Being Shy vs Lack of Confidence - Personality Development Video

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@letstalk
@letstalk 6 жыл бұрын
English Unplugged - New English Lesson Series - kzbin.info/www/bejne/iZbEgWCsjc11Z6M
@mercylopez5181
@mercylopez5181 4 жыл бұрын
This is glorious, I have been researching "how do you overcome social shyness?" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Ever heard of - Beyophia Unimaginable Blaster - (just google it ) ? It is a good one of a kind guide for discovering how to say goodbye to your shyness and anxiety minus the headache. Ive heard some great things about it and my partner got excellent success with it.
@jessicawellstead9990
@jessicawellstead9990 2 жыл бұрын
I had to reinterview for my job last week (I got it!). But I did state that I can be quite shy. My manager said and line manager agreed that I am not shy, I am just quiet and I lack in confidence; but I am a very ‘bright girl’. I had to stop myself from crying in the interview because it felt so nice to have people really see me. Because I used to be very confident and Due to life’s obstacles I’ve lost a lot of it. Thanks for this girl! I wanted to know the difference properly
@monicastringaro637
@monicastringaro637 8 жыл бұрын
Thank you Imelda, a rare example of a confident and professional teacher, maybe you've been shy in your previous KZbin videos, but now you have this amazing and confident attitude wich I find so inspiring for myself, as a self-taugh "adult" English learner (I'm from Italy).
@KinghtsOfMoonShine
@KinghtsOfMoonShine 8 жыл бұрын
Wow I'm both
@JimmyJaxJellyStax
@JimmyJaxJellyStax 3 жыл бұрын
Selective mutism may honestly just be trauma / confidence that could use therapy. Therapy does indeed work - belief is part of it, but engagement with therapy and getting out there to meet more people is the majority of the cure.
@vividvivid8458
@vividvivid8458 3 жыл бұрын
I can tell by words being used in a group and whether or not I want to engage . Now that conversation is different , I have an opinion about that , let me socially interact .
@stalinchristopherdsouza8850
@stalinchristopherdsouza8850 8 жыл бұрын
This lesson helped me a lot. thank you. I'll try to come out of my comfort zone.
@pratheeshbest4956
@pratheeshbest4956 8 жыл бұрын
it really helped me out...... I m gonna practice to gain my confident
@IsLaMTagen
@IsLaMTagen 8 жыл бұрын
amazing all your team work is amazing and introducing new topics in a brilliant way.
@slickperspective
@slickperspective 4 жыл бұрын
I mostly LOC when I have lack of information. Yes, need a lot of practices and tests then I'll be fine.
@hyluiz304
@hyluiz304 8 жыл бұрын
Thank you Amelta, this lesson really helped me a lot. I still have this bearer in me though I am old enough. I need to try get rid of this two. good day!
@tumainjohn6165
@tumainjohn6165 3 жыл бұрын
Woow!! Really enjoyed ur lesson, thanks alot
@ssmmsssverygood8251
@ssmmsssverygood8251 8 жыл бұрын
Thank you madam this video is very useful to me because I can know from you how to practice it. Thanks
@hockhenglim6407
@hockhenglim6407 4 жыл бұрын
You are the quite pretty teacher and thanks for your effort.
@Evergreen_Az
@Evergreen_Az Жыл бұрын
To me I think shyness and lack of confidence goes hand in hand, hardly can you see someone who is shy and at thesame time confident.
@Imagoodplayer
@Imagoodplayer 7 жыл бұрын
the F i'm both shy and lack of confidence. btw, thanks for this lesson :)
@navinjkumbla6779
@navinjkumbla6779 8 жыл бұрын
It's very informative to correct these traits - Shy and LOC. Thanks, Emmelda Mam. Does Stage-fear is also bcos of shy and nervousness or confidence less?
