Bible Verses for a Breakup

Facing a painful breakup? Find hope and comfort in this insightful video as Pastor John shares Bible verses that can provide wisdom to help you through the pain of a broken relationship.
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APJ 656: “Biblical Hope for Breakups” (August 6, 2015)

[@C_itsNemo]

My gf broke up with me today and I’m devastated. I’m leaving it in Gods hand now, I just want to be closer to God and for him to fill the void in my heart that I was trying to have this relationship fill

[@beatboy1185]

Me too brother

[@xdreg]

Same here, little late to the party..but it just happened to me. Hope all is well.

[@franciscomoscoso13]

Same here

[@juaaan2520]

How are you guys??

[@comics4lifeproduction660]

11months ago was how long we dated and we broke up just before we became 1 year

[@insaneoflex01]

I was in a relationship with someone who I loved. She wasn’t a believer and it led me to fornicate and the relationship completely led me astray. I realize that now. I have been praying earnestly for God to transform my memories, love, pain, and longing into love and obedience to Christ. It’s unbelievable, but I feel it happening. Lust is losing its grip on me and my memories of her no longer have the intensity. Christ has heard my prayers and he can hear yours too. I’m not out of the woods yet, but I am not gonna stop seeking Him out. All the glory be to Christ.

[@stephaniesalvatorlamb2956]

insaneoflex01 this was encouraging to read. My story is the same. Thank you for sharing

[@turtle3948]

I'm going through the exact same thing.. I'm still having a hard time dealing with jealousy. Please pray for me

[@millennialpodcast1438]

It's so hard because u want work thing's out and don't give up, u want the future together so bad there is a way

[@whitneyallman8365]

Amen! Praise God! May he give you strength & new beginning

[@rickiilatino]

This is a beautiful prayer..

[@snow.flower]

I'm going through a heart break at the moment. I was with him for two and a half years but I had to break off the relationship because we were both flawed, and our relationship was not glorifying Christ. And in order to grow, I knew the Lord wanted this because now I see how broken we both were. I'm taking this time to pour myself 100% to the Lord now. I'm so humbled and ready to live a serious Christ-centered life.

[@uniquesapphireofficial4532]

This is same thing I'm going through that I'm confused being in relationship n out of relationship need some counsel

[@user-pn7mn7zx5e]

This is exactly what I'm going through right now. I broke up yesterday and I know that this was what I needed to do but I couldn't help feeling sad and missing him. So I was looking for a video that could help me and found this one. This is just the comment I needed right now. Thank you so much and thank you God. I hope to live my life only for You now.❤

[@YT-DAD-BASS-ASSASSIN]

Well I'm going through the same thing,but I'm the dumpee in my case,I tried so hard,I wasnt perfect but i sincerely loved her and her kids,we were praying together and going to church,but we were living in sin,i was continually praying that God would bring us closer together whatever that may be,then out of nowhere she wasnt happy,looked at everything i done to show my affection in negetive way and like a hidden motive or agenda,broke up,completely acting out of character and now so distant so I just gave it to God and his will be done,sometimes we dont understand things that happen but he does,his plan isnt always our plan,I'm just putting my faith in him,everyone that is going through hardships know you arnt alone,we will all make it and understand things more clearly,I pray for everyone struggling that God will give everyone peace and comfort

[@deandreross4745]

AMEN ❗️

[@AshleyLoiseau]

david anderson how’s everything?

[@Elisa-gv6rh]

My boyfriend just broke up with me today, and even though I know it was the best thing for both of us, I'm in so much pain... but I'm relieved that many of my brothers and sisters went through this, and chose God above all feelings and emotions... I know I'll find true love in Jesus, only He can complete me

[@suziekonya6205]

i just broke up with my boyfriend today.. he just has been acting different and he doesn’t seem to care as much as he used to. it hurts so bad it doesn’t feel normal. it’s nice knowing i’m not alone, even tho ik i have Jesus

[@Elisa-gv6rh]

@suziekonya6205 girl, I feel you... I like to think it's God's deliverance for us, better things and people have yet to come in our lives! Hang in there, it's not easy and it's hella painful, but we'll get through this! It's been four days for me, and the healing is coming slowly. Take some time to yourself, surround yourself with people that love and specially that love Jesus, for they will bring you true consolation

[@suziekonya6205]

@@Elisa-gv6rh yeah :( it’s just that he and his family were also the only Christians i knew… but clearly it just wasn’t working anymore. i feel like i was growing in my relationship with God and he wasn’t, and idk he just seemed like he didn’t really care about spending time with me anymore. very all of a sudden. i’ll pray for him tho he’s in a bad mental space. also im determined to find more Christians to be around though. and through all of my feelings i feel a peace yk? like i made the right decision and that i finally did what God has been wanting me to do for a bit. and i know this won’t matter one day, and God knows what’s ahead for me, He knows better than i do. i’m so thankful for Him.

[@allysonhuber9488]

My boyfriend of almost four years just broke up with me today and it hurts tremendously and I just want things to go back to how they were but I am trying to look to God and his guidance to trust in him that he knows what is best and will lead me to eventual happiness!

[@Elisa-gv6rh]

@allysonhuber9488 oh girl... I'm so sorry... I understand and share your pain! May God comfort you, and may you feel loved and protected by Him. Let's look forward to the new things He will bring into our lives. I have tried to channel my pain and rage into creativity these days, write letters for your future self, write God some letters too, paint something and surround yourself with people that love you. I have asked God for friends to support me, and since my breakup not one day has gone by that I didn't have someone different come and spend some quality time with me. Sending many blessings your way 💜

[@noirreflex3618]

Our engagement was broken off, 2 weeks before the wedding. Don’t want to be too vivid with details, but if any of y’all are willing please pray that I would bless her in my heart and prayers for her and wouldn’t grow embittered. It’s a very tough providence and hard to understand.

[@Miguel9.28]

1 Corintios 13, ponder this chapter through weekly.

[@Angeloholcomb-v2n]

Ill pray for you and her❤❤

[@keilaverdugomartinez]

Wow, God knew that I had to listen to this... This hit me hard right now. I'm 29 and experienced my first relationship, breakup and heartbreak for the last months... I'ts been really really hard for me, we were planning to get married, and even if we both are christian and we didn't sin sexually or anything like that, God make me see that this relationship make me agreed with things I was not comfortable in my faith, that I knew that weren't correct, that hurt me and I know would have interfere in my relationship and commitment with God and most important, I was putting this man in the place of God in my life... So I had to be brave and break up with him. Even if we did all the "right things" before be in the actual relationship, like pray before saying yes, seeking for advise and everything. I know God permited all this things to happen for a reason and that is that He has to be my (and I pray every day for this, that He become his) everything. And it's really weird thinking this when we both are christian, but at the end I understood we were not in the same page in our faith and convictions, and sadly we were too immature to love the other the way Christ loves the church. I'm not gonna lie, in my heart I know there still a desire to be with him and marrying him, because he is the first person I decide to give my heart, my best friend... but I understood that I have to be ready to choose God before anything or anyone else. And He knows how much this is hurting, He knows... but wants me (and I can be really sure that He wants all of us) to choose what's better. And the best, no, the Greatest person we can have to be satisfied and complete is Jesus Christ. But for real. Not just an emotional approach to Him that last a few days or weeks, but a completely honest (and broken) heart, humble heart that is willing to surrender e v e r y t h i n g to Him. Your life, your mind, you emotions, your heart, your will... To His. If God it's not the center, the real center of everything you are and do, everything else will become an idol for you, even the good things. Nothing and no one should move us from Him, He wants us to live completly for and in Him. And oh boy, now I see that I have to grow and for his mercy and love I been growing this past months through this pain. I thank God for this desert I'm going through... It's for His glory. It hurts a lot, everyday hurts that I cry before Him because my soul and spirit seems to even reject any consolation or comfort, but I know and trust that this is not the end, even if I feel like it is, (Psalms 73), it's not the end. Only now, that all that faith that I was so sure was strong is putting to a test, I can see that I'm really weak and I can only rely on Him and be strong in Him. All those prayers for a completly surrender and for Him to be my everything are been answered now through this, and it hurts a lot, but He is good and He will finish what He already started in me, because only He is faithful. I pray everyday for my ex and I will continue to do it, because even if God said that that this was not the time and I have to wait...Neither I know if he is the man He wants me to marry, I will not cling to him or anything... Only God. I know the only thing I can do now is love him by praying for him, and wait for the Lord, to take care of all the live I have for him and bring consolation and healing to our hearts. Wait patiently in the Lord, be brave and courageous. Yes, wait patiently in the Lord. Psalm 27:14

[@stellahasava3692]

I'm going through a similar situation Keila. It is so difficult especially in the morning when I wake up and the first thing I think about is him. Trying to make sense of all the confusion I'm feeling and really praying for God to heal me. Praying for you to get through this.

