Bill Burr & Nia - Advice: Girlfriend Cheating...On Her Diet

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[@connorthompson8607]

Anyone else notice that nia said that this woman should leave this guy for a nicer guy WITH MORE MONEY?!?!?!?! Seriously??? And guys are shallow???

[@PurushNahiMahaPurush]

+Connor Thompson Sir, I salute you for having the Fairy Tail guild sign as your profile picture.

[@jackcarter3944]

+Connor Thompson And, did you notice that the only time Bill ever sounds like a little bitch is when Nia is around? It's sad.

[@liteashmusic]

+Jack Carter You just have no relationship skills/experience. He never sounds like a bitch in anything with Nia.

[@scotmccormack5064]

+Connor Thompson Nia, put simply, is a gold digger.

[@TheDayZCowboy90]

+Scot McCormack Idk about that. It's possible, but Bill wasn't the huge successful guy that he is now when they met.

[@rogermilla2358]

Holy fuck, Bill's a fuckin genius/pro. Just fucking defused Nia like a bomb.

[@stimpsonsutube]

Wait wait wait now HOW would she go about getting even hotter? By losing 60-70 lbs!!

[@drjackblack818]

Bill handled this like a champ

[@anunknowndude]

Bill handled it like a gentleman, Patrice O'Neal would have handled this like a champ 😂 He would have dismantled the nonsense she threw in

[@davesproles2708]

Oh I know it...i can't believe it....this guy is as empathetic as he is funny

[@jibrankhan6662]

Exactly dude.! I totally agreeing on that.! You see, In his Stand-up he comes off as an angry lunatic guy.. But in real life he's actually a Rational and Composed individual.! My Hero.! :-)

[@tybeck4915]

@@anunknowndude thank you for saying this

[@thecakewasalie92]

I agree 👍👍

[@sgame79]

Nia seems very concerned about the emotions of the woman. What about the emotions of the guy going above and beyond to help his girlfriend only to have her treat his efforts with distain?

[@magx01]

Women generally don't empathize with men.

[@philorgneopolotin8762]

magx01 I mean that’s the same for every race, sex, gender etc. whites tend to emphasize with whites, men tend to emphasize with men, LGBT people tend to emphasize with LGBT people etc. but this one just seemed SO obvious to me, even as a male. If the roles were reversed and it was the guy getting obese and the girl doing all this to help him out, I would’ve still been on the girl’s side and agreed with her. Nia just seemed completely unable to even remotely see the guy’s point of view until Bill had to explain it to her for 20 minutes. The first 5 minutes of this clip were infuriating until Bill cut her off

[@breadman5048]

that's a good point

[@beepbopboop7727]

The fact is that this woman has an eating disorder. Its above his paygrade.

[@globaldiscussions6489]

Nia gets so triggered and Bill brings her back around with a calm and rational discussion.

[@benjamingwaltney9299]

Yeah she tones it down after like 4 minutes in, people should wait to comment until they listen to the whole thing before they type some ignorant crap.

[@chimpcultsage4220]

She's a warmonger when it comes to the whole sex vs sex thing. But when they are having fun mocking each other and telling stories you can see why they connect. Bill is realistic with his arguments and Nia does have her fever dream PTSD feminist moments, but Bill brings her around and she tries to get out of being embarrassed. If anything Bill and her arguing about the whole feminist things makes 4th wave feminism look even worse. Which he destroys the argument.

[@mesaber86]

Women huh.

[@michaelsieger9133]

“When people get older they put on weight.” She’s obese at 24 LMAO

[@feroxcious]

In Nia's world: 1. When men do something bad they are unfixable pieces of shit 2. When women do something bad they need to be emotionally connected to and they will always be able to just turn their whole life around with the snap of a finger.

[@Tr33fiddy]

+FeroxCious "In women's world:" FTFY

[@mystaminacantakethis]

Shut the fuck up

[@XPurpleVortex]

Great argument moni

[@suckmyduck7029]

Well yeah isn't bill the same with guys though? Women and men are obviously going to be biased towards their own sex because they can relate with them. I've definitely seen Bill do this aswell.

[@itsamemario6539]

So trueee

[@raidzeromatt]

Bill and Nia are the perfect example of opposites attract

[@igdedzillaigdedzilla3324]

I think he's much more of a chump than he leads us to believe haha

[@gspcanadianicon]

yeah, Bill is awesome

[@jungxehuin9404]

IG: DEDZILLA IG: DEDZILLA chump just signed a 10 million dollar deal

[@errant3]

@@jungxehuin9404 uhm, good....???

[@michaelsieger9133]

This is a case of like attracts like. They’re both loudmouths with abrasive personalities.

