Best Strategy To Get An Ex Back (From A Psychotherapist)

[@ardengonzales2240]

I pray whoever is reading this gets through the pain of being dumped by someone they truly love. God bless. Thank you Craig for this video

[@Lovelyevanie]

Thank you ❤

[@mexicoralph2783]

Does it work

[@ardengonzales2240]

Mexico Ralph it really does...it’s just sooo hard to refrain yourself from not contacting the person you love so much.

[@mexicoralph2783]

I feel so empty inside its hurts

[@phillipdaugherty1486]

My first 24 hours of no contact, I dont want them back, never want that pain again

[@TacticalNuke321]

To the ones who got dumped: Don’t be afraid to lose someone who is not afraid to lose you

[@TacticalNuke321]

Jennifer West - I don’t even want my ex back. I moved on

[@benithacalloway8286]

@@TacticalNuke321 lol specially if they breadcrumbed you or fed you under the table. 🙄

[@jackallred6433]

Speak for yourself cupcake

[@davidmckesey7119]

But I messed up

[@Goodwillwinoverevil1984]

Perfect.

[@StaceyBing]

“Anxiety leads to the beginning of desire.” Got it! 👍🏻

[@idboo1234]

Well like the saying goes....you treat them like a celebrity, they'll treat you like a fan.

[@KyriannaLorielle]

Wow....true story

[@mixedchickULike]

Just came across this...so true. Thanks!

[@deraviagrace8340]

What about you treat them like a king and they will treat you like a queen

[@JamesThomas-zl9er]

Love that!!

[@JamesThomas-zl9er]

@@deraviagrace8340 true, but I’m straight! 😂

[@clairerenee1660]

I am going to trust in this. I am also praying to God that if it’s meant to be it will be.

[@pleasedontassignmyhandle]

How did it work out?

[@papalazzzaru]

Nothing to do with "god" Claire, and 100% to do with YOU... :-) We make our own reality--don't trust (or pray) to anything or anyone else for help creating your reality, you have to do it yourself. So trust in yourself and have belief and FAITH in yourself. That's it.

[@clairerenee1660]

papalazzzaru thank you. I agree. God can’t make anything happen, we can trust in him to lead us but WE have to do the work.

[@lenscapewithbry]

Update?

[@TheUncleSpiderX]

update

[@tuanf01]

Coach Craig and Margaret has gotten me through the worst time of my life. I've been watching to their videos everyday for the last 5 months and exercising no contact. The heartache has gone away and I feel like I don't want my ex back any longer, I can move on now with confidence. Thank you for all you do for us.

[@charlesjoshuabooysen2776]

Me to bro trust me

[@kittykat.88]

I am watching these type of videos daily too as a constant reminder to stay strong, gain back my power by not chasing him as his behaviour is not good enough for me

[@charlesjoshuabooysen2776]

@@kittykat.88 me to girl

[@jackiemaisie8764]

Getting off my ex is like getting off a drug.

[@lou9219]

Jackie Maisie Much worse imo and I’ve partied pretty hard in my time

[@autumn_sky7068]

Getting off my ex.. is ... damn near impossible since he's an avoidant. Lol

[@kereiltutt5769]

Make life your drug

[@sharongray4074]

Jackie Maisie it sure is! My ex left me after 34 years of marriage(we were together for 40)! I’m devastated I can’t get him out of my head

[@ducktoes]

Exactly!

[@redlotusqueen]

"She needs to feel separation anxiety from YOU". True words!!!!

[@austintang1645]

Can she feel separation anxiety if she’s in a rebound that is long distance? The new guy she lined up and emotionally cheated on me with is giving her the validation/attention and security she craves, so time will only tell

[@A2Kaid]

@@austintang1645 yes she still can. The rebound likely won't last. Esp if yoir relationship was mostly good.

[@austintang1645]

@@A2Kaid She has been in a long distance rebound with the other guy for five months already. I live 15 minutes away from her and we were together for 6 months

[@ryansenorqueso8029]

@@austintang1645 just curious how'd it work out? U get her back?

[@BushidoVXX]

No contact only works if she still has feelings for you. Otherwise you’ll never hear from her again.

[@AgEnTKeNnY]

I don't know if I ever get my ex back.... but videos like that, makes me feel better every day.

[@filozica867]

Been a year now? Update, back together or?

[@sevrynhunter]

2 years now…

[@SHUTTERSPEEDVLOGS]

It's been 5 years and I'd like to know y'all are back together 😢

[@redgames4625]

The key is to give space, be respectful and think about their feelings, and not yours. It's actually a good lesson. Sometimes the breakup is 100% due to clingeness. The life is not only relationship. Focus on other parts, and try to balance everything. We normally suffer when we put the relationship in the center of our lives, that also leads to breakup.

[@charliefairly4055]

I know of a love expert who is capable of helping you fix your relationship within 48hours He also helped me out too,

[@charliefairly4055]

T e X t h m o n w a s s a p f o r h e l p,,,

[@charliefairly4055]

➕15038541486⏯⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ I can't believe am with my love again,,,,

[@jannielsantiago1940]

This is by far the most insightful relationship channel on KZbin

[@steveurquhart9276]

After five months apart, I am back together with my ex. To everyone who wants to get back together, don't give up. Coach Craig's advice is so important. For men, not losing emotional self control is critical as is not chasing a woman who has rejected you, and letting her come to you. I had to make some adjustments to the principles because my woman is from SE Asia and her culture is very different from ours in the west. But essentially they do work. I was in a three year LDR before the roof fell in last November much to my surprise of course. Guys rarely see it coming. So thanks Coach Craig. It feels good to feel happy again.

