Ben speaks about being homeless in Phoenix Arizona
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@goldblood21553 жыл бұрын
He's homeless and yet still making sure the homies get some food. Ben still has a heart, hope he gets right.
@cheepatterson18973 жыл бұрын
If I lived out there I would have helped him
@jameshardy94043 жыл бұрын
fr bro i fr pray homeless ppl like this get the opportunity and shit to get out some ppl don’t deserve this just had maybe a bad day and tried a drug and latched onto it sucks to see man🙏🏼
@Unknownn8582 жыл бұрын
He’s clean now🙏🏽
@ericgil1266 Жыл бұрын
What kind of mother picks a man over their kid. My heart broke. He seems so sweet and peaceful. God help your son please. 🙏
@kristy30413 жыл бұрын
This is the only person ive seen with a decent hustle.RESPECT
@hhyea58303 жыл бұрын
I would call it less then decent
@drop94643 жыл бұрын
@@hhyea5830 not decent but he’s trying to do what he can to work for his money instead of just shoplifting/boosting cars. It’s an honest living in his situation.
@hhyea58303 жыл бұрын
@@drop9464 smoking blues is oppisite of trying
@drop94643 жыл бұрын
@@hhyea5830 his life isint easy smoking helps get away from his reality, someone who has never abused drugs will never understand just be grateful your life is a lot better.
@hhyea58303 жыл бұрын
@@drop9464 ive smoked a blue before and all i hear are exusises but thats on him
@alexcano10163 жыл бұрын
This man out here hustling while battling addiction. Can't do nothing but respect that right there. Still running up a check and not complaining. That's what I'm talking about. Hope he gets his mind together though. Just needs to surround himself with the right people and influence. Sometimes all we need is a little extra push to get us going in the right direction. God bless this brother 🙏.
@mr.me.awe.g3 жыл бұрын
well said ,you took the words right out of my mouth. God bless you to brother thanks for daring to care.
@CripticK1ng3 жыл бұрын
for real
@JR-po5vs3 жыл бұрын
Yeah
@kmsmaym3 жыл бұрын
40 to 60 is a lot for selling soda you gotta sell about 75 cans a day regular businesses don’t even sell that much somedays
@karlagarcia1851 Жыл бұрын
God bless all, especially la jente Que est sufriendo 😢
@jackyrodriguez6453 жыл бұрын
This one really made me tear up he so sweet 🥺
@CarlosYT20013 жыл бұрын
Your sweet Jacky 😉
@santiagorodriguez42023 жыл бұрын
@@CarlosYT2001 this foo 😂😂
@nonamenolast30343 жыл бұрын
👁️ 🍽️ 🍑 letmeknow
@Tameeekababy2 жыл бұрын
Wow complete difference- seeing this interview after his sober one. God is soo good- I’m continuing to keep him in my prayers l! God has a mighty calling on your life.
@danieladuran8558 Жыл бұрын
Prayers for Ben ❤
@meeshaetsitty4143 жыл бұрын
Mother’s who chose their stupid boyfriends over their own child is disgusting to me!! Prayers to you Ben. Please get help soon! ❤️❤️
@frances44083 жыл бұрын
I agree!!! 100%
@ricesalad42983 жыл бұрын
The boyfriend didn't want him nodding out at his house.
@cheepatterson18973 жыл бұрын
Couldn't have said it better myself
@bestbud6193 жыл бұрын
Mama gotta have a life too
@rudyruiz95213 жыл бұрын
Disagree. It's single moms that don't ever put thier feet down and stop this stuff before it happens that are part of the problem. He's an adult and needs to turn his own stuff around. It's not mommas problem now. He seems like a good young man who still has a chance.
@jennyhernandez45373 жыл бұрын
"PRIMERO MADRE QUE MUJER"!!! Un dicho muy cierto! No loving mother ever picks a man over there child, Never! There is no excuse for this. Her telling him to quit yet where is her F*** support? I'm so sorry Ben, God is with you no matter what choice you make you are a great human being. The fact that you work and feed others shows what a wonderful man you are. Despite your addiction you still feel for others and think of them! Thank you, Tales from the Streets for all the support and words you give these young ppl! ❤🙏
@zsazsarose3 жыл бұрын
I like the way you pan out the video With your interviewee walking away.That’s very powerful. Keep on planting seeds in their minds. It’ll pay off
@fatonyalmitchell32812 жыл бұрын
I have high hopes for him ‼️
@drop94643 жыл бұрын
Damn this one hit deep especially when he started talking about how he’s sorry he went down the wrong path…..keep your head up bro and hopefully you’ll takes the steps to turn your life around.