[@AnabolicAsylum]

Nia is wrong. There's an unwritten code in dating that both parties need to maintain (at least) the same level of attractiveness they were initially attracted to when they first met.

[@bananian]

Even when you get old?

[@LivingBGLegend]

That’s why when you decide to stay with somebody you have a mental and emotional connection and not just a physical attraction because looks so fade to a degree over time. Not saying massive weight gain can put a problem in the relationship because it can. I was with my ex when gained over a hundred pounds then she went and got fat surgery and left me after getting thin.

[@mehbobotorp2373]

I have to applaud Bill for his level of patience with Nia here. Don't get me wrong, I don't hate Nia. Sometimes she comes up with decent advice or views. But she was WAY out of line here. Like WAY out of line. Had my girlfriend reacted this way, I would have been completely turned off. But Bill fucken handled this like a man. Like a decent human being. You're not dumb, Bill. You're actually incredibly smart and sensitive. Keep up the good work, mate!

[@Brandon-vy6uw]

"We are higher beings" lol classic woman! Ego to massive to wrap my head around

[@rapinncapin123]

Exactly

[@adams1458]

I HATE THAT - im @ a place i wont talk to them if they are like that it was a fun little challenge when your younger but late 20's early 30's get over it woman your just a person

[@user-kb1hw2yq2f]

just wait till they start adding other categories on top of "we're women".

[@ThumpRat]

If all the men disappeared off earth overnight, I'm sure their higher spirituality would serve them well as the power stopped working and the water stopped running

[@supastar25]

Bill is calm and rational throughout...Nia on the other hand....

[@KBelDC]

Females think with their emotions lol Black/Beige Phillip show haha

[@chrisp2481]

supastar Bill has the experience to walk her through.

[@shamibrown2287]

Rotflmao

[@beyondthefifthwall2946]

Nia, wanting someone to be healthy is absolutely a sign that you care about them. defending their unhealthy lifestyle is proof you don't care about them

[@2901gagandeep]

Nia just acted like the typical woman in this one, she sounded like a cool person in the other podcasts.

[@pkrent3461]

+Jimothy Wardo yeah I agree, she just reacted, I guess Bill should've muted the mic and tell her to fuck off.

[@sethfyou4750]

AWALT

[@johnyo9724]

Seriously I love Bills advice, why does he pull himself down with bringing Nia into this. He at least sees things fairly. He even called it that the guy was making fair points until he got nasty about her. But he understood the guy was frustrated. Can't stand Nia

[@rayray6490]

She's ok in other podcasts, i don't mind her, sometimes she even adds to the conversation. But on certain issues she comes across as very judgemental and irrational, jumping to conclusions and quick to condemn, and very biased.

[@nothisispatrick1753]

@@rayray6490 She bounces back later on. It's funny though when Bill is just laughing there

[@TheMrlitemaster]

"ah gad I gotta work for a living" "time to get fat I guess"

[@Yognaughto]

Now, to be honest, it seems more like this guy is feeling betrayed than her not being hot enough...

[@kevink2491]

I had the same experience. It was long distance too so it was even worse. I understand his situation but I was also selfish in the sense that I wanted my girlfriend to have a nicer body.

[@AHighlander]

Kevin K Rightly so. Physical attraction matters as much as honesty.

[@cory8242]

she became lazy. every girl would leave a lazy guy. don't be bullshittin

[@vincemaria3981]

How is it selfish to want your partner to be hot? This guy keeps himself in good shape, so why shouldn’t his partner?

[@joet8862]

@@AHighlander Yeah, women act like dicks can get hard over anything, but we do have our limits. If you're not into big chicks, and your slim girlfriend gets fat, she will blame him when he can't get it up when it's her fault

[@WhyBeUgly]

Absolutely not agreeing with Nia. I absolutely expect my girlfriend to take care of herself for me when I do the same for her. The guy didn't sign up for a fat girl.

[@wanderpen8688]

"Well I can't bite the hand that feeds" LOL

[@kiragumanyara]

love how bill total defused Nia's outrage

[@AlexTrubinDesign]

Amazing how Bill took care of the situation. Most couples would have ended up in an argument. Taking notes here, You saw how Nia took the women side of the story. But Bill was was able to calmly turn the argument around. "Time out.." Bill, thank you. Bill took control, in a way which Nia stopped her rant and listened to reason then sided with Bill. The tittle should have been: "How to avoid and win an argument with a woman."

[@andrew6]

He clearly has a lot of experience arguing with women, and has mastered the art.

