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@LissjanitaSande-j3u7 ай бұрын
I now you not sober ewryday thaths not too beeing sober!!😅
@to8192 жыл бұрын
You almost never see a celebrity being this genuine.
@trhoades20632 жыл бұрын
Absolutely it's nice to see
@Bevzthejcs2 жыл бұрын
I was just thinking the same thing. Quite surprising but very cool to see.
@MrWOLF-bb3kt2 жыл бұрын
Its called acting
@imthegrk2 жыл бұрын
@@MrWOLF-bb3kt exactly.
@christianb82282 жыл бұрын
They are many, but the puppet masters try their hardest to not let them be seen or heard
@jdmadonna2062 жыл бұрын
Never knew Ben was an alcoholic! I’m 2 weeks clean from heroin today! I think he’s right, I don’t wanna use again cause I’m tired of suffering!
@gordonagress41122 жыл бұрын
Good on you. You hang in there, boss.
@jdmadonna2062 жыл бұрын
@@gordonagress4112 yes doing well! Thanks
@goosepelican25122 жыл бұрын
Hope you're 2 weeks 4 days clean now. Congrats!🤜🤛
@DR-om9ce2 жыл бұрын
Congratulations on your clean time
@lvrm62 жыл бұрын
Congrats! Hope you are still doing well!
@priapushk9962 жыл бұрын
1:54 "The cure for addiction is suffering" Bang, nailed it. You don't know til you know.
@kirsten10072 жыл бұрын
I concur.
@hshoustontx2 жыл бұрын
🤯🤯🤯
@UglyKidJoe718 ай бұрын
@@hshoustontx True words brother
@brettsutter52542 жыл бұрын
I completely agree! You nailed it Ben. Remembering the suffering keeps me sober.13 years +
@broadwaybiz2112 жыл бұрын
Yes sir
@jojoemmett48168 ай бұрын
Congratulations on your sobriety
@donniep902 жыл бұрын
I respect him for being so honest without worry of judgement.
@joshkolchins77532 жыл бұрын
This is precisely how I got sober. I’m 2 years and one month into my sobriety and I can absolutely relate to what brought Ben to his decision. Happy for him.
@HenryCasillas2 жыл бұрын
💜
@vikasbhatnagar1832 жыл бұрын
Sincerest congratulations on 25 months, sir
@aznpanda510x Жыл бұрын
Lets goooo!!!!!
@TC8787-yq7og Жыл бұрын
🙏
@trecking Жыл бұрын
Well done mate...
@rockd76842 жыл бұрын
I’m a year sober ! Peace and love ✌🏼
@nybriag76632 жыл бұрын
Congratulations!!❤️❤️❤️
@heathernegaard75212 жыл бұрын
How awesome of you!!! Keep it going, you're doing fantastic!
@Smoke13862 жыл бұрын
Quitter
@jordanhal28142 жыл бұрын
That’s awesome! So happy for you!
@rockd76842 жыл бұрын
@@jordanhal2814 Thanks!
@rtothec123410 ай бұрын
Ben is looking good here. I wish him success. I really liked him as Batman. I’m an overeater. It is hard.
@_garebear Жыл бұрын
Watching this interview got me sober. I was done suffering.
@adods9824 Жыл бұрын
Sweet! It's ALL worth it, trust me! 4 years sober just now, Nov 23.
@karenvillanueva13012 ай бұрын
Hoping you're still clean. Wishing you the best. You matter, and the ones that love you matter.🤗
@jordanweller74852 жыл бұрын
Almost 9 years sober myself. I hope he finds peace. Would love to see him write and direct a movie about this.
@Rtboh2 жыл бұрын
He did, it’s called The Way Back
@laemert092 жыл бұрын
You should see the way back absolutely loved it
@nostalgiaman68162 жыл бұрын
9 years on Xanax 😞
@Big_Wee_Bey_Gaming2 жыл бұрын
I got 136 days sober after battling alcoholism for 9 years
@adods9824 Жыл бұрын
4 years sober now. After 31 drinking. It can be done!
@emmanuelwolf65682 жыл бұрын
Finally,a celebrity being genuine and honest.
@raulcitraro2 жыл бұрын
We all got to stop looking for heroes in celebrities. People develop ethics from suffering & self-discipline, not getting their asses kissed 24/7.
@TheSigma0082 жыл бұрын
Not the first one
@gaila.9852 Жыл бұрын
Finally?
@johnhoneck2973 Жыл бұрын
Remember, he is a professional ACTOR.
