Being a virgin at 23 is embarrassing

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Ezinne Zara

Ezinne Zara

Күн бұрын

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@EzinneZara
@EzinneZara 3 жыл бұрын
Hey guys! As some of you have noticed, there’s no AD showing on this video & that’s because this video contains and mentions sexual content. If you want to support me and this channel, please share this video so it blesses as many people as possible. God bless you. 🤍
@Kachi_Agu
@Kachi_Agu 3 жыл бұрын
Definitely going to share this everywhere, it's too insightful.
@VisionBearer
@VisionBearer 3 жыл бұрын
I was contemplating sharing this because of it's sensitivity, but after reading this; my mind is made up!
@Kachi_Agu
@Kachi_Agu 3 жыл бұрын
@@VisionBearer I had this thought for a second too, but the world is not keeping quiet about sharing its own views on sex, so neither will we. Even if it's one person who's going to see this and make a decision today, that'd be so wonderful. 🤍
@Francisca_esonwune
@Francisca_esonwune 3 жыл бұрын
I just shared via WhatsApp
@SandyCoco1
@SandyCoco1 3 жыл бұрын
Ezinne, what please I'd really need a video on maturation, heard it affects ones sexual life and yes I'm 21 and a virgin, well I call myself a fargin 🥺🙏
@horschiday9449
@horschiday9449 2 жыл бұрын
This world is crazy, I’m 26 almost 27 and still a virgin by GOD’s grace. I chose to honor GOD with my body and I never regret it. I’m almost done with medical school and getting married soon to another doctor. We both chose to remain like that until after the wedding. It’s not easy but it’s doable by GOD’s help. Don’t listen to people who shame you coz deep down they envie you... the devil is a liar. Be blessed.
@ikechukwukelechukwu9148
@ikechukwukelechukwu9148 2 жыл бұрын
YOU'RE RIGHT in saying they envy You Ma'am! I had a girl say that to Me months back. At FIRST,she was LIKE: "hmmm.... You're missing out o.. on your wedding night YOU'LL be naive! What if your husband ISN'T good in bed? To which I replied: "I'VE BELIEVED with all my HEART in GOD'S TRUTH contained in the HOLY scriptures AND!, My husband is the ONLY man I want to taste😋..and Can actually SATISFY ME😋😋😋🙂!~ SHE NOW LOOKED AT ME SOBER and said: "YOU'RE right😣... I WISH I'm STILL like You SISTER.. I admire Your FAITH IN JESUS CHRIST and the PURITY of Your HEART 😣. I'VE changed My ways though😣".
@Unyime
@Unyime 2 жыл бұрын
That is so awesome 👍
@kennethibrahim9927
@kennethibrahim9927 2 жыл бұрын
I hope you're not from Nigeria because if you're from Nigeria hmm I told you is lie
@Lizbeon
@Lizbeon 2 жыл бұрын
They truly envy you. Congratulations to you both.
@egbonaisosaruth2598
@egbonaisosaruth2598 2 жыл бұрын
Pls teach me how to stay...
@purposefulrelationshipwithdoxa
@purposefulrelationshipwithdoxa 3 жыл бұрын
I'm 25. Never had sex, never kissed and all of those other things. God has helped me. In secondary school, I remember going to God and being bare. I was like, "God, I know I like men, and very sensitive to touch, please help me." It's been years later, and I haven't experienced any pressures in the light of being sexually active by the help of God. It's possible, people. Sex is such a deep thing and it's beautiful but more beautiful if done within the confines of how God intends it to be done.
@Mimmosa
@Mimmosa 2 жыл бұрын
Girl, me too😍😍I'm turning 26 next month
@ifyn.7810
@ifyn.7810 2 жыл бұрын
33 years a virgin and still counting ...God's grace has truly been Sufficient...Thanks so much for the true words...thanks for encouraging people like me...God bless you always maam
@folapanache
@folapanache 2 жыл бұрын
I am too, and I'm not ashamed. I grow day to understand what God has kept me from over the years and I'm glad that I still stand with no pressure on my side.
@ifyn.7810
@ifyn.7810 2 жыл бұрын
@@folapanache that's great...more grace ...we are many on this lane
@jaylove9739
@jaylove9739 2 жыл бұрын
God bless yall wow
@BrotherNick777
@BrotherNick777 2 жыл бұрын
@@ifyn.7810 bless you sister. It’s almost impossible to run into a virgin these days.
@oreoluwasowunmi
@oreoluwasowunmi 3 жыл бұрын
It’s funny how virgins are actually being shamed 😳😳😳. Popularity doesn’t equal truth too . The standard is the word and that should be the final authority over our lives . Another thing I wanted to add is this , virginity isn’t a “gift” you give to your husband (somehow ladies are wired to think this way ) . You choose to be a virgin to honour God . It’s honouring God first . Virginity too doesn’t equal purity 😎. One can be a virgin and still be impure ( satisfying your sexual desires in other ways ). Sexual purity is attainable and the greatest lie the enemy sells is “everyone is doing it.” Not everyone is doing it and it’s possible through the help of the Holy Spirit
@oluwatobilobaolaniyi4313
@oluwatobilobaolaniyi4313 3 жыл бұрын
Preeeeeeeeeach!!
@oreoluwasowunmi
@oreoluwasowunmi 3 жыл бұрын
@@oluwatobilobaolaniyi4313 you dey here too 😌😌.
@ibukunoluwaokunoye2605
@ibukunoluwaokunoye2605 3 жыл бұрын
This comment is wonderful
@mosoriresuccess6968
@mosoriresuccess6968 3 жыл бұрын
This comment is GOLD. Thank you for sharing such truth rooted in Christ :)
@valerie.
@valerie. 3 жыл бұрын
PEOPLE WILL ALWAYS CHAT SHIT. SOME MEN ARE OBSESSED WITH VIRGINS AND SOME MEN THINK THERE IS SOMETHING WRONG WITH THE WOMEN. THERE IS NEVER SOMETHING WRONG WITH YOU IF YOU ARE A VIRGIN. AS LONG AS YOU ARE CONTENT WITH YOUR DECISION IGNORE THE IGNORANT PEOPLE!