[@sXePunkV2]

The guy is spot on here. The guy is clearly worried and he cooked for her?! I'd kill for anyone to so that for me! . This Touched a nerve with Nia I think? She makes all of us women look bad

[@Ticklehug]

Nia really makes herself easy to hate...

[@johnwatson2281]

+Ticklehug I swear man...Bill is like my favourite person. So I always try to respect Nia since she is his wife at the end of the day. But man...I'm having a REALLY hard time doing that. I don't want to perceive Nia as a bad person...But....She just gives me even more reason to think that with each podcast that Bill does with her. She doesn't listen to what he has to say. She has her mind set up concrete on every fucking topic and she always talks like a fucking know-it-all. I really don't know how Bill puts up with this shit. I don't want him to die off because of a fucking heart attack because he stays angry all the time.

[@TheSheepwall]

+Ticklehug I have to disagree, she turned around and changed her mind in an instant. Takes intellectual honesty.

[@Ticklehug]

Noahwayout Why are you being so rude? It's the internet you piece of shit. Be considerate of the feelings of others, you fuck.

[@HKRazieL]

+John Watson no, you don't respect her, and you can't respect her... you respect him and thus TOLERATE her because of him... you wouldn't want to hear her by herself and that's completely understandable and you're not alone on that... she is simply full, FULL of shit!...

[@tonysamosa1717]

Ticklehug Nia's great until she gets all SJWish. Love her but she can be a classic bitch sometimes.

[@DroopyDog17]

Nia sure took this one personally and went into a pretentious projection mode, gezus

[@andrewdecain9354]

So it's shallow to want to be with someone who actually respects their own body? Even when you're fully willing to help them with it? A dude who takes care of his own body and has self control deserves a woman who can do the same.

[@davidglasspool4921]

I love how unfiltered their communication is.

[@tylarhaugan7908]

I am on guys side no one needs a fatty

[@johnokeeffe3096]

MOTOhuggy bear brutal but it's what most guys, being honest, would say.

[@bernlin2000]

Nah, it's not the weight gain that is bullshit, it's her pretending she gives a shit, when her actions clearly show otherwise: she's being mindless or at the very least not being honest with what's going on (work stress? chemistry dwindling?)

[@freakypencil]

Nia got all angry and pissy for literally no reason. Then Bill waded through the emotion and pointed some things out that Nia couldn't see because of her emotion and then she backed off. Men get a bad rap for being non emotional, but Nia just showed a great example of over emotional, she was literally mad for no reason. And after saying the dude is shallow for caring about the girls looks, she said she should get hotter by going out with a dude who has more money. Is that not shallow?

[@GREVIEWS02]

No reason 😂 her whole speech was about her reason for being mad.

[@gffrycole]

He's really good at keeping her in check....teach me....

[@mariazamora6824]

And the way Bill brought Nia back down was PHENOMENAL! Just goes to show you that they actually are a good couple because they know each other so well

[@davidmasson3830]

Switch food into booze and the guy into Bill and Nia would have a very different response. This emotional response is why talking about rational subjects to the layyyydeees is often bloody difficult.

[@MsFancypants9]

I'm a young layyy-dee and I think Nia's in the wrong here, Bill makes sense. If my partner gains 60-70 lbs and is stress eating and can't find good coping strategies, I'd be really concerned. Because yes, physical attraction is very important, that's the reason you want to talk to a guy/girl in the first place. A person who is fat and does nothing about it and eats in secret is an unhappy person, I wouldn't want to be in a relationship with someone like that. I can't be the fixer, YOU owe it to yourself to develop coping strategies.

[@taraaboz]

Nia is very unrealistic and too much emotional here.

[@Bruceybaby2009]

She acknowledges that later on and apologizes tho, if you make it that far.

[@T0YCHEST]

Because she is fat, had a baby and has a jowel

[@thegreatonecometh200]

I think she took her anger that bill creates in her out on the other guy! Cause we all know what bill thinks of fatties!!

[@thegreatonecometh200]

@@T0YCHEST noooo she's not fat ! Cause she knows bill doesn't like fat women whatever the excuse for the weight gain and so she took that out on the other guy

[@elevenfortythree4769]

Her and the majority of woman

[@Wolfman7870]

Bill's right. If that's how she deals with stress, imagine when she has kids. Maybe he doesn't want to be with one of those human boulders you see waddling through Wal Mart. He can't just let her spiral and it's ok because she's sad. She actually has to try and solve the problem or he needs to move on.

[@CrimeaRiver]

Good job, Nia. You single-handedly destroyed any sympathy people may have had for feminism. Keep up the good work!

[@jonathalon6022]

thanks putin

[@shreddman8704]

Damn, Mr. Burr, you are a wise man.

