How Pros Dominate the Mental Side of Trials | Gaining Confidence

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@MrIsles192
@MrIsles192 3 жыл бұрын
Asking about a team mates football boots is a good conversation starter.
@anifexsson6780
@anifexsson6780 3 жыл бұрын
Just hit them with the how r ya
@farhanshaikhvloins3755
@farhanshaikhvloins3755 3 жыл бұрын
Which intro music is this can u tell the name
@kingaufswag
@kingaufswag 3 жыл бұрын
@@yo1049 😂😂😂😂
@Temufinds12
@Temufinds12 2 жыл бұрын
Confidence Tips:( in new team) 1. Greet everyone before training 2.stand up straight + eye contact 3. Start a casual conversation in locker room 4.hop straight into pre-training rondo 5.ask to join passing or two touch Before training session. 6. Confidently ask for the ball 7. Repeat same action after a mistake 8. Take feedback with confidence: Look in the eyes and say got it! 9. Dont be the first one off the field. 10. Start up a casual conversation after session. And the most important train more. More than everyone and you will be 100% confident player. Everyday become better than you was yesterday confidence will actualy come
@hrishikeshsarma6012
@hrishikeshsarma6012 3 жыл бұрын
CANNOT emphasize enough how true this is. I'm someone that usually doesn't talk much but I'll walk into rondos knowing I got this shit. I got called out by a teammate in training for playing a risky backheel pass in defence. But it worked out. CONFIDENCE. I did the fancy stuff again. I had a good session. No one said a thing after I pulled off risky moves while it worked. They'd play the ball into me even when I demanded it in risky spots. I have the confidence to wriggle out. If I fail? I'll do it again, while obviously being aware and sensible. This is one thing you learn from players like Neymar. They'll lose the ball, come back up like nothing happened, win the game.
@LOLBOI-hq5ix
@LOLBOI-hq5ix 3 жыл бұрын
do u play in india? how old r u? ty
@hrishikeshsarma6012
@hrishikeshsarma6012 3 жыл бұрын
@@LOLBOI-hq5ix yeah from India, 19 yo
@harambey
@harambey 3 жыл бұрын
Soccer is simple, dudes who play scared simply don’t understand the game enough Confidence is the side effect of experience The most confident man in the world won’t be confident in a soccer game cause he doesn’t have experience
@hrishikeshsarma6012
@hrishikeshsarma6012 3 жыл бұрын
@@harambey word.
@kmud7750
@kmud7750 3 жыл бұрын
Ten minute Tuesday. Great topic and solid points
@danfearon1343
@danfearon1343 3 жыл бұрын
Matt, another great vid about a subject that is not spoken about enough. My young daughter who has exceptional skill struggles in this subject and we are working on bringing up the confidence quotient so thanks for posting this.
@anifexsson6780
@anifexsson6780 3 жыл бұрын
Everything you said is completely correct. Mentality>Skill
@BecomeLitos
@BecomeLitos 3 ай бұрын
7:54 The laundry basket being literally Infront of you with a big plate saying with Caps LAUNDRY 💀
@qbraham.
@qbraham. 3 жыл бұрын
4 minutes in and I’m already motivated to be more confident
@Marquesfadez_401
@Marquesfadez_401 3 жыл бұрын
I love these 10 minute Tuesday’s
@thesoccerlifestyle1449
@thesoccerlifestyle1449 3 жыл бұрын
Matt I was at the Lou City vs FC Tulsa game on Saturday. I watched you a lot and I'm looking forward to your highlight tape because I know it was a difficult game for you and your team.
@kysemajel2923
@kysemajel2923 3 жыл бұрын
I have a combine at the the end of this month. This helped a lot!!
@CalvinFox31
@CalvinFox31 3 жыл бұрын
good luck man wishing you the best!
@TheMontyMole
@TheMontyMole 2 жыл бұрын
This is some of the best advice not just for soccer.. but also for job interviews, making new friends etc.