@nr.6208
@nr.6208 8 жыл бұрын
Just in time. I have always been wondering which trait I have. Now I got it. Thanks and I will try to get out of my comfort zone hopefully :)
@aaisha055572p
@aaisha055572p 8 жыл бұрын
You and your team doing such a great work, Thank you very much for your kind efforts :)
@jothim8554
@jothim8554 8 жыл бұрын
I'm feeling shy whenever I'm doing work infront of people.But this video helped me to get rid of from tat probs😉!!!!!!!!
@rdp6650
@rdp6650 8 жыл бұрын
Thank u Emmelda for such a nice lesson..
@mariavanissaanoos6870
@mariavanissaanoos6870 7 жыл бұрын
thank you maam. I learned well very awesome discussion.
@tewfikghariani512
@tewfikghariani512 8 жыл бұрын
This lesson is amazing! Thanks a lot :D
@KALITOXS2
@KALITOXS2 8 жыл бұрын
Thank you! This video helped me a lot!
@mulukenshiferaw3379
@mulukenshiferaw3379 8 жыл бұрын
Thank you for great lesson and great teacher
@adiyogikarmayoga
@adiyogikarmayoga 8 жыл бұрын
REALY GOOD PRESENTED BY EMMELDA
@vividvivid8458
@vividvivid8458 3 жыл бұрын
I'm not shy . I don't lAck confidence . I'm seasoned . I've been through all the bull already , so I'm selective .
@leemorrell
@leemorrell 6 жыл бұрын
I'm shy at school, and I am outgoing at home!
@abdallahabdow657
@abdallahabdow657 7 жыл бұрын
hello my precious teacher i need to know what is the difference between Air base\ Airport\ and Airfield thanks for your reply
@Myself24985
@Myself24985 2 жыл бұрын
being shy is also connected to respect, low or no self confidence, negativity
@sangeethasrinivasan6918
@sangeethasrinivasan6918 7 жыл бұрын
Studied in girls school !! You must be an Indian! Good job..thanks for the info
@stafa5568
@stafa5568 8 жыл бұрын
Great lesson
@basavarajag7908
@basavarajag7908 8 жыл бұрын
hii emelda ....I just want to have a lesson regarding how to overcome shyness and nervousness and become confident.I hope u can... thanks
@pankajbhardwaj8400
@pankajbhardwaj8400 6 жыл бұрын
Well mam the way u r delievering this vedio Felt i know u from long Great Now i got it i m shy 😖
@lovejeetsandhu1991
@lovejeetsandhu1991 8 жыл бұрын
thanks for uploading ....... & helping to creating leadership qualities/////
@nasirahmadsaedi9353
@nasirahmadsaedi9353 8 жыл бұрын
thanks for teaching I love your lessons
@riyaj8041
@riyaj8041 8 жыл бұрын
awesome lectures...
@syedali9508
@syedali9508 8 жыл бұрын
nice ma'am thanks for your lesson
@gobindkantjha6521
@gobindkantjha6521 5 жыл бұрын
Shy ka opposite kya hoga? Like cold ka hot.
@alessia6374
@alessia6374 8 жыл бұрын
Thank you Emmelda
@1230aaish
@1230aaish 8 жыл бұрын
How can someone be confident with having a speech disability?
@wingnutmcspazatron3957
@wingnutmcspazatron3957 8 жыл бұрын
Ash M I know a guy at a job I used to work at that was autistic. His growth was stunted and has a heavy speech impedement, but he was one of the most socially skilled and respectable men I've ever met. Confident, yet very humble. I don't know, but he is a living breathing testimony to "it can be done."
@shazianawaz9588
@shazianawaz9588 7 жыл бұрын
Ash M Exactly, i have a speech and language difficulty/disability and i am both shy and not very confident.
@brayanstickmoscosorodrigue3377
@brayanstickmoscosorodrigue3377 4 жыл бұрын
I'm studying reducing shyness quickly and discovered an awesome resource at Seans Shy Program (look it up on google)
@vividvivid8458
@vividvivid8458 3 жыл бұрын
I'll always help the weaker . Always .