@_iamhisbutterfly
@_iamhisbutterfly 3 жыл бұрын
My biggest take away is that our sexual purity journey doesn’t end when we get married but should continue in guarding our hearts ♥️
@thelightwecarry
@thelightwecarry 2 жыл бұрын
Hmm very true o
@Cassandra-250
@Cassandra-250 Жыл бұрын
This is so true, great contribution!
@Menethewriter
@Menethewriter 3 жыл бұрын
Had to come back to watch this again, I just wanna that if you are staying celibate until marriage, gather here for a group picture to remind us of our journeyyyy🤗
@dwi5114
@dwi5114 2 жыл бұрын
Girl I was a virgin until 25, and my husband is the only man I’ve been intimate with. Married for 13 years, and counting. Together for about 20. Stay the course. God will give you a testimony to give your kids!!!!
@teresasindique6193
@teresasindique6193 3 жыл бұрын
I'm 18 years old girl and a virgin, you can already imagine the pressure people put on me to lose my virginity. I'm really happy the way I am, I mean, I am truly happy. Thank you for video , I was needing
@jessicanwoke3575
@jessicanwoke3575 2 жыл бұрын
You won't regret keeping yourself for your husband and God
@Sophytimo
@Sophytimo 2 жыл бұрын
Pressure is a thing of the mind. I've seen people who kept their bodies up till 30 yrs, stay put.
@kaysmellsgood
@kaysmellsgood 2 жыл бұрын
@@jessicanwoke3575 I get this but why is keep yourself for your husband only preached to females? Men should also keep themselves for their wives .
@chidinmaorie7700
@chidinmaorie7700 2 жыл бұрын
@@Sophytimo thing of the mind pls explain further
@afuayeboah9149
@afuayeboah9149 2 жыл бұрын
I guess you shouldn’t make public, that’s your private matter. Just believe in yourself and be proud of it and stand firm on it.well done and keep it up.
@tonyelevybraide
@tonyelevybraide 3 жыл бұрын
This video 🥺🤎. I used to be very sexually active and bruhhhh, it really messed up my mind for a long time. I agree with you. Deep down, there’s a lot of unhappiness but you just keep going because you think it’s supposed to be that way. I went through all these emotions. I’m happy to be out of that life now, tbh. I’ve been celibate since 2019 and it’s been bliss. The peace and freedom. This is the true freedom tbh. I regret my past decisions. But thank God for mercy, love and grace. I look forward to my beautiful marriage and sex life with my husband.
@EzinneZara
@EzinneZara 3 жыл бұрын
Goshhhh 🥺❤️
@zamytemi
@zamytemi 3 жыл бұрын
I remember your testimony, Tonye! It really blessed me.
@oreoluwasowunmi
@oreoluwasowunmi 3 жыл бұрын
Tonye ♥️♥️
@_Natalia24
@_Natalia24 3 жыл бұрын
❤️
@adewunmioyindamola6923
@adewunmioyindamola6923 3 жыл бұрын
Love this comment ❤️
@YosiKingdom
@YosiKingdom 2 жыл бұрын
I am 30 and a virgin. Proud to be one. Keep yourself believers.
@samuelsamuel5485
@samuelsamuel5485 2 жыл бұрын
Very proud to still be a virgin at 33. Though had been in three different relationships but had cut all of them as each of these ladies thought we can't be together without sex. As at now in no relationship while believing God for my virgin friend. That is my pride and gift to my wife. She is the one i made that vow for and am keeping it for her to honor her with it.
@BioMajek
@BioMajek 2 жыл бұрын
Sam, we're in the same boat I'm 30++ as well, one if the best decision of my life
@alexeyk5260
@alexeyk5260 2 жыл бұрын
Man, i'm a little bit younger, but i also go this way. I just read your words and want to say that i hope you will find your love of your life soon! Praying for this!
@bellemax855
@bellemax855 2 жыл бұрын
This is cool now I believe there are male who wants to wait. Never believed that at first
@Neneolachiyoung
@Neneolachiyoung 2 жыл бұрын
Wow, congratulations and happy for you
@BabyMomento
@BabyMomento 2 жыл бұрын
This is really good... I am in aww... i would love to meet with you if you don't mind
@Vone1612
@Vone1612 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this... Lady... I'm a guy.. I'm 25... Been through a lot.. And I decided to be this way.. Thanks so much for this .. It's a booster to my spirit.. I love hearing from you.
@oluwatomiesther1480
@oluwatomiesther1480 2 жыл бұрын
God Bless You
@jonnycruise5097
@jonnycruise5097 2 жыл бұрын
Keep it till marriage,God bless you,it pays,I can tell you that.
@bcdbcd1010
@bcdbcd1010 Жыл бұрын
same here big bro... keep going
@tonyelevybraide
@tonyelevybraide 3 жыл бұрын
God is wise! Everything is for our good. If only we could just trust Him.
@oreoluwasowunmi
@oreoluwasowunmi 3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely 👌🏽
@kimadiggs237
@kimadiggs237 2 жыл бұрын
Indeed! God has everything in His hands
@inyingialaben-stowe
@inyingialaben-stowe 2 жыл бұрын
this comment is speaking directly to me. I don't want to be logical about putting my trust in God & His timing but I'm struggling. God isn't foolish but for some people like me, accepting & coming to terms of how boundless God's love for me or themselves is a struggle. 🥺😭😭
@totallyanonymousbish9599
@totallyanonymousbish9599 2 жыл бұрын
Her
@latestmovies9365
@latestmovies9365 2 жыл бұрын
Am 19 years am still virgin, not gonna break it until wedding night by the grace of God 🙏
@lovethonwujei
@lovethonwujei 3 жыл бұрын
Sex is the major tool of the devil in this end time. We must push the message of purity forward. God bless you Ezinne❤️
@igandanabimbola267
@igandanabimbola267 3 жыл бұрын
True, especially the fact that the abnormal things of the world are now becoming normal. Thank God for what he's doing in our lives.