@elijahpressman5614
@elijahpressman5614 3 жыл бұрын
dude matt, this is the one big thing a struggle with as a high school soccer player. This video helped out a ton thank you.
@sammountain8760
@sammountain8760 3 жыл бұрын
The mental side is the real area that’s holding back my progress. This video has been huge for me - thank you so much Matt ❤️
@andreasfootball6285
@andreasfootball6285 3 жыл бұрын
I understand exactly what your saying. I have that problem that when I mess up, I don’t want to make that mistake again so I maybe don’t show for the ball. But instead I should get on with it and try it again to further improve myself. Another great vid!
@mkramos07
@mkramos07 3 жыл бұрын
Another accurate and amazing insight by Matt Sheldon keep on putting out bangers on and off the field mate!
@Radley10
@Radley10 3 жыл бұрын
Nice video👍 I’m 14 and my goal is to play professional at the highest level and I’ll definitely take this into action
@ppsaneesh7225
@ppsaneesh7225 3 жыл бұрын
This video was like a doctor solved my old problem in a second .
@CalvinFox31
@CalvinFox31 3 жыл бұрын
haha that's awesome
@efrainautzbach1559
@efrainautzbach1559 3 жыл бұрын
Hey Matt, could you do a 2-min Tuesday on playing for a team with negatives teammates/coaches? How to deal with them? Especially if they are #1 in the state...
@mikeyisme
@mikeyisme Жыл бұрын
1000000% experience matters. i joined a new team w negative confidence examplng everything matt said been at the team for 3 years now I'm captain and playing with hella confidence and it wasn't as much getting better but the time. when u have confidence nothing is hard
@JasonFam
@JasonFam 3 жыл бұрын
I literally just started training with my new team in Germany (I’m from the U.S) yesterday. This video couldn’t of come at a better time haha.
@sanatanism660
@sanatanism660 3 жыл бұрын
Wow one of the best videos of matt . must needed as I would be going to the trails of I league in october
@jbpentertainment3849
@jbpentertainment3849 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for listening to the DM Mimi!!
@oliverweng114
@oliverweng114 3 жыл бұрын
Brilliant video
@Teachingtony
@Teachingtony 3 жыл бұрын
move on from mistakes, what a simple yet essential piece of advice
@gemma_fitzpatrick27
@gemma_fitzpatrick27 3 жыл бұрын
I can’t tell you how much I needed this 🙏 You should just call it ten minute Tuesday 😂
@davidhill5988
@davidhill5988 2 жыл бұрын
My dad always said, you have a free pass to be cocky on the pitch but as soon as you leave the pitch, you leave your cockiness there. He called it a light switch, you switch it on when you're playing and switch it off when you're done. That metaphor always stuck with me
@kaelenmatascastillo3765
@kaelenmatascastillo3765 3 жыл бұрын
Literally first day of college preseason is today and this video was already out and ready. Very helpful in my opinion, even as a goalkeeper, which tends to be a lonely position. Thank you!
@FOOTBALL-clips7777
@FOOTBALL-clips7777 Жыл бұрын
self confidence is the most important thing in the pitch, and believe in skill do you have
@soccerskillz7911
@soccerskillz7911 3 жыл бұрын
thanks matt ive been struglling with confidence
@Jalen_fut
@Jalen_fut 3 жыл бұрын
Today is my first day of training for my college team. There’s no coincidence that I stumbled on this video at this exact moment, hours before we get on the pitch. Thank you for a fantastic video. I’m definitely going to be way more confident and try and change my mentality. I’ve always been that kid who “goes back in there shell”, so I’m going to be more outgoing and use different body language to demand the ball. Great video again!
@carsonstille3275
@carsonstille3275 3 жыл бұрын
Never have really had a problem playing with new people in tryouts, it’s the first few training sessions with the new team that’s a struggle with me, but this advice is very useful
@ArturoGarcia-py2so
@ArturoGarcia-py2so 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Matt! I have trials for my high school team this week. I really needed this.