[@keilaverdugomartinez]

@@stellahasava3692 I'll pray for you too, I totally understand what you're saying... I get mad at me because I keep thinking about him, like you said, first thing wham I wake up, and keep praying to cling on God's love and mercy, and I think, maybe if this is a process, thinking about him first thing makes me seek God right after. And I hope, that this will pass eventually, I wish it would be faster and didn't hurt anymore, but only God knows the time of this healing, because I know is not only the breakup and heartbreak, but there's so much going on in my heart and mind that's this was (I think) just the way God made me come and be vulnerable again to surrender all with a heart that's willing to be teachable and humble to obey trusting God. Even when I'm writing this, and I thank God that in these moments He can show me that everything is about Him and He has a purpose, living it is the hard part, because is a struggle every single day. Everyday I have to choose believe in Him besides how hurt or broken I feel and trust in Him, even if all day I have to keep coming back in prayer and read His word because I keep thinking about my ex. We will get through this sister! God is good and faithful, and He promised to be our help. Let's pray for each other (and those who are going through the same) and let's trust in Him, this process it's hard, and it hurts so so much, but everything is for His glory and this will turn out to be for our own good.

[@Jpo00000]

@@keilaverdugomartinez this has just happened to me. I knew I was idolizing her and knew I needed to be closer to God but never knew how. She thought the same and broke it off. Over 3 years in this relationship. I've never felt pain like this in my life. Please pray for me I am trying to put God in the centre because I realise how broken I am when I have nothing else.

[@TheLychie]

aww thank you for your honest comment. what helped me today was the song "I love you jesus more than anything" -kanye. more than anything. thank you jesus

[@marceldelrosario]

Learn this Keila, God in you or not. A woman will break rules for an Alpha Male and Make rules for a Beta male. It’s that simple. A woman in Love with a man she respects will do ANYTHING! Even Break Gods Law for the Alpha male she respects.

[@Mr.Popo1077]

I’m in so much pain rn and I really don’t know what to do. Please pray for me guys please.

[@jfly338]

Praying for you. You're not alone. I'm broken.

[@Elisa-gv6rh]

How are you doing? I feel the same thing rn

[@Mr.Popo1077]

@@Elisa-gv6rh I’m actually doing much better now thank the Lord. Although it doesn’t feel like it or seem like it things will get better. God has a purpose and plan for all of us. Always remember this too shall pass. Whether good or bad no matter what everything will be ok because at the end of the day we have God and our lord and savior Jesus Christ amen. Let his will be done.

[@Mr.Popo1077]

@@jfly338 ^

[@Elisa-gv6rh]

@Mr.Popo1077 thank you brother, thank you! I spent all night crying, but joy comes in the morning... this too shall pass

[@emiliamartinez475]

I broke up with my Boyfriend two days ago. I been with him for 3 yrs. I have anxiety every night. My heart hearts. I'm feel sick to my stomach. I cant eat. Before I met him I pray to god to send me a good man who believe in god. When I met him we would go to church Sunday. But after a while we stop going. I broke up with him because he taught I was cheating on him because I wouldn't be with him. I told him i wanted to get married, i didn't want to sin anymore. He didn't believe me. He taught i was seeing someone else. So i broke up with him. Now I feel lonely sad, anxiety and my heart hurts alot. I pray to god every night to heal my heart and bring him back to me if he is the one. I pray to god if he comes back to help are relationship to get stronger and go back to church and get married. But if he is not the one God wants me to be with , I pray to god to heal my heart and make me strong enough to move on. I need prayers please.

[@heather_anne]

I'm right there with you sister! I just broke up with my boyfriend I've been with for 4 years. I hurts but I believe God will get us through the storm!

[@woahthere5525]

God* and don’t worry I pray and know God will heal you both!

[@frankjackson5980]

𝑴𝒚 𝒅𝒆𝒂𝒓 𝑰 𝒌𝒏𝒐𝒘 𝒘𝒉𝒂𝒕 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒂𝒓𝒆 𝒑𝒂𝒔𝒔𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒕𝒉𝒓𝒐𝒖𝒈𝒉 𝒊𝒕 𝒉𝒂𝒑𝒑𝒆𝒏𝒆𝒅 𝒕𝒐 𝒎𝒆 𝒇𝒆𝒘 𝒎𝒐𝒏𝒕𝒉𝒔 𝒂𝒈𝒐😢, 𝒖𝒏𝒕𝒊𝒍 𝑰 𝒎𝒆𝒆𝒕 𝒂 𝒎𝒂𝒏 𝒘𝒉𝒐 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒖𝒈𝒉𝒕 𝒃𝒂𝒄𝒌 𝒎𝒚 𝒆𝒙 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒂 𝒑𝒐𝒘𝒆𝒓𝒇𝒖𝒍 𝒑𝒓𝒂𝒚𝒆𝒓 𝒓𝒆𝒒𝒖𝒆𝒔𝒕😊😊.

[@frankjackson5980]

𝘈𝘧𝘵𝘦𝘳 𝘥𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘧𝘰𝘳 6𝘺𝘳𝘴,𝘣𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘬 𝘶𝘱 𝘤𝘢𝘮𝘦 𝘪𝘯,𝘪 𝘤𝘰𝘶𝘭𝘥𝘯'𝘵 𝘳𝘦𝘴𝘪𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘵 𝘣𝘦𝘤𝘢𝘶𝘴𝘦 𝘰𝘧 𝘭𝘰𝘷𝘦 .𝘪 𝘴𝘵𝘢𝘳𝘵𝘦𝘥 𝘴𝘩𝘢𝘳𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘴 𝘥𝘢𝘺 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘯𝘪𝘨𝘩𝘵 𝘶𝘯𝘵𝘪𝘭 𝘐 𝘮𝘦𝘢𝘯𝘵 𝘢 𝘮𝘢𝘯 𝘸𝘩𝘰 𝘣𝘳𝘰𝘶𝘨𝘩𝘵 𝘣𝘢𝘤𝘬 𝘮𝘺 𝘦𝘹 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘧𝘢𝘴𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘱𝘳𝘢𝘺𝘦𝘳. 𝘞𝘩𝘢𝘵,,𝘢𝘱𝘱 𝘩𝘪𝘮.

[@frankjackson5980]

➕1,,929,,473,,1956.

[@filiplaskovski9993]

God bless you brother and sisters going through heart break:( me included :)

[@coleendea7391]

T

[@bridgeforthesheep]

hope ur doing better

[@charitymofokeng4534]

Very hurtful 💔

[@empressCharnia]

Thank you brother bless you too 💜

[@JasonSchmidt-1979]

God bless you

[@PreciousdaughterofChrist]

currently going through the pain of heartache. Praying that Jesus would heal my heart..as I’m typing this i was tearing up but I never want to feel this pain again. the healing process is painful.

[@moondustgirl2132]

It's certainly not easy. There are days when you make it, there are days when you don't. But one truth remains: GOD is near (Psalm 34:18).

[@shekaina4237]

We'll get through this everybody! No temptation has overtaken you except what is common to mankind. And God is faithful; he will not let you be temptedbeyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can endure it. -1 Cor 10:13 I am deeply heartbroken right now. But I know there is purpose in this pain and weakness. God is sovereign and in control. His will be done in our lives. 💗

[@aakarshigarg9290]

❣️

[@Tyasiaaaa]

Amen! Thank you! I need this

[@nathanmaldonado2765]

Amen I tell you

[@LammyV]

Please pray for me. I was in a one year relationship with my Gf who's not a Christian and we were enjoying the best times of our life and we loved each other a lot but a few days ago, during the Super Bowl, she lost feelings and dumped me. I feel so heartbroken right now and I feel lost in the dark. Please pray for me to help me feel better and finding hope.

[@minguyen3779]

I pray for you

[@samuelaguilar9668]

I pray for emotional healing. God bless you!

[@stephaniepalath6769]

I'm in the same place right now..

[@professorshake]

Same here

[@CarlosC0311]

Same happened to me, how you feeling today?

[@maradee8220]

It's the worst thing to go through a break-up in the midst of quarantine ! Counterfeit relationships are so draining. Your self-worth and identity are constantly in question

[@huntervargo4237]

feel better my friend! God bless

[@angeling4780]

Hey girl i hear you x Quarantine breakups are the worst ! But God can use this for good, you got this

[@frankjackson5980]

𝑴𝒚 𝒅𝒆𝒂𝒓 𝑰 𝒌𝒏𝒐𝒘 𝒘𝒉𝒂𝒕 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒂𝒓𝒆 𝒑𝒂𝒔𝒔𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒕𝒉𝒓𝒐𝒖𝒈𝒉 𝒊𝒕 𝒉𝒂𝒑𝒑𝒆𝒏𝒆𝒅 𝒕𝒐 𝒎𝒆 𝒇𝒆𝒘 𝒎𝒐𝒏𝒕𝒉𝒔 𝒂𝒈𝒐😢, 𝒖𝒏𝒕𝒊𝒍 𝑰 𝒎𝒆𝒆𝒕 𝒂 𝒎𝒂𝒏 𝒘𝒉𝒐 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒖𝒈𝒉𝒕 𝒃𝒂𝒄𝒌 𝒎𝒚 𝒆𝒙 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒂 𝒑𝒐𝒘𝒆𝒓𝒇𝒖𝒍 𝒑𝒓𝒂𝒚𝒆𝒓 𝒓𝒆𝒒𝒖𝒆𝒔𝒕😊😊...