[@sercastamere9853]

3:44 - Nia : "...-'cause-she's-like-hiding-it-from-you-and-you're-calling-into-question-your-relationship?-you've-been-together-for-six-years--" Bill : "Ohh jeshus!" Nia : "--and-you're-gonna-call-into-question..."

[@SBCBears]

Nia excuses the girl's deceptiveness because the girl is "going through some emotional things". Oohhh, Bill! "We are higher beings": Nia. Oohhh, the arrogance!

[@SugaryCoyote]

The fucking nerve of Nia to accuse the guy in this relationship of not caring when his wife has fucking hit rock bottom.

[@rapinncapin123]

nia is the typical chick that covers for her fellow women.. women lack accountability nowadays.. smh

[@raj-cr4nl]

Men like attractive, fit women and Nia just can't fucking handle it, haha.

[@devincordray4582]

+Adam Jones haha the same for women!

[@raj-cr4nl]

amanda miller handle what?

[@rapinncapin123]

+davidd854 😂😂

[@alexhutton155]

shes attacking the dudes who don't like nia or fat women because they have to stick together. fat people arent attractive

[@ninobrown2073]

TIME OUT.................TIME OUTTTTTTTTTTTTT..........................TIME OUTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT

[@jonathalon6022]

TIMEEEEEEE OUTTTTTT

[@RedDelPaPa]

Sorry Nia, you roasted yourself big time. You are NOT superior to men. You have your qualities and you have your weaknesses. Just like men. Bill: "You think your ying is better than our yang." Bingo. Sorry Nia, you lost. Hopefully you can learn something here.

[@blarghhboy]

Pfft, women don't learn things, silly.

[@spartawar117]

Man in all of these podcasts Bill just hits the nail on the head. When you hear him talk you're just like oh my god he is totally right I've just never noticed it!

[@pugfugly1989]

I lost 162 pounds in 9 months, if I can do it, any woman can do it. There's no justification for being fat, at all.

[@pugfugly1989]

The Vicious Drifloon Honestly no secret behind it, I changed my eating habits, and exercised more than I already was. I don't have an appetite for things like processed microwaveable foods, chocolate, alcohol, all that bad stuff. I'm sure there's plenty of other factors, but the main ones are what I eat, how much I eat, and how much activity I do.

[@pugfugly1989]

The Vicious Drifloon I'm a huge pothead and even when I have the munchies I prefer "healthier" things. You have to develop your palette so your preferences are for good things, not just things that taste good.

[@pugfugly1989]

The Vicious Drifloon I got me a Magic Bullet, those things rock. Smoothies are always good and are pretty filling. I tend to ride my bike everywhere rather than drive or bus it, so having a one with me makes it easier.

[@brixtonmystery]

DJ Wise Pariah PREACH!!!! Congrats to you #ObesityKilla

[@shamibrown2287]

Congrats bigs🖖🤘

[@jazon345]

Nia, the whole argument about her being fine and getting fat because she's 'not doing it to hurt him' is a BS thing to say. If the man in the relationship started drinking 5-6 millers every night and going out and getting shitfaced on the weekend from 8 PM to 3 AM at the local pub, the woman would have every right to be upset, he's becoming an alcoholic. He's not doing it to hurt her, but he is still doing it, and a relationship is about effort. You and your partner should be putting in the same amount of work, it's not fair to this guy who wrote in that his girlfriend is being deceptive. He sat down and tried to do more for her in terms of her diet than I think anybody else would take the time to do. I mean seriously, a healthy lunch is one thing, but for him to come home and make a healthy meal every single day for her that will be ready when she gets home from a stressful day is an incredibly supportive thing to do. He's not asking her to lose all of the weight right now. He loves this girl right? He will stand by her side through it all because that's what love is. He's lashing out at the end because he's letting all of his anger out, his girl went behind his back, completely neglected all of the effort he put into making her healthy, and still continues to eat like shit.

[@EllisCarver]

Guys, it's okay to disagree with Nia and still find her initial reaction to be hilarious, especially when Bill was using more timeouts than every coach during the NCAA tournament combined.

[@philorgneopolotin8762]

I think more people would’ve found it funny if Nia hadn’t acted so unnecessarily and unabashedly shitty towards the guy. If the guy had been an ass and said something along the lines of “my girlfriend is a fat pig, I’m thinking of cheating on her with her friend, she’s so disgusting and won’t help herself because I only like pencil thin hot babes” then I, along with what I assume to be most other guys, would’ve found Nia’s reaction hilarious because of how shitty the guy was. It’s always funny to see some shithead, narcissistic guy get shit on. But the guy was overly calm, helpful, and mature about this, and Nia had no right to shit on him the way she did. I think that’s why there was an overwhelmingly hateful response to her in this comment section. I’m all for shitting on assholes, but there’s a time and a place. And this wasn’t right.

