Bisexual man reveals his celebrity crushes of all genders.

As a bisexual guy I never really got to talk about my crushes. I never grew up in a situation where I could explain how I felt about celebrities or who I was attracted to. So I wanted to make a video spilling it all, just for fun!
As bisexual people we have really diverse crushes and attractions, and they don't always make sense to the standard norm. I have had a lot of interesting varied crushes throughout my bi life and so I wanted to share them with you today.
They are men, women and people of all genders so get ready to delve into the mind of a bisexual guy. Let me know who your bisexual crushes are. How do you experience attraction as a bi person? I would love to know.
Correction: I say about Anitra that she presents as a feminine character and then "of course" is a queer man out of drag. I didn't want this to be misconstrued so I wanted to explain - I mean "of course" to mean, those who know of Anitra will know she identifies that way, not "of course" as in all fem drag queens identify as men. Hopefully that makes sense.
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[@PokhrajRoy.]

One part of my brain is happy to learn about you and the other part just wants to tease you about your choices.

[@maatdeaishvarra380]

For real haha my choices would be so different 😂

[@ryanrutley4820]

I feel like bisexuals all roasting each other for their problematic and embarrassing crushes is peak bisexuality.

[@PokhrajRoy.]

This is one of the Top 5 wholesome videos ever

[@notdefining]

Omg lol thanks

[@PokhrajRoy.]

Quote of the Day: “Oh my gosh! I’m so bisexual, aren’t I?”

[@antonzanarkand]

As a Britney, Xtina and Shakira fan I enjoyed the hell out of this video! I'm gay but I can definitely relate to admiration coming hand in hand with physical attraction when it comes to men. And I also can relate to the confusion of loving certain things that were considered not manly enough for stereotypical men like pop culture. My male crushes are Oliver Stark (he plays Buck in 9-1-1) because he's gorgeous but also has a softness and sensibility to him, he loves animals and is vegan and is aware of injustices. Then I love Usher because he's so talented and confident. Also Zayn because he's an introvert and incredibly shy but somehow managed to be a big pop star. And at last but not least, Adil Koukouh, I saw him in a film called A Escondidas and he looked tough on the outside but he was very emotional. So my conclusion is that I'm attracted to fit men that I can relate to but also have this kind of bratty/moody/intimidating look while deep within they are nothing like that 🤣

[@gramps2matt]

66 yo BI guy here. All the crushes I've had and still have would be a volumus work. Also due to my awakening as a teen to being BI they are celebrities from the late 60's moving forward. Luke Halpin as Sandy of TV show Flipper. June Lockhart as Timmy's mom on Lassie. Barry Williams of The Brady Bunch as well as Maureen McCormack. David Cassidy and brother Shawn. Leif Garret. Courtney Thorne Smith. Lance Kerwin, Christopher Atkins, Willie Aimes. Donny Osmond. Barry Manilow. Karen Carpenter. Farrah Fawcett, Vanna White, Bobby Sherman, Randolph Mantooth. Mare Winningham. Olivia NewtonJohn..... there's more of course but these were really awesome to me.

[@BEX5397]

I rarely get celebrity crushes but when I do it's pretty intense. I only have 4. I had a huge crush on Mike Faist as a teen. Then I got a crush on Julia LePetit from Drawfee last year. And this year I've gotten a massive intense crush on Matt Stone and Trey Parker lol. I think I'm just starting to get more familiar with my different types of attraction now that I know myself more so recognizing crushes is much easier now.

[@notdefining]

Omg I feel you 💜💜💜

[@ENDTHEWAR-n3y]

I think the first man that made me question my sexuality was Leonardo Dicaprio lol. He was so fine when he was younger. And also basically every guy from nirvana. Omg, men in the 90s were just....so hot istg

[@notdefining]

Omg growing up in the 90’s I can relate. Definitely. Keanu Reeves. Omg.

[@saleamen]

I relate to this so hard! Growing up, you either lie about your tastes to fit in with the heterosexual standard or you shut yourself off and omit. Now we can all just gab about celebrity crushes as adults!! Also, specifically Vampire Willow is 🥵

[@jasminef.6424]

I remember having a crush on the Pussycat Dolls (around the time that I was 12-13)… I especially had a crush on Kimberly Wyatt because she used to wear the Mohawk or shorter hair (which made me wrongly assume she was a lesbian irl). But a girl could dream, right?! 🥰

[@notdefining]

Oh my word. I cannot relate more. I was overwhelmed by them. They were all so amazing. The mowhalk kind of punk look. Dying. DYING.

[@PlacestobeVG]

What if I reveal that you're my crush ;)

[@notdefining]

Ah that would be a lovely compliment. 🩷🙏🏽

[@PokhrajRoy.]

5:37 Omg they’re adorable and also posed for ‘Attitude’.

[@evanalmond1]

Wooooo BUFFY ❤

[@notdefining]

Omg yessss

[@baxiaaa]

Current celebrity crush: Jocko Sims (he plays Dr Reynolds in New Amsterdam), he’s SO 🔥🤤

[@notdefining]

(Hurriedly looks up Jocko Sims!!!) 😅😂

[@baxiaaa]

@@notdefining so what are your thoughts about him 👀

[@angelaholmes8888]

Keanu Reeves is a handsome man 😍😘 he was really great in the film my own private Idaho

[@notdefining]

I mean, right? Totally.