@lovethonwujei
@lovethonwujei 3 жыл бұрын
@@igandanabimbola267 Amen🙌
@youngbiney
@youngbiney 2 жыл бұрын
SMH
@the_creative_star
@the_creative_star 2 жыл бұрын
I’m so grateful for this video because I’m 21 turning 22 and still a Virgin and cannot publicly declare it. The initial reason I kept my virginity was cause growing up I felt a lot of elderly people (I mean people old enough to be my uncles and fathers) tried to make sexual advances towards me and if not for God I would have been raped. Infact this happened more than 10 times in my life and it started when I was just 7years old and I found out that one way or the other, God kept saving me from this situation. So I told myself thst if God kept preventing me from getting raped at many instances, then I won’t have sex till marriage. Also coupled with the fact that I lived with the fear of having sex in my head for years because of my experience growing up. Fast forward to being 21 and so many urge have sex keeps coming and I thank God for His Spirit and discipline. Because all that kept me from not having sex till now is the Fear of God honestly. Thank you for this video, would definitely share it with my 16 year old sister
@BrotherNick777
@BrotherNick777 2 жыл бұрын
Publicly declare it, you’re doing the will of the Most High. He’s bigger than the world.
@cynthiaphiri3059
@cynthiaphiri3059 10 ай бұрын
Your story is similar to mine. When I was young I somehow got away from men that tried to rape me even up to when I was in university. I thank God for saving me all those times and he continues to. I am waiting to get married to have sex, it is not easy but I can do all things through Christ.
@ntokotom147
@ntokotom147 2 жыл бұрын
I'm 21 and still a virgin. I'm not proud of the fact that I tried to disvirgin myself but glory to God that I still am. I want my husband to be the ONLY man to experience me❤️❤️
@nnametumichelle708
@nnametumichelle708 2 жыл бұрын
Keep it up sweetie
@chilciejames9207
@chilciejames9207 6 ай бұрын
How did this work out cus I'm currently thinking of doing the same
@ntokotom147
@ntokotom147 5 ай бұрын
@@nnametumichelle708 im now 24 and still a virgin
@ntokotom147
@ntokotom147 5 ай бұрын
@@chilciejames9207 i set boundaries and I pray to God to help me
@SavedbyGrace93
@SavedbyGrace93 3 жыл бұрын
It just hit me right now that I’m 28 and a virgin! 28 guys 😂😂😂! I feel like i was 23 just yesterday i can’t believe it! Where did time go!! Whoa!! I’m enjoying every bit of this video sis!! And I can’t wait to experience what you said happens once you have sex with your spouse! It’s so beautiful! I thank God for preserving me even before I came to Him and for keeping me pure as I wait on the one He has for me! I have been a virgin my whole life it literally feels like a part of me 😂! Looking forward to that married life though! Thanks again for sharing! Love you ❤️
@estherawuzie
@estherawuzie 3 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️
@justme123456100
@justme123456100 3 жыл бұрын
💞💞💞 keep yourself for your husband. It pays off sis.
@tinuketosin2706
@tinuketosin2706 3 жыл бұрын
That's so amazing
@oguamasonnia4727
@oguamasonnia4727 3 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️
@vivianchudi
@vivianchudi 3 жыл бұрын
Same here
@mkyemaotabe4222
@mkyemaotabe4222 3 жыл бұрын
If it makes anyone feel encouraged, I'm 27 and i haven't had sex before. Yes, Guys want to sleep with me. I like the idea that i have so much self control. By the Mercy of God i would like to have to sleep with only my future husband. Don't let anyone shame you. That body is Yours and it is Gods Temple, consecrate it. Sending so much love to everyone
@evelynayeduvor6078
@evelynayeduvor6078 2 жыл бұрын
Please stay that way. It worth it dear, trust me. Your body is the temple of God🥰
@alexeyk5260
@alexeyk5260 2 жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh, you inspiring me so much! I'm 23, and i also had took decision to wait until i'll find girl of my whole life and marry her. It wasn't even related to religious views, at that time i hadn't found God yet
@sodvine3486
@sodvine3486 2 жыл бұрын
I'm 39 and yes my peace is made perfect in Him. I wouldn't do it any other way.
@mbalimavuso8735
@mbalimavuso8735 2 жыл бұрын
Trust in the Lord sis, I'm a 32 year old virgin and God has been so faithful. The man I'm in a courtship with, soon to be my husband has been sent by God and the wait is worth it.
@samuelm_studio
@samuelm_studio 2 жыл бұрын
I am currently in a season of praying and fasting, I am a 27-year-old who has decided to wait until marriage. I've understood why I need to break certain chains in my bloodline & what I need to do in order to be the one in my bloodline to break chains. As I'm fasting I found this video & I know it's God speaking to me!
@eyethumfazwe
@eyethumfazwe Жыл бұрын
Keep going fellow compatriot 🇿🇦 glad to see another brother in Christ waiting until the wedding night
@AbimbolaAjayi
@AbimbolaAjayi 3 жыл бұрын
Wattpad, Harlequin, Mills and Boon, Nora Roberts omo these books had a strong hold on my when I was younger ehn, the way I used to consume romance novel 😩 Till God gave me the instruction and strength to stop reading em.
@jeh_ssy
@jeh_ssy 3 жыл бұрын
You know the drill
@maggieramara
@maggieramara 3 жыл бұрын
Wattpad stories are truly from the devil🤣, I used to read them back in highschool😂
@jessicaajuonuma7211
@jessicaajuonuma7211 3 жыл бұрын
Same here. These books nearly had me in, I was addicted but thank God for saving me from them.