[@sirdopaminesjournal3292]

LMFAO.... I thought he going to pause tape.

[@OgreMECH]

If Bill Burr loses his money and Nia sticks by his side, I'll respect her opinion.

[@SmokeRingsPipeDreams]

And we both know that will never happen. Once she pops out a couple kids, it will be time for the divorce. Spousal support, child support, alimony and Bill living in a studio apartment and doing stand-up at holiday Inn's to keep shoveling Nia money every month rather than go to jail for non payment.

[@SmokeRingsPipeDreams]

OgreMECH I too am a dumb ass who didn't listen to friends and my own good sense. Fortunately I avoided most consequences for my stupidity. (just by dumb luck) Brother Bill will not be so lucky.

[@harryjones9650]

cannot beleive this womens poin of view. unbeleivable

[@mightyraccoon7155]

Burr speaks from experience when it comes to losing a loved one to heart disease. He deconstructed this whole situation like a true genius.

[@jarrydlee7906]

I didn't even think of that, Patrice.

[@mrrhombus716]

No you don't get to be "emotional" for a year. She also seems to think people should get fat at TWENTY SEVEN!! Seriously fucked up.

[@mrrhombus716]

Wait it's even younger, jesus.

[@krumplethemal8831]

I love Nia's solution, she should find someone who makes more money.. classic! Did she not just do the stereotypical reversal? She was bitching about the guy in the story being shallow and she goes with she needs to find someone who makes more money? Guys judge women - based on looks. Women judge guys - based on income.

[@Tyler_W]

Krumple Themal the word you're looking for is "hypergamy".

[@maxrice6990]

Nia totally missed it on this one. He's putting all this effort into paying for all this stuff and making these lunches and instead of arguing with him about it, she sneaks around letting him put so much into her health and then she just goes behind his back and sabotages those efforts.

[@maxrice6990]

+Max Rice But she definitely showed maturity after Bill told her the points and she apologized.

[@errant3]

+Max Rice she didn't apologized... she was caught and save face with that phony: i'm sorry i guess....

[@SeidlNJ]

+errant3 She did apologize

[@errant3]

SeidlNJ right... sure....

[@davidd854]

+SeidlNJ She apologized like a little child who is told to apologize by their parents

[@mghtymffn]

Nia most definitely got emotional but I think what many of you are ignoring is the fact how she did listen to Bill and calmed down. She even apologized for her outburst after Bill was able to tell her a different perspective. Then both of them were able to laugh towards the end. This actually shows how great their personal relationship truly is. At least that is my opinion.

[@dzhabrail92]

Be honest: do you want a fat girlfriend / boyfriend? I don't think so.

[@bakudoge6276]

+An Atheist From The Bible Belt you clearly never met a chubby chaser

[@dirtymikentheboys5817]

atheists....uggh

[@traviskingpodcast2403]

OHH JEEEESUS!!! 03:48 LMAO it's like bill is traped to a talking roller coaster car

[@kurtistrego6093]

i never heard bill sound so softspoken and serious

[@SkAmA136]

Bill should of addressed this email without Nia. The guy made his girlfriend a packed lunch to take to work and dinner when she got home everyday, paid for her gym membership and also bought her a bike but according to Nia he's an "ass hole" I didn't know that wanting your partner to be healthy makes you an "ass hole" Thanks for informing me Nia.

[@EllisCarver]

Absolutely not. Nia's overreaction made it infinitely more entertaining. An instant classic segment.

[@SkAmA136]

I didn't look at it from that perspective, I suppose you have a point.

[@stevethomas74]

When Bill Burr once said in his act about women being like 'adult children', one only needs to listen to some of Nia's counter arguments and put-upon female attitude to see why that 'joke' is so spot on And I like Nia most of the time. But you just CANNOT turn the spotlight on a woman's shortcomings and the ridiculous double standards that men have to put up with in this day and age without them trying to vehmently deny such a thing exists. It's like Bill said; women are just as dumb as guys but in different areas. Typical Woman's Response To That: "No we're not, no we're not, guys are just assholes and dumb" *stamps foot

[@beezusHrist]

I really don't like Nia...

[@mobus1603]

That's cuz you can't handle a strong woman with a brain who speaks her mind. You just want some mousy woman who falls in line and giggles.