[@frankjackson5980]

𝘈𝘧𝘵𝘦𝘳 𝘥𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘧𝘰𝘳 6𝘺𝘳𝘴,𝘣𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘬 𝘶𝘱 𝘤𝘢𝘮𝘦 𝘪𝘯,𝘪 𝘤𝘰𝘶𝘭𝘥𝘯'𝘵 𝘳𝘦𝘴𝘪𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘵 𝘣𝘦𝘤𝘢𝘶𝘴𝘦 𝘰𝘧 𝘭𝘰𝘷𝘦 .𝘪 𝘴𝘵𝘢𝘳𝘵𝘦𝘥 𝘴𝘩𝘢𝘳𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘴 𝘥𝘢𝘺 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘯𝘪𝘨𝘩𝘵 𝘶𝘯𝘵𝘪𝘭 𝘐 𝘮𝘦𝘢𝘯𝘵 𝘢 𝘮𝘢𝘯 𝘸𝘩𝘰 𝘣𝘳𝘰𝘶𝘨𝘩𝘵 𝘣𝘢𝘤𝘬 𝘮𝘺 𝘦𝘹 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘧𝘢𝘴𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘱𝘳𝘢𝘺𝘦𝘳. 𝘞𝘩𝘢𝘵,,𝘢𝘱𝘱 𝘩𝘪𝘮...

[@frankjackson5980]

➕1,,929,,473,,1956....

[@huynhngocnamgiang]

I broke up with my loved one 6 months ago, and that is exactly how it happened to me. Depression and severe depression when you happiness in a person is all gone, and you have to redefine your own identity. It hurts, it hurts, but it really brings me closer and closer to God. Though we are not together now, by God's love I can still pray and hope all the best to her (yes, even it breaks your heart in pieces). Amen, Pastor John. Only if I could have listened to this sooner...

[@CarlosC0311]

How you feeling today?🥺

[@huynhngocnamgiang]

@@CarlosC0311 thank you brother..! She's getting married this month. But praise the Lord, the last few years God has taught me to trust in Him even when things don't go the way we plan. The Lord loves us enough that He died for us, so I have all the reasons to believe He knows what He's doing :)

[@funez-]

@@huynhngocnamgiangwould you say you moved on fairly quick and if she didn’t get married would you have taken her back or reach out? Keep being strong bro

[@kayliegannon]

I was in a relationship for 2 years (he broke up with me on our anniversary) because he couldn’t handle the long distance but i loved him so much and it hurts because he promised he’d never give up on me ever again after the first time we broke up and always said he couldn’t wait to marry me. We were in a Godly relationship and he even brought me closer to Jesus and helped me through hard times. I’m still in shock that this is even happening because I really believed this was the person God had for me. I feel like I can never go back to him because I can’t trust his promises anymore and God obviously took him out of my life again for a reason. I’m so hurt and I miss him so much, it’s so hard to move on.

[@avastarck6004]

im so sorry to hear that but you are so loved and have such a great purpose! as hard as it is right now, better days are ahead. sending prayers

[@kayliegannon]

@@avastarck6004 thank you. God bless you 🙏🏻❤️

[@hezcelengembacolod1669]

Same with me here. He broke up with me on our 3rd anniversary

[@capc2761]

@@kayliegannon did y’all get back together

[@povmonyneathmorm]

Sending prayers

[@hycynth82828]

I’m crying so much, I really needed this word

[@marinakhan6051]

Hi how's you doing

[@armandechols7564]

It's been 3 years since I lost her. It still hurts

[@roseovchiyev8016]

how are you right now ?

[@YAMR1000]

Read the book how to be a 3% man.

[@22burst2020ddsspec]

@@YAMR1000 crazy you say that because I just suggested that book to someone who broke up

[@molatelolancelot9956]

Bro 💀💀

[@rosee3510]

This is a poem I wrote, inspired in part by some of the things John Piper mentions in this podcast and also by my own walk and belief as to what God has been trying to teach me about the experience of rejection. Hope it is a blessing to someone. Oh soul, you long to be seen with eyes that see. Understood with hearts that understand. But no man can do this. No mother, no father, No husband, no friend. But He can. He can and He does. He sees. He sees your greatest need To be free of the chase This longing. This yearning. Oh soul be free to see that you are satisfied by His everlasting, complete love. And yet, even more blessed The joy of beholding Him The self forgetful joy. The freedom from self which takes us to new heights We have lost ourselves Our flesh is crucified. Our hearts are free to do their intended purpose To love our God completly. To love and serve others, every other soul in freedom! Whom the Son sets free is free indeed. *** Father, I humbly implore you to make this a reality. In Jesus' name. Amen.

[@JWu-jt7fz]

What a beautiful poem!

[@bree7555]

Thank you, this blessed me

[@rickiilatino]

This speaks to my heart ❤️

[@graceswyles8337]

💗

[@DanielaSanchez-pt8vj]

Love it so much thank you for giving us this

[@diattie]

I was in a 5year relationship, I provoked my ex for a break up because of his adulterous-like behaviour of getting close to other girls too much, and he just agreed cuz he chose not to change the habit and telling me he was losing himself if he keep listening to me. It causes me anxiety all the time for 5 years. I was devastated by the thought of him not wanting to change and he told me that he was so tired he can't think it's gonna work out. Now, he's with the girls I told him to stay away, now. 😅 Broken hearted, I run to Jesus again and still thanked him cuz within those 5 years I have been suffering, we both were, but I was blind to see and acknowledge that. Now, I feel lighter, even though I still feel the grief, I can carry myself, through God. I am still thankful cuz I know I am not forsaken. I am forgiven, even if I let the enemy attack my mind. I am not forsaken. Yes, I also have sinned against my ex and God. However. God's love is greater than what I am going through. 💖

[@yeoitscori3618]

I'm in a long distance breakup, realised my mistakes and proceed to Make the changes. but realised that I should making changes through christ. Thank you for this message. Im praying and standing on the word of god to ask for a second chance in life of the supernatural. 1 year no contact since break. 1 year of working hard. please help me, help him want to reestablish to renew and rebuild our love. . I haven't stop crying, praying. I have found the one. I believe we will reunite, through his power of miracles of restoration. Please pray with me

[@yestrech]

Hi how are you now? Experienced Long Distance breakup too. 2 wks now 😢 it's been hard.

[@jeremymartinez8504]

Same here, long distance relationship& break up hasn’t been easy at all. I love my beloved but I know we are to trust the Lord’s sovereignty in this. He is able to bring us together if it’s his Will. It’s hard to accept whatever God has in store even when we want something but there is uncertainty. Lord is faithful. Be blessed sisters

[@FoxHTherapyumor]

How are feeling now? Any update?

[@AngelikaCooper]

I’m going through this right now. 4 years of knowing and long distance… 2 days ago we broke up. I told him I don’t want contact for at least 6 months. Yet he texted me that morning after, I didn’t give him a response. I believe God can change his heart if he allows God to renew and transform him. All I can do is pray🩶

[@samjohansson469]

I was with a woman for a little more than a year and we loved each other very intensely for a majority of it, but at a certain point her feelings for me suddenly changed. After that point, she did many things that hurt me very much. The breakup was very messy and prolonged and I don't feel like I've received the closure or apology that I was seeking, and I doubt I ever will. After only a month and a half apart, she has already begun seeing someone else. This has caused me a great deal of pain. I've used this pain to push me further into the Lord and lean entirely on His love and His grace. I am still very far from healed but I have hope. He's revealed to me that the relationship was not founded in Him and there were many aspects of her that did not suit me, I was led to sin in many ways including fornication despite both of us being believers (though I now see how lukewarm we were). I no longer desire her presence in my life; but I am still dealing with the pain and other emotions that attack me due to the way I was treated and her complete lack of consideration for my wellbeing. Despite this, I know this was a necessary experience for me. I pray each day that He heals me and guides me to be the man I must be for the glory of His kingdom. I praise the Lord with all that I am and offer up my life to Him.

[@grugcrood4000]

Proud of You👏

[@BradleyFMele]

I hope one day you can use this pain in your life for a great deal of wisdom to your future family and loved ones

[@povmonyneathmorm]

I’m facing the similar situation right now. My boyfriend didn’t understand anything about the mental health and well-being of himself or others. He used to make me cry so many times, with the lack of consideration of my well-being. These days, he also flirted with others for attention while we live apart from each others. Everything that he said or did was breaking my heart, my trust in our love. Yet I still couldn’t let go until today, I decided to leave because it WENT TOO FAR. he knew it wasn’t good attitude to do while we are in relationship but he still did it anyway. Now I surrender, let everything that he did go even when I didn’t get a good closure or apology or anything from him because I know, God has shown me the sign that I should stop. I feel empty, and hopeless but I have faith. Faith will get me through everything. Nothing is impossible with God, just hold onto him and keep giving all of you to God. He knows, sees and hears your heart. Don’t give up on him.

