Gay or in denial? Sexuality expert explains how to approach this question.

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[@PokhrajRoy.]

Comp-Het is Denial times 10,000. I felt rather lonely in school and the silence was damning. In retrospect, I wish I stood up for myself and didn’t take things at face value.

[@notdefining]

Yes comp het can cause denial absolutely. It can get very deep.

[@ingridaguilera8795]

Exactly, you are right about that the first thing that we have to do is forgive ourselves 👍😊

[@notdefining]

Yesss

[@cameronishere]

thank you so much for this video, mark! i'm beyond grateful that i came across your channel, as i'm going through a very much turbulent bi-cycle whilst in a long term relationship with my sapphic aligned enby partner (i'm bisexual and an afab enby transmasc). this isn't the first time i've had such a cycle, so this feeling is no stranger to me. it's just that i tend to repress my attraction to men in fear that i'll lose attraction to my partner seeing your content, though, has really brought a huge sense of relief. i still really love my partner, and perhaps i just so happen to be more attracted to men at the moment. thank you so much for being an inspiration to our community. i hope you know how much of a big help you are to us queer folk. 🥺💗

[@panthersworld5587]

Been questioning for almost four years until I found out I'm a person who has never been in love single never bothers me dating even in high school never cross my mind couldn't relate to having crushes, I have meet both hetero and other lgbtq+ people that love anything sexual but sex never appeals to me but I mostly like people as a person and nothing else.

[@notdefining]

Hey thank you so much for sharing

[@user-zy1qm4ef6s]

A new subscriber to your channel I watched a couple of vids from your channel I loved your vids ❤❤ your vids provide a lot of support to not only me but also to all the people on LGBT spectrum And the forgiveness is the most important thing needed I am glad my friends supported 14 year old me as bi but my family rejected it they pressurized me to be straight and mentioned being LGBT is not a part of our culture and it is wrong also is it true that being LGBT is against nature ?? I have been wondering it for so long But anyways thanks for the support in your vids

[@notdefining]

Hey thank you for being here. You are so welcome.

[@user-zy1qm4ef6s]

@@notdefining your welcome too and is being LGBT against nature ?? Because my family said that

[@pridan94]

​@@user-zy1qm4ef6s it's not against nature. Homosexuality is observed in 300 animal species. It's completely natural

[@JJ_TheGreat]

Hi notdefining, I feel what you say @ 9:43 is an excellent idea. However, I know by how I am feeling that once I do break my attractions down between the 2 genders, that there is going to be a disconnect between my sexual attractions/energies vs. my romantic attractions/energies. So, at that point, what is the next step going to be? Thanks.

[@mongoharry]

All great advice 🖤💥🤩

[@Matty12333]

Is Bromance gay?

[@notdefining]

A bromance is a very special bond of friendship where there is love and affection between men however it is platonic in nature.

[@Matty12333]

@@notdefining Is dry humping gay?

[@oooowwwwdddd]

Can't find you on Facebook. What is you Facebook name? Thanks

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