[@MadGnomeStudios]

+Beezus Hrist I wouldn't say their selfish creatures but I agree with everything else you say. She was definitely being a bit hypocritical and assuming this guy is just being shallow when in reality this chick is becoming MORBIDLY obese. I wouldn't care if the woman I marry in three months gains 20 pounds, she's already pretty skinny so she could probably need it lol but that's besides the point, if she gained 20-30 pounds I wouldn't mind but if she gained 80-90 pounds that's a problem and I have the right to be attracted to my love just like she Has the right to be attracted to me and I would try and help her lose it / diet with her.

[@kujas]

Emotionally challenged people are weak=Nia.

[@gregjones9901]

I'm going to start using Nia as a point of reference for who I should date and who I should have a one night stand with. I'll bring them over, let them listen to Nia on the podcast, and see how they react. If they don't hate Nia's guts by the end of it, I'm not investing anything into them. Nia is the posterchild for everything that is wrong with feminism.

[@jackcarter3944]

+ManCave Mayhem Couldn't agree more. The endless excuses because she's a woman. Does anyone doubt she'd tear into some lazy guy who got huge and smoked dope every day?

[@jackcarter3944]

+ManCave Mayhem Couldn't agree more. The endless excuses because she's a woman. Does anyone doubt she'd tear into some lazy guy who got huge and smoked dope every day?

[@Bk1_sk]

Dude . She is not that bad man .. just come out of the closet greg just say your gay

[@chrisvela5462]

Never really minded Nia before. She was irrational here but those are scattered incidents

[@shredkaczynski8414]

cringe

[@StephNuggs]

Nia is such a sexist, don't get me wrong - so is Bill. But Bill is a comedian so he gets away with it easier. But she's always painting the women in the letters to be victims and that they are in the same boat as her. What a stone age way of looking at women, in this case in perticular. They are not small cute puppies, they are adults and capable of criticism.

[@stevethomas74]

'zactly

[@ellcavedweller8301]

GedaCrew Yeah, but Nia is a comedian too

[@felixthecat2786]

GedaCrew Guys judge women on how they like, what's sexist about pointing that out? This is absolutely a fact. A fat women is going to be less attractive to a guy, will probably feel horrible about herself. And yeah, it's kind of shitty that guys won't like you based on how much you weigh. Of course women do the same with financial positions. If you live in your mom's house, you'll probably be unattractive to women.

[@j2times2006]

Nia is a comedian? I thought to be a comedian you had to be funny

[@johnyo9724]

she was just trying to ride Bills coattails and got pregnant

[@Wormweed]

And this is why Nia is on the show so rare.

[@notrealy180217]

Will someone make a public service annoncement to women and let them know that 'mental' and 'emotional' arent separate corridors of the body. All women say this, but its just newage nonsense.

[@treejoe4]

nia's argument should have been dealt with an upper cut

[@Phentes]

14:57 I love the way Nia sighs 😂😂😂😂 lmaooo

[@BishopAP]

"She's 24, she can bounce back." What the fuck do you think the guy is trying to help her do, Nia?! Amazing that she makes the point that the guy should try to see what's going on with his chick emotionally on the inside instead of just putting a band aid on it, yet she can't look past the anger in his email and see how hurt the guy is that his genuine support for his girl is not only going unappreciated, but is also proving to be a wasted effort in the end. God bless Bill for being able to reign that whole thing in and force some perspective back into the conversation.

[@KBelDC]

I swear all the Podcasts with Nia on it are the best. They're a great/funny couple lol

[@heartbreakkid8708]

Exactly!

[@ramonpeters9608]

Nia responded exactly how I think a woman would, but I'm on this guy's side. I workout and take care of myself, so I'm shallow if I want a girl who does the same?

[@GOSTDatingandLifestyle]

So educational, this is the blueprint for intimate male/female arguments.

[@shachede6828]

nia is just doing the most, he dated someone that looked good. she can't just become fat all of a sudden. the physical attraction is gone. all these "love her for who she is" total bullshit. he loved her cause she wasn't fat! what he said might be shallow but we are all shallow. she needs to diet! everyone is stressed! yes this coming from a girl.

[@akumaisreal2090]

Nick Garcia So, you like fat chicks. That's cool, no judgement here. Hopefully a year later you now understand that not everyone does(most don't). But hey, more fat chicks for you!

[@JRettMTX]

"That means there is a significant emotional thing that needs to be addressed" No, that means she's addicted to food and runs to it whenever there's an issue.

[@Luvie1980]

This is the first time when I can't really stand Nia. Does she not get anything? Let see Nia get fat and see if Bill stays with her.

[@400medley]

HAHAHA I love Nia's temper in this.

[@skinnyDN]

"Nia, time out, time out!"

[@Big_Steve11]

This was an all time job by Bill, this was a franchise defining moment

[@biobroly5272]

Underrated comment.