[@CoachCraigKenneth]

That's great! I'm really happy for you! If you send me a success story I just may share it in a video. Keep working and learning :)

[@steveurquhart9276]

Thank you so much coach. We are currently in a new honeymoon phase and learning about each other again. It is a good time as everyone knows. When the work starts I will email you the story. Your videos really taught me how to handle a very difficult situation and I know they saved me from some serious and potentially fatal mistakes because so much of what you teach is counterintuitive. Thanks again. Life is good. I will continue to follow your work closely.

[@CoachCraigKenneth]

Thanks for sharing your success! As you know, break ups are very scary and feel hopeless! I absolutely know how to turn them around and I love hearing success stories! Love makes the world go around :)

[@benblexbenblex]

Steve Urquhart another wmaw couple. Ugh

[@iamfrankcaceres]

After the breakup did she hit u with the "I'm uncomfortable speaking to you at all" text and didn't reply to your last text?

[@staceyswope3438]

So true- as a child I was raised w money but no emotional closeness, so I didn’t care about pursuing money- only intimacy.

[@christalabcd5379]

Same here.

[@autumn_sky7068]

Me too

[@Sound7heWarCry]

Very insightful, thank you

[@seagypsy2762]

Because of narcissistic forms of behaviors, I ended it after 3 1/2 years. Trauma bonded I couldn’t move on. Though I reached out to him respectfully, over the course of a few years, he never contacted me again and is now getting married. In this case anxiety did not trigger desire. I never expected healing to be so difficult and moving on to be so hard. Thank you for your content and knowledge.

[@ednalynelayda8587]

My ex finally reached out !!!♥️♥️ We broke up July 16th, 2020 and he reached out, August 16th, 2020!!!! NO CONTACT REALLY WORKS for me!!! 💓💓💓💓💓😍😍😍

[@danielbrown8602]

Thank you so much for your message. Gives me hope.

[@xyzbakedgoods]

its been 18months. Are you still together? If not, how soon after did he do the same thing? Hope you are ok!

[@rajharell]

That story about the other guy answering the door is brutal.

[@CoachCraigKenneth]

Sure was. I did the Grand Gesture years ago... The results were not good. Won't ever make that mistake again.

[@Themedusatouch89]

I wouldnt even entertain wanting her back if that happened :)

[@opheliamyall2554]

😂😂😂

[@candykane1080]

My “ex” called me after I asked him to come back from his friends to the apartment we live at to help me clean. It was actually the new girl who answered. She picked up, said “this is [my exes] gf. I don’t want any problems but he’ll be home to help pick up later” I said “ ok, bye”. Later I made the mistake to plead at him “why did you move on after 3 days” “did you ever love me” “did you use me the way you are this girl (he borrowed from her to pay me off)” etc. that was 3 days ago. I’m still a wreck. All I knew is that he broke up with me, and that he was staying at a friends... then he posted on Snapchat pics of them, then the call. I assumed the Snapchat was a new friend. I had such disbelief he’d move on that quick, but obviously he’s trash and as Taylor Swift would say “we are never getting back together”. He blindsided me so bad, it was horrible.

[@jadeniau6490]

@@candykane1080 take care dear

[@melanierasmussen8792]

I cried when I saw this, because I realized I’ve been doing everything wrong. Now I feel hopeless, because I want my ex back so bad. But after thinking about what you said, I stopped crying and I felt better. My bf broke up with me a bit over a week ago and I’ve been trying to get him back by contacting him and promising to make things better and work on myself. But my constant reaching out to him made things worse. I am taking your advice and I will try to accept the break up even thought it hurts. I hope it is not too late. I also realized that constantly promising to make things better and work on myself is not going to help. He doesn’t need promises. He wants to SEE the improvement. So I will stop contacting him, use the time to work on myself and hope that he will reach out to me soon.

[@sarasaray4072]

yes girl i am in day 5

[@melanierasmussen8792]

I have an update. Right after I made this comment, I texted my ex that I was sorry for not giving him space, that I would accept his decision, that I love him, and will be here if he needs to talk. I didn’t contact him anymore after that. And less than he week after, he contacted me and said that he was sorry about the break up and that he misses me. I really didn’t expect this at all!

[@YanaPetruk]

Melanie Beckmann Rasmussen thanks for the update!

[@naiko6700]

@@melanierasmussen8792 hi! Do you have any update? You guys still together?

[@melanierasmussen8792]

@@naiko6700 We are no longer together. I stopped pursuing him and did the “no contact”-thing, and one time when he invited me home. But he ended up changing his mind, because he “wasn’t ready” and woke me up in the middle of the night and kicked me out in freezing weather. After that he kept promising me to work things out and got my hopes up, but would change his mind all the time. I realized that everything happened on his premises only... I also saw him on the street holding hands with another girl less than a week after he invited me home for sex. This behavior from him really messed me up... it was also the hardest heart break I’ve ever experienced. I feel like he was playing with my feelings. I now go to therapy because his behavior affected me so much.