@yaweraliyousuf5608
@yaweraliyousuf5608 7 жыл бұрын
thanks a lot ,MAM really i did enjoy , of this class
@vividvivid8458
@vividvivid8458 3 жыл бұрын
I'm here in the moment , the present and I sit to think quietly .
@awadomer9885
@awadomer9885 8 жыл бұрын
well done keep moving I apperciate you
@sandeepv3232
@sandeepv3232 8 жыл бұрын
if I face any doubts where I could connect with you people to clarify my doubts....
@pandagreen7571
@pandagreen7571 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you mam!😊
@MukeshYadav-pe8es
@MukeshYadav-pe8es 8 жыл бұрын
How to improve my pronunciations please suggest me and upload pronunciations related videos !
@akramraffik4548
@akramraffik4548 8 жыл бұрын
great information, im really enjoy watching this video ahah
@Bunita432
@Bunita432 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you mam
@elidel3299
@elidel3299 6 жыл бұрын
Shy: the only way to overcome is to come out of your 'comfort zone'.
@g.manojiharshani2318
@g.manojiharshani2318 8 жыл бұрын
Great.. I think that you are Sri Lankan.. Is it true..?
@chinmaysisodia2571
@chinmaysisodia2571 5 жыл бұрын
I think I lack both 😅👍
@gopikrishnachilakanti2808
@gopikrishnachilakanti2808 8 жыл бұрын
it is useful for learners
@AkshayPatel-cf4ur
@AkshayPatel-cf4ur 6 жыл бұрын
I am both it means i am good for nothing....only things i can do good is playing cricket,drawing and gaming which cant boost your confidence.....i dont know what to talk to other people, and cant make eye contacts so i always avoide people.
@vividvivid8458
@vividvivid8458 3 жыл бұрын
I'm about peace really . I'll never instigate anything toxic . I'll talk sports . If I talk sex with a woman , she initiated the conversation and I've heard everything a man could say , trust .
@saikatstune
@saikatstune 8 жыл бұрын
Thank you and love you Emmelda!!!!!! ummmmah....
@selfbelief5718
@selfbelief5718 8 жыл бұрын
I would be a shy a person. Shyness gets the best of you. I lost and missed my valubla things because of shyness.
@AW-qz4kk
@AW-qz4kk 8 жыл бұрын
which one is it for me. approaching a girl i like i keep thinking about it in my head but when i have the perfect chances I have no will power to actually do what i thought about. is this lack of confidence or shy im ambiverted and shy in public to some extent. my only problem is approaching so is it shy or lack of confidence
@AW-qz4kk
@AW-qz4kk 8 жыл бұрын
wait is it possible to be shy and have a lack of confidence
@am33x
@am33x 8 жыл бұрын
Your problem is being a man who didn't won genetics lottery neither was raised in a rich family. So insecurities come. Or, you live in a shallow environment full of "perfect" people. Therefore you don't feel worthy of asking a girl out, you feel like..lacking stuff compared to the other guys. And that's how low confidence appears, which you have. Now the shy part, how did you behave in childhood?
@AW-qz4kk
@AW-qz4kk 7 жыл бұрын
Mike Hamilton behave in childhood? I'd say I was less shy till society changed me and become more closed to my self
@AW-qz4kk
@AW-qz4kk 7 жыл бұрын
Mike Hamilton I'd say a lot of perfect people in my area too probably why I feel lacking
@am33x
@am33x 7 жыл бұрын
+Angel Westbrook In this case , your true self is not being shy. Your thoughts have been molded, until your behavior and personality became what they are today. This is actually good cuz you can get rid of this "shy character". I'd suggest seeing a psycho therapist. I know i know, sounds ridiculous but he/she can kill shyness for real. If not , you gotta make sure you're satisfied with who you are. Feeling so proud of yourself till the shy barrier disappears. How? You need to change your *mentality, appearance or lifestyle* . Or all 3. That's it. Sounds simple? It's not. Clearly some of these bother you. To some extent, these bother all of us. You know yourself best so I can't really help further. If it's mentally, really find a therapist. Appearance-change it if possible. Lifestyle- quit the job or whatever it is. Ultimately, if you don't feel safe where you live, you should move. Find a new place. Start your life over. Hope this helped. Good luck.