[@matty9460]

when i first heard Nia i though it was some random girl having a debate with Bill over something he said. how on earth Bill ended up with someone like that is beyond me

[@scotmccormack5064]

+matty9460 He's a freckled, balding redhead.

[@Charlie_Alpha_Lima]

+Scot McCormack Yeah but he's the man. He doesn't have to be handsome to land any woman.

[@scotmccormack5064]

Nia is 85% gums. I guess with Burr working as a dentist growing up, it was inevitable.

[@AHighlander]

Scot McCormack Underrated comment.😂

[@jimothy-johnson]

Not going to lie I actually had to mute it when she was throwing her hissy fit, no offence but she sounded completely irrational and I'm a little embarrassed for her.

[@philorgneopolotin8762]

Yep same here. Legitimately had to turn the podcast off for a few minutes and regroup after Nia started having a conniption for no reason. Glad Bill took the time to completely dismantle her argument and explain to her exactly why she was wrong.

[@bobmeyer854]

"Some weight" that's like 5 pounds not 70. Small fluctuations aren't bad, that's indulging during a vacation. 70 pounds weight gain is a negative lifestyle change you made.

[@xeno942]

She really doesn't seem like Bill's type

[@BloodyWallz]

Hassan Alloush fureal, they do get along pretty well but I wouldn’t be surprised if he eventually “cuts bait” and dips. Bet money he’s got a prenup

[@TheLowest]

The thing is that she's emotional at first but she at least comes back around eventually and listens and has a sense of humour about the situation. Most people lack those two qualities so I'd say bills got a good one

[@pikkon899]

I can relate to Nia's reaction. My wife went through something similar after our daughter was born. The only difference with my case was that my wife brought it up and asked for my honest thoughts. I told my wife that I didn't want to bring it up because I was afraid she'd freak out, which she ended up doing but then she understood where I was coming from. Damned if you do and damned if you don't essentially. My concern wasn't the weight, it was actually her behavior and her trying to avoid looking at her herself that got me worried. She lost the weight and she went back to being the same jolly women I always knew.

[@MDMDMDMDMDMDMDMDMD]

Jolly was a funny word choice

[@jamieholmes5443]

HAHAHAH! Nia's reaction. Priceless. I love when women get's in that zone. So fucking funny.

[@matthewh6474]

Actually, as a fit guy I have to agree with Nia. It is incredibly stressful to have to maintain this level of fitness just to feel sexy. I have fallen off the wagon at times, due to depression, and it would break my heart to have a gf who would consider leaving me over that. And as a former weed smoker I know what it can do to my appetite, I ballooned up to 248 lbs smoking weed and lifting weights too. My exercise couldn't compensate for eating like crap. I was under a lot of stress at the time. The girl who would stick with me through that would be the one I would want to keep and stay with her when she has her own ups and downs.

[@matthewh6474]

***** When you are happy you will have more willpower to resist eating all that food. And stopping the weed really helped me eat less too, cause when I was stoned I had no self control and would eat an entire large pizza in one sitting, and it didn't even affect me, but eating that much without being stoned would make me feel nauseous.

[@zeldagoblin]

+Thomas C I got my food addiction controlled through anti depressants. Most addiction is linked with depression or stress. Manage that and you're half way home.

[@skymorphosis4065]

What the fuck are you talking about? "The girl who would stick with me through that?" The guy in the video did exactly that. He tried his best to be supportive, talked to her like an adult, was supportive, bought her a gym membership, cooked her healthy food and you're blaming him for getting angry when she straight up spat in his face, lied to him and went behind his back?

[@keysersozae]

WTF is Nia's problem here? Being obese is extremely unhealthy. Gaining a ton of adipose tissue rapidly is extremely unhealthy. Why is she defending this woman's self-destructive habits? Nia is fucking unbelievable - she's in a high stress position, so it's OK to gain 70 lbs. of fat? Guess what - I'm in a high-stress position too, yet I don't self-medicate with KFC. And so what if part of the guy's motivation is for his significant other to be attractive (or, remain attractive instead of becoming obese)? That is a valid consideration in a relationship - and in the end, if it is partly motivating him to make her healthy meals, get her a gym membership, etc., then IT'S ALL GOOD. And Bill defends "the asshole guys" huh? What is Nia doing right now - defending the "crazy bitches?" Nia addressed this in an incredibly immature manner. There is no excuse for this woman's behavior, and she is defending all her bullshit and talking out of her fucking ass.

[@goodtimesoki]

Nia ruins the podcast.

[@ArchAngelSlayer1]

I wonder how often Bill says something that he immediately regrets, sees Nia winding up to go off an him and quietly says to himself in that voice, "Ohhh Jeeezuz..."