[@ladydee4485]

Coach Craig's advice was super on point! I did the no contact rule to a T and completely cut off all contact. In 4 months, my ex came back saying he missed me and couldn't bear to be another day without me. This period also helped me improve my self value and made me realize everything Coach Craig said was ideal to get me to this great place. Don't settle for friendship and be disciplined about no contact! It works! It works so good that perhaps when they do come back you might be the one who doesn't even want them back!

[@sharonpfitzner7619]

May I ask did you respond to him when he contacted you during no contact?

[@davidmcquaid7862]

don't contact them for any reason ever again lol...his face and reaction when he says that: priceless

[@staceyswope3438]

We want what we can’t have or what is threatened to be taken away- every car salesman knows this truck!!

[@eddiesantiago7971]

Craig crushes every break up expert by far!!!!! nobody else is this insightful

[@deemays12]

Damn, wish I would've watched this video months ago before I started breaking all the cardinal rules.

[@samuelceus2436]

me too lol

[@Kjf4runner]

I swear bro. I fucked up because I messaged her that I wanted my shit back from my house and boom I got blocked

[@Kjf4runner]

Zheyue Zhao I meant her house lol but yeah it’s funny to look back at now

[@PrinceRockyCat]

Me too...can this be fixed?

[@thedrenkemp124]

kjf 4runner gg shit lol Nd I still don’t have my shit

[@keeperofknowledge4120]

Even if no contact doesn't result in getting your ex back, at least you keep your dignity. Plus, to be honest, it's better to just move on from that person. If they dumped you that means they were okay with you meeting someone else and never getting you back. Let that sink in. Plus, who knows what they did while you were apart. Pretty good chance they hooked up with someone else. That innocent trust will never be there again. Let them go...there are so many other people out there that won't do that to you, will value you, and you can experience a new love.

[@Nostaljayy]

Thank you Craig! These videos have helped me in the lowest times of my life after break up. Always honest and real with us

[@marksmangamingchannel6838]

Same here

[@brandonrobertkersjes]

I pray that my ex gf was telling the truth when she said she didn’t cheat and that she didn’t meet someone else! I pray that she hasn’t been with any other man!

[@fuzzyOGchinchillas]

"What does that say about your value? That means you have a low value of yourself." Truth. Thank you, Craig!!

[@realpurplegoldminnesotavik7829]

NC !!!! Keep yourself busy and work on you !!!! I’m a strong believer that you shouldn’t rely on any human being to create happiness for you !!!! If you can’t be happy together then maybe you can be happy apart😃

[@troytroy4191]

Daaam. That real. Im take your advice

[@robrobrobrobify]

Don't think about someone who isn't thinking of you. Move on. No one is worth pain and heartache.

[@queeneverheart6357]

Guys ,Stick with Craig kenneth advice ... After 8 months of no contact after he broke up with me now my ex reached out and try to win me back.. Everyday i watch the videos of Craig and Margareth,dont give up guys ...thanks so much you really help us, Godblesd ...awesome ♥

[@joeb5578]

I watch your videos daily, especially when I get needy, have negative thoughts and bad behavior. Thanks again for all that you and Margaret do on here. It truly is a blessing to hear and act upon all of what you're talking about. :)

[@miguelmorell4114]

You just saved me from looking like a fool this weekend...thank you man!!!

[@spacito8617]

This is my favorite video ever and I watch it quite frequently whenever I need a reminder of how to behave after a breakup. "They treated you like you were on sale, you were on clearance, they were gettin' rid of you" LOL I love this! They are no longer a priority in your life. This is probably one of the best videos ever made on breakups & How to Make Your Ex Miss You (From a Psychotherapist) is also my go-to when I'm suffering heartbreak. Thank you Coach Craig & Margaret you guys always make me laugh. Thank you for all the beautiful work you do and for always being my compass!

[@larrylarry2666]

This is the best video of his I've seen. The things he says are really powerful. When ever I've been tempted to contact my ex, I listen to this.

[@dotfive5six477]

Update please ?

[@kellishook4014]

My wife of a little over a year left me said she needed space and time to figure things out. I just found out last night that she moved out of state and moved in with another older man. I had no idea this was her intentions. I'm so devastated and so upset.

[@mattc420]

Damn brother. I feel for you.

[@lisawilkins7976]

I am living this My husband moved six hours away from me

[@mattc420]

@@lisawilkins7976 same here. My baby mama and my 3 yr old went to Florida. They're like 12 hours from me :( massive waves of depression and anxiety. I miss them so much.