@MaeOtto
@MaeOtto 3 жыл бұрын
Nooo... this makes me sad because I just published a book on wattpad. And I'm a Christian novel writer
@iampanashejoy
@iampanashejoy 2 жыл бұрын
@@MaeOtto you should be fine as long as you keep away from the nasty stuff and stay using your gift for God! Who knows who you may reach through Wattpad? (Just make sure God has led you there for it to fully work🤗)
@dimplesgina9313
@dimplesgina9313 3 жыл бұрын
Very concise my sister! I married quite late at the age of 31 and I kept my virginity till marriage and never regret it!wedding night was amazing and my husband was on cloud 9 coz of the special gift I reserved and preserved for him! I could go on and on
@EstherOlabisi
@EstherOlabisi 3 жыл бұрын
Awww
@dimplesgina9313
@dimplesgina9313 3 жыл бұрын
@ lol!
@AdaoraOA
@AdaoraOA 3 жыл бұрын
Hmm,was your husband a virgin too?
@olafab3998
@olafab3998 2 жыл бұрын
I'm in my late 30's and i'm also a virgin.People shouldn't be ashamed of being virgins.The normal shouldn't be tagged abnormal.It's best to wait .May God give us all our Right spouses
@LiLisLounge
@LiLisLounge 2 жыл бұрын
Aww, thanks for sharing this sweet testimony!
@jasperaifam6210
@jasperaifam6210 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks dear for inspiration I'm 22years almost 23 and I've never had sex, kissed or masturbate before. Sometimes I feel I'm alone in this and I want to give up, being in the university and having almost all my friends having sex and sharing their experience and they make me look like I'm in the 16th century 😔 But thank God for platform's like this where I can read comment of people who are even 27 and above and are still sexually pure it means we are many God bless us all 💚💙🙏
@Sophytimo
@Sophytimo 2 жыл бұрын
Keep it up! I'm 27yrs and I've not kissed anyone too. Just praying for God to bring my husband. Sexual purity is really beautiful!
@sadraolaedo4733
@sadraolaedo4733 2 жыл бұрын
Mind the friends you KEEP, Remember "EVIL COMMUNICATION CORRUPTS GOOD MANNERS" It is written in the Holy Bible
@alexmunachi300
@alexmunachi300 2 жыл бұрын
16th century 😅
@kalyarobinson3299
@kalyarobinson3299 Жыл бұрын
Amen keep going girl
@susancharles3025
@susancharles3025 3 жыл бұрын
I’m 13 thank you so much
@Litany8554
@Litany8554 6 ай бұрын
Although I'm two years late, but I love the passion with which you delivered this. Concerning sex before marriage, I've heard a relationship coach and pastor say that sex before marriage leads to building appetites your spouse will never be able to meet. This can lead to dissatisfaction and eventually adultery. In his words "If you say you're not enjoying sex in your marriage, compared to what? " We were supposed to enter marriage with a clean paper for our spouse to fine-tune to their taste and vice versa. Anyways, may God help us.
@la_lah
@la_lah 3 жыл бұрын
I know the exact YT video you are talking about cause he mentioned the age. I watched it a while back and I just said this boy isn’t serious AT ALL. Many people say, your body your choice. Not having sex is also a choice and no one should be shammed for it.
@jideabiaka4487
@jideabiaka4487 3 жыл бұрын
Lmaooo the fact that I know this boy irl. I just hissed 😂. Was not surprised at all.
@uzoemengo
@uzoemengo 2 жыл бұрын
Pls what's the name of the video 🤣🤣
@kallmekoko6277
@kallmekoko6277 2 жыл бұрын
What's the name of the channel?
@oluwatomiesther1480
@oluwatomiesther1480 2 жыл бұрын
Link pls?
@titysardonyx207
@titysardonyx207 2 жыл бұрын
Pls o, where is the video?
@ekelindaadaku
@ekelindaadaku 3 жыл бұрын
Eshey pupopupo.... i remember one time my friends and I were having lunch and a school mate joined us, we got talking about Tiwa's sex tape(apparently just hearing of it for the 1st time) so the school mate said "its normal for us women to have sex but why should it be filmed " God bless pastor Mildred Okonkwo she is a gift to me!!! Instantly I said she can't generalize the fact that its normal for all women to have sex, she can actually speak for some or herself.. mhen!!! You literally need to see the way she looked at me like i was some alien from another planet😂😂. "Why are you looking at me weird cause i said not all women are having sex?? " imagine this babe wan shame me for using my body to glorify God... hello!!! She actually said "who's this lady and what planet did they bring her from and can someone come take me away from her" for this kingdom you can't fit shame me ejor(I'm doing right with the Holyspirit help, you wanna come and shake it. no way!!) she saw that i was standing my ground and my friends were mute.. then she changed her statement and said "you're right some ladies have sex and filming it ain't appropriate " i smiled... for this kingdom our body na burnt offering for God, no premarital sex till marriage... thank you for sharing..
@_Ruks
@_Ruks 3 жыл бұрын
Love this comment 😂❤️
@divineikemefuna2149
@divineikemefuna2149 3 жыл бұрын
No way !!! Dey no go shame us oo
@Akesi_18
@Akesi_18 3 жыл бұрын
I love this😂😂😂❤
@diyallthings
@diyallthings 3 жыл бұрын
People don’t try to pull others up. They usually pull people down. Nobody laughs at another for not being top in class or not excelling. They laugh at others for not going to clubs, sleeping around, drinking... 🤦🏾‍♀️
@qualisfro5610
@qualisfro5610 3 жыл бұрын
E for energy! I love🔥🔥🔥
@Pelumimoraks
@Pelumimoraks 3 жыл бұрын
Omg someone finally spoke about this 🥺, I feel like one of the reasons I’m still single is cos I’ve been praying to God to help me and he knows if I fall into the wrong relationship I might just fall to sin, I’m so glad you spoke about this 🙌🏽
@gloriawaritimi5286
@gloriawaritimi5286 3 жыл бұрын
Same hereeee
@uyoyoueyiyere2368
@uyoyoueyiyere2368 2 жыл бұрын
Same here. Secondly, I'm single because most guys won't date without sex and I want a partner that believes in sexual purity as I do.