[@lukyguy1240]

Been in a similar place man. Over 2 years on, I haven't met anyone I've been interested in. It's hard to hope sometimes, but Psalm 128 has always helped me. I am confident the next girl I date will be the one.

[@Ortiz_julian13]

I lost my ex gf 6 months ago…. I opened my relationship with God giving him everything 🙏❤️✝️ I dated her more than 2 years she came to me 3 days ago and cried and said she loved me I was starting to get over I accepted the apology and was worth trying again and yesterday she says she wants more time and I find out she was with someone else after she promise to me in Jesus name she wasn’t I’m so hurt like I was 6 months ago 😖❤️🙏✝️Ill never have doubt

[@jfly338]

Man that's so bad. I'm sorry.

[@thatomanaka323]

I'm sorry my brother

[@muratazaarzai]

Our God is a righteous.God. .. He will judge her on your behalf...don't worry... Please stay away from such ppl..

[@truthseekin4559]

You deserve so much better brother. And you will find it.

[@erickgonzalez3145]

My marriage needs help my wife can't see her wrongs she turned cold please pray. Thank you bless you all In jesus name AMEN.

[@msblanqui1]

Narcissist?

[@preston6618]

Just because someone can’t see their wrongs from their own pride does not qualify them as the new buzzword when a relationship doesn’t work out a.k.a. “Narcissist”. Narcissist make up less than 1% of the population but according to every one on relationship topics, they’ve all encountered one or more…. Be careful about all the reckless diagnoses. People are just generally selfish and sometimes have heartbreaking selfish hangups. I pray that your wife softens her heart, and the Holy Spirit takes the vail off her eyes to meet your needs. I also pray that God helps you realize her needs as well. Often times the combination of the two. Good luck. I Pray your marriage is restored.

[@grugcrood4000]

@@preston6618 OH MY GOODNESS. Thank you! People throw around the word ' psychopath' or 'narrsassist" when someone is a bad or selfish horrible person. Theres a difference. Narrsassist are much worse. There not just self absorbed people or self centered people. There's so much more to them then that. Selfish people are just a pain in the butt and cause hurt. Narrsassist on the other hand cause a ruined life and danger. There's a difference I'm so sick of people thinking narrsassist means selfish when there is so much more to it then that. Narrsassist hve a crafty mind and you don't understand it unless you've experienced it..Narrsassist are also extremely dangerous in a very subtle and sneaky way to not be disgusted. Society Saying things like this when Its not true also takes away the seriousness of it which really invalidates people who've ACTUALLY dealt with A REAL Narrsassist. It's not something to be thrown around lightly

[@goyensjonathandjalmoztfr33]

Sex outside of marriage is not only a great sin. Its brings SO much unecesary long lasting trauma. Its very difficult now b/c no one wants to wait for marriage in the world and in the body everyone's standards are so high they're unattainable b/c we've all been heart 💔 and we've broken 💔 just like the 🌎. Now we over do it just to protect ourselves. It's a serious dilemma.

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[@happyness2096]

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[@skellingtonmeteoryballoon]

Ex is called ex for a reason though. Otherwise the purpose is defeated

[@julianduque2801]

My girlfriend just left me. And I love her very very much. I know its her. I know that I want to live the rest of my life with her. But she left me. She said I cant do this no more. I need to find myself again. Our relationship has no growth, " i still love you but I cant do this anymore". Please help me guys and girls. I love her very very much

[@turtle3948]

I'm kinda going through the same thing. I'm having to deal with jealousy also.. but seek God now and trust in him. His ways are not our ways and his thoughts are not our thoughts. Let him heal you and transform you

[@LVKZLevTov]

Same

[@christycollins2785]

Same

[@SweetsXify]

Did you guys ever get back together?

[@markcurrie2545]

I need prayer for healing my broken heart. Thanks all:)

[@turtle3948]

I prayed for you.. I need prayers too

[@markcurrie2545]

jason 123 praying for you bud

[@RealTalk-mq2ug]

Please God help me to always remember these 4 things when it comes to my friendship with him... 1) This is about HIM. HIS BEAHVIOR. This does not reflect in any way, whatsoever, on my own worth. 2) My self esteem needs boosting and healing; this is why the loss of him, leaves me so despaired. 3) I'm in the driver's seat. It's not just up to him to dictate how this is going to go! 4) I need to be with myself, invested in my self, present with me.

[@mrdr1ggy]

THANK YOU LORD for giving this man some words to us! I have been with a girl for 6 years and now I am finally alone. we started out when I was 19 and she was not christian. I fell in love with Christ but could not convince her because she needed to want it herself. she started to hate herself and our relationship went downhill. Now I seek more comfort in GOD and his words, because I know he has plans for me. even though this hurts alot!

[@LR-jl3sv]

Driggy VEVO must be so hard!! I pray God will grant you full healing and peace. I also pray that your ex will find Jesus eventually and receive full healing

[@bernadineguimary1062]

aaa this is basically my situation pls pray for me bc we just broke up

[@CarlosC0311]

How u doin today

[@xdreg]

...I really have no words...I cannot believe how accurate some of these situations are and how I've been trying to cope. It's only been a few months...it's all flooded back to me and it's very hard to push past it. I have this sick, twisted feeling in my gut that makes me want to reach out. But everyone tells me not to...they say "if she would want you back then she'll reach out herself." That's the worst part...I'm now sitting and waiting to hear...I feel as if I never will. But this video game me some truth to think about...God is truly good and I thank Him for helping me find this video in a time of need. Sincerely from the bottom of my heart...thank you to all those at "Desiring God."

[@AdrianoTheOne]

I'm in the same boat as you brother, I'm now trying to get closer to God

[@xdreg]

@@AdrianoTheOne awesome that people are still seeing this video... It's been 7 months since I've posted that comment about how I was doing and I'm here to say that all the while it sucks...it gets much much better. Finding things you like and finding friends that support you in the right way is the number 1 way to get past it. For me personally, I've invested in myself by going to the gym, found a new job where I'm surrounded by fellow Christians, and found a new friend group in order to grow together. It gets better, it's important to deal with the emotions and think rationally as well. God definitely has a plan and albeit it might not be clear at the moment...it will be made known to you the closer you get. He's always with you brother.

[@FoxHTherapyumor]

@@xdreghow are feeling now, brother?

[@oar-N-oasis]

I'm 32 now and only learned that craving someone else attention will not complete me at all.. love unconditionally!

[@sell3100]

No matter what happens God will always be with you all 🙏🏻

[@shoomonkey2]

I understand and completely agree with the Christ centered answers that brings us to see God outside of ourselves. Absolutely! amen! But I also feel like this talk jumps straight to joy and hope...and misses the need to address the lag in between during which people are grieving and having to process through the pain. Of course, Christians who have knowledge of Christ in their minds desperately want their joy and hope in Christ, but how are we to do process and survive through the lag for the heart to follow and align?

[@psmith5830]

shoomonkey2 thanks for recognizing what was lacking. he didn't mention heart ach and how why and how to resolve it

[@nicknssud]

shoomonkey2 I believe the 'lag' or grieving process is relative to each individual. Some people may grieve a short or long time and yet most people will go through the Kübler-Ross model or 5 stages of grief. Although I pray that as Christians we will survive through the grieving process and it is only through Christ as Matthew 5:4 says "Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted." The key to remember here is that in any grieving process we need to: 1. Rely on Christ solely to help us, either through silent prayer, fasting, writing our diary, etc. We need to ask and wholeheartedly seek Him before anything else. 2. Find other fellow believers/mentors/counsellors/church communities to share and discuss our problems (find someone mature spiritually and not just any random person to listen)..Remember that 'a problem shared is a problem halved' and to humbly ask to be prayed for... By sharing we are able to sound off, and to process the problem well enough. In addition, we are able to feel less alone because we know that we are not in this problem alone. 3. Keep ourselves busy, although most problems may be understood 'logically' only time heals all wounds. And sometimes it just takes time for our 'emotions' to run at the same pace as our thinking. So what do we do in that case? We need to make ourselves busy and to strive even further in our life's purpose to glorify Him and to do His Will on earth. Lastly, I personally think that through all this we need to understand and ruminate: "Why?" Why did Jesus enable such a problem/ pain to happen in our lives? It's simple. Because Jesus allowed it to happen. He can simply take the pain away, and yet He doesn't. He wants to shape us to be more Christ-like, to mature our faith slowly yet surely. Because although we may not understand it now or that we may never understand it, it is okay. As we believe whole heartedly that everything that happens, happens for a reason-- and that reason is for the glory of Christ and for His Kingdom. To be a small part of that is a true blessing, because everything that happens now is by grace. “For by grace you have been saved through faith, and that not of yourselves; it is the gift of God, not of works, lest anyone should boast.” Ephesians 2:8-9. " And for that we are eternally grateful. Thank you Jesus for being my Lord & Savior :) Amen.

[@k_roc200-32]

The lag you speak of is simply time! It sound cliche but there's honestly nothing that heals is like time. I was married 22 years when my husband casually looked at me and said "you're not a priority & you no longer matter". The stages of grief are real & the only thing that mended me was God & time to heal.