@jeanniemerino43373 жыл бұрын
This is so sad. You could really see it on his face. He looks hopeless. I really hope Ben can change his life and seek treatment and get the help he needs. I will pray for this young man.😢
@manuelzay65033 жыл бұрын
He does look hopeless but I think all he needs is someone to push/lead into rehab and help him, in and after rehab
@leviticuscornwall4993 жыл бұрын
@@manuelzay6503 can't make someone else get clean. he's gotta be ready you know?
@karlagarcia1851 Жыл бұрын
May God hear you 🙏
@karlagarcia1851 Жыл бұрын
@@leviticuscornwall499 he is didn’t you listen
@ms.franco392 жыл бұрын
Can we please get an update or maybe get him a social media?
@AZDIABLO602TV3 жыл бұрын
Damn homie I don't know why I felt this one when you asked him if he had anything to tell his family he just teared up instantly. I'm sure there's a lot more to this story but damn I felt for him
@veef.moraless30202 жыл бұрын
I just seen this video and it has me so broken hearted for him💔😢😢.May God keep him safe at all times🙏.
@karlagarcia1851 Жыл бұрын
Yup 😢 this young man is definitely a good person with great potential! Humble,heart,smarts and suffered a lot in life. God bless him and may he over come all he’s obstacles and oppression. Diosito esté con tigo mijo
@Mama-ki1pq3 жыл бұрын
It’s really sad that the mother traded him in for a man
@alyssaruiz3053 жыл бұрын
Omg he’s so cute and seems so sweet 😭 god bless this man 💙💙💙💙
@cynthiarenfroe8004 Жыл бұрын
So very sad ,,he has tears in his eyes ,,his mother looses her apartment ,,moves in with her boyfriend and her two sons had to hit the streets and a stone pillow at night not a safe place for anyone ,,while mom is in a cozy place ,,what the heck ,,poor Ben my prayers go out to them ,,hope Ben gets to a rehab and get,s himself straight he,s so young take care Ben ,,may God keep you safe
@manuelzay65033 жыл бұрын
He looks like he just needs someone some support to go through the rehab. He just needs someone to keep pushing him and lead him on a path where he can continue on his own make the right decisions from there. Good luck to him, I wish him the best
@Xosnicolee3 жыл бұрын
He just needs guidance if he had one person who cares about him I feel like he would take that opportunity
@faviancampillo46483 жыл бұрын
It sucks that the mom left him on the street over a boyfriend who isn't her blood family
@WhoCaresMyGuy3 жыл бұрын
It sucks but we don’t know the full story. I’m sure there is a reason why he isn’t allowed there.
@georodriguez30163 жыл бұрын
We don't have to know their problems... As a mom we should give unconditional love to our babies... I would never leave him out in the streets.. She's so Selfish!
@kimmigirl29683 жыл бұрын
@@georodriguez3016 it's quite sad I'm hearing and finding out through all these videos and just seeing watching relationships collapse throughout my living years. I can't believe so many women just leave their kids like this. Majority of the time the mother always has a boyfriend. So many women do this, not having my child with me or not knowing where they rest their heads really boggs my mind. I just can't fathom it. It's just so inhumane. I totally agree. If you can't like or give kids 💯 don't have them. So many women that can't have children and all they want to do is love unconditionally. This ant love, she is a selfish disrespectful woman. Big hugs to him. No matter what happened, he should never be left to his own devices.