[@semiramistaveras]

The more time that passes by the less chances you might have if you are not actively there or in their minds. Things are either meant to be or they are not. Each party has things to work on; with the pass of time you might just become a better person suitable for somebody else

[@Mannyslayer0104]

that guy is officially part of the gentlemens club

[@Terexzes]

Just broke up with my girlfriend after 2 years + . I feel broken. I need to put focus on my self and so does she. I wish this wouldn't be true, wish we could get back together because we do love each other very much, it took us 5 hours to decide that we were both crying and wouldn't let go of each other. but deep down inside we know we are not good for each other at the moment.. I hope things will be better, either if we get back together or not.. just hope things will be better by days passing. Yeah I will do NC rule because I believe in it's pros of self healing, not just to make her "jealous" or something because I don't care if she is. And I think she will do the NC too because she knows she hurt me and she need to improve her self too. I love her, and I wish her the best in the world. I had so much fun hugging her and stroking her hair when she felt down. I so miss these moments when I protected her from her bad moments. I do hope we will find our way back together because I think that despite our issues, we did care a lot for each other. but truth to be told : I know I can't relay on that "hope", I need to move on but it's so hard, I just wanna be vanished from the world right now and stop feeling. hope to be better soon asap.

[@benithacalloway8286]

Updates

[@jesseboggis2449]

I don't want her to feel the pain that I have. If she wasn't happy with me it's hard to take but I'd rather her be happy then just being with me because I'm not happy. I want her back but you can't be selfish in situations like this. You have to take into consideration what the other person wants.

[@msexlexi1606]

Jesse Boggis, Ahhhhhh! That's so sweet! You'll get an amazing fork soon who totally loves you with that attitude. I'm even jealous of her.

[@tinabaney6861]

This guy deserves a love. I'm jelous with your ex. Can I just have you hahaha btw this comment was 2 yrs ago..

[@tinabaney6861]

@@jesseboggis8976 aw man! can I just have you until now I'm available 🤣🤣🤣😉

[@itskdreams7500]

Jesse Boggis I adore how brave you were at handling this.

[@troytroy4191]

True. I feel you

[@rayf5360]

I wonder... I can understand why you need to maintain no contact when your partner broke up because you were to clingy or needy, but what if they broke up with you because they felt YOU weren't giving them enough affection, and they feel disconnected to such an extent they wanted to leave? Going no contact in that scenario seems like an affirmation of their belief that you don't care, and only increases disconnection further?

[@nathanb2167]

i see this asked a lot and see no reply. my ex was the needy one she broke up because i stood up to her and she was not willing to reflect on herself.

[@LonelyRider87]

Yes. And or an argument not a loss of attraction over time but a sudden, brutal switch. 🤔

[@mlogan9929]

Please don't forget all the problems and issue's that lead to this breakup in the first place

[@Alchemygem]

yall listen to coach man no contact works my ex text me today after only 3 weeks of no contact woooow this works... it really works. .... gota be strong

[@josephquinto5812]

itsme Mario I'll hit 3 weeks tomorrow, it's so hard. Why did you break up?

[@Alchemygem]

long story but I was acting insecure and a lil jealous.. she wasnt perfect either it was a combo of both.. play it cool doe if she does contact you..act like you dont care

[@josephquinto5812]

itsme Mario Do you guys work together or go to the same school, me and my ex go to the same school and have classes together

[@ismaelapellido2666]

@@Alchemygem brooo im having the same story could you tell me how it went pls?

[@jackbravo2172]

The way Craig teaches no contact here is the ONLY real way to do no contact. It means you're ex never ever hears from you again for any reason possible. You have to absolutely go stone cold silent and make them feel a sense of loss or you don't stand a real good chance of reconnecting with them. Don't listen to the "30 day no contact" coaches out there that teach you to keep chasing your ex like that. I have rarely seen that work in the way people wanted it to.

[@deemays12]

Yeah, I did the 30 day no contact, texted her, and got nothing.

[@jackbravo2172]

dayum12 Yeah, you're results are typical of what happens when people try the 30 day no contact method cause there's usually a very good reason why you always have to be the one initiating the contact in these cases cause the ex is probably dating someone new and or they are still pissed at you, so I have never struck to a certain amount of time of no contact, then started contacting them and that's why this is the better way of doing it.

[@deemays12]

Jack Bravo Yeah I agree. I try not to assume anything negative as that doesn't help me as a person with anxiety. She could be dating someone else or she probably isn't. I know I can't even think about dating someone else at this point. She still has our photos on her Facebook account. I'm not going to call again unless she does.

[@jackbravo2172]

dayum12 Yeah man, that's the best thing to do right now cause any further contact by you just places her more in the power position and she can treat you any way she wants but I can tell you, there's been many cases where the person that got dumped eventually was moving on and that's when the ex reappears, I had ex's want to come back later and I was not in that same emotional stare of needing them anymore, so I know this from experience and I can vouch for how Craig teaches, even I just found his video's last night, he teaches you the correct way.

[@deemays12]

Yeah, I've heard that from several people. Thanks for the advice. I'm going to focus on my growth and tackling this anxiety.

[@markiemark1122]

My girlfriend just broke up with me last night and this was very helpful information Craig. I never heard of someone speaks such knowledge about how to go about a break up. You are amazing Sir

[@georgeisfast]

I was broken up with. I sort of followed the no contact rule. My ex is coming over and it was her idea. I want to make sure I am not just friends with her and I make her attracted to me. I will be more masculine and more emotional stable and less attached to her and less showing her that I still feel for her. Wish me luck, she comes over tomorrow.

[@johannesolofsson221]

What happend

[@rayateston4859]

Please make a version of this for women on getting an ex boyfriend back! This only has female psychology :(

[@ioeuropaganymedkallisto7204]

It's the same for men. Everybody wants what he cannot have.