[@matthewchlebda3181]

Thanks for your emotional openness and vulnerability here, the pop music girls of the early 00s were beautiful and hot! My celeb crushes, as a child and now, no particular order (some of which I am even surprised about, older celebs that my parents introduced me to and newer celebs): Kit Connor, Shawn Mendes, Nicholas Galzantine, Aaron Lohr (my bi awakening was THAT scene in D3: The Mighty Ducks, if you've seen it, you know what I'm talking about) Chris Pratt, Christina Aguilera, Mandy Moore (love her, she's so sweet), Kelly Clarkson, Hillary Duff, Dua Lipa, Olivia Rodrigo, Vanessa Williams, Anne Hathaway, Karen Carpenter, Linda Ronstadt (my parents raised me on 60s/70s music, and I loved both of these sirens- beautiful women and great voices), Connie Francis, Nicole Kidman, Alicia Silverstone, Pam Dawber and Valerie Bertinelli. Probably more, but I do forget names here and there Happy (almost) Pride, Mark. As always, thanks for your content and space for bi, pan, and others on the multi-attracted spectrum.

[@PokhrajRoy.]

Fun Fact: There’s a Hindi version of ‘One Love’ in the Early 2000s

[@notdefining]

I need to see that immediately

[@PokhrajRoy.]

@@notdefining It’s awesome

[@PokhrajRoy.]

12:11 DONTCHA WISH YA RELATIONSHIP COACH WAS EMPATHETIC LIKE MINE

[@notdefining]

Haaaaa!

[@PokhrajRoy.]

11:52 Bands with very broad interpretation of feelings and ideas is easily the bisexual life.

[@speedyspeedgirl12]

My celebrity girl crushes: all the members of the kpop girl band " wonder girls" My celebrity guy crushes: Singer "Ren" from NU'EST and Ralf Little from Death in Paradise My Ultimate Celebrity Crush: UK Singer Pete Burns! LOVE that man foreverrrrrr! And yes, typical of a bi, my crushes are all over the place ^^

[@PyramidTom]

Interesting that your crushes was around their personalities, mine was just about apperance lol I had so many male celebrities crushes, for the longest time I thought I was gay. (But I am bi ace) My first first one was Matt Dallas in Kyle XY. I thought he was soooo cute. My first women crush was Halley Berry as Storm (xmen), I think it was a crush because i loved her character, her powers look so badass on screen. I also thought my guy crushes was just admiration, I indeed wanted to be like them because I am a bit ugly. I never imagined myself with them, I just thought they very aesthetically pleasing. A few other examples: Selena Gomez, Lana del Rey, Gaspart Ulliel and Mariano Divaio

[@notdefining]

Hey thanks for sharing. I’m so glad we can relate and compare. I’m also bi/ace. Sending big love.

[@prudenceneverpays]

i seriously cant talk about my male celeb crushes..it might...trigger..some people..

[@baxiaaa]

From Lord of the Rings I have a crush on Tauriel and Thorin 🔥🔥she’s straight and he’s gay though (the actors) too bad!!!

[@notdefining]

Omg AGREE! Gorgeous. Anyone from lord of the rings. Just anyone. Except Sméagol. lol.

[@baxiaaa]

Ahah FACTS!!!!

[@PokhrajRoy.]

3:44 WOOOOOOOO great guy to crush on. I loved him in ‘Speed’.

[@trueholayoga]

if i knew before watching this video that I am bi, now I AM CERTAIN I AM BI :D

[@notdefining]

I’m so glad you have been able to find this clarity

[@PokhrajRoy.]

Miley Cyrus? You mean GRAMMY WINNER MILEY CYRUS and Girl who normalised Drag on Disney along with Raven.

[@notdefining]

Omggggg yesss thank you for giving my future wife the respect she deserves.

[@Matty12333]

I am bisexual, yet I have only dated women

[@maatdeaishvarra380]

Don’t relate to 99% of your choices haha, entertaining vid tho, thanks for sharing 🎉

[@notdefining]

Hey that’s cool. No worries. That’s the beauty of it.

[@jasminef.6424]

Miley Cyrus is still 🔥😍🔥… Love her

[@notdefining]

I would marry her. I am in love with her.

[@_mels_hellscape_]

Based on your types, I think you would be extremely into me HAHA

[@notdefining]

Great. You sounds fab.

[@shannymesse4634]

So you've had a crush on The Pussycat Dolls too (I think that group is part of my sexual awakening)?! So I'm not the only one 😅😅 ! I can absolutely relate to your crushes on girlsbands and boysbands : The Sugababes (I had a massive crush on Heidi, she had a voice and a body 🥵🥵, even at 9 years old I knew I felt something when I heard her sing), Pussycat Dolls (The 'Buttons' song with Nicole Scherzinger dancing with that chair, I was 11 and for the first I understood what my male classmates meant when they were talking about how hot she was (and still is, by the way)) and Little Mix (Perrie Edwards can get it 🤤🤤). And the boysbands like Nsync (JC and his voice, I've always been mesmerized) and Backstreet Boys (AJ !!). For Buffy The Vampire Slayer, I have a massive crush on Faith (I'm sure she was bisexual, that slayer was so bi coded) and Spike. But I'm not going to lie sometimes Professor Giles made feel tingly a little bit at time, Xander too. Can we talk about Willow and Xander being vampires and being extremely hot?! I can't list my celebrity crushes because I have so So many ... Shakira (especially in 'Objection Tango', 'La tortura' and 'I can't remember to forget you' with Rihanna) for example. On The Lord Of The Rings, you liked Arwen, I liked her boyfriend Aragorn.

[@KenyadaRobinson-p8r]

🩷💜💙

[@notdefining]

Thanks for the love

[@KenyadaRobinson-p8r]

@@notdefining you're welcome

[@PokhrajRoy.]

I’m not an LOTR girlie but people who like it are kind of a green flag.

[@wareforcoin5780]

One of my deepest betrayals came from a LOTR girlie, so I'm of the opinion that it's a huge red flag.