gareth is not a good examplr to talk about this tbh. It's not that hard, thousands of well paid footballers do it, they exercise like 2-3 hours at day and its not even the whoke week but some days, and we are ignoring the ball-work where you're literally having fun with friends.

[@stevenc.1470]

John Gareth Bale...doesn’t earn that much....his contract is for $150 mil over 6 years...

[@zukeow117]

@oneofthetruelovers N Considering your solving yours and your next generations life and only need to be well physically for a few years, going to gym and literally playing, come on.

[@_arnavmathur]

If being a top pro is like being a robot then I'm ready to be a robot for entire life