[@Cbawls]

Very agree with this

[@Angeloholcomb-v2n]

Yesterday me and my gf broke up I need God to fill that void I want his love and if ppl can pray for me❤ I'll pray for you too❤

[@Lisa-kg8po]

I’m praying for you❤️, for God to heal your broken heart and make you whole again. I pray that you find joy and peace in your life again my friend. God bless you❤ in Jesus name, Amen

[@Angeloholcomb-v2n]

@@Lisa-kg8po thank you❤️

[@tashidorjeenishungpa5027]

Guys please surrender all ur hurt all ur broken heart to lord and u just relax and let go if its ur its yours they will come back if not its not urs thank q

[@folumb]

I broke up with my girlfriend who was in my church group and now I have to leave my church group. I feel like I'm being punished, but I'm told that's its for her to heal. I broke up because I felt like our relationship was too one-sided and that she wasn't matching my effort. It felt like too much work and I couldn't know when it would end. Now that I've done it I feel like I'm suffering again for that decision. Neither choice I could have made seems right

[@evandertheconqueror1983]

Same brother, it's tough... hope your doing we now.

[@aidanwilliamson8980]

Going through a break up right now for someone who was very precious and special to me. We really wanted to put God first but we started to make some mistakes then she left me to be with somebody else. Its been tough, this was our second time together and the first time i was an absolute wreck for months. I did learn to lean heavy on God and really thought he was restoring things between us. Idk, im very lost. She's the most lovely person i know, and i really want her to be close with God more than anything in the world. Not much of a poet, but I wrote one expressing something im going through One more look at you, there's not more I can do He's in the space that was my place, and I watch you kiss his face I think about you and the times that we had, With happy memories that all turned out sad. I know you're a blessing. You're a gift from above, And I'm sorry to mess up something as simple as love. I read Corinthians, and they said love never fails, So Father God, why... you know my heart wails. I thought it was good, something that's true, Til I heard these four words, "I never loved you." Hearing those words had my heart feeling bruised, Especially after a funeral, left my spirit confused. My soul is tired, but I'm the reason it feels abused, The only time I ever feel useful is when I'm being used. I'm left in the dark today, and I walk alone at night, Your eyes reflect him now. You want me out of your sight. I pray that God guides you and keeps you on the path that's right, Let the Lord guide you and let Jesus be your light.

[@skellingtonmeteoryballoon]

🤩🤩not a poet ✅

[@natashatash.o6687]

I've been crying for over a week plz pray for me

[@felliesweetie]

Me too it is almost two weeks now!

[@natashatash.o6687]

@@felliesweetie I pray for God to give you rest in his joy

[@angeling4780]

Praying for you x Here if you need

[@Roadglide86]

How are you now? I have been in severe depression no hope feeling since my break up almost been a month

[@natashatash.o6687]

@@Roadglide86 dont give up hope. Healing will find you. GOD healed the wounds in my heart I feel awesome and you will get thru it too

[@georgemichaels9511]

Every man knocking at the door of a brothel is actually knocking for God.

[@annettereich8758]

3 years of long distance and promises of marriage. This pain is like no other. He was my best friend. It’s like he’s dead. Pray for me please

[@Miguel9.28]

Place it on Jesus's hands. Cry out to him ,in your room. I mean, little cry subbing until it banishs away. Remember to trust God's perfect timing.

[@jasonb5964]

Just came out of the same situation. Praying for you sister 🙏

[@user-rw7vt5lt9o]

You reading this right now if you still feel that pain if you still feel that loneliness don’t give in that’s the devil wanting to destroy you because God has something for you like you I myself feel broken lonely and insufficient but standing with God and knowing that I’m doing his will I know now giving myself with him all things will work out how they need to be because we are doing his will and it will All work out talk to your loved ones around you or friends even people are church we are a family and we should spread love and serve each other I love you my brother and sisters in Christ may you give all your trust and understanding in God see you in the victory season

[@lucysantiago2067]

I dont no what to do cause i feel im the only one that love God and walk with him and I feel like every one of my family attacked me my children's my husband they are into doing so many evil things playing Evil games watching Evil movies they always fighting with each other hearing bad music they love the world then love the things of God... I pray to God to help my family 🙏🙆

[@Asia-rs6wc]

I just cried this entire video . Rejection hurts so much

[@mmichy]

You will get through it ❤

[@keurinrin16]

I was ghosted by an unbelieving guy that i've dated.I know it's the consequence of my disobedience but broo it hurts so bad i feel so unlovable.May God help me to repent of my sins which are fornication and being unequally yoked with an unbeliever

[@maxmoseley7490]

“The highest joys are self forgetful joys” Heck yes

[@user-hf6vu9pz1x]

I found myself very much in the words, God always loves us, in every moment. Now I feel better, God is with me and I will no longer be afraid. Thank you for the video, amen.🙏🏻 ☦️

[@anestudy-zz6zd]

This message speaks to the core of my heart,.. i was crying and sobbing just an hour cos i was experiencing emotional breakdown and excruciating pain cos of past hurts and betrayal in relationship.... This message just change my mood.... I am smiling and crying tears of Joy.... My pain seems to suddenly vanish😊

[@martiruth143]

Thank you everyone at Desiring God, I really needed to hear that 🙂 God Bless you

[@ccgirl2737]

My bf broke up with me yesterday and I'm hurting so bad. I'm a Christian and he is not. Ever since our relationship started I've been feeling off about our relationship. I'm feeling like God is not approve of it. But me, I still have what ifs- that what if he's for me? I still push myself to this guy even though it's obvious he didn't treats me well but bc of love I endure it all. I cannot let go of him. Idk anymore but my hope is still in God. Jesus is going to heal me from this.

[@EnPeeSee]

Sister in Christ, my heart aches for your pain. That being said, we are not to be yoked with unbelievers, and your boyfriend ultimately made the right decision for you. Read 2 Corinthians 6:14-18--God's will in your life is to find a man that has made Christ his defining purpose. Your relationship should ultimately serve Christ and edify you and your partner. Psalm 84:11 says that when you walk blamelessly in the ways of the Lord, He will not withhold any good thing from you--surely that includes a future husband that is committed to Jesus. Focus on God, obey His word, and He will make your paths straight.

[@ccgirl2737]

@@CromagnidLightskin Thank you so much. That is what I'm praying right now.

[@ccgirl2737]

@@CromagnidLightskin praying for you also brother.

[@Miguel9.28]

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[@jonathangovender4250]

We we're together for a year and she gave me so many chances but I kept hurting her, when I finally realized my mistakes and worked on myself it was too late. She forgave me but she doesn't want to be anything more than friends, nothing more than that and no anount of time will change it. Now all I feel is regret and that I screwed up what was one of the best things in my life. She deserved so much better than what I gave her I hope God gives her someone she deserves and I hope the same for me but right now all I want is relief from this broken heart

[@jfly338]

This is exactly what happened to me. Except now she has someone else, now it hurts twice as much.

[@thatomanaka323]

This is exactly what I did I messed up many times and I hope she really does find someone who's gonna treat her better and the pain is unbearable 💔

[@theochasid8996]

Same here But I don't know if she will come back. If God will work another miracle. I keep messing up. I'm really bad. I take good things for granted. I had everything and threw it all away. Arrogant and half hearted. I'm my own worst enemy. I wish God would save me from myself. I cause myself and others so much pain. I want forgiveness and to talk with her. God have mercy on my soul Help her and help me. Please God I want to be happy and to have joy and peace. Help me God

[@geestromin]

It hurts so much

[@psyche0723]

I looked for Godly advice in youtube..and found this😊..i need this

[@cleopatrabonne7582]

Pastor John Piper, I wish you could know how much this podcast has helped me. You have pointed me right back to the One Who is, and Who remains, my All in All. God has spoken to me and counselled me through you. What a privilege to be created by Him and to be invited by Him, to work alongside Him(the living God) in what He is seeking to do in the world! What an honour to be a fellow heir with Christ of God and ALL of His blessings!! The Lord bless you. All the way from Zimbabwe

[@Al-kb2tw]

God bless you if you're going through a difficult time. The light is always at the end of the dark tunnel, but, it will not come to us we must be strong and go to it 🙏🙏

[@rejante5072]

my boyfriend of two years broke up with me. the reason? my mom has diabetes and so there is a chance that i might have it in the future. he said that he can't be with me if i have diabetes. he was heartless and unemotional about it. i know that God is protecting me and that he has a bigger purpose and hopefully a godly man who will love me no matter what. but my heart is sore and it feels like such a ridiculous reason to leave someone you love :(

[@scopeway]

This video highlights the very real dangers of the states that you can find yourself in the aftermath of a relationship breakdown. If as a Christian you're considering dating an unbeliever don't do it, beacuse not only is it wrong for you but doubly dangerous. It will eventually fail and you'll spend an inordinate amount of time recovering from it.

[@ljp9402]

im dealing with heart break. please pray for me. thank you so much

[@MillieLV]

Thank you for these words. All my love to everyone suffering. God loves you

[@cluzu001]

I’m currently experiencing emotional pain due to a heart break. I feel so lost and empty and I want God to heal me but I just don’t know what to do :( .....