[@ioeuropaganymedkallisto7204]

Anyway, have you got your ex back?

[@cynthiab8377]

Io Europa Ganymed Kallisto how would you know? Are you a guy?

[@ioeuropaganymedkallisto7204]

@@cynthiab8377 yes I am.

[@cynthiab8377]

Io Europa Ganymed Kallisto well, I’ve been doing all the “wrong things such as talk, texting, apologizing, explaining also changed my poor habit ” for 2 months post break up. He is adamant and been ignoring most of my texts but he didn’t block me. Recently I noticed he viewed my stories and I think he realized I can see, so the next 2 days he went completely “not online” for 9-10 hours, which is very odd as usually he’s always on/ wouldn’t be away for too long. Today he suddenly turned off the active notice on messenger 😅. Why? I haven’t been texting him for a week and living my life. Why the need to do so when I’m giving him space now?

[@hollydrucker3011]

That is my plan to WORK ON MYSELF! YOU AND MARGARET ARE THE BEST! [I am teary eyed ] and it was hard to hear but, its all true Blessings to you and Margaret. Craig I am back in the gym and began seeing my friends . I feel myself healing. I thank you both!

[@plopcat767]

Oh all these little games. I wish I would meet a man who doesn't play cat and mouse. If you're interested be consistent, show respect, I'll do the same and it will all work out. In a consumerist society, we have come to consume people as well and then throw them away, just because you got to have the "new". Until that turns old and then the whole thing all over again.

[@kevphillips02]

Real love would not include this type of behaviour. People need to address their individual intimacy issues rather than run away then go back when missing the person . Healthy relationships take work and above all commitment .

[@kevphillips02]

Catarina Guerra I’m here , where are you ?

[@LRF49]

Not that simple. My girlfriend broke up with me 3 weeks ago via text of all things. Anyways, she claims that I became more into the relationship than her, even though she started off that way. She said she thinks she didn't become the girl I wanted her to be. I feel as if I became more affectionate and she didn't like it and ran off. Dating and relationships is all a game. The people who play it best are the ones that have the better relationships.

[@strain2211]

Not the same for everyone, I was respective, loyal but I was too clingy

[@s.a.9503]

@Catarina Guerra , there is something to human psychology that leads people even a very well spiritually developed ones to end up playing by the rules of those manipulative games unconsciously. It is hard to resist the entropy i guess. Same rules that allow dishonest psychopathic pickup artists and narcissists to perform better in that game than honest and sincere people, just because they are more sophisticated in manipulation and deception. What is only wrong with this world.

[@buek14]

My ex-partner reached out (crying in the phone she's missing me) in 48 hours after the breakup and 3 weeks later broke up again. Probably the worst position to be in. We didn't have time to work on ourselves after the breakup and the 2nd chance is wasted at the same time... Every positivity I do (she's checking my social media all the time) does not affect her, not enough at least.

[@billerin7995]

Same situation for me now, any update on yours?

[@buek14]

@@billerin7995 She married to the same guy she met one week after our final breakup. Nonetheless she reached out 10 months after our breakup. So I won the NC war. On top of that, I'm over it ever since. This happened nearly 3 years ago.

[@jameswaugaman8052]

Craig, sometimes I hate how right about all this you are!! It works too too well! Thank you!

[@charliefairly4055]

I know of a love expert who is capable of helping you fix your relationship within 48hours He also helped me out too,

[@charliefairly4055]

T e X t h m o n w a s s a p f o r h e l p

[@charliefairly4055]

➕15038541486⏯⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ I can't believe am with my love again

[@sikitrakix]

This is what I needed to hear. Thanks for giving me the strength to make the decision of 'no contact' from someone who after 14 years decides to leave the house without making the leaving for good or not decision and just leaving me waiting/hoping for her to come back... thank you

[@MrNmusgrave]

I almost lost it when you began talking about, "...not wanting to be in a relationship 'RIGHT NOW'". I figured she lost attraction to me, but she said that, "everything seemed to be so undecided about what we wanted." She also told me that she didnt have the time or energy to be in a relationship. I've lost about 12 pounds in the last months from the anxiety and struggle of this. Going to try the NC, because we are a part of the same group of friends. To anyone going through this, please be strong. If I can't, you need to.

[@ryanchaney94]

How did it work out?

[@MrNmusgrave]

@@ryanchaney94 You do not want them back.... ever. Who I was at that time doesn't exist anymore. After a while, you begin to understand why NC is important for combating emotional instability. When my brain started easing away from the trauma, the logical side of me started piece together all of the things that happened. All the bad traits you chose to ignore scream at you once more. ... except now there isn't a person there to "let it go" for anymore. With the help of videos like this, and others from various channels, the pain will subside. The memories will never cease, but this is your process. So, it worked out in my own way. Mind you, every result varies, and every interpretation of NC varies.

[@Mia-mq2ec]

And another guy answered the door! LOL LOL LOL. This made my day while I am sitting here depressed over my own loss!

