Gay or in denial? Sexuality expert explains how to approach this question.

Have you ever wondered if you might be gay and in denial? Have you ever wondered if you’re in denial on some level about your sexuality?
This video provides expert guidance on how to approach this question. If you are struggling with the question of “am I gay or in denial” then you are not alone.
Denial is a horrid state to be in and can be really confusing. Sexuality can be a very complex thing. But don’t worry. Help is out there for you.
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[@cameronishere]

thank you so much for this video, mark! i'm beyond grateful that i came across your channel, as i'm going through a very much turbulent bi-cycle whilst in a long term relationship with my sapphic aligned enby partner (i'm bisexual and an afab enby transmasc). this isn't the first time i've had such a cycle, so this feeling is no stranger to me. it's just that i tend to repress my attraction to men in fear that i'll lose attraction to my partner seeing your content, though, has really brought a huge sense of relief. i still really love my partner, and perhaps i just so happen to be more attracted to men at the moment. thank you so much for being an inspiration to our community. i hope you know how much of a big help you are to us queer folk. 🥺💗

[@PokhrajRoy.]

Comp-Het is Denial times 10,000. I felt rather lonely in school and the silence was damning. In retrospect, I wish I stood up for myself and didn’t take things at face value.

[@notdefining]

Yes comp het can cause denial absolutely. It can get very deep.

[@ingridaguilera8795]

Exactly, you are right about that the first thing that we have to do is forgive ourselves 👍😊

[@notdefining]

Yesss

[@panthersworld5587]

Been questioning for almost four years until I found out I'm a person who has never been in love single never bothers me dating even in high school never cross my mind couldn't relate to having crushes, I have meet both hetero and other lgbtq+ people that love anything sexual but sex never appeals to me but I mostly like people as a person and nothing else.

[@notdefining]

Hey thank you so much for sharing

[@mongoharry]

All great advice 🖤💥🤩

[@user-zy1qm4ef6s]

A new subscriber to your channel I watched a couple of vids from your channel I loved your vids ❤❤ your vids provide a lot of support to not only me but also to all the people on LGBT spectrum And the forgiveness is the most important thing needed I am glad my friends supported 14 year old me as bi but my family rejected it they pressurized me to be straight and mentioned being LGBT is not a part of our culture and it is wrong also is it true that being LGBT is against nature ?? I have been wondering it for so long But anyways thanks for the support in your vids

[@notdefining]

Hey thank you for being here. You are so welcome.

[@user-zy1qm4ef6s]

@@notdefining your welcome too and is being LGBT against nature ?? Because my family said that

[@pridan94]

​@@user-zy1qm4ef6s it's not against nature. Homosexuality is observed in 300 animal species. It's completely natural

[@oooowwwwdddd]

Can't find you on Facebook. What is you Facebook name? Thanks

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