@cmgordon123452 жыл бұрын
He's always rubbed me the wrong way and this is incredible. Principals over personality.. and great to hear someone with success in AA give a nod to the greater recovery community as a whole. We all have different paths
@maribelnieves6530 Жыл бұрын
Sobriety is my BIGGEST accomplishment of my life going on 17 years of Sobriety this year. By God's good grace 🙏🙂
@thecrystalshipful2 жыл бұрын
14 years, 5 months sober. Good fortunes, happiness and health to everyone as they end their suffering. You can do it!!
@girl123interrupted2 жыл бұрын
Do you ever think about or crave it anymore
@rgb22842 жыл бұрын
sober of cheetos?
@adods9824 Жыл бұрын
Coming up 4 years. Life is good / better !!
@Jenny-Secondlife2 жыл бұрын
Love how he opens up and is honest. Life is full of shadows, it's nice to shine a light on them to let everyone know we all have problems.
@AdamDylanFoley2 жыл бұрын
FACTS, I know the struggle, anyone out there struggling, don't give up, took me 25 years to surrender but its the best thing I ever did, throw in the towel, hangs up the gloves, by accepting defeat the irony is that you win, you win by surrendering, let the illness win, that's fine, swallow your pride, stop fighting it, surrender, ACCEPT the fight is over and the reward is that you can break the shackles, your no longer a prisoner to the bottle... walk the earth a free man, it's not about money, big houses, etc.. just be happy to be living sober....
@louiedangelo38432 жыл бұрын
Stay blessed adam good to hear.
@jordanhal28142 жыл бұрын
Amen. Very well-said. Coming up on 7 years myself.
@midsummersnight38482 жыл бұрын
This is so inspiring and beautiful. I'm trying.
@joebill6632 жыл бұрын
Ya I surrendered too 5 years ago. Takes what it takes. Addicts have a lot of fight so it's a 12 rounder for sure.
@gitbusylivin11 ай бұрын
Wow. Very well put.
@hbk425812 жыл бұрын
His honesty is so refreshing. I'll always be a Ben fan.
@luvbearbut2 жыл бұрын
I love Ben..I've always been a fan..he's real and honest and is helping a lot of people thru his own struggles.. More then he knows.
@orbansz12 жыл бұрын
I just love this guy and hope he knows there are a ton of people out there, who respect him as a human being and value his work. He is real, honest, raw, genuine, courageous, intelligent, funny, sensitive and talented, a rarity, really. With flaws? Yeah, like EVERYONE else. A really good soul. And, despite of what Twitter thinks, he is f-ing strong, actually.
@beetcoin46562 жыл бұрын
He's a legend.
@johnmanor52362 жыл бұрын
Dude is intense. I can only imagine living with him would be the absolute best and the absolute worst... no in between.
@dalesutaria85592 жыл бұрын
Well said. Exhausting.
@bitchyeyebrows2 жыл бұрын
Whiplash. It's too much.
@bev_buntu46742 жыл бұрын
he reminds me of a younger Baldwin
@AtomicMushroomz2 жыл бұрын
@Lee Higginbotham Yes, you are self-centered.
@IncredibleIceCastle2 жыл бұрын
Him flying into a drunken rage is probably Oscar-worthy every time
@Razzles8192 жыл бұрын
Very important and insightful advice. It has to come from within. Your brain and heart need to be onboard in order to truly break the viscious cycle. It's very very difficult. Thanks, Ben! Also, Howard is becoming one of my favorite interviewers in the past few years. He goes in deep and gets people to open up.
@adods9824 Жыл бұрын
True! And True!
@dronegolf2 жыл бұрын
Big props for his honesty
@jameshurd48152 жыл бұрын
After 35 years of sobriety I totally agree 👍 thx for being so honest Ben.
@jamescotner24592 жыл бұрын
I'm right there with you Ben. The loss or near loss of someone you need in your life. Also no chaos is the key.
@davemis402 жыл бұрын
Wow .. pure unadulterated honesty .. refreshing
@joestaples88342 жыл бұрын
Wow, he really opened up. Huge respect for being so honest 👏
@rainbow51902 жыл бұрын
I obviously don't personally know Ben but I really want him to know how proud I am of him. My uncle would be the same age as Ben today, unfortunately he passed away 3 years ago due to alcoholism. Although they're two complete strangers from different parts of the world, I feel so happy seeing Ben achieve what my uncle failed to.