[@ashflash725]

Me too...

[@JWu-jt7fz]

@@ashflash725 I encourage you both sisters in Christ, to talk to someone. Know that Christ satisfies. There will be times when you are lonely and in tears, but direct those tears toward prayer to our Father in Heaven. I, myself went through a tough breakup.

[@YveB77]

Keep praying...I am in same boat. Only God and the Holy Jesus Christ can help us all deal with heartbreak

[@youknowthenyouknow.1530]

How you feeling now?

[@marinakhan6051]

Hellow christine

[@professorshake]

Just feeling so much pain just broke up with my gf I dated for 5 years

[@Stefan-bl8yk]

I feel you

[@professorshake]

Yeah bro it hard I am on so much pain I not have her or my child

[@professorshake]

I mess up in so many ways

[@SecretWeaponV2]

It’s very painful, I do need prayers also I know you don’t know me but I have a broken heart I want to move on but it’s very tough.

[@attarasvlog1151]

We are praying for you. I don't know in which situation you are now but i wanted to tell you God loves you more than anyone. I know words are not enough to heal the pain but that's the truth. I also suffered from this situation but one thing God told me is that i always with you. People may leave but i will never leave nor forsake. Sometimes because of our own mistakes we hurt ourselves because God has given us free will and we do what we won't to do so that's why we hurt ourselves mentally, physically and spiritually. But remember after every brokenness there is a big blessing and a great Joy. Lord is near to those who are crushed in spirit 😊

[@nishasingh-it1qq]

May God bless pastor John piper with long and healthy life!

[@elizabetha6421]

I walked away from a "situationship." I was with a guy long distance for a year and half and he never visited me, never introduced me to friends virtually, he was all talk and said nice things to me but he never showed me he was serious and he wanted me. It's been 6 months since and I'm still hurting. I invested emotionally and mentally into something I thought was real and serious. We were different in terms of values. I was more biblical, he was more secular. I guess I hoped I could change him and I got hurt in the process. Days leading to the breakup, I prayed that God would show me anything. Like if this guy was not in God's plan for me romantically, then remove him from my life. With that being said, things started happening and God ultimately showed me that I needed to breakup with him. It was hard, but I knew I needed to end it. Since then my ex has not reached out. Now I have him blocked everywhere. I'm leaning on the Lord and His discernment while navigating life.

[@refiloemotsoeneng8777]

Thanks for this APJ team... God is indeed the MOST BEAUTIFUL - I’m also reminded that to be loved and known by God is better than everything ♥️

[@frankjackson5980]

𝑴𝒚 𝒅𝒆𝒂𝒓 𝑰 𝒌𝒏𝒐𝒘 𝒘𝒉𝒂𝒕 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒂𝒓𝒆 𝒑𝒂𝒔𝒔𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒕𝒉𝒓𝒐𝒖𝒈𝒉 𝒊𝒕 𝒉𝒂𝒑𝒑𝒆𝒏𝒆𝒅 𝒕𝒐 𝒎𝒆 𝒇𝒆𝒘 𝒎𝒐𝒏𝒕𝒉𝒔 𝒂𝒈𝒐😢, 𝒖𝒏𝒕𝒊𝒍 𝑰 𝒎𝒆𝒆𝒕 𝒂 𝒎𝒂𝒏 𝒘𝒉𝒐 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒖𝒈𝒉𝒕 𝒃𝒂𝒄𝒌 𝒎𝒚 𝒆𝒙 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒂 𝒑𝒐𝒘𝒆𝒓𝒇𝒖𝒍 𝒑𝒓𝒂𝒚𝒆𝒓 𝒓𝒆𝒒𝒖𝒆𝒔𝒕😊😊.

[@frankjackson5980]

𝘈𝘧𝘵𝘦𝘳 𝘥𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘧𝘰𝘳 6𝘺𝘳𝘴,𝘣𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘬 𝘶𝘱 𝘤𝘢𝘮𝘦 𝘪𝘯,𝘪 𝘤𝘰𝘶𝘭𝘥𝘯'𝘵 𝘳𝘦𝘴𝘪𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘵 𝘣𝘦𝘤𝘢𝘶𝘴𝘦 𝘰𝘧 𝘭𝘰𝘷𝘦 .𝘪 𝘴𝘵𝘢𝘳𝘵𝘦𝘥 𝘴𝘩𝘢𝘳𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘴 𝘥𝘢𝘺 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘯𝘪𝘨𝘩𝘵 𝘶𝘯𝘵𝘪𝘭 𝘐 𝘮𝘦𝘢𝘯𝘵 𝘢 𝘮𝘢𝘯 𝘸𝘩𝘰 𝘣𝘳𝘰𝘶𝘨𝘩𝘵 𝘣𝘢𝘤𝘬 𝘮𝘺 𝘦𝘹 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘧𝘢𝘴𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘱𝘳𝘢𝘺𝘦𝘳. 𝘞𝘩𝘢𝘵,,𝘢𝘱𝘱 𝘩𝘪𝘮.

[@frankjackson5980]

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[@MisticFire10]

My God.. My response to heartbreak is all 6 things he mentioned.. Great

[@Rc6780]

And all those 6 things will only leave you empty or dead. Don’t forget that. Only Jesus can fulfill you and lead you to a life of joy.

[@ericjoseph2122]

I had to walk away from an unequally yoked relationship with much pain and then kept going back to her until i realised she got new bf and then it hurt me very badly. I even came to know she hid things from me. 😢 I walked away from the relationship permanently now. She and i don't talk anymore. I feel badly humiliated and hurt. 😢i walked away from her because i don't want to love an unbeliever and disobey God. 😢 I get often triggered seeing her new relationship blossom while i struggle with loneliness and singleness

[@Miguel9.28]

We ought to love unbelievers and pray for them.

[@Miguel9.28]

Let go and let God be your center then build from there up.

[@Miguel9.28]

God's love is perfect ,do not obviate God's presence in your life. He's with you.

[@sumtamuk3146]

3days from now we are gonna get separated(divorce)... God plz give me strength to handle everything and power to move on...

[@MOJO2929]

I broke my relationship off today of 1.5 yrs, mainly it was leading me away from Christ... It wasnt supposed to happen in the first place because he was separated and going through a divorce, still is, but he was everything i wanted in a partner... My heart is broken, but im clinging to the hope that Jesus has better instore for me... Beyond what i think i need...

[@paggot5300]

My boyfriend just broke up with me. I thought since we started speaking and since I started praying that he was the one, and I had so many reasons to believe this. I truly believed that God was pointing me to him. But him and his parents just did not think I was his wife (dating for marriage). I don't know what to think. I've met all of his family and they all love me. My family loves him. We're going to college together. He is my best friend. But he fell out of love with me, and I don't know what to do but pray.

[@jfly338]

I'm so sorry. I'm praying.

[@mofokeng87]

I think here I am encouraged more by the reminder that God and Jesus accept me as is. Inspite of me.

[@davidpolaczek3614]

#3... she took off 2 months b4 our wedding.. frankly expressing that 1 she doesn't owe an explanation and 2 hoping I'll be able 2 some day process this.. she was raised Christian, I became a Christian in 2012....its been 580 days since I last saw her.. the last thing talked about was "I love you, goodnight, can't wait to see you after work tomorrow" see was still living with her parents, I lived alone... now im always alone...its been 579 nights of Fuck this, I don't think tomorrow is going to come..

[@poohbearsally3530]

Hi I'm going through a break up season... It's been 3 months almost 4. Pls pray for me bc my long distance relationship gf has broke up with me for an older man that there family don't approve. Ik shes not thinking but is doing it for fun n all. I really love her n she wishes to be with me in the future. Idk what to do. I'm hurt. All I need is some prayers. I'm praying for God to help me go through this n telling him what I should do.

[@yeoitscori3618]

I was ghosted. i'm in a long distance breakup so patience is nothing to me. I am better, happy with my life but it is empty. 1 year no contact since break. 1 year of working hard. I've been patient but I am scared. please help me, help him want to reestablish to renew and rebuild our love. . I haven't stop crying, praying. I have found the one. I believe we will reunite, through his power of miracles of restoration. Please pray with me

[@kalswapp6989]

This is amaizing biblical advice. Straight from the heart. Thank you Pastor John.

[@frankjackson5980]

𝑴𝒚 𝒅𝒆𝒂𝒓 𝑰 𝒌𝒏𝒐𝒘 𝒘𝒉𝒂𝒕 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒂𝒓𝒆 𝒑𝒂𝒔𝒔𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒕𝒉𝒓𝒐𝒖𝒈𝒉 𝒊𝒕 𝒉𝒂𝒑𝒑𝒆𝒏𝒆𝒅 𝒕𝒐 𝒎𝒆 𝒇𝒆𝒘 𝒎𝒐𝒏𝒕𝒉𝒔 𝒂𝒈𝒐😢, 𝒖𝒏𝒕𝒊𝒍 𝑰 𝒎𝒆𝒆𝒕 𝒂 𝒎𝒂𝒏 𝒘𝒉𝒐 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒖𝒈𝒉𝒕 𝒃𝒂𝒄𝒌 𝒎𝒚 𝒆𝒙 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒂 𝒑𝒐𝒘𝒆𝒓𝒇𝒖𝒍 𝒑𝒓𝒂𝒚𝒆𝒓 𝒓𝒆𝒒𝒖𝒆𝒔𝒕😊😊.