[@Ramiro-k8f]

Me too right now

[@nickflynn621]

One thing I saw not covered here is what to do when they reach out and won’t make dates to come to your place - after they reach out twice and won’t commit to a date you must stop asking them. At this point they must be the ones to bring it up. If after 2-3 messages back and forth and they haven’t asked you then you must tell them you are busy and you have other things to do. If they do finally bring up making a date make 3 consecutive dates at your place and let them do 100% of the contacting and pursuing until they bring up that they are ready for something more.

[@rosemandi1237]

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[@charliedassaro5351]

Love all your stuff...Thank you for helping me become a better man at 64.. We’re never to old to learn. Good luck to all. Stay the course

[@rosemandi1237]

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[@rosemandi1237]

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[@anairaham]

Success story here!! My ex bf and I are back together. We were broken up for a little over a month. He said he still loves me and everyday he thought of me and everything made him think of me. I was in NC for about 25 days until I reached out about money I needed from him for concert tickets I still had. He sent over the money and we had very sporadic and random chill conversations every other day for about a week. I really felt like he only replied to my texts to be polite because we didn’t really end on bad terms. His replies were casual and seemed apathetic. So finally I asked an open ended question and asked how he was doing. Then we had a whole day of good conversation then that same day he asked me out to get boba. That same night but he said he was scared that I was going to move on and had to tell me he still loves me and missed everything about me. We both agreed to work on ourselves and push each other to be our best and be a strong couple. I said we can take it slowly and I’m open to it. But ultimately I told him I loved him still too!

[@jacqui8392]

Thanks for the update x

[@guardianangel222-v2t]

Were you friends during those 25 days, did you have contact?

[@anairaham]

@@guardianangel222-v2t no we didn’t haha. Funny enough we dated for another 3 months then broke up. We broke up for almost a year and he’s back AGAIN

[@markiemark1122]

Craig you are the most amazing therapist and coach I've ever listened to. I'm a 43-year-old male and I thought I knew everything about relationships and break ups. Boy was I wrong after listening to you. I just ended a three-year engagement three days ago because she moved in some guy she works with into her house to rent out a room. Next thing you know they're texting each other all the time and deleting all the text messages so I can't read them. I'm very hurt right now and lost emotionally. I've been searching the last two days for someone to help me with some great advice. You are way beyond the most knowledgeable person I could imagine to come across. You are a godsend and I am very very thankful to come across you. I'm looking forward to doing a one on one coaching session in the next couple days.

[@Jaynerd101]

Mark Bjorkquist how did it turn out?

[@jonathangraham4092]

Man up and get to steppin. Any girl that plays those games is not worth the trouble in the long run

[@DrewTyler15]

How you doing now 7 years later?

[@cytheriacatt452]

It's not true that a woman would never leave a man if her attraction level is is high and she loves the man. She will leave a man she deeply loves if she feels there is no real commitment from the man, no future. This was the case for me.

[@charliefairly4055]

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[@charliefairly4055]

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[@jessiesantos6714]

Can he feel that separation anxiety if he is happy without you ? and besides, he wants to be free from you in the first place so how can he feel that separation anxiety? Im confused now.

[@floralwood_]

How's thing going sis?

[@gwynbleiddroach2589]

@@lisaclifford4000 i can almost guarantee its not the same for guys. I bet men return a lot more than wimen do.

[@mercwiffamouff7301]

@@gwynbleiddroach2589 i broke up with my ex and then got back with her for like a week. But was still hurt about what had happened before and cut it off. And a few months later i was groveling that i missed her. But she had moved onto another man. Tbh though im glad i didn't get back with her. She was very toxic and possessive and controlling. My current ex though. I love her to the moon and back and we broke up on miscommunication. She thinks she ruined things and we can't be happy now because she left on miscommunication. And it sucks..... Bad... I was being her friend. She was still being.... Close and stuff but then i got in an accident and things have been.... Really messed up since then. She's still here but I'm tired of hurting so bad. I've gone silent. And she seems to be upset/worried about it.

[@aaroncostello81]

Very sound advice. Your videos have really been helping me through a verrry difficult time

[@conspiracytherapy23]

Staying strong with no contact. Thanks Craig! Gonna be taking your course! Self betterment is the truth!

[@conspiracytherapy23]

Only a week but these videos immeadiatly made me feel better the day it happened. You?

[@CA2SD]

💯Anxiety leads to the beginnings of desire!

[@tsebosei1285]

This is the best decision I made coming across your channel

[@gina2032]

you are very good & correct with all your advise. above all you speak clearly & slowly. others u tube speak like a marathon & that is stupid. you are one of the BEST

[@CoachCraigKenneth]

I didn't realize I had competition ;)

[@moonlitangel1946]

My ex and I broke up recently. I told him we should take a break bc the things he was doing now didnt show that he wanted to be in a relationship. The break lasted a week. But after the break, he said he wanted to break up for good.... He didnt get separation anxiety. He said he felt relieved, instead...

[@leewheatley7525]

Im amazed at how spot on he is! Im dealing with being separated from the woman ive been with for 17 years and the pain is so bad it's become physical. Everything he says not to do is exactly what I've been doing! Lol. I just feel so lost and alone. Thanks for the advice

[@flyghots956]

im going thru a breakup as well as we speak with the father of my son im doing the no contact rule please pray for me im going thru the anxiety but im not caving

[@kaylahughes3508]

emoboz how did it go

[@anikajohnson6217]

help me.. i very depressed about this break up .it feels death

[@parisam7659]

Did they come back?