@gustavburke162
@gustavburke162 3 жыл бұрын
This is exactly what I’ve been needing to work on so thank you very much Matt
@brendenkrebs1533
@brendenkrebs1533 3 жыл бұрын
Just started for my college team and I’ve been struggling with my mental game, needed this rn. Thanks so much!
@malc1717
@malc1717 3 жыл бұрын
Bro I’m getting started too tomorrow! Apart from the fact that it’s not d1 or d2
@luisgarcia373
@luisgarcia373 3 жыл бұрын
Mentally, I am as good as Ney. 😂😂😂 Train hard and do in the games what you practice. Learn from your mistakes. Record your games so you can watch the mistakes you make and work on those mistakes.
@malc1717
@malc1717 3 жыл бұрын
@Yvan Sainathan no it’s not American, it’s just a post 16 football academy in England
@jacksonkiefer7482
@jacksonkiefer7482 3 жыл бұрын
perfect timing for college walk on tryouts in 2 weeks
@samersulaiman9825
@samersulaiman9825 3 жыл бұрын
Seriously man , you should make a new page talking about self development , your way of explanation is brilliant
@_jakehames
@_jakehames 3 жыл бұрын
I'm currently studying sport performance psychology and what you're pointing to is both intuitive/clear and proven time and time again in the research. Thanks for taking the time to talk about the importance of the mental side of the game!
@zyon.b20
@zyon.b20 Жыл бұрын
You got any more advice to add to this?
@thomasburke3956
@thomasburke3956 3 жыл бұрын
Very helpful. Thanks Matt. Also, only 6 days till the B'day!
@fnslowed
@fnslowed 3 жыл бұрын
Bro i have a trial tommorow wish me luck!
@ghsapash9302
@ghsapash9302 3 жыл бұрын
Good luck 🤞🙏
@qoyummusa2722
@qoyummusa2722 3 жыл бұрын
Good luck man.. have fun
@fnslowed
@fnslowed 3 жыл бұрын
@@ghsapash9302 thanks man appreciate it❤️
@rahulcr7911
@rahulcr7911 3 жыл бұрын
Good luck bro... Where r u frm?
@fnslowed
@fnslowed 3 жыл бұрын
@@ghsapash9302 thanks!
@mzroblox9708
@mzroblox9708 Жыл бұрын
This really helped, first day of recreational training in juventus academy and got scouted to enter competitive
@zacharyzemmels7391
@zacharyzemmels7391 3 жыл бұрын
I have just moved to Spain from the US to play for a 5th division team here. Knowing I can do these things already makes me feel more excited and less nervous for my first training session next week. Thanks as always Matt.
@bakijr11
@bakijr11 3 жыл бұрын
thank u for that vid god bless u matt good luck on ur career
@ulisesrodriguez1277
@ulisesrodriguez1277 3 жыл бұрын
Confidence is literally everything, I was probably one of the worse players in my high school team regarding with skill with the ball and so for the first 3 years I was never confident enough to ask because I felt like I would mess up, that would happen because I felt like imma mess up it made me mess up but then I started to think to myself that I shouldn’t care if I mess up in practice, that’s the point of practice, to work on your skills so it gave me the confidence that I shouldn’t care about messing up and led me to play better than ever even
@LuisHernandez-fj9ru
@LuisHernandez-fj9ru 3 жыл бұрын
Very good advice! I appreciate you taking the time out of your busy schedule to do these videos ! 💯🙌🏾
@malc1717
@malc1717 3 жыл бұрын
Bro amazing video, you just posted this at the right time because I’ve got college trials/pre season training with my college team tomorrow! (It’s not American though so no D1 or D2 or whatever). Thank you so much Matt!😇
@jonas9402
@jonas9402 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks matt just watching this video gave me a boost of confidence
@diadiaa892
@diadiaa892 2 жыл бұрын
I play netball but all of your videos are applicable in some way! I really appreciate it man!!