[@frankjackson5980]

𝘈𝘧𝘵𝘦𝘳 𝘥𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘧𝘰𝘳 6𝘺𝘳𝘴,𝘣𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘬 𝘶𝘱 𝘤𝘢𝘮𝘦 𝘪𝘯,𝘪 𝘤𝘰𝘶𝘭𝘥𝘯'𝘵 𝘳𝘦𝘴𝘪𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘵 𝘣𝘦𝘤𝘢𝘶𝘴𝘦 𝘰𝘧 𝘭𝘰𝘷𝘦 .𝘪 𝘴𝘵𝘢𝘳𝘵𝘦𝘥 𝘴𝘩𝘢𝘳𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘴 𝘥𝘢𝘺 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘯𝘪𝘨𝘩𝘵 𝘶𝘯𝘵𝘪𝘭 𝘐 𝘮𝘦𝘢𝘯𝘵 𝘢 𝘮𝘢𝘯 𝘸𝘩𝘰 𝘣𝘳𝘰𝘶𝘨𝘩𝘵 𝘣𝘢𝘤𝘬 𝘮𝘺 𝘦𝘹 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘧𝘢𝘴𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘱𝘳𝘢𝘺𝘦𝘳. 𝘞𝘩𝘢𝘵,,𝘢𝘱𝘱 𝘩𝘪𝘮.

[@frankjackson5980]

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[@chrisbarbz9238]

Praise God for His servant Pastor John Piper.

[@PitchedProduction]

There’s this wonderful Christian girl who I quickly, well me and her, began to grew close to over the Christmas season at my church last year. I prayed that this would finally be the one, hoping that I would truly create a beautiful relationship for Christ because I supposedly “read the signs” that she felt that way about me. I had my doubts though and yet it came to pass after lockdown initiated and Easter Sunday (which also was my birthday, yeah, pretty cruel)...she rejected me and I guess, she never felt that way for me cause I read too much. I’ve always experienced nothing but constant rejection to the point of being led on so I’m used to it, but from now on, considering from the times we in the truth is I’m just not ready. I’m not going to search for anyone or be even concerned. I’m going to let God take control and his sovereignty is unparalleled. If I am pouring out too much love by idolising them to the point where life without even a god glorifying woman is nothing, then I need my priorities set. I’ve moved on so far, but I’m continuing to go through this battle to put God first above everything on my life and make him my all satisfaction. I guess lockdown made it easier, imagine if church was still going. It would’ve been much worse, I guess God comforted me with his staff by giving a slap for me to stay on the right path. 😅

[@marcoramirez313]

Please pray for me to be focused on Jesus and to truly get over my ex and find the one God intended me to be with pLZ and I’ll pray for anyone about anything :) thanks and God bless

[@izabelrodriguezcorzo7390]

Thanks it has been a blessing to hear this healing words.God bless you!

[@guillermo3947]

I feel overwhelmed, I loved her, I never fornicated with her, I miss her but May the will of the Lord be done, I just want Jesus to never leave her alone, she doesn’t deserve to feel bad ever. Not that I cheated or nothing, but this quarantine just set us apart, we stopped having communication as we used to have before, we used to go everywhere together, she’s so special... Maybe I was trying this relationship outside God’s will, or my masturbation problem ruined it, I’m still struggling, overcoming it by the day. I felt I had to finish this relationship a month ago, but I waited, like I ignored God’s voice... and now I ended up the worst way possible, and I can’t fix it, she didn’t even reply... may Jesus Christ always bless her life

[@bc2015southern]

Same boat, praying for you brother

[@guillermo3947]

Brandie Coppett it’s been a while now, I still miss her but I really gotta get going accepting that maybe she is gone forever. Let that sink in. I’m fine and she’s doing better so may the Lord keep blessing her. I wanna look forward to the Lord’s will for my life. Be blessed, I’ll pray for you

[@angeling4780]

Hey i here you and i'm kind've going throuogh the same thing. Don't be too hard on yourself x God can turn any situation or decision around for good

[@guillermo3947]

Ange Ling yeah I hope for the best, I reaaally do but I just want to live in obedience to God first. And I hope that she’s growing also in Christ, I still pray for her. Idk if I’ll ever get to see her again, but I’m satisfied with turning away from my sins once and for all and knowing she’s following Christ. The Lord knows what’s best, Thank you and be blessed.

[@blaugrana2007]

Thank you, guys! This is really helpful for me. Blessings.

[@bryankirkham8249]

Just found out last night my girlfriend was cheating on me and even brought the guy to our apartment that we share. I don’t know what hurts more, the fact that she doesn’t care about me and would cheat or the fact that she REALLY doesn’t care anything about me enough to bring someone over our place and create a very dangerous situation for me. Haven’t slept but 2 hours mind just keeps racing trying to figure out where I went wrong at. Please pray for me I really need it.

[@onm3rcur7]

I'm really sorry to hear this Bryan, sometimes people cheat for various reasons and they might still care for you, but their morals are not fixed on Jesus so they do things wrong. I don't know exactly all the ins and outs of your relationship but I can say I cheated in the past before I started having a relationship with God and once I realised the damage I was doing I felt truly awful and was sobbing for a long time until I realise that Jesus forgave me. I pray for you because I understand there is a lot of pain involved with this. I am going through a break up at the moment and its helped me to reach out to god even more. But it still gets really difficult at times, do not underestimate the power of god but also of a good, healthy routine , sport, support of family and friends. God bless

[@Hehehe-hf7rq]

God bless you my brother. I know what youre going through.

[@frankjackson5980]

𝑴𝒚 𝒅𝒆𝒂𝒓 𝑰 𝒌𝒏𝒐𝒘 𝒘𝒉𝒂𝒕 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒂𝒓𝒆 𝒑𝒂𝒔𝒔𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒕𝒉𝒓𝒐𝒖𝒈𝒉 𝒊𝒕 𝒉𝒂𝒑𝒑𝒆𝒏𝒆𝒅 𝒕𝒐 𝒎𝒆 𝒇𝒆𝒘 𝒎𝒐𝒏𝒕𝒉𝒔 𝒂𝒈𝒐😢, 𝒖𝒏𝒕𝒊𝒍 𝑰 𝒎𝒆𝒆𝒕 𝒂 𝒎𝒂𝒏 𝒘𝒉𝒐 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒖𝒈𝒉𝒕 𝒃𝒂𝒄𝒌 𝒎𝒚 𝒆𝒙 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒂 𝒑𝒐𝒘𝒆𝒓𝒇𝒖𝒍 𝒑𝒓𝒂𝒚𝒆𝒓 𝒓𝒆𝒒𝒖𝒆𝒔𝒕😊😊....

[@frankjackson5980]

𝘈𝘧𝘵𝘦𝘳 𝘥𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘧𝘰𝘳 6𝘺𝘳𝘴,𝘣𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘬 𝘶𝘱 𝘤𝘢𝘮𝘦 𝘪𝘯,𝘪 𝘤𝘰𝘶𝘭𝘥𝘯'𝘵 𝘳𝘦𝘴𝘪𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘵 𝘣𝘦𝘤𝘢𝘶𝘴𝘦 𝘰𝘧 𝘭𝘰𝘷𝘦 .𝘪 𝘴𝘵𝘢𝘳𝘵𝘦𝘥 𝘴𝘩𝘢𝘳𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘴 𝘥𝘢𝘺 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘯𝘪𝘨𝘩𝘵 𝘶𝘯𝘵𝘪𝘭 𝘐 𝘮𝘦𝘢𝘯𝘵 𝘢 𝘮𝘢𝘯 𝘸𝘩𝘰 𝘣𝘳𝘰𝘶𝘨𝘩𝘵 𝘣𝘢𝘤𝘬 𝘮𝘺 𝘦𝘹 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘧𝘢𝘴𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘱𝘳𝘢𝘺𝘦𝘳. 𝘞𝘩𝘢𝘵,,𝘢𝘱𝘱 𝘩𝘪𝘮...

[@frankjackson5980]

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[@edwilmartinez4296]

My relationship ended today. she tried to come, back but the pain was to much. I wish It could have worked out. but I’m to focused in what could have, instead of what happened. and I need to accept and move on. with god my health and mental health will improve. I will find my purpose on earth. I want to help so many people I’m 21 years old. And I will start today! Ask me for any Bible verse and I’ll pick out one for you.