[@shawanaryals]

All women are different. It's a personality thing. My experience with men shows that they often like women whose feelings are unclear. I on the other hand hate and I repeat hate men whose feelings about me are unclear.

[@blairjr2570]

I haven’t really talked to him in about two months. So glad I’m watching this today. I’ve been watching your videos after totally trainwrecking my introduction to his avoidance issues. I hope he gives me another chance now that I know all this information. I hope me reaching out a couple days after to smooth things over didn’t ruin it all. After that I haven’t made any initiation and have only replied to a comment he made on a Tiktok I posted but I only “liked” the second comment as to not give too much of a hit that it would ruin the growing void of me.

[@MrTheomighty1]

This is exactly what I did, I told her I couldn’t remain friends as she wanted, I told her I could only be in a relationship with you, then I went straight into NC, 6 days have passed and I feel great as I know she will be thinking ohhhhh this Guy is different, he’s not chasing and doing what all other guys do which then pushes them further away and I want my current partner come closer to me as I want to end my days with her

[@aaronpennington6689]

Ya know what the problem with people these days is? No one drinks from the skulls of their enemies.

[@seewead101]

what if your ex didn't think you gave her enough attention as it was. I'm trying the no contact right now. I'm afraid this will only help prove her point that I didn't. Which isn't true, I did care I just have trouble showing emotion.

[@abstractapproach634]

Same boat. I try to go with strategic pull backs. As soon as I feel I'm coming off overbearing or she doesn't seem to be in a receptive mood. I'm really bad at it though, I told myself I'd pull back after she was "too sick" to go out to dinner with me this weekend......but I've talked to her every day. (She really was sick but probably also using it as a cop out, broke my heart, that yes was a dream for me)

[@katysmith1641]

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[@asiaandre-bell364]

Tell her how you love her, show her. Otherwise you lose her. She needs to know that she matters

[@memorybenjamin7373]

I had a terrible reason of breaking up do u think I am right for the no contact?

[@shawanaryals]

Then grand gestures are the way to go. I know because I'm that way. Even more No contact only gives her time to find out how to live without you.

[@LLSmith-kg4zo]

My ex says I cause him anxiety, I don’t think more anxiety would help 😬

[@bobcarter5299]

Her contacting you sounds good. Up to now the dumped have been doing all the relationship work. Nice to see balance.

[@charliefairly4055]

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[@disorder_go]

This video is gold. I wish I’d watched it 6 weeks ago.

[@rosemandi1237]

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[@rosemandi1237]

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[@bigfamilyaffair]

This is a great video. My story is that I felt my boyfriend who I was in a Long Distance Relationship with didn't value me, didn't give me the attention I longed for. He had been distant and always on social media. We had been together for a while and he told me he had childhood issues that he had never been able to get over. He lacked emotional skills, could not give affection or love. Yesterday he called me and wondered why I was being distant. I point blank asked him how he felt about me and he got upset saying how women always want something. I didn't argue or raise my voice but it was clear that he was not happy that I asked him that question which he never answered. I never intended to break up with him because I love him. One thing lead to another and I told him maybe it was time to let go. He agreed and we left it at that. I was so beside myself like what just happened here? I have not contacted him because I'm the confident one but this breakup really gave me anxiety issues. I fear I may have lost him. I just wanted to do the 'let go' thing as other coaches have recommended to make him realize what he lost and beg to me to come back. That isn't happening and I miss him so much. I don't want to reach out to him because I don't want him to settle back to himself again. He'll have the upper hand and keep things the way they have been which is not what I want. I want him to tell me he loves me and how much he misses me. Why does it have to be so difficult?

[@benithacalloway8286]

Because he’s one of the avoidant attachment one’s

[@Xanaking]

This is similar advice to Coach Corey Wayne -- I've been following both of you guys. The movies definitely teach us all the wrong things!

[@grjabalpuriya1039]

Xanaking same things 2 is better than one, well i like both of them

[@mattvidler1986]

I wish I watched this video 6 weeks ago. GF of 6 years left me 6 weeks ago. Asked me to leave same day. Lived with her for 5 years and was going to ask her to marry me in January. Since in hadn't heard from her, I mailed her a letter one month later, not asking for her back, more just to say that now I need to move on, goodbye, and hopefully in the future we can have some form of friendly relationship. I wrote the letter not expecting a reply. Didn't have time for "a calm talk"the day I moved out. I probably shouldn't have sent her anything, but after sending the letter, I have sworn to myself to NEVER contact her again. I have done what I can.

[@iosole7668]

john smith are u better now???

[@saracastrooar]

did she respond?

[@jasonyung5749]

that's brutal bro. my condolences for your loss

[@michealtokunbo9804]

My gf broke up with me and we called and said he can never see someone as perfect as I'm and I told her not to keep pitying her and I said I will never tx her again ..and I accept it as fate and I don't want us as friends and I blocked her everywhere.

[@playalot86]

It can be difficult to know whether, or not, what you're doing is working; especially if they get exclusive with someone else, but I still believe no contact is the best thing; also, going dark on social media.

[@christianpulisic7784]

Trevor Murrey,You got a lovely smile 😊!!