@Arizona_lilly3 жыл бұрын
I kno
@Arizona_lilly3 жыл бұрын
Sometimes we don't kno the truth but she lost her apartment she has no say its sad im sorry theres tons of woman who leave their kids over men OHHHH COLD SODA
@barajoon6683 жыл бұрын
Decades ago a boyfriend's mom was beaten up by her husband. I was at their house when the police brought her home. They found her up the street dumped and beaten. I wasnt there to witness the beat down my boyfriend gave her husband the end result, he broke the husband's arm, blacked his eye and busted his mouth. She kicked out my boyfriend...5 moths later after they lost the house to foreclosure, she was knocking on his door looking for a place to stay with his siblings. He turned her away but not the siblings. After we married and had children, I refused to allow my kids to be around her for long periods of time. I watched how she treated her own children, what would make me believe she would treat mine differently. Not all Mothers are created equal. Not all women should have children. I pray this young man can get the help he needs. ❤🙏
@AlexFlores-hc6pr3 жыл бұрын
He’s a good guy he’s just lost right now .. everyone else Boosts or begs for money he is making a honest dollar everyday an I can respect ✊🏼 that
@martinamartinez65942 жыл бұрын
Seems to me this young man needs some love and guidance. As parents we are our kids first teachers. Not sure what the mom's story is but not sure I could just throw my kid out and not try to guide in some way. 21 is just a number. I wish him well. God bless and sending him Tucson 🙏.
@MGPSJ143 жыл бұрын
Pobrecito, he seems like a nice kid. He works out of his cart to make money and what he makes, he said he buys food and shares with the others. I hope he finally goes to rehab cuz he deserves so much better.
@stellabailey9025 Жыл бұрын
He looks clean.
@daisylopez7963 жыл бұрын
Where can I send you money to help him out to get him like gift cards for food or clothes
@heribertoymarycastaneda99113 жыл бұрын
God bless you triple for you have a big ❤ 🤍 💙
@jenniferbarahonaunyfyuk5643 жыл бұрын
He’s on 35th and McDowell
@mlpalv62203 жыл бұрын
🙏🏾🙀
@hhyea58303 жыл бұрын
He could trade gift cards for blues
@tucsonsfinest52023 жыл бұрын
Daisy what is good??
@katelynsullivan66282 жыл бұрын
Man this one hit hard
@TrishaB802 жыл бұрын
What kind of mother moves in with her bf and leaves her child to the street. Drugs or not, shame on her! She should be guiding him and encouraging him to get clean like a mother would! Parents please stop turning your back on your children when they need you the most!
@finolaomurchu82173 жыл бұрын
The mother's keep going off with boyfriends. Why don't the mother's mind their children, adult children still need support, until they properly stand on their own two feet. God bless Ben, and fair dues to him selling the soda🧚♂️🇮🇪☘
@steveb7429 Жыл бұрын
So the mom chose some guy over her own son. Gee lady, I hope your man treats you super well, because you deserve it for being such a great mom and a terrific person.
@soundwavessuperior75513 жыл бұрын
Someone should get hommie an ice chest for his hustle
@fatonyalmitchell32812 жыл бұрын
Perhaps you can 🥫 do it 🤷‼️👍
@soundwavessuperior75512 жыл бұрын
Or you can do it the one pointing the finger always has three fingers pointing back
@AF-pg6mo3 жыл бұрын
I overdosed 5-6x just recently this past Saturday . I had a nightmare that I didn’t wake up this time and all I could think was disappointment from not seeing my daughter for a week . Thank god I woke up stay away from the blues everybody. It is really easy if you have people and things that you love and care about.
@hhyea58303 жыл бұрын
5-6× sheesh ur like im not 100% sure how many times od but ya blues r bad for ur health
@fatonyalmitchell32812 жыл бұрын
How do you know if your overdosing ⁉️ cause tolerance level 🎚️ different with everyone ‼️
@mamabug7143 жыл бұрын
Bless this man praying for him.🙏🏼❤️
@guynelson23413 жыл бұрын
He seems to me to be a likable and easy-going guy.
@gabybee14173 жыл бұрын
Much love and respect TFTS Keep up the good work
@karlagarcia1851 Жыл бұрын
Poor kid he’s still trying to make a living,Honestly. God bless him man this seriously breaks my heart. Creator please send me your Zelle so I can donate ,next time you see him you could deliver to him personally please.
@wbishop13303 жыл бұрын
Thx for sharing ur story Ben. You are a good dude for breaking out with the food with ur homies. Stay strong and get to the clinic. 🙏✌
@christinazaragoza52112 жыл бұрын
It is hard be addicted and homeless, I hope. This guy get off of these dam ( blues ) I feel sad for the homeless.
@tune1r Жыл бұрын
Man I’m glad he makes his own money even though his hooked.
@blur022 жыл бұрын
Wow losing 100lbs is impressive.