@jothim8554
@jothim8554 8 жыл бұрын
pretty interesting session😉!!!!
@kingmohamed2359
@kingmohamed2359 8 жыл бұрын
good teacher
@miseryangel
@miseryangel 4 жыл бұрын
this teacher look a bit shy and put a lot of ads so annoying that I switched from my phone to my tablet to watch it
@sandeepv3232
@sandeepv3232 8 жыл бұрын
I like you English as well your dressing sense 😃
@mamtagupta9821
@mamtagupta9821 6 жыл бұрын
Very helpful video..
@bogianilkumar7037
@bogianilkumar7037 6 жыл бұрын
Hi
@jagteshwarsagar8728
@jagteshwarsagar8728 3 жыл бұрын
I'm suffering with both
@arielmaule
@arielmaule 3 жыл бұрын
I am really shy.
@villagevlogger0001
@villagevlogger0001 2 жыл бұрын
😊 mam you last words
@NITESHKUMAR-md4ym
@NITESHKUMAR-md4ym 3 жыл бұрын
I relate with my character
@healthcare8805
@healthcare8805 7 жыл бұрын
hello I'm very shy and quiet I don't know how to speak any girl please help me
@p1ngu1no
@p1ngu1no 8 жыл бұрын
I guess I'm nervous. My whole system gets melted and I turn into Mr shaky hands every time I have an English oral test. Actually my spoken English is not bad. I don't think is about confidence on my case.
@NeverMind-fq4sr
@NeverMind-fq4sr 8 жыл бұрын
I most shy person believe things changed over night..
@mattjones5140
@mattjones5140 7 жыл бұрын
I guess I'm an angry white male.
@antoniodelima2066
@antoniodelima2066 8 жыл бұрын
Emmelda why were you shy in front a man? I got curious!
@thebiggyboom
@thebiggyboom 7 жыл бұрын
If anyone is interested in reducing shyness quickly the greatest success that i've ever had was with the Seans Shy Program (i found it on google) - without a doubt the most useful info that I've seen.
@siddheshbhaip2237
@siddheshbhaip2237 7 жыл бұрын
I like your video
@marcelapolo1520
@marcelapolo1520 8 жыл бұрын
sorry teacher i dont understand very well what LOC means! :(
@ahmedzouad761
@ahmedzouad761 7 жыл бұрын
Marcela Polo if you didn't understand very well just try try and try and I am sure you'll understand very well, good luck to you
@rahulbhati6162
@rahulbhati6162 5 жыл бұрын
You are still felling shy.
@worldexplorer2024
@worldexplorer2024 7 жыл бұрын
I think you are beautiful!
@mariekeb1272
@mariekeb1272 8 жыл бұрын
I guess I didn`t really understand the difference. so whatever i´m probably shy and LOC :/
@vividvivid8458
@vividvivid8458 3 жыл бұрын
I'm rambling .
@Abhisheksingh-et2my
@Abhisheksingh-et2my 8 жыл бұрын
Are u shy now??
@edwinoseruvwoja9268
@edwinoseruvwoja9268 8 жыл бұрын
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@siddheshbhaip2237
@siddheshbhaip2237 7 жыл бұрын
u look so beautiful
@RudyTheInternetGod
@RudyTheInternetGod 3 жыл бұрын
🌹
@marwan_militia
@marwan_militia 7 жыл бұрын
i want to ask you out. do you want to go out with me, emmelda?
@maherjani6676
@maherjani6676 8 жыл бұрын
she is losing her confidence at external factor :)
@ishmamnaveel2020
@ishmamnaveel2020 7 жыл бұрын
both 😭😭😭
@joshiasrodriguez6445
@joshiasrodriguez6445 8 жыл бұрын
are you British ?
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