[@user-ye9hz4vm6s]

These two are great, I love how they communicate in such a healthy way ...Bill and Nia are just perfect in a lot of ways, in regards to a having a healthy relationship

[@matthewarmstrong5049]

I fuckin love bill and nia on these advice questions

[@dbhcGaming]

Bill needs to switch the roles of these advice emails before reading them to Nia. Nia gets extremely closed minded and defensive in these scenarios. I'm curious to see what her reaction would've been had the story been, "my boyfriend is cheating... on his diet".

[@Alexandermeister]

This is one of the best conversations he's had with Nia. Bill correctly identified the problem, and Nia correctly identified that the boyfriend's approach to the problem wasn't working.

[@AletheAce]

Boyfriend plays video games: "Dump him, he's a dead end loser, he'll never be able to support you blah blah blah" Girlfriend becomes super unattractive, borderline a health hazard to herself wastes boyfriends money and lies to him: "ohh she's just going through some stuff, you need to support her and be there for her and love her no matter what" Good going Nia

[@JAMAICAN876]

Flipside, nobody except Bill questions the shit when a woman do the shit this guy did. Women like to not mention weight loss to guys but they do hold that shit over you when shit hits the fan, she is about to loss an argument and bring up how shitty you look now compared to how she met you back in the day. Seen this shit, been through this shit. Bill is correct on his response.

[@NeoN-PeoN]

Nia says a lot of foolish things in this clip, but I do agree with her on one point: Considering he has tried (exhausted, more like it) supportive action, making lunched, buying a bike and gym membership, and all that hasn't worked, it is probably time to address the mental health angle. Her ailment seems to stem from mental stress which, at this point, seems overwhelming. She is not coping well and she needs help, not with her physical body (at first, that will come later) but with her attitude. It seems she pours all her will power, which is a mental resource, into her new job. Perhaps some form of therapy or a lot of talking about it can set her on the right path, or perhaps she should consider a career change. These things need to be discussed. Right now it sounds like he's only addressed the unhealthy lifestyle and not the root cause of her attitude.

[@moVwatchr67]

I totally understand where she was coming from because she (like many people today) misinterpreted this guy’s concern for the health of his girlfriend as fat-shaming. It’s an easy trigger and one that I used to trip over. My boyfriend and I had a discussion that was so similar to this, where in the end, I realized that he was right and that I was conflating concern for health with shaming. Nia does it here and Bill spells it out. But for everyone hating on her for it, notice of the fact that she clearly takes his point and acknowledges that he is right. I have to say that this video, along with several others of theirs I’ve watched (or listened to, rather) demonstrates a very healthy relationship to where two people can have very frank, honest discussions and both will acknowledge when they’ve made a mistake.

[@alexanderthegreat1270]

What strikes me is when Nia mentions “Oh, so you have a six pack and a full head of hair” as her criteria for the level of male hotness. Male baldness really isn’t something you can control, it’s super genetic and you sort of play the cards you get dealt. On the other hand, weight and muscle growth is absolutely something you can control

[@mackamul86]

can't say I'm a Nia fan

[@jessicaandtrains7768]

I wish she wasn't involved. Bit disturbing that she said about what if the guy loses his hair as one of the negatives???

[@immorblade]

Why doesn't Bill have some kids? He's already taking care of one.

[@odinsplaygrounds]

Now he has two.

[@xicheung7867]

"Can't bite the hand that feeds" 😂😂🤣 awesome comeback!

[@CidsReality]

People complain about Nia, but her and Bill balance each other out really well. She is good at bringing him down and sorting out a lot of disorganization with him, and he is able to enlighten her in certain area's where she otherwise would lose her shit and stay in that one mindset. I've listened to them both help out one another plenty of times, and give the other a perspective that they otherwise wouldn't have had. And to everyone that likes and "respects" Bill, you're being incredibly disrespectful to his WIFE by calling her out of her name or saying rude things for simply giving her opinion, wrong or not.

[@migissenpai]

This podcast benefits more from isolated thought, the "debate" element added from Nia only derails deconstruction of the podcast. I prefer listening to the Mondays where Bill is solo.

[@dksanrfualgljairyanj]

Gotta say, Bill made same pretty good points. Nia, on the other hand, was pretty much portraying everything wrong with modern day feminism.

[@kwerby3285]

16:35 "why are you right and im wrong?" Holy shit bill is so savage and i love it. Hes right and he knows it and hes so good at debating on this topic.

[@rowhaus5478]

Nia calls the guy shallow, then proceeds to say the chick should dump him for someone with more money. The irony is beyond palpable.