@georodriguez30163 жыл бұрын
Awee.. How sad his mom lets him be homeless😭😭... She knows her son needs her... Poor baby
@jasoncalvert42092 жыл бұрын
Those damm blues are the 😈. Stay strong brother and whenever your ready get help. I got off them with the help of methadone treatment. Find your way.Best wishes and good luck✊🙏
@RichardsWorld2 жыл бұрын
I think he'll do just fine if he stops the drugs.
@marcom2483 жыл бұрын
When I have kids I would make sure to be there for them and if they’re struggling with addiction I won’t throw them out on the streets. You’re supposed to look after family and do everything you can to help them get through difficult times. Idc how old they are, I’ll always make sure they have a roof over their head.
@hhyea58303 жыл бұрын
What if they keep stealing from you
@katiemccaulley61093 жыл бұрын
If u haven't dealt with it you can't say. Its so hurtful to families. Can be dangerous and very toxic. Take it from someone who is raising a grandchild who has gone through a lot with my daughters addiction. This shit is so unfair to families.
@arturoramirez72963 жыл бұрын
COOL FOR YOU👍👍👍👍IT'S HOW I FEEL ABOUT FAMILY ALWAYS STICK TOGETHER...
@marcom2483 жыл бұрын
@@katiemccaulley6109 my mom had an opioid addiction and me and my dad stood by her side even though we lost so much because of it and she stole from me as well but I forgave her for it. My family endured a lot of pain from that experience and saw my dad cry almost every day. He lost weight to the point where I couldn’t even recognize him sometimes, yet he still stood by my Mom’s side and that taught me a lot. I’m very fortunate to have a dad who cares as much as he does and he was there to help me when I was trying to get off Xanax.
@Beatvictor3 жыл бұрын
This one hit me hard, he's a functional user but you can tell he's tired of the life. Addiction is no joke, wish I can go and give him a hug.
@fatonyalmitchell32812 жыл бұрын
So many people are like THIS functional user... Hopefully it gets better
@frances44083 жыл бұрын
😯!!! When he said how much he used to weigh! 250lbs to now🤯
@sheiladikshit51103 жыл бұрын
damn, his own mother kicked him out. that's nuts. poor guy, sounds like he'll get back on track though.
@gisselmontero23043 жыл бұрын
Hustle hustle!... he's gonna make it jst watch.. he's a good guy Best wishes Ben 🙏 send your way
@PinaClara25822 жыл бұрын
He's so nice. Keep it up Ben🙏
@ernestoholguin9066 Жыл бұрын
La madre prefiriendo un novio que al hijo, es triste
@stephaniecrrn3 жыл бұрын
He seems so smart & full of potential ♥️ my prayers are with him 🙏🏽
@tucsonsfinest52023 жыл бұрын
My prayers are with you
@nonamenolast30343 жыл бұрын
👁️ 🍽️ 🍑 letmeknow
@peacepeace40822 жыл бұрын
Your brother can be your worst enemy introducing you to drugs
@neverfinding27033 жыл бұрын
You a good dude bro . Love you you got this stay strong
@louiechavez95682 жыл бұрын
What ever happen to that kid junior
@janyx70292 жыл бұрын
Praying for Ben from Pennsylvania. 🙏 Hope he gets help soon ... so sad to see the youngings fall in addiction😞
@Jaydraws7163 жыл бұрын
Ugh this one broke my heart :( he sounds sooo hopeless
@nonamenolast30343 жыл бұрын
👁️ 🍽️ 🍑 letmeknow
@fattychuby3 жыл бұрын
Oh man you can see the sadness in his eyes. Hope he gets out of these streets and gets his life back on track
@fatonyalmitchell32812 жыл бұрын
Amen 🙏
@bernadettebutler95583 жыл бұрын
Wow poor baby boy what kind of mother is she to choose a man over her child
@manuelzay65033 жыл бұрын
Dam it so sad that when parents meet someone else they forget about there kids because they crave the love and attention from someone, who is not blood. People like this shouldn’t have kids. Also respect to him for buying food for his homies when he barely has enough for himself. I like his hustle too.
@luisreynoso94452 жыл бұрын
Hope you been doing good Ben, your interview touched my emotions. Know there’s people rooting for you to enjoy the good life. Big love little brother stay safe
@gigio68733 жыл бұрын
That's right Ben it doesn't have to be like this.... go ask for help.... don't wait..... please you are too young to stay in the streets.