[@playalot86]

@@christianpulisic7784 Why thank you, kind sir!

[@christianpulisic7784]

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[@christianpulisic7784]

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[@ksenekabundi159]

I broke up with him because it felt like I was doing all the chasing 😭😭

[@msbosslady6054]

Me too!!!

[@colleenreid5029]

Guy broke up with me because he wanted me to chase him too. Men are not men no more.

[@cashfeezy8165]

my girlfriend dumped me on Monday I haven't called or text her at all hope this work

[@liono877]

So you're doing the NC phase, it could take up to 4 weeks for her to reach out. You have to be strong during that time and work on yourself.

[@josephquinto5812]

Liono thunder It can take a lot longer...4 weeks is not enough time. He needs to mentally prepare himself and fix all of his mistakes too. It could take them a week, or a few years to contact you. You never know.

[@liono877]

Joseph Quinto very true, u never know.

[@aundrix9514]

So what happened bro? Any success?

[@marietorriatte]

update usss did it work? xD

[@fondelmaddick5085]

Someone that suffers from anxiety, needs to be approached as a friend, as their guard will be up, too much, if you go straight in for a relationship. That's a fact, with someone who has issues.

[@rosemandi1237]

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[@rosemandi1237]

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[@BambiOnIce19]

Well some people just don't get attached, and as a result don't experience anxiety. My friend was seeing a guy casually for about 8 months - a lot of that going on these days, "casual" relationships - she got sick of it, told him to get lost and he just moved on. He never called her....

[@ChrisPBacon-nd7qe]

I've seen other coaches good ones but this guy's take is straight on point. I guess that's what therapist does. Kudos!

[@rosemandi1237]

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[@rosemandi1237]

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[@osi709]

What if the girl gets in an immediate rebound relationship and forgets about you as a way to deal with it?

[@dimicaimano5734]

what if she told you when she broke up that hopes are slims to getting back together and she has other plans .she needs time for herself. but she still wouldn't mind us being friends eventully . but for now time apart to heal..

[@sardarpirhadi577]

how they can have anxiety about losing you when they have no attraction for you???????

[@juanventura5692]

I only wished I could've seen this 3 weeks ago. Been broken up 3 weeks. 8 days no contact. Just devastating, but im going to work on my getting this negativity out of my life and work on myself.

[@ryanreynolds6764]

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[@dl7694]

Just got the dreaded news, I haven't freaked out and will follow this plan and keep you posted. I really love her but have been through hell before her and will be OK without her. But! I definitely want to work it out. Thanks for the awesome service you are providing us fellas.

[@eveningstar1]

This stuff is gold! Thank you.

[@amoljagtap1717]

i hope there was a button for a million likes

[@ch1bob]

My story summarized: 1. I pushed her away by saying mean things to her, because she got clingy and needy.. 2. Didnt allow separation anxiety to kick in for her when she decided to push me away. She actually broke up with me twice but I didnt go no contact..on the contrary 3. When she got indifferent and started avoiding me with no contact, I got separation anxiety and proceeded to plead and beg with gifts, long texts, letters, invitations 4. Tables turned and she ended up ignoring my feelings because her trust was no more 5. I kept forcing with texts, flowers, letters but she already proceeded to a new rebound relationship and blocked me 6. 40 days of no contact and 5 days before her bday she unblocks me from whatsapp but no comms yet All this because I couldnt shut my mouth Feels like no hope scenario since i did her wrong first and she got her revenge full circle. Do you think i have a chance?

[@harekrishna8604]

What's the update now ??😅

[@jason2723]

Fuck

[@Troy12-fitnessmodel]

The pain of being dumped is like nothing else...and she was the one that cheated. I really am weak and pathetic

[@ethanstewart459]

really wish I would have discovered this channel a month ago when my ex said that she wanted space and before she ended it. In that 9 days of space and ending it I waited a week and sent her a handwritten letter, and also sent her a reminder text letting her know I was thinking of her. Then two weeks after she ended it I went to her house on my way FROM ANOTHER STATE and tried to get her back. Now that I know that I did everything wrong I feel like the situation isn't salvageable.

[@skullyz3482]

I got heartbroken a few hours ago and I’m glad I stumbled upon this video because I would’ve done something I would’ve regretted in the future. Thank You for giving me this advice because I’m not in the right state of mind because I have a lot of anxiety.

[@miasandholdt]

Skullkiller _17 How are you doing?❤️

[@skullyz3482]

Mia I’m doing better. I am gladly to say I’m back to my old self again. Thank You for asking ❤️

[@IntrophyGamer]

@@skullyz3482 How are you doing now? It's been 2 years 😃

[@CC-ih9qq]

Coach Craig, could you please give us some hints about how to handle the worst breadcrumbs from ex like "Hope all is well."? Would need your advice, thank you!

[@misslabyrinth1010]

Hmm why do I feel like this strategy works on girls not guys? Feel like my ex bf wouldn’t think this way

[@vajee5]

Craig I’ve been listening to dozens of your videos, but this one is one of your BEST. Will apply your recommendations. Thank you!

[@daayemshehzad]

Anxiety is the beginning of desire. Anxiety triggers desire.

[@blessingabubakar7941]

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