@TheDoreenTube
@TheDoreenTube 3 жыл бұрын
This is one of the best videos I’ve watched on sexual purity! I hope it goes viral because everyone needs to watch this❤️ Also, I absolutely LOVE the way you edit your videos!
@goodymotivation9397
@goodymotivation9397 3 жыл бұрын
I am 27 years old guy and a virgin... it is a good thing to stay put till when the time is right....
@TheBillionaireVessel_
@TheBillionaireVessel_ 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for doing this! I'm 21 and I'm proud of being a virgin. I'm not feeling any certain way about this because it's the right thing and it's what I want.
@OmotolaAyeni
@OmotolaAyeni 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Ezinne. I'm 23 and a virgin; all these was for me, I was having it hard but you've given me encouraging words. I can not clearly articulate my emotions on this, but thank you. You made this for me, it's now more than a fantasy but an affirmation to keep me, for me. Thank you!
@ayomideolaleye663
@ayomideolaleye663 3 жыл бұрын
Please keep keeping it for you dear, till the time is right.
@dimplesgina9313
@dimplesgina9313 3 жыл бұрын
My dear that's great! Keep it, kept mine till 31 and gave it to my husband as a gift! It's worth the wait!
@OmotolaAyeni
@OmotolaAyeni 3 жыл бұрын
@@ayomideolaleye663 I will! Thank you!🧡
@OmotolaAyeni
@OmotolaAyeni 3 жыл бұрын
@@dimplesgina9313 🧡 Waw! I draw encouragement from you, you stood your ground and I can and will stand mine! Thank you!
@chidinmaorie7700
@chidinmaorie7700 2 жыл бұрын
@@dimplesgina9313 how where u able to wait that long and how did u know he was the one
@MwaleWaGitau
@MwaleWaGitau 3 жыл бұрын
I experienced that shame but I decided my virginity is my business! 😳 YES! I stopped talking about it & as life changed & grew people just "assumed" I was like them. I discovered the moment I shared with my peers, they either started putting pressure on me or even said I was pretending! 😳 How can you be a virgin at 38!? Yes it's possible & there are plenty of people who value purity. Not just as a gift for a husband but keeping your body as a temple for the Holy Spirit - a pure place for the Spirit of God to dwell & commune through. Having a right relationship with God should be our highest priority - not pleasing a man or society.
@favouroluomachi6946
@favouroluomachi6946 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you my Love❤️❤️❤️
@jemimahadih6359
@jemimahadih6359 2 жыл бұрын
You literally spoke my mind 🥺,thank you I’ll keep trying!
@stephanieeaton589
@stephanieeaton589 2 жыл бұрын
Amen.
@chidinmaorie7700
@chidinmaorie7700 2 жыл бұрын
38 how?? Such determination
@leegaleaglenombo9430
@leegaleaglenombo9430 2 жыл бұрын
True, I, just, decided to stop talking about it.
@LaetisBeauty
@LaetisBeauty 2 жыл бұрын
I have never been shamed to be a virgin at 21 years old and nobody should. I loved the video❤️❤️
@amlach1
@amlach1 2 жыл бұрын
I am a 36 years old man and I have not had sex yet, I have been careful not to sin against my body, according to Gods word and perfect will. There are greater things than sex, especially from God and life itself. Yet I long for the wife God has prepared for me, I know she will be a part of my future glory and blessing! If you want to stand out, to be a vessel for a noble cause, then there is a price! 2 Timothy 2:20-21 ”But in a great house there are not only vessels of gold and silver, but also of wood and clay, some for honor and some for dishonor. Therefore if anyone cleanses himself from the latter, he will be a vessel for honor, sanctified and useful for the Master, prepared for every good work.” Blessings to you all, may God continue to help and build us up in his steadfast love. Remember we do all come short in some way, if not in this then in some other area.
@chinyereigwemmadu5931
@chinyereigwemmadu5931 3 ай бұрын
It's not too late to give a shout out to this video 🎉... Watching it 3yrs after it's release makes more sense ❤... Thank you Ezinne, i wish this will reach the ends of the earth 🌎 especially in the Christian dome, God bless you ma for preaching the TRUTH without fear or compromise!
@rachelessien8088
@rachelessien8088 3 жыл бұрын
It's so sad that in our world today fornication has been so normalized. Thank yo so much Ezinne for your inspiring story and the encouraging words of wisdom. It inspires some of us who have decided not to compromise no matter what.
@collinsigwemandy5666
@collinsigwemandy5666 3 жыл бұрын
I spoke these exact words to some colleagues yesterday. It’s all about discipline. You cannot NOT be disciplined as a single person and expect faithfulness or that discipline to suddenly appear in marriage. It simply cannot work and will not work. Powerful message.
@melissaeffa
@melissaeffa 2 жыл бұрын
speak on it!
@iamtife
@iamtife 3 жыл бұрын
I am just 18 years old watching this.I have heard about these things and this has been my principle.Thank you Ezinne Zara for more light you have shed on this topic via the Holy spirit😇❤‍🔥💯
@kuffreyjones7496
@kuffreyjones7496 2 жыл бұрын
Thank God I am not lost. His grace is still keeping me... At some point I thought I was an alien. Some couple of months, was having a chit chat with roommate back then in school and found out at 28 still a virgin and she was shocked. It became weird to me as if I did the wrong thing... thank you Ezinne for shearing more light on this.
@gracefieldafanga8510
@gracefieldafanga8510 2 жыл бұрын
Found a mentor I love you so much,I literally went to the hospital to get a HIV test for school purposes and they do like a bit of enlightment about what HIV is and how one can get infected.The doctor asked me if I was a virgin and I said yes and she said keep it up it pays and I felt very proud of myself.