@LyonsGolf
@LyonsGolf 3 жыл бұрын
Genius to post this as preseasons are starting
@ultrapegasus123
@ultrapegasus123 3 жыл бұрын
This is what’s my main problem right now, mentality. Need it so much to level up my game
@Daniel.Emmanuel10
@Daniel.Emmanuel10 2 жыл бұрын
One of the best videos you’ve done tbh Only the conversation starters can be hard if you’re in central Europe and aren’t fluent in Polish 😂
@christopherfowler1010
@christopherfowler1010 2 жыл бұрын
Really needed this, Ive had a really rough time with trials and I have been leaving every trial knowing I am better and should have done better and I dont get on the teams ive wanted to and think i deserve to. I totally relate to shying away, I wont call for the ball, and when im on the ball i play too safe. I always try to move on from things in tryouts but its really hard those mistakes really eat at you if you let them, especially for me where i set pretty unrealistic standards for myself. But next trial I will make sure that when I make a mistake to move on like nothing happened and go to the next play.
@kamrantavalla753
@kamrantavalla753 3 жыл бұрын
he is the goat for a reason
@bluespark9927
@bluespark9927 3 жыл бұрын
I really appreciate the fact that Matt puts effort into editing the video to make understanding things easier thank you Matt🙏
@dvee9119
@dvee9119 3 жыл бұрын
Great video, Matt! Videos about confidence will be so valuable to a lot of players, so please create more! If you could do a video for gaining confidence in a game the way you did for a training would be great :)
@oj2701
@oj2701 3 жыл бұрын
Great vid I needed this video because I have a trial today
@tertiusaucamp2606
@tertiusaucamp2606 3 жыл бұрын
Got trials today, wish me luck. thanks matt
@SebastianRojas-uu2cp
@SebastianRojas-uu2cp 9 ай бұрын
this is amazing, really will help me getting more confidence
@byaruhangabenonbenson5812
@byaruhangabenonbenson5812 2 жыл бұрын
Wow this is some good info Thanks so much 🙏🙏⚽
@daniellepope6332
@daniellepope6332 3 жыл бұрын
That was the best vid yet keep it up
@javigodoy824
@javigodoy824 2 жыл бұрын
This is actually exactly what i needed for my current situation. common Matt W
@whygoldberg10
@whygoldberg10 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Matt. I needed this.
@letsplaysoccer1338
@letsplaysoccer1338 3 жыл бұрын
Matt does it once again, great video🔥
@evangelistemusic
@evangelistemusic 3 жыл бұрын
Matt never misses
@Patrick-Messi10
@Patrick-Messi10 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Mentor ❤️
@leoredrin392
@leoredrin392 3 жыл бұрын
This was the best video i've seen in a long while
@jeffwongvancouver
@jeffwongvancouver 3 жыл бұрын
Very good points!
@f.torresjr88
@f.torresjr88 3 күн бұрын
Thanks ❤
@nun-ya-business-brah
@nun-ya-business-brah 3 жыл бұрын
you could do 2 min tuesday (10min) and then do a follow up '2 min tuesday Q&A' about the questions people have from the previous vid. Cheers mate.
@randomperson22562
@randomperson22562 3 жыл бұрын
Ever notice how players like Salah actually lose the ball the most on the team? However no one remembers that because they rebound back and score
@xavierulshafer8652
@xavierulshafer8652 3 жыл бұрын
Great video, I’m switching positions for a season and I’m kinda nervous for it. This video should help me.
@stephenwalker7970
@stephenwalker7970 Жыл бұрын
Have a trial today so this was really helpful Looking to be my most confident self in and around my peers and on the pitch
@lookdbandit
@lookdbandit 3 жыл бұрын
This video is exactly what I need for my son. You've explained eloquently. Thank you!