@jujubees7119 ай бұрын
Wow, love his honesty. This is the kind of honesty that helps other people overcome their addictions. To know they are not alone and that others have made it, maybe they can make it too. That's why AA or a support system is so hugely important. So happy for him.
@KainedbutAble1232 жыл бұрын
Wow a very raw interview. Wasn’t expecting this depth.
@sharonbarton54642 жыл бұрын
Great interview! Love Ben's honesty about his journey!
@kenlo66882 жыл бұрын
Ben gets a lot of unnecessary hate and idk why, this guy has gone through so much and he literally gets dragged bc he spoke his truth. Like damn, y’all really hate that guy
@MultiKalmer2 жыл бұрын
Selfreflection is one of the most underrated skills. This is the result how Ben is staying with his opinions after doing some research about himself while getting sober.
@gerryfromthevoid89862 жыл бұрын
He's completely right about the suffering. Whether it's to do with kids, or whether you've just hallucinated too many times and seen too dark of a world, it tends to be a lot easier when you have a lot of painful memories to go along with your vice of choice
@Sebs2092 жыл бұрын
Great interview and insight from Ben. He really can help folks with this interview.
@brendapokorny3262 жыл бұрын
Good on him. I’m grateful he spoke his truth. I think it will help people.
@jamesrichardson4692 жыл бұрын
5 years sober this month!
@jordanhal28142 жыл бұрын
Congratulations! Keep the faith.
@jackrigueiro69432 жыл бұрын
Congratulations! That’s amazing!
@condohatesme2 жыл бұрын
Nice! I hope you are proud of yourself.👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾
@codybarrier62952 жыл бұрын
Congratulations!
@MarCapa-ed5uv6 ай бұрын
Good for you James, and I really mean that. Sobriety is the best you can do for yourself.
@HireMichaelEverson2 жыл бұрын
He nailed it. You have to learn to suffer. It hurts as long as it has to.
@zlinky11119 ай бұрын
Very Wise words Ben. You are 100% correct. Big love from the U.K. ❤😊
@anthonyarcanumsanctumregnu95512 жыл бұрын
I love How honest he is.
@bobabooey45372 жыл бұрын
Ya me too..... on a popular radio show with a cam and mic. Ya... lol
@lordfogg97282 жыл бұрын
H.O.W.
@stephenryan91312 жыл бұрын
Hahaha
@jscribblescom2 жыл бұрын
I love it too! I’m appalled that people are saying he’s blaming Jennifer Garner
@whatsilviadid39932 жыл бұрын
THIS IS THE BEST THE MOST HONEST THE MOST GENUINE BEN AFFLECK I HAVE EVER SEEN. THANK YOU FOR THIS INTERVIEW 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
@karlwiebe7191 Жыл бұрын
When the suffering of continuing doing what you allways done is larger than the pain of changing - you change, you surrender. Then you keep the spiritual awekening alive. Keep on keepin on🙏
@rhcpfan19812 жыл бұрын
How he went off on the old-timers reminds me of his character in Dazed and Confused LOL!
@tweettweet24572 жыл бұрын
OBannion!
@exzisd2 жыл бұрын
Never knew he had a problem but this randomly popped on my recommendations and I'm glad to hear it. Keep fighting the good fight Ben.
@VictorLopez-ql2bk2 жыл бұрын
Where have you been the past 20 years?
@dorothygamble91442 жыл бұрын
@@VictorLopez-ql2bk I was thinking the same thing.
@mantis10_surf852 жыл бұрын
What fight? He’s worth over 100 million buckeroos.
@VictorLopez-ql2bk2 жыл бұрын
@@mantis10_surf85 money isn’t everything. Actually, money is worthless.
@mantis10_surf852 жыл бұрын
@@VictorLopez-ql2bk, Money isn’t everything. It’s the only thing!!!
@FallenSun2102 жыл бұрын
Great honesty and grit here Ben. Keep up the good fight! Pain vs Pleasure - Anthony Robbins talked about this many years ago in his book - Awaken the Giant Within. “if we link massive pain to any behavior or emotional pattern, we will avoid indulging in it at all costs. We can use this understanding to harness the force of pain and pleasure to change virtually anything in our lives.”
@Danjoker.2 жыл бұрын
This interview is on another level
@toya11082 жыл бұрын
Wow...I'm damn near in tears. Bravo Sir👏
@briansullivan1621 Жыл бұрын
I relate AA. 7/23/94 You sharing this interview helps me & will help countless others
@ShogunateDaimyo Жыл бұрын
The Gift of Desperation and the Willingness to do something different. Nothing changes if nothing changes.