@ruthngube3515
@ruthngube3515 3 жыл бұрын
Ezinne is just talking about exactly what I learned some days ago God indeed is saying something
@pashukeni_
@pashukeni_ 2 жыл бұрын
This is my kind of content, definitely here to stay 🤞🏾❤️ Am 28 and still going strong ☺️
@falayekikelomo4990
@falayekikelomo4990 2 жыл бұрын
It really worth it ....The joy, freedom, happiness and the beautiful 😍 Hope, thanks for this Vedio it renew my 💪💪
@krissy_n5732
@krissy_n5732 2 жыл бұрын
Omg!!! I'M CRYING RN!! My bestfriend lead me to this video and I couldn't be more grateful for her life. I absolutely love videos like this because they make me feel like I belong again. Sometimes it gets way too overwhelming you begin to question whether it's even worth it. We truly thank God for people like Ezinne. People who have made it safely to the other side and can assure teens like me,that it will all be worth it in the end. Thank you thank you so much sis. I loved every minute of it. Each time you made a new point to me was a wake up call. A wake up call from God to stop slacking and to keep fighting because like you said "EVERYTHING HE TELLS US TO DO IS FOR OUR OWN GOD. ONLY HE KNOWS. ONLY HE IS WISE" I'm so tempted to go deeper into which parts spoke to me the most, but I guess I will leave that part for my journal,lol. Love you sis❤️🙏🏽
@royalsbereminded
@royalsbereminded 3 жыл бұрын
Ezinne, this is beautiful and well-articulated. It lifts my heart to know that we have the same PAPA, our Father in heaven. Being a virgin in my 3o's, I am daily grateful that there's no part of me anywhere else but where my Lover and Saviour is. Being Jesus' bride has made the journey a smooth ride without stress, and my heart is filled with gratitude that He has kept me in one peace completely. It is sweet to be kept by the Lord and be purified in HIM. With all you said, I couldn't agree more. I choose to stay where PAPA says I should #freedom not missing out on anything. Much love and Light.
@Ignitechannel23
@Ignitechannel23 3 жыл бұрын
Social media has eaten deep into the minds of my generation. Many people believe now that the best place to learn about relationship or sex is online especially Twitter... “Nollywood, Hollywood or Bollywood have nothing to teach me about sex or relationship” Things to note 📝 1)Be realistic to yourself 2)Avoid setting life styles and avoid people that live that 3)Watch what you feed your eyes and ears 4)Set realistic boundaries 5)Stay prayerful🥺🥺🥺
@daviniumaegis6161
@daviniumaegis6161 2 жыл бұрын
Actually am subscribing to your channel because you spoke the truth and made a lot of sense and honestly I don't understand why people who are virgins actually feel shameful when they hear people say such to them. I don't get it, because they are they and you are you. When you were making decisions you spoke to yourself. Even when a person hears an advice the decision to listen and do it is from within so why do you shake and feel weird like their words are the reason you for your existence. If you have decided then continue and don't stress about it. Laugh and Pray for those who try to shame you because they have little understanding and devil is trying to bound them. Am 27 still a virgin and the only people that know are my family, my close friends from uni days and a few relations (and probably you guys reading this lol). Anyway with my deliberately controlled social life, I don't go about telling the world or feel proud of it. Its just me and that's all, because I know its for my good and to the Honor of God, so by His Grace I stay strong. If you want to feel weird ask God to help you find yourself in Him as Quickly as possible so you can begin to live the life and purpose you were meant for on this Earth. And He can show to you your spouse if He wills or urge you to someone meant for you. Alright my fingers hurts...… Grace to you All and Thank You Ezinne For the truthful packed Video.
@BornofGodalone1
@BornofGodalone1 3 жыл бұрын
The thing is, people don’t know that this world is actually more spiritual than ever,because whatever a person does is an expression of a spirit living in them,so the question is which spirit have you given yourself to as slave? The day I gave my life to Christ and decided to be transformed by God,I realized that we’re actually being deceived and robbed of our glory by the devil.but the world has refused to see that,when you make a sentence and in all the sentences,you keep on saying God God.they say you’re too spiritual,sister we’re ment to be spiritually inclined to stand firm in this world,for we’re in this world and not of it. Anyway to sum this all up,this is a powerful message from the belly of God really,we youth we have to set a Godly example for the next generations coming,if not nobody will be able to speak again. So keeping your body is actually a very good thing,for the scriptures says “your body is the only reasonable sacrifice you can give to God” and your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit.demons and Holy Spirit can’t dwell in one tabernacle regulating it.like I said before whatever expression you make,it’ll show the spirit that is regulating you either God’s spirit or the spirit of demons.because this world is more spiritual than it is or looks. Selah
@olanmatreasure5222
@olanmatreasure5222 3 жыл бұрын
Keep speaking the truth Ezinne! God bless you and give you more boldness.
@ChigozirimPeaceNwabueze
@ChigozirimPeaceNwabueze 4 ай бұрын
Thank you Ezinne for speaking this powerful truth out in a time like this. May God continue to keep you🙏
@okaforgonny6431
@okaforgonny6431 3 жыл бұрын
Ezinne your videos are really inspiring may God bless you. I’m a University student and I would like to ask if you can make a video on how you maintained your fire for God in your Uni days❤️
@tonyelevybraide
@tonyelevybraide 3 жыл бұрын
That hug 😂😂😂😂 leave room for the Holy Spirit 😂😂
@ehinomenakhidue
@ehinomenakhidue 3 жыл бұрын
😅😅 Yes ooo
@tonyelevybraide
@tonyelevybraide 3 жыл бұрын
@@ehinomenakhidue let Him brood 😂😂
@AnjelLovely1
@AnjelLovely1 3 жыл бұрын
Wow! The fact that I was thinking about making a video talking about the same topic is crazy. I love confirmations. Thank you Yah. And thank you for this video.
@allthingsbrie924
@allthingsbrie924 3 жыл бұрын
Sameee! 👏👏👏👏
@AnjelLovely1
@AnjelLovely1 3 жыл бұрын
@@allthingsbrie924 Girl we got some work to do then, don't we lol.