@sheakosyla2981
@sheakosyla2981 2 жыл бұрын
I literally have that lamp lmao, it’s right next to my iPad on my nightstand, which is what I’m watching this on atm
@hamad21_.7
@hamad21_.7 3 жыл бұрын
What a great video matt! You really helped me! Best of luck for the rest of the season👊
@Sigge-if6tl
@Sigge-if6tl Жыл бұрын
This really opened my eyes i have not reliased why im getting more and mor unconfident but the loop mad me understand
@rahulcr7911
@rahulcr7911 3 жыл бұрын
Best 2 mins Tuesday so far👊👊... But a little longer than 2 min...😁
@momoadem
@momoadem 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks a lot Matt ! From Belgium!
@nobodyhere2155
@nobodyhere2155 3 жыл бұрын
Needed this, thanks.
@CalvinFox31
@CalvinFox31 3 жыл бұрын
Lets go lets keep grinding !
@andrewsmith5742
@andrewsmith5742 3 жыл бұрын
Loved the video! I’m always struggling to shrug off and forget about errors I make during games or on the training ground!
@tjg119
@tjg119 3 жыл бұрын
I feel this is one of the most informative and helpful videos I've seen
@afonso4587
@afonso4587 3 жыл бұрын
great video! Really appreciated that!
@sheldonstanley8002
@sheldonstanley8002 3 жыл бұрын
Funny how my favorite KZbinr drops this video right before my trial 😂🤝legend.
@asantehlubi10
@asantehlubi10 3 жыл бұрын
🙏🏽man…you keep releasing the best content for Footballers…Thank you
@penultimategaming9722
@penultimategaming9722 3 жыл бұрын
thanks matt u got me through this summer and now ready for day 1 tomorrow goat.
@elijahtumuhairwe-embabazi4000
@elijahtumuhairwe-embabazi4000 2 жыл бұрын
It's so cool how these simple steps can lead to so much more confidence in training and on the pitch. I'm new to this channel but am learning so much, so thanks a lot Matt.
@unknown-tq6ls
@unknown-tq6ls 3 жыл бұрын
Let's go, another 10min Tuesday
@zaimliu02zaim53
@zaimliu02zaim53 2 жыл бұрын
This is soo inspirational, kinda on a plateau now bc of this confidence issue, great video!! thx Matt
@dasilvasantos4340
@dasilvasantos4340 3 жыл бұрын
This advices are gold,thanks matt
@punishernine9147
@punishernine9147 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Matt! Great video!
@snowxy1010
@snowxy1010 8 ай бұрын
This really helped thank you
@maz1071
@maz1071 2 жыл бұрын
i have a tryout for a rep team in 2 days this was recommended at a perfect time
@maz1071
@maz1071 Жыл бұрын
L, u failed lol but seriously, i didn't make it because I got nervous and had little to no confidence, I didn't really listen well to this video and now that I look back at it, I'm low-key happy I didn't make it because I wasn't putting in effort in my individual training, I was still at the level to play for the team, but now compared to myself back 5 months ago, I'm am much much better.
@jk10fac42
@jk10fac42 3 жыл бұрын
Great video lots of good tips
@yasuotop1348
@yasuotop1348 3 жыл бұрын
Super Helpful thanks!
@olleegerhag4668
@olleegerhag4668 3 жыл бұрын
This actually helped me so much. Thanks Matt
@Madhav1234-q8m
@Madhav1234-q8m 8 ай бұрын
One of the best ever video I have ever seen,luv from India.
@Ruben-pb3ro
@Ruben-pb3ro 2 жыл бұрын
Matt, i love your videos, you’re giving me so much more motivation. 💪🏻💪🏻
@Domfinity
@Domfinity 3 жыл бұрын
Needed this vid Matt. Thank you
@hakimi4795
@hakimi4795 3 жыл бұрын
REALLY HELPFUL VIDEO.
@npawkazekage026
@npawkazekage026 2 жыл бұрын
I needed to hear this
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