[@ladyofthewoods2448]

I as the others also feel very thankful for this channel. These words very helpful. God Bless you

[@goldensecretpets6201]

I’m 14 years old and I fell in love with my first love at first we were so happy and shy like we barely talked and he would always blush when we would see each other at school I would always go to football games and baseball games of his well he started getting jealous and I have a bubbly personality or I did and I was always just being friends with Guys not even being serious just being friendly because ofc I was with jacob for a reason and if I wanted someone else I wouldn’t have been with him well jacob always wanted to argue and tell me what to wear and not to talk to guys I mean tbh I liked the jealousy because it showed me he cared well after a while I got tired of arguing and he always wanted to argue right before I would end up going to sleep and he started to cry over me and I got tired of it and after a while of comforting him and trying to fix it I got tired and just stopped acting like I cared and when he would cry it would no longer hurt me well that lasted for two months well by the time he told me he was done trying I was doing everything I could to try to restore our relationship and I feel like it’s my fault because of my lack of showing how much I cared but keep in mind he treated me amazing always calling me gorgeous boosting my self a steem always calling me and texting me heck putting me before his friends well this breakup has heart a lot but it has also brought me closer to God I’m suffering a lot of heartache but one day when both me and Jacob mature especially in the Lord I wanna marry him someday and I will so please pray for me and my heart and my spirit God Bless You!

[@ughnotuagainughnotuagain4275]

Hey I'm praying for you! :) Everything is going to be alright between you and Jacob, just don't stop praying and asking God to guide you

[@frankjackson5980]

𝑴𝒚 𝒅𝒆𝒂𝒓 𝑰 𝒌𝒏𝒐𝒘 𝒘𝒉𝒂𝒕 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒂𝒓𝒆 𝒑𝒂𝒔𝒔𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒕𝒉𝒓𝒐𝒖𝒈𝒉 𝒊𝒕 𝒉𝒂𝒑𝒑𝒆𝒏𝒆𝒅 𝒕𝒐 𝒎𝒆 𝒇𝒆𝒘 𝒎𝒐𝒏𝒕𝒉𝒔 𝒂𝒈𝒐😢, 𝒖𝒏𝒕𝒊𝒍 𝑰 𝒎𝒆𝒆𝒕 𝒂 𝒎𝒂𝒏 𝒘𝒉𝒐 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒖𝒈𝒉𝒕 𝒃𝒂𝒄𝒌 𝒎𝒚 𝒆𝒙 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒂 𝒑𝒐𝒘𝒆𝒓𝒇𝒖𝒍 𝒑𝒓𝒂𝒚𝒆𝒓 𝒓𝒆𝒒𝒖𝒆𝒔𝒕😊😊..

[@frankjackson5980]

𝘈𝘧𝘵𝘦𝘳 𝘥𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘧𝘰𝘳 6𝘺𝘳𝘴,𝘣𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘬 𝘶𝘱 𝘤𝘢𝘮𝘦 𝘪𝘯,𝘪 𝘤𝘰𝘶𝘭𝘥𝘯'𝘵 𝘳𝘦𝘴𝘪𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘵 𝘣𝘦𝘤𝘢𝘶𝘴𝘦 𝘰𝘧 𝘭𝘰𝘷𝘦 .𝘪 𝘴𝘵𝘢𝘳𝘵𝘦𝘥 𝘴𝘩𝘢𝘳𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘴 𝘥𝘢𝘺 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘯𝘪𝘨𝘩𝘵 𝘶𝘯𝘵𝘪𝘭 𝘐 𝘮𝘦𝘢𝘯𝘵 𝘢 𝘮𝘢𝘯 𝘸𝘩𝘰 𝘣𝘳𝘰𝘶𝘨𝘩𝘵 𝘣𝘢𝘤𝘬 𝘮𝘺 𝘦𝘹 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘧𝘢𝘴𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘱𝘳𝘢𝘺𝘦𝘳. 𝘞𝘩𝘢𝘵,,𝘢𝘱𝘱 𝘩𝘪𝘮..

[@frankjackson5980]

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[@buki3838]

Thank You so much for this! 💟

[@GonzoTheMystic]

Just remember, you’re not the only one

[@marshallstrander3922]

I lost the girl of my dreams that I wanted to make my wife a few days ago and have been emotionally battling hard with the enemy these past few days. We had a great, loving relationship but didn’t wait until marriage which ended up being the downfall to us. She started viewing the things I would do out of love for her with almost a twisted, hidden suspected motive as a means to an end for fornication, which wasn’t true at all, but nonetheless damaged our relationship. I wanted to work things out and fight for us but her feelings for me very quickly changed for me and she broke up with little to no closure. While the situation may sound unreasonable to most ears, this is what sin does to us; it seeks to steal and destroy. Take heart in the Lord y’all and remember that God’s law is not a rule book, it’s a safety guide to freedom!

[@nicolerodrigues618]

How are u now..im going through something similiar😢im giving my all to Jesus everyday. I have exam in one month. I hope god helps me clear it

[@gloriapasaribu1177]

"In Christ we have all we need to live useful and joyful lives through that kind of rejection and pain"

[@JesusisLord432]

This was what I needed to hear! It really puts things into perspective. Thank you! 💕

[@stevenolveraaa]

It hurts so so bad. I pray that God comforts her. Although she broke it off I know God will prosper her and love her in a way I never can. I wish it wasn’t this way but I pray I have a heart that is open to God and she draws near to Jesus too!

[@sirp.zohani511]

How are you doing today?

[@stevenolveraaa]

@@sirp.zohani511 I’m alive and well brother! Miss her by the second. Still, the only things I can do is allow God to mold me into the man he wants me to be for his glory and fight for our relationship in prayer and on my knees.

[@bretdyer]

God if you are listening. Please help. I am not strong and i cannot do this

[@ghostonskyrock]

My gf left me without reason .. no goodbye. I never hurt from these things but this hurt. God has a reason and purpose for my journey of being alone and I’ll find that out.

[@Katie-gr9mt]

you are worth so much more than she had to give. I hope you can heal. I'm trying to

[@nrcarl00]

Praying for you!

[@mikey4396]

Why did I have to loose my family, job and home all at once!

[@gissellev.18]

I need help.. my boyfriend and I were together for over 6 years and he had a ring, I was expecting an engagement and ended up getting a break up.. how can I understand why this is happening.. It’s the most painful thing I’ve ever been through and I can’t get through this

[@Will-vg7vl]

It’s very hard. My story is very similar to yours. It takes time. I’m very sorry you have to experience the pain. It does get better with time. Don’t give up on yourself. Keep moving forward as best you can. It’s very hard but It does get better. I will pray for you. 🥺

[@stephaniemchh6476]

@@Will-vg7vl Darling, I've tried this so many times and it didn't work until I met a powerful man who helped bring me back my ex who left me a few months ago and now my ex is back. I am very grateful. Send him a message for any help on WhatsApp @ ([phone])

[@stephaniemchh6476]

Darling, I've tried this so many times and it didn't work until I met a powerful man who helped bring me back my ex who left me a few months ago and now my ex is back. I am very grateful. Send him a message for any help on WhatsApp @ ([phone])

[@gissellev.18]

@@Will-vg7vl thank you, I appreciate it very much, Its so painful I’ve cried nonstop everyday, my eyes have horrible dark circles now, I hope you’re doing better now.

[@Will-vg7vl]

@@gissellev.18 thank you. It’s taken a while but I’m doing much better.

[@theodorakirunda2116]

This is excellent. Just what I needed to hear

[@kdm5706]

I’m in so much pain right now! Please pray for me!

[@ltl9009]

4 years and 7 months, all up in smoke after she broke it off hours earlier. Please pray for me, because right now I'm about to go to sleep and part of me is hoping I don't wake up.

[@povmonyneathmorm]

I’ll pray for you. I’m going through the similar situation..

[@paulothx138]

Thank you, i really was needing this.

[@gaigebryant3015]

My girlfriend of 2 and a half years left me, and she fell out of love with me, i don’t do anything. I knew her for 15% of my life and like 30% of my life that I had memory. I am doing my best to leave it in gods hands,🙏

[@jeanvlog7718]

I broke up with my first ever boyfriend after 24 years of being No boyfriend since Birth. He was amazing person, most caring, most romantic and most protective person. But one thing I am so sad about because he is unbeliever and this is most of the reason we fight about. Lord I just dont want to feel this pain again. Jesus help me end this pain. I am almost losing hope in true love.

[@masingitaangelmaluleke1969]

watching this 5 months before the wedding

[@TheOGpatriotLady]

Had a sister show interest in me on a trip we went on. Came back from the trip and I tried to text her and really let her know I like her, heck I went all out and bought her flowers. That was the first time i really liked a girl in 8 years of being single after being saved. I'd told myself that I'd never date until i was ready to get married, I'd rejected many unhealthy offers of casual dating from what i would call nonimal Christian girls before. All of this to say I was just so infatuated with her. She unfortunately didn't send the right signals back anymore. This was so confusing and hurting because she was older than me and I had never looked at her in a romantic way, for her to awaken that love in me for her and only to seemingly squash it broke my heart! I couldn't understand why she'd awaken a love in me for her, only not to show interest when I clearly showed interest back in her. It's been over 6 months. I haven't healed! Please don't reawaken love in someone when you you know you have zero intentions of pursuing them. People are really broken and sinful. I don't even know if I'll ever trust a woman again next time i like someone im just going to fear that ill get rejected again.