@realmofcamping Жыл бұрын
Love conquers all ❤ his love for his kids easily helped him crush his drinking . Mad respects
@MG-yp1zw7 ай бұрын
He’s a natural storyteller wow!
@eleanorhernandez4144 Жыл бұрын
Ben, God bless you. Can't imagine your pain/suffering. I applaud your drive and most of all your honesty. I wish you the very BEST! Thank you for your candor!
@PeterZeeke2 жыл бұрын
Been way too invested in this interview. Can’t believe ppl are hating on the guy putting it out there
@46foryounger2 жыл бұрын
He paid the price for being so honest and outspoken but it will be worth it if sharing his truth helps someone. I hope it does.
@mikeprem41522 жыл бұрын
Great actor and always keeps it real on interviews
@ymd25162 жыл бұрын
3 things: 1) Ben makes a lot of sense here. 2) Ben does not sound sober to my untrained ears 3) Jennifer Garner is a saint
@dmoney6682 жыл бұрын
Ok dork
@ymd25162 жыл бұрын
@@dmoney668 please elaborate
@Jessalyn0322 жыл бұрын
Agreed. He’s not sober.
@digital.garage2 жыл бұрын
He’s also got a lighter in his hand… maybe he just rips bongs now? Lol
@j.p.76702 жыл бұрын
@@digital.garage or chain smokes cigarettes.
@parisryan56842 жыл бұрын
An incredibly hard and honourable thing to do.
@Look4TheGood9 Жыл бұрын
This is the most helpful thing I've seen. It could save the world if he stars in a movie and says these very words. His honesty is stunning and beautiful. 🙏🥰💕💪🙏 grateful for his courage, hardwork, and powerful, genius storytelling. ❤
@JayDaPeace Жыл бұрын
For me, the breaking point was when the truth of sobriety became more enticing than the lie of drinking. And when I stopped looking at it for what (I *thought*) I was giving up, but for what I was GAINING, what I was GETTING BACK.
@vasyldoroshenko1417 Жыл бұрын
" truth of sobriety became more enticing than the lie of drinking - great words👍
@lc22962 жыл бұрын
Good interview..... ...love the authenticity
@staciaseven2 жыл бұрын
♥️ Thank you Ben for sharing your honesty and truth
@jasmineshae9334 Жыл бұрын
That by far is the Greatest Emotional Truth of Sobriety.. and its Cure I have ever heard !! Xo Ben
@19Jetta2 жыл бұрын
Really appreciate him being willing to show his anger. This felt very real
@actionjacksondan2 жыл бұрын
He looks so much better, awesome job Ben, thank you for the courage to share your story.
@missapprayerspeacelove2 жыл бұрын
Ben Affleck looks good. Praying for him and his family. 🙏🏽✌🏽❤️
@AndyFelbab2 жыл бұрын
I love Ben. I don't understand the hate. He was the bomb in phantoms yo
@MrGenexxx2 жыл бұрын
I understood that reference
@clebo992 жыл бұрын
Wow. I need to watch this entire interview.
@LushiTV Жыл бұрын
It really is the easiest thing ever how he explains it I had a wake up call the exact same way. You put it out of your mind completely.
@TheUnDisputedDoc.G2 жыл бұрын
Ben you just saved my life for real
@expeditedclaimsolutions25792 жыл бұрын
God Bless Ben, he is helping others see the light.
@Vikinguy2 жыл бұрын
Kudos to him for speaking from the heart. I have a REAL hard time believing he's never wanted a drink since. REAL hard. But hey. I wish him well.
@joeblow11862 жыл бұрын
Thumbs up bro, honesty wins always
@David_101572 жыл бұрын
Recently saw him in “The Tender Bar”. Outstanding performance.
@paulapurser2 жыл бұрын
He found his 'WHY?' love his honesty and authenticity
@merakki2 жыл бұрын
Watching this and him makes you realize how fake they are on t.v. shows and what not...26 months sober for me shit sucks and he's right rock bottom of suffering makes you change if you got the grit.
@AJKing-vc8mp2 жыл бұрын
One of the realest people ever!
@neil120112 жыл бұрын
This is accurate. Best of luck and much love to those battling their demons. 💪❤️
@jefferysmom6962 жыл бұрын
*Wow...now that's a REAL AF interview...Kudos on Howard stern for getting one!!!...and hats off to Ben for having the balls to be real ...Cauz god knows your rarely see that from Celebrities or people in the Media!!...and how profound..."The only cure for addiction is....Suffering !!!*
@Shay_TheUnpopularOpinion_2 жыл бұрын
Congrats on your sobriety Ben! ♥️ I can’t believe I’m still a fan after 19 years!! I am 31 now been loving him since I was 12 lol!