@allthingsbrie924
@allthingsbrie924 2 жыл бұрын
@@AnjelLovely1 you right! Gotta get these videos done👏👏👏
@BrotherNick777
@BrotherNick777 2 жыл бұрын
HalaluYAH, All praises 🙌🏾
@lwipamulenga2449
@lwipamulenga2449 3 жыл бұрын
this message came in at the right time ..... i feel like its GOD answering all the questions 🤔🤔have been asking him through zara ......am just 18 and am in college been having a lot of pressure from my peers,, but not anymore because this video has really encouged me to keep myself till marriage. now i have no doubts that its for my own good
@oluwatomisinolawoye407
@oluwatomisinolawoye407 2 жыл бұрын
Be strengthened.
@EzinneKalu-fw5qx
@EzinneKalu-fw5qx Жыл бұрын
Don't give in to pressure. God's got you
@sedemejersonvlogs
@sedemejersonvlogs 3 жыл бұрын
Hmm this issue . So I recently started working at a hotel and guys be pestering my life for my number and I refuse they ask me one question ; are you a virgin ? It's breaks me every single time knowing that sex has been reduced to nothing these days .am a single christian lady just waiting and loving God ryt now the last thing I want is a relationship devoid of God. So help me God .
@clove8461
@clove8461 3 жыл бұрын
His grace is sufficient for you. Never allow all those weigh you down. You are a jewel so the words of people in pain and whose lived are already disorganized should not be of importance to you. Stay strong
@ogbodoprince1678
@ogbodoprince1678 2 жыл бұрын
You said it all. This is a must watch for all teenagers!!
@okekegraceamarachi9886
@okekegraceamarachi9886 2 жыл бұрын
Wow.. Just seeing this video My story..... I made a decision to get married a virgin but I lost it when I was 20 as a result of rape. I hated sex but droned in pornography for the longest of time. Everytime I finish seeing a pornographic content, I become bitter and filthy. I keep asking for forgiving each time but keep going back but never add sex still. It was a terrible addiction. I thank you for obeying God and sharing this. I hope its not too late for me.
@chimamakaadeniyiofficial
@chimamakaadeniyiofficial 3 ай бұрын
It’s never too late! ❤
@kerrytosan
@kerrytosan 2 жыл бұрын
They call it, "Sexual Liberation". 😂 You description of Hollywood is hilarious 😂
@abalakablessing996
@abalakablessing996 2 жыл бұрын
One person is Godly, beautiful and wise all together. Ah ahn! God bless you Ezinne. You're the bomb. You're a gift to this generation. Your light will never burn out in Jesus name. Amen!
@ada8189
@ada8189 3 жыл бұрын
Can I like this again? Commitment 😎 True love 😍 Health 🤗 peace of mind 😇 honour 🔥 dignity 🚪 respect! Ezinne you are a blessing to the world. ♥
@simplymandy3718
@simplymandy3718 3 жыл бұрын
Well I'm 15 and I watched Thanks for all the lovely advice will share with friends 🤗
@peacedan9425
@peacedan9425 2 жыл бұрын
I used to be very embarrassed being a virgin I was told am just a rigid beautiful girl wasting her beauty, I tried to show people I wasn't rigid that I just wanted to keep myself but it wasnt working I had an encounter, after that I just told myself that I was just going to be myself and serve God with my body no matter what I'm 23 and I am very proud to be a virgin
@graceidris77
@graceidris77 2 жыл бұрын
This title is actually my life. 23 and a virgin and people try to make me feel bad about it but I can’t even be bothered. I’m in the business of serving God first 🤗 It’s not been easy but in the end it’ll be worth it. Thank you for talking about this 🙏🏾
@sommietheadmirable
@sommietheadmirable 3 жыл бұрын
Just two minutes into the video, I have to pause and say God BLESS YOU.
@DicksonJanet
@DicksonJanet 3 жыл бұрын
Well said my dear. Funny enough I’m a virgin at 30yrs. To the few around that knows my status, I’m the most timid and unexposed person. It’s not been easy for me so I support your highlighted points. The pressure will sure be much but we have to STAY PRAYED UP.
@chidinmaorie7700
@chidinmaorie7700 2 жыл бұрын
What's does the prayed up do.. prevent us from falling
@kelechikingsley7968
@kelechikingsley7968 2 жыл бұрын
Omo I'm 22 and i wish I heard this Earlier...i just pray for God's purification and strength to abstain
@kelechivera3718
@kelechivera3718 3 жыл бұрын
I never planned to watch this video but for some reason it kept popping up everytime I opened KZbin. I'm so glad I watched it. Thank you for sharing the truth❤️
@Mr.Modesty
@Mr.Modesty 2 жыл бұрын
This is first time of seeing a video on KZbin without a dislike/thumpsdown. Dear Ezinne, flesh and blood has not revealed the contents in this video to you but ONLY the spirit of God has. God bless you for sharing it. I sincerely love, enjoyed, learnt, unlearn and relearned from this video. God bless you ma and keep doing exploit.
@mabelchinelo3507
@mabelchinelo3507 2 жыл бұрын
OMG😁😁😁 Thank you so much eziinne Zara this is a decision i made when I was 13 year old and I am still on it (16 year old) It hasn't been easy but this video had really encouraged me 💝💝💝
@chiamakanwoko6262
@chiamakanwoko6262 3 жыл бұрын
This video just came exactly when I'm walking through the wilderness... It's not easy but I'm not giving up. Thank you Jesus.
@jamespromise8599
@jamespromise8599 2 жыл бұрын
Just watching this video, I'm a guy still a virgin @25, I've decided to stay pure but it's tough though but I've tried to stay pure till marriage. I pray God strengthens me Amen
@gyunrimaiki5766
@gyunrimaiki5766 Жыл бұрын
Amen dear. You are not alone❤
@preshiofficial10
@preshiofficial10 3 жыл бұрын
Please can you talk about the boundaries that should be taken for Christians about to date 🥺
@Rii_jojo22
@Rii_jojo22 3 жыл бұрын
OMG I don't even know what to say😩😩. Ezinne thank you so much for dropping this video❤..