@Junior-bn8gf2 жыл бұрын
What a wonderful young man . Very smart polite and has a hustle 🙏🏽 bless you and those you surround yourself with. You have a great head over your shoulder ! There much to life then what you already know man. I’m right here with you . We may not know eachother but if I came across your path I would definitely support you with respect and a warm meal . Take care brother .
@hubcitytony27343 жыл бұрын
This one really got to me , you can see sadness in his face , he needs someone that can push him and to believe in him . Hey bro are you going to do an update on him ? Please try helping him , sometimes people just need someone to believe in them and to show love..
@piaw79063 ай бұрын
Why didn't you offer him your card, like you do all the others?
@Arizona_lilly3 жыл бұрын
He has smart mind I see lot of Hispanics selling g things on wheels jes smart if he takes 10 bucks n buys sodas and drinks he can remake money hes very smart 💯💯💯🤑I wish we can help donate to his snack business .
@cerotepower67352 жыл бұрын
I’m sure his blue supplier is supplying him with pops to have enough to buy blues
@DREAMP4RK3R2 жыл бұрын
@@cerotepower6735 lmao no. He either buys them himself or steals them or has them donated but no plug is doing that, that is not how the streets work
@TonyMontana-bl3qe Жыл бұрын
This guy loves blues! 🔵 💀
@maryperez56053 жыл бұрын
Idc how old my kids are I could not sleep at night knowing my son is in the street struggling! While you living ur life with ur man foh so messed up this breaks my heart smh this poor baby 🙏🏼💔😔
@reign85523 жыл бұрын
If she treated baby boy right he might just be taking care of her now.
@christinazaragoza52112 жыл бұрын
If ppl wanna donate please use the interviewers # address p.o. box. This guy needs donations $ hygiene will help all of them.
@sunflowerstate1033 жыл бұрын
Sweet ass spirit. Sending you good energy. May the universe continue to cradle you and hopefully you’ll seek and accept guidance. We need you🤍🧸 Love bro.
@skidrowspeaks84003 жыл бұрын
I dislike women who choose pleasure over they own children. Bro seems like a go getter. He just got lost in the process. Keep hustling you got this💯 being on the street will turn you to drugs. You better than that bro
@manuelzay65033 жыл бұрын
Same here, shame there are many people like that
@chicofromph33nix643 жыл бұрын
If he can get off the fent,he can get into a halfway house and they will get him a job if he can't find one..
@chicofromph33nix643 жыл бұрын
@@user-in8xx1xu5b I never said it was easy.. it took me over 20 years... I just said if he can get off of it, someday, sooner the better, they will have a place to live at and get a fresh start... it's just an idea in case he ever reads it or someone else who just got over the hard part and feels lost... but thx for the feedback, I've been sober for over 3 years and still find myself picking up the pieces..
@hhyea58303 жыл бұрын
Its that simple
@chicofromph33nix643 жыл бұрын
@@hhyea5830 as simple as not burning that popcorn, or hitting the trails!! Loyal to the foil, BURNT REYNOLDS!!!!!
@hhyea58303 жыл бұрын
@@chicofromph33nix64 u tryna smoke some time bro u seem cool ile bring foil lighter and straw and u bring blues we can maybe hit 27th ave get a couple hoochies
@chicofromph33nix643 жыл бұрын
@@hhyea5830 I live on 27th ave and watch all the action go down all day everyday... no need to find any hoochies homie... BIG bertha lives behind my house in the alley and is very nice with it.. her folds are clean and has no teeth...!! She is a diamond in the rough...... 😂🤣.. lol jk, those days are behind me now... no more black finger tips...just weed homie..
@SICK562CKRISS3 жыл бұрын
Wow. Such an eyeopener. Count yo blessings fam. May God bless him and lead this young man to the right path 🙏🏽
@SteffMartinezV_3 жыл бұрын
I hope you get sober Ben 💚 take care you will be in my prayers
@na82873 жыл бұрын
He seems like a good person hopefully he can get the help he needs to get his life together
@carolcarol623 жыл бұрын
That mom is the devil it makes my heart hurt
@joseconejo53382 жыл бұрын
Im sorry he looks like he is 40 years old to me
@wallie198613 жыл бұрын
So sad hopefully he gets the help he needs. God watch over him and all other in the same situation.