@therichmiester2 жыл бұрын
He’s my hero, so happy for him
@BigfootBrass2 жыл бұрын
I'm at 95 days today. It's finally "easy" to not drink...…but it wasn't always easy. At first, it was the hardest thing I've ever done.
@musique1o12 жыл бұрын
Congratulations! Keep up the fight, you're doing great!
@ActionFigureGrader7 ай бұрын
Dealing with life on life's terms and trudging that road. Good stuff. The GIFT of desperation.
@doug9412 жыл бұрын
Good for you Ben! #wedorecover
@IdealX-fr4eg9 ай бұрын
30 days sober so done with the suffering and hurting my family
@paudsmcmack31172 жыл бұрын
Fairplay to him. Loads of cash, loads of time, an uncertain career future and a life around the trappings. I hope he keeps its up!
@sidda70852 жыл бұрын
He’s not sober in this 🤣 or in any of his recent interviews for that matter. I don’t know how anyone could think he is
@malumello172 жыл бұрын
@@sidda7085 maybe some medicine against anxious or whatever.
@benderoverify Жыл бұрын
I had his exact experience. I saw how it affected the people I loved, I owned it, made amends the best I could, and haven’t wanted to since. AA is a great organization too
@ashish_sunny2 жыл бұрын
Affleck is a legend. In person and profession!
@sparetimetheater2 жыл бұрын
Always one of my favorite actors..
@paulie55332 жыл бұрын
This was powerful
@ronankelly1854 Жыл бұрын
As someone said in a meeting “I was given the gift of desperation”. So true
@hdmartyh2 жыл бұрын
So wild seeing someone of his statue talk like this. I wish more celebs were this open about their struggles.
@riadlo1 Жыл бұрын
Bravo! It does not get any more real or honest than this…
@angelisa3685 ай бұрын
He sure does have his flaws, but really appreciate that he is down to earth and vulnerable. ❤
@tedthacker33122 жыл бұрын
He super buzzed during that interview
@808Fee2 жыл бұрын
This is EXACTLY what I thought.
@kencarson34512 жыл бұрын
I thought the same thing too,he’s usually way duller than this
@Toby4582 жыл бұрын
He has a lighter in his hand. Maybe weed?
@EvilEAD2 жыл бұрын
As soon as I really couldn’t be there for my daughter ! 6 years no slips thank god 👏✌️♥️
@josephstalin91392 жыл бұрын
Well, this is a GREAT interview, i'm pleasantly surprised by this.
@Dubbadizzo862 жыл бұрын
I personally have not struggled with being an alcoholic per se, so maybe my words aren't that great, but I did drink regularly and irresponsibly quite a bit in my 20s. In 2013 I got a DUI. It was expensive. Cost me over $10,000. Between the lawyer, having my car towed and impounded, a breathalyzer installed, 90 day suspension of license, which ultimately made me lose my job, all for a single night of drinking on a Thursday. I could have avoided all of that with a $30 cab ride home. I haven't been able to enter Canada either, which is extra terrible because my best friend and his family all live in Saskatchewan. Nowadays, I rarely drink, and honestly, I don't miss it. I don't miss waking up with regret for something I said or did. I don't miss the hangovers. I don't miss the absolute messing up of my schedule. I don't miss the promiscuity and questionable relationships with women. I don't miss the cigarette smoking and waking up feeling like an ash tray. I don't miss the disappointment I see from friends and family. Today, I smoke a little weed here and there. But I'm healthier, happier, have more energy, I have a good job, and I like myself. I like myself. That's probably the best thing there. I like who I am now. I sometimes have a beer or two, but I've learned I have a drinking issue. If I drink more than 2 strong drinks, like an IPA, then I can't seem to stop. So I limit at 2 beers. It's nice to be able to just drive home too, or not feel I need to go out at all. Alcohol is a terrible drug.
@brianmikus25112 жыл бұрын
Its the only thing that really changes us ......suffering , still there are some that never change
@jonathantopp1918 Жыл бұрын
So down to earth and honest.
@johnmontag2 жыл бұрын
I love how real he is here
@tenthirtythreeco2 жыл бұрын
Respect to Ben for being real and congrats on his sobriety ❤️🩹