@talaornela4310
@talaornela4310 2 жыл бұрын
Very powerful 🙏🙏thanks very much I have made mistakes I pray God forgives me and wash me clean again🥺🥺God is all we need in this life
@angelaedhere639
@angelaedhere639 3 жыл бұрын
I'M ENCOURAGED. I AM ENCOURAGED. Thank you, Ezinne♥️ I'll share this to all the young people I know.
@goldenglits981
@goldenglits981 3 жыл бұрын
You're such a big sister, thank you Zara.
@aritnene2139
@aritnene2139 3 жыл бұрын
Will be playing this at the next youth meeting. Thanks Ezinne. You put it far better than I ever could .
@natashabwalya7616
@natashabwalya7616 3 жыл бұрын
It would be crazy to get such wisdom from this video and still engage in premarital sex...Thanks for the video Ezinne
@olalekansonuga9551
@olalekansonuga9551 2 жыл бұрын
God bless you daughter of God. May the Almighty God continue to bless and increase your ministry in Jesus Mighty name.
@Nerickgh
@Nerickgh 2 жыл бұрын
If you are 23 and above and yet still a virgin,my dear, is your blessing you dey carry so. Let no one deceive you into adultery. You should be very much proud of yourself above all your dis-virginized friends. Your own blessings will be abundance. Stay safe for your future wife's and husbands.
@ifechiezeanowi2987
@ifechiezeanowi2987 2 жыл бұрын
Not me watching Ezinne's old videos and actually getting blessed! 🙏🥺 Thank you Ezinne ❤️
@imaabasienoch2552
@imaabasienoch2552 3 жыл бұрын
AMAZINGLY TALKED ABOUT THIS TO MYSELF YESTERDAY!! "EVERYTHING IS FOR YOUR OWN GOOD!" GOD BLESS YOU EZINNE.
@malebohope1636
@malebohope1636 2 жыл бұрын
👏👏👏👏👏👏👏Thank you for sharing this woman of wisdom!
@tamaratarere
@tamaratarere 3 жыл бұрын
Girrrlllllll if you don't speak the truth with encouragement, thank God and thank you!
@py20
@py20 2 жыл бұрын
How refreshing to know that amidst the growing corruption and ungodliness in our world, there are people standing tall for righteousness and keeping their vessels pure! Thanks for your courage to share this much-needed wisdom. May the Lord bless and keep you and all who choose this path!
@ele-ojoagbenu1487
@ele-ojoagbenu1487 2 жыл бұрын
Oh Ezinne u re so amazing, am 23yrs and still a virgin. God is indeed very wise. cos its really not easy out here, just seeing u alone some people find it hard to believe u re a virgin and they see u as a child, I remember the first day my dad asked me if I was a virgin and I said yes, u needed to see the joy and love in his eyes for me.. This video came at a point were I really need it most.. God bless u for ur encouragement dear... I wish I can have the opportunity to meet with you..
@boundlessworship8974
@boundlessworship8974 2 жыл бұрын
Everybody needs to listen to ezinne zara. Thank you sis. Fulfilling purpose is just what you're doing. I Celebrate you big sis
@_Ruks
@_Ruks 3 жыл бұрын
Love this video, Ezinne ❤️. And yes,we watch your videos🤭😂. God bless you 💕
@EzinneZara
@EzinneZara 3 жыл бұрын
Yay! 😂
@misselated5525
@misselated5525 2 жыл бұрын
I am one of the young ones you hoped would see this videos. As a 16 year old, I feel like this is something that I need to start hearing even as a young teenager. Thank youuuu.
@chigasaki06
@chigasaki06 2 жыл бұрын
Being a virgin is beautiful! These days, that's like seeing a unicorn, lol. I'm a virgin and I have no issue with it. In fact, a few of my friends confided in me that they wished they waited.
@bibianaalagye9712
@bibianaalagye9712 11 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this, I am currently dealing with this at the moment I’ve never felt so lost and confused on why my principles should become my flaws. I am so down at the moment but this just gave me unprecedented strength.
@AbimbolaAjayi
@AbimbolaAjayi 3 жыл бұрын
Wow, this is very enlightening, I’ve never thought sex could bring a couple this close after marriage. Idk how or why but since I was a young girl I’ve always know I was keeping myself till marriage.
@gizmoteg
@gizmoteg 2 жыл бұрын
24 now and never even held hands....it's pissing me off
@ValerieBlanche
@ValerieBlanche 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this, been struggling with sexual thoughts recently and this video has really helped❤️ God bless you sis 🥳
@Talkz_with_Joyce_TV
@Talkz_with_Joyce_TV Жыл бұрын
Someone asked me to search for you in this space and I'm glad I did, thank you ma'am
@chiomafavour1426
@chiomafavour1426 3 жыл бұрын
Ah don't say that o😂 I'm 18 and you inspire me a lot, in fact I wish you would post a video everyday, God has placed something in me to start vlogging as a Christian teen, still praying about it though, seeing as I'm a very introverted person and funds too but in all, God be praised
@envoysofzion6163
@envoysofzion6163 3 жыл бұрын
Hi Chioma, keep praying. If God tells you to do it, don't let funds stop you. When you're ready, message me for support. Any small thing will be helpful.
@favour_mkpuruoma
@favour_mkpuruoma 3 жыл бұрын
once God says Go.. Things will work together for your good
@oluwatomiesther1480
@oluwatomiesther1480 2 жыл бұрын
@@envoysofzion6163 God Bless You
@adiimimi
@adiimimi 2 жыл бұрын
Avoiding “The beat” is so true
@ozichi.
@ozichi. 2 жыл бұрын
I watched the video where the guy said you should be embarrassed if you’re a virgin and I laughed. It’s ridiculous how how being sexually disciplined is now being laughed at.
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