@alissagonzales7352 жыл бұрын
I wonder how many men have walk away from their family? We always completely blame the mother. But where are the fathers? How many divorces, or separations occur and men don't have nothing to do with their children. Many don't even pay child support. They walk away and forget. Doesn't that add to the children problems growing up? Many children grow up thinking they did something wrong that is why he left. Yes mothers are wrong in picking the boyfriend over the child. Only this child is of age. Plus he said she lost her apartment and moved in with her boyfriend and that her boyfriend didn't like him. So she can't force her boyfriend to let him stay at his place.
@georgelewis64133 жыл бұрын
I wish you Luck my Friend
@daizy8a9103 жыл бұрын
I see so much pain in his eyes. I respect this guy for still hustling
@jennyk80073 жыл бұрын
How sad.😔My heart goes out to him. I wish there was some way to help.💔🙏🏼
@lamaravilla98733 жыл бұрын
man he looks like a good genuine guy this is sad 😞.
@alysiarobles56433 жыл бұрын
My heart!! Hes going to be better he us if he gets help asap! God bless your sweet heart!!
@alejandram163 жыл бұрын
I’m from Tucson but anyone from Phoenix maybe can offer to take him to get help for his addiction? Seems like he’s willing..
@noramorales46943 жыл бұрын
Where can I find him? I don't have much but I would love to help him
@lindacarol59823 жыл бұрын
Methadone is payed for now by state health insurance. You just need to get a way there every day and back. He need's an addiction case worker who genuinely cares and will help him get his young life on track. I feel he's never really had a chance with a mother like her no mentioning the dad. Bless him hope he has a much better life. He is a very humble young man. God is close to the broken hearted and humble and meek
@allegiancestaffingofarizon89202 жыл бұрын
Ben is smoking blues on the daily and living that "bum life". Hopefully he can get off the fentanyl soon, but he really loves them blues, so it won't be easy.
@versus5353 жыл бұрын
God bless you Ben
@1realonealwayzsweetlikehon9983 жыл бұрын
He seems like a real nice young man prayers that he can get clean 🙏🙏🙏💗💗💗
@nonamenolast30343 жыл бұрын
👁️ 🍽️ 🍑 letmeknow
@themfoosdidit3 жыл бұрын
she listened to her man instead of her son .. i’ve had it happen to me had cops called on me but when she got beat up no cops called on him .. sad we can’t choose our own mothers
@faith_God3 жыл бұрын
God bless you Ben . Bless Ben with shelter and protection Lord only you know his heart and his struggles only you can help him in the areas that need healing and guidance 🙏🏼 only the strong survive Ben you are not going to live like this for long I believe in you .
@reneeranney15553 жыл бұрын
Breaks my heart. He seems like a genuine guy buying food for him an his friends . you don't meet people who care for others these days . I hope he chooses to get help or get on methadone like he wanted
@demd82203 жыл бұрын
Sucks to see all these foos so young I hope y'all make it out the streets yo I know it's hard trust me I get cravings every day all day but know the hardest part is not getting off of it, it really all comes down to staying off of it bro. I truly hope y'all make it out the streets🙏🙏🙏
@annalisaesparza22753 жыл бұрын
I know if i was his mom i would break to see this... This hit me hard...ben you can do it!!
@jacky214_3 жыл бұрын
Atleast he's making a hustle. Hope he gets better 🙏🏼
@nonamenolast30343 жыл бұрын
👁️ 🍽️ 🍑 letmeknow
@260dreco3 жыл бұрын
Man i respect this dude i feel bad for him man i wish things turn in his favor
@lamaravilla98733 жыл бұрын
i’m sure if he had that support from family and ppl he would get out of it. Praying for all these ppl 🧡
@guerillo40473 жыл бұрын
Damn bro I really feel for this guy. He needs to literally forget about anyone who did him wrong. Just focus on himself only and push forward. Really wishing the best, I know it's hard
@chrispbmw87323 жыл бұрын
Damn this one hit home 😞 get well soon Ben
@SkinnyVinnie3 жыл бұрын
How can a parent leave their kid on the street, tell the fuckin bf, if my son can’t come to live at ur house, I’m not living at ur house! I thought this went w/o saying how parents were supposed to act towards their kids, guess not!